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A post like this isn’t helping
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:16 AM
1

You’re just deflecting. Pointing out other people’s issues so you don’t have to deal with your own shit. 16 year olds and low brain cell people are everywhere. Ignore them.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 02:37 AM
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No. I can tell from experience that people will see a change. I’ve been told that my exes sisters could tell I’d changed. Just remember though, these people will mostly want you to stay beta because people fear change and they knew how to deal with you. That’s why you hear “Go out and meet new women” so much. The new girls have no knowledge of the old you.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:27 AM
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How many girls do you see, with friends and family, still on their phones? All of them. She either isn’t that interested, is with her better option and/or she doesn’t want them to see you blowing up her phone.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:46 AM
2

Society these days
/r/askTRP20/05/19 06:38 AM
0

“K. You should see my (user input) collection.”
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:38 AM
20

Yeah, don’t be the dog, drooling with obvious excitement just because they looked in your direction. Side note, dogs are awesome companions.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 08:21 AM
1

A joke is a joke so if you find it funny, you’re all good. If a girl is interested in you like you want her to be, she’ll laugh at almost anything. It’s a good IOI. Say stupid shit with a DGAF attitude and escalate with the ones that laugh.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:56 AM
1

No. The first A does.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:35 AM
5

If you fuck her good, she’ll come again... and again. Voila, plate.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:29 AM
6

Creeped out by ALL guys they don’t find attractive
/r/askTRP13/02/19 06:35 PM
10

“Any RP bros from <insert place> on here?” That being said, any RP bros from New Zealand on here?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:08 AM
1

Her friend super liked you while on her phone when she said she knew you IRL. Soft next, ie ignore until she reaches out. Never mention the super like.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 07:45 AM
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This is exactly what I needed to hear too. Getting lots of hair play, necklace toying and cleavage flashes from (mostly taken) women, who I know would shut me down as soon as I tried to escalate. They’re attracted but would never do anything. Validation seeking.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:53 AM
1

If you don’t know the answer is isolate and escalate, you haven’t read the sidebar and shouldn’t be asking questions like this.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:42 AM
2

Your thoughts are toxic. Change your thoughts, change your life. Stop thinking like a victim. Take ownership of your life. Research your disorder and figure out how to own than too.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:34 AM
10

Usually these things happen when your focus is elsewhere or you’re rushing. Try and become more aware of what you’re doing and the space around you.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:54 PM
4

There is a brain hack that can make you feel like a Chad right away. Look yourself in the eyes in a mirror while doing the hands on hips, chest out, superman pose. In fact any body language pose that increases the space you take up will work. Imagine you’re personifying ‘confidence’. The longer you do it, the more you’ll feel it. Fake it til you make it really works.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:01 AM
4

What did she do to make you 180?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 12:24 AM
1

Everyone is different. When I have a cone, I want to do stuff. Especially if it’s something I don’t want to do, I’ll have a cone and start anyway. End up zoning in and doing other random missions too. eg. fold and put away my washing, end up tidying my entire bedroom But there are some people out there that smoke and then become a vegetable and blob out. If you’re one of those then weed isn’t helping.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:54 AM
3

If you’re an ugly dude but do interesting things on the daily, social media will work for you. If you’re ugly and boring, you’re invisible to women. If you’re attractive and boring, it’s hit and miss. If you’re attractive and interesting, you won the lottery and you wouldn’t be on reddit asking this question.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:17 AM
2

Laugh it off. I’ve done some stupid beta shit in the past. Shit’s funny as fuck
/r/askTRP04/11/18 03:41 AM
2

Dance class is basically consent to kino. Use dance as your reason the touch them and as a chance to turn them on. Not groping, obviously, but just the act of dancing and being physical and a leader will get their engines running. Let her know by how you dance that you want to fuck her but basically say nothing. If they’re into you, they will hit you up after class.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:53 PM
2

Say “I prefer meeting up. Each to their own”. It lets her know you respect yourself and that you’re not afraid to walk away. When a tinder girl started making iffy noises the day of the night we were suppose to meet up, I said “ So tonight’s off then?” and her resistance went away. If she’s interested enough, she’ll make concessions.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 10:01 PM
3

There is really only one thing you need to do to turn ANY girl into a plate: fuck her good. If you know what you’re doing, she’ll want more.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 10:03 PM
2

Do not slip them your number. If you’re giving it away for free, you’ll have a hard time proving it has value. Instead, if you’re chatting and getting IOIs, say something like how she seems like a cool person and ask for her number.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 09:03 PM
3

Not all movies are made by Hollywood and I’m sure there are some indie films out there with RP philosophies. But in Hollywood, any character with RP traits is usually the villain or cucked by the end of the film.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:22 AM
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But she put a bag on my head... still counts
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:46 AM
4

Week 7: start a wall with pics of her and chronicle her movements
/r/askTRP12/08/18 04:37 AM
1

It’s ironic. The banning is more hateful than TRP.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:18 AM
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Congratulations. The intricate system to weed out betas has worked on you.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 03:01 AM
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It comes from being in social situations, observing and learning from others. Think of it this way, if you want to be funnier, watch stand-up comedians. You don’t have to learn each ‘bit’ word for word, but you’ll be able to recall their ideas and adapt them to your situation.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:40 PM
0

Your comment history doesn’t disappoint
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:00 AM
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Find someone who sucks at what you’re good at and teach them to be better.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:58 AM
1

If you’re good at your job and you have high standards, she’ll just be making herself look bad. If the owner is swayed by lies then is it really a place you want to work?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:05 PM
7

You grow a pair and realise the standard you hold yourself to matters more than what others think or say about you.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:23 AM
2

You can’t change what’s happened. Lesson learned. Laugh it off. If your frame is good 99% of the time, most won’t care about a drunken slip up.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:40 PM
1

Most jacked dudes are confident. All you have to do is give her tingles/feelz. As soon as you think she’s above you, you’ve lost.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 07:39 PM
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Chad’s can do whatever they like. Ever hear about the dude that catfished on tinder as Chad, he said outlandish shit and they still wanted to fuck him at the drop of a hat. Most of us are here because we’re not Chad’s.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:32 AM
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To be on par, all a guy has to do is be jacked. It shows you look after yourself which is all she’s doing.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:58 AM
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Think of it this way, if she flakes/ghosts, she just saved you a shit load of time. And congratulations for not becoming an orbiter.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:46 AM
2

This. The alpha is alpha because he doesn’t need validation from anyone. The best you can hope for is respect. You get that by having value. You get value from putting the sidebar into action.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:39 AM
3

“See you at 8”. Get there at 8:15
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:13 AM
1

Someone said “It’s not what you say, but how you say it.” Saying random ass shit works when it’s obviously absurd but I’m sure there are cases when it will backfire.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:12 AM
1

Leave it alone. Like other comments said, saying you want to fuck her gives her the validation she was after. And it’s never “if you’re free”, it’s “let’s do xyz”.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 09:55 PM
1

I think you answered your own question. With nothing to offer but dick, all they’ll want from you is dick.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:39 AM
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Girls want commitment. We don’t give it to them, so they will keep looking.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:01 PM
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Mini golf or a game of pool/8-ball. She’ll be bending over a lot. The trick is to own it when she see’s you checking her out. Plus it’s easy to kino when you have a few pointers for her technique.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:21 AM
1

There are only two things you can control. Your thoughts and your actions. Any situations that you don’t know how to handle is an opportunity to learn and gain xp. Think of all the shit life’s thrown at you so far, unless you’re dead, you’re sitting on 100 percent survival rate. Start repeating “I’ve got this” and pretty soon you’ll realise, you’ve got this.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:08 AM
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If you’re following TRP and building a life where you’re crushing your goals, then social media can help because you have things to share. If you suck, then social media isn’t going to help.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:11 AM
1

Good choice. If she isn’t into it, then you have to decide if it’s a deal breaker or not.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:11 AM
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First of all, don’t shave up, shave with the grain. Direct method: Tell her you like it shaved down there. Indirect: “I dare you to get a Brazilian.” Negging: “Let me sharpen my machete. It’s a jungle down there.”
/r/askTRP09/07/18 09:03 AM
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Intermittent fasting. Still eat your normal diet but only during an 8-10 hour window. When you don’t eat for 12 hours straight, your body starts using its reserves (fat). You can choose when that windows is too to suite your lifestyle.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:34 AM
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Shit test: her trying to find out if you have any triggers. What triggers you represents a weakness. Women aren’t attracted to weakness.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:07 PM
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Shouldn’t have DEER’d in your txt so you failed the test. You don’t need to explain yourself and you shouldn’t have replied at all. She gives you grief, you laugh. It means she was more invested than you, but now she wants you to chase. Ignore her for a bit. When you do want to message her, ignore what has happened so far and invite her to a game of mini golf (I love watching them bend over) or something else fun. If she isn’t interested, move on.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 10:58 PM
1

I asked the question because I wanted new escalation ideas, some that people actual use often. You focused on the not shitting where you eat part. Fear of the worst case is like approach anxiety. Trying to sleep with a chick isn’t going to destroy my life. There’s no talking to me about that because that’s not why I asked the question.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:17 AM
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It’s through my reading of the sidebar and my understanding of the concepts that I can start to question parts which seem negative. Not shitting where you eat seems to have a focus on worst case scenario. So what I might fuck up, I’d rather chase my dreams and have that experience than to er on the side of safety. I don’t see the greater gain to be had from hiding from ticking something off the bucket list.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:01 AM
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I have read the sidebar. Everyone is different and ideas evolve and change, so I wanted some more personal experiences of escalation that have worked. And hopefully ones that have worked multiple times.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:23 AM
-2

I’m not into making decisions based on fear. I want to grab opportunities when they come. Escalation changes the odds in my favour. Do you have any escalation thing you like to do?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:21 AM
1

I might not have been specific enough. What are your personal favourite escalation tricks? More specifically on babysitters most likely not to be expecting it
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:05 AM
-1

I’m the dad
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:58 AM
2

Say you’re going tease her and every time you get close, stop. Change position, grab her butt or something. You may have to stop a few times but eventually you’ll get to the point where you can fuck her hard for longer before having to stop again.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 06:54 PM
1

If you’ve read the sidebar, you’ll have read that you’re almost doing it perfectly, but you’re failing when you verbalise it. Think those things in your head and your body language will show it. Talk about anything else. If a girl is into you, you could talk about logistics. She knows what’s up and is getting excited because you’re obviously moving things forward.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:27 PM
3

Lift. Above average muscles can make up for below average face.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 03:19 AM
93

“They gotta earn it” That line earned her a one way ticket to Nextville. Good job shutting her down
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:23 AM
1

Rhythm. Listen to her breathing and when it starts to change to panting, try and maintain a solid tempo.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 07:54 PM
2

You’ve got to realise that a majority of the chicks on tinder are looking for something quick and easy. Ideally they want to fuck that night (or earlier if you can pull it off) but they’ll play along with the setting up a date talk to meet beta orbiters and not appear slutty. If you’re not texting up a storm, they will lose interest, but that doesn’t mean your texts aren’t deliberate. Ratio always 1:1, and texts should be logistics based but include flirty banter to break up the information digg…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:54 AM
6

They either already have boyfriends or the sex was bad
/r/askTRP27/01/18 07:47 AM
1

I think you handled both situations well. Both wanted you to stroke their egos for being higher status than you (or worse, to put you down), but in both cases the issue has been address and you’re ready to move on. You can’t be held responsible for them breaking frame and becoming agitated. They should deal with their shit professionally.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:36 AM
1

The way you naturally are now is different to how you naturally were a few years ago. With enough time, energy and discipline you can change anything.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:40 AM
1

Red Pill is self therapy. You don’t need a shrink to tell you to exercise and own your shit
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:17 AM
1

Thanks for this post. I’m going through something similar. Interestingly, the top answers so far are not what I expected. My instincts tell me that we should lead and tell them to clean up their shit while we’re cleaning up our shit. I’ll keep an eye on this post to see if any other gems of advice surface.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 09:23 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with you. In a publicly sex shaming/privately sex glorifying society, it’s too easy to get into a negative thought pattern. Learn to meditate and try prolonged tantric sex. Tantric sex helps you learn to live in the now with all of your senses and get away from those boner killing thoughts.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 08:46 PM
2

Find anything better to do. Maybe try lifting and reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP30/12/17 05:08 AM
1

I will play these situations differently in future. Thanks for the advice. He who hesitates is lost.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:52 PM
1

Ok got it. Lead.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:06 AM
0

But none of these women are clients. I’m trying to give them some plausible deniability if sex is on their minds but as lordthunderbolt pointed out to me, it comes across as too businessy. Maybe it seems like I’m rejecting them.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:00 AM
1

“Hi MILF #1. This is Megaduff the gardener”
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:56 AM
1

I’ll say it slower. My “game” needs improving so either give me your insight or fuck off
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:45 AM
3

Then put up or shut up
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:13 AM
3

I want to make the most of the opportunities that literally appear on my path but I’d be happy with either outcome.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:09 AM
3

It's not a big deal so don't focus on it, but occasionally remind her about it by using the exact lines she used on you when she thought she was going to win. Make it jokes though, smirk and be playful. Hint at her paying up in other ways while rubbing her butt etc. You may never get that $5, but that $5 could lead to infinite fun times.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 12:28 AM
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