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I explained to you the reason why I addressed logic and emotions - again it had to do with vocabulary and definitions used by you. I am not frustrated, nor defensive or emotional right now. I am able to read what you say and think about it - it doesn’t mean I have to arrive to same conclusions as you. I am happy and perfectly healthy. Pedophile is defined as someone attracted to prepubescent children - period. If we have totally different outlook on each word we use then there is no possibility …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:29 PM
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That was certainly not the tone of my comment. The reason why I referred to your rationality is not to contrast our opinions and not to deny that humans can and do act based on emotions. The reason why I mentioned it was because I saw your comment as illogical basing on the fact I provided you clear laws and definitions and you ignored them proceeding to still use same formulations. If someone abides the law you can not say their actions are illegal - that is just illogical, so I pointed it out.…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 11:33 AM
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My husband didn’t do anything illegal, nor is he a pedophile. If you can not understand that basing on simple explanation of the terms and logic then what kind of conversation can I even have with you? Do you follow any rational principles or are you just talking out of emotions and prejudice? 16 is not extremely young. I was living independently by myself at that age. Working and studying. You can not possibly assume mental maturity of anyone if you have never met them and all you know is their…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 10:30 AM
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First of all, I think you and other people should get educated on “pedophilia” and what it even means before typing it out to strangers. Pedophilia is being attracted to and sexually abusing prepubescent children. I don’t know what biology books you have over there but 16 year old female is hardly a prepubescent child. You can look at many different sources but that period of time lasts max until 13 years old. So that is first. My husband is not a pedophile. I was a young woman/teen, not a prepu…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:25 AM
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I must start by saying that there are many variables between people, not only in personality/temperament department but also in conditions they live in. Marriage is quite different from dating. Me and my husband don’t spend a lot of time together on daily basis. We are both very individualistic and prefer to have our own spaces (each of us has their own room with desk and computer etc.) to indulge in our hobbies. We do not like same things and have different preferences and tastes, so we rarely …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 02:18 PM
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You should not judge people you do not know. Especially when the only information you posses is their age. Accusation like that is a very serious thing and shouldn’t be posted so lightly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 04:09 PM
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I think this is very individual matter and it depends on many different variables. Me and my husband got engaged after 5 years of relationship. I started dating him when I was 16 and we lived on different continents. Getting engaged after 2 years in that situation would be highly unreasonable taking into account the fact we only met each other once in real life and I was still in high school. I think the best time to talk about engagement is after you spent enough time living/interacting/observi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 02:43 PM
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Unless you wear a lip tint!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 10:51 PM
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My mornings are calm. I like to be productive in afternoons and evenings. I wake up at 9-10 am, I always make myself a big cup of tea and take it to bed. I put on some skincare and then read or watch something interesting. I go out of bed around noon, I dress up, put makeup on and start cooking first meal (me and my husband don’t eat breakfast). That is all :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 10:40 PM
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There is a lot going on in your post but here are my thoughts: Men really hate nagging (my subjective opinion). If you want to bring an issue to them you will have the highest probability of getting your point across if you just calmly sit down and explain the situation from your perspective by respectfully talking about it without guilt tripping them, without “bratty attitude”, without yelling, without bringing up other things from the past that have nothing to do with current problem. I do not…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 11:55 PM
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Is it necessary to be friends or even expect respect from them, though? From what you have described here it doesn’t seem like those girls would be the best company to be influenced by. People we surround ourselves with truly do determine the people we become and have impact on our future in small or grand scale. These women sound immature to me. They also sound like very negative, gossipy type individuals. It might be very difficult especially if you do enjoy spending time with the male friends…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:34 AM
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I would not react personally. I don’t believe it is my role to comment and try to influence my friends intimate relationships - how they treat each other is their own concern. I would rather ask myself wether this is appropriate company for me and if I want to be associated with such couple. I would react however if the husband got physically violent or very verbally abusive (for example screamed at entire restaurant in rage and I would be concerned for my friends safety). I would try to separat…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 09:35 PM
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This is such a tricky response to write... I really hope I don’t come off as arrogant! It isn’t very often when I am surrounded by women who are visibly better looking than I am ... BUT HEAR ME OUT... there are couple of reasons for that... Firstly I was always a person who was very focused on my own appearance and lately after battling some depression I finally started implementing the regimens, workouts and things I have learnt about beauty. Even doing very simple, inexpensive and not time con…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 04:02 PM
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It took us 4 years to get engaged but we started dating when I was 16 - so I was engaged at 20 and married my husband at 21. 2 years would be too quick in our case (as it was also long distance and we met once a year), we needed more time. I think it is an individual matter... although the perspective and possibilities certainly change once you are older.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 12:59 PM
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I love wars. Especially anything 1st and 2nd world war. I love computer games, medieval themed anything, fantasy books, science fiction. I am currently learning korean and also started to play tin whistle. I love geography, memorizing maps, flags or facts about other countries. I love learning about rocks, mountains, volcanos and meteorology. Also I love finances, stock market etc. my knowledge on economics is not big yet but I am very passionate beginner. I love listening about budgeting and in…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 08:30 AM
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“Fortunately” I just happened to attend school with toxic people (and since I lived in place that was fairly secluded there was no possibility to move to different one). My family, friends and later experiences never included any shaming regarding my looks or anything else. It was truly horrible. Sometimes people don’t believe me when I tell them the stories. I would go through corridor and all kids would move to sides screaming “ewww, don’t touch it or you will get (insert hair color) decease”.…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 08:30 PM
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I am Polish as well and it seems that it is more neighborhood/region/people based. Unfortunately I have experienced severe femininity shaming and I was relentlessly bullied for it for 10 years of school.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 06:30 PM
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I think the main difference is definitely the culture. It is hard for me to describe these things without sounding as if I believe myself to be superior (I absolutely don’t think like that) and because I am aware most of people on Reddit are American I have severely censured my own comments to fit into the standards and expectations in USA just so I don’t get downvoted (I need to prepare myself for it) - I can make exemption here to give you some ideas. For example food. Home made food made abso…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 03:08 PM
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I had joined Reddit and this group half a year before making the biggest progress. Therapy had the biggest impact and I started it exactly 4 months ago. Other advices that I posted above were implemented by me before joining the RPW and they helped me tremendously (especially at reducing drama, stress, toxicity) but weren’t able to heal me completely. Things I mentioned resolved all my conscious issues regarding moral, internal and social factors but my biggest problem was depression that chaine…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 08:56 PM
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I see where you are coming from as I am Slavic myself as well and the things I mentioned are indeed quite basic in our nations (especially in Russia). Since I spent a lot of time traveling to different places and later moved to UK I have learnt that the standards of cooking, cleaning and taking care of oneself are actually much different in other countries. It isn’t easy at all to find someone who meets those expectations, they are usually called unrealistic and harmful by many. I mentioned and …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 08:35 PM
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I would say that on a surface level you are right. Things like cleaning, cooking, taking care of oneself are absolute basics of human existence, hence they aren’t anything “extra special”. But when we analyze these things deeper and look at the data, I actually think that they are high value and special and here is why: Cooking. Everyone needs to eat. But... does everyone cook? Do people have one universal meal plan they follow? Well, no. Looking at the worldwide statistic obesity is ranked in t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 05:22 PM
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I think term high value woman might be interpreted differently by each individual since everyone’s values aren’t the same. I am not sure if I would qualify for metamorphosis of the century but I have made progress that I am incredibly proud of and vision of my future life excites me greatly. To start off - what was my “loser life”? I was severely depressed from the age of 15. My depression was so bad it caused me to live majority of next 5 years in bed. I would not take care of myself at all. I …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 11:28 AM
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You can ALWAYS start from scratch. You are still fairly young and nothing is standing in your way to find happiness. First of all - internal issues - reading about your previous relationship made me assume that you definitely missed some red flags in the beginning of your relationship. It would be useful to invest some time into learning about what quality man is, what red flags to look for and most definitely how to build enough confidence not to settle for men that are toxic and abusive in fea…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:42 PM
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I kind of agree and disagree at the same time. Me and my husband lived together before we got married. We rented small studio for 2 years, had joint account and acted as if we were already married. From what I know that is a no no in Red Pill guide because it assumes that if you act like a wife, then a man receives it all and won’t have to marry you to “access it” plus other safety reasons. I agree with all the reasonable, safety reasons that serve as protection from toxic relationships and give…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 09:26 PM
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It is not a big deal. You don’t have to do anything special. Just go on a second date and let him pay that time. If it was me in the situation I would probably tell the waiter to come when my date returns. If a guy expressed he wants to pay I would just accept it. But it is understandable you just forgotten or it was automatic for you, so it isn’t really a screw up. Either wait for him to invite you or you can propose some place and you will be even.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/20 12:43 PM
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This post has nothing to do with finding a man or religion and politics in this context. It was mainly about self development and positive influence of family on shaping the personality. Also debating politics and religion might not be romantic but marriages are not supposed to be only romantic. Husband is not just a romance object - he is a companion, friend and long-life partner. Life is not about romance. In life, speaking colloquially, shit happens. Life is suffering. Talking with husband ab…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 11:02 AM
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I do see where you come from however I think that your response does not relate to OP’s post. I do not think this post is about the topic you mentioned. Let me give you personal anecdote from few days ago. Me and my husband were walking to a park holding hands. I was wearing long skirt to my ankles and simple t-shirt. A group of men was passing us and as soon as they saw us they started literally whistling, howling and saying very loudly in our direction “Wooo ain’t she sweet? I would tap that n…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 07:23 PM
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Personally - neither. Finances are really important to me (not in terms of luxuries or status but in terms of security and responsibility). I would not be able to respect and be with a guy who doesn’t know about economy and budgeting or who doesn’t know how to manage and invest capital. I wouldn’t feel like I am “in good hands”. Chemistry isn’t as important to me as compatibility and emotional connection can always be built. I think I would prefer the financial security and then trying to build …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 01:38 PM
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I think the group is diverse and you will find women with different political opinions. I am sure there are some who do support LGBT and there are some that don’t necessarily do that. I do think that this group is open to any individual (women) and different questions can be asked. Red Pill isn’t even as political as people believe. It is more about accepting the reality of life and applying it to circumstances we are in.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 05:57 PM
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This. My husband introduced me to Jordan several years ago and it was one of the best things that could ever happen to me. I have listened to almost all of his lectures on personality, interviews and even went and saw him live.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 10:49 PM
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When it comes to my husband he mostly has male friends but he also has few close female friends. When it comes to me I have male friends. I never had a problem of him talking to or meeting his female friends. We both know each other’s friends, we always introduce each other to them and try to spend time together from time to time. There is nothing wrong with having friends of opposite gender and I personally think it as very controlling move to prohibit that. Feeling uncomfortable with that coul…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 10:41 AM
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I am not American but Barbie movies were just as popular in Europe when I was a little girl. I absolutely love Barbie and I still re-watch these movies as an adult from time to time. Barbie is a really good example of positive, feminine, kind and intelligent young woman. The fact that she possesses all of those virtues makes her so attractive (of course physically she is beautiful too which appeals to me, since beauty is very often compared to vanity - which can’t be said about Barbie). One coul…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 09:53 AM
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I like watching her’s and Cynthia L’s videos for relaxation with tea. They are rather soothing, positive and good if you want to watch something but you don’t want to think. I wouldn’t watch these to learn anything new or elevate myself in any way though. Sometimes they post videos in which they give advices on how to improve yourself in many different areas. I find those unsurprisingly vague, generic, obvious and I almost never learn anything I hadn’t already known before. I do not find them he…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 10:18 AM
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I am married, my husband is my first partner and we have been together for 6 years. No, it doesn’t really. My husband isn’t a jealous type and we trust each other a lot. What helps is that I usually talk with my friends on group chats, which do include my husband as a member. He does know many of them too. I am careful when choosing my male friends. Most of them are in marriages too. I make sure to surround myself with men who do know how to keep healthy distance. Since I have been this way fore…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 08:36 PM
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When it comes to me, 99% of my friends, people I talk to or spend time with are men. I don’t struggle with that and in fact I don’t plan on changing that, unless it happens naturally - which it probably won’t. I definitely don’t harbor any negative views or feelings towards women in general. The lack of female friendships in my life is not a choice I made basing on my perception on them. I invested a lot of time in learning about my personality, temperament, interests and goals - and what I lear…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 02:28 PM
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That is why submitting only works when you submit to a man you vet. I only submit to my husband. I do not submit to other men at all.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 07:36 PM
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My husband is kind of everything I ever wanted (and my first love). I always had a list of traits that I would like my husband to have and my significant other matches all the points. He is excellent provider, very ambitious, intelligent, constantly studying and bettering himself, constantly aiming for more. I have never seen such hardworking person. He has big dreams and most importantly he does everything he says he will. He is a very logical, reasonable guy. He isn’t the type that comes home …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 07:33 PM
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There are many things mentioned in your post I could refer to but since I don’t know how to answer all of your doubts I will only write what came to my mind while reading it and share my perspective, since I can relate to your experiences. I think you need to love yourself and build immunity to people. Look inside yourself and try to reflect on your behavior and attitude towards others. If you are truly convinced that your intentions were never negative and you treated others with respect and ki…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 01:47 PM
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I remember when me and my husband were choosing first apartment to live in together (rent). I am usually submissive when it comes to many things and I let my partner lead, however when we were choosing the place I decided to firmly step in and object. My husband experienced some rough neighborhoods in his life, so his perspective was slightly different from mine. The flat was in very dangerous area, linked with terrorists, daily mugging and stabbing incidents. I didn’t feel safe there during bri…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 12:44 PM
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You can. not. do. anything. Men are not fixer uppers! I see way too many women holding on to belief that if they try hard enough or change their behavior the guy will change. He will not. He has absolutely no respect for you. When I was reading your post I was appalled at the derogatory things he said to you. You need to start loving yourself and don’t let people to be abusive towards you. Do not tolerate this. Leave now that you have time. Yes, you are not getting younger, so don’t waste even a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 11:00 AM
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I think I will start from goals. I will also mostly refer to long term relationships. Having same (or similar enough) goals is important to form solid relationship: If for example one person aims to have many children and the other never wants to have children at all, then engaging in relationship would be a conflict of interests. This is probably most obvious and extreme example. There are other aspects people could have different take on, like lifestyle or career paths - some combinations woul…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 04:54 AM
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Is there data indicating that 99 of 100 couples with age gap aren’t okay? We could exchange anecdotes between each other but they do not represent the reality in grand scheme. Believing that one knows the reality of life in all it’s complexity doesn’t seem to be very intellectual - rather subjective and quite arrogant. We can strive to pursue the truth and observe the world around us but most should know there is always possibility of error or failure to a knowledge variables. I really do doubt …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 03:59 AM
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I disagree on that. Big age gaps do not always indicate that there is something wrong with the relationship or the older guy. I think such generalization isn’t helpful nor objective. The situation should be commented through prism of what happened between the couple and their relations, rather than through age. It is important for me to mention that because telling young girls that there is something inherently wrong with older men wanting to form relationships with them is in my opinion harmful…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 09:04 AM
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I am somewhat weirdly in the middle. Definite majority of my friends are men. In fact I only have one girl friend. It has always been this way in my case. I grew up with boys and I had much more fun with them. Making friends with guys feels natural and instant. Conversations flow smoothly and often times drag for hours - which isn’t the case when it comes to women. HOVEWER I am in no way a tomb boy. I do not swear, drink or smoke and I usually politely expect men not to do that excessively in my…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 07:14 AM
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Being less empathic is indeed more masculine trait. Note how I said LESS, which doesn’t indicate absolute lack of empathy whatsoever. It is just a statistical data. Of course there are male individuals who are very empathic but they are rather in minority of men. What has to be also said is that being less emphatic doesn’t mean being an evil person or a person that is inherently selfish. Just as you said masculinity holds high morality. Reason and resolve would be things that I would presume are…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 04:16 PM
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When I was still dating my husband I made sure that we are on the same page when it comes to many areas in life, including our standards regarding communication, attitude and behavior. One of the most important things in our family is respect. I have never in history of our relationship had to deal with being mistreated or talked to in manner I would find disrespectful or unacceptable. Since no one is perfect there were moments when for example I wouldn’t like the way he said something and I wou…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 04:07 PM
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I must say I don’t think I have ever encountered a person like that - bet the conversation on how they became more conservative would be very interesting indeed. When it comes to me for example I score: - low agreeableness (more conservative trait) - high on conscientiousness (more conservative trait) - very high openness (liberal trait) So as you can see there is slight dissonance and I do not score conservative on all traits. But I agree with the fact that most people are “naturals” at whateve…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 08:13 PM
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I think RP comes to me naturally but in a surprising unexpected way. When it comes to my personality I have many masculine traits. I am very disagreeable, dominant, pragmatic and I score very low on compassion and empathy. One could say a person like that would probably never be a housewife or submissive partner - yet I am. Apart from masculine traits I am quite feminine when it comes to being intuitive, creative and focused inwards. Other than that I am petite, I have high voice, very feminine …
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 01:51 PM
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I’m 21 and married. I think as long as you focus on working on yourself (physically and psychologically) your insecurities should slowly fade away with time, acquired knowledge and experience. If I were you I would definitely not limit myself to only university students as you could find potential husband anywhere. Majority of guys your age will not think about settling down yet and decide to explore and engage themselves in less serious relationships. There are exceptions to any rule so of cour…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 03:52 PM
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I don’t think you should allow your husband to speak to you in such manner no matter the situation. Everyone has their own standards when it comes to partners they choose but I think respect is something absolutely fundamental. Him swearing at you and his aggressive remarks are unacceptable and I would respond to it immediately saying I will not tolerate such language and attitude. Everyone has right to get irritated or angry but I believe there are ways to express it without being disrespectful…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 10:48 PM
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Insecurities and over-sensitiveness destroy your mental health and relationships with other people. They can be fixed though. It always hurts in the beginning but it is for your own benefit and will serve you really well in the future. Red Pill is about accepting harsh truth about life and using it for your advantages. Red Pill is different than other groups because it is about not getting emotionally hurt by facts and working on yourself and relationships according to them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:43 PM
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My husband rarely comments my weight. He has never called me fat or mentioned that I am too big. He did however say couple of times that he finds these fit girls with abs attractive. This isn’t how I look like for sure. Sometimes he will mention very subtly I gained some weight but he never does it in mean way. I think your partner comments aren’t inappropriate. Maybe he finds lean, fit girls attractive and he saw you approaching that figure and got very excited. If I heard something like that I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 08:13 AM
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I’m European too and my husband stayed at my family house for 2 weeks when he came to visit me. There are certain places in worlds (rural areas) where there is no possibility for anyone to find a hotel in close distance. In general my experience was very positive and it helped us bond more and him to meet my family early on and get friendly :) I think it isn’t about being a gentleman. There is no point to waste money on hotels and food too if someone is already paying a lot to fly and meet us.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 04:03 PM
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I think term “strong, independent woman” might be a bit misleading since it is used by feminists a lot. So it would be good if you were more precise what you mean by it. RPW don’t focus on being “independent and strong” in the same way feminists do. When it comes to finances it is quite complicated because it all depends on how knowledgable and advanced you want to be in this category. There are people who study markets and economy for years and it requires a lot of time to read books and observ…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 12:14 PM
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He does use my name now just because he got tired of hearing complains about it from people. I honestly don’t understand the problem and I like being called his wife. I find it sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 10:23 AM
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Weird world we live in now... My husband mentions me at his work from time to time, saying for example: “my wife made a lunch for me today” - he gets called out by his peers who tell him it is wrong to call me his wife and that he should say my name instead because I am more than just his wife... smh... Since when being called a wife or a good wife was anything derogatory...
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 01:14 AM
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I will write my comment to cheer you up a bit. I am 21 and I am a housewife. I do not have children yet. I have always dreamt of being a home maker. I used to work in an office for 2 years before that and I was contemplating if I should quit my job to fulfill my desires. I was so stressed and unsure. I blamed myself constantly for this idea and I wished I could be just like other women who love coming to work everyday and feel fulfilled and motivated. I even felt a bit embarrassed for aspiring t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 02:33 PM
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I can’t recommend any books or resources but here are my advices: Femininity traits include gentleness, empathy, humility, and sensitivity, so I think it would be good to work on those and see which areas you can improve in. When it comes to your gentleness it could be for example learning on how to speak eloquently. Articulation, diplomacy... I connect these with gentleness because they will teach you how to convey your thoughts properly, how to speak to others in inoffensive manner. Also doing…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 11:12 AM
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The problem with debates about world condition etc. is that many people are convinced that their moral compass is correct and what they say - a universal truth. Another issue apart from various moral beliefs is that every person has different personality type. These types majorly define what kind of political stances person will develop and it is very hard to determine which is the RIGHT one. What is basic right to you, may not be a basic right to other person. In the end there is no book or rul…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 07:56 PM
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I think there is nothing wrong with either being opinionated or argumentative. From your description I would say you are doing it in a healthy way, not trying to enforce the conversation or “win” the debate. I think it is perceived negatively because many women do it in a toxic way, being emotional rather than pragmatic and logical. Other than that I think it is frowned upon because if we look at “ideal feminine image” it is a woman who doesn’t spark conflict and brings peace. Feminine woman is …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 06:19 PM
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Because sex isn’t everything and I would argue it isn’t the most important thing when you look for someone you want to marry. You don’t have to be sexually compatible right away. People can always work on it together through years. Everything can be learned.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 02:43 PM
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3.5 years. We got married a year after that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 02:40 PM
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It depends what do you want in your life and who you want to be. Answer yourself these questions first. Do you want serious, monogamous relationship that will lead to marriage or do you want to avoid comittment and prefer to be “friends with benefits”? If your approach in life is “uhh I don’t know what I want I will just experiment and try this and that” it won’t lead you anywhere. If you do want something serious and monogamous (and a guy that isn’t a “jerk”) then I would advice against moving …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/20 06:16 PM
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Nothing. That is advice for men who want to be a specific type of an “alpha”. I can’t possibly test this advice since I am a woman and I am not interested in the type of relationship that he described. There are men out there who desire such pattern of relationship and I think it is fine. If it works for them then great. Would I ever date a man like that? Never. But they wouldn’t date me either so we are all good.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 01:18 AM
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Exactly my thoughts. I was about to write a comment but this sums it well. If I can just give my subjective view and add something: I also think his expectations are too much. People have different libidos and sexual drives but it can’t be enforced on other partner. I am a housewife. My husband works hard. Today he left at 8am and arrived at home at 1.20 am next day - YET he NEVER EVER expects me to have sex with him just because he needs it and he never makes me feel like it is part of our “dea…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 02:09 AM
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Every human has their own personality, dreams and goals. Your children don’t have any obligation to follow your expectations. Your children have right to choose the future they find desirable, even if it means they will do the opposite to what you did. There is no recipe for happy life. Just because traditional life has worked for you and your family doesn’t mean it works for everyone nor does it make everyone satisfied. Everyone has to accommodate to their needs individually. Your daughter has …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 12:29 AM
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First of all, you absolutely need to re-program your brain. Just because you grow up in a place that has toxic view of what it means to be valuable and successful, doesn’t mean that you are forced to believe it and comply to it. You have to understand that human’s worth is not measured in ones money making ability, intellect or academic achievements. Human’s worth is measured in ones character and moral values. If you think about it logically of course that government wants you to study and work…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/20 09:58 PM
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Short answer: No it is not. Longer answer: We get born innocent but our surroundings, family, traumas and experiences taint us along the way. Life isn’t about being a celestial, perfect woman who has never made mistakes and is above all problems. Anyone can swallow the Red Pill during different stages of their lives. It is about acknowledging what you have done wrong in the past and applying learnt principles in the present. You might have a high n-count but that doesn’t mean you can’t stop and …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 08:30 PM
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Well no book has really Red Pilled me because I slowly formed my beliefs by learning politics at school and watching you tube. Being a pragmatic person helps as well. There are a couple of books that have made my beliefs stronger and convinced me of certain truths: Jordan Peterson - 12 rules for life (this isn’t a typical red pill book as it isn’t political at all but I do think it conveys some of the truths that red pilled people follow) Douglas Murray - Strange Death of Europe, The Madness of …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 10:33 PM
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Maybe this will be quite unpopular but what’s wrong with being less intelligent or less smart than your partner? Truth is no couple is ever equal in these terms and one will always be smarter or more intelligent than the other. I understand that there are many dimensions and kinds of intelligence or knowledge but still... none of these things determines our worth as humans. Just because you know less in one field doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve to be respected or you won’t be appreciated. I …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 11:05 AM
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Nooo, you aren’t a bad guy trust me. I don’t think that what you are asking for is unreasonable or naggy in any way. It is difficult for me to give you very helpful advice because I think that the key to everything is communication - which you already nailed. I think reminding him about those things might actually be the only way ORRR you could make some kind of ritual on designated days or times of day in which you do your style of spending time together and then other times what he feels like …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 10:01 PM
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Did you let him know how you feel? What was his reaction?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 08:27 PM
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Have you maybe thought of working less? Is it possible for you to minimize your workload? I am saying this because no one is a superhero. We all have limited energy and no wonder you are too tired to spend time with your husband after all day of different kind of work. Sometimes we have to sacrifice certain things to be even able to do others. If so much work has negative output on your relationship and well being, maybe you should try not putting so much professional work? Obviously that would …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 08:09 PM
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I think many people explain it really well but I just want to add that Red Pilled Women don’t usually want to marry an “alpha”. Generally “we” want the mix of alpha and beta traits. RPW and RPM aren’t always compatible with each other due to perceiving relationships different. All in all red pill doesn’t necessarily focus on religious or traditional aspects of relationships. It focuses more on dating strategy to achieve your “goals”. Women goals are usually to marry so they use that strategy for…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 08:05 AM
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I actually saw something similar on Reddit before. It was a post which included comments from men on what they think is attractive, that women might think is not attractive (in women behavior). There was one comment from a guy, which had thousands of upvotes, that said men really enjoy when women look at them during performing oral sex. They don’t want you to not look because it makes them feel like you aren’t into it. They actually love eye contact and they aren’t thinking of your face looking …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 08:29 AM
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I think it really depends. Me and my husband are fully clothed when we are at home (our preference). When I change clothes or walk naked for a bit because I am preparing to take shower or changing into something else, I don’t see my husband being any more interested in me than when I am fully clothed. Sometimes he will stop to kiss me or touch me but it isn’t any different than when I am wearing clothes. Once you live with someone and you get used to sight of nudity, it doesn’t feel special or e…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 02:11 PM
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I am not open to adopting. People who adopt have great hearts and are amazing but I truthfully don’t want to adopt another person’s child. I would like my kids to inherit my traits and my intelligence, as well as my partners. A lot of things are genealogical and inherited and I want my kids to have genes of my husband and me... unless it would be impossible due to our health... but then I don’t think I would adopt either. I am 21 and so far I don’t feel any pressure from anyone. I got married an…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 03:50 AM
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Sure! For example my personal goals don’t revolve around career at all. I am a housewife. My desires and dreams are travels, learning new languages, cooking gourmet meals and reading as much as possible, so I don’t see the kids as something that would make all of those impossible. I am not a kid person at all. I don’t find kids adorable, they annoy me and in general I don’t feel any calling. I still do want to have kids because I perceive life as the biggest “miracle” and I want to give life to …
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 12:21 AM
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I think it is by all means okay and should be respected as an individual choice. I am in my early twenties as well. However I do believe that kids are portrayed very negatively lately and they are perceived as an obstacle on the way to dreams, career and travels. My parents traveled with me and my sister to over 25 different countries and few continents before we both passed the age of 15 (and we weren’t rich, my mom was just an excellent saver and planner). Both my parents had careers. I think …
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 04:08 PM
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AVALON CRYSTALPURE COLLAGEN (100% PURE MARINE COLLAGEN PEPTIDE) - this one I can recommend. However it is Singaporean brand and needs to be shipped if you live elsewhere - what I do since I am from Europe. Most of cosmetics I use are Asian, specifically Japanese and Korean.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 02:21 PM
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I agree. Don’t know why this opinion would stir any controversy. Staying home is also a job that comes with duties and responsibilities. Women who choose this path need to be aware of the fact that they don’t do it to just relax but to help family in different way than bringing income. If you don’t take care of cooking, cleaning, kids and health then what are you doing?
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 09:55 PM
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I am a stay at home wife and I agree with everything you said here. I have started doing this not so long ago so there are areas for me to improve but I definitely will and do push myself to obtain all of the traits you have mentioned. To have such a lifestyle one must find likeminded person, otherwise it will never work. That is why women who want to stay at home should look for partners who think like you and vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 05:34 PM
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My husband is like that... he loves me without makeup, doesn’t care about what I wear and doesn’t even care if I shave anywhere! Anytime I do things like shaving legs, plucking eyes brows, wearing dress (I wear dresses and heels 90% of time), putting on makeup or perfume, getting heels on - he says “why do you do that?” ... still after 5 years of being together he didn’t get the clue that is just me. Now I could use this and get “uglier” and don’t do anything mentioned above but the truth is I d…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 07:13 PM
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guacamole sandwiches with eggs risotto with chicken, tomato sauce, green peas, courgette cauliflower/broccoli soup chicken fried in bread crumbs placki ziemniaczane (polish potato pancakes made out of literally just potatoes, onion and garlic fried on vegetable oil) kimchi fried rice cooked potatoes sprinkled with dill and glass of kefir on the side
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 03:14 PM
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I am not worried. I am married. I know my relationship will be well. I don’t think choices many people are making these days are wise but ultimately I don’t care what they are doing because I believe everyone should live how it suits them. As for my kids (I don’t have any yet but plan to in the future) I am not worried as well. I am not religious and I don’t plan to force any of my political views on them. All I want for them is to grow up in a healthy environment, loving family and teach them t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 03:27 AM
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I don’t think that “I don’t question his motives because he told me so” will cut it here. I read your previous post and indeed what you did had deserved reprimand and his disappointment but it does not mean that because of your mistake, you should now abandon all common sense. You say he wants you to trust him. Trust his words when he mentions that he wants to marry 18 year old virgin, without a baggage, stable emotionally and submissive. You aren’t that. You can try to mold yourself into that p…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 04:09 AM
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So many women have given you their harsh and truthful opinions, yet you deliberately disregard all of them and excuse EVERY SINGLE thought or behavior of a man that isn’t even your boyfriend but uses you for sex. There is nothing he can do wrong in your eyes. You are blinded and delusional. Why bother wasting everyone’s time if you have all of the answers already? All you want to hear are words of affirmation, people saying that you can fix it or what you should say to him to make him consider y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 03:54 AM
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I am stay at home wife and we have no children. To summarize what my “duties” are: cooking (3-4 meals a day. Once a week I sit down and plan the weekly menu, I write down ingredients and order them online for groceries) cleaning ( I have a weekly and monthly schedule of what to clean each day, there are tasks I do daily like dusting for example) gardening (I planted vegetables and herbs in my garden to reduce some groceries) planning for vacations, dates and fun activities (we do not use any tra…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 11:23 AM
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Technically you can always ask for advice from RP ladies but everything about you, from the way you think to the way you act is against RP values. Your life, desires, relationships are so far far away from the way most of ladies on this forum live that it is impossible to relate in any way. RPW is not a subreddit where people won’t judge. Quite contrary. Red pill is about accepting harsh reality, so most responses you will get here will be direct, honest, brutal and criticizing (for your own goo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 02:01 AM
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I would also consider this a turn off but not an immediate deal breaker. I would continue dating him to see how does he manage his money and when you feel comfortable you can just ask him. I know a lot of people would advise not to bring it up but I think after you know him for some time you can voice your questions. Maybe he is in some special situation? If he responds with a typical male whine about how women only want money or tells you that he is a feminist or wants an “equality” then it wil…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 12:50 PM
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No, it isn’t rape. It would be if you have denied your husband sex and said “no” and he still did it forcefully. Not enjoying the act has nothing to do with rape. Believe it or not there are women in this world who really don’t care about sex, have low libido and don’t perceive it same way as rest of people. These women could easily survive their life without having sex at all and not be bothered about it. That doesn’t mean they don’t love, don’t appreciate or do not feel romantic. If you are on…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 12:43 PM
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I disagree. Sex isn’t everything and isn’t even the most important thing in a family. Later in life when people are very very old I doubt they have sex, that doesn’t mean they need to divorce. She shouldn’t mention lack of attraction because that will hurt him more than just no sex. She can work this out with time. Sometimes you just have to deal with problems and it might enquire patience. She loves the husband and wants to change. It isn’t like she doesn’t feel anything for him. It is all abou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:05 PM
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It depends. I never have any doubts about my husband. Absolute zero. So it is possible. But it is also man’s job to make you feel like that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 07:02 PM
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This is just horrible. Why would you ever treat someone you love like that? It won’t get you a strong relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:53 PM
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I can’t imagine reading books on pdf or digitally. I love the feel and smell of books and I think they don’t clutter space as long as you have devoted library space.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:25 PM
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It is quite simple. Just because he finds you attractive enough to have sex doesn’t mean he wants to be in any relationships. There are many men who prefer to have causal sex with no commitments. He could also feel that it would be a fair exchange for your help with networking. Even if he is interested in having a relationship in his life it still doesn’t mean that he would choose any girl who he can have sex with. Relationships are way more than just sex. He might not see you as an attractive p…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 12:37 PM
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I will suggest writing these things on your phone with a set reminder. I don’t think your husband reacted that bad because as you have mentioned, this wasn’t the first time. He is probably bottling his irritation and then blows up. Once you start doing the things he asks you to and you don’t cry when he gets angry, he won’t be that sensitive anymore and one mistake won’t make him go all out.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 06:42 PM
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I wear high heels because they make my legs look slimmer and my behind look more pronounced. The whole silhouette looks more attractive. I don’t want to be any taller than I am. Just doing it for pure looks
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 10:51 AM
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I can definitely relate to all of the things you have described here. First of all it is a very common thing that has been studied that women tend to be very hostile towards attractive girls. An attractive, smart and well kept woman is definitely very desired and on a high position in a “dating market”. Since other women subconsciously see this as a threat, they will try to make you feel bad about yourself so you stop caring and conform to their standards so that you aren’t a “threat” anymore. I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 01:35 AM
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It is so hard to find anything with waist 60 and below! Shopping is so frustrating that I have been seriously considering teaching myself how to sew my own garments. Getting things tailored is another good option but nevertheless annoying since you have to pay more just for something to fit you :(
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 01:12 AM
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And another little thing: check out what season are you when it comes to your skin tone! I am clear spring. This will tell you which colors to avoid on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/19 11:28 PM
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Also look up Kibbe test and then watch videos about dressing according to your body type. I really recommend channel Aly Art on you tube. She explains those things very well.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/19 11:24 PM
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I think I was always very aware of my body type. For me clothes were never really a manifestation of my interests or an expression. I have always viewed clothes as a tool to make myself look even more attractive. From what I know symmetry and proportions are usually what humans find naturally beautiful. The key to looking great is to make yourself look proportionate. So if you wear tight black clothes you will be able to see your silhouette. Since my figure is hourglass - which is an “ideal” and…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/19 11:20 PM
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I have always had a very feminine style. As a teenager I would wear a lot of skater skirts and t-shirts (girly fashion). I am 21 now and what is most important to me is to dress according to my body type. I am a typical hourglass. My measurements are stereotypical 90-60-90 cm or 34 - 24 - 34 inches (bust-waist-hip). So I make sure there is NEVER anything oversized or baggy or straight on my body. Size 0 in US, 4-6 UK or 34 European. My number one rule is that waist has to be always tightly hugge…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/19 10:56 PM
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Don’t date if you aren’t ready for a relationship. If you feel committing to anything is something you don’t feel ready for - do not date. You only gave this guy fake hope. Enter nun mode until you feel it is right time. Since he said he loves you after a couple of dates, I don’t think he knows what that word even means and he takes it too lightly. I wouldn’t want to label him as desperate but it is a bit too soon for such confessions, especially that both of you haven’t been in official relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 05:20 PM
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I would be really mad if my husband did the same so I guess that is just fair.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/19 09:37 PM
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The only thing I don’t get is “asking husband for money or pocket money”. How does that even work? It feels very weird to me. I am fully dependent on my husband, housewife (no kids yet) and I can’t imagine asking my husband for money. I have access to all accounts and my set of cards. We organize the budget in excel where we track our expenses. I never ask my husband for any money because I simply have access to account and I just spend on whatever I want and I think is reasonable. I don’t under…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/19 07:00 PM
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I always had exceptionally good contact with men. As a kid and teen most of my friends (if not all) were usually men. Girls never liked me and in my life I befriended only one - which became my best friend. Even though I am very feminine when it comes to my looks, voice, style and behavior, I have a lot of masculine traits. I am pragmatic, logical, straight to point and I am not emotional at all. I am usually more interested in people than things but all my hobbies are male dominated fields - ga…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 11:52 PM
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It is something I can’t relate to since I am from Europe and education and healthcare is free here. Universities are also free. The best universities in my country are public and easily accessible.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 11:50 AM
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I think it depends what people mean by providing. For me providing means: nutritious food, shelter, hygienic space, safety, clothes that are clean and appropriate to weather and books. What I described in my comment I think are basic needs. New trendy clothes, iPhones, private schools, trips abroad and gifts for Christmas are not basic needs in my opinion. No matter how rich or poor you are if you grow up in toxic environment you won’t be happy. So I think environment and community matters the m…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 11:12 PM
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I guess it depends on the situation, family and country where you grow up. People that struggle with alcohol, drugs etc should not have children. People who live in areas where crimes, abductions and shootings are daily events, should not have children. I grew up in a mountain village (100 habitants), no electricity in winters, no doctor and one school for 20 villages. There were no extra classes, instruments or things we could learn. 90% of people were on the same financial level. All kids just…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 04:38 PM
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Many people believe that kids care about materialistic world. I was a kid who grew up in a very poor family in a post-communist country. My parents and my sibling lived in a one room in a shared house. We all slept on couch until I was 9 and I was given gifts only once a year during Christmas. My biggest pocket money I ever got was maybe 1 dollar per week. Yet I remember I had extremely happy childhood. I played outside nonstop, explored woods, built with snow, made friends with kids from other …
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 03:59 PM
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You can explain that but in general they will expect you to drink. You will have to come up with a very good excuse - sickness or something like that
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 09:00 PM
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Asian working standards are definitely different from western ones. We love Korea (and other countries in Asia) and would gladly move there but my husband simply refuses to work there. He specifically dislikes the hierarchy - where age and status matter the most. He likes when everyone is treated the same and there is no mandatory “respect and obedience” towards people above you. He says he often openly criticizes his manager’s ideas and he wouldn’t be able to do that in Korea. Other than that h…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:50 PM
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I am married to a South Korean man and this is very common in that country as well. Few times a week employees are expected to go drinking with their boss. It is usually not accepted to decline or to refuse drinking - you need a very good excuse. There are so many men not even going back home during week. They just sleep in office or stay in bar until morning. This is quite normal in many Asian countries. My husband and I live in Europe - mostly because of that. I wouldn’t want him to have such …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:34 PM
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I think the OP wasn’t saying that those traits are beta or bad. I think what she meant is that the way they describe desirable men is only a cover up for: submissive, easily manipulated guy that lacks assertiveness. There can be loving, intelligent and sweet guys who are also very firm, know what they want and have strong personality but those traits are not admired by these women. Also these women focus on what type of guy they want, setting high standards when it comes to finances and personal…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 11:38 AM
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I think if this man has good qualities, you see future with him and you trust him, you should be a bit patient and see how this relationship progresses. Before we started living together, me and my husband have been in long distance relationship for 3.5 years, lived on different continents (9h time difference) and saw each other only ONCE per year. I did that because I saw him as an ideal partner for me and I was willing to sacrifice that “together time” to be with him forever in the future. I t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 10:08 AM
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“No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless it’s roots reach down to hell” - C. Jung Sometimes we need to face the shadow of our self and acknowledge that we are capable of betraying our values and morals. Making even one mistake like that puts your soul in a place of guilt, unrest and disappointment. It isn’t about trying to forget what happened or even forgiving yourself. Try to think about it as a valuable life lesson that makes you, who you are today. Because you did what you have done, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 08:05 AM
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I do not think you are being petty. He really is a hypocrite if what you wrote here is the case. He seems to be trying to “secure” you, so that you don’t have a possibility of cheating or being alone with other males (I don’t know what his motives are but I guess it is jealousy). He had a female doing massage on him, she complimented him and he TOLD YOU - i think he wants you to be jealous and see that he desired by others. I don’t really know why is he doing that... Nevertheless you I feel you …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 01:48 AM
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If you wish to engage in a discussion please make some points first and describe what exactly do you find misogynistic - this question isn’t precise enough. This title’s only purpose is to provoke people and it won’t lead to any meaningful conversation but I have a feeling you aren’t here for that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 05:52 PM
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This is my experience as well. Some of these people really do walk on an edge. I once just said: I disagree - I was banned and called different kind of nasty names. These people can not accept any disagreements because for them, their beliefs are the only ones that are correct and shouldn’t be questioned.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 10:22 AM
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I am okay with being called that. I wouldn’t call myself stuck since as I said, I want everyone to say what they think and I am happy to have a conversation. I have firm beliefs that is true, it is because I have rationalized them and they make sense to me. But if someone proved me wrong I would change my mind. I am a pragmatic person. Not religious, so my views aren’t set and dictated by holy books.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 11:46 PM
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It was just an anecdote, just now I see that behavior again. Denial of conversation because of my beliefs, so again part of my argument. It is not about the decency. If I am a person who doesn’t believe in transgender postulates I don’t want to be forced to lie just so I don’t get punished. One of my biggest moral values is to always tell the truth. Also there is a difference between politely asking someone to use pronoun and demanding it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 11:13 PM
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I also get my pads from Asia. Countries like South Korea, Japan, China and Thailand have amazing pads. For a gal with the heavy flow and possible endometriosis they are the dream products. They even have panties pads that you wear at night like a diaper so you never leak - brilliant. I also can relate to these cultures better. My husband is Korean so I am party immersed in it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 10:47 PM
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I am also sick of it. Believe it or not it is not about doing small things to make someone’s life less shitty. One time I took part in a discussion about transgender people and pronouns. Most of people stated that they would use pronouns. The only thing I typed was “I disagree” - that is it. Nothing more. I got banned, labeled as a hate speech propagator and heavily criticized for that one statement. NO ONE asked why do I think that way. No one was interested in my point of view. Everything I he…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 10:42 PM
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I mean my husband wanted me to marry him before we ever had sex and he had no problem to wait till marriage day. And he isn’t from Middle East or religious at all.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 02:40 PM
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I see. Thank you for explaining. I wasn’t familiar with the term until not so long ago. I definitely can relate to some of the things you are saying. Such statements are unfortunately very controversial and bring a lot of drama into conversations and relationships with others, so I gave up on speaking about these things publicly. It can feel very lonely since I do not have any friends or women in my family who would be housewives and who would share such views. All women in my family are very am…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 12:00 PM
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Eastern European here - I am quitting job to become housewife and I won’t pay bills as well (obviously) but this subreddit doesn’t particularly endorse this scenario - in fact from what I can see most women work here. This subreddit isn’t about staying at home or working, it is more about improving yourself according to red pill theory - taking care of your looks, dating strategies, relationships or fashion advices etc. I tried to find a subreddit that would be alive and devoted to women at home…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 10:11 AM
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The product has to state that molecules are smaller than 5000 daltons. Bigger than that don’t absorb in our intestines, so they don’t work.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 12:24 PM
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It doesn’t matter how fast you go as long as you don’t stop :) The most important thing is to know exactly why you are doing the things you are doing. You are not loosing weight to just merely look prettier and appear “worthy”. You are loosing weight because you truly love yourself. Loving yourself doesn’t mean accepting how you look. Loving yourself is treating your body with respect that it deserves and taking care of it, so it can flourish and serve you through your life. Healthy body doesn’t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 08:55 PM
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How is not doing these things controversial? I don’t get it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 08:42 PM
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no tanning (always wear sunscreen, UV rays are your biggest enemies) limit the sugar in your diet (sweet food accelerates aging) do face yoga and face massages (example: Tanaka massage) regimen: double cleansing (oil -> cleansing foam), ph toner, some bha/aha for exfoliation, vitamin c, retinoids, hyaluronic acid, cosmetics with EGF drinking collagen (has to be small molecules) exercising and keeping same weight sleep, no stress, diet full in vitamins and iron, water silk pillows and bed covers …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 08:40 PM
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Yes. Women don’t marry down, they (usually) move across and up social and economic scale. But just to be clear, I do not support women who marry a good guy and then leave the husband because someone even richer or smarter appeared on horizon.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 02:32 PM
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I would never marry a man who is less experienced, intelligent, qualified and level headed than me. The red pill is about finding yourself a partner that you can lean on and who will be a good leader. If a man is less experienced, responsible and capable of providing then he is not a good material for a husband and a leader. Submitting should feel natural, logical and voluntary. As a pragmatic myself, I would find it impossible to submit to a man that you described. Not to mention I wouldn’t be …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 02:04 PM
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Leader doesn’t mean superior human. I doubt anyone here thinks men are superior. We are just different and can use those differences to benefit both of us. I don’t perceive a leader as someone who is superior to me. I perceive a leader as someone who is wiser and more experienced in certain aspects. That doesn’t mean I am less worthy or I can’t contribute to the relationship in different way. For example I let my husband be the leader when it comes to our finances. He knows so much more about it…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 10:26 PM
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I understand. Just to give a bit of different scenario: Me and my husband are from different countries. Our families live on three different continents and speak three different languages. We are atheists and our families are religious. We didn’t think of making anyone happy. We didn’t have a ceremony. We just got married. We both don’t like parties and it would be too difficult and expensive to pay for people to come here. So just a suggestion: you don’t need any ceremony if that is the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 06:53 PM
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If it is few weeks ago then forget what I said in my post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 02:59 PM
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I don’t know her personally so I can not make a statement that I am 100% sure about it - but I don’t think you are her consolation prize. Think about it: she had almost got married to a man before, thinking that she knows him and can trust him. That man proved her wrong. He showed her that she didn’t really know who he is and she wasn’t aware of what he is capable of. She was betrayed. I am sure, that if she knew that dark side of her ex’s character, she would never want to devote herself to suc…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 02:53 PM
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Ultimately if you think that getting married isn’t something you absolutely need to do, you can slowly let your partner know that it would mean a lot to you but it isn’t something you are willing to lose him over for. I just really wonder what is the reason behind it, since you replied in other comment that it isn’t about being financially safe or anything like that. If he really sees getting married as “nothing” then why won’t he marry you to make YOU happy? If he had some strong reason as to w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 02:18 PM
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Does he want to have kids? Do you want to have kids? I think he might be opposed to getting married because he wants to protect his assets in case of divorce. Also I think he feels settled with you the way you are now. He doesn’t need to offer anything to you because you already give him everything he wants from this relationship. He is comfortable with you and you don’t seem to aggressively push for that scenario. Maybe ask him exactly why is he against marriage and you will find out what the i…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 09:32 AM
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I agree. Most of them are men around 40, who have never been in serious relationships, never had kids and are struggling with finding partners. They write long messages to my husband about middle life crisis and how harsh dating world is and how all of their relationships fail. I don’t understand why do they think they are in position to dictate who should be together and how a good relationship looks like if all their experiences were failures. But even though they didn’t wish us well, I wish t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 09:22 PM
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(Together 5 years now) Met my husband online. Fell in love from our first conversation. He lived on other side of the world, 12 hour flight away from me. For the first year we called each other everyday until he flew to meet me and my family. We dated like this for 3 years (meeting only once a year) and then both moved abroad to live with each other. We got married. We are getting our first home and we couldn’t be happier. Everyone told us to break up with each other because of our age differenc…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 04:12 PM
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Did he ever compliment you before you gained weight?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 12:20 PM
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In general I think you overreacted in this situation. Him complimenting other woman shouldn’t really make you this upset. You need to work on your confidence. I think he doesn’t react to your crying because he thinks you are blowing this out of proportion. Other issue though is him saying no one will want you or never complimenting you. But I don’t know what you should do with this fact. Maybe when you aren’t emotional anymore and not crying you can sit down with him and tell him (without making…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 11:53 AM
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Unfortunately that thing doesn’t work on my husband. He doesn’t like any “child-like” behavior. Whenever we are disputing he appreciates if I am composed and talk things out with him, mostly focusing on the rational aspect of things, not the emotional. Whenever I had a childlike reaction described as in post above, my husband didn’t like it at all and he complained it is immature behavior and he will not speak to me until I get hold of myself... He doesn’t understand crying, being emotional and …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 03:53 AM
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Is there anything you didn’t understand ?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 10:02 PM
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This will not entirely answer your question but I know that one thing men hate the most is nagging. They hate it. The more you mention something to them, the more annoyed they get - even if you try to talk things out in calm manner. I am not sure how I feel about the restrictions you put on him regarding talking to girls etc. Most normal and healthy relationships don’t have those rules communicated and set to each other. People in relationship usually are fully aware of what is right or wrong an…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 09:59 PM
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It is very possible but I really don’t care at all. Not even a bit. I guess I never put importance to what people have to say about me. I went thorough horrible bullying and cyber bullying as a child and I guess it made me absolutely numb.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 05:31 PM
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Definitely. Working on yourself is way better than chasing and getting used or disappointed. In that way I support MGTOW. It is also sad how you guys get censored everywhere and can’t have normal conversation with people without getting banned.
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 01:49 PM
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I definitely agree with all that you said. I see some women forums and I don’t even want to participate in them anymore because of all shame I get online and in real life to even think of being a housewife. I am working now, office job, average pay and lots of hours. I got some raise and went up a ladder a bit but it brought me absolutely no satisfaction at all. The happiest, the most motivated and rewarded I feel is when my husband is happy and I see he is enjoying his life. I love cooking and …
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 12:38 PM
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Thank you for saying that. I am a soon to be a housewife who sometimes reads MGTOW to understand point of view of many men and educate myself a little on which female behaviors are considered toxic or unfair. Reading posts and responses like the ones here sometimes confuses me a lot. I saw hundreds of men complaining that women focus too much on career and advising many of them to stay at home and take care of their husbands so they can relax after work (which I agree with and that is what I wan…
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 10:09 AM
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In my office everyone is pretty much individualistic and there aren’t really any groups of friends forming or anything like that. There are mostly women. All girls eat lunch together and keep good contact with each other. I have never heard or seen any drama. All of them are really nice to me and polite to each other. Same with men - but they seem to be more bonded with each other. I am the only person who eats lunch alone but it is due to my extreme introvertism. I always wear headphones and pr…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 11:36 PM
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How about long distance relationship for time being ?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 09:21 PM
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Why don’t you want to meet?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 09:18 PM
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Since your description isn’t very detailed, I can’t simply assume you haven’t done anything wrong BUT when it comes to him having a girlfriend and leading you on - you definitely aren’t the problem, his actions aren’t excusable. This guy just wanted to keep his options open and date around to comfortably switch from gal to gal whenever he feels like. He is probably an attention seeker and can’t commit to one woman. It is very probable that he would secretly have two or more girlfriends at same t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 02:37 AM
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Life is complicated. I would say once a month is too little but ultimately it is his children. As long as he supports them financially and mentally it is okay. But since you aren’t married I would be quite worried. There is little security for yourself. Does he ever plan to divorce or just stay like this forever? If he can’t afford legal way to support his kids through custody then will he be able to afford kids with you? Will you work? Do you plan to have your finances separate since you aren’t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 02:28 AM
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I don’t know all the details but... why isn’t he taking care and providing for his children? They are his responsibility and it just feels so wrong for me that he refuses to pay for them and yet he has a new baby with you that he will support financially. It is kind of mind blowing that he made you pregnant with new baby when he can’t even take care of the children from his own blood and flesh that already existed. I don’t know... doesn’t sound like a good man or father to me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 12:23 AM
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Really well written response.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 06:16 PM
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Yeah, nothing in life is guaranteed but we must make some decisions and just take the responsibility for our choices. I won’t blame anyone but me if my marriage fails and I will end up in tough situation. People change. I have changed too during our relationship. I changed plans, views and the way I perceive certain things. A lot of people have problem with communication and don’t notice when their partner’s mind starts shifting, which is very dangerous. When a marriage is healthy partners shoul…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 06:10 PM
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Sure. It really depends on your partner though and how much money they earn. Middle or higher class is possible if your husband works in certain fields or has his own business. At least when it comes to me, that is the case. But it can always fluctuate so I understand that possibility of financial hit. I am not sure about that. It depends on the country you live in. Might be like this in USA but then you go to some Asian country or Middle Eastern country and that isn’t the case anymore. I am mar…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:06 PM
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Yeah, currently we spend my whole income just on rent in the city center. We plan to buy a house without a mortgage so even if I don’t work it wouldn’t change our financial dynamics much. Currently after paying all expenses like food, rent and bills, we save about 70%-80% percent of what is left and have remaining 20% - 30% for things like traveling, clothes, going out and entertainment. From that monthly 20% we are able to go abroad few times a year, buy brand clothes and go out to cinema or th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 04:06 PM
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Thank you. I have very similar take on this. People just don’t understand I don’t ever want to work. I don’t want to work after my kids are grown up too. It is just part of that choice - judgement and resentment. I have been physically abused and bullied in my school. I would get my belongings trashed, stolen, dyed and destroyed. I would be beaten up by group of girls on school corridors and no one reacted. I have been under huge criticism from many people before and I went through it with skin …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 03:26 PM
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I agree with the video. There are many reasons why I think it is men who should provide. I also think it really matters what kind of priorities and goals you have in your life. For me, my dream life is to have a safe, clean and cozy house with garden where I can grow my vegetables. To have a loving, strong marriage and well educated, healthy children. I also dream of having the possibility to develop many passions of mine: such as traveling, art and hiking. The biggest joy of my life is organizi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 11:19 AM
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I would say, you really have a long way to go. Your problems steam from within yourself and you won't be able to solve them unless you really focus on yourself first. I would recommend you to slow down with dreams, expectations and plans and dive deep within your conscious. Limit the internet and read some psychology and philosophy books. Try to find out the root problem of your attachment issues. Maybe you will find out they have to do something with your past or insecurities. You seem like a p…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 10:56 AM
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From my perspective, if you love your boyfriend and you see he would be a good husband and a father, you shouldn't break up with him over those reasons. First of all, I sincerely wouldn't want to diminish and underestimate your problems but I think him not being adventurous isn't really good enough reason to break up with anyone. Especially that he does conform to your suggestions and doesn't reject the spontaneous ideas of yours. I will give you an example from my marriage. I am 21 and with my …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 10:44 AM
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It would be great to find a community. It is very hard to do that these days :/
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 12:41 AM
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The only difference between me and you is that I don’t put myself on the pedestal of morality and don’t claim to be superior or truer partner.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 07:53 AM
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Oh yeah I definitely get it. Working just drains energy out of you. Maybe I can also try to do it gradually if my boss allows.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 01:45 AM
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Well, you aren’t married though, which you stated yourself. I don’t know your situation but by law you are single woman. I go by the legal definition of marriage, so I don’t know what arrangement do you have. It can be the case you didn’t follow my responses but I actually said that my husband can’t wait till I stay at home. His mother was stay at home wife, so he understands dynamics of such family and is happy for me to choose this as well. I don’t know if it’s very unfortunate that my husband…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 01:40 AM
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I think that you are very disciplined and organized person. It looks like you are also healthy and take care of yourself. Lifestyle you described is well planned and thought out. I think it works great for people like you, who want to work but also have healthy life balance. I personally don’t like simple, quick meals and unfortunately fail at time specific schedules that need to be performed to the minute otherwise everything collapses. I am more attracted to the idea of spontaneous (yet organi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 12:28 AM
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You are an adult and take responsibility for your choices. If that is what you believe is best approach for your relationship, I don’t have any problems with it. I just don’t like when people are slightly passive aggressive about other‘s choices - as if there was an ultimate answer to what a relationship should be in all cases. Marriage is an institution that for many years had children in mind. You seem very confident about your relationship and about your boyfriend. There are good people out t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 12:19 AM
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I think people can have what they say. Wouldn’t want to accuse anyone of being a liar. I just think as many people, as many definitions and understandings of - for example - what clean is or what beautiful is. There are also people that truly are perfectionists or are so disciplined they are able to have perfect balance in all aspects of life - but then again, not everyone wants to or has ability to do that. Since we are quite complex creatures and have different personalities, character traits,…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 11:48 PM
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My grandma and mother are divorced too and they were both always working. Their marriages were very toxic so I think I can understand where the aversion to men and trusting them comes from. I am an extreme introvert so I am happy with no interactions, however I also like to go online and I meet most of people there (that is how I met my husband too). I am happy to see women like you - being happy. Wish it was at least more acceptable. Hope one day our families can accept us better :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 10:03 PM
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Also, I am very skeptical of people saying they eat healthy or have clean house or take care of themselves. I would really need to know you personally and see how you live to be able to see if that is what I mean as well by those labels. So I will take it with grain of salt.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 09:44 PM
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Thank you a lot. That is really cool advice. Didn’t know about ninja foods thing - will check it out! Can’t wait to be able to make gifts and send my family self made cards for holidays. Sope making sounds so cool, also when you have children I bet it is nice bonding experience.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 09:39 PM
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I mentioned the divorce laws because a lot of people show concern regards my financial well-being in case my husband “leaves me”. Usually the main argument against staying at home is the fact that some women are prone to abuse or show incapability of being independent once some major tragedy hits. There are always people who will try to benefit from the system without putting any work and I am not a supporter of such behaviors. I think that if a woman decides to take the responsibility of baring…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 09:37 PM
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His hobbies are games. His side project is his life dream so I guess he gets a lot of fulfillment from that. He was never a type of person to spend a lot of time on entertainment. He likes to work on things in spare time as his hobby and if not, on weekends he plays games sometimes or he watches sports.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 09:05 PM
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Okay, I guess I wasn’t precise enough. I was more interested in things I should prioritize to learn first as a housewife and what to expect. I’m not questioning my decision. That is why I mentioned who I would like to hear from in the title. I will be more specific next time to avoid confusion.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 08:57 PM
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Educate myself in nutrition and create healthy meal plans for both of our needs. Cooking everything from scratch and going to the organic markets or farmers to get better quality food. Preparing all the meals on time, having time to cook more advanced, skill and time consuming meals that would be healthy and tasty and have more room to be versatile with the diet. I wouldn’t have to rush and put quick, simple meals just to fill us and I would be able to reduce the time we buy food from restaurant…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 08:06 PM
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Didn’t really ask for advice wether I should stay at home or quit job. I was asking women that are housewives about their experience, how did their life and relationship changed etc. So far I have only got responses from people that are discouraging from staying at home and that was not a nature of my concern or question I wanted to be answered. I am very used to people not accepting that choice, hence in title I specified who I want to hear from.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:53 PM
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Blogging and online store do sound very interesting and I would look into that more. Data entry is one of the tasks I do at work and is one of most mundane and unfulfilling activities I have ever done.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:50 PM
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Well, I didn’t ask for approval nor I was seeking guidance if to quit my job. I was interested to hear experiences of other women that are currently housewives. I did mention travels and other hobbies of mine, but I did so because a lot of people usually ask what would I do after fulfilling all the duties or assume if I want to stay at home I must be a person without a personality. Currently I take care of most of the chores at home and I try to lift off as much from my husband’s shoulders as po…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:48 PM
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Thank you. Definitely I would have to start from position of junior, possibly making little wage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:28 PM
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I have considered this option, however can’t find a solution that would satisfy me. I do not like manual labor and human interaction. I wouldn’t ever stand to work as a sales person, cashier or any work that doesn’t require thinking and is mundane. I am very introverted and contact with people drains me, that is why I love work with computers and things. Personally I struggle to perform at work that I see as waste of my potential or time. I feel the most inspired and fulfilled when traveling, ex…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:26 PM
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I am tad surprised myself. I guess choosing this lifestyle isn’t very supported and encouraged even here. I think if a woman loves her job, has highly marketable talent or feels purpose in her work and she is able to have a healthy life/work balance and good relationship with her husband - all power to her. I personally think our life comfort and relationship suffer because of lack of time for me to perform these duties to the extent in which they would satisfy me. I love making all meals from v…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 07:17 PM
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Long story short, when it comes to finances, my husband is able to provide for me and our potential children with the room for savings and investments. Currently we have enough money to live without an income for around 15 years on the same level we live right now - which includes travels and other pleasure spendings. I do not find any purpose or fulfillment in professional work. Both of us work till 7pm and it is very hard to find a healthy balance. On top of that my husband has his side hustle…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 06:58 PM
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I have moved out of my parents house when I was 16. I lived alone. I have worked part time in high school and then full time for two years till now. I have a certificate in my field. I think I am capable of being independent when the situation demands me to be. I am married. According to divorce laws I am pretty much secured when it comes to finances and I would be capable to live for more than 10 years without working with the savings I currently have.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 06:53 PM
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Currently with both of us working till 7pm in office jobs and him having a start-up company on the side, I really struggle to find time for house chores. I do perform all my house duties while going to work, however it is the expedience over quality that bothers me. I don’t have time for traveling, reading or attending cultural events and I think it would be valuable for me to do it before I have children as well. When it comes to finances I don’t need to worry about saving for retirement or vac…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 06:49 PM
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Generally speaking - yes. There are more ways I can contribute to society, my husband and our household than just having a career.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 06:43 PM
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My husband is Korean as well. I am white European and his family has never approved of us. I have never met them because as soon as they found out I am not Asian they disowned him. We got a letter in a mail saying he isn’t a part of the family now and he should never contact with anyone from their side. They also mentioned he isn’t their son anymore and they blocked him and threw his stuff out of their home. I am saying this because you said your family wants you to marry someone from same count…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 10:28 AM
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Just a sliiiight addition from me: I met “the one” one day after creating an account and he is my first love and husband now, so it is possible, however not probable :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 07:38 AM
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I mean, it isn’t always the case. My husband calls me cute everyday. There are guys out there who really like when girl has a “cute” face and hot body. My husband is Korean so maybe it contributes to this but I still think it is all about preference. I think it must be some other issue.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 08:22 AM
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Four, I am married to a Korean man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 08:14 AM
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I moved out when I was 16. I rented a small room, while attending high school. Personally, I believe that what makes one an adult is emotional and economical separation from parents. It might be beneficial in terms of savings or finances to stay under the same roof with the parents, but life isn’t about being always sheltered and taken care of by family and parents. Taking on responsibility for yourself fully is the greatest thing you can do for your character development. I think that living by…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 03:54 PM
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Same. For me it takes 30 min makeup And 10 min hair. I cant go any lower :/
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 08:39 PM
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It isn’t that men necessarily go for the young ones purely basing on the “attractiveness” they can offer. There are many women who are very attractive in their 40s and 50s. Being young doesn’t equal being beautiful - there are tons of unattractive young women out there. The reason (I am talking about people who want serious relationships) men go for younger women is because women have very limited amount of time when it comes to fertility. Many women who have hit the wall and never had children …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 12:59 PM
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Quite honestly it all depends on your priorities in life. He sounds like a decent person. He has some negative traits that do require fixing in order for a healthy family to be established - the problem is, that he doesn’t seem to be aware of this. If we were talking about a 26 year old man that admitted all of those are a problem and he will do everything he can to fix them, you wouldn’t probably be on here, writing about your concerns. I dare to say he seems to be an unattractive individual in…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 08:55 PM
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I will research more about it but I do have ovaries scan every year and I do check ups with gynecologist and they always tell me everything looks fine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 04:08 PM
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I was thinking the same about how it shouldn’t interrupt my life like this. I have been to gynecologist and she told me it is genetic and I have to basically “suck it up”. I think I will go get my hormones checked though because I also experience acne on my jaw and cheeks and half of my hair fell out. I struggle with anemia for 7 years now though so I don’t know if it would be lack of iron or the hormone imbalance... I will check it other way. Other than that my cycles are very very regular (alw…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 03:59 PM
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I wear heels everyday. Since a very young age I have dreamt of wearing high heels and although there was no dress code at my school, I knew I need to wait a bit longer for it to be acceptable. I started working at 19 and since then I only wear heels (with exception when I am on my period). There is no dress code in my office and everyone usually wears tracksuits and trainers. Literally no one even bats an eye when I walk in to the office each day. Once you get people used to the way you look, th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 02:51 PM
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I don’t find this subreddit depressive. I don’t really understand liking to make fun of people that have opposite views from yours. Sure, nobody forbids you to find certain postulates amusing or ridiculous but if you actually consider yourself as an intelligent individual, you would be more interested to have discussions and exchange views with opposite side to prove your points or learn new perspectives. I can also say that I find certain feminists very funny and irrational but that sentence it…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 09:36 AM
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I guess hot bath is the answer to all of existing pains xd
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 09:16 PM
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I wouldn’t disregard your experience or feelings because of your age, because I met my husband and first love at 16. We are married now and happy with each other but... My husband was older, wanted to marry and was established in life. When men are 15 they do not think about being serious and getting married. I know there are exceptions to all cases. Judging from what you have described it still sounds like an immature relationship to me and I know you probably hate hearing that. You are very ar…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/19 01:24 AM
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People will notice that and probably nothing else will happen. All in all it is just makeup, I don’t think there would be any consequences to looking worse or dramatically different for one day.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 04:48 PM
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To be honest I don’t see it as a problem. If your makeup is done well, meticulous and doesn’t look “ghetto” with horribly glued spider eyelashes etc. you are good. I don’t think it is lying or cheating. Everyone can see you are wearing makeup. I don’t think everything has to be natural. Natural isn’t always the most aesthetic and not everyone looks attractive naturally. I think it is the skills you have with applying your makeup that are important. I go for natural look because it is quick to do…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 09:08 AM
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I think it can be hard to accept, especially for those that are confused, indecisive or brought up (brainwashed) in environments who tell them otherwise entire life. It also depends on personality too. For example as a child I was always incredibly impatient when it comes to growing up. I just wanted to be an adult so bad because I knew exactly what I have always wanted but I couldn’t make any choices for myself due to law. I am 21, married, buying house this year and planning to have babies soo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 05:44 PM
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I have tried to talk with some of the women that are close to me about how I perceive role of women and marriage but most of them get extremely defensive and give me examples of toxic men they have encountered. For now I decided not to engage myself in these discussions anymore because my point of view is not valid since I am not accomplished in any field and as they say “am slave to patriarchy and don’t know it”.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 05:00 PM
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I love the atmosphere on this thread. There is so many amazing insights and tips here from many different people. I appreciate men coming here and giving their point of view, especially that they are usually very respectful and really look towards discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 04:57 PM
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Definitely agree. People do not like to hear it though because it hurts and shows how you need to get your priorities straight and take responsibility if you want good family life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 04:54 PM
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Yes, that makes total sense. That small portion of men isn’t very visible on threads I follow, so it was easy to fall under impression all Red Pill men avoid relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 04:11 PM
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Thanks for explaining what hypergamy means in more detail and on different spectrums. I was introduced to that term not so long ago. After you explained it to me, I do agree that probably the best bet for men is to find a woman who realizes and is aware of those aspects. Hopefully more women can be introduced to that idea, but it isn’t an easy task :/
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:50 PM
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My husband is not Red Pilled, he shares some political and economic views with conservatives, but he isn’t on board with all the postulates and does agree with certain opinions on the left as well. I guess if I had to put him somewhere on political spectrum it would be centre with conservative economic views. His mom has always been a housewife and never worked her entire life. They were never well-off; his father owns a dry-cleaning place. My parents in law are still together. My husband really…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:18 PM
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I don’t mind the fact that there are men who believe relationship is not for them and they prefer to lead a lifestyle they see fit. I also don’t have a problem with criticising females and pointing out their toxic behaviours. I have only been exposed to MGTOW through Reddit and You Tube. What I personally dislike about the group is that instead of focusing on striving to better themselves, working for their goals and educating themselves they seem to be stuck in one point, which is constant deba…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 11:59 AM
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I am not sure if I understand the concept of these truths. If men believe the best thing for them is to stay away from marriage and only engage in casual sex with multiple women and women believe the best thing for them is marriage and kids and strong family, how are those possible to co-operate or same?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 09:25 AM
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If Red Pill men (many times MGTOW) are against marriages and have negative views on most of women, isn’t this against what Red Pill women want? Why is there such a dissonance between groups that should share same values?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 09:15 AM
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I do not think it is a red flag. It isn’t such a big deal, you just need to communicate better with each other. He said he will try to be better next time so see if he repeats same mistake. It sounds like this can be worked out between you two over time.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 09:09 AM
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Online :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 09:59 AM
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Looks like you have a serious problem, so you also need to be very serious about this. First of all, address it with him. Tell him what you have done and what you saw and have a discussion with him. Obtaining a debt behind your back was the first red flag. When a trust is broken like this, you can’t be “nice” anymore and you need to demand for the cards and accounts to be fully transparent and accessible by both of you and monitored weekly. It is unacceptable what he has done and since it is you…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 03:24 PM
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Didn’t know that. Maybe because we read this book in primary school here and teachers only taught us the one interpretation which is “friendship”. Not sure why... never dove too deep into it myself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 04:41 PM
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I really dislike The Little Prince but that is an interesting interpretation. Always looked at that part only in terms of friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 04:21 PM
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I will just say: Tell him. Just do it. That is what I always do whenever I find something bothering me. I just tell them straight up what I think and I ask them what they think. It happened to me once with one of my friends. Conversations with him were very casual and funny but they lacked the depth and I was constantly finding myself talking about some profound ideas and him responding with - mhmmmm. So I asked him why doesn’t he elaborate more and why he can’t produce a sort of “speech” about …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/19 10:27 PM
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I am a very very picky person and it has always been a challenge for me to find things that I would find beautiful. If I do not like the look of something, I simply do not buy it or wear it, so it was quite obvious to me ring has to be something I find good looking. I knew exactly what kind of style I wanted, what kind of stone I wanted and what size and material I wanted. I sent my husband an email first describing EVERYTHING to smallest details, links, photos and descriptions but still felt it…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/19 10:16 PM
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Yeah I think it is all about the way you offer to pay. If it is gentle and friendly and he says yes, I don’t see a problem (although I am more traditional and it feels like a weird dynamic for me but everyone should do what they want). However if the man said that he would like to pay and girl keeps insisting to do it herself, it could come off pushy and feminist. I think men like to feel as if they can provide or take care of you and find it charming if they can help. Thing with most men though…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 03:41 PM
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Right, I would think that offering to pay whole bill would make a person think you are a feminist. I refused a man to help me with luggage (he looked a bit sketchy) and I was immediately labeled as a feminist. I think it is okay to let him pay for first date if he offers. Plus not everyone has that much money to order something crazy expensive just to make a joke no one would even get and seems quite weird.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 02:07 PM
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I just started reading “Fascinating Womanhood” and in the first chapter author expressed how important it is to realize your faults and apologize for the mistreating of previous years. Of course actions are more important than words but I think being transparent and telling him about it might actually help him understand you better and cheer you on the journey to be more independent from your mom.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 08:23 AM
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I think all of this is true when it comes to your specific circle and beliefs. I just think what you say is related mostly to your experience and circles of people you engage with. I don’t think it would be helpful for most women, so statement like: Men care about PHD - is not true, because most men don’t. Your husband did, you married him, but he is quite an exception. If you made a statement as: Men in High Society care about PHD, then it would be true and I wouldn’t wrote a comment that I dis…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 04:59 PM
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I think it can vary based on personal experience. My husband works in the department where all men are graduates of Ivy League schools. We have been invited to couple of dinners and dates with few of them and wives that I met stay at home, they don’t have a career or degree. That is why I have made a statement like that. I talk from my first hand experience and from observing my surroundings. Maybe in your life, the men you have met stated they do care about higher education or accomplishments, …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 04:52 PM
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Yes, I think that families like those do exist. However majority of women don’t necessarily desire to be in such families and with such men, so getting a PHD isn’t a helpful, universal advice. I am sure that there are women, who see such families or environments as highly desirable, so then advice to get a PHD or higher education would be helpful to them. Most men do not care about the degree. Men in your circles might - but what percentage do they represent in the scale of all male population? …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 04:17 PM
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Well... I wouldn’t necessarily agree since my husband is quite an accomplished man, working on Artificial Intelligence and making more than enough money to support entire family on his own income. He has lived his entire life in big cities downtown. Yet he married me. Girl who lived in mountains (without electricity sometimes), from poor family, without higher education nor status. I think men do not care about your education, money or status as long as they feel you are compatible with them and…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:44 PM
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What I would suggest is to: Have a “calm” month. You could delete the social media apps from your phone for a week or more to get away from all the buzz, negativity and news. Focus on YOURSELF. Ask yourself what could you be doing better to be a healthier human. Are you eating well? Do you have any bad habits? Do you exercise? Do you dress well? Find your weaknesses of character that don’t relate to love life and pay them extra attention. Focus on your own development. Read books, bake, cook, se…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 03:16 PM
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I agree with you. I have lived with my husband before marriage. We have been dating for 3.5 years online before the move and we could never experience spending time and getting to know each other in real life because we were on different continents. I decided that marrying a person that I have never spent time with for long time in real life, just to be able to live with each other would be irresponsible and unwise. I didn’t start living with him to keep my options open before marriage or to dec…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 02:21 PM
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I have moved to London about one and a half year ago. I do not have a lot of friends - but that is only because I am personally very introvert and I don’t need many interactions with people. London is extremely easy place to make friends to be honest. It is so vibrant and full of entertainment facilities, bars, pubs, museums, malls... you can meet people everywhere. There are special sites devoted to making friends here too! It might not be the easiest to find RP people here but I am sure they a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:09 AM
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Personally I would want to get married as soon as possible. There is really no reason to wait. You need to think about different scenarios and at the moment you and the baby are very vulnerable and aren’t financially “insured”. Other than that, don’t you have any hobbies or passions? Since your boyfriend works from home he needs to focus and distracting him could have a bad effect on his productivity. I would advise you to find yourself activities that will keep you busy for the time when your b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 11:00 PM
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I am from Poland, born and raised there but currently living in London. Indeed European culture differs a lot from American one - it is easily noticeable in this forum as I experience cultural differences in each topic - we definitely put more effort when it comes to clothing. In most cases walking out in sweatpants or going out in beach flip flops is considered rather out of place. In general at schools we are expected (you will be punished if you don’t) to come in “formal clothing” like white …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 09:15 AM
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I wore skirts, dresses and heeled shoes to school and I didn’t stick out. From what I can remember I got many compliments on how girly I looked and I never felt alienated because of my clothes. I think most of your advices might work for you but I don’t really see them as Red Pill. I am 21 (married) so it isn’t as if I am middle aged woman unable to relate to younger girls. Going to parties might let you meet men with connections that can provide for you temporarily but they will not be interest…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 12:07 AM
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For me physical appearance isn’t that important. The most important thing that I look at first is intelligence and “depth”. If I can’t have philosophical, political or “scientific” talks with him it is a lost cause. Second of all is his ambition and ability to provide for a family. If he works hard and is good with money (meaning he can invest and isn’t a spender) that is a huge huge plus. The two above factors are the most important for me and I will not be with a person who doesn’t have both o…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/19 03:12 PM
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I have just recently turned 21, I am married, have office job and no children. I am almost convinced I will drop my “career” in one year and become a housewife. A lot of women consider this option when kids are on the horizon. I do not plan to get pregnant in next two years but I still want to stay at home. As a person who has always been on top of the class and very invested into education and traveling I had millions of doubts when I discovered that somewhere inside me, grows the desire to be …
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 12:40 PM
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Well I do not consider myself a perfectionist at all. For example if I know my partner gets stressed and angry in situations when we have little time or are late, I would try to avoid such situations instead of trying to fix his reaction or emotions when they already happen. Planning everything and being organized isn’t perfectionism to me. I think it would be if I expected everything to be exactly how I wanted or cared about every single detail. Perfectionists can’t stand something not going ho…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 11:50 AM
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I personally think that all of this could be avoided by better preparation. Sure, everybody makes mistakes but I feel the problems you experienced were due to too little scheduling. When I go anywhere I do not only organize transport and hotel. I plan each day and I check good restaurants beforehand. I make a list of all restaurants to eat and have the way from hotel already sorted out. I use google street view to see the distances and how the places look. After I have all restaurants figured ou…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 12:46 PM
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Well you are 26. Did you think when would you like to have children? If it is somewhen close in time maybe it wouldn’t be the best idea to get more education (it sounds like you already have some to work in your field). If you are planing to have children before 30 I would think to just start working now and build some experience and then have children and stay home with possibility of some part time job if you want to. If you plan to have children later then I think you can finish your studying…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 10:51 AM
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I am 21, I did get quite a nice ring (proposed on our Bali trip) (chose myself - since it will last forever and I am supposed to wear it everyday, so I wanted something I really love - my taste is unfortunately (for me) expensive) but we didn’t have a “normal” wedding. We just went to the court house. I did not have any dress and he did not have any suit. We just signed papers and went for a bowl of ramen afterwards. Didn’t spend on any nice gifts or anything luxurious either. We just bought a d…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 11:56 PM
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I met my husband on the internet. For me access to it was like a blessing. Having growing up in extremely remote area I was only exposed to very limited number of men - which most of them I knew since I was 5 and all felt like brothers to me. If it weren’t for social media I wouldn’t be able to learn foreign languages fluently and meet my soul mate. For us having internet connection was absolutely crucial, since we had long distance relationship (two different continents) and could only communic…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 12:39 PM
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I agree the relationship sounds quite childish. Especially text messages.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 05:49 PM
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Just going to say that I met my husband when I was 16 and it was my first relationship so it isn’t like teenage love never lasts or is unimportant and should be dumped.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 04:59 PM
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It is quite a difficult question but I don’t think nun mode is the answer. You are 34, so we need to be blunt and honest here - you do not have a lot of time. Now, no panicking! It isn’t end of the world and certainly you don’t have to give up anything. But since you have limited amount of time I would still try to find people to date. I understand that to be able to make someone happy, you need to work on yourself first. But quite frankly when I met my husband I wasn’t the best version of mysel…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 10:21 PM
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I briefly watched couple of his videos. I do not think he is my type of entertainer or political commenter simply because he seems slightly immature in his monologues. I wouldn’t negate his statements but the way he conveys thoughts could be less mocking and more intellectual. I think you can easily debunk or criticize some of the left-wing concepts with logic, eloquence and sense of calm in voice. I think I am not biggest fun of answering questions in this “laughing”, “slightly mocking” kind of…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 10:12 PM
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I also get such a feeling from what you have described. I think he must have felt uncomfortable as well. I guess I would talk to her about it but I never had any issues with my girl friends and I have absolutely no experience in handling talks
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 09:55 PM
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I agree ... I guess it is not what I meant since I don’t think being a virgin is a negative state. I guess I just wanted to compare him to a stereotype of such person. Anyways will keep that in mind and use better wording next time
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 09:53 PM
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That was really inappropriate! No wonder you have felt embarrassment. Are your friends always behaving in such way when you are alone or was this something you have encountered for the first time in their presence ?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 06:35 PM
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Yup, I wrote some of his rules, since I think they are good for people that have no idea about finances. For people with bigger incomes or more knowledge I wouldn’t necessarily recommend them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 06:25 PM
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I will make a small assumption here and call you an extrovert. As an introvert my mind is buzzing non stop, there isn’t a minute that I wouldn’t spend on talking to myself, thinking and procrastinating - that is why I love silence and being alone, because extra noise is simply an overload and it is necessary for me to limit my surroundings for relaxation. Now for extroverts it is quite the opposite. They do not have such a non-stop buzz inside their brains and they need outer incentives. When th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 08:49 PM
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Me and my husband have been in long distance relationship for 3.5 years. (Now 5, with additional 1.5 living together) We lived on different continents (12 h flights away) and could only see each other once a year. ( so we saw each other 3 times before living together, with longest break of 1.5 year). The way we maintained our relationship was talking everyday with each other. Skype was our way to go. We just turned it on (with camera on) and left it there in our rooms open 24 hours and lived our…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 09:22 PM
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Being born and living in Europe, living in an independent country that isn’t in middle of war, having easy access to fresh water, education and food. Having husband, family and friends to talk to. Being financially well not to worry about tomorrow. Being born in a family that always respected me as an individual and let me make choices for myself before becoming and adult. Growing up in small rural area, surrounded only by mountains, rivers and trees. Being close to forest animals. Traveling to …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 09:10 PM
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Personally what I do is that I take my income (with husband, but works for single person as well) and then I subtract: - rent - utilities - subscriptions - transportation costs (not including travel for leisure) After that I am left with a number. I figured out what is minimal amount I need for food per person (not including restaurants!) and I subtract that as well. Now I take my final number and I put 80% of it into investments. NOW THAT IS IMPORTANT - saving is not accumulating money to spend…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 07:42 PM
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Hello there, First of all, do not dwell too much on the past and your sexual experiences. We are all humans and we all make mistakes. What sets us apart is whether we learn from them. Sometimes we make decisions that seem right, but when we change our worldview we start to blame ourselves for the 'sins' of the past. Memories are very valuable. You should never forget the past, you should use your past to never make same mistakes and walk out as a new, better version of you. Think of an old you a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 11:09 AM
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I do not want to sound prude, but I believe some of your actions were quite misleading. If you are interested in having a serious relationship, you do not kiss and have oral sex with a man only after a few dates. I think moving so quick onto the physical, romantic activities makes a man believe that you are definitely interested in having normal sex with him and he will be expecting that. You saying you aren't ready for it must have been very confusing, considering the singes you were giving. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 10:33 AM
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When it comes to birthdays and celebrations, different people have different approach to it. Me and my husband don't usually celebrate birthdays, valentines or other holidays and we do not give each other any gifts. Personally I approach my birthday as any other day, however I do like to improve it a little - for example I will buy myself a favorite dish at a restaurant (or expensive wine), spend entire day with my husband watching some movies or playing games. For his birthdays I usually just c…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 10:06 AM
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I think I wrote my post not precisely enough and because of that people interpreted it more as - I am exhausted and want to stay home. It was my mistake because when I wrote the post it wasn’t meant for red pill women, so I felt the need to put all of those details because I knew that a lot of people on the left political spectrum would accuse me of being lazy - since I mentioned a housewife, which is not favorable choice for a woman in these circles. Here I wouldn’t really need to explain mysel…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 09:45 PM
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Thank you. I realized recently that reddit is mostly American - I don’t think anything negative about it, however it can make some discussions complicated due to different laws and culture. I know - but only from what I have seen on internet and from people (you can debunk that) - that teenagers are a bit less independent there. Many people live with parents. People around 15 are considered minors and children. You can’t drink alcohol until you are 21. Well in general the social norms, law and e…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 09:38 PM
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Quite honestly he sounds very immature and insecure for a 30 year old man. Him constantly bringing his Ivy League (regardless if it is true or false), speaking about money and career is a big indication he might not be mentally at a right place. I would even risk an opinion that you should be slightly offended at his remarks. All in all it sounds like he approaches you as a person to be easily convinced with money and a degree - he probably assumes you are shallow enough to fall for it. Him sayi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 04:56 PM
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I am pretty aware that Jordan Peterson is not a conservative. He mentioned it many times in his lectures. I think people label him as right wing because he criticizes feminist, identity politics types and is against communism. I don’t know if I would always categorize myself as a right wing yet. In terms of traditional values, patriotism and family - definitely yes. However since I am not as educated in economics yet - I do not know if my beliefs align. For now I do know I like the free market, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 04:20 PM
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Well the school option and not working is not something I would want to do. Certificate I am trying to obtain is more of a self-study thing. I do not attend any class or course. I purchase books and learn it. I started it only because these skills are needed on my position and it was requested by my boss. I have never chose it by myself. My boss helps me tremendously when it comes to my learning. He helps me schedule the learning and checks my exercises. He also explain to me all the concepts an…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 03:58 PM
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Hi there, I haven't really questioned their honesty but I will have a look at book you mentioned. Why do you think what they say is dishonest? Do you mean commercial side of it or their beliefs ?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 03:52 PM
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Well that is what I do. I work and do chores. I was more concerned if it is a good idea to study thing you aren’t interested in and forcing yourself to obtain a degree for a sake of having it, rather than being interested. You made me so hungry with that kielbasa mention. I am about to go to sleep and I want to eat all of those things.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 12:25 AM
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I have a halo 0.70 karat diamond (and little diamonds around the band) ring in yellow gold and I love it. I wear it every single day and just take it off at home when I do chores. You don't need to get a diamond but what I would make sure is that you pick something durable since you will be wearing it till the rest of your life!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 11:13 PM
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You asked what should we be doing in general. If you mean a daily life, I think you should first focus on "cleaning your room". Try to establish a healthy routine which will balance good(healthy) food, exercise, studying, leisure, sleep and duties. Work on that balance first and make sure you establish healthy habits and give up devastating ones. Spending less time on internet can ease your mind as well. Focus on building your values. What is the meaning of being? what is your purpose? What peop…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 10:57 PM
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Thanks! That is my main concern. Fact that I really do not enjoy what I do. Concept is not difficult to grasp but definitely doesn't spark any interest of mine. I just truly feel I am forcing this skill on myself right now. My boss is flexible but he advised me to finish it for more stability. I am just wondering if it is worth to pursue something you do not like and put your time and effort to get a paper you do not want to obtain just for feeling of security. Your comment did open my eyes a li…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 10:48 PM
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Thank you. I do think about life insurance etc. We do have quite big savings so in terms of finance I do not have to worry. I just worry more about what is worth choosing at that point.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 10:45 PM
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We used to do 50/50 before. However few months ago he started a project. He comes back from work and works on his idea till 1 am. He is super passionate about that extra work and always dreamed about having his own business, so I decided voluntarily to take all housework on myself. I didn't really complain about that - I just used it as an argument, that I would have more time for these things. We only have a mini fridge. Very common in Europe in rental flats in centre. I dont have enough space …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 10:44 PM
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Thank you. The thing I am doing is a certificate - so usually it takes about 1.5 year to finish but I definitely take everything into account. You are very right about not glamorising anything. I think I wrote it in a negative tone because it feels very lonely to even consider staying at home. Most of the females around me do not understand such lifestyle and it is frustrating to always go against the current. I am definitely aware it is all hard work.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 09:14 PM
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Hi there, on weekdays - I do not get any time for myself - unless I strain my sleeping schedule to watch couple of videos online. Today I finished the chores earlier - my husband has a meeting so I am waiting with dinner and browse web. Usually I get more free time on weekends. I live abroad - I visit my family once or twice a year. I do not have friends here in real life. I do have some online. There is a family chat room I made where everyone talks on weekly basis. I am a very introverted pers…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:58 PM
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Thank you for your valuable input here. It is nice to hear different perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:22 PM
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Hi there. I do not have a big house. I live in a small apartment in a city centre. I never stated I can not keep it clean. It just takes a lot of my time. Let me tell you my schedule so maybe you can advise me how to improve? I get up at 7am. I prepare breakfast and eat it with my husband. He leaves at 8. I take shower, dress, brush hair and do makeup (I have a dress code at work). I leave at 9am. I come back home at 7pm. I cook a meal - takes me about 40 min usually and eat it with my husband -…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:21 PM
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Thank you for your polite advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:14 PM
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Thank you very much for reply.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:13 PM
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Thank you, I will definitely think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:13 PM
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Thank you for your opinion. I will definitely take this message into account.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:07 PM
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Thank you for your input.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:07 PM
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Thank you all for your concerns, I believe these comments come from a good place - however I think that labelling my husband as a predator and accusing him of 'grooming' me basing only on his age is quite inappropriate and rude. I would expect a bit more from mature women. First of all, my husband has never groomed me to become a housewife. When I was 16 years old, I believed that my future will be graduating a university and climbing a corporate ladder. He supported this idea and has never even…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:02 PM
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