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Eh but as women can be born into good genetics that make being and staying pretty easy, a man can be born into a financially well off family that can make it easier to be a provider, such as having a lot of familial wealth he has access to or going into an industry that nepotism got him into. There are a lot of women in this world who don’t have to work really hard to stay beautiful but I’d argue at the same time there are some men who don’t actually have to work that hard to be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:17 PM
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I was 17 when I lost it(not late) but I really wish I had not. There’s no negative aspects health wise to staying a virgin, and you can hold onto your mental sanity of not feeling shameful for having so much regretful sex. The only downfall I guess is the social stigma but honestly societal standards come and go. All of the casual sex I’ve had I regret. You aren’t missing anything. Save it for someone special/marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 06:19 PM
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Comment is 100% right. You gotta leave, he’ll just keep you locked in and waste your time til he finds another girl or just perpetually keep you stringed along.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 06:07 PM
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You’re still young and have time but I definitely feel for you, the dating pool seems to just be getting worse and worse as time moves on. I’d say that for all age groups honestly. I used a lot of dating apps from ages 21-23 (I’m 28 now and finally engaged) and couldn’t tell you how many dudes are just not relationship material or don’t want anything serious.It’s the culture we live in now. One thing I’d advise you and wish I had known when I was younger: Finding a partner is sortof like finding…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/22 06:02 PM
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I used to be a feminist but have since retracted. Modern feminism not only demonizes men, it fails to actually address real issues women face. It seems to just want women to become men. Or to evermore victimize or place women on a pedestal. I’d also rethink loving Simone de Beauvoir, she promoted pedophilia(signed a doctrine to eliminate the age of consent). The foundation of her philosophy demonizes men. She’s not really an egalitarian.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 05:30 PM
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Are 80% of women in the US overweight? That statistic made me laugh. I don’t think it’s true but funny none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:19 PM
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I think weight lifting, as long as you aren’t going super hard on it is actually very beneficial for your fitness which is very important to men. There’s a really good Instagram account called “flex your feminine” and she’s all about strength training tips along with promoting femininity. It’s also beneficial to maybe do certain workouts around your ovulation and menstrual cycles.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 07:03 PM
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I’m from a low-income family, and I’ve dated men of various income levels and have had friends of various income levels and one thing I’ve always noticed is that people from wealthier backgrounds tend to be the most obsessed with money, and the budget is actually a lot more strict and spending has more emotional value. To him splitting money for a gift was likely not even about the money, but a chance for you to connect with important people in his life. People who aren’t from wealth don’t view …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 05:19 PM
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Masculine 87, Feminine 125. I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:31 AM
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I love Valentine’s Day too lol my boyfriend is a truck driver, he’s trying to get V day off but we aren’t sure, so he may not be home for Valentine’s Day so we’ll probably have a zoom date…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:33 PM
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Honestly if there are no kids involved, I’d consider it a deal breaker. If my partner isn’t actively trying to work on improving it. I have a high libido and compatible sex(doesn’t have to be perfect, just some effort being put in) is crucial for me to have a secure pair bond. If kids are involved I’d just wait til they were 18 and then amicably separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:11 PM
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I’m Catholic and I don’t believe in the validity of temporary romantic relationships, but I recognize that’s not everyone’s case so I understand that. I don’t agree with inter racial being a factor whether a relationship lasts but the religious one I can see, I’d say though that both Muslim and Catholic faiths are similar in that they too both do not support fornication or extended dating periods for people. This is just my gut reaction, not saying it’s the right or wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:24 PM
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I agree with that, but I just think the 45 and 20 year old are both taking a bigger gamble. I don’t know if the relationship could rely on being long lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:10 PM
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I’m a woman and I’d honestly say the 45 and 20 year old. I know that the 16 year old is a minor, but most 20 year olds are still developing the part of their decision making part of brains, and probably hold very little advantage over the 16 year old in terms of where they are in life, they can’t even legally buy alcohol. I’d honestly put more blame on the parents of the 16 year old than anything in that situation. With the 45 and 20 year old, the 45 year old has a way bigger advantage, likely s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:03 PM
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I agree. Most people are still developing into their early 20s, plus the 45 year old will likely have a much bigger advantage than the 20 year old in terms of income, life experience etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:53 PM
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No, I don’t think it’s only for couples who want kids. I think there’s less pressure for marriage for couples who don’t want kids but I think there are legal perks, such as your partner getting in an accident and you being able to make legal decisions for them, or putting them on your works health insurance etc. I also think if a couple doesn’t want kids or marry I don’t think that’s a big deal. What I’m mostly against is people having children before commitment, I know more women that will have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:48 PM
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I agree with you with men gaining nothing from marriage contracts, and I’d even further say from fatherhood in general. The marriage laws were written at a time where men were the primary providers for their family and them leaving would leave them in desperation. Courts today overwhelmingly are biased towards women and often to the detriment of the children, why would a man gamble having a child with a woman who could use them as a money leverage system for 18 years? I agree with those points. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:25 PM
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I’m no longer on the dating scene but I have many friends who are and I remember my main hang ups.. when it comes to women, I think we put way too much on ourselves and we prioritize our independence over any and everything. For men, I’ve noticed if a man doesn’t feel needed or doesn’t have a clear objective with a woman, then he won’t feel a need to commit. I think as time goes on the definition of a relationship will be evermore divided, which I don’t think is necessarily bad. That’s probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:33 PM
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I think that the advice will resonate with some and not others. You can’t convince those who don’t want to be convinced. We live in a modern world of choice. I’m personally traditional when it comes to dating and interactions with men, so I tend to follow a lot of red pill advice, particularly given from other women. My personal goals have always been to be a mom and wife, and the women’s red pill community is the first community not to shame me for that. I don’t however believe its advice that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:30 PM
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I’m pretty open and honest about everything, sometimes to a fault. I was very liberal and an obnoxious feminist when we first got together and I thought it was appropriate to tell him my n count and prior sexcapades, which I regret doing. He doesn’t bring it up or anything but I can tell it made him uncomfortable and I wouldn’t advise other women to disclose that to their SO’s. We both have become RP’d and traditional since then(we’ve been together for four years). I’d say to other women that an…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 06:04 PM
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I think a lot of what you’re saying really boils down to communication(lack there of). In the throws of passion, suddenly having a a surprise anal experience is not fun(for my experience Atleast). It actually ruins the in the moment feeling cause anal is painful. If it was talked about and agreed upon before with preparation, I think more women would be into it but it’s the nasty vagina to surprise anal situation that some guys do that is clearly an act from porn which therefore leads to bleedin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:25 PM
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Met my current fiancé on tinder. I was the only tinder date for him while he was maybe my 9/10th(lol). Women definitely have the advantage of more choices of men when it comes to dating apps. Tinder gets a bad rap and you will have a flood of dudes who just want to hookup but I feel like it’s the most straight forward. I feel like tinder is better than others like bumble just because I feel like dudes who are on bumble would probably also be on tinder, but maybe not vice versa. I haven’t used a …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 08:28 PM
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I just wanted to say that your comment is sooooo accurate. I’ve been in situations with 2,3 and 4. I would confuse 2 and 3 often, but how you describe the difference is exactly how to differentiate the two. If you want to save yourself for marriage then I think 4 could work but when an ex of mine wanted to date before sex, the incompatibility with sex ended our relationship. My current relationship was a 3 situation, I was a plate but I played my cards right and got the commitment. I was the lea…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 08:24 PM
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I’m 27 and feel very similar to you. I was very liberal and “free thinking” in my early 20’s, but realized that many of the ideals I held didn’t actually benefit me. I became more conservative from the errors I made from being too liberal. I think many women actually have conservative values but are too afraid to speak up in our western society.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 07:56 PM
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Movies are written in boardrooms now, it’s less about creative direction as it is appeasing the woke mobs. You manufacture quality with sharpening ideas instead of watering them down, which is obviously what has happened to movies now a days.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 10:06 PM
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If it scares him off he’s only in it for casual sex. Guys who are really into you won’t force that on you until they’re willing to commit.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 02:35 AM
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I am so sorry about the abuse you’ve been through. I cannot relate to that, but I can sortof to the second part of your story about finding yourself. I went thru a tinder phase in my early 20s that I heavily regret. I was an ultra mega “feminist” brainwashed into thinking frivolous sex was empowering and would heal my trauma and have racked up a body count. I told my currently partner about this and he sometimes tells me about his insecurities regarding that aswell, which I totally understand fr…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 02:32 AM
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I think you’re on the right track. Focus on what you love and put energy into creating a personality rather than just looks. Honestly confidence is key, when I was in my earlier 20s I had 0 confidence, regardless of my young looks, and didn’t earn as much attention as I did when I aged and learned how to carry myself in a more attractive manner(if that makes sense). I only see men harp online about the age thing, most men I know in real life aren’t so cut throat with how old their partner is but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:56 PM
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No, if anything it taught me to appreciate the differences of every partner and helped me not villianize every past parter that ended on bad terms. It also helped me with jealousy issues I had, I had dated my first boyfriend for 9 years(13-21) and I had insane jealousy towards all other women, which caused unnecessary chaos between us both. As I began dating around more my jealousy issues waned because I realized that it’s not healthy to put anyone on such a high less stool as being “the one”. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:27 AM
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