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You aren't alpha and you never were the alpha male position in her head. You need to realize how arrogant you sound right now. Also, stop calling girls fat and ugly. You want a girl? Be friends with all of her friends, not just the hot ones.
/r/seduction21/04/14 06:08 PM
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I don't prove you wrong. You are supposed to prove yourself right.
/r/MGTOW20/01/14 03:03 AM
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I'm not against nofap. I did it for a couple months. Two big advantages for me. One is that I had to keep busy all the time, otherwise I'd have time to fap. Two is that I wasn't sexually satisfied by fap so I was more inclined to pursue women. I definitely do not think that you're absorbing unused semen.
/r/MGTOW20/01/14 02:28 AM
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I'm just glad, at 30, I don't feel the same way about sex as I did when I was 16.
/r/MGTOW20/01/14 12:40 AM
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A Haiku for you How much do you squat? Let's put it in perspective Like pounds on a bar
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:00 PM
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Yeah, I get it. I got it after like the millionth time someone said to me what you are, again, saying to me. I'm just gonna delete the post and hopefully I'll stop getting redoranges about it.
/r/seduction05/02/12 08:15 PM
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Why do you need to be cocky/funny? Why can't you just be genuine and throw in some banter?
/r/seduction05/02/12 05:35 PM
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Either take her to a more quiet area, or just don't meet people in clubs. This is why I don't meet people in clubs and I've had the same conversation with basically all my friends. If the venue is too loud to have a conversation then I'm not even going to try to have a conversation.
/r/seduction05/02/12 05:32 PM
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I don't fully get it. I never have, and I know I never will. It's a process and there is no absolute goal, as the book Models points out. I'm not sure what exactly I'm supposed to say here, in response to you, but my goals are completely different than yours. Yes, I guess it would be awesome to be Rico Suavé and approach any and all women, have no self-doubt in social situations, and be every woman's dream man, but I guess I just don't have the motivation to go through the process to get there. …
/r/seduction05/02/12 03:39 PM
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I just looked at your recent post history and now I think what you're saying is highly implausible. Did you blatantly lie about all those hookups you're talking about? What do you think is highly implausible? And no, I didn't lie. Several of those hookups were ugly/desperate chicks, not all of them, but some of them, so it didn't require all that much game, but I'm not sure why you think I'm lying. if you took the time to read my post I did read your post... I feel like I'm just sitting here try…
/r/seduction05/02/12 03:21 PM
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you clearly have it all figured out I wish! I don't have much figured out at all. I've just read a lot of stuff around here. We're not really getting anywhere, though. We're all here to help each other, and clearly people found something useful about your post or there wouldn't be a 2:1 ratio of up:down votes. I was simply expressing my opinion and obviously more people disagreed with me than agreed with me. Hence my post having 0 points.
/r/seduction05/02/12 02:42 PM
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We are on the same side! Awesome. Next time I'll try to be more clear. My mom gives me shit about being vague sometimes.
/r/seduction05/02/12 01:41 PM
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then you should post it by yourself and quit bitching. I disagree. That would just be self-aggrandizing and that is not the point of a community. Please don't go out of your way to belittle me. It is true that this particular self.post by klsalow420 did not contain any original material or ideas. It was simply a regurgitation of about 50% of the self.posts in seddit.
/r/seduction05/02/12 01:20 PM
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Wait, where did I disagree with sex coming before the relationship? I would never date a woman I hadn't already had sex with and certainly wouldn't have an exclusive relationship before sex. That's what the naive and inexperienced do. I'm talking about instead of sex on the first night, we are having sex 2-3 weeks later (although this current one we lasted 9 days). I date a woman for 3 months or so before getting into a monogamous relationship and have sex 2-3 weeks after meeting her (If I like …
/r/seduction05/02/12 01:15 PM
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This is how I always do it. If i see potential for an LTR then we hold out on sex for as long as we can while getting to know one another. Eventually the pressure becomes too great and then the sex is explosive and emotions run wild. It is incredibly enjoyable yet rare. I've had this with four women in my 28 years and I've been with a total of 27.
/r/seduction04/02/12 08:29 PM
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Certain Dri. You think you sweat a lot? You don't have shit on my friend. He would be drenched just from eating a meal. He started using Certain Dri for a few years and now he barely sweats even after he stopped using it. Drogean knows what's up.
/r/seduction04/02/12 04:46 PM
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the only good one is whipped to his girl Argh this irritates me so bad! My friends who have girlfriends will totally approach with me, and their girlfriends are down to wing with me no hesitation.
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:24 PM
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It wasn't untill I got on my train that realized she might have been into me Outcome independent. Fuck yeah. Success!
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:53 PM
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Wayne Elise aka Juggler is the only PUA that I follow :) http://www.wayneelise.com http://www.charismaarts.com
/r/seduction01/02/12 01:09 PM
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Fuck yeah. Overcoming adversity. That's what life's about, man, good times, noodle salad.
/r/seduction31/01/12 08:14 PM
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Your perspective, again, is fascinating to me. You virtually have your pick, and yet you can't find someone, and I had a small handful to pick from, and I had no problem finding a woman who thoroughly appreciates me and that happened on several occasions. I don't think the demise of those past relationships were due entirely to incompatibility, as I had powerful feelings for them from start to finish, but rather on our inabilities to handle said relationship in its progressive form. I'm really i…
/r/seduction31/01/12 07:48 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I feel like we're on opposite ends of the spectrum. It is a new area of learning for me: Keeping a high value woman in an exclusive relationship. This is where I've always succeeded. I don't know why, but when a woman likes me, she fucking loves me, and wants to be with me. I've had several long term relationships lasting 1-2.5 years with quality women. And if there's one thing I've learned it's that this rather have somebody perfect, who was zero effort Is a myth. There is…
/r/seduction31/01/12 06:56 PM
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Appreciate your candidness with this post. I never suspected such extreme indifference when it came to attraction to women, I love beautiful women, and I know when one shows me a mutual attraction it has always intensified the that mutual attraction, but I truly never suspected that one could literally become indifferent to it. I have contemplated what you are talking about, though, and I think it is one thing that has sort of kept me disinterested in passionately pursuing the cold approach game…
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:57 PM
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I imagine Harold doing it on White Castle with the hot chick. The first time they are in the elevator, not the end.
/r/seduction31/01/12 12:23 AM
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Well, if it works out then she'll eventually get over the secret part.
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:48 PM
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Calzones are pointless. They are just pizza that is harder to eat. No one likes them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDPEaJxoE9E edit: Haha uptight people defending their calzones with their mighty downvote. It's a joke you babies.
/r/seduction30/01/12 05:03 PM
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Secret relationships suck. I like to show off my women.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:06 PM
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You were trying to achieve a goal, instead of just having a good time. Why don't you follow up with conversation? That seems to be where you need practice, not necessarily with approaching. Also, try to avoid rehearsed one liners unless you got that shit down. Reading this it seemed very forced. Good job getting out there, though.
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:38 PM
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Let's literally rock the boat.
/r/seduction29/01/12 03:10 PM
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Dude, billiards, so unbelievably appealing to women, especially if you play with them for fun and teach them shit.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:28 PM
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Friend's sisters? Cousins?
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:23 PM
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You say you approach, and it sounds like you've got the quantity, so why are you picking such low quality men? Are you holding yourself back and only approaching the most approachable? Or are you using what you've learned here to pick out the quality men and approaching them? My guess is that while you don't have trouble talking to random guys, you do have trouble talking to ones who intimidate you. Try getting out of your comfort zone and approaching the unapproachable.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:18 PM
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If you want to know what a white girl would say to you, as an Asian, then approach her and find out.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:07 PM
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How do you know make-out-chick gave you a fake number? I guess I should ask why you are texting/calling a girl right after getting her number.
/r/seduction29/01/12 01:58 PM
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Been dating this girl for a couple weeks now and things are going great. I asked her about her ex, trying to gauge whether or not I want to advance this relationship. She said "it's funny you're asking me about this, most guys have no interest in this conversation" I said "why? they seem uncomfortable about it?" she said "yes." I kinda laughed and said how there's really nothing to be uncomfortable about, we all have exes. Things basically escalated from that point and I haven't had a date that …
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:40 PM
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Not at all, she is just trying to manipulate you. This should be an instant alarm in your head, and should disqualify her absolutely.
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:26 PM
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"But... we are just friends. I've felt the same way about you."
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:18 PM
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It's because they don't want to be a guy's mother. That's what a lot of nice guys are looking for: a mother-type figure. Would you want to replace a woman's daddy?
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:17 PM
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On r/okcupid people are constantly calling people r/seduction assholes, and douchebags, if they try to give advice. It's really dumb, because the people who say it don't know shit about what we are doing here.
/r/seduction27/01/12 01:30 AM
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Like how they might call an AFC that is interested in them "creepy". Isn't that a bad thing? I'm think I missed your point there. When they say "why are you so cocky?" are they saying it with disgust or are they saying it playfully? If they say it with disgust then my guess would be that your "confidence" is a facade, not genuine.
/r/seduction26/01/12 08:45 PM
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atx
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:38 AM
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Let's wing
/r/seduction25/01/12 02:51 AM
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I also get physical and I show my sexual desire up front, I just supplement that with good conversation. I don't just want a one night stand. I like to have a connection with women that goes deeper than just physical intimacy. I enjoying lying in bed for hours talking, not just having sex.
/r/seduction24/01/12 09:28 PM
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Wayne Elise is the only guy I listen to now. He focuses on conversational ability. He talks about how to move the conversation both laterally and vertically. How and when to make statements as opposed to questions. How to make your statements interesting and/or funny, as well as making them personal and engaging. http://www.charismaarts.com
/r/seduction24/01/12 07:45 PM
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It's all in your head. I know this, because I have psoriasis on my face, around my nose and my forehead, and I'm constantly putting ointment on it, and even at its best it is still pink, but sometimes it turns red, almost like a splotchy sunburn. Makes me so god damn self conscious. My psoriasis is probably the worst it has been in a while thanks to the cold weather and lack of sunshine on my face. However, I'm upfront about it, I don't have any qualms about telling women, and I think it says so…
/r/seduction23/01/12 04:59 PM
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I would have gotten to add a notch to my belt Everything about this story is awesome, so props for getting out there. However I do have a problem with that line. Sex is fucking great, don't get me wrong, but "adding a notch" is shallow, and distracting. You should, like cavitycreep says, be outcome independent. This means that you are in the moment, not trying to accomplish anything. These approaches should be purely about enjoying yourself right then and there during the interactions, nothing m…
/r/seduction23/01/12 01:47 PM
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Good riddance.
/r/seduction22/01/12 08:55 PM
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In an interview in the March 2008 newsletter to the Grant Study subjects, Vaillant was asked, “What have you learned from the Grant Study men?” Vaillant’s response: “That the only thing that really matters in life are your relationships to other people.”
/r/seduction20/01/12 07:42 PM
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Of course not. That's disgusting
/r/seduction20/01/12 12:06 AM
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I don't even know what that is, tough guy.
/r/seduction19/01/12 10:05 PM
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She could easily be a victoria's secret model Faillllllll. You did her a favor by practically disqualifying yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:22 PM
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Women absolutely go crazy for the vulnerability of a confident man. If you express your weakness/vulnerability with confidence in the form of a relevant statement it will break down her guard and she will open right up. Even better if you do it with a little humor or opinion. Just don't sound pathetic when you do it; I mean don't start crying about how your dog died last year.
/r/seduction19/01/12 07:42 PM
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There is a ton of great advice on Charisma Arts. I read it regularly.
/r/seduction19/01/12 05:06 PM
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You are moving horizontally in the conversation, which confines you to topical discussions, and you will find women losing interest much more easily. Try going deeper, reveal something personal, or vulnerable, about yourself that is relevant to the topic. Here's a couple relevant articles. http://charismaarts.com/from-small-talk-to-big-talk http://charismaarts.com/what-makes-a-good-conversational-statement-part-1
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:49 PM
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The art is not in "not giving a fuck" it's putting things into perspective. What you have going on in your life is more important than the success or failure of your interaction with women. You will always have the things you love that make you happy regardless of if that woman found you appealing, so when it's over, and you've been shamed, or embarrassed, or shot down, will it really matter? Nope. That's "not giving a fuck."
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:37 PM
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Agreed. Interviewing is like what you say 'im getting to know this person ' and it'll make it less fun. Spontaneity is where it's at.
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:13 PM
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The two responses I typically see are either "say something that makes the woman feel less important" or "say something that feeds my ego and is arrogant". I would never say or do either of those things and it doesn't seem that you would either, but I'm not sure how not doing that would hurt your game.
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:02 PM
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This is exactly how I feel. Sex is not the goal, connection is. Also, I sure as hell am not looking for a girlfriend. Hell, I don't even want to date, I just want to spend time with some chicks, make out with them and maybe have a few fall in love. I wanna have several long-term friendships with that little sexual spark that has potential for more than just a make out that will develop naturally over time.
/r/seduction17/01/12 03:01 PM
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This has nothing to do with asserting your will over another person. Unless you are naturally a dickhead, most women are going to see right through your fabricated persona, which means you have to be GENUINELY INTERESTED. You have to be the guy, not just play the part, it's a lifestyle, and it emcompasses who you are when you are talking to women, but even moreso it is about who you are when you are not with women. Do you have friends? Hobbies? Are you healthY? Do you groom yourself and practice…
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:00 PM
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Sometimes i just gotta go for the neck first!
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:00 AM
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Laugh it off and continue to enjoy yourself as you were. As far when and if you should try again? that's just something you gotta learn to read, but i feel like you should be touching a chick at least around her neck and shoulders or lower back before you're kissing. I've been denied kissing a chick maybe two times and one was just wrong place and time, but still got that make out later on.
/r/seduction15/01/12 08:34 PM
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The fact that you are thinking so hard about this and that you said "seems like real girlfriend potential" scream oneitis. Chill out, slow down, and ask her out for some pool, darts, miniature golf (bring drinks if you can, there's a place like that in Austin), just something more engaging than only drinks, and something more personal than your common room.
/r/seduction15/01/12 06:21 PM
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I feel like you're too focused on how people are responding to you instead of focusing on how you feel while you are interacting. Stop dwelling on what these people are thinking and saying about you. You should feel happy and enjoy yourself, and if you are not then look at yourself and figure out why.
/r/seduction15/01/12 05:45 PM
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Wait, at first you say they are hurt by guys who are jerks and then you conclude by implying that PUAs are "con artists." If you are conning females into enjoying your company then you are doing it for the wrong reasons (read: narcissism, the desire for admiration from others), which makes you a jerk. You should be doing it to enjoy yourself and to share that enjoyment with others, which doesn't require any conniving, because that would be disingenuous.
/r/seduction14/01/12 07:04 PM
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