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Debatemediumrare-value-man/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:27 AM
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Christ, they're like AIs set to Incel, but they're probably unfortunately real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:19 AM
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Why do you think anyone besides (hopefully) children are receiving unconditional love?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:17 AM
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Natural selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:13 AM
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I won't pick you, and neither will your doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:12 AM
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u mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:04 PM
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u mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:00 PM
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u mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:58 PM
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You know literally nothing about therapy, huh? Therapists with specific modalities that match your needs are useful. If you have PTSD, you need to see a PTSD specialist. If you are having sexual trouble with your wife, see a sex therapist. You still need to shop, however. Better Help therapists and generic talk therapists are almost always bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:58 PM
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Have you ever been to therapy? If you have a specific goal, and visit a specific kind of therapist, it's useful. I suspect a lot of people on here expect a Better Help therapist to help them reach Maximum HVM 10/10 abuser gigaChad status, or solve their entire childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:54 PM
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If you stuck around with a bad talk therapist with no structure, that's on you. There's good therapists out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:13 AM
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FetLife should be swarming with submissive men. Understand if you don't want to use it, but if you're near a city...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:11 AM
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Don't post this in purple pill, then. Every single red/purple man here is cold approaching for sex or validation. They need like, a Big Brothers club with normal male mentors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:09 AM
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So, you don't see men as being in two separate categories?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:07 AM
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First kid - he mostly suffers from being 12. Fix the hair, different glasses, and get a cleanser/acne treatment, he'd be fine. He looks very awkward but he's not ugly. Neither of the men should be approaching random women on the street, because one cannot be a pickup artist with regular women in normal settings in 2025. PUA tactics were focused on the hottest women at the hottest clubs in major cities, with men doing a battery of other methods in addition to cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:38 AM
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Cold approaching is alienating and isolating. It's like being a Mormon missionary, but the goal is to make you feel like a disgusting weirdo who will never get laid. (Doesn't work? Join my 8 week course on patreon! Only $500! Sex is your human right, those woke, single mothered blue haired feminists are denying you your masculinity, but if you follow my steps you can get 9.5 virgins who will debase themselves for scraps.) Maybe this worked for old school PUA 20 years ago, in very specific club e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:26 AM
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I actually like women and want to impress them, so I enjoy covering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:57 AM
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Have you considered that you are actually obsessed with these "high tier" men, not women? It's like you don't even care about the actual sex, you just want to be in the special High Tier club. Or conversely, are obsessed with being low tier (and therefore deserve special privileges.) Every day you nerds get closer to inventing incel DEI.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:35 AM
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I've met a handful of women who chased men far more attractive than themselves. They're always vivacious, competitive, and almost masculine in an admirable sort of way. Chasing wasn't positive for them, although it did appear to be a kind of unhealthy hobby as opposed to the rancid desperation of most red pillers. It's possible they just needed to date women, or regular heterosexual society is just too backwards for the direct sexuality of women, but it rarely ended well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:31 AM
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Hot man is portrayed as management and it is far more likely that a secretary would endure harassment from management due to the power imbalance. Secretary is (slightly) less likely to face retaliation from reporting an employee on her level. The only women who respond well to management hitting on them are brain dead social climbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:11 AM
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How much do you get paid for your Focus on the Family Lifestyle Influencer hustle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:05 AM
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Is it gay to gaslight another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:17 PM
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It's up to you to decide if you are willing to risk a pregnancy as to not upset your partner. If you were a woman, everyone would tell you to chew yourself out of this bear trap, and I personally think you should chew yourself out of the bear trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:08 AM
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Then don't fuck her? Just do oral? Why would you want to have sex with someone who gets upset about using a condom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:37 AM
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This is embarrassing. How can you feel secure in your masculinity if an educated woman bothers you? Are you also scared of high schoolers? Middle schoolers? I know I'm arguing with a bot paid for by Focus on the Family or whatever, but, jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:08 AM
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What does this have to do with grindr? Men will fuck more and have lower standards, if that's what you're getting at. If you want to experience the sweet validation of having random men want to fuck you, again, try Grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:59 AM
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I promise you can get laid on grinder. The question is, do you want to get laid on grinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:52 AM
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So... people are more likely to date people they have a social connection to...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:31 AM
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As a recent recession victim, this is the only PPD post I've ever been truly offended at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:27 AM
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If a true 10/10 man is cold approaching, he's either pathologically insecure or a scam artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:22 AM
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I have ADHD and am likely on the spectrum. I'm terrible at timely responses, keeping organized, and many elements of my life are not entirely together. A woman would be completely justified not to date me. I wouldn't date me, unless I had set up expectations from the beginning. Women aren't "ableist" because they don't want to deal with my terrible execution function skills. Some of it is me, some of it is the ADHD. But I am actually okay with that, because romance isn't the center of my life an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:15 AM
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All of the 10/10 men I know have social lives and met their girlfriends in a social context. They have shared hobbies. They're not approaching women on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:59 AM
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Why would a 10/10 man be cold approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:52 AM
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I see cold approaching like how churches have their missionaries stand on cold Street corners trying to find converts. The point isn't to actually convert people (or get laid), the point is to set up the person for rejection and alienation (further cementing them into the world of the cult.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:45 AM
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Lol I can't believe you're mad at this guy for not being misogynist enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:24 AM
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I don't think you understand what women actually want in a relationship. Women want a companion that they are attracted to. Companionship involves emotional intelligence, stability, and hygiene. Women want to feel chosen. Attraction is specific. So many guys in here are complaining about 20/80 and the Chad virus embedded in their skull are also swiping right on every single woman, or exclusively trying to date models. You are all aware tinder doesn't actually want you to date, right? Stop blamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:09 AM
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Why are you giving Chad so much power? He's a constant shadow cast over the doorway of your libido. When was the last time you talked to a woman and did not consider how Chad feels about her, if Chad's touched her, if you can compete with Chad? Chad is not real. Kill the Chad in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:53 AM
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I think it's because the US is effective a second world country, and the money shapes the resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:11 AM
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A certain kind of traditional woman craves male validation, and will often go above and beyond to gain it. Often, they have no hobbies or goals outside of work. They probably married young, had children, and didn't go to college. They often lack boundaries with working hours, spread rumors and gossip, and incorrectly train new co workers. Working at the same, low paying, small, male dominated business, for years and years means they are not competitive workers and do not understand shifting cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:38 AM
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Why can't you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:43 AM
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Why don't you want to date someone who values your rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:31 AM
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Why do you not add growth and value to women your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:02 AM
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It sounds like you want to fuck Chad. Are you missing a strong male presence in your life and pushing this desire off onto women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:13 AM
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Have you ever talked to a woman in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:09 AM
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Are you a hot woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:06 AM
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Have you considered that the 6/6/6 profiles are likely bots designed to spur you into your state of victimhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:02 AM
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Excellent to hear. I've heard a lot of good things about mason lodges in this thread. Do you think one of the issues with men's loneliness is a lack of awareness about these events? (Perhaps the issue is worse in rural communities.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:33 PM
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That's exactly what I want to see. You're doing great, comrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:15 PM
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How do you think we can normalize hugging and crying for men? Media examples, setting these standards in our own lives and leading it ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:13 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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