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Of course I agree. Men should win in fights almost all the time and he's probably unhealthy if he can't. There are other types of physical strengths besides violence (feats that are a lot more impressive on the human body and in the animal kingdom) so my brain automatically thought it was wrong to say "men are physically and mentally stronger." Men and women have equal in reverse physical strengths (men having worse endurance than women is a direct result of men having more short term power; men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:07 AM
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You don't even know how stupid you sound saying these physical strengths don't count as strengths because they don't make women violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:51 AM
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Literally any woman or girl ever. Even female babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:47 AM
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This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Men value violence. You jumped to who'd beat who in a fight. I knew you'd say that. I didn't expect you to go further and talk about war though. You proved my point a little too well. Men think violence is how to measure strength. Men choose to not recognize any other type of physical strength as strength because women excel at it. >Do men have uteruses? Do we get periods? NO. I think what you're trying to say is we can't measure men's lack of strength bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:26 PM
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She doesn't want sex with random exes. According to science, she wants sex more than women who have had sex with other men besides you. (Monogamous people report more satisfying sex and have sex more frequently.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:06 AM
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Not physically either. It's seriously crazy men convinced people that punching and weightlifting are the greatest display of physical strength. Men say that because that's what men are good at (for a human at least). To me it seems obvious women's bodies are physically stronger. Women survive birth, live longer, get through extreme survival situations better (with all other factors evened out), have higher pain tolerance, better endurance, and are better aerobic athletes. I just don't value benc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:25 AM
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I'm not a lesbian. >If she hasnt had sex with a few people she isnt really worth the time. This is such a bizarre comment it indicates an extreme fetish. Someone isn't worth your time if they only want sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:05 AM
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Women: We want you to be open. Men: Nooo no you don't. Ok. I don't know how to tell you anymore. We want you to be open.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:29 PM
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These are joke icks that girls write on tiktok as memes. It's not even an ick. It's second-hand embarassment at worst. No one wants to be ignored by the waiter so it might make you feel awkward to see someone ignored. But 99% of people understand you're not even being ignored, restaurants are just busy, so that's dumb anyway. Actual icks women have: Guys being older, not respecting boundaries, using women for sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:23 PM
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Is it preferable to have someone who used other people to find out that they like you? Wouldn't you prefer to meet someone who really loves you and doesn't need failed relationships to let them know they want to be with you? What you're syaing just seems like rationalizing why past partners isn't the end of the world, but I'm saying no past partners is clearly preferable. Intimacy should mean something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:43 PM
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Your definition of bad/good woman is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:07 AM
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There's tons of people who haven't have relationships with other people. I think everyone ideally wants someone to themselves, but they think it won't happen so they just give up and say it's fine that the person they love was with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:07 AM
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So older rich guys get the single moms. Young guys get the hot women. Exactly as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:19 AM
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Sure but why is it preferable to you for someone to have had a few failed relationships? Isn't no fuckups better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:58 AM
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People have all sorts of opinions on the internet, but I assure you no one in real life thinks even the slightest negative thought about you (woman or man) being a virgin. I'd think someone was a full-blown weirdo if they thought negatively of virginity in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:14 AM
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So you'd rather have someone who has had failed relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:11 AM
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Is this a fetish for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:10 AM
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I'm a mid 20s woman and I have yet to hear a woman consider money when dating a guy. The only time we even mention money is to make an occasional joke about marrying a super rich guy. Being hot and fun to be with is all that matters in a guy right now. Those are the young guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:16 AM
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Younger, hotter men get the most women. Doesn't matter if he's broke or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:19 AM
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Women like teenagers. I work with a massive group of people aged 16-26 and every older girl there is all over the 16-17 year old boys. (Legal in my state.) You'd be surprised how much women in their 20s prefer high schoolers over 30 year old men if given the chance without judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:18 AM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:14 AM
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High quality men practically always have a hot woman their own age. Where I'm from the hot moms are so much better looking than the younger women who are cute but just look kinda dopey.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:13 AM
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It's getting worse for older men too. "Older man" used to mean some decade older creep. Now zoomer girls are guffawing at guys barely older and acting like he's the world's biggest loser. One time a guy 1.5 years older tried to date me and I was like ummm nah. When I told my three friends about it they shrieked and mocked him for having a reputation for going after younger girls. I'm the biggest hater of older men, but I didn't even notice until they said that. Then I joined in on calling him ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:10 AM
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My friend is 21, has pretty serious issues with her dad, and had sex with an older guy who she said reminded her of her dad... :\ She said she wasn't even visually attracted to him but he was polite to her so she agreed to sex. The guy she actually has a crush on is 17 years old. The guy she was talking to is 16. Most of my friends like younger guys to the point I don't even blink at that anymore. So yeah, that's the type of woman who dates older guys. Someone who doesn't even like older guys an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:59 AM
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Two partners is promiscuous. Your opinion is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:37 AM
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That's subjective. You mentioned promiscuity. To me promiscuous means multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:23 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:40 PM
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Do men like fat women? Women who sleep around? Men still date them. So I don't see your point about "Yet these women still date him." People date unideal people all the time. Virgins are very hard to find. I really don't think anyone wants a non-virgin partner. Do you think there's anyone out there who's like, "Yes, I want the person I love to have been intimate with other people." Unless they have no emotions and an unhinged fetish, no one is saying that. A non-virgin is just something most peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:35 PM
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That book was popular because it was written by a woman and focused on female pleasure. People want to read erotica. It's not that deep. Most erotica is nasty. A woman being all romantic, getting orgasms, and talking about her inner goddess being the most popular book shows how mild women are, actually. The guy being attractive is a must, obviously. Him being rich makes him less scary. Having money makes him connected to other people, open, popular, not some random guy people don't know. If she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:20 PM
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I'd take a virgin not by choice over a non-virgin, because a non-virgin man is the biggest ick imaginable, but a virgin not by choice is a coomer. If it's not a choice, by definition that means he did want sex. So he probably wants other girls, watches porn, etc, which destroys the point of having a virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:02 PM
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Women always prefer virgin men if the virginity is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:56 PM
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This is something people say on the internet, but when you actually meet someone in real life with no "experience," you realize they're better than the men who have been having failed relationships (aka "experience").
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:54 PM
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Women who say stuff like that have trauma. "Experience" is a codeword for "I want the person I love to have sex with other people." People who talk shit on virgin men are creepy as fuck. Insulting someone for being a virgin pressures them into having sex... and I don't have to explain how disturbing that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:53 PM
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Meaningless. Men complaing about fat promiscuous women with dyed hair, and yet it's the easiest thing in the world for those women to get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:50 PM
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I don't think men care what women feel. Especially men with a high n count think of women as not even people, and definitely don't care about women's thoughts and opinions. I've called many men filthy for sleeping around, and they're just like "nooo no I'm not, sleeping around is great." Men don't care because women don't have the cultural control to override men's opinion on sleeping around. If women think used dick is nasty and makes the man an asshole, but men think it makes him cool and a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:33 PM
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There's no such thing as a man who's just having sex for fun. First of all, the fact that he sees women as just things to have fun with is nauseating. On top of that, you have no idea what these guys are saying about women behind closed doors. My male friend told me he knew the "sweetest guy ever" that women adored, he was like an angel. But once he was with his bros, he said the most repulsive and degrading things about the women he had sex with. I can't repeat exactly what he said because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:34 PM
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Women will never forgive that. She'll be heartbroken forever. She'll never feel the same love and romance as she would if it was just you two together. Men on the other hand often don't have any emotions about it, they just feel emasculated. As far as that emasculation goes, women feel something similar. It's a dreadful feeling of being pushed down like women usually are, being in the inferior seat, silenced, helpless to change the way men see things, "submissive" to a man's choices even when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:30 PM
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Men are most valued for their beauty, 100%. People who claim otherwise have not seen the way beautiful men are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:16 AM
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Women have this same disgust towards men who sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:14 AM
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No, they're really not. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:12 AM
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Women don't think it's insecurity. Women say that because they are upset by men's hypocrisy but don't know how to voice that without using a cheap insult. It's absolutely not insecurity to not want a partner with other past partners. But if you think that only applies to women, you're a scumbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:12 AM
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No, I do not think guys in their 20s are subjectively the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:40 AM
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Height is fair. Height is as simple as someone liking a body type or hair color or facial features. Being liked for your age is completely dehumanizing. Men know it is, which is why they go apeshit when younger men are liked for their beauty and when you say men in their 30s are not as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:30 AM
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Men find youthful women attractive, similarly to how women find youthful men attractive. Men get skittish about calling men attractive, so they feel more comfortable talking about how "cool" baby boomer badass action characters look. They pretend that's an "attractive" man, but we all know younger men are more attractive. Part of men's resistance to calling younger men attractive is obviously because they want to be the older one, but it is also that men are simply unable to call attractive men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:20 AM
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Younger men objectively look better than men in their 30s. There's no contest. Even hot celebrity men in their 30s look really rough, let alone the average 30 year old man, who looks absolutely horrid. (Nothing wrong with aging and not being beautiful, people are allowed to exist, but if we're talking about the experiences of women who constantly have 30 year old men sexually pushed on them, YUCK.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:16 AM
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This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:07 AM
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It's irrational not to be scared of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:14 AM
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This is the most "written by a man" thing I've ever seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:21 AM
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The topic is women hating age gaps because men are monsters to women. Nothing women do to men holds the tiniest candle to how men treat women every minute of life on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:49 AM
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That was the entire topic of this discussion...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:19 AM
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If men have bigger problems caused by women feel free to shout them out. If anything is comparable to the torture men to do women in the millions daily, I need to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:14 AM
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Those are men's biggest problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:03 AM
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The fact that men hate women who... don't want to have sex with them, rely on money in a system where men set up women to depend on men for money and call women unattractive for being independent, women who just eat too much and have no affect on men. While women hate men who are murderers, rapists, torturers, and predators... says everything you need to know about whose behavior is rationalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:12 AM
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Women already have to deal with the world we live in. The anger and pain of what men do to women will affect every woman some time or another. I avoided it for a while but it's inevitable when the reality of misogyny hits you and the misery you feel at how women are treated. It's fun to at least get something out of it and laugh at older men for thinking they can be attractive to younger women. Doing this with your friends feels supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:49 AM
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Being disgusted by older men makes me happy. Laughing with my friends about how much we hate older men is a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:30 AM
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I love being bigoted against older men who like younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:16 AM
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Bump that up to you're looking for 'your own age to 45' and everyone will love you. 35 year old men looking at 25 year olds are nasty. What women mean by finding older men repulsive is just a natural biological reaction. I guess it's because we are disgusted by the fact he likes younger women, his motives are ew to us, and a young woman would be healthier mating with a young man, so pairing up an older man and young woman is unhealthy and nasty. It's not good for the woman, so it's disgusting be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:10 AM
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Everyone thinks men are disgusting so if you have sex with men you get shamed. Girls get slutshamed when they never even touched a boy because men desire women, and men find it degrading and gross to be desired by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:07 AM
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When I am 30 I will see 31 year old men as old farts. 30s is not old at all for a human, it's actually very young, but for a guy who's creeping after younger woman you're a grandpa perv.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:00 AM
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No they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:30 AM
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Just icky? More like kill myself. Now that I'm mid 20s, the vague idea of fucking a 30 year old man still makes me want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:22 AM
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Nothing will change his mind. No amount of "I am a young woman and I hate age gaps" is going to convince him. He doesn't even have any proof older women are jealous. He just states it with no proof. That's the beauty of accusing someone of experiencing an emotion. You can't prove it, and they can't prove what's going on in their own head either. So you just get to run away with your ridiculous accusation and pretend it's right when it's blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:20 AM
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We can stop pretending it goes both ways. Older women are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:16 AM
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False. I am a young woman who complains about age gaps. I barely hear older women talk about them; it's almost entirely young women who are against age gaps. And we are viciously against them. I wish older women would speak up and defend us more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:14 AM
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I wish men acted like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:58 AM
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This but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:54 AM
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I used to believe women were mature enough to decide BUT I was still against age gaps for other reasons. However, now I think young women aren't mature enough to decide either. A few days ago my friend (age 21) met an early 30s man and had sex with him. (And no, this is not common. She's my only friend I've ever known with an older guy. When she told us how old he was, all the girls were puking. She honestly has severe problems with her dad, and she straight up said this man reminds her of her d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:50 AM
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As an asexual woman who has no jealousy towards women dating other men, no, it's not jealousy. We're actually concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:47 AM
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As a 24 year old girl I'm mostly friends with younger guys because they're a lot funnier. You might think I'm talking about immature childish humor but it's not that at all. They're high schoolers, not middle schoolers, so their humor isn't like that. They're just generally much more bubbly, interesting, and easy to talk to and laugh with than guys my age. They act more similar to me. I get along perfectly with girls my age, because girls my age are also more bubbly and giggly. Women are more li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:02 PM
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Sure but a few partners makes less sense than bunch if you're worried about insecurities. Having a few comparisons is worse than having a ton of (less significant, smaller in proportion, irrelevant) comparisons. The divorce rate for 2 partners (one previous, then marry the current one) is higher than for 3 partners (two previous) because the comparison of one person to one past partner is torturous. If you're insecure it makes sense to want a person with a ton of partners. They probably won't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:35 AM
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Yes, when I say men are stronger than women, that point is to prove younger men are safe in relationships with older women. Men are physically safe with any woman, inlcuding older women. Women aren't safe around any man, including younger men. Thus, we do not need to pretend older woman/younger man is somehow a worry for the man, because the man ALWAYS has the advantage. A man in his 20s is just as physically dangerous as a man in his 30s-40s to women. (The man losing a little strength as he get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:44 AM
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100%. There is nothing wrong with being "insecure" about sex. Sex is not a performance. It's supposed to be an enjoyable connection between two romantic people. It's disgusting that we expect people to not have any hesitations about being judged and/or compared to others in something so intimate. However, the reason I'm not responding under automod is because I disagree that wanting a virgin makes any sense whatsoever if your goal is to not disappoint your partner due to performance insecurities…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:32 AM
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Men commit crime. Even in a nice relationship, women need to be more cautious because they get pregnant. Men are perfectly safe around pretty much any woman. And even if she tried to do something he could defend himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:10 AM
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What exactly is he handling by being with an older woman? Knowing the average man, he probably looks, acts, feels, and appears older than her already even if he's younger. I'm mostly friends (not dating) with much younger guys because they are more similar to me. Men don't typically have anything to fear from dating women, let alone older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:55 PM
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Girls value a pretty face and fun personality in boys. I'm mid 20s and girls still care most about how cute and fun a boy is, not about his career or whatever. Maybe when a woman is like 40 she'll go for a corporate ladder man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:23 PM
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Women and men are equally visual. If I had to choose one, I'd say women are more visual if anything. "Men are more visual" is just used as an excuse to watch porn even though it makes your gf/wife feel shitty. The phrase doesn't have any validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:56 PM
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Weaker how? What do you mean not worthy of respect? Older men give women fear and the ick for biological reasons. You don't even need to rationalize it. It's just natural. You can come up with as many reasons you want like older men are less attractive, the age gap is more dangerous, manipulation, worse sperm quality is a threat to the mother's health when she's pregnant, etc. But it doesn't matter because it's just biology. I don't care if I was the one with power over an older man. (I don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:51 PM
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You can just ask the women what they mean by incel... I'm not deciding for them. I'm calling them out for using such a disgusting term, and then they tell me they do not mean virgin whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:45 PM
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I don't value men based on those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:43 PM
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Men find promiscuity attractive for casual. Women never find promiscuity attractive. So men are the only ones who enjoy promiscuity at all. Men enable women to be promiscuous by liking women. Again, it's not any different for women and men. It's just that men are hornier. I didn't indicate that anything is wrong with the woman. Virginity is always a good thing, no matter what. Even if it's not by choice, at least you're still a virgin. My point was men would not like it though, because they woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:11 AM
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Men are literally stronger than women so the dynamics is uneven from the get go, if the man is also older/more experienced this only adds up to the imbalance. Mega agree. I'm glad someone said it. Men usually have power over women no matter what. A younger man has a ton of power over an older woman, and it's laughable to pretend he doesn't. He has even more power now that idiots are trying to "both sides" this and act like a woman is a predator for dating someone more dominant than her, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:08 AM
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If a woman is trying to go after men to abuse or get in his pants, I absolutely agree she's a sick fuck. The problem is, this is a problem coming from men. Men will openly admit this is why they date younger women. (They word it differently though.) I never see women do this (and again, if she does, I agree she's sick). Women are much more innocent in this scenario, and if you gossip around to find the genuine reason she wants a younger guy, she just feels he's sweet and cute and more similar to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:00 AM
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Yeah because men and women are different. Not to mention the fact that women look so significantly younger than men (the objective biological fact that women are highly neotenous), that being attracted to a man and woman of the same age means two very different things. You'd have to be attracted to a man SO much younger just to have him appear similar to that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:55 AM
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Older men are stronger than women. Until a man is legit crippled, 80, and can't walk, he is still a physical threat to women. Comparing a younger man to an older man is irrelevant, because they are both stronger than the woman. The point is it's perfectly fine for a woman to date a younger man, because younger man + older woman has a power imbalance in favor of the man. Men and women are different, and there is almost always a power imbalance in favor of the man. A younger man helps even out thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:52 AM
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It's blatantly false. The only way they "mature earlier" is a little bit of puberty at a very young age, before boys shoot past girls by the time they're early teens. Little girls getting armpit hair 6-12 months earlier than boys should not affect your dating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:43 AM
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I feel the opposite. The 23 year old girl is just getting started. The 23 year old boy isn't getting any better from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:42 AM
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Men and women are extremely different in this way. Anyone saying it's a double standard is insane, sorry. In real life everyone seems to recognize it's very different. But the internet has a trend right now of trying to say it's the same thing. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:37 AM
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I don't agree. It's not about accountability (what accountability? for what?). It's that men and women are different, and there literally is not a power imbalance with an older woman and younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:36 AM
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This is extremely sad (sincerely), but it is 100% men's fault. Men constantly say they will fuck everything that moves. So it wouldn't be unwarranted to assume when men get any opportunity they take it. Men need to start being open about how they reject opportunities and do not want sex with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:27 AM
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My best friend was raped for being a virgin. Men are killed in his country (East Europe) for being virgins. They claim you're gay and beat you to death or stab you. They don't even really think you're gay, they just love torturing men who dare not treat women like meat. If you're a "soft" man who doesn't fuck women you'll be in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:22 AM
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Men are killed for being virgins. This is the only point about "male oppression" I actually agree with. And it's not even really against men, it's more misogyny, because their reasoning is if you don't treat women like dirt (pumping and dumping and beating), then you're a soft wimp and should be killed. Because these men only want to be around other men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:19 AM
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Men would be repulsed by a woman who couldn't get a man. Problem is men are so promiscuous they want every woman, so there are no women who can't get a man. But if there was, she would horrify and repel men. It's the same standard for men and women, except men are hornier, that's all. Everyone wants someone who is loyal to them because they love them and have morals, NOT just because they want to cheat but are unable to. This doesn't mean being promiscuous is attractive to anybody. (For the reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:16 AM
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I just told a girl today that I never kissed or held hands (she asked me the question first), and she wasn't remotely surprised. I'm an objectively very attractive 24 year old. (Sorry for humblebrag, it's anonymous and I'm just trying to prove my point.) It's normal af to not kiss or have sex. No one in real life thinks it's weird at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:09 AM
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I almost never hear women use virgin as an insult. Incel is quite common but it doesn't mean virgin, it means miosgynist. I deeply wish they would just say miosgynist instead of a word that's supposed to mean virgin, but they do not mean virgin when they say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:06 AM
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Objectively speaking, there is nothing wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:02 AM
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Agree, women look better. Body hair on both women and men is great. Women shaving their legs looks alien, unhuman, cold, and slimy to me. Hair on your legs, armpits, and pubic area looks healthy and normal. But I haaaaate secondary sex characteristics such as chest hair and beards. Shaved beards are almost as bad as beards. I'm only attracted to feminine guys because femininity is prettier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:00 AM
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They would just look like women without breasts...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:59 AM
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No. You can't even call out horrific misogyny without being met with more misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:51 AM
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>age 22 >I’ve had 9 “serious” relationships since I was 18. You wanna know how I got them? You are not someone I would take dating advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:44 AM
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Dating someone 3-4 years older is extremely rare and only happens if you meet them in your friend group. Almost every girl is dating within 1-2 years younger or older (which is practically the same age).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:57 AM
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Younger men are hotter. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:49 AM
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Amber's life is miserable, of course she looks visibly stressed. Cavill gets a botoz appointment every season and still has sagging, visibly weakened facial muscles, and wrinkles. He's not nearly as attractive as he used to be. I never hated on Marvel with my peers. We just never talk about Cavill because young women don't care about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:22 AM
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Because she keeps crying all the time. Wait until you see Henry Cavill's wrinkles. They are deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:09 AM
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She looks exactly the same when she's not crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:49 AM
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Euphoria is a zoomer show. It's probably 16 year olds rewinding that. Men hate Amber Heard so much because they're attracted to her. If she was homely she wouldn't get so much seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:31 AM
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Nude scenes rewatched? Yeah I'm sure. I hope Marvel underperforms. Let's go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:24 AM
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I never saw the movie. Just gifs. Months ago I tried reading the book but only got 10 pages in. It's quite famous. It's the same author as One Hundred and One Dalmatians. I was just saying we might say yes to him at that age based on my judgment of his looks. Not that I've actually had this specific converstion, because, you know, we never talk about Superman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:20 AM
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I'm saying these two actresses are famous BECAUSE of women. Men hopping on and saying "yeah I agree those women are pretty" does not mean they are it girls for men. I never heard of Scarlett Johansson being aged out. She had 2 kids recently, looks prettier than ever, and probably doesn't care about her career as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:17 AM
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I have never said the word capeshit out loud in my life lol. Trust me, we don't want to bone Superman. Maybe when he was in I Capture the Castle (age 19).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:11 AM
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Anya Taylor Joy is loved by women. She's a scream queen which is a totally female-dominated fanbase. Sydney Sweeney is in The Handmaid's Tale, Euphoria, Pretty Little Liars, all shows strongly for women. Yeah, they're famous because women love them. Anya Taylor Joy is literally my favorite actress lol. Try watching Last Night in Soho and tell me that was remotely for the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:02 AM
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Telling someone about your horny sexual fetishes is not the same as talking about what guys you think are hot. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:58 AM
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It's not taboo. "Consenting adults do whatever the fuck you want reeee" is a mainstream opinion. I have no idea why my close friends, gossip circles, and late night female-only talks would all be lying. We all ooze about the guys we like and they are never ever ever older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:46 AM
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She's so freaking good. She's almost becoming better as she's getting closer to retirement age. Her goal today was stellar!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:39 AM
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There are more older it women and younger it men than the other way around. Cavil, Hemsworth, Momoa What a joke lmao. These are capeshit actors. They're famous for being main stars in the biggest movies ever. Young women don't care. Boomer fanboys do. They strongly appeal to the male gaze. Young women are too busy giggling about young it boys, not those blokes. Better yet, all three of these actors became famous when they were quite young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:38 AM
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I agree but even less. As a 24 year old, I can't find 30+ celebrity men to be hot. They're just SO old. Objectively attractive, meh. Visually attractive to me, hell fucking no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:33 AM
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I would be BEYOND shocked if I ever met a young woman my age who wanted to date an older man. Yes, it is that hard to believe. I'd be truly shocked if I ever met even one woman who did this, let alone this actually being "a thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:31 AM
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Being murdered is very different than choosing to be so fat you die. Put it this way, would you want to guarantee in your life you will never be murdered by another person, so you're always safe. Or would you rather be able to get as fat as you want yet not die of heart disease? I'd rather guarantee I will never be harmed by another person than guarantee I wouldn't be harmed by my eating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:29 AM
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I wouldn't pressure him to open up, but it would be very concerning if he didn't. I'd really need him to open up eventually (soon hopefully) because you can't have a long tern relationship with a man who doesn't tell you his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:53 AM
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It's not fair that women have to deal with periods. Paying them the same when they need medical leave makes it more fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:27 AM
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Then keep it the same. Once men get periods they can have menstrual leave. The same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:53 AM
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They do a worse job than they themselves would normally do. They still do the same job as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:28 AM
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Can you explain your analogy? Are you saying people who can't pass a fitness test should be banned from the military? Yes that is fair. Men should get time off because everyone should. Giving women more time off for periods/etc is not discrimination until men do those things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:22 AM
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Exactly my point. Women have much more obstacles than men while still doing the same job. Women however should not have to do this. Give them a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:15 AM
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I want people to have as much time off as humanly possible, because jobs (for almost everyone, unless you have a wonderful passion) are a complete waste of life. But it's insane to say it's gender discrimination. Until men have periods, it's not discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:39 AM
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Women are more capable than men. Women do the same things men do, while suffering on their periods. Women shouldn't have to do this. Thus menstrual leave. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:37 AM
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Women give birth to babies and men are worried if their penis is too big. Lmfao. Nice pathetic excuse for being a community dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:21 PM
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I was NOT describing a tiny minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:27 PM
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Describing men for what they are is not hateful. Talking about violent crime and misogyny is not hating men. How many times have you gotten pressed about men actually writing hateful rhetoric about women rather than acting offended at women for calling men out for that very thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:58 AM
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There's the men who terrorize women, and then there's the men who get more offended about women calling this out than they do about the men doing this. Maybe somewhere there's the men who actually care about women. So not those men. But all the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:10 AM
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"have relatively higher smv gap between the adults" I don't understand this phrase. You mean teenage boys have a higher smv than teenage girls? I would agree with that, seeing adult women gush over 90s boy celebs and Disney Channel stars who were in their teens at the time. Guys usually wait until the girl is an adult in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:00 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:40 AM
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You don't know what a radfem is. Radfems are anti-casual sex. This isn't some no true scotsman or whatever... being against casual sex is a core tenant of radical feminism. If you said TRP and libfems are similar, I'd agree with you. Although many liberal feminists adore and worship men, which would go against your other point. >I've seen both sides say that irl prostitution is bad, but red pills wanted to punish only the prostitute, and feminists wanted to punish only the client. How tf is this…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:13 AM
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I don't. A lot of other women don't. The women who do ignore the danger because it's so normalized, they feel like they have no choice but to date, they're told women are worthless if they're single, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:07 AM
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Everything you listed is a good thing and should be encouraged. The hostility is coming from the fact that men have used all these things to terrorize women. Don't expect no pushback.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:05 AM
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Yes. 14-15.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:34 PM
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I thought according to TRP young men in their early 20s would have tons of women because uber promiscuous 18 year old girls want them? Based on my old high school (large sample, about 3000 students) and the high schools of my current friends I work with, it's a ton more likely those 18 year old girls are hooking up with young high school freshman boys than with college boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:40 AM
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Russian women are weird. Slavic men are so abusive that all the women are glassy-eyed and dead inside. I feel very sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:36 AM
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Women have always wanted someone their age. For the past 100 years and longer, married couples have almost always been nearly the same age. Older woman has always been pretty common as well. The more you simply check wikipedia for the age of couples, you'll see it's a coin toss if the man or woman is older. The only way age gaps would be common is in forced marriages. When women want a man their own age, they want him for who he is. When women want an older man, it's transactional. TRP should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:35 AM
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r/whenwomenrefuse Even if you were at zero threat of violence, people don't say "I'm not interested" and walk away because it seems harsh and painful. They'd rather smile a bit and let the conversation fizzle away, letting the other person lose romantic interest without having to outright reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:36 PM
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Go on any space where women dominate the conversation (tumblr, pinterest, etc) and you'll find girls and women writing paragraphs and paragraphs about how much they adore men in general and they think men are wonderful and so precious and deserve all the love and care in the world. I've never once seen a man talk about women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:33 PM
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If a man is creepy to woman but not to men, chances are he's doing it on purpose, teetering the exact line to make women uncomfortable but for men to think he's innocent. Also, you used the term virtue signal wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:29 PM
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I just don't believe that you believe this. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:51 AM
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Honest question, do you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:56 AM
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I guess men have stricter standards of height than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:56 AM
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He nicely listed them out in the beginning. I find this weird. I'm not "not admitting" I don't want these things. Tall reminds me of my dad and makes me feel familial and unromantic. A guy younger than me is infinitely more attractive. I'd even be bothered if he was the same age as me but his birthday was first on the calendar. A ton of women gush about how sweet it is that their boyfriend is younger. Women have different preferences. "Good in bed" is not a quality. That's something you do toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:28 PM
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It can definitely be harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:50 PM
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For good reason. Insecurity sometimes looks like shiftiness. It looks like you're hiding something. Embarassment (insecurity) is a common reason men suddenly get violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:49 PM
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It's almost like women have vastly different experiences than men, the gender that commits almost all violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:47 PM
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I find it nauseating how little men give a shit about women. If a women feels threatened and she's smiling and playing along, she's fucking threatened. The reason she's smiling is because she's threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:46 PM
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Literally no one denies this. Not wanting to be rejected by someone you like, while simultaneously not wanting to be at risk of crime from other men? Wow!! This is horrific and women are just terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:45 PM
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This is the most reasonable thing a woman can do. There's no way anyone could have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:44 PM
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>Women are attracted to men they find attractive. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:42 PM
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Men think this. Women do not. The farthest extent that an attractive guy would be seen as less creepy is because attractive people are virtually always highly social. Social = not creepy. But there are a ton of good looking guys who have terrified women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:39 PM
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This is a male fantasy. Nothing else. You wish to believe women are masturbating over creeps and assholes because that personally turns you on. I can't tell you how ridiculous you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:37 PM
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The guy that looks good gets treated this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:35 PM
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Yes, you are wrong. You couldn't be more wrong. I'm baffled how hard men try to work their way around the fact that women don't like mean, creepy men. You're hurting women with comments like these. Whenever a woman is sexually harassed, men already tell her, "Shut up, you liked it." No matter how violating and disgusting it was, men choose to pretend women like it. You KNOW women don't like it, you do it to have power over women. Women really need to stop trusting men because men have absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:33 PM
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Yet his attitude just annoyed me and turned me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:03 PM
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First of all 5'6 isn't even short, and yeah that's what I'm saying. Being picky doesn't mean you're an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:02 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:21 PM
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If you're gay you'll listen to the men talk about what men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:09 PM
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Suuuure just don't be surprised when women ignore you for being an asshat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:54 AM
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Men will say this is good. Women will say this is the worst advice. If you're a heterosexual male, listen to the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:52 AM
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Incels aren't real. There's the normal people who choose not to have sex. Then "incels" are people who want sex but don't really want it, because they put in no realtistic effort to get it. Stop acting like casual sex is hard to get. Stop acting like it's an accomplishment. It's the laziest sleaziest thing in the world for a man to do. An "incel" staying inside all day and moping he doesn't get sex with an 8/10 is not an incel. One look at incels will tell you there's no such thing as incels. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:43 AM
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Yesah I don't care about the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:01 PM
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They do, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:01 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:59 PM
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Exactly! That explains why age gap relationships have such a higher divorce rate than same age couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:58 PM
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Ok, anecdote. Any younger than me is illegal. Try again. Young women despise older men with all our soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:51 PM
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Bruh you can be used even if you consent to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:49 PM
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Oh, I don't give a flying fuck about the men. They're not victims. They're monsters. I'm just saying it's pitiful when men try to claim women are attracted to older men when they're just being used for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:16 PM
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I'm aware some women use older men for their money. Men delusionally think this means she "likes" the older man. In reality she's gushing over young chads while she drains the balding man's wallet. But is this really that common? There's no denying the masses of women despise age gaps. Young women never stop talking about how much they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:46 AM
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You choose foods that your body likes because your biology says those foods will prevent starvation. I didn't say anything about wanting babies. We're talking about biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:00 AM
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Pretty cringe though. Salad inherently means a jumble. You just meant I wrote something long. Word baguette perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:49 AM
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My favorite food DOES prevent me from death. An 18 year old girl is NOT fully fertile. My tastes buds want those flavors because they exist in foods that prevent starvation. If I was a man I would not be attracted to an 18 year old girl because she does not have the development of a person that would healthily carry babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:21 AM
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Literally is a hyperbole, it's used correctly when when they mean figuratively because it's just hyperbole. Incel is a ridiculous way to describe a misogynist. You're simply using the term world salad wrong. I wrote a mildly longer paragraph than your phone-brain can handle so you claim my clearly presented words were scramble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:16 AM
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I'm flabbergasted you could say this. 18 year old girls look 14. 18 year old boys look 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:13 AM
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You surely know more about being a young woman than I do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:08 AM
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I'm not talking about friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:08 AM
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Ok, but 100% of the time sexual attraction is based on the perceived ability to sexually reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:07 AM
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Because they're not developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:06 AM
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Word salad is quickly becoming an incorrectly used insult. It used to mean when you put a bunch of unreadable words together. But now it's used as, "I understand your grammar perfectly, I just disagree with you."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:06 AM
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So my point is teenage girls are not attractive because they're not fertile/hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:48 AM
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And? They still want to have sex with a fertile person because that's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:43 AM
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Oh shut up. The reason you experience sexual attraction is to pass on your genes. This isn't tradlarp nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:38 AM
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NO. I am NOT saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:38 AM
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It's weird that you're talking about little kids in a conversation about dating. Girls mature slightly earlier than boys around age 10-12. What does that have to do with anything? They likely can't even get pregnant at that age. A 16 year old boy is infinitely more suitable to create children than a 16 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:28 AM
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Yes, they are literally talking about the same group of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:25 AM
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Your comment is so dumb it's scary. The leading cause of death for girls aged 18-19 worldwide is childbirth because their bodies are not biologically developed at that age. Biology is universal. 19 year old girls are not developed in the West. The leading cause of death for women age 30 in the slums of India is NOT childbirth, because even with poverty, their bodies are developed enough to deal with it. Certain countries having the made up technology to help a 12 year old survive pregnancy has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:18 AM
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Yes it is.............................
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:14 AM
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Who said they know each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:14 AM
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Women hate age gaps, especially younger women. Age gaps are not common. Some women will use old men for their money (while cheating on the old idiot with pretty young chad). Some really young girls get groomed. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:13 AM
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There's no benefit to being a housewife. Those were vacuum advertisements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:09 AM
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I laughed out loud when you thought only the United States is "worldwide."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:08 AM
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Literally the other way around. Young women despise age gaps with all their soul. Young women practically want older men to straight up die for hitting on them. Older women are sometimes kind and sympathetic to younger women. But sadly too often they're more ok with age gaps than they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:07 AM
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8-10% is not a lot. Especially when most of those gaps come from a 55 and 45 year old who have been divorced twice. Among the regular dating pool (young, un-divorced people) age gaps are almost unheard of. >And to claim that all the random strangers online who talk about bad age gap relationships are somehow referring to the same small group of women is statistically unbelievable. Lmao. They are by definition talking about the same women. The women who have had age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:05 AM
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At my school, the only freshman+senior dating/hookups were freshman boys and senior girls. That was relatively pretty common. A ton of my friends (female) when I was a senior were making out with the 14-15 year old boys. Freshman boy + junior girl was more common though. I knew only one senior boy and freshman girl who might have dated for a week, but they were only 2 years apart based on their birth month. I was a freshman too at that time. He was so ridiculously childish it was actually a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:54 AM
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18 year old girls are not sexually developed. 18 year old boys are, girls are not. The leading cause of death worldwide for 18 and 19 year old girls is pregnancy because their bodies aren't ready. Your hips and breasts haven't even stopped getting bigger at 18 yet. They're still growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:45 AM
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Men will simultaneously not stop talking about how much women passionately hate age gaps, but also how they think women like age gaps. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:40 AM
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The genius discovers that everyone blames the older person in age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:37 AM
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I've already explained why this is wrong in the comment above, but another point, why do you think women hate age gaps so much? Men simultaneously admit that and complain about how much women despise age gaps, but then men keep defending age gaps as if they think that's what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:36 AM
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You're getting it totally wrong. Age gaps are not common. Among the age gaps that did happen, most of them were creepy and manipulative. I think what you're attempting to say is, "Eating two marshmallows isn't that many, but two murders is a lot!" Uh yeah ok. Amount is relative. Age gaps are not normal because out of the thousands of people you know, they're almost all the same age. But out of the horrible traumatic experiences you've had or encountered, three or four is a lot. Those women share…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:33 AM
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They knew their place, Vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:13 AM
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Ok thanks. It was in quotes. I was condemning people who use that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:27 AM
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Then start obsessively posting about how women should sleep around and cheat because men rate women more attractive if other men rate them attractive. You know lying that pre-selection is a thing severely hurts women, that's why you never do it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:11 PM
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This is like the exact opposite of incel content? What did I say wrong? This is literally a psychology fact. Therapists have to talk to women and phrase things a certain way because if the therapists asks the woman to flat out accuse her husband, she will deny it. But if the therapists phrases it differently, the woman will admit to being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:08 PM
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Yeah, big no to the brutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:19 AM
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If he has gorilla arms and a stubby thick head then yeah that's masculine. I just don't think in general fit guys are making themselves more masculine than they were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:18 AM
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Yeah haha but I think many women like guys like him. He himself is popular. How is he not feminine though haha just because he's too feminine? So men not as womanly as him, but still feminine, can be attractive too? I don't think a hairy muscular woman is the same because women don't grow hair in those places unless they have a disorder. And women's muscles just cannot get that big unless she's doping. That would be on the unhealthy unnatural side, rather than just a healthy attractive guy born …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:13 AM
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I've seen multiple hyper masculine men who I thought for a second were women. These two you posted are men. Zero womanliness. I played around with male models on facetune/faceapp, changing features to suit my tastes. Some were young boyish (which is the farthest masculine I like). I abandoned some faces because I couldn't get them feminine enough without the tool just making them 100% female. I do like feminine. Most pretty boys are much too masculine for me. Do you think feminine men are inhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:14 AM
2

I think thicker skin gets less tiny fine creases, but way more huge obvious wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:52 AM
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Those are just less attractive men. They're like the farthest from girly you could get. Guy 1 looks like a bear. Wide face, big nose, small eyes, big head, big body, huge neck, huge chin, hairy, thick lower face, no lips. That's a manly man, a jolly fat one. Guy 2 is such a "just a guy." The only women who look remotely like him are little old ladies who smoke and yell at a lot and start looking masculine due to age. A human chihuahua. I agree about Bill, he looks feminine but has boyish vibes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:45 AM
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It can be hard to judge. Sometimes people say a guy is feminine but there's nothing remotely womanly about him, they just mean he's wimpy. Sometimes it's young Leo, Bieber, or Harry Styles, but personally I think they're just boyish. Someone like Froy Gutierrez is clearly masculine with dashes of traits associated with pretty women. It's kind of hard to find feminine guys because it's just the biology of males to be masculine. But then there'd be no point of talking about masculine guys if that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:17 AM
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I prefer under 6 feet, athletic but not muscular (think soccer player body type), and I hate square jaws. If you take a perfect guy to me (perfect face, hair, etc), and then computer generate him to have a square jaw, large arm muscles, and be much taller, my attraction will drop to zero instantly. He can still look nice objectively but never something I'd be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:40 AM
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The photo in the psychology today article? He's in the middle. More feminine than a lot of men but too mannish for my taste. He has a square jaw, strong facial bones, thick brows, large body frame that all makes him masculine. I also consider that hair to be masculine. It's hard, helmet, styled upwards hair, compared to soft feminine hair that would probably come down in long pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:21 AM
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If you go to the gym a lot maybe. I think it depends more on your other features and traits though. My friend is a complete gym rat, scorfs down two sandwiches every lunch to get the double protein for his gains, and he's the most feminine pretty boy I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:37 AM
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>don't lose hair Or just get transplants like Brad Pitt. Depp obviously looks like a deep sea creature mixed with a cigarette smoker's lung at his age now. But Pitt is ugly as hell too. He still has the facial features and bone structure he had when he was 23, so if you just focus really hard on his facial symmetry or something, you can ignore that Pitt currently has more wrinkles and sagging than most people his age. His face looks like an upside U shape from how saggy he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:29 AM
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He already looked very old on the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:28 AM
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The wall isn't real for women. It's real for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:26 AM
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Women in their 50s dating men in their 30s and 40s is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:26 AM
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I agree with the rest of what you said, but are you sure men have less wrinkles? Men everywhere I ever look have WAY more wrinkles than women. Bigger and deeper wrinkles than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:25 AM
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Gym is great but that doesn't make you masculine any more than a woman working out makes her feminine. A lot of fit men are very feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:21 AM
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I prefer a feminine man all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:20 AM
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More like I used to be viciously anti-feminist for years until I realized I was being lied to and lying to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:54 AM
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Even you know this is wrong. You're trying really hard to flip a narrative you obviously know is true because you want to be contrary. Emotional and psychological abuse sucks but we all know men are like "my bitch cunt slut hole subhuman wife nagged me to do the dishes for once I'm fucking abused."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:37 AM
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I feel sorry for people like you who get so angry over nothing. It would be funny if it wasn't sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:34 PM
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Then just pick a different article. Every article and every book I've read on the topic of how male promiscuity causes early puberty comes to the exact same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:33 PM
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I'm going to assume this is obvious trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:32 PM
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Who women date is 100% dependent on how women feel. Women do not feel that older men are better. Women feel that older men are disgusting and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:03 PM
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I literally never hear this from virgins who have sex with virgins. It's always the best day of their life. I can't imagine being disappointed the person you like didn't cum in someone else lol. It really shows how non-virgins (don't) value sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:39 PM
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This is not an argument. Sexual compatibility can change at any time. You can have sex before marriage and then totally change after marriage. Testing out sex before marriage is objectively useless, even if you are not in favor of waiting until marriage. Also, sexual compatibility isn't really real... not the way they talk about it, as if it's just some thing you need to test and then dump the person you love if it doesn't work the first time. "Sexual compatibility" is just whatever you choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:37 PM
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>Also im honestly surprised you dont know genetics also play a huge role in when you start your period AND when you hit menopause. Sigh. It is utterly useless attempting to talk to dishonest people like this. You live in a fantasy land where I somehow claimed that genetics don't play a role. >And the age of starting a period has been low for atleast a hundred years now. It has nothing to do with plastic. Yeah. The age of plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:59 AM
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They are fun and outgoing, they just look old and act like the personality of any older guy I've met. The girls are easy to tell that they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:17 AM
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Any source will tell you male promiscuity is the problem causing excessively early puberty. If you have a source debunking that let me know. Male promiscuity is the most unnatural thing ever. Men can't even cum twice in a row. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/201709
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:14 AM
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I agree if it's about scientific traits that get into specifics but I don't think that's what people mean when they see girls as more mature. They basically mean girls are calm and boys are dumb so it's ok to be a pedophile and attack girls. That is just totally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:10 AM
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Only men think this. Women do not feel this way. This is a male fatansy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:02 AM
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What is later? 14 is so young, that's not late in the slightest. Men's promiscuity also triggers early puberty, as their children are in a stressful environment and their bodies try to become independent earlier. Men's promiscuity is abnormal and hurts their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:00 AM
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Ok, dirty dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:57 AM
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Men and boys are more violent, so if that's what is meant by immature then of course. By immature I thought it generally meant acting youthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:56 AM
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Around age 10-12, girls are slightly more on their way through puberty. This results in minor things like some girls being taller than boys. However, around mid to late teenage years, boys seem way more adult than girls. Girls are still growing a lot. For example, the leading cause of death in the entire world for girls age 15-19 is pregnancy because their bodies are so immature at that age. However, boys are pretty much grown by 16 with the only difference being maybe they get more muscly later…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:18 AM
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I'm in my mid 20s and work with a ton of teenagers (love them, they're my friends). The 16 year old girls are legit less mature than the boys. Not immature in the way of stupid or obnoxious. But immature like the girls are so childish and bubbly and naive and cutesy, while with the 16 year old boys I seriously would think half of them are in their early 20s just from meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:12 AM
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Not to mention the start of puberty is (obviously...) not biological maturity. The END of puberty is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:07 AM
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It's completely unnatural. Girls used to get their period at 16-17, and that was partially do to less nutrition, so science estimates the healthy, regular, human average age to get a period is 14 and a half. Chemicals in food, water, and plastics we consume and touch greatly change our hormones and trigger puberty extremely early. This is an anomaly in this time period in history in the age of plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:05 AM
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Pre-selection is a thing for men. But you only talk about it for women because men will use any excuse to be promiscuous and hurt women. Pre-selection does not mean a man who had sex with others is seen as attractive, it's only a study that says when people are ranking him on a scale, they try to be positive and sociable by agreeing with other people's ratings. It absolutely does not follow that having sex with women makes you seem attractive. Only men think that about other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:55 PM
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No, I've been here for like 5 years. Early 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:53 PM
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I don't want to be friends with men who aspire to be the nastiest, dirtiest, most repulsive, immoral lowlife loser who ever walked this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:53 PM
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Pre-selection isn't real. People rate everything as more attractive when other people rate it attractive. From men to women to pottery to photos of flowers to absract art. Pre-selection something used men like to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:50 PM
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I literally never hear women shut up about how gross fuckboys are and how gross it is that he slept with many women. Men date younger women to have dominance over them. Any other reason is utterly inconsistent and blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:49 PM
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I see women here wanting virgins more than men. And here it's easy because it's anonymous online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:58 PM
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There are some women who enjoy other women's pain and jealousy. That is not mentally normal at all. I was livid when I overheard a male friend of the boy I like say some girl liked him. (No idea who she is, didn't even hear her name). This boy liked me back and I'm sure had zero interest in this unknown girl, but I did not enjoy the fact my boy was wanted! and desirable! whatsoever. It upset me badly. I wasn't angry at her, I wasn't like grr I hate her or anything. I simply don't want him to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:11 AM
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At that point you can make up anything. What if the man forces the other woman to pretend that child is her husband's, so now him cheating is worse because he is the cause of paternity fraud? What if the man forces her into a traumatizing abortion she doesn't want? It's literally the same, but you can add factors that make either one worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:07 AM
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It can get worse if the man forces the other woman to kill her baby and keeps the whole thing hush. It's literally the same scenario, other things can happen to make one or the other worse, you can just make up that the husband was actually beating the wife and she cheated to escape his abuse. You can make stuff up but in reality these situations are exactly the same, with neither worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:03 AM
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Literal retard take lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:57 AM
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Only other fuckboys think men with a high body count is cool. He gets claps on the back from other men who think sleeping around a lot and raping drunk women is cool. Women are utterly repulsed by men with high body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:56 AM
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I hate this. Promiscous men are so dishonest they have to pretend it's something about, "Well, you think my dick is dirty, I showered..." No. No one is talking about physical dirt. It's emotionally disgusting to have a used dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:54 AM
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Pre-selection isn't real. People rate everything as more attractive when other people rate it attractive. From men to women to pottery to photos of flowers to absract art. Pre-selection is a cope for used men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:52 AM
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I see men say this all the time. It's men who want a partner with experience, NOT women. But that's pretty stupid you want another man's penis in your wife's mouth, just because you can't tell her what you like and take a week to practice. You sound like a very traumatized individual that you'd rather your wife just be with other men rather than having a wholesome bonding experience where you can take it slow the first three or four times (gasp!) you have oral sex. You will throw away your whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:50 AM
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I hate men like this so much. Literally scum of the earth. I won't even be friends with a man who has this nauseating attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:45 AM
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I've literally never met a woman in my entire life who doesn't want a virgin. A virgin man is the only one worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:42 AM
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Most women want virgin men. It's just hard to admit you want that when you're not a virgin yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:42 AM
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"Experienced" is a euphemism for having sex with other people. Only traumatized people WANT the person they love to have been with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:41 AM
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Women want a man who theoretically "would" be desired by women because he's a great guy, but he's actually not desired by women, so she has no issues with jealously and she can have him to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:39 AM
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>4.Women are more attracted to men with more experience. Stupid. Some weird women are. Most women are repulsed. >5.Men are less attracted to women with more experience. Men are the only ones saying they think it's hot when their girlfriend gets/got fucked by another guy. Not all men are like those, hopefully not even most. But saying women are the ones who want a partner with "experience" is straight projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:38 AM
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