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meditr/r/askTRP21/08/16 01:03 PM
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Women take on much more of the chores, childcare, emotional labor, etc than men do regardless of the womans income. While men can continue their careers more-or-less undisturbed. It's like men want the woman to do all that while agreeing to a 50/50 split of finances for the rest of her life, yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:15 PM
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Many women like sensitive guys though. Musicians. Famous musicians have a stampede of women heading for them at all times and are openly sensitive. It's not the only way to be, but if a man is this way he can make it work for him and doesn't have to rely on faking an entire personality. I just mean that if a man does reveal things about his past, this does not make him a sensitive guy, it doesn't put him into that category by default. Men should be allowed to talk about these things with their L…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:02 PM
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Well the girl is obviously a pretty shitty person. But it's not like there aren't men who would do the same. You can't take one example of one woman acting a particular way and then dump it on the entire gender. This also isn't a guy with a 'sensitive side' it's someone sharing something traumatic that happened to him. Guys who are not stereotypically sensitive can share these types of things without being pigeonholed as sensitive as their defining trait. Sensitive typically implies, like, I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:52 PM
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Agreed, there are definitely other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:08 PM
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I disagree with that, they think hookup culture and fwbs benefits men at the expense of women and is the root of many of womens problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:40 PM
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Yeah, well it should be a norm to insist on splitting when you know it isn't going anywhere. It also shouldn't be an expensive place because otherwise the girl might not be able to get half. I've split the bill a few times when it was going nowhere. With the dinner dates where the guys payed and got nothing, in my case there was one time where I tried to insist to split it but the guy wouldn't hear of it, another time where it was a coffee date it's like $4 and I wouldn't feel bad then, you also…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:28 PM
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I mean if I see two people out and they are more or less equal in SMV it's not eyebrow raising at all imo. In fact you should be happy for them if you're a good friend. If there's an ugly dude with a pretty girl, or an ugly woman with a handsome guy, then yeah it is a bit confusing. But it's not like it'll cause the earth to move. There are a ton of other things men and women do that can attract value mates other than date someone hotter than them. On the other hand I feel like you can't put you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:15 PM
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Every guy I've ever dated (until my current BF) has not been able to cook anything for himself other than a sad looking pasta dish with hastily cut up hot dog meat and pre-packaged spaghetti sauce thrown in. And eggs. And bacon. That's it. It's always the same. And got much more out of paying for that first dinner date in the long run via my cooking. I still cook more because I enjoy it, but my BF pays whenever we go out as a gesture of appreciation, which is nice and we both prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:47 PM
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If a beta uprising were an actual concern, FDS would actually help appease it. FDS is against casual sex, hookup culture, and sex outside of a committed relationship. All things that would help men considered beta on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:39 PM
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I think I observe this mentality when it comes to incels, a lot of them are very preoccupied with how people see them. So to them, being seen with a Stacy will solve all their problems because they will be given status, while being seen with an ugly woman will make them worse because they will somehow be judged for it. Which is false. They tend to think people judge them for their height, anxiety, style, anything really. This is apparent when they call themselves subhuman. I used to have anxiety…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:26 PM
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I disagree with men trying to equate paying a prostitute for sex with women having casual sex. First off, paying a prostitute for sex sounds like a subset of having casual sex. If you are doing this in the first place, you are in no place to judge women who have had casual sex prior. If you had casual sex prior, you can definitely judge someone who payed for sex though. The reason is that sex work is highly stigmatized, it's an industry that runs on exploitation, drug addiction, trafficking, chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:29 PM
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Hmmmmm. This is very interesting. Personally, if a guy would outright tell me he isn't looking for anything long term, it would seem he is implying wanting to plate me. Most advice for women says to have an iron-clad will when it comes to avoiding giving into your desires because it puts you into the 'hookup' box, and this does work in avoiding players. So I would say it's bad strategy for women. Would you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:07 AM
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I kinda disagree with this. Women have put a ton of time learning how to look presentable since their early teenage years. Even at fourteen, sleepovers were about learning to put on nail polish and skincare. Outings with friends were about shopping to buy clothes that bring out our best features. This is a big part of why women are so ahead of men, who sometimes just play video games until they're 18. I'm generalizing here, but I mean in terms of stereotypical behavior it's rare for guys to go t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:41 AM
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It's just supply and demand. There is a HUGE supply of men willing to have casual sex for the tiny demand for it from women for reasons that OP mentioned, so naturally they pick the best option for themselves. If all women were having casual sex, it would be more evenly distributed and a female 6 hooking up with a male 10 would not happen. It's like when guys pay for sugar babies, there is a HUGE supply of women willing to be financially supported by benevolent men, so in exchange these men can …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:02 AM
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You know sometimes I think guys who say a womans job/education does not affect her RMV are low SMV/RMV and know they are 'priced out' of women with certain careers. People in a similar social class date and marry each other. I have guy friends in my friend group that are pretty high SMV and each of them had flings with a bartender/cashier/whatever, but one of them is engaged to a homely looking lawyer, another, an engineer, found an attractive engineer (she is really pretty though) to settle dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:21 PM
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I mean there is a lot less stress on the man to be the primary breadwinner. But marriages are the best environment to raise children in, that's a large part of what is beneficial about it. You want to model a healthy relationship for your kids to aspire for the same. Divorce and such does have an effect on children, but it's inevitable sometimes. There is also a much greater incentive to pour your time and resources if your union is a marriage. I know I'm focusing more on myself in my relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:12 PM
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Thank you :D!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:06 PM
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I would not say those people were manipulated into those things unless there was gaslighting or a dramatic ultimatum or something. A celebrity can manipulate adoring fans into doing something they otherwise wouldn't, but anyone can be manipulative. Anyone can gaslight, make excuses for bad behaviour, lie, misrepresent, and anyone can have borderline and threaten suicide, that's manipulation. I once dated someone with borderline and it was really confusing because it wasn't outright direct manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:05 PM
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Your parents want grandkids. I'm sure you'll want grandkids when/if you're a parent and your children are fully grown. My parents also have a happy marriage, they take care of each other when they are sick, hang out with each other every day, accompany one another to those dreadful family events that would be torture to go to alone, have a constant companion for everything, and complement each other in life. Parents typically see their kids alone until old age as miserable, sadly sitting alone u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:28 PM
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This is a RP caricature of a woman though. What woman with any backbone, or any friends or family members who look out for her would be a forever-plate? Even on RP plates are known to have a shelf life of 1-3 months because they realize what is going on and get out. There are plenty of attractive relationship-minded men, like if you're expecting 6'9 with Tom Brady looks and money then you're SOL but women can generally have someone with some semblance of desirability. Both men and women were pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:05 PM
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Having travelled is a class marker though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:49 PM
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Working for a corporation is also the best way to get a high SMV husband if you're not a 9/10 or 10/10 woman. You meet a guy there and due to your job titles being similar, you're clearly not a golddigger, provide equal value, and you're respected for this. Want to marry an investment banker? Become an investment banker. Want to marry a lawyer? Become a lawyer. You will run in the same circles as they do and your chance of getting hitched to one goes up dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:13 AM
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You know most of my relationships were with men who wanted a relationship and were never into hookup culture in the first place, though still partook in it to see what's out there, but preferred relationships. It wasn't like I had to do some black-belt arm twisting. In fact both my last relationships, prior to me, the guys couldn't get their FWBs or situationships to commit and that was why they ended. I think this theory of women coming in from the least-effort resource extraction strategy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:29 PM
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Like another comment said, it's slightly weird that he's acting like he is above following scantily clad women and then is clearly doing that. I would take note of that because he could just be telling you what you want to hear while thinking something completely different. Did you imply not liking that before he said he didn't? It's just a brain melt because he also seems to only be an anti-feminist when it's convenient for him? There are anti-feminist men who are truly traditional and can be f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 01:24 PM
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Haha I guess, but according to FDS that is just a woman lying to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:16 PM
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I think FDS does offer some common sense advice about this. Ie don't get all attention-seeking and desperate when some dude isn't giving you attention. Pickmeishas are the sad creatures that trip over themselves to essentially be #1 plate. Men don't respect pickmeishas. It could be due to a SMV mismatch, it could also be due to a personality flaw. In my friend group I've seen guys be repulsed by women objectively more attractive and "accomplished"/interesting than them because they were desperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:59 AM
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I met my BF through tinder, that being said the biggest problem I've encountered with online dating is that if you go through friend circles, a certain filtering will have taken place (if someone is crazy or has some sort of glaring flaw he would likely be shunned from that friend circle), and I've briefly dated a two guys who seemed normal but ended up being crazy (they were well written, but had slight anger problems it wasn't a huge hassle or anything just a bit unexpected), and surprise surp…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 06:27 AM
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Yup. Porn is also created by men, for men, and in turn sets impossible and unhealthy standards for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:17 PM
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Because for most couples to maintain a decent standard of living these days, both man and woman have to work at least 40 hours a week. It's also a difficult tradeoff, if a woman can make say at least 40k a year, to justify having her stay home full-time unless there are 3 children at home or something. This woman can't be a homemaker as well as a full-time employee. It's just not possible, so the tasks are split. Typically if there is a big joint income hiring help is the best option, doing chor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:48 PM
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Well being repeatedly rejected in your 20s must be pretty traumatizing so I'm really sorry you went through that, that really sucks. That being said, you're under no obligation to date any of the women who rejected you before (or any women you don't want to date, really).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:03 PM
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Most women don't care if you want to date younger. It's that whenever I read about it on here and subs like this, it's written with this dripping resentment-laden revenge fantasy language. Your post is fine though, it doesn't have that. Women also remember what it's like to be younger and we all have at least one friend that was preyed on by an older man that took advantage of her inexperience, and lack of boundaries resulting from inexperience. Whenever there is a big 'power gap' things can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:22 PM
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This is a human thing moreso than a female one . Men typically orbit women way above their league before they learn as well. I have male friends who dated models and can't really get interest from those types of women anymore, but they won't shut up about that particular ex. It's been 5 years and they're still upset they got dumped. That being said people do move on, they pick to be happy over pining for no reason. What's more worthwhile, an idea, or someone who is actually reciprocating your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:33 PM
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Well as a general rule, if I don't like the man enough to go on a second date with him, I'll be much more insistent on splitting the cost. I would prefer to split it actually. This is also a social norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:37 PM
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I just think men that stingy have a hidden bitterness that women do not have to put up with. Besides, having the man be the sole provider works for many couples, it did for my parents, the reason my dad was successful in his field is because my mother did all the child raising, errand-running, household management, party hosting, help with work-related tasks too small to hire someone new, etc etc. He could just focus on career advancement and literally nothing else. It worked for them. A more eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:30 PM
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It's not the only filter. This is exactly why women have to be selective though. Some guy will use a business metaphor for gloating about hitting in and quitting it if you aren't. I mean it's also deceptive to consciously try to lead someone on when they are giving off signals that they are looking for something longer-lasting but whatever. FDS women are looking for fulfilling, exclusive relationships and see no benefit to having a FWB arrangement with a man. This seems to be the polar opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:57 PM
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It's true that you are under no obligation to pay for the first date. It's become a mainstream opinion even. I would just feel disappointed if a man wanted me to go dutch with him on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:27 PM
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Well that's a legitimate view to hold. I just also think that over time, women sometimes ruin their bodies to give birth to the mans kids, allow their careers to take a backseat so that childcare can become their primary focus, sacrifice a lot of time and energy into their children, etc. Allowing the man to continue his undisturbed, the very least he can do is pay for the freaking first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:24 AM
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I agree, but it's instilled in us to show up, look pretty, have our shit together, and wait to be picked by a HVM. Rather than pounce on them. Because it's seen as a better strategy. If that's wrong, a lot of intuition about dating flies out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:55 AM
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The convention is that women should offer but men should pay on the first date. Of course it doesn't really matter, it shouldn't be a roadblock, but I would still feel disappointed if somebody insisted I split with them. It's not about power, it's about intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:52 AM
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I just still think if a man cba to pay a $20 dinner bill for the first time he meets you at the very least, it just indicates low effort. Getting ready to go out on a dinner date takes a lot of effort for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:49 AM
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Is that really so bad? I find it a bit pathetic I have to keep reminding him what to check on from his own grocery trip because i just know it's rotting right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:46 AM
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Are you going to deny that men are pursuers? I don't mean this in a men work women kitchen kind of way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:44 AM
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It's also more natural because men are wired to be pursuers while women are wired to be pursued. This doesn't mean to be a doormat or to play hard-to-get until someone loses interest, but you cannot ignore that element entirely imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:37 AM
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Women will cover it sooner or later, via cooking or nurturing, but probably cooking. Even if it is an equal relationship. Men know women do things like empty their fridge of rotting food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:30 AM
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I legitimately don't understand. Do you want a tradcon relationship with a tradcon man or not? Otherwise I don't see any reason for why you would you want the man to pay for you, other than to golddig. That was a response to you calling women goldiggers. I still think that at least during the first date the woman should offer to pay, and the man should pay. Would you hesitate if you liked the woman? We're not talking about paying for the entirety of the relationship despite splitting all other t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:08 AM
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Well I'm happy you found someone to build a life with! Of course there are all sort of cases where people acted outside of what is ""recommended"" and found love and happiness. I'm sure somewhere a woman will say that she slept with a guy on their first date and they ended up getting married and having kids despite plating existing out in the world, there's more to the equation than the guy paying for the first date. I just mean in general, it's probable the guy doesn't want to pay for the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:02 AM
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That's why men immediately see women that expect this as golddiggers, unless it's an expected tradcon relationship. Well it depends on the relationship. If you have a tradcon relationship then the arrangement is you are the main provider while your girlfriend/wife takes care of you, if it's 50/50 the relationship will eventually transition into splitting costs. If you're a 90 year old billionaire marrying a hot 26 year old, then yeah probably a golddigger and I would be watchful of my will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:28 PM
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It's not the only filter, but if a guy can't be bothered to pay for the first date it's a bad sign. The woman should offer to pay, but the guy should pay. You don't have to go to a 3 star Michelin celebrity chef hideout, but it's a stark contrast between taking a girl to a normal restaurant and paying, and suggesting maybe getting drinks at a dive bar near your place and sticking her with half the bill. It sets a tone in my opinion. Men on TRP suggest this exact strategy to set the tone to somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:21 PM
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I agree with that, I just think it helps for a woman to have achieved some level of career success if she wants a man of equal or greater career success. Even if she wants to be family-oriented later on as an ultimate life goal. I think our parents generation had a different set of rules. If she doesn't care about greater or equal success, and want some sort of SAHD arrangement with the guy, or for the guy to take on more childcare responsibilities, then she has no place to demand for someone mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:03 PM
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I don't think men care as much about equality, but every high value man I know who is married, is married to a woman who isn't just a cashier at a grocery store. These people typically meet at work having equal or close to equal status, and then the woman takes a few years off caring for his children while he resumes work, then resumes working. What's the best way to marry an investment banker or a doctor? Become an investment banker or a doctor. Or an uber hot successful model but this option i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:43 PM
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Depends on how you define winning. Women who don’t go down the career path have more time to try for the right relationship. You see articles all over the internet of career woman unable to start the family they wanted because they spent their time chasing financial success. Nothing wrong with that but decisions have consequences. Success takes time and by the time they achieve it, men around her age are perusing younger versions of her to fulfill their biological and evolutionary imperative. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:03 PM
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I think if men are playing the field, they are less likely to spend money on you because nobody is trying to spend $500/week on dates. However if they pay it's a testament to their devotion. At the very, very least for the first date. Or during the courting phase. Men on TRP are not looking for girlfriends or wives, they're looking for something casual, so it's pragmatic to create these types of filters to allow these guys to excuse themselves. It also shows that they aren't embittered about wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:01 PM
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I disagree. Most attractive men get into relationships. Maybe they have an 18-22 phase of playing the field, but they generally get bored afterwards and have girlfriends. With women who are as high value as them. If a women is overshooting and complaining that men don't want to commit, it's just that she is not aware of who she should go for. This would be like low value men complaining that Stacy flakes. There is without a doubt a bunch of dudes willing to LTR her. There are eternal bachelors b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:10 PM
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Most of these women aren't doing this because they want to, it's because they have no other choice. I find a man who takes advantage of a vulnerable woman to be repulsive. Sure, you can argue that nobody held a gun to her head, but she likely isn't there voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:29 PM
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I would say it is. Offering resources and time to someone without getting anything in return. Anyway this exact thing happened to me, in high school all the guys were interested in the 2 hottest girls. Now in their 20's they realize that is not accessible to them and hit me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:12 PM
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But why do you feel the need to be spiteful? Is sex really worth being the eye of Sauron for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:15 AM
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I think this is akin to saying to you that you spent your entire youth orbiting women much more attractive than you in value, and now that you realize you can't do better than a particular woman, so you settled. I also disagree with the statement that women in general want casual sex, I think many women are not opposed to sex happening but want something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:09 AM
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Well the biology of men and women is different, nobody is debating that. Women and men still have behaviour remnant from the era where getting pregnant meant 9 months of pregnancy and a lifetime of child raising commitment for the women, and nothing for the man. Women still put up with slut shaming, etc. The women who sleep with everyone is a rare phenomenon, at least where I am, most women have to vet the the men for intentions, and that's no easy task. We all know women with a really sketchy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:07 PM
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Hey thanks for your reply So they are alive while their men are dead. Yeah, but I would call what they are being put through torture. Some men are kept to work as slaves as well and that is torture too, many women are surely killed in this transition as well. Many women would prefer to die than to be put through that shit. By men. Yes, the horror of having to do chores to subsist. I'm sure they were constantly fretting about how much work they did, and not about how they would be ruined if their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:39 AM
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This of course is not forgetting the brave and virtuous sacrifice of men, things were horrid for everybody in those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:27 AM
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I will agree because typically the woman makes it abundantly clear that SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN THEM ROMANTICALLY yet instead of fucking off and finding a woman who is, or becoming just friends, they become angry at the revelation, angry whenever the woman has a new boyfriend that isn't him, angry that despite the fact he is giving his time and effort to her, she is not reciprocating, yet she likely told him plainly that she is not interested. Women do not like to crush someones feelings so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:14 PM
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I think the main job of the courts is to mediate between two people who might have pissed each other off until the end of days. Family courts have been scientifically proven to be biased against men. Period. I don't even wanna lose time linking you articles, you can search for them on your own. I will agree that some reform has to take place at a time where genders are more-or-less equal. For instance if two people work equally, separate chores, and have no children, it makes no sense for the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:14 PM
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But the divorce courts are not there specifically to screw the men over. They mediate. Because from what I see many men would be happy to throw the mother of their children out on the street due to a divorce, which is ridiculous. A woman providing cooking, cleaning, and childcare is providing you with free labour. That's what the divorce courts mediate with. On the premise that a marriage implies an equal partnership. The woman is providing a man with labor to be able to have a family and a job …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:14 PM
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>The fact remains that societies which grant rights to women suffer a massive population penalty. This is true but those countries import skilled immigrants to keep their population steady. People who will contribute to the economy. My own parents are immigrants and they have payed back much more than the US invested in them. Is women having less children really a bad thing? There is this city in India called Kerala, in Kerala women were constantly getting pregnant and it caused a never-ending p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:06 PM
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I think that the red pill can more or less be summed up by these two sentences: 1. Do not be a doormat 2. Take care of yourself Besides that there is some spiteful story making (in my opinion). People fuck each other over in the world. It's not just from females towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:51 PM
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100% of societies which have granted rights to women have shrunk and are only able to maintain population levels by importing people from places where women don't have rights. That's because if families are poor, the will churn out as many children as possible since those children act as security in old age. Even if 1/5 is a loser, there are sill 4 to depend on. In wealthier countries, having children is expensive: daycare costs, schooling, education, etc. A kid costs 100 000 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:34 PM
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You can say it's like a man saying "I read TRP" That's not a tiger changing his stripes That's a tiger changing its strategy You're still a beta at heart, you're just shutting down your natural beta instincts to get laid. It's pure gameplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:10 PM
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Men also dump their wives for younger women though. Many times, many times before some ex-boyfriends were about to LTR a women who was objectively less attractive than me, they threw a hail-mary to see if I would date them instead. Is there no story that has ever existed of men cheating? Of course there is. My friends dad dumped the mother of their children for a fat younger woman. Hypergamy exists everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:43 PM
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Men don't love women unconditionally either. Everyone has an arsenal of stories where the woman was a bitch, the guy was a bitch, the woman got jilted, the guy got jilted. Humans do it to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:40 PM
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Honestly I spent a lot of time thinking that's the reality, but in the real world women who never heard about reddit are open about it and still get hot boyfriends. Guys with lots of sex partners typically want women with lots of sex partners (from what I have seen and some conversations I had). Or see women as more than a monitor with a number constantly displayed on it. However if you feel like you are losing then date somebody else, no one is holding a gun to your head. It's pretty screwed up…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:38 PM
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FemaleDatingStrategy is just the opposite gender equivalent of TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:28 PM
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Society is good to you. Do you realize low SMV men would be cannon fodder and that kings/rich men/whatever had harems and/or mistresses as a socially acceptable alternative? Families didn't marry their daughters to low SMV men unless they had literally no other choice. I feel like everyone gets their heartbroken and that stereotypes are mildly exaggerated. Life isn't terrible for women after their 30s given they don't just sit there and look pretty. Just as life isn't terrible for men before 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:52 AM
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I mean. There is social grace as well. If there is a really good looking guy I won't stare at him uncomfortably. If he catches me looking at him once I'll try to make an effort to look at anything but him so that it's not freaking awkward. It's really rude to just glare at someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:46 AM
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But to further answer your question, wanting to impose shariah law and control us is scary. A group of angry men is threatening. The fundamentalists are worse I will give you that but it's horrible either way. A group of young small angry women isn't threatening. It's as if a group of people was plotting and saying violent horrible things on some subreddit about your particular demographic. Which is what it feels like incels do to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:02 PM
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In Western societies, women are giving birth to children later. In New York City the average age is late thirties. The women that do this have a career, meaning they pay into the taxes as well. And this has grown. Also about sexual advantage, men were first allowed to be a 'player' while women were not. If every man would stick to one woman, there would be no issue, as well as if every woman stuck to one man, it's a 2 gender problem. I don't think it's fare to solely blame women for it, when men…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:49 PM
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Oh, my mistake about the muslim/islamist confusion. Everyone hates muslim fundamentalists except for the muslim fundamentalists themselves. Even Iran, that is presided by the religious leader who is against gender equality, has to deal with protests by shutting down the internet and killing people. Because they don't want to live under his rule. So even muslims hate fundamentalists. I think both incels and fundamentalists suck. *Incels who think taking away the rights of women to vote will help …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:33 PM
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Not all islamists think that. Those who do are ostracized. Where do you think women go 'teehee he's masculine and dominant, I don't care that he wants me to lose my right to vote.' I don't know, should we forgive robbers because they are less bad than murderers? No. I have female friends who are muslim. They still vote. They enjoy their life. One of them is an engineer married to another muslim. That's like saying all Christians are 1 second away from bringing back the inquisition. Trust me if e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:29 PM
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Ted Bundy was not "popular". Trying to say women are like the mentally ill women that would have ended up chopped up by Ted Bundy is misguided. To be hated as an incel you have to be creepy. It's true that attractive men have more leeway with this but I have seen plenty of short, ugly, and bald guy married. Normal people have no reason to hate you unless you creep them out I guess. And the incel subreddit calling for making women cattle, shariah law, not allowing them go to school etc is extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:18 PM
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There are also plenty of young women who are too trusting of men. People too trusting of scammers. As if it has not happened ever that men in relationships never talk shit about their girlfriends, cheat, chase Stacy despite being committed. Or anybody of any gender, orientation, etc, scamming/lying/cheating. People just need boundaries. Ie leave if a girl is playing mind games or a guy is a fuckboy. Problem solved. Most people aren't cheating with 'fuckboys'. This is really detrimental to think.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 09:04 PM
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Hmm women are likely to date men for being high up on the ladder than men doing so for women in, attractiveness is less of a factor in men imo. There are plenty of examples of this. Examples of successful women who are ugly having their pick of the crop is far more rare i think. It's certainly better than being ugly and broke but men still have more leeway with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:57 PM
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In increasing number of men will want to date a woman if she isn't incredibly attractive too though. If she's older. Taller than them sometimes (not always ofc). Everyone deals with limiting factors imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:34 PM
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-Most of prostitution is 'survival prostitution', you have to separate that from the prostitutes that genuinely want to work there if ever we go the legalizing route. - The second problem is that a lot of angry men in the manosphere are teenagers/early 20s, not all but many and they should be given psych services or something to understand the world better and to deal with their emotions, all teenagers not just frustrated male ones obviously. As a matter of fact give everyone psych services. Dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:14 AM
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Lord Farquaad was an asshole though. And Fiona was also an ogre like Shrek so it makes sense that they end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:37 AM
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Well she's just a non-representative idiot. Drug dealers and their clients typically fund drug cartels for crying out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:35 AM
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Yeah I mean women usually do not cc with all the men in a city because it's dangerous. One of them is bound to be a creep or something. I have yet to hear of a woman who rides the cc, I mean I have heard of a woman hooking up with someone as a one-off and it not working out but outright sleeping with a carousel of men? Maybe one and she had daddy issues and was not happy. It wasn't a "WHEEEE" type of situation. It was just a sad girl who needed to feel validated. I saw on here once that it's a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:34 AM
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My bf 5'4 and i lub him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:28 AM
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Well people do not pursue each other as much IRL anymore outside of situations like bars and such. Because it's less awkward to just go online and swipe. Much less complicated than risking creeping out the person you go to school/work with. That aside, if anyone, of any age, of any gender, of any orientation would write something like this I would urge them to take a look at themselves. Nobody is 'entitled' to a flock or admirers, but there is always room for self-improvement and 'ascension'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:27 AM
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Well first-off, you need boundaries to not be a doormat. I think some people don't develop those due to upbringing or something. It's as if a girl decides Brad Pitt is my her future husband. She writes Brad Pitt letters, puts in 30 hours of effort a week. He doesn't return her love, she get angry because she was so nice. Or if a girl decides to sleep with 50 men because she likes making people happy or something and now everyone calls her a slut, she gets angry because she was so nice. In both t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:22 AM
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I think you are thinking of like 9/10 and 10/10 women. You have to be unbelievably attractive to just stand there and have a man willing to take care of your entire life while you bring nothing than looks to the table. I don't know of a woman that doesn't work unless she is in school, about to give birth, or on her maternity leave, or raising a young child. A large portion of abusive relationships, the women can't leave because of lack of money. An overwhelming amount. Not to mention women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:15 AM
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Obviously it's easier for taller men but blaming everything on your height is a way to wash your hands of personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:05 AM
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Absolutely not. He wants you as a safety net while he dates other women. My_chopin_liszt is right. Do you think he would risk saying this if he was afraid of losing you? If you want to be petty agree and dump him the next day saying you met someone you like better. Of course if he was someone who said he was polyamorous since day 1 this would be different, but to sneak this onto you and say it's because he is bored of your sex life is a red flag, it almost seems like he's negging you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 08:37 PM
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The guys who put 30 as their age but in the description say 'i'm actually 45 I can't change it' is really crummy. You don't want the kind of men who would filter you out anyway, for anything long-lasting you should be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 08:29 PM
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The book 'men love bitches' isn't about being a nagging intolerable woman, it's more about not being a doormat, and it's truly a great read. It talks about the nature of men (pursuers essentially) and things women do wrong. It talks about being put in the 'relationship' bucket rather than the 'just sex' bucket. It's one of the best books i've read, don't be discouraged by the clickbait title lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 10:22 PM
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I think that there are a lot of men who lack the social intelligence to realize "hey, if I'm a fat neckbeard who sits on my ass playing world of warcraft all day long and do nice gestures for the nearest 9/10s while getting nothing in return, clearly something isn't working." So they need a narrative. It's also a 'safe male space'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 02:20 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 07:20 PM
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TRP is self-improvement within a safe male space. That is all. The crude language is a barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 12:01 AM
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It makes sense for men to dislike this. Women have higher standards now than ever, they no longer need to depend on marriage for food and shelter so the bottom % of men have slim pickings compared to what it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 11:59 PM
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I mean, yeah. TRP is a sub that adds a narrative onto why you need to act in ways that otherwise exude confidence (not the parts about being a jerk, the parts about lifting, having hobbies, and not making another person a part of your life) because these people seem not to get it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 11:54 PM
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A lot of people on TRP just come off as maladapted. It shouldn't be a source of anger and dismay that bulking up, being successful, and having your own hobbies as opposed to being a grovelling man with nothing going for him is more attractive. It just looks like people who need to adhere to the TRP philosophy to understand this could not see it otherwise, and need to adhere to this narrative. It just comes off as low social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 03:33 PM
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IMO this is a case of those women not having enough hobbies. You can't manufacture desire if you truly hate your husband but to spend your days obsessively and miserably daydreaming about yesteryear is a sign you have too much free time. It takes time to get over a bad breakup but it shouldn't span an entire fucking lifetime. That's just being a maladapted human being. Aside from that, I think that this conflicts with the male fantasy of 'being the only man in a womans life to sexually rock her …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 05:09 PM
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I think that in large part, the red pill is a "safe space" for male emotions. The ascorbic language is meant to drive people who will interfere with this away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:18 PM
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I think that this stems from power and control. Traditionally, men were the sole breadwinners. Women were dependent on them, so if they felt insecure about it in any way, 'crazy' occurred. They were desperate for them not to find another mate, to love them, and to keep up the base minimum of actions to support them. Women had little other leverage, I think this mentality is the remnant of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:05 PM
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I haven't been in one for a while but the reasons I've enjoyed a LTR over plates in the past is that with plates you have to start from scratch every time, you don't necessarily form a solid connection. With a LTR you both know each others bodies/kinks well and you don't have to have the same starter conversations over and over. It's more about the type of girl you LTR. If you LTR a soul sucking, high maintenance drama queen, there is no reason to keep her. I've always wanted to have kids, so wh…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:14 PM
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