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I don't think that's necessarily true. I understand, based on TRP why you'd say that. But I think there's a middle ground. A daughter respects a dad who gets up early, goes to work, stays healthy, is wise, and expects a lot out of her. That doesn't mean you have to spank. It all depends on the situation.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:01 AM
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Man, you are a bad father. The Bible also says not to judge, and redistribute land and eliminate debt. I don't think you're doing any of these sir. My son loves me. he trusts me. And he respects me and my message to him. He does whatever I ask him. Everything I said comes with specific caveats. Who is your kid? What do they consider valuable? How do they see you? My son sees me as a nonviolent but firm and loving role model. He wants me to be proud of him. He wants me to check his plate when he …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:59 AM
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Like I said man, I don't want anyone to think I am commenting their parenting. I don't presume to know you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:55 AM
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Well pain is a vague term. It depends on what your son or daughter deeply desires.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:54 AM
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I think I would respect my parents a lot more if they were reasonable instead of forceful. Reading the various posts, this is my main take away. Spank or not, people seem to agree that if their parents are reasonable, they understand.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:53 AM
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That's okay man. Like I said above, this isn't an attack on peoples' parents. Just a thought and theory. Context is always key.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:52 AM
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Like i said man, fuck me. I think it depends on the situation. Your dad sounds very composed when he did these things. But my dad and mom were demonstrations in the opposite. I suspect that in many cases parents react without considering context or circumstance. But this wasn't a post to call out your parents or anyone elses, only to offer a personal perspective and theory. I also would add that replacing spanking with another form of punishment, as I have done, can be effective. Not letting my …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:51 AM
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It really depends. If I say "I'm not mad" but really am, that's a bit passive aggressive. To be more specific it usually goes like this: After meltdown: "Daddy, can I have (X)?" "Do you remember the last thing you said to me?" pause. "yes. I said (Y)" "Yes you did. Why do you think you should not have said that?" Pause. If son is uncertain, I explain, wait for a nod of understanding and an apology. If he is certain, he'll say" that made you upset because _____. You're my dad, I love you, I am so…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:48 AM
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I just ran a half marathon and found out I am in the top 1% of Half Marathoners IN THE WORLD. Also--left my girlfriend of 6 years who has done nothing but shit on me. She slept with another guy immediately and tried to upset me. I shrugged and said I didn't care. She started crying because she realized she fucked up. Quite proud that I held frame and shut her down.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 12:57 PM
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Hey man, I don't post often--mostly I digest. But I just went through something eerily similar and I want to help you out. Been married a little over 2 years, things were great 1st 6 months of marriage, then wife became gradually more and more bitchy, whiney, controlling, disrespectful and rude. I was with my girlfriend for six years. First year and a half was good, then she did the same thing. I would also throw depression in there. So I understand that. She denies me my marriage right (sex) on…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:10 PM
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I think it depends on the person. My wife's mother has bipolar disorder, so she knows depression and anxiety first hand. When she met me and saw what I had grown up around, she understood. If a person understands, they can't make you feel better, but theyll understand it's not their job and will be happy to allow you to be yourself. That is the best thing people can do for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:42 AM
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A number of people in my family have bipolar disorder. I strongly recommend medication--that doesn't mean making excuses for your behavior of course. The goal is to recognize you have an issue that medication can stave off so you can live your life. Choosing not to get help and then saying "well I have bipolar disorder" is learned helplessness. You don't teach yourself to cope with bipolar disorder--I don't know a single person who has it that can do well without medication. It's a chemical imba…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:39 AM
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I haven't posted in a while, mostly reading. I have similar issues, and am currently talking to someone. I have PTSD issues and so one of the issues is a lack of human connection. PTSD can be one traumatic event but it can also be a series of events that stack up over time that do small damage over an extended period of time. For me it helps knowing this.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:36 AM
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Well that's positively awful. Its depressing.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 01:12 PM
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Yea I'm talking about that too--I was speaking to how teachersare prepared for teaching and how they are being told to stoo labeling and change the approach to teaching.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 01:12 PM
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I don't think they have to use sex necessarily but that's a part of it. I think women can change their mood to suit the room far better, even if it isn't about sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:39 AM
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It depends on the camera. I have two friends who are photographers. One uses a camera where he has to select everything and recognize what the focus of the picture is. The other does not. Recognizing that a particular gnarled branch on a tree needs to be the center piece of your art is a skill for sure. But shooting a senior portrait may not be.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:04 AM
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This is starting to change, atleast in the American system. At least at the university I went to, the emphasis was on student-oriented, diversified, discovery based learning. tailoring your lesson plan so that each student can learn on his or her own basis is starting to become more important. The labeling process is de-emphasized as well. But it really depends where you go to college and what state you work in.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:52 AM
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Women are far better at being socially manipulative. And getting what they want.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:36 AM
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Never once have I had a conversation with a woman that didn't bore me to tears, I've never had one accept an offer to do anything interesting except bar-hopping, women have never suprised or interested me, etc. That seems crazy to me. I agree that generally I think girls are pretty uninteresting, but I've met a number of them who have really intelligent things to say about history, politics, what they believe about human behavior or the meaning of life, and just being able to keep my interest in…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:32 AM
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I think this is where every person is in a different situation. I have great friends. One's a firefighter, ones an engineer, one's a nurse, and we talk about politics, history, science, all kinds of great things. I even found out they agree on most of the things on TRP (though they didnt know it exists). It just depends on your circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:22 AM
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Upvote. You made me laugh sir.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:54 PM
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Strange it looks to me like I didn't mention anything about feelings. I merely stated that I looked at the evidence and said I thought he was guilty.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:53 PM
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I agree. I mean for me I get that legally hes innovent until priven guilty. But at some point you have to look at the evidrnce put forth and make a conclusion. If you look at the evidence and conclude he's innocent then that's fine. But I look at the evidence and I think he's guilty. Its not suprising--people in power tend to think they can get away with things others can't. So while I agree with OP about commenters, cosby just isnt a good example.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:07 PM
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For me I enjoy time alone. I can grow and develop unencumbered. But I also believe in some form of God. So far I havent really felt that loneliness. I get excited about my opportunities and that carries me.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:59 AM
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Hey man I get it. You arent the first person to say that to me. It takes a sick mind like mine to enjoy it. But you are right cardio can balance lifting and make it look natural
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:55 AM
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I think its interesting that people think theyrr the first ones in history to feel this way. If people read a history book they'd know men like Abraham Lincoln suffered from depression and were perhaps suicidal. There were no pills to help you then so you had to face yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:53 AM
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That's great man. I worked at fedex for four years. I got in great shape there and it was essentially an all male environment. Men could be men. I miss it at times.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:50 AM
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Know your flaws. Addiction runs in my family so I have to be careful about what I put into my body.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:49 AM
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One of the best things that TRP promotes is sacrifice and hard work. Between that and theory I think that should take up most of readers time. A lot of the posts that pull from r/relationships feel like gossip to me. I get why they are there and its good to see how people think but sometimes its an overload.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:48 AM
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Its a great feeling and it gives you control over your life right? Chance and circumstance have less impact when you're up early and working hard.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:45 AM
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My older brother who I used to idolize is blue pill all the way. We obviously went through similar experiences, beta father, abusive mom, poverty and divorce, etc. Today, he sees a therapist and is on medication for depression. I have similar issues but because of TRP, I find that eating right, being diverse in my interests, and being physically active are better medication than any pill. Please don't think im encouraging everyone else to take this route--I can't speak for anyone else. I only kn…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:27 AM
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Its about knowing what you can excel at. Ive worked my way up to a 25 minute 4 mile. I can do 10 miles in just over an hour. At those levels the transformation to your body is undeniable. You wont gain muscle there's no doubt about that but you will get lean and strong.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:45 PM
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This isnt accurate. The trick with cardio and losing weight is really simple. I'm a runner and I've lost 25 pds in three months. You adjust the sort of carbs you eat. In order to be an effective runner you have to eat carbs so you arent necessarily wrong--plenty of people say they need carbs as a runner so they pig out. But for me, I eat a ton of bananas, whole wheat bread, no juice or soda, etc. Theres a proper way to do cardio. I've seen tons of people lose the weight. You have to do it right.…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:41 PM
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I understand what you're saying but every historian, myself included, understands nothing is guarenteed in history. The declaration argues that all men are born equal, but its important to remember that leading up to the civil war, men like stephen douglass, john calhoun, and robert barnwell rhett were convincing many people that the declaration needed to be thrown out and that lincoln was arguing it was at the core of the american promise. The declaration did not set slaves on a course to freed…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:05 PM
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Well it also allowed things like slavery. It really isnt as strongly in favor of individual freedom as it first appears.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:14 AM
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That depends on how you define the social contract. If you believe the social contract to be partially an agreement to balance individual with group freedom, I would argue that both liberalism and conservatism are failures. Niether strikes a good balance. To me, a former liberal, there are plenty of things that liberalism does right--a belief in racial equality, gay rights, and other issues. Those are beliefs that support creating individual freedom alongside group protection which is the basis …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:12 AM
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Well I never absolved the wife of responsibility but thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:06 PM
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That makes sense. There was a comment further down about how the red pill is about being good at being a man, not being a good man. I think that's the most fair minded comment I've seen. Because at least you aren't saying "im a good man, I just have sex with other peoples wives." Youre acknowledging "IDGAF" and moving on. Fine. Just don't piss on me and tell me it's rain haha. Again, I want to emphasize (because I don't want to be banned here) that I don't generally comment on those threads. I t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:23 PM
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Okay, so why don't we amorally analyze what happens when you have sex with someone else's wife. You have sex with said wife. Her husbands finds out. They get divorced, and lets say they have kids (because most married couples do). Well, the science shows that kids from divorced homes have a harder time in life. They are more prone to criminal activity and to take from society rather than contribute (which everyone here seems to hate). So by having sex with someone elses wife, you are creating a …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:14 PM
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I don't generally comment on threads where people talk about having sex with someone else's wife. I don't think it's right though and here's why: There's a lot of discussion on this board about how modern society is destroying the family and humanity's best qualities in general. This I agree with. So when you on one hand say "well modern society is all fucked up and we are paying the price" and then turn around and have sex with someone elses wife, you are in fact part of the problem. You factor…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:08 PM
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In regards to what a woman is supposed to be, I agree that women are not these things often anymore. But I also don't think its fair to sit here and criticize women for the way they nurture their children all the time. For example, the boxed crap is cheaper. Both parents have to work just to get by. Most people I know would rather stay home and raise their family. Theyd rather feed their kids healthy food. The difficulty is cost, time, finances. Now look, I agree that the situation has arisen bc…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:41 PM
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So true. Karen pointed out that men arent angry at women per se. Were angry at the bullshit lie we've been fed. Not even bc its a lie. If someone lies and said my team won the game and I find out they did not I shrug. What the fuck do I care? But if I build my life around this notion that if i work hard and am good to women they wont hurt me and I wont ever be alone, and that turns out to be a lie, that's dangerous man. That leads men to kill themselves. Me and my best friend had this exact conv…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:10 PM
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Its the same with hero worship of athletes. Tons of lazy dads teaching their sons that instead of their old man being their hero, worship lebron or brady. How did lebron become lebron? Yes he was a fan of jordan but he also wanted to be better. He didn't just watch, he competed.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:56 PM
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Ok thanks for the link. I'm just thinking off the top of my head.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:54 PM
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I think my larger point is there's a combination of cooperation and competition that creates advancements in human history. For example ending slavery in america is a combo of thousands of abolitionists fighting for decades to end it alongside the massive ambition of lincoln. You need both. Now we can agree that ancient tribes were competitive with eachother. But inside ones own tribe there was usually exyensive cooperation. Society today thinks that only through cooperation do we accomplish any…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:54 PM
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The stupidest thing about the comments is this: Whether you buy into the theory that society is competition or society is cooperation you still have to acknowledge that its when people chase their passions at the expense of everything else that society moves forward. In some cases this is done through competition (for example witnessing the greatness of lebron james picking his team up and carrying it, or seeing elon musk pushing the space program forward) in other instances this is done through…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:04 PM
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Your kids, especially your sons, need you. Dont give up guys. Stay strong.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 06:59 PM
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I don't think being progressive makes you weak bro. Thats a silly statement to make. What makes a person weak is fear. That cuts both ways. Fear of something different but also fear of things goimg backwards. Both sides of the aisle have their fears. Someone mentioned that they were soon going to be at a club and end up making out with someone only to find out he/she was once/is a man. Thats being afraid. I've never had that concern. Being progressive doesnt make you a pussy. I have friends who …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:50 PM
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Jerry seinfeld was on The Herd today and he asked why americans have to apologize so much any time they speak their minds. The shaming that goes on is outrageous. Any time a person says can i just have a minute to adjust to this new thing (for example people getting sex changes) everyone becomes offended. Chris rock refuses to perform comedy at college campuses. I think its sad. How do you become a better society where there's no freedom of thought or opinion? Moreover, the SJW police don't REAL…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:43 PM
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Well he said he's known since he was 5. That's a long time. If part of TRP is being able to be free to make your own decisiona, then him living as one sex when really he thinks he should be the other sex is the exact opposite of TRP. I don't want men who don't want to be men walking around. Let him be a woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:37 PM
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For me, happiness is something that comes when I'm not trying to be happy but instead doing something. If I go for a run, in the moment I'm not thinking am I happy? I'm thinking how to set a PR. When I finish I think to myself "that was great I'm happy." If I go to the water park with my family ill run around play with my son eat aome lunch. Hell run off and play and ill watch and realize I've got a good life and I'm happy. Happiness is like the squiggly line in your eye. The more you try to fol…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:02 PM
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Yea you're right that's a big part of it.But I think its possible to have a middle of the road kind of approach here. I subscribe to anarchist ideas. For me wealth redistribution is a capitalist and socialist policy. Its part of the problem with capitalism. It creates large wealth and monetary gaps which leads to calls for redistribution. When I say protections I mean the right to vote and equal treatment before the law not wealth redistribution.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 01:13 PM
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I can't speak for others but I try to like people for who they are. The problem when I meet women is so often theyre fake or r rude or ignorant. I really don't buy into the idea that women are less intelligent by design. I think they learn early on they can have whatever they want bc "vagina" and they never expand. My gf is a late bloomer. Shes losing weight, started running with me, etc. She is constantly improving, reading more, asking me questions about things she doesnt understand, exercisin…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:30 PM
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I'm currently watching it at work. I have two thoughts- 1) these women are incredibly narcissistic 2) as long as there is a market for this, it will exist. Thats capitalism. Theres no moral compass in a free market, just money. 3) here are these women who want freedom and complain about how men have treated them, while simultaneously doing whatever the men who are their bosses tell them to do and who are serious assholes. The cognitive dissidence is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:13 AM
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Hi Karen, I love your videos-they really offer a pick me up for men who are constantly bombarded as assholes or sperm donors. My question for you is this- what do you think the best thing I can do as a father to my beautiful son to shield him from so much of the hate and unfairness men face in today's society? How do I explain to him the way gender roles are set up today so unfairly against men?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:30 PM
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Yes, yes I am. I appreciate Sowell. He seems incredibly intelligent and well intentioned. But on this particular subject he and I will have to disagree. Slavery destroyed african american families. The evidence is clear on that. I agree that government policies are not always in the best interest of people, hence why I am an anarchist and made the comment about how people on both sides of the aisle do dsmaging things to minorities. That being said, the idea that you don't need some form of prote…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:21 AM
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The AA family survived 300 years of slavery, only to be dismantled in 50 years of liberal policies. Look man, you sound idiotic when you make statements like this. The African American family did not survive okay? Kids were sold off. Entire families wiped out. Young African American women raped. Thousands dying every year from exhaustion, disease, etc. It did not survive. It was systematically dismantled every day for profit. You know what sounds like a blue pill mentality? being uneducated. You…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:15 AM
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Im a history teacher. I've never had an issue with a history lesson and I introduce a lot of really controversial concepts in my lessons. I think you're on the whole right but it really depends on the teacher. I think the most critical issue is early education and how its handled. Higj school classes can be situated in a lot of different ways but early education is dominated by women and the clasrooms are frequently the same.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:42 PM
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I think its possible to not be a victim but also recognize how something has altered you. Ya know, I have a good life. But when I look at mg son its impossible to deny that not having my father around has made it difficult to make decisiond at times. I don't blame anyone but myself but I have to see where that comes from. I think a similar example would be to say that yea it seems pretty clear that the law is somewhat biased against african americans but that doesnt mean its right to join a gang…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:39 AM
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I think its cool that she is interested. Does it sound annoying? Fuck yea. But isn't part of what men want is to meet interesting women? Women who actually are intelligent or at least curious? I'd be annoyed but at least would think it's good that there's a woman who's interested in something good.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 01:35 AM
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This is what men have been doing since the dawn of humanity. This is what distinguishes men from women. Yeah, women can be great Lab drones, and do great research in a developed and mature field, they can be great CEOs of huge corporation, etc. But, they don't have the creativity, passion, drive, curiosity, to build something from scratch just for the sake of doing it; just for the challenge of it. I disagree with this. I've met a lot of creative, passionate women who are curious and driven. Do …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 01:29 AM
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Just a note on the guy who died from running a marathon. I'ma runner log about 50-60 miles a week. Weird things can happen to your body at that level of exertion. People do die. Its its incredibly rare but usually a result of not training properly. Just bc youre fit in one area does not mean you're fit everywhere. Anyway, just a thought. For the guys on here who lift a lot and get the urge to run a marathon train a lot please read up on training procedures. The extra muscle causes you to exert m…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:37 PM
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Be an excellent father, help young inner city kids avoid the cycle of poverty and criminality, get my weight down to 135 pds (I'm a runner) and my half marathon time under 80 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 10:50 PM
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I do think fitness means different things to different people. I don't enjoy lifting. I enjoy running. Anyone who's ever done yasso 800s in 90 degree weather or 20 miles on a hilly backroad on a saturday morning knows that running is definitely painful and sacrificial. I love it man.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 01:49 PM
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Yes. Im a runner and I've basically played dread game with her--you don't have to lose the weight but understand I am free to go and find a better mate. It's not just about looking good, which is why some girls get so offended at these ads. Go ask a 60 year old obese woman how her knees feel, or how easy a time she has getting out of bed. For me, its about more than attractiveness. Its about not having to take care of her every day after the age of 45. I think a lot of women miss that considerat…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 01:33 PM
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I agree. and I don't want to absolve heavier people of their responsibility either. In the case of women, I think if they spent less time on their phones and gossiping, they would probably figure out what it is they want out of life, which would almost certainly involve being fit. I've never met someone who had their shit together and decided they wanted to be obese.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 01:27 PM
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I just think there's such a weird message out there for obese folks. My gf is heavier and we talk a lot about. She gets conflicting messages. Think about it--one hand you see loads of studies and you hear from doctors and you see ads about how being skinny is healthy and how its the proper physique for a human being. But then, most of your friends are atleast slightly heavy, and you see these movements to accept obesity and to "be yourself." If you don't have a singular focus on what you want fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:27 PM
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Lol we can agree on that sir! But I mean the campaign is stupid in the first place. The idea that a company as big as bud is saying its okay to rape someone is insane. Its a damn pacman commercial.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:01 PM
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This is insane. You know who doesnt complain about this? The women at the race circuit I run every week. Know why? Bc they know its not an unrealistic model. Theyre living in that body every day. It pisses me the fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:59 PM
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I agree with you mostly but I disagree about going to the bar. I think a woman should be able to go to a bar without fear of getting raped. That seems a bit absurd. Its what she does while at the bar thats the problem. Leaves her drink unattended, tries to drink with her guy friends even though she's smaller, I think those decisions are the stupid ones. But not going to the bar at all? Eh, that's a bit out there. When you start limiting peoples freedom of movement youve lost me.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:29 PM
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If youve looked at my posts youll see I'm in a LTR. I consider her SMV lower than mine--but sex is good, she trusts my judgment and she doesnt cheat, shes a goos mother and a good lover. She works a thankless job helping the disabled, so shes got a good heart. But I wish she was more active and that she wasnt on FB all the time. But its a bit of a tradeoff. I've seen what higher SMV women are like, cheating or constantly ridiculing their men. Overall I feel like I've got a pretty sweet deal.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:11 PM
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I think what you're looking for here is "innocent until proven guilty." Its just a bit ridiculous to assume that every rape claim is false.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:29 PM
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He has the woman he wanted in that she's fucking him again. One of the things that happens for men in LTRs after they swallow the pill is that they stop seeking approval and romance from their SO's and instead look for a companion and someone to have a steady sex life with--a first mate as I've seen it termed. I don't need my girlfriend around all the time, just when I want to make love to her or have a companion. My running, my job, most of my life is my own and we each do our own thing. But we…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:51 PM
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You're doing it wrong. Find a local race that's cheap (up here we have three or four races that cost 5 bucks and run weekly) and compete against other people. You wanna test your manhood, race against other men. Or better yet, pick a backroad on a warm saturday morning and run further than you thought you could. The other day I mapped out a 13 miler. Thought I had the route planned but I took a wrong turn and came out in a different state. At that point I could give up or keep goimg javing no id…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:43 PM
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Ha some of the comments on there are truly incredible. People are having a happy, sexual relationship. Woman has the man she wanted, man has the woman he wanted, and people are calling it abuse. Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:49 AM
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For sure. But I wouldn't cheat. And usually ill talk to a girl for five minutes realize she's boring and not worth it anyway and that's it. I mean every guy gets that urge. But as a father and a man it would be wrong for me to act on it. I'm not a slave to my cravings.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:42 PM
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Exactly. I appreciate what I have right now at this moment. But I recognize that any moment it could change because AWALT and if that happens i will be fine. It doesnt mean I can't enjoy what I have right now at this moment.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:39 PM
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Haha okay. I wouldn't be heart broken if she left. If she leaves sshe wasnt worth it. If she stays she is. Its as simple as that. Obviously we don't know eachother but if we did you would kbow that I run the house. As for game you're right about that of course I dont have that I don't practice. But just because I appreciate it when I have a good thing doesnt mean I've somehow lost frame or that I've pedastalized my girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:37 PM
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Im not married but I have been in a LTR for 5 years. The reason I am with her is because not all relationships are like the ones you describe above. Five years in we still have sex all the time I get bjs whenever I want, we playfight and have fun together. We go to bars together and take vacations together. She cooks and givea me backrubs and I provide and help her accomplish her goals. Weve built a life together. Weve buried relatives together, had a kid together and bonded in a meaningful way …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 12:09 PM
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Fair point sir! Nothing to argue here.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:13 PM
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That's the difference between a wan is wife material and one who isnt. A wife builds her man up and supports him. My girlfriend loves when I run a marathon or get another job that pays more or succeed at some goal. She understands I'm not going to branch swing. I may leave or I may stay but I don't improve for anyone but myself and she loves it. My mom on the other hand puts her boyfriend down. She makes fun of him and laughs when he complains about a lack of respect. Its a shitty place to be.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:07 PM
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You do know not all Muslims want the same thing right?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:54 PM
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There's a female mod for r/askmen? Holy fucking shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:35 PM
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It is. Everyone who's ever done anything has gone through it. You have everything you need to succeed inside of you. So just ignore the voice in your head that says you aren't ready and do it. Imagine if steve jobs or george washington or jordan had given into their fears? The world was built by people no smarter than you. Never forget that.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:13 PM
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Its really sad that people don't get that separate spheres doesnt mean unequal. Its just a division of labor. It doesnt mean that women havepto be treated as less. Its just a way to have a functioning household.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:10 PM
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My girlfriend and I go out every weekend. Whether it be to get drinks or hang with friends we go out every weekend. During the week we try to catch a movie. We leave my son with a grandparent and take a couple hours off. We also work out together. My son is the most well developes and adjusted of his generation our family (he has several cousins all the same age) one cousin can't be away from his parents, one cousin is a princess and another cousin doesnt talk despite being three and not having …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:08 PM
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Climate change isn't just about a change in global temperatures. Its about a change in the environment as well. If you frequent R/science you can find any number of studies and reports that show that climate change is happening and that humans contribute to it. As for being emotional i don't see how my response was emotional at all. I simply said I won't vote republican because I disagree with what they say on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:02 PM
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Oh I completely agree. Eisenhower (mostly, outside Iran) was an amazing example of this. I agree the modern republican is an aberration. Lincolns considered our greatest president and he was a republican. Id throw eisenhower up there as well. So I don't disagree with you there. Its unfortunate that republicans have lost their way so badly on a whole host of issues. I remember back in 2012 when ron paul or gary johnson would say we need to essentially demilitarize and end all these wars on (blank…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:28 AM
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That's a fair point on power systems but I've seen many republicans stand in front of people and say it plain and simple isnt happening. I think somewhere in there there's a middle ground. I don't want the government to be in charge of the solution but I also don't like what republicans often say on the issue.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:23 AM
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Christian anarchist here. Glad to see a friendly face haha!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:08 PM
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I actually don't think there's a huge difference. I'm an anarchist and agree with libertarians on virtually everything other than capitalism.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:06 PM
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I'm way to the left even though I believe in the red pill. Not everyone on here leans right though I suspect I'm in the minority.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:02 PM
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I don't trust capitalism. Never have and never will. I think people are too ignorant and greedy to live in a system where consumers have to be aware and intelligent and bussinesses have to have a sense of decency and compassion. So that hasn't changed for me. However I also find my distrust of power systems has grown because of the red pill. I don't trust the government on most issues but because I don't trust capitalism I have trended closer to anarchism than say, libertarianism. As for hillary…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:59 PM
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Ok. All that sounds good. Online forums can be tough to convey points. Personally on the voting issue question I don't disagree that most people are ignorant but I also think the system is made to be complicated so people can't understand it. The war on drugs is a great example of course. I think if you could find a way to have a society where people could have equal opportunity without guarenteed equal outcome that would be ideal. Youd have the same rights regardless of who you are. In terms of…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:36 PM
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Well we will have to agree to disagree. There are hundreds of examples of non western civilizations rising up and fighting dor their rights. Thats verifiable fact not opinion.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:28 PM
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Thats fine but the dude ignores the reasons other cultures don't have that cultural enlightenment. We destroyed native american culture, which in numerous instances was highly egalitarian and democratic. We destroyed Africa and Asia in the 19th century, making it impossible for them to govern themselves. Theyre still dealing with that. Eisenhower and Iran in the 1950s. Reagan and afghanistan in the 1980s. The list is endless. Whenever a people do attempt to becomr enlightened and institute a wes…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 01:23 PM
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I think you're wrong about it being a good system. If we are talking purely about gender roles maybe. Bit the idea that life was better for blacks or women in the 1880s or even 1950s simply isnt true. You had lynch mobs, Jim Crow. It was frowned upon for a woman to work. Its fine if you want a woman who stays at home but for society to frown upon it is a bit fucked up. Going back further you had slavery, no rights for women essentially at all, and lower class workers who also had no rights. My g…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 01:12 PM
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So last night I come home and my son is full of energy. My gf is yelling at him like she tends to do bc she thinks he should sit quietly despite being a 3 year old boy. So I get an idea. Lets take him to the local mcdonalds where I can chase him around and he can be a boy. We eat dinner at home and then head out. I buy her and I ice cream cones and she looks at me with a disgusting look and says "I wanted in a bowl." Here I am, coming up with something for us to do rather than sit at home, it re…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:56 AM
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I think there are multiple ways to be physically fit. I do lift but I'm mostly a runner, log about 50 miles a week. I think being physically fit is more important than lifting. Do what makes your body feel best. For me its running.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:03 PM
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Is there a study on how often false sexual assault accusations occur?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:51 PM
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Best part of this whole video--theyre talking about the 60 day rule and the woman goes "yes ill hold you up but forever?! " and my thoughts are "well there you. Women are so clueless that they don't understand that part of commitment is forever.Not until 'well I dont feel like it.'" Beware guys.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:11 PM
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I agree. I dont begrudge my mom she just doesnt know.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:53 AM
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Its confirmed. I was there for it. He did it until I was 9 and my parents split. He never touched me, but I was there for all the awfulness.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 05:38 PM
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Thanks man. Ill be honest. Not a ton of experience in plates and gaming. I didn't have time and had to make tough choices so this is the advice I can offer.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:48 AM
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There have been plenty of studies showing that a child coming from a two parent household has higher rates of success. The fact is, in my case my dad disappeared so it was just my mom saying how "men can't be trusted, life is horrible, things happen to you not for you" etc. The real mindfuck came when I turned 18 and my mom said I couldn't blame anyone but myself for my problems. Shes right of course, but she had spent the last decade saying the total opposite. Shit was beyond messed up.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:47 AM
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In this case I remember it. I was there. He is what he is. But she wasnt perfect. Wouldnt sleep with him but she wouldnt let him even masturbate. Shed follow him around and make aure he didn't. And cheated on him. But still, as bad as that is I can't say "well I understand why you beat her, raped her etc."
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:42 AM
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Story: I was in your boat until I became a teacher. Most days, it's incredibly painful. It's hard and tough and a grind. The kids don't always listen and I may not always reach them. But I love it. I do something every day that matters. I don't ever wonder if I'll be bored. Every day is new. So here's the thing: You have to commit. You have to know what matters to you and commit to it. There may be doubt and a period where it doesn't feel perfect. But you have to stay committed. Even people who …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:57 PM
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I would argue its worse in other countries in the West.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:35 PM
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I listen to Colin every day at work. I usually split 50/50 on what he has to say. I think he's intelligent but also incredibly rude and arrogant at times. A little bit later a caller said that Notre Dame did help the ratings (which is somewhat true) and Colin accused him of yelling (when he wasnt) and hung up on him. He's very narrow in terms of what he considers intelligent discourse. That said, people just hate Kentucky. I wasn't on the Kentucky bandwagon before this year, but watching perfect…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:34 PM
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Hey man, I can really relate. I was raised by a single mom and have always sought validation from the outside. More recently its gotten difficult to deal with bc as you get older external validation becomes difficult to find. I've always skated by on my talent and that was enough. But I've found after I got into my mid 20s, there other people doing the same thing I was doing. Whatever way I cut it, external validation or internal, I couldn't rely on talent alone. And then I realized that others …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:02 PM
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Young dad with a 3 yr old son. He's all boy. Walks around using plastic toy golf clubs as guns. I've taught him to be tough (I don't run to him when he falls, he looks to see my reaction--I give him the thumbs up, he brushes himself off) and how to wrestle and play. I know he's gunna get in teouble when he starta preschool in may. All you can do is be the best man you can be. As long as you don't disappear from his life, hell be okay.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 11:02 PM
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Came here to say this. Studies have been done showing that african americans, especially men, are targeted as criminals. Thats a fact. Even when they commit the same amount of crime as a white person they recieve unduly harsh sentence. Crack vs cocaine is a great example. I teach in an inner city school. The fact is these kids face disadvantages white suburban kids dont, much of it race and income related. Here in western mass, we have a heroine epidemic. Guess where it is? Suburbs. Not in the c…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:59 PM
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I disagree. You may be right, but in my individual experience people don't change that much. I've never met a person who was deep, funny or intelligent and changed. People who have good traits try to keep them. Atleast that's what I've seen.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:50 AM
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Thank you for this. Its a great perspective. I think the reason I don't trust women and never did partially is that I don't have a great relationship with my own mom. That being said the egalitarian question still troubles me--I deal with it constantly. Its good to see some logic challenging that. I used to plate in my LTR when we first dated and everyone always told me I'm an asshole, except my gf. She said she loved me and adored me and that's why it hurt her. Then one day I found out she was …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 07:19 PM
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Great post. If you want to be in control of your life, you have to decide what is right for you as a man and a leader. Just because a large contingent of young men see fit to spend their time one way doesn't mean everyone should. The way I see it, marriages get a 50/50 split. the odds are better if both people have bachelors degrees. As someone who has a son and a girlfriend, I can honestly say that being a single dude having sex with different random girls has never been what I enjoy. For me, h…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:24 PM
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I disagree. My girlfriend and I have a son together. She has no interest in marriage. She allows me freedom to do as I please bc she knows I'm a good provider. Generally I think the proper kind of relationship nowadays is one where the woman tells the hamster in her to shut up and encouragea her SO to do what he wants so long as he doesnt stop providing. In exchange the woman is encouraged to go out and do things to improve herself and she doesn't have to do all the housework on her own. The day…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:59 PM
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I actually have a degree in education and am a history teacher. So I have the same training as any other teacher to figure out; if I was just a parent it'd be different. I will take into consideration whatever the teacher says, so thank you for your advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 01:35 AM
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I am sorry for your daughter's struggle. I hope she draws strength from you. The fight against cancer is never over until its over. I remember a few years ago a friend lost his mom. She was a drug addict and a deadbeat. Terrible mother. So we're at the wake and they're playing "I Hope You Dance" and all her sisters and relatives are crying. I looked around and started laughing. My friend who lost his mom glared at me and asked what was so funny. So I said "your aunt just stood up there and lied …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:38 PM
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I have a three year old who starts preschool in May. One of the things I've already told my girlfriend is that I know they're gunna say he has ADD or ADHD. He loves to play drums with his hands, wrestle, and play shooting games. He's boy all the way. When the teacher says he has ADD or ADHD Im going to tell her Im not putting him on any fucking medication. He's fine, just a boy. If she doesn't like it we can take our money elsewhere. If he hits another kids, which I forbid, put him in time out, …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:26 PM
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I think there's a lot of great points but I lean far left on most issues and I'm not a particular fan of capitalism. I think a system that rewards football stars millions of dollars while paying teachers so little is probably not the best system in the world. I think it can work in certain instances but if you really want a good system that works you need to recognize certain kinds of labor that matter such as child rearing. I think it works in the movie industry but when the bottom line is prof…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:39 PM
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What truly amazes me is how so many people can't find inspiration to do anything just because they want it for themselves intrinsically. The woman on this post says that she's tired so screw it. Really? You don't want to achieve amazing things just so you can say you lived up to your full potential? It's a sad, sad state of affairs.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:08 PM
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I don't understand why fat shaming is so bad. It's not even about how attractive a person is. Overweight people are a burden. It's not like poverty which can happen to anyone. Just eat better and exercise. It's that simple. Do you want to die a painful, slow death, suffocating under your own fat? More to the point, men and women for millennia have shown that when we work our minds and bodies, we are basically gods. We can chisel our bodies and hone our minds and become amazing beings. So why wou…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:49 PM
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I know everyone here understands what you mean when you say loser, but I think it's important to give a definition. To me, a "loser" in the context you are using it doesn't mean a bum necessarily, although it obviously covers that. It's a cover-all term for guys who may in fact, be really funny, smart, nice guys, but who are perceived as weak or worthless to the girl(s) they might be chasing. Case in point: a younger me chased a girl I loved with all my heart. She was dating a guy who raped her …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:41 PM
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can confirm. after my son was born, I was in a Wal-Mart bathroom changing him, and he was crying like babies so often do. Wal-Mart sends an associate in to make sure I am not hurting my own child. Had I been a woman, I doubt this would have been the case.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:33 PM
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I know this isnt an answer for your question but as a father I was really stunned by how the hospital treated me like I was just a sperm donor. It was my son too. just be prepared for that.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:42 PM
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"An object in motion tends to stay in motion." I run a lot. So what I find is that there's a lot of pain in running and exercise in general. If I go to to the gym to lift, the first three workouts are fine. The next three are pretty brutal. Around # 6 I think about going home. Then, I hit 7, 8, 9, and find that I've got power for days. Once you start the motion, either way, it's tough to stop. So even when I am sick, I suck it up and keep going. Usually Eric Thomas's voice is echoing in my head:…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:09 AM
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Haha I appreciate the advice but she's actually pretty good in bed. Even if she's tired she'll always have sex. the weight issue isn't permanent. Her parents never taught her about physical fitness so I'm working on it with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:05 AM
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This girl wasnt thin. She had a psychological problem plain and simple. Encouraging people to do things that we know is poisonous and deadly to their bodies is a pretty horrible thing to say. My gf is overweight and feels exhausted, gets sick more often and for longer periods and her energy starts to wane around 8:30 pm. This shit pisses me off.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:36 PM
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I've been a runner for about ten years. Theres been countless days out on the road where its mile ten and I'm exhausted and it hurts. Its cold my knee is sore I feel heavy. Then race day comes and Im strong and fast and awesome. Long periods of suck and sweet, sweet moments of excellence.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:53 PM
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It was about 4 most days. A lot of 5 hour energy and standing up to stay awake.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:19 PM
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I've actually said all this to her. It's what caused the fight.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:42 AM
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Fair enough. I feel like she probably drew a line somewhere, just can't remember when.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:42 AM
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Thanks man. This is really advice. I think youre right that I will have to deal with the same shit in a different relationship. I don't mind that aspect. But it has to come with a worth while reward you know? I don't believe in the "no LTR" idea that some men follow on here, but I understand it. But that also means I have to be willing to deal with the shit that comes with relationships and I am okay with that. But I want to know the battle is worth the reward. Soldiers in WW1 wasted their lives…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:41 AM
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No common law marriage where I live either, thank God.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:34 AM
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You shouldn't be scared of having children. My son is the best thing in my life. He's amazing. I've accomplished the whole goal of life-creating more life. He's beautiful and smart and kind and he'll be a better man than I. I don't regret it at all.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:33 AM
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I mean more like the social mores of being in a relationship. Its generally assumed when you enter a relationship its monogomous.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:16 PM
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I used to blame my gf for my problems until I realized I'm the captain of my life and all my decisions are my own. Its so easy to blame someone else. I don't blame her for how things turned out. I should have known better from the start.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:58 PM
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You don't think I should feel obligated under the rules of the relationship?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:56 PM
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Thanks man. I just contacted the best custody lawyer in the area and made the consultation for tuesday. Luckily we never got married.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:26 PM
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I was distant but we still had sex. I was plating at the time (though I didn't call it that at the time). And she sort of knew it. Its hard to say tbh.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:24 PM
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I'm actually not married. I appreciate the advice!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:23 PM
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Thanks man. I said that last night. Even left for the night. Five minutes and she called me crying to come home. Said ahed change.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:53 PM
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Got a kid and a house lol. I was beta all the way man.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:52 PM
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well you should throw education in there. You can't teach without a degree. I think you maybe should be able to, but right now you need a degree.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:42 PM
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This. Been in a LTR for 5 years. Just been dealing with it for 3 years. When I first met her she said she loved working out and had goals. Five years later, shes overweight and has no direction in life. Never liked working out. She just said what she said to win me over. If I had established a rule saying if she's not as active as me she's not worth it, things would be oh so different now.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:38 PM
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Yea theres always beer in the fridge haha.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:48 AM
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It is right? Here's a guy who was born in a house with only three walls and a blanket, backwoods hick who self educated himself, never went to college, was raised in a racist, slave infested environment, and grew up to be a wildly successful lawyer, president, and eventually free the slaves and save the entire country. And then he became a legend by being struck down in his moment of triumph. He also suffered from severe depression and once said as a young man "I would be satisfied to die if I h…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:00 AM
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There's a number of really good books on Lincoln. This one is Team of Rivals, but you've also got Trial of Fire and Giants: the parallel lives of Lincoln and Douglass. All classics.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:48 AM
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I don't disagree, but it does become an issue when you are planning on being together for 50 years you know? Im in a LTR with a kid (might have discovered TRP a little too late) whom I adore and cherish and can't leave now, so I put up with this stuff. I love her but good God.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:41 PM
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Yea. it sucks. Wind out of your sails.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:40 PM
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Great point. Whoever wins the woman vote next election wins the presidency. He's just pandering.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:40 PM
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Its awful. I love my girlfriend but I don't care that her boss is a bitch. Not even an ounce. Because you know what? Her boss is just doing her job. I don't care that you and a coworker don't get along. Not everyone meshes. So fucking what? I work with an all female staff. Imagine that for a second. Never comes up though, because it doesn't concern her. "hey hun, check out this really amazing history book I'm reading!" "what's it about?" "Well it's about how Lincoln was racist but in spite of th…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:33 PM
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They do when you aren't used to seeing them. I don't care, mybpoint was that after you first start following the sub there's an adjustment period.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:56 PM
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I'm not a troll I'm just not used to seeing some of the words used on here. How often do words like "cunt" or "slutbag" get used in every day life? I'm pretty sure I'm not the first guy who's been surprised by it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:55 PM
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Jesus I just went over to SRS because I've never heard of it. WTF.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:52 PM
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I'm not going to give a history breakdown about the ways in which women were historically oppressed or are still being oppressed in certain countries. It really doesn't matter in the context of OP's comments. What I will say is that I disagree with you that historically men are more oppressed than women. I don't think that's true, and I could cite thousands of papers, books, and first-person accounts how this is the case. If we are talking strictly in America, (since what happened in Middle Age …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:00 PM
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Ok that makes more sense. the way I read it was that you were saying that women have never been oppressed and that conflicts don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:05 PM
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Some of the stuff on there is really bad advice. For example, not going to college. Too many people are buying into that. Yes there are a lot of stupid professors out there. The correct advice is: go to college, but don't pick your professors brains. Self teach. You go to college so you can hold that piece of paper in peoples faces and say "hire me." If you went to college expecting your professors to impart their wisdom, you did it wrong. Go to college, self-teach yourself, and be done with it.…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:50 PM
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Isn't one of the things everyone says on here is never marry someone who makes less than you? Pretty sure most traditional men want a woman who is an equal so she can't take him for all he's worth.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:40 PM
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Yup. if a man wants to be a stay at home dad, he loses all credibility. It's bullshit too, because some men legitimately want to be close to their kids and be great dads and it's always been a life goal. For me, I've found that if I ever I decide to walk out on my girlfriend, that means I don't love my son. But if I ever wanted to quit my horrible day job and be a stay at home dad, Im a terrible provider. So the only solution left to most men is the aloof, angry, half drunken, fat man child that…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:36 PM
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this comment really hit home. I can't speak for anyone else, but I hate, HATE dumb women. If I talk to you, and in the first 30 seconds you get that glazed look in your eyes or if I say something intelligent and you just laugh and say "totally" or something like that, have a nice life. Im not dealing with it. I want a woman who can cook, sure, but I don't want an idiot. An idiot will be a sap on your resources and your goals. Don't date idiots.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:32 PM
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As a historian, you aren't entirely wrong but you aren't entirelyright either. There are real conflicts between groups of people which is why some form of socialism exists in all western societies. For example if you just go back and look at what was happening in the late 19th and early 20th century its pretty plain to see that there was major class strife going on. In the case of feminism, they are right to say that women were at times left out (for example not having the right to vote) and tho…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:18 PM
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one of my best friends is a woman. It's telling that all her friends are guys. These rules don't apply to her. She's always been one of the guys. Goes to the gym every day, works two jobs, gives me free health exams (shes a nurse) and has almost never asked me for anything, and always is willing to hang out. But again, NONE OF HER FRIENDS ARE GIRLS.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 06:17 PM
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I'm in a LTR (5 years) and have a kid and a house, though we aren't married. But we might as well be. So here's the thing, we've been sort of traditional from the get go. When I went on my first date with her, we were at dinner, and I told her outright I'm not buyng you dinner, so we are clear. She looked surprised but said okay. I told her at every big life decision that she needed to do certain things (get her license, get a job, get a better job, get a house) etc. So I guided her to make the …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 06:12 PM
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I think a woman can have a career. I am not sure about how a career affects women psychologically. I think the problem comes in when a woman is career oriented to the point that, if you have kids, there's no parents around. Men don't get the same leeway at work that women do, so if women don't take advantage of it, who is there to raise the child? Strictly for me, my girlfriend loves that I am the bread winner. She works as well, and she needs to work, but her job is less stressful and she spend…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:09 AM
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Anyone else notice how the girl's dad was holding his son-in-law's hand? The dad totally gets it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:39 PM
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There are options. When I told my gf I didn't want to get married she understood. She didn't trust herself not to take me for all I'm worth if we got divorced. She asked if we vould atleast have a wedding if nothing else but not get legally married. We make the same amount of money and her family would buy the dress and pay for some other things so the whole "man pays for wedding" doesnt apply here. So after doing some research I found that where I live there's no recognition of marriage without…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:34 PM
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I like the explanation below, but I also have other thoughts about it. I've been lurking on here for a while now, and this is my first comment. A buddy of mine and I were discussing The Red Pill on Saturday, and he said something to me that's very telling: half the time women don't even realize what they're doing because theyre also conditioned to think of themselves the way most men see them. Further proof: one of my best friends is a woman and whenever she shit tests her boyfriend or starts fr…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 09:02 PM
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