mellowdirt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
134	Boyfriend of 5 years told me he cheated on me		mellowdirt	/r/askFDS	31/12/20 04:06 PM
1	Boyfriend of 5 years told me he cheated on me	DISCUSSION	mellowdirt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 01:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Vibrator recommendations? The Bender from Unbound Babes is super good, and paired with their Puff toy (suction)......chefs kiss.	/r/askFDS	15/03/21 01:37 AM
7	Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex? I also love sour beer :)	/r/askFDS	12/03/21 12:00 AM
13	Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex? Yeah I can definitely see why that term wasn’t really my best option and I appreciate you explaining everything. I was hesitant about commenting at all, and probably won’t comment again in the future lol, but I wanted to voice how I felt because it did help me. Thanks again	/r/askFDS	12/03/21 12:00 AM
-4	Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex? I do understand that. for me, who literally just came out of a relationship like this, it was very freeing to express how I felt before breaking up with him. That is what I mean by communicating how she feels about it, obviously this person is unlikely to ever change, but I still personally value communicating how I am feeling even if I don’t expect change because it gives me closure on the issue. My problem with this group is that i said she should express her feelings to him and that is consid…	/r/askFDS	11/03/21 11:53 PM
-13	Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex? Listen, I obviously don’t belong here because I don’t think that leaving is the immediate answer for every problem that is brought up here. But when did talking to your partner about a problem you are having become looked down upon? I agree that she should leave based on his behavior but it is healthy to talk to your partner because it helps you address situations in the future with new partners. I’m not at all trying to defend him or say that talking to him will change his behavior, but she ask…	/r/askFDS	11/03/21 11:35 PM
-31	Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex? I would personally try to talk to him first about it and make sure he is clear on how it makes you feel. He should not apologize for not making you cum. He should make you cum. If he gets defensive/won’t talk to you about it, then leave, it is not worth you putting in effort and not getting anything out of it. I was just with a guy who sounds exactly like your bf (we were together 5 years)—sex was great and fun and focused on both of us and within the last 2 years he seemed to lose interest and …	/r/askFDS	11/03/21 07:21 PM