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| 1 | Finally accomplished somethingYeah, I guess you're right. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Finally accomplished somethingCongrats bro. I'm really Happy for you. I'm 21yrs old as well and haven't kissed a girl yet. I've been able to flirt with girls and some of them showed interest in me. Some girls showed interest in me when i went to the club few weeks back but I just didn't do anything. So you making out with 2 hot girls in the same night is really inspiring for me also. I just have one question: What do you do when you don't have any group of friends who want to go to clubs or bars every weekend? Most of my fri… | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 07:46 PM |
| 33 | How do you get over women that reject you?Do you have any idea how full of sh*t your life can become if the WRONG people enter it? And by wrong people I mean those who do not appreciate you or your presence. I once approached a girl in a club and she outright rejected me. She didn't even wanna look at me and was trying to get away form me. Later I found out from one of my friends that she was a real gold digger with a bit*hy personality. I consider my self very lucky that she is not in my life. There are tons of women out there my frien… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 10:56 AM |
| 14 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsMy man this is exactly what I wanted to read tonight. Your persistence paid off. AMAZING JOB!!! | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | On being a "Player"Thanks for clearing that up bro. All I wanted to tell people was to be confident and have an open mindset. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | On being a "Player"See if a girl has rejected some guy and he becomes a crybaby about it or shows her how sad he really is or that it has affected him in any manner then this communicates to the girl that this is a guy who cannot handle rejection and is not mature enough. This will be seen as clingy or needy behavior. But if the that guy was to move on from her swiftly like nothing happened, then this would communicate to the girl that he is a guy with courage and had the confidence to approach her and understands… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | On being a "Player"Thank you so much for understanding bro. Finally!! | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | On being a "Player"See someone around you who is good with women and observe their behavior then just copy that behavior and add your own personality and flavor to it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | On being a "Player"Oh I get it. Alright so here is the real reason: You should protray yourself high value bcoz women like high value men. High value men value themselves and their principles. You should approach girls you want to bcoz approaching them will increase your chances of being with them. Even if it doesn't work out you will learn something valuable that you can apply next time. You should flirt and tease her bcoz this will create attraction for you in her mind. You take her on a small journey out of her… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:09 PM |
| 5 | How to say you're only looking for sex?Bro you don't say things like that. You have to get to know her better but at the same time you need to escalate things with her and subconsciously communicate that you are not JUST their to get to know her better. Women don't want to feel like sluts. So if u say that all ur looking for is sex then that won't happen. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?Well this is where you need to work then I guess. I think the easiest way to make a connection is to tell the other person a SLIGHTLY embarrassing story or habit from your childhood. See everybody had embarrassing habits when they were kids and even teens so by sharing one of yours, you are telling the other person that you are confident and comfortable with who you are and this might enable to share one of their childhood stories. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | On being a "Player"Bro you misunderstood me. I'm not telling you to change who you are. Think of this way: Lets say a person is lazy and procrastinates. Now is I tell him to "start waking up early, bcoz successful people do", "start going to the gym bcoz successful people do", "start reading more bcoz successful people do". In this situation I'm not telling the person to CHANGE his personality rather just adopt some habits that might increase his chances of getting success. All he is doing is getting in the mindse… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?Are you able to escalate things with her? Like touch and all. Can you make an emotional connection with her? Maybe this is missing | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 12:23 PM |
| 11 | On being a "Player"Guys I'm all saying is keep a positive mindset. Why does everyone have to be so negative? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | On being a "Player"you can call it whatever you like. you see how the jerks get all the girls in high school while many of the "nice guys" don't. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | What are good non-sexual sexual words to throw in the conversation?I think a large majority of this is based on your skills of reading the room and the girl you're talking to. I can't write every detail here. That's why I wrote, "once you've built some rapport with the girl". | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:39 PM |
| 0 | What are good non-sexual sexual words to throw in the conversation?thanks man | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:36 PM |
| -9 | What are good non-sexual sexual words to throw in the conversation?After you've built some rapport you can say, You: I have an intuition about you She: what You:I think you are quite mischievous She: no/yes. (Her response doesn't matter just cut her off in the middle) You: you give a bad girl vibe almost naughty. (Now get your tone a bit sexy). So tell me. She: what You: do you think it's a good idea to punish bad girls? (If she says yes, you say,"so you like to be punished, huh?" And carry the conversation forward. If she says no you say,"but I think you need … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginWhat u/EthicalSeduction said is true. Maybe she didn't want to ruin your first time with a casual hookup. Maybe she rejected you because she wanted you to have it with someone special. But next time just fake it till you make it as already commented by u/Keithlct. Just tell her you're a virgin if she asks for it. Happy hunting ;) | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Ask her out the next time you go. If she says no just say, "no worries take this as a compliment" and act normal as if nothing happened bcoz really nothing happened. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:16 AM |
| 4 | How should I start conversations with girls?If you want to get over your fear try this next time. Go up to a girl and just say this,"hi, your hairstyle/glasses/shoes really suit you. Have a nice day". We are fearful when we are unsure of the outcome I.e, how she will respond. Most girls will respond with a polite smile to a compliment. You don't have to go up to her with some expectations that you will get her number or take her out on a date. Just practice with giving compliments to random girls and with time you'll get more comfortable.… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 5 | How should I start conversations with girls?If you want to get over your fear try this next time. Go up to a girl and just say this,"hi, your hairstyle/glasses/shoes really suit you. Have a nice day". We are fearful when we are unsure of the outcome I.e, how she will respond. Most girls will respond with a polite smile to a compliment. You don't have to go up to her with some expectations that you will get her number or take her out on a date. Just practice with giving compliments to random girls and with time you'll get more comfortable.… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Never devalue yourself after rejection!I so needed this right now | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Help me heal guys!!Not a big deal bro. Just stupid luck. Take care next time. Happy hunting ;) | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Was willing to walk away. Big step in my inner game!So happy for you bro. If I've learned anything from my past experiences is to always keep yourself high-value. If you don't respect yourself, no else will. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 12 | What is the thought process of a girl that is doing this?First of all I would not advice you take any hints based on how a girl acts. But if a girl starts dancing in your proximity she wants you to talk to her. She wants you to approach. Next time this happens start by introducing yourself and start a conversation with her. This is usually how it works but not always. Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | dealing with her groupYeah that's good too. Good luck 👍 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 6 | What do I do once I get her number?Dating should be done only to check compatibility. If you go in with certain expectations or imagine outcomes in your mind you will be disappointed. Get to know her and she will get to know you and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | dealing with her groupJust relax and have fun is all I would say. Don't think of different outcomes in your mind, like "oh I said this now her friends would be interested","oh no why did do that" etc. You get the idea. Just have fun with those girls, learn a few magic tricks if you want they are good ice breakers. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:42 PM |
| -2 | What did I do wrong?Well I'm trying to learn and identify what are shit tests exactly and how to pass them. I even made a post but there were no comments on it. Maybe you can help. Here's the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/waim6q/what_are_shittests_that_women_give_to_men/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:03 AM |
| 3 | What did I do wrong?Well then I don't know bro. Like someone said in the comments you don't know what will turn off a girl. Don't stress on it too much. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?After your first or second kiss don't go for another. Maybe she felt that you're just being too clingy. Give her some space and let her come to you for the next kiss. When you do kiss the first or second time, be the one to end it first. Follow the cliche, "keep her wanting more". Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:24 AM |
| 5 | What did I do wrong?Looks like you've already moved on. No worries then. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:16 AM |
| -1 | What did I do wrong?I think you don't need to worry about anything. She's just offering some resistance to throw you off your game and to indicate you that's she is not an "easy" girl. Girls try to test guys to know how far are they willing to go for her. These are called "shit test". Just ask her out again after 2-3 days and till then don't try to contact her and be busy with your own life. Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timeFucking awesome dude. I'm so happy for you😎. Talk to 3-4 more girls. Just don't put all your hopes on this one girl otherwise you'll develop needy behavior and she will sense that and resent you for it. I'm telling you this because this has recently happened with me. Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timeHow did it go? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first timeIf you will never try, you will never know | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:06 AM |
| 72 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!So happy for you bro. Just tell the other girls that you're in a relationship now. That's it.😉 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Tried to do couple sets in a pub first time did not workDon't worry bro. Sometimes it's just not your day. Same thing happened to me last Saturday and I'm from India. I would advice initially try to open sets with only girls in them. Someday you'll find lots of single girls in groups, other days you'll find single girls alone, some days you'll find couples. Just go out and try again. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Having a hard time on how to approach this girl at my gymYou can start by asking her for something like, "do you have a charger/deo/something else?". You can also ask her, "hey do you know a good bar/sushi place/restaurant/coffee shop around here?" This is how you start a conversation. Then you can ask her when did she join the gym, what's she doing today (I mean push, legs or pull). Tell her that she looks good or a simple compliment. Then you can ask her if she wants to grab a bite on the way back or would like to hang out this weekend? Happy huntin… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Dating a really shy girl, problems with intimacyI dont know if I can help much but just ask her directly next time. Have an open conversation. Say, "look, I wan to have sex with you and I think you want it too then what's the hold up?" She'll give you a reason and then ask her how does she wanna solve this? Again this advice can go south so PLEASE take it at your own risk. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | How to approach someone you used to talk to?Just approach her like nothing ever happened. Tell her, "let's catch up". When you were dating someone else and she was bothered by it, that doesn't matter bcoz it's your choice who you want to date. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to approach someone you used to talk to?If you're already in a relationship why do you want to approach X at all? Just keep a friendly smile and nod that's it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:27 PM |
| 22 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...I think she was just being polite because you're her patient. Don't take unnecessary hints or you might screw up. If SHE gave you her insta then you can msg her no voice msgs please. If YOU found out her insta after stalking for hours don't mag her it might come off as creepy. Don't call her secretary because that might get creepy for her too. Honestly I don't know what you CAN do to take her out but DONT do the above mentioned things if you don't want to come off as a creep. Next time when you … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Need some adviceDon't take hints or signals bro. Just go introduce yourself, talk to her, get to know her, have some fun and see where it goes. Every girl behaves differently when they are interested in a guy. Some stare, some look away, some stare and smile and some just approach the guy. Stop looking for signals and go talk. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 33 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeOne day you will share this embarrassing moment with your kid and it will boost his confidence when he will be trying his first cold approach. We are only human and we all make mistakes. I had a crush on this girl in middle school. One day I mustered up the courage and just said I LOVE YOU right in front of her best friend and a couple of my friends in the middle of the corridor. I didn't ask for her number or anything just directly the 3 magical words. She said she considered me like her little… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"I've never been in this situation personally but I know friends who have been. So this is my advice: The thing is that she just got cheated on which is difficult to handle for anyone. But also you cannot be available all the time because youre a man who has his own life. When the next time she brings up this topic during your conversation just say, "look I can't imagine the hate and anger and emotional turmoil you must be going through right now. It's difficult. Sometimes life is difficult. But … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Deep talk with girlsThis is a nice approach. Ask "why" questions. Like he gave the example in which if she tells you that she is studying something in university you can ask which course and why that course? Another way is making statements about her. When you first saw her, try to observe her behavior, dressing sense etc. Everyone does this unconsciously. Say something like, "you seem to be a creative person but you don't express yourself fully due to all the social barriers". This is just am example of how you ca… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Post-approach, what to do?It's not complicated. You approach a girl, talk to her, get her number and then rejoin your friends saying, "hey it was nice meeting you but I have to rejoin my friends" and then just carry on. Now don't keep looking at her afterwards. Since meeting new people is overwhelming for most people, a short and simple conversation is much better than spending too much time with her. You have to giver her space and time to breathe and think about you and the conversation she just had with you. Happy hun… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 11 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!Just follow the 3 second rule. Approach someone within 3 seconds of toy noticing them. It doesn't matter what you say just ask for directions at least. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!He was the host for the late night show on CBS. Just search craig ferguson flirting on YouTube | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!Watch some videos of Craig ferguson | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!In my personal experience, don't compliment girls too early. In my past I've gone overboard with compliments and the girls then started behaving like queens. You know it just got to their heads. Keep your compliments low profile. You can appreciate something she has on her like some accessory or if she shares an experience with you like she draws or something. Don't say stuff like, "you're beautiful/cute/adorable" too early. What I'm saying is, don't go overboard and keep it simple. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!Well it really depends on the situation but one that you can say is, "hey you're quite cute. But beauty is common. Tell me something interesting about you". You can ask her where she's from. Let's say she's from London. Then you can say, "I've heard that girls from London can't handle a compliment." With this she'll try to prove to you that it's not true. Now you're already making her win your approval. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Continues failure on gameRead this book, "Game by Neil Strauss". You will definitely improve your night game. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I (24M) have approach anxiety.Bro I had the same experience this past weekend. I was with a friend who is quite good with girls and so I became nervous approaching girls when I knew that he was watching me. Just go and approach a lot of women in malls and shops and basically daygame. Then when you become comfortable go with your friends at pubs. Happy hunting 😉 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 7 | All my notes.I loved the last one of seeing every girl as beautiful. I'm quite judgemental and would like to change. Thanks😌 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Struggling with sexually escalatingYou commenting about how adorable or how cute she does X is not going into the sexual zone at all. As stated earlier in this post, misinterpretation and teasing or twisting the meaning of her sentences or actions is the best way. In one of his episodes Craig Ferguson does the following which I think anyone can follow to start a sexual conversation: "You know I can analyze dreams. Why don't you tell me one of your dreams." She'll say something. Then you say, "that's a sex dream". Just take care t… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!I feel you bro. This happened to me a few weeks back. I approached a girl, asked her some basic stuff and then gave her a compliment. She blushed and laughed but then I had no idea how to take it fwd. Try this book, Game by Neil Strauss. It's kind of life changing at least for me. I wish I knew about this earlier. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:38 PM |
| 41 | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!Well done my friend. 👏 I'm so happy for you. To improve further just a learn a little about game, push pull etc and have a simple conversation. If after talking for 10 to 15 mins you both have a good conversation ask her that you would like to continue talking to her and then she'll give you her number. Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Does it mean anything if a girl asks you why you get nervous and if you have a gf?Let me tell you what will happen if you think that she is just outgoing and you keep waiting for more signs from her, YOU WILL REGRET THIS DECISION OF NOT ASKING HER OUT!!! I used to be nervous around girls I liked but then I realized that she won't know I'm nervous until I ACT nervous. Just fake it, ask her out and than thank this subreddit later. So many people in the comments who are more experienced than you in the dating world are telling you to take your shot and you're till waiting for si… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Field report: When on earth I will be stop being Nice guy?Do you have a fear of rejection in the back of your mind? Maybe that's what's stopping you from escalating things. I was recently talking to a girl few weeks back. She seemed interested in me initially but for some bloody reason I didn't ask her out directly and rather said something else that I can't remember. Now she has lost interest and I lost my chance. It would've been way better if I could just asked her directly rather than beating around the bush. Even if she says no, at least I took th… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 4 | RegretI think you're having fear of rejection and overthinking this way too much. Just approach, have a conversation, have some fun (learn a few simple magic tricks), ask her about herself and then say, "I think you're pretty cool. I have to go now but I would like to continue our conversation." She'll probably give you her number. If she doesn't understand this hint, you can directly ask her. If she gives you her number, good. If she doesn't, well at least you had the balls to ask her. Rather than pi… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm a clown for hyping up a girl.Become a high value man. Make her chase you. Don't let her looks matter to you and make her believe this. She's probably surrounded by guys who think she's pretty and she knows that. If you are not confident in conversing with women first develop that confidence by talking to girls that don't intimidate you as much. You can read this book: The Game by Neil Strauss | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 3 | I need a little advice on coke approachingIf it's an artist you both like you can casually mention this to her and SUGGEST her that we should go rather than asking her. I think she'll agree. Tell us after you've asked her how it went? Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:18 AM |
| 0 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Cold approach is hard bro and you're a daredevil for trying after such a long gap. One of my friends always says to me to NEVER APPLY LOGIC about what a woman says or does. She could herself be having a really bad day, maybe she was betrayed by someone recently or maybe she's just a horrible person you never know. Girls are like trains, when one leaves the other will arrive. Happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 15 | Got played by the classic 'going to the toilet' move.Bro you're thinking too much. It was night game. Women might like you at first and then they don't. It's part of the game. Just relax. And the thing that you're mad about is that why did they lie. They weren't lying, they were being polite. In night game as soon as you see that your target is ignoring you for some reason, start talking to other women and she would want to bring your attention back to herself. Keep yourself high value man and happy hunting😉 | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | A stupid on and off game or it's me just getting it wrong?😉 happy hunting | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 10:57 AM |
| 7 | A stupid on and off game or it's me just getting it wrong?I'm not an expert on the subject but to me it seems like she just wants attention. It might be because that's just her nature or it could be because she just got out of a toxic relationship but is hesitant to enter a new one. My best piece of advice would be to become unavailable for her for a few days or weeks. Focus on your work and health and hobbies. Don't read her messages instantly. Stay online but don't read her messages whether it's instagram or phone. When she comes up to your desk, act… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your best moves?What cologne do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Tried to go out alone at a BarGo to a club with some friends. Just apply some cologne on both sides of your neck and on both of your wrists. When you see a girl you want to talk to, gently hold her shoulder (make sure she is aware that you are going to approach her. don't make it creepy by coming from her back side) and lean in to her ear with your opener. Make sure your opener is good enough to grab her attention in the club environment. It's the best place to initiate physical intimacy with her by leaning in, touching etc. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:10 PM |
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