meetinnovatorsadrian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I paid for the first date - my date became upset Thanks for the correction. And, agreed.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/07/20 05:03 PM
1	I paid for the first date - my date became upset Ah thanks	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/20 05:14 PM
2	I paid for the first date - my date became upset I think you have to make it up to him, not the other way around. :) There's a good reading list here.. I'd suggest just reading these books and going on more dates so you get more practice in real life. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/5bp1p9/the_unofficial_rpw_reading_list/ But I’ll follow your advice and let me initiate. Maybe a freudian slip, but please do let him initiate. And only follow his lead if he's worth it.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/20 11:01 PM
4	I paid for the first date - my date became upset You were on OLD, which is a traditional dating site, ie non feminist: https://oldstyledating.co.uk/about/ On the date, you took the lead and paid the bill, a sign of disrespect for his leadership. You'd like to take the lead again and suggest where he can take you to dinner? If you want to take the lead and be dominant, just date people on tinder or guys you meet in bars. If you want to be on a traditional dating site and not waste peoples time, then study the side bar and learn to be really fem…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/20 09:44 PM
9	Being soft-spoken in the workplace/school? A lot of this is your environment and how you fit into that, causing you to think about yourself in a certain way. I think Janice is funny, loyal and honest even if she does have a dorky laugh.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/19 08:12 PM
8	Dealing with discouragement from a rad-fem mother One of the most insightful comments I've seen on reddit	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/19 08:24 PM
1	FR: Losing My Religion Pretty much all our ideologies are falling apart at this point. All contain various parts of the truth so its hard to tell which are right. Here's one other link which might be worth considering as you figure things out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WwAQqWUkpI	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/06/19 05:55 PM
2	FR: Losing My Religion The red pill by itself can turn into a black pill (ie very negative). Before you throw everything away, learn about Rooshv, one of the most famous red pill guys in the manosphere who has now become a christian https://www.thedailybeast.com/daryush-valizadeh-the-pick-up-artist-known-as-roosh-says-he-has-found-god https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-73256.html https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-72750.html	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/06/19 05:40 PM
1	Am I missing something or AWALT? Thanks for this post. I was missing this point myself.	/r/askMRP	03/06/19 08:14 PM
1	What is a man's mission? Maybe reading "Man's Search for Meaning" will help you find the right mission for you. https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=victor+frankl&qid=1558638288&s=gateway&sr=8-3	/r/askMRP	23/05/19 07:05 PM
2	[FR] My Main Event I disagree. Endlessly spinning plates as a "high SMV man" gets boring. I actually had this conversation with Mystery and he agreed. I think the ultimate goal is to get a great partner, build a family, and live happily ever after.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/05/19 11:18 PM
2	[FR] My Main Event I think this is too complicated. If I were to summarize MRP, I'd focus on: a) enforcing frame, especially NMMNG b) plates, for understanding abundance and selecting a compatible woman for you. A friend of mine (43M, 40F) had his GF relationship in a total mess for months. Finally I sat down with him and told about about MRP. He refused to visit the forums or read the book. Instead he went Rambo, and had a main event. His girl said she was moving out. Then she suddenly changed her mind, and now t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/05/19 11:01 PM
1	[FR] My Main Event "hysterical bonding" is as real as "toxic masculinity". I think active vs passive dread can depend on your relationship. Active dread works fine for me. Guys here have a lot on the line, dealing with 20+ year marriages and kids, so I think parts of MRP may be a little over-cautious. But in dealing with plates its no big deal. And as far as I can tell, once you establish frame at the beginning, with a little maintenance, it stays that way. I agree about comfort.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/05/19 12:53 AM
0	[FR] My Main Event According to MRP gospel, it certainly seems you are correct. However I think many of these things are being overcomplicated here. OP asserted himself, and now the dynamics of the relationship are changing. If she comes to resent active dread, then maybe it just wasn't going to work out anyway and OP saved himself 2 years of MRP strategizing.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/05/19 02:36 PM
-4	[FR] My Main Event Aside from really clarifying his awareness of his SMV, he significantly pushed the boundaries on their sexual relationship and it worked. As long as she came out with a big smile on her face, I think its a win-win for everyone.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/05/19 11:55 PM
1	[FR] My Main Event He's applying dread and its working	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/05/19 11:36 PM
1	Difference between nuclear dread game and abuse in a 95% one sided +20 year marriage. Of course men can take things too far, just like women are taking things too far overall. Your friend may not be very alpha in a modern feminist divorce court. The system has more than enough tools for dealing with him if his wife wants it to stop.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/04/19 07:02 PM
2	Losing frame with my mother I've half read WISNIFG and will be finishing it soon, and will practice the material. I think your approach is much better. I'm surprised this issue isn't discussed more here and in other subreddits - raisedbynarcissists has 382k subscribers, here we have under 7k. I guess everyone prefers victimhood today.	/r/askMRP	19/03/19 11:19 PM
1	Losing frame with my mother Thanks a lot for this. I think you should consider posting more about this topic. The raisedbynarcissists subreddit mostly ends up labelling family negatively and generally not repairing relationships. You have much better insight.	/r/askMRP	19/03/19 05:07 PM
1	Losing frame with my mother How is your relationship with your family now? Are you still low contact or have things been resolved?	/r/askMRP	19/03/19 05:08 AM
13	Losing frame with my mother There's a huge subreddit for dealing with difficult parents here: https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/ One answer is to go low contact or no-contact for a while. Then it is easier to come back and establish a strong frame, think of this as a parents version of dread game. If you aren't able to establish long term healthy boundaries with your parents it may be better not to re-establish contact.	/r/askMRP	18/03/19 10:56 PM
3	Older couple - newly red pill need advice Send your husband over to married red pill, they have a process for working through the anger stage (its called "going rambo"), and fixing everything from the male side. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/ Its absolutely fixable, but he has to be willing to do the work. If he does, I'm sure you'll be fine.	/r/RedPillWives	23/01/19 03:45 AM
24	Being ghosted after more than a year and struggling If you're on the spectrum, you have a hard time understanding intentions. That might be why you want to speak to him one last time. https://consumer.healthday.com/cognitive-health-information-26/autism-news-51/adults-with-autism-may-not-understand-others-intentions-649474.html However by his actions he has made his intentions clear: he's not interested. Its time to move on.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/19 06:40 PM