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If you are depressed it means that 90% of your being is rotten, you should dump all your expectations about life and surrender by living to serve others. Only after gaining new perspectives you can become a creator out of sane fundations. But you won't be gaining new perspectives if you keep your old rotten being that is depressed about anything, the more you dump the better.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:14 PM
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To enpower the mind even more is madness, everytime that you are forcing yourself to do something in a self-depreciating way you generate stress, suffering and poison yourself. You won't make your decision making better that way, only weaker, you won't get more adaptable but more rigid. For instance I am taking cold showers for 8 months now, until few weeks ago I was always forcing myself to do it, trying to "train my resolve", and I can tell you that the stress before the shower and "suffering"…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:45 PM
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I can feel your anger. It gives you focus, makes you stronger.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 12:27 PM
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This woman, your mother, was cunning enough to analyse how her own attraction works, she understood that she was completly disgusted by servile males that would do everything for her and actually took action by adjusting your education accordingly. All of this coming from some chinese shithole, this shows that humans can be really ressourceful sometimes. She didn't pressure you enough for you to understand her wisdom before 20 but at least it finally hit you now. Given that you don't choke like …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 12:34 PM
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This judicial system is absolutely sick.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 12:19 PM
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even less than a toaster then, got it.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:44 PM
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This is why the assertive style in this sub is sometimes annoying. Being assertive in life is good even when your point of view is wrong or discutable, but in this sub the goal is to tend toward the truth and people coming in here with their own limited experience and claim it is the best way of living with this assertive tone is quite annoying. But even in here it works, look at the upvotes, he probably wouldn't have that if he added some nuance in the post.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:47 PM
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Well, she's gonna crash onto that wall pretty hard.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 09:45 AM
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what happens once you stop getting steroid, do you get even worse as you were before ?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:12 PM
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ADD is a hell of an afflication I might have it as well and it's basically like being handicapped, being a dwarf or being a mongoloid, what do you do if you're born with a faulty mind to begin with ? Have you tried meditation, it helps with ADD, a good session of 1 hour meditation helps you to focus for the rest of the day, the difficulty is to do it every day even when you feel like it's getting less effective.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:10 PM
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The comments in this article are hilarous, an army of triggered post walls.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 09:36 AM
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This is a fine FR, why do whiners always cry at classic FRs, would you rather they weren't posted here ? If they weren't there wouldn't be much left.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 08:52 AM
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What would you have him do instead ? The right thing to do simply was to silently hard next her. Let's say they came together with his car, when they go back to his car and she tries to jump in he just says "What are you doing ? Get out of my car" as the last words he would ever address to her again.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:11 PM
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That's the same concept as awalt, at first you're enclined to believe not but confronted with the reality and statistics you have no choice but to admit the rule. It has to do with the fact that one can't reorganize his entire brain, psychic structure and brain chemistry. Those are the things that determine drive. You can't do anything to change your drive. Unless you're like Bobby Joe and get insane sexual drive after brain damage. You might be able to change people before 10 with a correctly d…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 12:12 PM
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Whether or not we are remembered in the future is irrelevant. I remember Einstein, I remember Mohammad Ali, what good does it do them ? I remember about that guy that got rejected at the Starbuck, why the fuck would he give a shit that I remember him ? Stop pushing away the explanation of why your mind should be IDGAF. The immediat and sole explanation is that what other people think of you is inconsequential, whether or not you will be remembered, whether we are talking of few or few thousands …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:12 PM
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You are hamstering this problem. First you say that you won't be remembered in two generation and just after you say the exact opposite by stating we all have a legacy. In fact you willing to leave a legacy and fight for values you deem worth is your drive. Drive is a mysterious thing that transcend us and makes us value and do things. Is your willingness to leave a legacy coherent with your realization that none of us will be remembered after two generation ? No it's not but that's fine. All th…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 02:41 PM
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She's looking to fuck, not to fuck around.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 08:57 AM
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Going by scripts is perfect to improve. As you said this kid is young. If he appeared so energetic it's because he trained that basic opener with all his clients, you're just the first one that pushed the interaction to another direction. He wasn't expecting it and choked like a dog which is fine. He may not be the perfect salesman yet but he's willing to improve and will work by scripts (assumed he does) until his automatic brain can take over. Honestely how can one improve in his interactions …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:03 PM
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Just for the record, Christine Lagarde was a french minister during the rule of their previous president Nicolas Sarkozy. She has a judicial affair where she is accused of getting the governement to hand 300M euros as compensation to a friend of theirs. During the investigations the police found a letter of allegiance to Sarkozy : This letter translates as the following : Dear Nicolas, very briefly and respectfully, 1) I am at your side to serve you and serve your plans for France. 2) I have don…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 03:42 PM
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I've learned about meditation few weeks ago, I did 20min of meditation for few days in a row, it's mildly useful. I also did 1 hour straight once and I found it quite strong, afterwards the mind is a lot quieter and I was able to focus for quite some time. I'll definitely work on establishing a routine to meditate for 1 hour everyday, it's the thing that I think might help me the most for my immediate goals. I have some kind of drive otherwise I wouldn't seek to improve myself, but it's an "idea…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 08:24 AM
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Such people always existed, but in the old time they would be alcoholic and/or homeless (or living in their familial house) rather than playing video games. It has to do with a lack of drive. Unfortunately there is not much you can do to acquire drive. I am one of those, I've ordered some acid to see if I can do something about it but I'm not expecting much unfortunately. Drive is subconscious determination that directs your intentionality. I guess you can interact with it consciously through me…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 10:33 PM
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At first it seemed positive as he became more assertive and more fit through healthier hobbies like running and kickboxing, Yeah see this is the scariest part. And this is the most upvoted answer to your quote. They find it the "scariest" when you finally start living your life. In his stead I'd be so sad if I lost such a beautiful friendship with such a nice girl that clearly have my best interest in mind. Fuck TRP. With the right approach it's clear that she would be more than willing to be fu…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:19 PM
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There is something sexual in the way she treated this kid, she's a pedophile. Spitting in his mouth ? Abusing him like that ? Telling him how hot his friends are ? She's getting sexual satisfaction from being able to act so unhibited to an underaged individual of opposed sex without anyone to hold her accountable. I would say that the father is equally disgusting as she is, this cuck probably faps to her treating him and his offspring that way.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:39 PM
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36.2 percent of men and 38.7 percent of women in the 18-34 age bracket said they were virgins I get it for men, but women ? Apparently their alpha population doesn't have a high enough turnover rate to first blood that mass.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:04 PM
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You know the rule in here. She admited that she hosted 22 cocks of different shape and color, so you can multiply this number by 2 or 3 and you'll have an estimate closer to reality.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:56 PM
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Pure gold answer from a presumably still married woman that seems to have been in the same situation as the wife of this "man" : Should I go ahead and just pay off the student loan as well? If you can, yes. Should we just cancel the remaining credit card, or should I leave it open and just not use it ever again for the sake of her credit health? (If this even makes sense.) As a woman, this horrifies me. Essentially, you would remove the possibility of building a solid credit history for her and …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 03:32 PM
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This demonstrates how maintaining frame can convince people to side with you even when you act like a smartass as long as the moral analysis of the situation is not clear-cut. This guy was probably out doing a video and the situation escalated when the out of shape bystander didn't appreciate his attitude which consisted in walking into a stranger's face and to tell him some sexual remark. Instead of aknowledging the fact that the bystander took him for smartass trying to test him and walking aw…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:10 PM
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You're calling him a retard but you failed to provide any backup to your claim that keto diets keep you from building muscle because "your body will convert excess protein to carbs and/or you might get gout"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:10 AM
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Have my upvote, too much broscience in this thread hurts my head.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:06 AM
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It doesn't have to be filled with sugar, flour is basically sugar with some proteins, so all the bread can't help but to be filled with sugar whether you're in the US or no.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 09:54 AM
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WORKING OUT DOES NOT TRIM DOWN YOUR GUT. If you don't build your abs you may never reach a BF percentage that's low enough so that you can see them. And if you do you're so skinny that's it's barely preferable to being fat. all the vegetables you want Sorry to disapoint you but most vegetables are filled with sugar so if you stuff yourself with vegetables it is not that good at all if you believe in the benefits of keto diets. For keto diets you should not eat more than 25g of sugar a day, 100ml…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 09:50 AM
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If you think that not having accepted the child was your main mistake (how is that even a mistake ?) then you have a very long way to go if you decide to take the red pill. I have the feeling that the things she told to her friend at the end of your post don't even move you that much. You definitely should get your testosterone level checked and give the concept "self-respect" some thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:29 PM
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nice broscience, tell us some more please I'm interested in your theories. nutritionist loses 27 pounds eating oreos
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:58 PM
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How is this upvoted ? This post looks like an uneasy beta trying to shame people who want to improve themselves by doing cold approach. Cringy ? Creepy ? Why do you care, it is well known in here that an unskilled PUA will be called that way and that presently successful PUA were being called that way at some point, by the girls and uneasy betas witnessing the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 05:00 AM
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Glad to hear you had good time yesterday that was a great story thanks for sharing. Unfortunately to be able to enjoy such social events you have to be able to bond with people, ability that the sickest of us don't possess my friend.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 08:57 PM
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Why would she disrespect you so hard if you were such an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 06:53 AM
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What are you gonna do if one refuses to shut the fuck up about his abusive relationship ?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 06:48 AM
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In regard to blocking negative self-dialogues a very effective is to shock yourself with an electric collar every time such thoughts emerge. I implemented that and stopped the decade of self loathing almost instantly. Not that it automatically turns you into an alpha but it's an absolutely necessary step.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 11:02 AM
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Why did she marry him in the first place, it's not like she couldn't find someone better.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 01:36 PM
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Your life seems fine to me. You basically have to stop thinking of you in negative terms, never allow thoughts like "I'm boring", "I'm uninteresting", "I have a shitty life", "I'm worthless" to emerge. Buy an electric collar for dogs and shock yourself everytime a negative self judging thought comes out, it will quickly recondition your brain to stop that. Also shock yourself when depressing feelings start to emerges. Basically you're not allowed to judge yourself negatively and have depressing …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:33 PM
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It is well known in here that creepers are in fact unskilled PUAs and that unless a PUA was a natural alpha since a young age he started as creeper. If someone calls you creepy you got to step up your game that's all.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:12 PM
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I love these kinds of posts, I'm doing most of this, namely diet, no fap, cold showers, gym, I've lost 20+pounds in 2 month and yet I'm still feeling pretty much the same. Not feeling much more confident, not feeling much more powerful, not feeling much more productive, not feeling much more sociable. I had moments of euphoria after implementing successfully those routines but it is just illusion and it quickly worns out and then you're still the same person. These monk mode routines just give y…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 11:58 AM
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The asktrp analysis was once more on point.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 08:07 AM
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Any reference to find this episode ?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 01:53 PM
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You are very far from it. You losing weight gets you from the negatives to zero. Most of the work, building the muscles, is ahead of you. Reading books is just asking for direction. You know where to go, now the real hard work of practicing comes. I'm in the same boat. I don't know if I'll succeed before I die but I'll keep going in that direction until then. Who cares if I die.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:36 PM
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What if beard is garbage : sparse and blind spot
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:02 PM
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Problem is that you can't really monitor it week after week, the impedance scale are too imprecise, I weight myself multiple times a day and my BF can go from 16 to 18. Depending on whether you ate, shat, your hydratation level, it can vary a lot.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 07:34 PM
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I don't understand this whole "don't waste your time and energy trying to get revenge and focus instead on improving your life". Sounds like strawman. It doesn't look like it requires too much energy to get revenge in this case. Even if he had to invest one or two weeks full time in harming her life it would then be life long lasting satisfaction and then he can move on. People are saying "Does it make you money ?" "Does it get you laid ?", OP answers "No but it brings me satisfaction". You can'…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:34 AM
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Why do you draw an equivalence between not getting married and not getting kids ?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:02 PM
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suggest kinkier (not illegal) Love how he feels the need to tell the audience that he would never consider to suggest illegal kinks. Such a righteous man.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:51 AM
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I wanted to say the same thing but then I deleted my comment here's why : The two quotes he made are highly upvoted posts +12, +41 Then answer to the +41 : Slapping someone once in a moment of anger is a bit different than responding to an apology by making someone bleed. +29 Would you expect those upvotes if the roles were reversed ?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 08:55 AM
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these posts are hurting this sub's frame
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 07:24 PM
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One of the main point of life is to have kids, it's the main drive of evolution. I don't understand how one can claim to be alpha if he's ok with not having kids. Someone without kids is wasted and him having a great life otherwise is irrelevant. To OP : have kids with a submissive LTR, why do you need marriage.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:47 PM
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What's your view on the whole meditation trend ?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 07:31 PM
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And while he's wasting himself at work she's cucking him like no tomorrow. Why would she care, if he files for divorce she's gonna get half his hard earned assets anyway. And thanks to the years of cucking her betabux are already lined up so he can have a cardiac arrest whenever, it's no big deal. It's in her best interest not only to ignore this letter but also to punish him for his audacity by shit testing thoroughly, removing the pussy (probably already long time gone) and stop the cleaning/c…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 05:20 AM
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Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love you! And that's the top comment, the take away message that general wisdom was able to draw after watching that section.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:05 PM
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Why bother with red pill when you can just be a great husband like depicted in this article.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:57 PM
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That whole notion of easy and hard is skewed. It's hard when you have to do an effort toward a given direction. Some people are natural extravert and are used to talking in groups since they are kids, it's not hard for them, it's who they are. It's hard for the shy beta that has to learn and implement a new way of being. OP's post is directed to those jesters that talk a lot, make a lot of jokes but that always end up being orbiters with dry dicks. They have to make that hard effort of reflectin…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 12:35 PM
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troll post
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:28 AM
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Too bad you didn't let her die in peace.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:46 AM
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This is such a nonsensical post. What's your point exactly ? That since 30+ men were natural beta in their youth and couldn't get laid they shouldn't chase younger girls and have the time of their lives now that they can ? What do you recommend them to do instead exactly. Basically you are as salty for them having young pussies now as they were when you had the pussies then.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:53 PM
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Go check if your spine is straight.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:23 PM
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"I know you don't want to honey, but you eventually will become one, like it or not." He probably fapped to that.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 06:21 PM
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that he's going to have to listen to her scream through his walls as I fuck her Careful that he doesn't kill you and her while you're doing it, I would.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 03:09 PM
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Being alpha isn't about enjoying hurting others or aiming for the common good, it's about being powerful and feeling great. A psychopathic dark triader can be as alpha as a great philanthropist.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:55 AM
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TRP tries to make it easier for new beta discovering the theory to set their mind on a path of improvement. So TRP says those general guidelines like avoid the friendzone, ignore an ex that hurt you in the past rather than trying to get vengeance, don't get married, AWALT etc. But really someone who's socially fluent, knows what he's doing and has the confidence can live the life he sees fit. A guy who's already completely happy with his life doesn't need TRP. Usually betas aren't completely hap…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:56 AM
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This is fap material lol. I've been talking to a girl through phone and text for few month trying to get her friendship and ultimately turn her into my girlfriend, I drove 200miles to go and meet her and had a friendly meeting with her. Then I went home and resumed the texting except I tried to escalate calling her names like "my angel" and stuff. She rejected the escalation of course disliking how I was using the word "my" and that's when I snapped and explained to her that she found me disgust…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:29 PM
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Macro nutrient partitioning is what I would call a diet, a low carb keto diet has a different partitioning compared to a high carb keto for instance. Anyway thanks for the advice I'll try that.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 06:49 AM
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Thanks for the tips. The muscle up consists in pulling your body above a bar.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:02 PM
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There is that study where the guy lose weight in 30days and get better blood results by eating oreos mainly. So the diet doesn't matter when it comes to lose weight. However the question here is how to lose fat while gaining muscle. Are you saying that the diet type is irrelevant in that regard ? My guess would be that the body can't produce proteins from sugar or lipids and definitely not the essential ones. So a diet based on high protein intake and decent cholesterol for the testosterone woul…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:50 PM
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I started already I've been going to the gym for 6 month now 2 or 3 times a weeks with some exceptions. But I worked only on the upper body, I finally got pectorals but still can't muscle up (which was my goal since start and I still can't do it, can barely do it if I jump). My body fat is still high etc. Now I discovered TRP a week ago and I'm wondering what to do better. I need numerical objectives I think.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 09:08 PM
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Thanks for the hooks. Btw when I said 5 days a week full body I didn't mean 5 days with full body training every session but rather full body results when you look back at the of the program.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:29 PM
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That's what I thought about doing, the keto diet. Is there a reason why you preferred to lose weight before starting to build muscle, is there a known problem in building muscle while losing fat ?
/r/askTRP17/06/16 01:56 PM
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In a week from now you should ask for her phone. Depending on her clairvoyance she won't have her message with other guys deleted and you will be able to check that up. If she refuse to hand you the phone then you can rent that fat.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:29 PM
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Does TRP have a list of compounds to test for strong mental and physical abilities ? Testosterone, vitamine D, what else ?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 05:44 AM
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Did you find it ?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:55 PM
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Namely ?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:25 PM
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Very nice insight. From this answer I understood something that I wasn't able to verbalize before : RP philosophy consists in avoiding creating opportunities for an argument to arise. Never say something that the woman can get a grip on either for her to start an argument or for herself to get a better understanding of the relationship or your thinking. The RPer doesn't seek to overpower which is sometimes impossible to do depending on the woman, but rather to deflect and lead astray. However ne…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:00 PM
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Check out their sub they explain everything. Personally I'm not faping since 2weeks but I can't tell I've improved by any metric so far. If I get laid one day I'll will be able to say that nofap and trp helped me but otherwise I won't be able to tell much.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:52 PM
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This is a terrific answer. Could you explain your framework when it comes to assess how much negative re-enforcement is enough ? I think I've done just that with a girl I train on. In this case my guess is that OP knew that she knew she had done something wrong so it was enough. But what if she doesn't make the connection ? Is it fine to tell her in plain words ? What if she doesn't change her behavior after the negative feedback ?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:18 PM
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This has a lot to do with productivity basically. If you are very efficient you can work a bit less, game a bit less and put some sex in the mix. But if you are like me and need to think a lot before doing anything then you end up wasting your life doing nothing. But that's fine, we're all human and all men shall die in the universal indifference. So at the end of time, will it really matter whether you had a fullfiling life or were a waste ? Will it even matter for you when you're dying ?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:27 PM
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Don't be scared to fight him off verbally because you're scared that the others will side with him. Fight for yourself, even if you're scared of giving a weak answer. The other people will respect you for you defending yourself rather than take the hit freely. This is how you improve. See this a training ground for your future self. He internalized your superiority and wants to fight for the alpha role by putting you down so fight back.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 10:52 AM
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Haha good one Roger Elliot. No but seriously I have to rewire my brain to become sexually powerful but I don't know how. Would be nice if some sex beast could give me some insight on that.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:21 PM
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