meghan518 Archive

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1	Tinder Advice Needed not sure how you want to post. That sucks. I do know it's pretty normal, as many initial conversations can burn out quickly. Do you suggest a phone call/face time? that can be a way to connect and gauge initial compatibility but without the commitment of going on a date.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/23 04:31 PM
1	Tinder Advice Needed Probably not anything you're doing (but if you want better feedback you can post screenshots). remember dating is just about finding compatibility. We are not going to be compatible with most people, That's OK. Any dropping off in the first 3-6 dates is pretty normal. Sometimes it's distance, personalities don't seem to click, not as attracted as we thought, getting busy in life ect.. Don't take it too personally. I like meeting up very quickly as I hate wasting time texting, others prefer to …	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/23 04:26 PM
6	Is this RP statistic true? you know you can get a bachelors in any discipline and still be admitted to med school and law school? as long as you hit the prereqs for med school. In fact they try to admit students from a sampling of different degrees. Psychology is actually very common (I have a psych BA and was seriously considering med school but decided not to after shadowing doctors) law school has no prereqs *at least in the US also many jobs pay 100k and require any bachelors but they don't care what.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/23 02:55 PM
1	“Just start a business, bro” Getting their followers into financially precarious situations causes anxiety which makes them more susceptible to their influence. They make money from selling courses. They also want to portray extreme confidence and capability (otherwise why would you want to listen to them). Owning your own business gives the facade of capability, even though many small business owners are barely making it. Easy to be a CEO in a business of 1 lol. That being said there is a ton of actually useful business …	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/23 11:58 PM
17	Modern society is wrong. Women do not love or have real sexualities, but use sex and love as a weapon and a resource. that's a long post to say "i've never been able to make a woman cum"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 02:49 AM
4	Love a human need cool my intuition says your wrong so I guess to each their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 01:20 AM
3	Love a human need according to what data?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 01:13 AM
2	Do things like this confirm the redpill narrative? It's hard but worth it. I deal with social anxiety and have since I was a kid. I challenged myself in a lot of ways and it did really help. After covid I regressed a lot so I'm in the process of doing it all over again and some days it's really overwhelming. I wish you the best luck on your journey. If you haven't tried it already I really recommend cognitive behavioral therapy. It helped me a lot to change my anxious thoughts. Now instead of "checking" to see if others don't like me I try to re…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 07:25 PM
6	Love a human need exactly, also recognizing this helps shift pressure off romantic relationships. I find people I know who put a lot of value and effort into their friendships, community, and family are much more fulfilled. Love can take on so many forms and really improve our lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 07:16 PM
1	A lot of marriages end in divorce and women are often filing for it - but in many of the cases: is it so wrong? It's definitely not wrong. I find it hard to sympathize with some of the people complaining about being "robbed" in divorce proceedings when they never took the time to iron out a prenup or ever created a postnuptial agreement. If you know you are maying someone who earns less than you and are concerned about your future finances, have this conversation with your partner. Both men and women should talk this out before making large decisions. If life changes and suddenly finances change, amend yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 07:04 PM
5	Do things like this confirm the redpill narrative? i know it's hard, but i can almost guarantee you will be better off resisting the urge to filter everything into "does this fit RP". If I looked right now I could find 100,000 books, quotes, studies, personal stories that COULD fit RP ideology if I interpret it that way. In the same way if I was wanting to I could fine even MORE evidence that would not support those ideas. There will always be multiple ways of interpreting things. People who were traumatized see potential danger everywhere, peop…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 06:40 PM
19	Question to r/exredpill; Do the women in these videos exist in the real world? How do you avoid them? I mean r/exredpill tells me that these women don't exist. of course some women like this exist. Similarly there are videos cherry picking men who only want a hot girl to have sex 24/7. But obviously this is an extreme minority. Where do you currently work, and are most of the people there married/coupled? My own experience has been no matter how shitty my job/pay (waitress, receptionist, social work, fast food), at least 30% of my coworkers were married , and around 70% in a relationship at any given time, and almost always to someone making the same a…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 06:24 PM
4	Why do men generally marry younger women? Honestly it just boils down to older traditions that are no longer that relevant Before in the past men had to achieve a certain level of financial stability of the woman's family would not approve the marriage. Family wanted to know their daughter would be taken care of since she had no/limited economic options, and that having babies is expensive. Because of this they married their daughters to slightly older men because they had more savings due to working longer, getting promoted, ect.. …	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 09:13 PM
6	Re-phrasing my last post Is men's loneliness a real issue, yes. Do many women talk about and are concerned about it, yes. Does every women think deeply and care greatly about it, no. Like most humans we mainly care about what effects us and our close loved ones personally. No cause has 100% approval by everyone. I think relying on "understanding" to create change is a slow and rarely useful route. It's also a terrible place to get trapped emotionally. If every woman on earth woke up tomorrow and suddenly was aware of …	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 09:03 PM
2	Asked a legit question in a legal advice sub, question taken down as trolling yes exactly, or buy yourself gold jewelry. Watches, rings, and gold chains have decent resale value. Why lend out jewelry, this sounds needlessly complicated? Almost like OP wants the "credit" of giving a gift without actually doing it? Or trying to create some kind of weird financial incentive to get her to stay with you. Obviously no one is owed gifts, but then just don't buy her anything	/r/MensRights	19/09/22 09:41 PM
3	I'm just not seeing what you all are saying. I mean tbh modern dating as we even know it has only been around for around 100 years, with women's careers/financial independence only becoming feasible around the 50's/60's in the west. That's only two generations. Before this relationships were absolutely an economic decision. So I'm sure there are still remnants of these types of beliefs from both men and women. Also most people when looking for a long term relationship want stability, emotionally and financially. This makes sense especially…	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/22 05:18 PM
1	On the verge of going down that path again, resentment is building. I'm sorry you experienced this. Pain can be isolating and make it harder for us to feel comfortable connecting to others. Unfortunately the current mentality you have of comparing suffering will not be helpful to you at all. There is always someone who has gone through worse (both men and women). Each person's trauma is unique to them in the way it effected you, but at the end of the day that does not mean people who care cannot try their best to understand and empathize with us. The more we tel…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/22 09:27 PM
1	How can I learn to accept myself as a beta male? I mean I would stay away from the terminology of alpha or beta (harmful and reductionistic), but I do think it's important to sometimes accept that we are a more introverted person. It doesn't mean anything about our self worth, and it doesn't mean we can't learn social skills, but some people are going to enjoy socializing more than others. I'm very introverted myself. It also doesn't have much impact on your ability to be in relationships. Many introverted women like being with introverted p…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 10:33 PM
2	I wish I was a woman. While I don't really agree with the things you mentioned being privileges, just know this is something women understand. For centuries women have yearned to be allowed the freedoms and privilege of men. The yearning can be helpful if you channel it the right way. How can you and men everywhere build better communities for one another, how can they become better fathers who don't tell kids to "man up", how do they support their friends/brothers who live and home. Having a desire for better isn't …	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 08:44 PM
1	Why do you think MGTOW/Red pill men hate single moms so much? seconding so many great reasons here.I think at it's deeper core , seeing single mothers brings up a great fear. It shows a woman who was not able to be controlled and used her freedom to leave and make it on her own. It's evidence women do not need to be dependent on men and can always leave them. For many in RP who view relationships as mainly about power and control, this is their greatest fear. If women and families can continue without me, where does that leave me/men. It makes them questio…	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 08:36 PM
4	What is it with this desperate feeling of wanting to sound like a smart ass that makes people think that is how a man should carry themselves? insecure people view confident people as those who seemingly know everything, show no fear or hesitance, and are confident and assertive in every situation. confident people know admitting you don't know it all , being willing to admit to faults, and being genuine is a sign of true confidence Obviously these guys are easy to see through by anyone who is actually confident, but their audience is always going to be those with deep insecurity who want to believe the confident man image. For them …	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 08:30 PM
1	Does adopting a redpill world view make people less empathetic to people whove been manipulated or abused? there are unfortunately so many factors that can lead to this type of behavior. A lot of it comes down to an extreme dislike of emotional vulnerability and overall view of relationships and life being about power and control. Most also lack much empathy and this makes it easier to abuse. Where people get this view varies. For some they themselves are the victim of abuse, witnessed abuse, or grew up in high dangerous or competitive environments where emotional vulnerability is looked down on or t…	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/22 08:24 PM
2	Does adopting a redpill world view make people less empathetic to people whove been manipulated or abused? I worked with women who were heavily abused as well as male abusers. Sure there is an element of personal choice in finding caring/kind partners, however it's not an easy or black and white issue Firstly abusers are not idiots. They are often aware of the need to create a strong positive impression early on and will rarely if ever abuse in public. They spend tons of time with their partner, but on a show of being great, buy gifts, make all the promises in the world. Slowly they wait a few mo…	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/22 04:31 PM
1	What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere" Honestly finding community groups that aren't focused on gender is probably a good bet. You can engage in activities and with others who share your values/sense of purpose and probably feel better than any solely mens or women's spaces. Church/religious groups, political activist groups, volunteer groups, outdoors groups ect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 08:45 PM
4	Redpillers finally discover women prefer attractive males their age 🤯 There is some truth to the concern. Although yes women's fertility does lower with after 35, there is also research on the effects of advanced paternal age on the health of offspring. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35925538/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29524155/	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/22 10:53 PM
1	Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs women oof yeah I would definitely be too anxious about it to get into the moment	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/22 08:50 PM
3	Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs women We use the level of consequence as well as other information (stories we've heard, past experiences, ect.) yeah I agree, just saying level of consequence plays a role, especially as it concerns pregnancy. It's never one factor making up the whole picture as human decision making and risk assessment is incredibly multifaceted.	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/22 07:49 PM
3	Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs women Research shows only around 40% of women are able to orgasm with a new partner https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/closing-the-orgasm-gap:-why-arent-straight-women-having-as-man/8963526 In addition to all the other risks associated with it (pregnancy, STD's, assault, social stigma, creep behavior), it doesn't make sense to take the risk for such a low pay off lol	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/22 07:39 PM
5	Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs women yes exactly. Even if it's a 2% chance of getting pregnant, because it's such a consequential risk we are going to value it strongly, so it will have an impact over our decisions. Humans do not calculate risk solely on only statistics or logic. We use the level of consequence as well as other information (stories we've heard, past experiences, ect.). This helps keeps people alive. Not even mentioning the rates of sexual assault or downright creepy experiences (which may not be assault but suck). …	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/22 07:33 PM
14	Loyalty and women Look at the women married and loyal to their partner with no job, make less money than them, or even with men in jail. There's definitely no hard and fast rule, and most statistics show men are more likely to be unfaithful https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 08:23 PM
9	Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist? Many older people date, have sex, and re marry well into their 80's! there definitely is not a wall. Check out the STD rates in the villages (famous retirement homes). People have sex and fall in love at any age across both genders. Don't worry about other people and focus on cultivating your own loving relationship and friendship : )	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 08:08 PM
2	Turned 30 recently and still 0 experience with women If you have hobbies/groups/co workers/ friend groups that have a healthy mix of women have you asked out any of the women you were interested in? Is the issue every woman is uninterested? Or that you have not made attempts at initiating romance? Speed dating and other similar events can also be a great way to meet people interested in relationships.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 08:05 PM
1	Who to follow on YouTube about dating and girls? THere is too much anti-female a lot. Maybe instead of youtube ask the people in your life with healthy relationships for their advice, and get multiple perspectives.	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/22 05:58 PM
2	How do I let go of the resentment ? I try to think of alternative perspectives/reasoning behind their behavior (immaturity, they were hurt themselves, lack of insight into how we were feeling or effected, ect. ). I also find it helpful to remember past mistakes I made or times I might have hurt someone accidentally or not, and try to give others the same forgiveness I give myself. Also I think reframing anger as the flip side of love and something integral to being human. We get hurt because we did care for them, and that care is …	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/22 05:55 PM
1	Can a woman verify this for me? yes, and the large amount of women around them who are paid actors, trying to get clout in return	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/22 03:36 PM
3	Do women have it easier than men? yes , definitely. Asking women what they like and how they can finish is a huge part of what helps you become a good lover. Also time spent. Most women prefer around 30 minutes of foreplay before penetration is even pleasurable. Men who take their time, communicate, and put effort in will have more women wanting to return. Unfortunately no, many men would prefer not to see the women again. Many are looking for the ego boost of getting with many women, regardless of how many left as satisfied cus…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 10:28 PM
3	Do women have it easier than men? TBH while some women have fwb, it's not the majority. Also it may not be because they have a fwb that they are not interested in you, but that they got the fwb in the first place because they did not want a relationship with anyone at the time (focused on work/school, trying to get with the one person they are crushing on, getting over a breakup, ect.). Often they stop with their fwb when they feel ready to date. Also I would question the reason they would "need you". Realistically no one "needs…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 10:14 PM
5	Do women have it easier than men? also in my own experience, yes it's only good 10% of the time. I personally learned pretty quickly hooking up casually would not work for me (not orgasming and unenjoyable). Some people put no effort into their partner's pleasure and it's very common, especially with younger men. I have discussed this with many women and it's almost shocking. Even with committed partners it has happened where at first sexual encounter was forgettable, but after communicating what I needed they put more effort in…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 09:56 PM
6	Do women have it easier than men? to be honest yes it's what I would imagine is a very similar feeling for many women, just the idea of sex with strangers is not very exciting for many, and usually avoided. I think it can often seem like "all women are hooking up", but the reality is still that most people are not doing it, even less doing it regularly. What's more common (not saying super common just more likely) is that if a woman wants sex without commitment she will have one "friends with benefits" (usually an ex-partner or …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 09:40 PM
6	Do women have it easier than men? Just wondering, do you imagine that's a great privilege for women, the potential to sleep with thousands of random men when only 10% of the time it's good? Do you think women objectively would enjoy that and consider it a privilege? Especially when bad sex can be so physically painful. Probably best to ask your female friends if they actually enjoy this and consider it a net pro to womanhood if you want to get a better perspective. Similarly there's not many instances of male privilege I think m…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 08:21 PM
5	Do women have it easier than men? Pleasure gap down to the size of a penis??? I think you may need to review some basic biological info on women's pleasure because none of it boils down to penis size. 90% of women cannot even orgasm via penetration. (https://medicalxpress.com/news/2016-04-anatomy-key-female-orgasm.html). In fact lesbian couples seem to report the highest numbers of female orgasms despite the total lack of penises. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z Heterosexual women have an easy time …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 07:48 PM
1	If you're ugly do you really have to make up for it with wealth, success, and personality? Yes but especially personality. I've worked in many types of low paying jobs (waitress, cashier, fast food, ect.), and nearly all my coworkers male and female were dating, long term partner, or married despite making little income and not being the most attractive. I feel like that's the case for most places, especially when you start paying attention to other people. Most people aren't wealthy or attractive right like just statistically , they're average. Most people end up in relationships not…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/22 06:37 PM