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What the fuck...how are men not oppressed?! Man: I was raped/abused by a woman Society: laughs Man: I am depressed Society: man up Man: I dont want to fight Society: you're weak Man: I cant afford that Society: you're less of a man Man: in park with young daughter Society: he must be a pedophile Or let's mention the fact that: fgm bad, circumcision fine. Men get longer sentences for the same crime Rape/abuse accusations entail instant guilty treatment Least favoured parent in court cases despite…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 10:23 AM
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Oh god thats awful, im unsure how things like that could be controlled without it creating some backlash. I personally wouldn't have a problem with bars excluding women but thats only because I'm a part of the LGBT community and I understand the importance of having a space personal to ones sexuality. Unfortunately a lot of straight people are entitled and would cause a shitstorm if this were to happen. Despite the fact they can go anywhere without having to experience what its like to be discri…
/r/MensRights03/08/22 02:49 PM
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This is the first I've heard of gay men having a problem with straight women in their space, is this how a lot of gay men feel? I enjoy going to gay bars/clubs as I just generally enjoy the atmosphere and I feel safer. I feel like gay spaces are a loss less judgemental and accepting. I tend to go to these places with my gay friends the majority of the time. I cant say I've been with a boyfriend but I wouldn't have opposed to it. I agree with how inappropriate some straight women behave towards g…
/r/MensRights03/08/22 12:28 PM
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I'm a woman and I get called a pick me when I'm being an advocate for men's rights. So annoying tbh, like being a decent human being is somehow trying to get attention. ive been shit on so much by some feminists. I get my comments deleted when I make a fair argument, got attacked because I didnt agree with blanket statements aimed at men and got my whole post deleted when I said I didnt want to change men. I came to this sub as a feminists wanting to understand mens issues and the whole feminist…
/r/MensRights03/08/22 11:58 AM
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Of course, yes. Tactic makes it sounds like a game of manipulation. Any insight men can give me on the matter is valuable
/r/MensRights29/07/22 12:08 PM
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This is really valuable advice, thank you. Unfortunately the man in question is quite anti social outside of work. Not that I have actually tried as I am quite conscious of causing issues with respective spouses, being an estranged woman and all that, but getting him to attend work socials is a nightmare itself. Although we are friends, he would find it odd if I asked. That being said, your advice is very helpful with other men in my life. Funnily enough, I actually have a friend who is a paratr…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 12:06 PM
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This is an awesome idea! I tried a similar tactic of asking him how I should approach a good friend of mine about his issues and he seemed to be quite open to this
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:53 AM
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Thank you, thats a really kind thing for you to say. I am a huge advocate for mental health awareness/support and I especially want to learn and better myself with the struggle that men have to deal with. This sub has been super helpful with this
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:51 AM
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This is what I am concerned about, that the man up stigma is the reason he isn't talking about it. I am aware how men are perceived as weak by society for opening up about these things which is one reason why I have kept it to myself , I dont want him to think I view him as less than and proceed to gossip about it amongst our colleagues. He does have a partner yes and as far as I'm aware, she is very supportive. We have only met briefly but he has expressed to me how supportive she is with other…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:45 AM
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Awesome, that makes sense. Thanks! 😁
/r/MensRights29/07/22 10:56 AM
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Obligatory woman here post This is such an insightful post, I never ever in my life thought about this and youre absolutely right! My whole life people have told me what men should have/do to be good enough for me but no one has ever told me what I should bring to a relationship. Its always "you should come first, if he loves you he will do xyz, he should pay/pick you up/fight for you etc" In turn, men in my life have always been told what they need to have/do. They are schooled on how to treat …
/r/MensRights29/07/22 09:25 AM
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Imagine if the roles were reversed.....she dead ass coerced him into sex....thats rape. But it also isn't because what man wouldn't want that right? 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights11/07/22 11:41 AM
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The irony of this is, as a woman,I have received more positivity and respect in this sub than the female counter parts have given to men 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:15 PM
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Well no, im not. It was obviously the wrong way to go about it 🤣
/r/MensRights24/06/22 11:33 AM
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I would say you're welcome but I dont feel like I've done anything worth thanking. Everyone should explore any of the beliefs they have or movements they follow. You cant truly commit to something without exploring the other side. I hope more women make an effort to do so, for the best of EVERYONE
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:26 AM
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I wasn't aware there was such controversy between the 2 subs, im new to reddit. Being someone who was brought up on the values of feminism being for equal rights, I haven't really been exposed to anything other than. My mother is a feminist and her values are very much like mine, I assumed everyone was the same. I must admit I am at a confusion on what to do but my intentions are in the best interest of both genders. I absoltely stand by men not being mindless f*** machines and I have had a few …
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:19 AM
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I dont support mens rights?
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:49 AM
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Thank you! I'm surprised too, tbis community is very rational and supportive despite what I am. I have had such a positive experience here Tbh, im dissapointed with my post in feminism. My comments are being deleted and I feel I'm just being ignored if I say anything positive about men, which makes me sad. A couple of them are rational comments but I feel like I'm being judged for speaking fairly. Reddit CAN be a cesspool of sexism, from both directions but it isn't inherently bad. I feel my exp…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 06:23 AM
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I actually already work with the homeless community in my area! Mostly veterans, men who have lost everything in a divorce and men that have fallen to drugs. Finding them support is hard as the local churches or shelters favour women. Another reason why I came here to learn more. The sad thing is these men have so much going for them and if someone just gave them a chance, they would see that
/r/MensRights24/06/22 06:16 AM
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Sorry but, I have no idea what an MRA is 😅
/r/MensRights23/06/22 05:03 PM
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I want to do whats best for everyone! But its starting to look like whatever I choose is going to offend someone. I've seen the results of someone telling a feminist they aren't one and I wouldn't like to be in there position. Its sad really that this is the way things are
/r/MensRights23/06/22 05:02 PM
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No, throwing the term toxic masculinity around just paints all men in a negative light again. Imagine all of the problems women face be reduced to the argument "oh it happens because of female toxicty". I see, yes that would be annoying The men who "manned up" and got women because of it. This shit is not the mens fault, and neither the women's fault because for us both this concept is embedded in the minds of human beings since the stoneage This is a great explanation! Thank you!
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:56 PM
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You are not the first person to say this! I think I just might!
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:52 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm desperately clinging to feminism, I was brought up to believe it stood for equal rights. If it isn't, I wouldn't know any better as I haven't been exposed to anything else. Which is why I'm here to explore the other side and gain some insight
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:41 PM
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Thank you for your input! I would like to offer a more complex reply but as you can imagine, im inundated with responses and trying to multi task with rl is proving difficult 😅 but I really appreciate your input and have a lot of respect for your honesty
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:23 PM
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Yes, unfortunately I see this after experiencing both sides of the "fight". A part of me just wants to remove myself completely as it all seems pointless but then nothing will change. You have worded things very well, definitely made me think very differently. I have a lot of things to process
/r/MensRights23/06/22 03:07 PM
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That I quintessentially agree with, my original post is a perfect example of how women get away with things men do not. I dont think anyone can disagree with that, surely!
/r/MensRights23/06/22 03:02 PM
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Yes! Someone explained this to me earlier, about how my comments can invalidate someone else's experience. It came from a good place but obviously I was unaware how it made people feel. I'm just confused now because I've been told that speaking up and saying "not all men are x" is important when generalising comments are made about men but saying "not all women" is bad? Honestly, I want to do the right thing but Its just confusing me more
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:53 PM
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Thats exactly right, I do believe In equal rights. If you want to get technical i believe in equity which dwells on the fact that everyone should be treated according to their circumstances (religion, gender, disabilities etc) to achieve a fair outcome. I like to believe that feminism can achieve this so I feel like pushing mens rights would suit this agenda. In all honesty I haven't been exposed to a lot of things and reddit is also something I'm not massively familiar with. I recognise feminis…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:44 PM
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Youre right, I didnt call out any of the prejudice comments. For the same reason I made another account, I dont want a string of abuse like I did last time trying to advocate for something. If the Internet wasn't so toxic I would. You and I both know it would fall on deaf ears on a platform like reddit. Yes its cowardly, I hold my hands up to that but at least I'm trying. It was one of the most sexist things I have experienced yes, I am very privileged and fortunate for that to be the case. I do…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:15 PM
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Yeah I somewhat understand this now. Its almost like someone telling you "well you shouldn't feel like that because this." I can see how it can be invalidating. Its like if I had a bad experience with a man and some man told me how he didn't do that. Just because he didn't do that doesn't mean it doesn't happen
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:21 PM
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Thats awful. I'm assuming men get this a lot because its deemed as unmanly or weak to need any kind of support. Be if financially or emotionally?
/r/MensRights23/06/22 01:17 PM
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Thank you! No one has ever explained this to me, it makes sense why I received some of the responses I did
/r/MensRights23/06/22 12:18 PM
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Well I haven't heard a woman say "kill all men". Saying kill all anything is just stupid but yeah, if anyone said that to me I would more than likely tell them that Mansplaining is something I've only ever seen on fb posts and never heard in person but I can see how adding a gender to a negative adjective can be prejudice Toxic masculinity was explained to me as being a "pro men" movement. After I questioned what about toxic femininity, it was explained to me that toxic masculinity is the man up…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 12:14 PM
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Thank you! Thats why I am here to try and understand to best way to do this. Both genders have insufferable expectations to amount to but being a woman im aware of the female gripe. Men are most definitely valued by their income, I have seen this a lot. I'm hoping coming here can give me some insight into what men deal with and learn exactly what awareness I need to highlight
/r/MensRights23/06/22 11:54 AM
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My post about wanting to eradicate the man up stigma and how harshly i was recieved when I tried to show my support? I don't think so, I think that further proves my agenda. I did recieve misogynistic comments and I want to know how to address the stigma? If you read my reply to the comments, it further still proves my agenda. There is no hatred or dismissal of this matter
/r/MensRights23/06/22 11:38 AM
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That makes sense, kind of like a dont make a thing out of something that's perfectly natural, it just is? Is it inappropriate to express appreciation to a man who opens up to you? I only ask as I want to break the stigma and im unsure if addressing it is helpful or should I just behave like its a normal thing and not say anything of the like? If a come across a man who expresses his frustration of the fact he feels he cant open up and its unfair what is the best way to support this?
/r/MensRights23/06/22 11:07 AM
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Oh no, I absolutely do not mean it like that. I mean I feel privileged that my partner trusts me enough to be vulnerable with me considering the toxic "man up" stigma. I appreciate being able to connect with him on that level. It most certainly is not a turn on to see my partner in distress. Please tell me how I put that in such a way to not perpetuate the problem?
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:52 AM
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The man in question was and still is my partner, is that a common thing men have experienced?
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:29 AM
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No not at all, I can see how comparing another instance can invalidate someone else's experience. Its just a difficult one as I have no way of relating to men or even coming close to understanding. Coming here will definitely help me learn to approach things better, maybe best to lurk a little and get an understanding first.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:08 AM
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I have been chewed out by people in the past by commenting that not all men are x. Now I just avoid speaking about it either way because I dont know what's right or wrong. I want to be an ally to all misjustices but its a hard thing to abide by. I feel like I'm being torn in 2 by both sides. I can understand the insincerity, I will say I'm certainly not guilty of such horrid things so perhaps subconsciously it is insincere as there is nothing I am apologising for, but it is not with any maliciou…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 10:01 AM
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I guess I just assume that sharing a similar story i have might make men feel like I somewhat understand or empathise? It makes me feel better when people do this so I assume it does for other people, but in retrospect I guess not everyone is the same. Thanks for sharing
/r/MensRights23/06/22 09:44 AM
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This is super useful, thank you! I'm quite new to Reddit itself and just Internet forums in general, the instances above are one of the reasons I decided to dig around. Fortunately no one is this sub is responsible for any flak and im hoping this can open my eyes somewhat. I am a feminist but I'm more then aware how hurtful it can be to disregard one movement (mens rights) by pushing another (womens rights) so that certainly won't be happening. I am more than aware of suicide rates and homeless …
/r/MensRights23/06/22 09:39 AM
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Thank you! It definitely makes more sense, I can see how it might have sounded insincere. Even thought its something I'm not guilty of, I feel obliged to apologise on behalf of my gender. But yes, totally understandable. Thank you for sharing, its very useful hearing a man's insight on this
/r/MensRights23/06/22 09:19 AM
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