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I cannot convey how painful this is. My 2 year old daughter is the most important thing in the world to me. I worked my ass off everyday at a full time job and came home everyday to spend time with her. I was the one who got up with her in the morning so her stay-at-home mom could sleep in. Then one day her mom just decides I don't get to see her anymore. She KIDNAPS our daughter, files a false DV report against me, and tries to leave the state. I didn't get to see her for a whole 5 weeks, after…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:22 PM
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Aww that's so cute.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:08 PM
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They should put this quote in the dictionary next to "cuck".
/r/MensRights14/06/17 08:09 PM
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There have been a lot of pushes around the country for fathers' rights, and better divorce laws. Joint custody is becoming more common in many states. With the Red Pill documentary released this year, people are starting to look more fondly on the MRM. People are realizing that men have problems too. More and more people are also starting to roll their eyes at feminism. I think you're being overly pessimistic.
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 11:16 PM
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They're a pretty new movement that are just starting to gain steam, I don't think this a fair criticism.
/r/MGTOW12/06/17 10:38 PM
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Compare this to a NY Times article about women doing better than men. They're almost proud of it lol http://www.nytimes.com/2006/07/09/education/09college.html
/r/MGTOW11/06/17 09:59 PM
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It made sense back in the day, when women weren't expected to work and support themselves.
/r/MGTOW11/06/17 07:10 PM
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Keep fighting man, I'm wishing you and your daughter the best.
/r/MGTOW10/06/17 05:06 AM
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Damn straight I fought like hell for my 2 year old daughter in family court and spent thousands of dollars. Now I split custody and have her about 70% of the time. I love her more than anything in the world and I would never abandon her. I will teach her everything I know about succeeding in life and being self-reliant and having respect for others. Sure she might grow up to be like her mother, but I'm gonna try my damndest to avoid that.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 10:00 PM
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Fuck this attitude.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 09:37 PM
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Personally I already have one kid and don't plan on remarrying or having another one, so I'm probably coming at this from a different angle than you. My ex-wife was all sorts of untrustworthy, and she shamed me out of getting a paternity test by saying what you are (I ended up getting one in secret after our daughter was born, best $100 I ever spent getting that peace of mind). Maybe your experience will be different than mine.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 05:25 PM
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I don't trust anyone 100%. I think it's foolish for anybody to. This fairy tale idea of having complete faith in your spouse is just that, a fairy tale. Since we have a convenient method of determining paternity it seems like the obvious thing to do. This is 18 years of your life we're talking about. If you don't trust your Wife enough to not sleep around, you probably shouldn't be married to them. On the contrary, that my wife would understand my reasons for wanting a paternity test and happily…
/r/MensRights09/06/17 04:57 PM
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If a woman can't handle the father of her future children wanting to be sure then she isn't a good person to have kids with.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 04:27 PM
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No more demeaning then working full time for EVERYONE else's benefit.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 04:24 PM
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Fuck dude my ex stay at home wife would just make messes and then claim to be too "overwhelmed" to pick them up. When I asked her to pick up after herself she called me "controlling". Fucking bitch.
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 04:21 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to know for sure. It's just being smart. Even guys that are married end up raising kids that aren't their's, why are you trying to shame people out of protecting against that?
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:46 PM
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Why would you not want to 100% certain of paternity when you're about to be responsible for a child for 18 years? Because you're afraid of seeming un-trusting? Nonsense.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:44 PM
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Yeah, better safe than sorry right? The thing costs less than $100.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 12:35 PM
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I hear you but if I hadn't married her in the first place I wouldn't have gotten to be in my daughter's life
/r/MGTOW06/06/17 09:59 PM
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I did this ("Don't fucking talk to me like that!") and two weeks later my wife filed for divorce and tried to move away with my daughter. That was fun.
/r/MGTOW06/06/17 09:28 PM
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That's honestly impressive.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:13 PM
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Kind of harsh considering she was asking him out...
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:10 PM
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Go get another girl then, see what happens to you.
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 02:46 AM
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Truth.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 04:16 PM
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The writer is actually a millennial.
/r/MGTOW01/06/17 06:24 PM
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That's so fucking stupid. Why do we insist on treating women like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:15 PM
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In the West if you get laid because you told a woman you earn 1-2k more than you actually do, that's a criminal offence. Wait, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:02 PM
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I promise you, she was lazy. I know there are stay at home moms that are really great, my ex wife was not one of them. We had a small 2 bedroom apartment, so there were hardly any chores. She spent most of her time watching Netflix and looking after our daughter, who is a very easy child. It's child support and alimony. We share 50/50 custody and I can tell you my child is not that expensive. In my view if she can't afford to provide for our daughter then my daughter should stay with me. It make…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:36 AM
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Unless the guy says otherwise you should assume the bill will be split. But again, it's on him to call you out for that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:01 AM
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Take my case, I have to pay my ex-wife 50% of my income. That's so much that I can no longer afford my own place, and had to move in with my parents. On top of that, she was a lazy stay at home mom, emotionally manipulative, abusive, AND she kidnapped our child and made false allegations of abuse against me. Do you think that's fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:16 PM
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I think the point is that they do understand that, have taken it into consideration, and therefore decide that a pre-nup is their best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:04 PM
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I'm not saying women should be treated like children, I'm just saying that it is not the same thing as oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 09:29 PM
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You're well within your rights to do that, because you're totally right there are many guys you could choose that would pay for you. Honestly I appreciate your honestly. It's on us guys to not cater to your unfair demands. It's guys that enable this sort of attitude. Guys: Insist on splitting the bill. Don't be ashamed, because all you're doing is standing up for yourself. If that bothers the girl then she is not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:23 PM
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Yeah, I think it is important to point out certain toxic female behaviors, but to generalize it to all of society is a bit much and not a very helpful dialogue to have. It's kind of the inversion of "patriarchy", you're just going to alienate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:28 PM
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I don't think that's true. There were always penalties for husbands that mistreated their wives. Husbands could not leave their wives anymore than their wives could leave them. "Til death do us part" was taken much more seriously back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 03:21 PM
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I mean when children say they are oppressed we laugh at them. It might not be ideal, but oppression? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 03:19 PM
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As Warren Farrell said, it's true that women were treated as property, but men were treated as less than property. They were expected to die before their "property" got injured. They were expected to provide for their "property" at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 03:18 PM
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It's not absurd, that's the truth. The draft was justified by giving men the right to vote. That was not the case for women. Saying they were "banned" from serving in the military is absurd. It's more accurate to say they didn't have to serve in the military. The way you phrase it makes it sound like being a soldier was something to desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 03:09 PM
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It's not so much an individual arguing back, it's the whole media, politicians, feminist organizations, societal attitudes, etc. It's much more socially unacceptable to say bad things about women than about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:39 PM
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Nothing wrong, as long as it's consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:12 AM
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This was certainly my experience with my wife, but I think there are a lot of healthy relationships where the man and woman respect each other equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:41 AM
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Men are the primary victims of war in the battle itself, yes. Women and children are also victims of it and it's difficult to compare what it worse. Death is death. Torture is torture. If we're looking at raw numbers, it's men. A man was far more likely to be a victim of war than a woman or child. Men had to defend a place because men were attacking it. Not women. Not aliens. Men. As I said, men start wars. The number of women who 'shamed' men into war was small. It was men wanting more territor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:19 AM
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Theoretically they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:27 AM
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Oh god no. Towns were often ransacked and the women and children either killed or raped or abducted. Even in WW2, AWOL soldiers ran amok in places like Paris, raping and thieving. And look what happened to German women when Germany lost that war. In modern day, we see what's happening in Syria and Iraq etc. When men start wars, women and children lose. Men are the primary victims of war. Yes, bad things sometimes happen to women and children during wars, but it is not comparable to what happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:18 AM
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Wow he really called your feelings narcissism? What a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:50 PM
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If I look at you and think to myself "she's attractive, I'd like to have sex with her" would you consider that objectification?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:16 PM
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What is the difference between being attracted to someone and objectifying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:53 PM
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I'm just saying, looking attractive definitely weighs into your decision about what to wear right? As a guy I can say it definitely does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:39 PM
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History is all about men, but men also had it a lot worse throughout history. The men we read about in history books usually died or risked their lives in battle while their wives remained safe. We act like being a politician or leader is some awesome job that women wanted but were kept out of, completely disregarding the stress and personal sacrifice that goes into it. The wives of these historical leaders undoubtedly had easier lives. Feminism doesn't want to talk about the second half of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:27 PM
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But that's part of the reason isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:25 PM
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Mom and Dad should share custody, that's what's best for the child as plenty of research indicates. I think the primary care taker aspect is pretty meaningless because both parents are going to have to work full time after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:25 AM
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