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Tinder studies are not reliable as they don't replicate real life, the app is mainly made up of desperate men who swipe on every profile. Very few female profiles that are not bots. I don't use them because I cant determine which guy is actually attracted to me rather then randomly swiping. I've matched with guys who ended up saying they didn't mean to match with me but they swiped first. It's not real attraction and it's an illusion of choices for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:28 PM
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What are you talking about pretty privilege is a well documented phenomenon that both genders. It's not hard to understand why people get excited around attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:48 AM
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I've witnessed it multiple times when there a female abuser especially towards children, women are the first to escalate and bash said predator. It's actually men who don't take it seriously, especially when it's boys or young men being abused by women, it's women who have to reinforce to other men that women can also be sexual predators. Every women remembers how cutthroat middle school girls can be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:52 AM
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I honestly believe men think every women is treated and lives like a 10/10 like they are variations. Real women aren't Instagram baddies that have 10,000+ followers willing to do anything, just shows what you pay attention to and think is realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:55 AM
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Having looked at the data and from observing failed relationships around me (culturally couples don't normally divorce where I'm from but basically stay married in name only) Men benefit from marriage to a higher degrees then women do which is shown by data as married men report being happier then unmarried men, live 3 years longer as they face less health issues and receive more care. They have a caregiver that also brings in income and provides children while taking care of those said children…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:19 PM
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If men keep their vows of "through sickness and in health" and are the more committed gender, why do married sick women face divorce at higher rates then married men that are also ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:30 PM
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On top of that it's a known fact that when married women get sick their husbands soon divorce them whereas married women stick by their sick husbands. Where this so called honorable commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:26 PM
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I don't why he can't grasp that reality, it's as simple as some people like apples and some don't but hey you did your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:28 PM
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That behavior is not a widespread as mainstream media portrays as there was an agenda to push gender divide in the blk community. In the blk community ppl who do that are clowned on and nobody respects this as it's clearly colorism left over from slavery. Off of social media blk guys are not big on that in fact it's been a trend now to like darker skin. Regardless it's not as widespread as media portrays it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:43 AM
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I don't think non-white guys have an inferiority complex when dating out, because I don't see that with black men especially successful black men but I might see that with Asians (South or east) but I feel that is even changing as global trends like kpop are as east Asian guys are seen as attractive now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:18 AM
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Just by watching her she definitely resents him, what a joke of a person she's not taking accountability that she married this man willingly. Although if he's family warned him it's also his fault, all in all two broke people in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:11 PM
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The wife is a terrible person I agree but I honestly think he's at fault because even when he proposed to her, she dodged his kiss and has done so many times. She has constantly showed signs that she doesn't find him attractive and only wants his money. He even said in one interview that he does all she asks hoping to feel worthy of her love. Honestly she's way more physically attractive then him and probably ignored less physically attractive options (that are his look match) to be with her. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:48 AM
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Just because they can access sex easily doesn't mean they do, that's what the stats are showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:13 PM
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I'm a women and had a porn addiction previously and truly believe it's bad for your brain and spirit. There are studies that shows this and all the people I've had convos with about porn express how it's negativity impacted them. It's not about controlling a man's sexuality because he can just choose to date a women who's against watching porn, really simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:51 PM
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I don't understand this narrative of average men lacking self agency and being extremely desperate and how that's also supposed to be viewed as a virtue to women that he's so desperate you don't have to put any effort to be his type sexually and/or relationship wise. It's not realistic, despite how hard dating has gotten average men still gear towards what they want, of course they might compromise somewhere but I don't see them accepting any and all sexual attention from women they don't like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:23 PM
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If it doesn't support their ideology they don't wanna hear it, literally our generation is more sexless then previous generations who drank more and had more socializing leading to more sex. Right now amongst the young women I know sleeping with random guys from clubs it's not really a thing (maybe it's just my circle) but I don't buy into this view of most women sleeping around on a constantly and being over flooded with relationship options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:14 PM
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"It’s already a big problem when a boy is born rather than a girl" Now you're just making things up, it's well known people prefer baby boys over girls. Regardless in the west people are not to big on the baby's gender. Think your comment is leaning on the emotional side rather than the logical one. Sending boys to school doesn't make them bums, it's about making the right adjustments in education and opportunities for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:28 PM
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Any form of activitism or social reform entails backlash, look at the civil rights group they got arrested, killed or abused for standing for what they believe in. If you believe in a better society for men and boys then you have to be willing to take risks for it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:16 PM
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It's no problem everyone has a story but I'm glad yours start off beautifully, I pray in Jesus name that you live a fulfilling and joyful life amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:07 AM
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Honestly why is this such an issue, are you telling me men don't go out of there way to pursue beautiful women. The whole point of being attractive is that more people than average will find you attractive and therefore pursue you. Women like attractive men just as much as men like attractive women, it's not hard to grasp. You're like an ugly girl crying over an attractive girl getting attention while she's ignored, like yes thats how life works. It doesn't mean the ugly girl won't have any inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:19 PM
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This generation is more sexless than previous generations, only a few people are actually constantly having hook ups. Less young people are drinking and clubs are basically dead and women don't use dating apps, so where are people hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:10 PM
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So happy to hear that I'm glad you had a good dad and was able to experience a normal family. thank God because that's not the reality for a lot of people unfortunately, I'm glad mine died when I was young
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:15 PM
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Who's telling you that you have to wife up a hoe, the issue is when men slut shame them but still desire and seek them out privately. If you find someone undesirable in anyway it's not wise not to deal with them romantically or sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:18 AM
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That's not insecurity that's a reasonable reason to not date a guy, it's a wise decision
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:20 PM
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Realistically you only approach guys when you want sex not a relationship because men will say yes to anything sexual but most women are not interested in casual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:23 PM
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I think it also shows how vain our society has become because people generally believe that if theyre beautiful they be happy and accepted. I hear from a lot of extremely attractive women that it can be lonely (women are uncomfortable or insecure around you) and it's hard to discern real genuine attraction over lust. With social media and plastic surgery this generation is way too focused on looks rather then personal fulfillment and genuine connections. People on this reddit seem to think being…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:58 PM
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That sounds like a lack of accountability because as an overcomer of child abuse I don't behave as my abusers nor as a victim. I have put in the effort to correct my behavior and not project broken emotions and mindsets unto others. It's understandable to be hurt but you don't have to become a bitter, in fact you can grow in empathy and understanding of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:49 PM
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People laugh at the Bible but don't understand God knew what would happen when people stop looking at sex at sacred
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:58 AM
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I really detest this "less attractive guys are better" because most of those guys would like to behavior like "Chad" but don't have the social credit to do so, hence why they (some) get female attention act like a douchebag Chad. At the end of the day men are just men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:56 AM
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So women have no personalities we just all operate the same in relationships there's no nusiances or God forbid a difference in personality perspectives and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:21 PM
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There's nothing wrong with discussing pretty privilege, it's discussed amongst women too but building a narrative that you've been lied to or that it's some form of hatred or attack from women is not accurate. When I was fat and less attractive men didn't open the door, notice me or even say hi but once I lost weight it all changed, it's not malicious it's life. I once had a situationship with a guy that didn't want to be seen with me in public but once I built my confidence and lost weight he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:35 PM
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Which women are you referring to, are you saying every women who's not with a Chad is settling. I honestly don't see how women have lied about this and also having social awarenesses to recognize pretty privilege is not something we have to openly discuss and announce, it's just observed and recognized immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:10 PM
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Yes that's pretty privilege, hot girls don't have to earn favor with people they are automatically considered better and deserving of more. The more attractive you are the more you attract. These are things girls learn on the play ground
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:55 PM
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Single mothers are not charity cases if the man feels he's at a disadvantage dating them then he should leave and find a partner that matches his preferences. I've often heard from single moms that they don't date because of this mindset, that somehow they should expect less from the man because they have kids. That's also a very manipulative tactic btw a clear sign of an emotionally absent, resentful or abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:06 PM
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It leads to passive attraction and basically a low hanging fruit, I think people here forget how gender dynamics really work. In my opinion and what is seen is socially healthy societies (not ours) men pursue the women they either are attracted to actually like as a person. They tend to know what they want out of the situation and direct in that manner whereas if you approach a guy he's willing to say yes (Happened to me) even though he's not really into you but it's better to have a women than …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:41 AM
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What motivation or biological incentive do women have to approach men, I'm curious to hear your point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:32 AM
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Study have shown that women are motivated to with physical attractiveness or knowing or seeing that man operate in socially attractive ways like being confident and self assured. If you're cold approaching your mainly doing based on physical attraction because you don't know the person, it's really simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:15 AM
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I hear women calling themselves mid or even ugly quite a lot, there literally have been campaigns to raise awareness about insecurity within young girls. Most women at multiple points in their lives have struggled with physical insecurities hence why the beauty industry is booming
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:02 AM
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Same way men can be nervous approaching someone they find attractive, it's just human nature. I can't speak for her but personally I used to think "he probably can get any girl he wants, why choose me or maybe he won't take me seriously"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:08 PM
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I was about to say because over here that's a common thing, I even say thanks to bus drivers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:52 PM
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Yeah most men are passive or socially awkward these days. Approaching women was common before technology started to making people socially slow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:57 AM
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No it isn't indicative of sexual compatibility but dialogue would be important as I'd like to know where they are currently because I'm not interested in some of those kinks. I don't want them to feel sexually dissatisfied since they seem to be more exploritive than me. People I know who did similar stuff had high libido, so it's important to see if I can even match that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:37 PM
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I don't think it's that, people just have different stances on causal sex without looking down on anyone. It's not everyone's cup of tea, I tend to value sex differently and prefer to do it in marriage. A lot of people will disagree with this but it's a personal choice that doesn't hurt any one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:22 PM
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Actually the stats say otherwise our generation is having less sex than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:59 PM
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Cases of rapes don't get reported because there so much stigma and literally the courts don't process the cases. Families literally kill or force victims to marry those who assaulted them. Your being dishonest I've fundraised and worked with Ngos, India has a huge problem with how they treat women and children. Even when Indian men come to the west I have seen how they interact with women, it's shows what kind of society they come from. They also don't mix genders in friend groups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:47 PM
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Woah there India has a really bad rape problem and it's brutal rapes too. It's a serious and real issue if any country needs feminism it's India for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:43 PM
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All over this body, theres no muscle definition at all. He just average build not bad but means he just barely gets enough exercise and barely eats right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:06 PM
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Then it's simple your incompatible with the women and should end the situation and be with others with the same mindset. The whole point is to weed out incompatible partners so once it's become unbearable for you just leave. Its really simple
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:54 PM
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Nah I don't buy that I see way more fit guys than that maybe it's where you live because that's chubby to me. He's not even lean let alone fit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:28 PM
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How is that even a comparison age and race are completely two different things. The age of your mate matter a lot especially in the long term. It's not viewed as attractive to date someone significantly older than you nor more beneficial than being with someone in your age group so why do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:58 PM
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Men have never valued female labour when women used to spend their lives birthing and raising kids, maintain a household (women were essentially accounts) and also still working (it's a myth that women didn't work) they were underpaid and underappreciated. In fact many were forced into those positions and taken advantage because "it's not as important as the work men do" So feminism came out and women withdraw from a lot of these limited positions and lifestyles. I realized the more women worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:07 AM
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Oh there's varying reason the main being that every single women was expected to procreate but every man was not expected to and had to earn the access in some form. In my culture if a man doesn't pay dowry and provide a house he is not permitted to have a wife or any women. Also polygamy as men fought each other for women. For instance in Africa, the Arabs stole local African woman trafficking them from hands to hands while killing and castrating the local African males. Genetically speaking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:38 PM
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I typically avoid her post but this one is something I've observed constantly with a lot of men. It's concerning but makes me understand why women should be cutthroat with men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:42 PM
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That's condescending as you're implying women have lower emotional/mental capacity than a child. This the the type of passive aggressive language that makes it hard for people to have a real discussion. I could literally find examples of you doing exactly what you're claiming women do because guess what you're human. Life is not binary not blk or white. Why don't we try this, state where you feel women lack accountability (don't be emotionally led) and then we can understand your point more beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:34 PM
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Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:37 PM
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Okay let me put it this way So if l desire a relationship with a certain man (Mr gatekeeper) and he allows it, it's still on me to evaluate if I'm a good match for him and vice versa. I still have the self agency to determine if the situation makes any sense. Just because its a green light doesn't mean you should go automatically because I still have a choice to accept the offer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:39 PM
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I guess I could be considered conservative in regards to these views but here I go If you engage in sex you are responsible for any pregnancy just because you can get an abortion or that men may not have a say with the abortion doesn't absolve that fact that you engaged in an activity that resulted to a terminated pregnancy. The irony of a man saying I don't want kids but I'm having sex shows how bad society is right now. Go and get an vasectomy and then you've removed the procreate part of it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:09 PM
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Okay your allowed to perceive life from a dim view point but understand that's not the reality for most people at all. I used to attract a lot of female friends with deep mother wounds and wondered why until I realized I was a people pleaser. Once I did the emotional work and no longer attract those kinds of women but rather healed or healing women. Hope you understand my point, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:00 PM
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It's a known trope to women that when a man doesn't want to be with you he'll become more unbearable and distant, giving you the bare minimum but won't make any steps to address where the relationship truly is or initiate the breakup. Women won't stay with men they don't like if they can leave or emotionally ready to do so but a lot of men can be with a women they don't like at all because of the perks of having a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:57 PM
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Go look at the rates of father willing to take full custody of the child and see how many men fail to show up in court or even fight for custody. of course women are the ones the have to initiate the divorce men will stay and cheat in a relationship that doesn't work for them because they don't want to be the one who ended the relationship. Married men live longer because they're wives book all their doctor appointments and encourage them to be more health minded etc so if course women are the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:53 PM
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You guys often paint men as having no self agency
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:49 PM
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Just because you haven't attracted one doesn't mean they don't exist. That's like saying all men are douchebags when they make half the population, genuinely good people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:46 PM
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But it is as both genders have to participate for it to occur therefore both parties are responsible. Just because women carry the child doesn't mean the men is not responsible or shouldn't be, it actually show how dishonorable and unworthy some men are to be given such a privilege if you think they can be left blameless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:41 PM
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So men have no self agency, they have no clue sex leads to kids and kids need diapers. This is why I believe women shouldn't budge on their standards because men will blame you for another man's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:39 PM
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The west is very liberal about relationships and sex so there are many women (like the ones in comments) that are fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:26 PM
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No I meant the ones with strict gender roles would assume you're less masculine if you're bottom but I don't view homesexual as feminine it's just homosexuality so therefore women like me wouldn't care what position is taken during sex but rather than you're not a heterosexual male.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:24 AM
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Oh wow he sounds really amazing, that put a smile on my face. Hope your relationship goes wonderfully
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:12 AM
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Yes men view lesbians as attractive because men are excited by any chance to procreate, women are just more picky for good or for worse it's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:01 AM
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I would say they don't care what position you're taking inside the bedroom as it's still gay sex and would assume they're looking for a strictly heterosexual males
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:52 AM
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Do you think a guy should disclose that he's bisexual in the serious stage of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:27 AM
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I think aside for the ones with strict gender ideals I would say most women don't care either way. Simply put heterosexuals desire other heterosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:13 AM
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You gotta remind your nervous system that your safe now, those kids couldn't even tie their shoes or count their twos. I faced a lot of bullying and rejection the key is to understand that they have to free will to reject and mislabel you sure but you have the right to rebuke that and stand in your own identity. Hope you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:25 AM
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Idk I'm just noticing a pattern with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:10 AM
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It's beyond crazy like the destroyed the healthcare system and education overnight because that's a women heavy industry. I watched a doc where the men didn't take their wives to hospital because theres no more female doctors. Unless they change they'll remain the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:08 AM
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You came and interjected your point which was not about men but how men perceive women. You do the same thing you claim feminist do what the "whataboutism". You yourself did not address the point but redirected the attention to you and now claim "plausible deniability". That's a passive aggressive tactic buddy it's giving purr kitty 💅 purr "Oh so you think you have it hard as a women 😼 ha that's nothing compared to me and my basement dweller friends deal with"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:44 PM
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What's the point of having kids if they are not educated and live a thousand years behind the rest of the world. A Socially retarded society that oppresses half the population has no future outside of war and poverty. Middle eastern are brutal hence why they get brutalized
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:22 PM
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But here's the thing you can't assume people have the same standards as you, for example I'm a born again believer and don't participate in sex before marriage. So if I date men would don't share this view but assume they do without having a conversation about my standards then it's on me. Now if I did disclose this information and they went on to sleep with other women then it's breach of boundaries and now they're intentionally disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:30 PM
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That's why it's important for women to be critical during dating because some men don't really know how to communicate their needs and expectations. Reading these comments is wild too like proper communication could have solved all this. Heck even when I meet new people I don't consider them friends until we have a conversation about it and are on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:22 PM
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How are you having sex with someone without having a real discussion about your standards and their sexual history or activity because she not purposely hiding this info he just didn't ask. This type of laziness is the kind that gets you into unsatisfactory relationship with poor compatibility because there's no real discussion about the structure of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:28 PM
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How would she know it would hurt him if I didn't verbally say so. If a man doesn't take action to say what the relationship is then why would she assume? She can't read his mind thats why it important to discuss what you're comfortable with and not and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:21 PM
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But then why do guys act like all women are like this prototype, the standard stacy. They address all women the same and place the same expectations and call normal women "unicorn". This is where I think men self sabotage because they project the character of "Stacy" onto regular women and misinterpreted their behaviors. For example if a girl said she's fine with a short guy since she's short, fine with an average d size and average salary they vomit blood and accuse her of lying, basically inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:12 AM
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Think about it we have twice the female ancestors than males, so yes it biologically imperative for men to try to convince women that she's asking for too much and for the women to tolerate more and expect less from the guy, essentially pricing down. Why do you think less attractive women are more strict because they know some men look at them like a bargain deal. Thats why incels get heated when fatty patty has standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:18 PM
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That's literally the opposite, women have more insecurities with appearance as from birth it's never "health baby girl" rather be say "beautiful baby girl". You're looks and presentation are the first thing you're critiqued about as women. There's enough research on this literally market research on how to sell products to women by triggering their insecurities. How a women looks affects her life and how ppl treat and perceive her even with job opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:11 PM
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I don't favour that arrangement either, I don't see many women dating younger guys very often (really rare). I understand your perspective on age is different and I have to respect that since there's no law being broken but I cant understand seeing 18 years old as "potential". I can tell who's a teenager when I go outside and I just can't imagine that and most girl who did have this relationship all regretted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:54 AM
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Just because its legal doesn't make it right, although I can't control you or even her I know for a fact something not right with the both of you especially you as the adult. Remember she will grow up one day reflect and I hope she won't regret knowing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:44 AM
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That really messed up you're dating a kid who doesn't even know what best for her. That's sad man, I'm 25F and in college again and I had a crush on a guy and so did he until I realized he's 19. I immediately stopped everything because I'm the adult in the situation and know better. That gross to be honest you're almost 30 and are with someone thats not even 20 wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:37 AM
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Women tell men this all the time but most of them won't it believe until a men says it. Asian men are smaller but so are their women, it's all about compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:06 PM
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What is masculinity to you I'm curious to know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:51 PM
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No men marry their level but think they married down because they don't see what women see. Men overate themselves, I've seen it all my life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:41 PM
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Why do we have to limit women to uplift men, can't we accomplish both. Why do men need women to assume a lesser role for them to feel comfortable or needed in society. What needs to happen is to deal with male insecurities and factors that negatively affect them like acholism, homelessness and overall mental health issues. Men need to figue out where they belong in this modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:29 PM
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I guess they just don't know how to pitch an open relationship and clearly lacking communication skills which is essential for that type of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:29 AM
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It depends on their trauma because a lot of people have sexually abused as kids or overall child abuse goes a long way to fuck someone up. Sexual and relational dysfunction is an unfortunate result of that. I've actually seen this behavior with man too and typically you notice they're the risk taking type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:28 AM
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Yeah that possible too like a weird way to reject someone, it's definitely not the norm. Also hope you're having a awesome day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:18 AM
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Well according to psychology women who struggle with mental health especially personality disorders and manic episodes might be hypersexual or sexually dysfunctional (self harm). I've known 3 girls like this all diagnosed borderline personality disorder or traumatic mental disorders. 1 got treatment and completely changed, married and way more emotional regulated. I just don't think a mentally and socially healthy women would think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:16 AM
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Narrow-mindedness only allows you to see what you want to see. You're also just repeating a phrase that you yourself can't even rationalize or explain. Most women here are telling you they never heard a women say that and on top on that OP is talking about 1 particular woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:11 AM
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Thank you I appreciate that and I learned a lot about myself and men to that's why I don't feel shameful about it anymore, I was kid playing an adult game. It led me to be interested in male issues because although they appeared confident they had low self-esteem too. I didn't know men had self image issue until then, I just thought most guys were not effected by societies standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:06 PM
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They're also the risk taking type of women, sometimes it's a form of self harm due to low self-esteem where they keep putting themselves in unfavorable and unsafe positions with men. I was like that from 17-18 until I realized how mentally unstable it is to sleep with a random guys that don't care about you. Thank God I had my senses and didn't make that mistake more than 3 times and been celibate since (25 now). I talk to a lot of women about this and a lot were convinced that causal sex is fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:41 PM
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Huh 😮‍💨 Due to slavery and Jim crow there's a lot of healing that's still underway in our communities hence why theres an issue of domestic violence. Therefore as a blk women I have to be mindful of that and as Im one person I eliminate on immediate things like favoring gangster culture which endorses dv but I wouldn't be rude or not treat them a like person just not date them. I know many women from different cultures that avoid or are weary of men from the same culture because of things like d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:28 PM
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I mentioned my race because it's not racist to avoid or be cautious of a person or group because of a certain setbacks that are more likely to occur with those individuals or groups. In relation with the topic it's not saying blk guys or bi sexuals are bad or all the same but there is more of a chance of std or domestic abuse and thus people can be either cautious or avoid them completely. It's not a malicious act but rather one being honest and responsible about what they can handle from anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:20 PM
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Well isn't that what red pillers say about Chad that since he's attractive he has infinite options and therefore has a lot more chances to cheat than an average or unattractive man. It's to say theres more of chance of cheating Of course it's boils down to the individual's character but essentially if you like both genders and yet decided to be with 1 of them, are you truly sexually satisfied. Atlanta is a good example of this, there's a lot of down low men (secretly bi or gay) who get a girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:06 PM
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I'm a blk women, I avoid a lot of stereotypical blk men and more strict on my standards with them because of this. All the blk women I know are more cautious with blk men but still respect and love them. It's not discrimination it's the cultural reality because a lot of blk men are dealing with mental health issues and economic/social setbacks. No a valid example
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:36 PM
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Gay men are more open to different types of sexual expressions because they're already diverting from the norm, but even then they express to only want other gay or even straight men over bi. I think it's because bi want both genders instead on one would make someone who only like 1 gender feel like you'll cheat more likely. Also there are more straight women than gay guys so of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:25 PM
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That doesn't make any sense, both groups including lesbians are making the same observations. I've heard from gays guys that finding and staying in faithful relationships is hard because of the cheating, so imagine that with a guy who likes both genders. It's may sound politically correct to include bi men into your dating pool but does it's fit into your lifestyle, does it actually work relationship wise for a individual. Most women are saying no because they want a straight man which not hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:10 PM
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Of course women played a role, how much depends on the culture and customs but nonetheless if it was a patriarchal society the men would get the final say. The children were under the father's name not the wife so he legally did not have to consider the wife's input if he was going to sell/marry his daughter away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:15 PM
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Yeah exactly like that he's viewing from a male perspective on what you would consider a good match. Its common with south Asians too because of arrange marriages they pick someone good on paper but there's no real chemistry or compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:02 PM
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In most of history the institution of marriage had nothing to do with love or even compatibility, as even children were married off to old men. It was familial males that arranged the marriage with very little female input (maybe the mother voice would count) because they wanted to ensure that their daughter had a provider in exchange for sleeping with him and having his kids, and domestic labour. Poorer women still had work but could not supplement a livable wage without a husband This is were …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:19 PM
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Men have this weird idea that your confidence and standards have to depend on how you look. So if you're a 5 don't expect men to treat you like 8, just listen to how crazy that sounds. It's okay to have preferences and pick based on looks (free will) but you can't determine how someone else should view themselves and allow people to treat. This why I you see the abuse pattern of dating a confidence and beautiful women and then destroying and hating everything that made her like that to lower her…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:14 PM
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Look up the casual sex stats it's a few women and men having casual flings the rest are in relationships and single. I don't know any woman in my circle having causal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:50 PM
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None of these expect for boys being left behind are real and tangible issues because Some women use men for food and money and some men use women for sex and mommy privileges. With both parties no one is being forced to do anything but lack wisdom to not be fooled by others -men overstate the whole Chad thing because men haven't been expected to be attractive until now because women have options outside of being someones wife. The cupid data is not a good example (noted by researchers) because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:02 AM
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Definitely which is why regular women avoid them or theyre seeking a power imbalance in the relationship like the whole I saved her vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:47 PM
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Great response I grew up in a rough area and knew a lot of girls like this with most becoming escorts, they live life through their looks and what it can get them which is why it's a short lived time. Most of them are diagnosed borderline personality issues and they are extremely abusive to men but men can't seem to leave them alone. The stories I have are crazy but I saw with hanging with those girls that men don't care that your a down low prostitute with low morals they will still wife you or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:47 PM
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What about the final boss king chromocel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:37 PM
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Very little men seem to realize this, it's just human behavior because the unemployment Chad is probably more skilled in bed, risky and more convenient (no emotional attachments). It's the perfect combo for a single women looking for casual not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:36 PM
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Women are leaving by either divorcing at high rates or not marry at all or later but we get backlash for it. Women get blamed for initiating most divorces and also being married to said bad man. Men are literally telling women to avoid them because we got blamed for their actions in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:31 PM
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How are women pushing men to be red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:23 PM
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Maybe women see you and can't even muster up any sexual attraction for you but at least you can pay a beautiful woman to play pretend that with you. It's just nature bud don't take it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:17 PM
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Women are more self aware of their appearance and can easily tell where they and other lie in terms of social hierarchy. Every overly hot guy I talked to either as a friend or potential has said women assume they're fuck boys and only sleep with them but avoided relationships with them. This trope of women giving their bodies in desperate hope for relationships is false or overrated because that would mean more women would be seeking and offering intimacy to men which is not happening. Our gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:44 PM
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Do men not have anything else to live for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:24 PM
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The previous notation was masculinity meant being in control of the situation which typically meant having a career and money. A lot of society past and present are uncomfortable with women being in control of their own situations especially when it comes to dating because female labour is unpaid and underappreciated. Societies had to force women to stay at home and be mothers because as we see today a lot of women don't want that kind of lifestyle, or at least not the extremely traditional one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:44 PM
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Not every man views it the same as you because there is proof of psychological damage from these assults even if the victim may deem it okay it's assault especially of a minor. "And especially to risk her career for someone who's not even of age. "Wow, she must really desire him, even with him being a teenager" Once again this is a dangerous perspective to have as just because women hold access to sex doesn't mean you should place sex and women on a pedestal and completely ignore that fact she's…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:46 AM
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Although I think need for intimacy plays a big part in male loneliness, I do agree that the perspective of vulnerability has to change. I've watched some men realize this and learn to better communicate their needs and feelings as well as being compassionate with themselves and others. However I've always noticed men partake in the alarming behavior of devaluing male victims, in particular cases of male students being abused by older female teachers. It's always women standing up for the victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:29 PM
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History is not based on your feelings or limited perspective. The womens suffrage started in 1848 and fought for voters rights for women because remember women weren't allowed to vote, had less legal rights like could open a bank (until 1970s). Also they spearheaded the prohibition movement because women and children were suffering the most from male drinking. So again what catering are you talking about because 2 to 1 generations ago life looked different for our mothers and grandmothers. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:49 PM
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Women in North America have been fighting for womens and children right since the 1800s. Also tell me as a blk women how society caters to me because black women did and still fight against systemic racism. In what ways are women catered to by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:32 PM
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😂 that was a nice joke I can't wait for your next set, I see a Netflix special in your future. M
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:12 PM
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Explain how
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:31 PM
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They sound really lame and maybe the culture is different where you are but I've worked in very social environments and have never heard that, but I've heard the usual is he handsome or good at sex talk. I don't want to invalidate your express but why care so much for the opinion of others especially as this is not how must women think. I had two guys stop talking to me because I'm a flattie, and there's no positive movement or space for small booties in my community. Despite all that I don't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:18 PM
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I've haven't had a convo like that since high school, it's so weird to talk about someones boyfriend/husband dick and most women I know are not having casual sex, if they are they don't jump into sex details.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:56 PM
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So men don't reinforce any bad ideas into society and you don't even have stats to figure how many women are doing this and the types of women too. Newsflash it's a small group of low class women with probably some mental or past abuse issues.The popular ones (even a show) look and behave exactly how you'd expect them to be. Also I noticed a streak of those women being into or allowing the felony boyfriend to abuse their child or be into child abusers. Is this small subset of women going to be y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:37 AM
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It's easier to tell just by how they approach you if they're a player, also personally I like traditional dating as I want the guy to lead. Of course if I see or know a guy I like I give him more attention and compliments basically flirting but if he's to shy I'll just assume he doesn't like me and stop the special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:45 PM
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No it's 40-45% for male and 80% for female. We have twice the female ancestors than males
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:27 PM
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Asking men out is not a good dating tactic but great for FWB which most women don't want to do. Most women know that getting a random guy to sleep with them is easy work even if they're rough looking, so approaching a a guy that you see relationship potential is a waste of time because he's more than likely to say yes even if he doesn't like you the same way. Men are to desperate and casual with themselves that it feels more genuine when they pursue first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:21 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4857885/ This and other studies have found that when the wife is sick the husband is more than likely to leave (appx by 7x more ) versus when the husband is sick he's at less risk of divorce and then likely to receive support. "Most women will leave a man in sickness, in poorer, in bad times as opposed to a man doing that to a women. Men are loyal, women are opportunistic in nature when it comes to marriage" Please reinsert that back into your rectum. Non…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:05 PM
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But who are you to say that's not an ideal option for women, what metrics are you judging this by. Also women and men can cope with things differently and studies found women to have more social networks than men ( a lot of men don't have friends or close friend groups like before) which would make staying single easier. The fact that women are the ones to initiate divorces shows you that women fear singleness less than men nowadays. Traditional societies never had to incentive men to interact a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:46 PM
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How are they shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:35 PM
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That's what I'm saying about lying bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:32 PM
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One that doesn't justify anything and secondly those are two different things. To lie about your sexuality vs lying about how people you slept with are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:34 PM
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Well it's not up to those women to fix that for you, try dating at your level or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:20 PM
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Why does it have to comparable, who said nature was fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:37 PM
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But unfortunately more men are willing to do that then women are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:31 PM
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No I wouldn't be with a bi man. In the church we're taught not to be unequally yoked which basically means that you don't marry someone who doesn't believe in what you believe in. I wont discriminate against bi men but it's literally the opposite of what I believe spiritually and seek for in a man. I don't want to make them feel ashamed for being bi as I wouldn't support that so wouldn't work relationship wise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:28 PM
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Yes very much so and it would make me uncomfortable to know that you can't be honest with yourself. What else will you cover if you hide your own sexuality and shouldn't you be comfortable to share that in a relationship without worry. These are all sign incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:16 PM
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They did give answers and it's clear they clearly want a heterosexual man because that's their sexual preference. A bi men is not heterosexual and doesn't behave heterosexually which is why they stated they don't want. A lot of women are not comfortable being with a man that sleeps with other men, it's not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:57 AM
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She gave a reason which is preference but you won't accept because it don't fit into your narrative. What do you want to hear and also why do you care so much that someone is straight and acting on that. Heterosexual couple= straight men + straight women not bi but that's not a heterosexual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:43 AM
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Actually read the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:01 AM
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That's sounds like a selfish person and shouldn't he be honest with his sexuality. Some women in the comments mentioned the lying and here you are confirming it. I'm now going to be extra weary because I didn't expect people to go so low and hide such a huge thing from potential partners that's a bad way to start any relationship even sexual because I would be so uncomfortable to know he's sleeping with men and not telling me. That actually gross and abusive. People have a right to say no to tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:00 AM
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Not sure what you mean there would need to be more context
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:56 PM
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I don't know but that's not what I was implying, I'm just trying remind people that there's difference opinions and that doesn't always make someone "close minded" or "evil". In fact, in terms of this question I would avoid a bi man because I respect his free will to live as he wants but inact my own free will of not allowing that in my life I don't know I guess it's kinda pointless to argue this because it can be difficult for people to comprehend how we don't always have to agree on everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:54 PM
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Okay I'm speaking as an outsider but I grew up with mostly south Asian and you guys aren't encouraged to find or date girls outside of your parents or community control. Like a mid Indian guy is set as long as he's in the right caste and has a good job because he's parent will arrange a marriage. There no sexual desires at play here so I think your experience has a lot of cultural edge to it Also I noticed a lot of brown guys not even having female friends growing up, out of all the ethnic group…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:11 AM
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That's another whole topic there, maybe post it would be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:58 AM
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They asked for people opinions knowing the answers they'd get and then proceeded to shame said people they asked opinions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:53 AM
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Actually no, most people think like this but are afraid to voice it or don't care enough to because it's not worth the backlash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:52 AM
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It's nature and human anthropology because this ideas didn't develop overnight, men's sexual desires are viewed negatively because they impact and fuel so many things which some are bad. For example I was surprised to know that a high number of sexless and unmarriageable men equal revolts and/or war. If enough men are not getting sex it can become dangerous for society balance as there would be no incentive for them to work and maintain their part in society. For example polygamy stopped because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:31 AM
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No that's just gender bias at this point you think women don't appreciate it because you view them as being spoiled with options when in reality most women are average and get approached less often then you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:14 AM
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Yup that's what I'm trying to get a family to know, your basically taking the burden off your shoulders. Trust me your kids will appreciate it, so many of us wish our mothers could be stronger like yourself. Have a lovely day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:28 PM
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That's what I am saying because one women commented that her husband grew up not doing chores but put his ego aside to learn. It's really about a willingness to support or meet your partner halfway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:41 PM
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If someone can watch their wife who's working and childrearing do all the house chores in top of that and not help, they don't like you to begin with and that's really how they think it should be. It can be discussed for sure, it should have been communicated before commitment too. Honestly I have seen these type of situations and the guy typically resent or looks down on the women, her work is not valued in his eyes. More than likely he's sloppy in other areas to. I could be exaggerating but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:10 PM
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That must have been hard, hope you and your children are doing well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:05 PM
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Why didn't he tell her about how he felt, instead of waiting 4 years and until she was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:00 PM
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It doesn't compare no matter how hard you try, in the first case the women and men were communicating directly, the man was just lying. That's deception, in the second one the boy deceived himself because why wait 4 years and they were just friends. On top of that to confess when she's in a relationship, that's a red flag. He is deceiver because he even mentioned being mean to her after finding out shes dating. If your friend got mad at one for something you didn't even know you did, isn't that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:56 AM
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How someone deals with rejection, insecurities or just unfairness is very important in determining if they have a more stable and positive mindset which works better long run. It also makes them a problem solver because instead of doing nothing and being defeated they keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:02 PM
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I felt it was the 70s but it shocked me how not a long ago that was, that was my mom's time. It's crazy to think of actually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:45 AM
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Yeah thats life though you can't control people desires and expectations. For example I'm dark skinned and got a lot of shit for it growing up and was basically told I shouldn't expect men from my own culture to value me. Did you know that in black marriages a little skin women is more 2x likely to get married then a dark skin women. My own brother warned me of this at 15 years old I even watched a movie set in New Orleans in the 1800s and it basically should how a slave owner (white) had a whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:36 AM
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They think women see men the way they see us, with a overt obsession over looks more than compatibility when most women I know first described their boyfriend or husband as "I didn't really think he was that cute or didn't notice him but once I got to know him, he grew on me". Of course there women care for physical attraction but not a much as men and are more flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:25 AM
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Why don't they ever understand this point, women literally couldn't open a bank account without a husband up until the late 50s, it was out of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:13 AM
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You know that basically what trophy wives or women in general were expected to do or worse then they should expect the cheating and be happy to be the "wife" not side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:01 AM
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Women are not afraid or hate sex, they just hate bad sex which unfortunately (it's been studied) happen more often then it should, it's not always pleasurable. A man is pretty much guaranteed an orgasim even if the women lays there doing nothing while women are not guaranteed that. Also despite birth control women are still afraid of the outcome of sex like pregnancy. So basically as women your not guaranteed an orgasim, at risk of being pregnant, std and being attacked or (mainly back then or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:54 AM
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I already apologize to commentor for misunderstanding his comment, have God filled day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:42 PM
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Firstly it's been confirmed now that older men's sperm has more of a impact on women's pregnancy and the child than initially thought so both genders have to keep that in mind. Also no one was looking for autism in the 1940s and most disabled would die naturally or be killed so it's only now that people are open about disabled kids. We also have consider that hormonal changes from environmental damage is doing to us, men's Adam apples have decreased in size and more women are experiencing PCOS a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:36 PM
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Oh my apologies I misread your comment and I do agree with, the hook up culture is not as harmless as people think and I view waiting as a sign of respect to yourself and your partner but it's personal. I hope you have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:20 PM
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😂 then what about Christian who practice absence before marriage, my cousin was dating her now husband for 3 years no sex, there are many like that in my church still married in old age because this was common practice for most of human history. Sex is nothing everything and not the only way to feel wanted in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:59 PM
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Thats a good point you brought up but I would add that she 23, she's not even mid 20s and your about to be 30. Those ages may seem close together but I think from 19-35 is when people experience a lot of personal changes. For example I'm 25, at 23 I was so different as my life was falling apart from from 19-23. I had no goals but now I'm back in school with big plans. What you expect out of life under 25 compared to above it is different. Either way it's not a compatible relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:49 PM
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Do you want to hit a nerve is that why you posted this. The conclusion is most people think it's gross and creepy, you can't control how other perceive you entirely. Nothing about your post is triggering because most women know the depth of perversion the some men may have. I just imagine you around college campuses creeping for the next victim, go get your fix old man. 🤣 Thanks for the post for real it's cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:36 PM
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No women are very good at keeping predatory women from children, we side eye each other if we even date someone a year younger. What I have noticed tho especially in cases of school boys being abused by female teachers is how many men call the victim "lucky", or "wish it was me bro" and it's women who point it out as abuse. Also I won't say women are helpless and weak but it's easier to bring a women to that point rather than a man, that's common sense. It's also common to know men are more desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:17 PM
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Yes thats so true and I appreciate this space as place to hear what men are really feeling and going through. Although we should have more physical spaces for this too because I'm person people experience for empathy and care then online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:56 PM
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I'm sorry if I offended you but I wanted to emphasize how little empathy baby mom get and also the nuisances in the type of situations as I was speaking in general. I don't know how your custody battle has been but from what I've been seen custody can be given if one is proven to be abusive which is why I recommended you to fight harder for the kid. The kid deserves that to and appreciate your fight for him/her. I hope God heals you and you should honestly turn to Him because He is real and it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:29 PM
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Do you know what they tell baby moms when they complain about their bbt daddies, you should have picked better. But a more empathetic and real response would that sucks and I'm sorry that's your situation but you have to fight harder for your kid. I looked into it because I always hear man saying the courts are against them in terms of custody and yes there is some pushback but there's also a commons thread of men not even showing up to court, relinquishing custody rights or being out right abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:01 PM
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It matters because the latter is a predator they are seeking young girls out because they are vulnerable and those particular man are looking to take advantage of that. There's likely a victim involved whereas with a 27 year old marrying two their age has self agency and should be aware of the nuisances of being in such a union. The younger a person is the less they now and have experienced, it's a fact that grooming exist and in general if someone is going after significantly younger people the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:51 PM
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At this point we have to ask if there more deadbeats then initially assumed. Men see themselves differently then we see them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:38 PM
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So it's okay and should be expected to behave like this to underage girls....are you okay because what was the point of this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:33 PM
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With one the the focus is to find a compatible partner, the second is like a fetish you're purposely seeking a younger person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:29 PM
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I understand that can also happen but I don't assume your going after 19 years but rather those 21 and up. I'm just saying that I literally felt my frontal lobe finish developing and can confidently say the type of men or relationships I would have allowed under 25 compared to now is striking. But I would say in your situation your just a young guy dating other young people as I would assume your not going after teenagers. Your still in your prime to and I hope you enjoy your youth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:24 PM
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I'll never view older man purposely dating younger women as a positive thing from my observations but that's a personal feeling. We can't control your decision as long as it legally consenting so why bother explaining because I see this topic a lot. I remember what it was like going through puberty at 11 (developed early) and how older man intentionally pursued me and other young girls knowing we're children. So in my mind it's distasteful and I would prevent my own children from being in relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:11 PM
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Yes but men would say yes to any attention offered by a woman even if they don't necessarily want a relationship with her. That's why is doesn't make sense to approach as a women because he's going to say yes even if he's not attractived and/or possibly consider having a relationship with you. Chances are he's gonna going to view it as opportunity to get sex or attention from a women rather than 'is this woman someone I can see myself with" . The chances of having your time wasted jump drastical…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:21 PM
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That's a crazy age gap it's kinda understandable why people would be put off by it as I can't understand what a 44 year old could even see in common with a teenager. If your relationship is healthy that will positively impact your daughter more than what any prejudiced people might say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:23 PM
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The dependency for female validation and attention in the manosphere has tainted public view of men's rights and social issues regarding men as the very men themselves only talk about 304s instead of multitude of issues facing young men today. Could have been great platform for male bonding and support as male friendships and role models are lacking It's actually quite telling on how we as a society have shaped boys into men that believe they can only be valued for what they do for others, like …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:09 AM
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How is a personal preference a serious problem, I'm asking with respect as I think it would only be viewed as a "problem" if one is uncomfortable with people expressing their free will to make a choice. Interesting you mentioned tolerance and preference, would you say guys who have a limited preference of what they like but marry someone completely opposite to that look wise are being tolerant? You make it seem like any women that genuinely like a short man is pretending is someway, that sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:34 AM
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Sorry that was your experience. I think it comes down to socializing like young girls learn about hierarchies (in terms of beauty which equals social power) at a very young age and thus learn to process it early on. For example I learned very early on what it means to be an "unattractive girl" and many girls learn to understand if I'm a 5 I shouldn't feel entitled to being everyone's type. Whereas when I looked back all boys despite what they looked like had better view of themselves but that ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:22 AM
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Rejection is still rejection and dating apps are a horrible example as most men on there are looking for a easy screw and it's majority men. Also I know many average and below average women who barely get hit on. I think some men believe every women gets treated like Instagram models, some women have to actively try to date and have similar struggles that men do, like rejection. It's kinda like how I used to think beautiful women had it all until I had the empathy to realize all humans face vary…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:09 AM
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I was born assless and have had two guys turn me down because of it, but I respect their decision because people are allowed to exercise their physical preferences. To say it's not equal doesn't make any sense, it just shows that some guys have a hard time accepting that women also have physical preferences. There are many instances where women will have preferences and date someone completely opposite of that. I've never met any women that talks down on short men, only ones that prefer to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:33 PM
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Like I said you cannot control how others perceive you as I don't agree with your statement there. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:11 PM
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She never said burn the gays, she just said lifestyle choices don't add up. She has a choice the same way you do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:04 PM
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But here's the thing just because you used protection doesn't wash away the fact that your partaking in a reproductive activity. Thats like eating food and being surprised that you have to take a shit. And yes the women has more choice on if the baby lives or dies because it's in her body and will take on majority of the care and impact her ability to marry later on. As a women I was taught a man can get you pregnant and walk away and live a normal life while your life we'll be changed and payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:07 AM
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Actually that advice still works, if I don't want to risk being a baby mama and having an unwanted pregnancy I just keep my legs closed. What happened to accountability that you guys preach, as a women I know when dealing with the man sexually even while married I can be left with the child same way men have to know the risks that a women can demand child support or abort the child (I don't agree with abortion unless there's a valid reason but thats why you discuss deeply with partners about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:57 AM
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Parenthood is a choice it's called absence, if you keep in your pants and take heavy precautions on who you sleep with it would be better. Also women literally carry the child and do the majority of raising of course more rights and consideration would be given to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:52 AM
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I'm going to simplify my point, some women enjoy external validation from men sure especially if they're in the business of using men but some don't care, they do because they admire their own bodies and compete or like how other women perceive them. For example if I'm dressed nicely and a man compliments me that nice, I appreciate it but if other women do I'd then know I look good. Men gave away validation to women easily that it honestly doesn't hold as much value as validation from yourself o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:26 AM
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I'd also like to add that men don't understand how enjoyable women find it to beautify or dress themselves a certain way because look at how little girls play, they're not thinking about getting a guy but just like how the makeup colors and clothes look on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:28 PM
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Women who are not lesbian or bi still find other women attractive and I would argue women are the 'fairer sex' and thus typically enjoy showing that off to what extent they're comfortable with, male attraction happens to be a by-product of this and not the direct motivation. So yes even if men didn't exist women would still dress provocatively and I would argue would be more provocative as there would be no fear of unwanted attention or assumptions that they want sexual attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:23 PM
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When it comes to dressing provocatively I generally think women do it for themselves and other women because we know it's easy to get a man attention so why go the extra mile. You can wear a trench coat and probably still get some guys attention. In regards to myself when I dress sexy I only think of men in regards to "this might be to much I don't want guys to look at me". Of course there woman that do it for men, majority just enjoy beautifying and seeing themselves dressed a certain way. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:43 PM
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Then don't, who's forcing to care for everyone that's not even in your life. Just because you care or do stuff for others doesn't mean they need to the same back. You're not entitled to anyone's attention. You're making a choice you don't like and want others to change for you, unrealistic buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:32 AM
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You want women to take accountability for the poor state of men today and paint yourself as a victim but I can guarantee you don't help your fellow brothers out. I remember being so happy when red pill came out because I wanted to hear the men's side but one thing I noticed is men always blame and bring women into the conversation instead of focusing on actual issues. The other men that try to address real issues like homeless males, suicide and men who've been abused always get called "weak" by…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:54 PM
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A women can only have 1 pregnancy in a year and a men can have as many as possible to him, yes I agree women have to take heavy precautions when dealing with men, but I find it's hypocritical when men blame women for something that involves both men and women. Besides that the reason the gov helps is because women are the one who take responsibility while the man typically runs hence why the law has to get involved. It's not often that you need to take a mother to court for child support, yet it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:08 AM
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I'm sorry to be rude but that's a lie, popular girls were popular because they look pretty and trendy. The baseline requirement was to be more physically attractive than the other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:45 AM
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It's because men have been view as individuals rather then property of their fathers or husbands and can pursue their own interest rather than being forced or pressured into motherhood, that you don't understand why women value the opportunity to work. We're well aware of how capitalism works but understand it's a privilege that previous generations of women didn't have
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:44 PM
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No problem you're entitled to make your own decisions just as women are, can't force people to accept you. It's better to find other goals in life or change to be accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:56 PM
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Just because it's hard for men to control their flesh doesn't make it easier for women, self control and accountability is possible for everyone just not a fun process. Anyways enjoy your holidays and I hope 2025 will be a year of peace for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:29 AM
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There's no such thing as a 'false' choice, there are many people that decide to be single for varying reason. It might be because you don't like or can't handle being single, which is fine as we're social creatures but don't paint it like you don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:48 AM
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That is a choice, just a choice you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:41 PM
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I'm not defend any hateful behavior, if you hate the opposite gender you are the problem, and this current society lack self accountability. What I am saying is that its undeniable that men are more likely to be violent to themselves or others, for example male suicides are more violent than female suicides which leads to more females being saved and attempting more often. In my own personal observation I have noticed men tend to externalize their pain while women internalize. Don't get me wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:32 AM
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They may not promote violence directly but they promote ' the problem is women and not you' mentality. All I'm saying is (in my opinion) an emotionally deranged women is vastly different from what an emotionally deranged men would do or capable of. I'm not saying women are angels but are less prone to external violence as compared to men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:59 PM
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Both things are bad but in reality one leads to social prejudice and the other violence and murder. Two wrongs don't make a right but the fact is that men with dangerous ideals are more likely to be dangerous to themselves and/or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:14 AM
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Just a deflection is your way of not addressing my point. I'll move on since your projecting, doesn't telling these men "no" get them away. If someone is interested in you and you say no, why go and escalate the issue. This doesn't seem like an actual thing but your implying that women go out of their way to belittle unattractive men when in reality they just don't recieve the same positive reactions that attractive men receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:50 AM
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It's so fascinating yet sad to see this kind of train of thought. Its obvious by the way you think every women is out there chasing Chad and sleeping around that your chronically online. Please provide stats so that we can have logical convo and not emotional projection. According to National Survey Of Family Growth, from 2015 to 2019 females are 41.4% sexually active while 40.1% of the males are. For the amount of sexual partners for the 25-29 age group, 17.7% of women have had 1 partners while…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:00 PM
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Most relationships are 50/50 and there are many women now that out earn their partners or make about the same. The average man is not making enough to support a wife yet alone kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:42 PM
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This is a delusional take and I thought women don't notice unattractive guys, so why spend time "ruining their lives". It's not logical at all because what do women gain by doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:37 PM
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I come from a country that used to do Polygamy 3 or 4 generations back and we decided as a collective to stop because it's breeds so much hate, division, war and violence. This is because the root of it is unfair, the women qmarried to one man are never satisfied and are basically glorified single mothers, you have no emotional partner just some guy that occasionally sees and bangs you. It also puts women against each other as they fight to secure inheritance for their male heirs. Often times ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:38 AM
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Promiscuity in my personal opinion has negative affects on communities and is something both genders can do. Just because women can be promiscuous more easily doesn't make men doing it any less negative. Getting rich doesn't have direct negative effects on yourself and the community, in fact it can be a positive thing but promiscuity is a reflection of morals and has direct negative effect despite which gender does it. It's like wanting to get rid of pest in a home and you have 2 kids who leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:18 AM
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My apologies for assuming, I just often see the retroric that since it's harder to men to get sex they should get a pass at being promiscuous and that somehow we're responsible. I misunderstood your comment I hope you have a blessed week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:45 AM
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I understand that, it's why men are so driven by sex and women are not but to limit women's choice while men so the same thing is immature and lacks accountability. In the Bible there's a story about a prostitute who gets caught and the very cilents (men) dragged her to be stoned, accusing her of exactly the same thing they were doing. That why Jesus basically called them hypocrites, that's exactly this post. You can't cry about something men have been doing without shame for centuries now becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:57 AM
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That doesn't change anything, it's not our fault nature is like this same way I can't get mad at men for being physically stronger. You can't have all the advantages. Men have been playing the hoe for ages now, it's only gotten bitter for them now that women can choose whom and when they want to. When power structures change some things feel like oppression when it's just change.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:42 AM
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Are you even present in same reality we're in
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:22 AM
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No, promiscuity from both side do you just want women to stop using the same privilege that men having been using for centuries. Both genders value loyalty yet women are expected to to deal cheating, double families and past sexual partners from men for centuries. It's only now that women are sleeping with whom they choose and the fact is they don't choose most men. Genetic Anthropology shows the we have twice the female ancestors than males so males in all of human history have had about 40-50%…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:17 AM
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Sir are you aware of thing called history?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:06 AM
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Hey I'm a former fat and ugly girl, I did feel jaded at first at how people treated the hotter me better vs the unhealthy me. Other then that I didn't view myself as victim so why be mad at someone's reasonable preference. I don't know any women with that mindset. I wouldn't date a fat man so why expect the same, it's only victims that are looking for revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:58 AM
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| Because it's the mental and instinctual evaluation women make about men| Yes it's a reality that women either unfortunately experience in various degrees, or hear/see from other women. Regardless it's a reality that women are physically weaker than men, so it's not about muscle it's the pure simple fact that any random man can literally destroy a women's life in a way a women can't. I understand women can be dangerous but the difference in physical strength should not be undermined. Women don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:22 PM
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It's not an objectification it's the reality of being a woman. Only immature girls would believe that men are not a possible and very real threat to their lives. It has nothing to do with feminism proven by how old societies were very strict with the safety and "virtue" of their women knowing very well what men are capable of. Men are important and valuable to humanity but they don't perceive how blessed they are to have the stability and safety and struggle to understand why women are so fearfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:18 AM
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Women's sex drive is biologically different to men thus we don't crave sex to the same degree as men. Some women may have a higher libido but most women can go a long time without sex. Look at old married couples, the husband typically wants sex more than the wife or she's not even engaging in that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:55 PM
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