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Are you talking club? You can easily move away with your partner in a way that appears natural "Hey I'm feeling thirsty. Let's go and get a drink." Chances are he'll leave you alone and go bother someone else if there's very small chances he'll ask to get him a drink too just say "Sorry man I don't have enough money"
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:55 AM
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My friends and I go out and each has different strategy when it comes to flirting. One of the ex friends did cold approaching on daily basis. In the main street of our city, at the clubs we were going to. Safe to say before we stopped being friends people were already looking at him as a creep who bothers every girl and he would be ignored and avoided at parties and events and in general (This wasn't the reason why we stopped hanging with him but still). He was tall and confident. Another friend…
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:39 AM
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Agree but it's difficult to do it in everyday setting without coming off as creepy no matter if you're gentleman or not. If I am walking down a street and some girl approaches me saying "Sorry to bother you I just wanted to say you look cute\interesting and just wanted to say hi" if you're not thinking with your dick you'll get the feeling something is off. But at same time you might go along with it. That's what I think cold approaching boils down to. You'll appear creepy initially either way. …
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:15 AM
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You forget rep is a real thing. If you get known as a guy who approaches every girl it's good way to ruin your chances with any new ones because news of someone being a creep spread fast.
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:48 AM
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I need to emphasise this because I see a lot of guys coming back to this "Cold approaches are the way to go" technique. This only works if you're from big cities like NYC, LA, and similar. If you're from small city. Or you're attending college or you're regular in some clubs and bars this is definitely NOT the way to go. Cold approaches is okay technique to use once in dozen years in a packing club or event even then you should be careful about it. For example if you're attending college and you…
/r/seduction25/10/25 12:38 AM
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I figured out it's mix of personality and apperance recently as I always seek for feedback when things don't go as they used to. Looked more masculine last few months although I was still quite appealing to most girls I would fuck up my chances with personality as I forced maturity and tough guy persona a lot. Then when I got drunk I would have some success when laid back. Gotta loose the negative attitude and stick with pretty boy apperance and just age with it as I go I assume. Most sensed tha…
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:16 AM
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I had realization and figured out what was wrong. Once I turned 26 I sort of forced myself to act and appear mature. Serious all the time, negative, not even smiling. Now I understand that no one really wants person with such energy. I thought I was mature and was taking things seriously. Yes life can be scary but I shouldn't me negative about it. When I thought about life and how messy my is my mind was traumatized so I guess I was giving off negative and traumatized energy.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:56 AM
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Could be rep or similar things as well. While I'm in Capitol of my country it only has 1.3 milion people living in it. So it's like a big village basically everyone knows you in way way or another not that you live rent free in their head but also something like "Hey that guy is creep" and friends who are my core friend group are fuckboys too so stuff they do often can effect me as well since they associate us with each other. But girls are quick to throw labels such as rpist, pdo or similar in …
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:40 AM
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When you're used to something and it feels like your supply is cut off it makes you go into a bit of psychosis, especially when you don't know why it is happening. So for example let's say I never ate KFC therefore if I never eat it I won't be bothered much because I never knew what was like to begin with. Now let's say you have something more casual in life so you can relate with it better. So for example you eat 3 meals a day. And all of a sudden you are only permitted to have one meal a day. …
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:37 AM
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Maybe but feels like something more. Maybe age or maybe I was hexed or cursed by some ex because "He deserves karma" and I was with fair share amount of goth girls who were into occult and weird things.
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:25 AM
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Same city. Age doesn't bother me much she can be young, my age, older it's okay with me. I usually avoid bellow average looking girls in terms of apperance. I live in country where everyone is Caucasian. And my usual go to is in clubs as it's only socially acceptable place to flirt never on street with cold approaches and seek to be precise as to not bother girl who didn't notice me first or catch her off guard. Lastly online or dating apps are last resort when I haven't had any action in long t…
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:19 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. The Asian who gave me handjob was older than me. I'm not that financially stable so I go in shitholes where usually other people who are not financially stable go to such as students who aprox tend to be between 19-23 And makes sense girls online tend to find me less attractive since most of my followers on insta are college girls and friends of college girls.
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:00 AM
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You might be right. I was somewhat getting decent attention with stubble and less with bigger beard. Doesn't matter now that I cut it, will take me two weeks for stubble again I assume. However most girls said I look much more prettier with longer hair and clean shaven but I'm 26 now I don't wanna look like a kid forever.
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:30 AM
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Even younger ones are gamechangers when you hit certain age. Only younger ones I can hit if I'm lucky are the ones with daddy issues or similar. So when going in the club chances of that are low (yes I know plenty of girls have daddy issues but they get taken fast and you would have to have a lucky night if such comes out looking for fun hoping she's not guarded by the fridges)
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:28 AM
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Yeah that's what I've been told. I'm just pissed a bit as I'm used to looks carrying whole thing. Now even with boyish apperance I had and even if I gotten it back girls even younger ones will probably consider me too old despite if they are initially attracted. Hell, I didn't known age is such a game changer. I used to think one asshole from our group was insane because he was getting this disturbing ideas like "Hey let's lie that we are 20" and similar and presented himself as he's some big wi…
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:11 AM
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You're right about wanting to appear more masculine. I turned 26 in November and I wanna avoid looking like a kid forever because it would also put me in a paradox. I'm too old to be messing with teenagers and early twenty girls but at same time girls around my age or older see me as a kid. So that was one of the reasons for change. Besides that apperance is usually appealing to younger girls whom I don't wanna have anything with and besides even if I do they'll hit me with "damn you're so old"
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:07 AM
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I'm not worried about "alphas" I've said somewhere else on this thread when women wants to make problem for you there won't be just one "alpha" I don't have problem taking down some loser being controlled by a woman. I have problem with women sending packs of men on you. 3+ guys is too much for anyone to handle. That's why I usually go out with friends because even if problem occurs I won't have problem ending it.
/r/seduction09/05/25 07:40 AM
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It makes you vary. I didn't said all girls are like this, they are rare but it still happens as just as there are terrible men so there are terrible women. I've first hand had it happened to me, my friends, and from stories I've heard from girl friends dozen people that happened to. For example here are few times it happened to me. 1st (or you can classify this as it happened to me several times) I hook up with a girl in the club. Not aware she has a boyfriend. Then all of a sudden her boyfriend…
/r/seduction08/05/25 08:03 PM
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I'll adress the elephant in the room as I've noticed a lot of guys think approach anxiety is a thing. It is not. What most men fear is the consequences. Think about it? If you approached a girl and it ended in simple rejection such as "No." it wouldn't be too bad. No genuine consequences and you're on your way. However, real life is not like that. And most guys don't adress this but subconsciously I know it's in their mind. Girls don't just end it on "No.". Girl can shout in broad day light "Thi…
/r/seduction08/05/25 06:41 PM
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Nerdy places especially if they are cosplay conventions can jump from 9/10 to 90/10 real quick if you're a cosplayer. Apart from having to shave off my beard (worth it) if you can pull off cosplay especially if it's some badass anime character you'll have swarm of casual and cosplay girls swarming you. You don't even have to watch anime. I don't, and they often forgive my lack of knowledge so basically you're like a celebrity everyone would like to fuck. Only downside of this that I can think of…
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:28 PM
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I would disagree but this depends where you're from. What you're describing is what I like to call "Brute Force" technique which I've seen my friends use and it can sometimes leave you dry for a night. You approach 10-25 different girls per club. Like I said. This really depends where you go to and if you decide to become regular at the club or not. Because depending on the capacity of the club it can be sabotaging as if other girls notice you doing this you'll decrease your chances with them as…
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:33 PM
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Don't mention "hotel" or similar but have hotel at the ready. All she knows is that she's going to your place don't ruin your chances by overexplaning yourself. No. Just don't do any cringe dances I've seen guys half twerking in clubs making asses of themselves. Knowing basic dances is enough. I personally just dance like how John Travolta character in Pulp fiction danced with Mia before you put your hands around her waist eventually going for a kiss. Depends. Buddies can be double edged sword. …
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:18 PM
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This is exactly step by step for me too. However we differ in some ways but not too different. For example: If she goes "I'm with friends they're waiting for me I can't leave them" or similar making it obvious she doesn't wanna leave the party I'll lead her to the bathroom and do the deed there. This can go both ways, either she'll be up for it and do it there or either she won't but it wouldn't make too much difference she won't fuck you off either. And second if she's not down to have fun that…
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:08 PM
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You can do everything right and still lose I was never creepy with girls. However, I did had huge ego and changed a lot of partners Like you said, these are human beings. And just like any other human beings most have the capacity to be assholes Women are usually used to being on the other end of a stick. They reject without consequences and go about their day. What does not happened to them is being rejected, ignored, or replaced. Don't get me wrong, I get mad too when I see someone is super ri…
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:27 AM
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I seen few scenes or each show from characters I did but still no clue about any of it just did it so I can improvise their personality I got lot of free stuff as Dabi and attention Sangwoo people were vary of me so sort of "I wanna approach but I'm scared" sort of energy Eren was cool too but there were dozen guys as Eren too so not as much as attention but still there so it was like split attention among all the Eren's
/r/seduction27/10/24 01:48 PM
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Dabi from mha, Sangwoo from Killing Stalking, Eren from Aot
/r/seduction27/10/24 01:25 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself, especially if they're Asian. I don't speak Japanese at all but the Japanese I've been with just switch to full on Japanese in bed in order for it to be "immersive" as they describe
/r/seduction05/10/24 07:36 AM
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The closest I can describe I think they larp those hentai stuff in bed. So let's say there's a I think it's called tsundere girl in some hentai and she'll larp the said girl in bed
/r/seduction05/10/24 07:34 AM
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Yes, I went as cosplayer and cosplayed some edgy guy from a show I never even watched. They don't mind you didn't watch it if you actually rock the cosplay well and they basically drool for you.
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:56 AM
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If you are a cosplayer you are treated like celebrity there. Most girls there are into anime guys, imagine how much she drools when she sees her favorite anime character she most likely mastrubated to in the flesh. But like most others said here, girls are low quality. The ones that are worth a damn are cosplay girls. But, that shatters the moment they are out of cosplay. Only benefit I can give them is if you're a gamer 90% of girls there are gamers too. And second benefit I'm giving is that th…
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:54 AM
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While I agree with this I don't know what is wrong with me. I had girls whom some guys would do anything to be with. They were objectively 9-10's with perfect face and bodies (ex slim waist, good curves, soft round breast etc..). Apart from this their personality was on point. They would be extremely loyal to the point I found it uncomfortable and would go out of their way to do stuff for me like buying me food when I didn't ask book a love hotel with roses and hot tub etc.. However I am sort of…
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:46 PM
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You're right but no I don't associate with any of those losers. They are trying to preach the message I am strongly against. Though you're right about I didn't think much of it and just slept around with women my reasons differs from those alpha male losers. It was my way of wanting to give the most and best pleasure to each girl even if my needs were not met. One could say I sort of may had emotional orgasm knowing I was fucking a girl and she would cum and loved to suck me off and similar. I h…
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:36 PM
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Maybe both you're right. Feeling this weak isn't natural so I'll definitely get blood work done. I also feel too much alchocol increased my estrogen as parts of my beard stopped growing and I have more need for drinking than I do for girls.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:24 AM
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Very good at sex, but recently I have no energy. I might hit up one of the booty call girls I have once in two weeks if I'm not as tired. Still even then I wish I can skip the sex stuff and she just gives me blowjob and goes away.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:22 AM
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Not really into pornography, since you mentioned gym I used to go actively to it but last two months I didn't. But yeah, possible that mind and body changes. I smoke 2 packs a day and eat a lot of sugar and junk food.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:20 AM
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I may have been giving myself a handicap because whenever the girl was forward with me like that I thought she was messing with me. However, it would lead to long game of shit tests to see if I wanna fuck them or not. Anyways, British are among of dumbest people I've met and I won't try to comfort to their mindset after this. I'll just be your average hot looking seems like serial killer type of guy who just attracts girls.
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:43 AM
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I bga sam ali i dalje u bgu cekas da te devojka pogleda i pitas za ples ili slicno pre nego sto eskaliras. Britanke sam primetio da su lude i da ocekuju da budes napadan i slicno. Mnogo njih me je pogledalo ali kad bi smo igrali i slicno nisu davale signale da nastavim samo bi igrale u mestu ocekivale da uradim nesto. Ja silovatelj nisam i ako su ove rekle da se odmah kresnemo na plazi delovalo je suvise direktno i znam da se devojke tako ne ponašaju tkd sam pretpostavio da me zezaju.
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:30 AM
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Because it feels like the new episodes of never ending show. I've been with one girl for year and it was struggle. When we broke up what felt like a final season all of a sudden turned into new fresh season. It's back and it can go even better. Eventually I'll settle with a girl who I don't love for the sake of family but the thrill won't ever end.
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:28 PM
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Attractive w Greek girls it went well though seems like I'm giving myself a handicap because naturally I'm sort of book and type of guy you read in novel or similar. My mates brought me to an island where everything is parties and parties. Even when they say "wanna have 5 some with us?" or similar I don't take it seriously because no one is forward like that. However after last night seems like I am completely wrong. I met this British girl and few British guys and whole time I thought they were…
/r/seduction13/08/24 11:30 AM
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Not that lucky. This was a club bathroom but in Greece there r always black dudes at entrance expecting a fee to use bathroom. I gave him 5e and he let us in. She was mediocre so nothing special
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:02 PM
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Been in this club this girl was wasted I was drunk and she was looking at me. I didn't hesitate to just grab her waist and kiss her right away. After makeout session I lead her to the cabin and had to pay off the black dude to let us in. I'm around 8 inches however after sucking and gagging on me for 3 minutes she was like "I need to find my friends" and left without even fucking. Edit: I'm noticing I'm getting some downvotes here. So to clarify I didn't mention my size to brag I mentioned it be…
/r/seduction12/08/24 09:54 PM
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I've been w Greek ones. W British there were few kisses and one bj, still no luck w sex
/r/seduction12/08/24 09:26 PM
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I've been with all Balkan women. I wanna feel what is like to sleep w British ones. So far only few kisses and a bj, still no luck w laying the pipe. Even this felt like pure luck as the ones I got with seemed somewhat able to hold conversation.
/r/seduction12/08/24 09:24 PM
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Certainly noticed that. Everything is joke to them even when I tried to make jokes which were casual to me it flew over their heads. I need to dumb down.
/r/seduction12/08/24 09:23 PM
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This seems to do the trick. The only time I had any luck was first two nights where I was shitfaced drunk more than any other time and complete degenerate. I haven't been able to get that drunk again however that sort of behavior would lead to ass being kicked anywhere else. But good to know I wasn't going crazy, it would be hard to do this sober or semi drunk as in any other place it can lead to problem or fight so I have to relearn the programing in my head and convince myself that is okay for…
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:10 PM
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I definitely noticed. Even though I had some luck here it's been few days of clubbing and still no results I started thinking maybe I'm getting rusty or fasically ugly. I've seen lots of guys here being forceful and having type of behavior which would get your ass kicked if you done it anywhere else.
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:45 PM
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