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Inner Game member1465/r/seduction30/08/21 09:38 PM
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Inner Game member1465/r/seduction22/08/21 04:37 PM
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What people really are attracted to in a general sense, are others who are interesting, which you get. Why are people interesting though, because someone else found what they do, be it their job, studies, hobbies, lifestyle, ect. interesting, and you know others may find those same aspects uninteresting and that's ok. So with that being said, I dont think your problem is that you arent interesting per se, but that you're not interested. Think about that hobby or thing you've always wanted to do …
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:10 AM
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Like I said in another comment, I never developed as a person (depression, isolation etc)
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:05 AM
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Its not really a thing where I live
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:23 AM
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21 No social contacts from HS No social contacts from uni (and none possible due to the type of school I go to)
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:14 PM
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Well, at least one of the group doesn't hate me and consider me an enemy. I don't know why you're even in this subreddit. To argue? You clearly don't want to help young men and have negative views about them.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:32 PM
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I don't feel like I can gain social circle or just new social contacts from going to bars, clubs or events alone. Everyone in said places already knows each other. They came with their friends. To make a friend, you need accidental repeated contact. You can't make a friend in 30 minutes, even if you're friendly and socially skilled (which many of us aren't, if we were we probably wouldn't need to do cold approach to make friends)
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:31 PM
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And? It's all I need to know you're either trying to argue in a toxic way or just simply delusional
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:16 PM
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So this is what "anti redpillers" tell young men, either accept anything that's given to you like a dog or don't and stay miserable Then you have redpillers saying to take control, value yourself and go after what you want & achieve your dream life And you still have to ask why young men get drawn to redpill?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:15 PM
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So men wanting anything other than any bottom of a barrel quality relationship is problematic alright God forbid men had standards
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:07 PM
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He amount of fallacies in that comment is staggering
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:05 PM
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I don't know what I can do about it. I don't see any way to chance it
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:04 PM
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Not being able to get into a relationship does make you a failure
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:03 PM
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How does red pill make women victims? Victims of awkward conversations with men trying to approach maybe
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 07:02 PM
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More resources on this?
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:12 PM
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It's not so simple, you can't change from a depressed loser into an extrovert just like that. Like most other incels I literally developed into who I am today, when you and other people were gaining crucial experiences that literally form your personality, I was gaining nothing, so that was what my personality and identity was formed from, nothing.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:06 PM
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There is literally nothing to love about me.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:59 PM
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But these statements are really true for a lot of men
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:57 PM
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So instead of "chad" you want to say "a good looking tall man" every time?
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:55 PM
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They have a good reason since lefort 3 is the single most invasive maxilofocal surgery and unless the person has a severe deformity that's threatening his life no-one would preform it. The facts op got refused for lefort 3 speaks nothing about his looks or bdd
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:54 PM
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The point is being "ugly" isn't a deal breaker. There is nothing other than looks that can give me an edge over other men Everything I can do, other men can do and even better. Only way a woman likes me over other men is my looks - which are bad so it's not going to happen anyway If you've read models its a polarizer. That's quite a strong cope You're using that stat as an excuse to feel sorry for yourself. The majority of men don't really try. If I could change these things I would. But saving …
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:19 PM
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Bro some people are just uglier than others. Beauty is mostly objective, the subjective parts are just the little things. There are soo many handsome men walking around, compared to them I'm nothing I can't change the belief or "reframe" or whatever, because it's objectively true. Id literally be deluding myself if I thought I'm good looking. I'm just not.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:48 PM
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"Ugly" guys get laid alot at art schools dude. Well I'm not in art school, high school or any place where getting laid is easy I think you've been mistreated and you think its because your ugly when I guarantee you aren't. Vast majority of men is unattractive to women, and I'm certainly not the the top 20% Not facially, not by height be more compassionate with yourself. Doesn't even mean anything
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:17 PM
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Therapist to tell me that "everyone is beautiful"? I'm pretty sure that I'm right when it comes to looks & that's the worst thing That's basically the reason why I keep starting these retarded debates, because I hope someone will say something that disproves what I say & makes sense, but they never do.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:08 AM
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Not exactly. In other to improve your face with surgery you must first understand what looks good and what doesn't. Specifically. So you do gain a much deeper understanding. Or do you want to say that you know just as much about facial attractivnes as some plastic surgeon?
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:34 AM
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You've never meet an ugly artist that gets laid? No Being "ugly" doesn't make you less than human Well that's what women (and other men too) seem to.think You'd be surprised how good you can do when you're a warm and open person. How can I be "warm and open" when women treat me with hostility?
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:15 AM
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But you do get a deeper understanding of facial aesthetics
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:56 PM
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Looks are very objective, trust me mate I've spend thousand of hours in plastic surgery forums
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:27 PM
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Tf do reaction videos have to do with this? Would women care what aesthetics a 5'6 ugly Asian likes? No, he's trash to them, they don't care whether he lives or dies, and not about his "aesthetic style" Women first have to consider you human, then consider you an equal to even get to "aesthetics"
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:15 PM
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Aesthetics is nothing but a way to emphasize your facial attractivness. Without it, your "aesthetics" mean nothing, because no-one even cares about what "moves you"
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:09 PM
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How many girls you been with? None. Shit looks > no tension > no gf When I interact with women there just isn't any connection because she views me as worthless. I can't act smooth or flirty because even me assuming that she could even be attracted to me would be the biggest joke she's ever heard. It would be literally ridiculous. Women view me as someone to pity at best. A special needs child. Me assuming attraction would create feelings of confusion, amusement, pity and disgust. She even might…
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:03 PM
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There is no such thing as "creating the tension" The tension either is there or isn't. You can only ruin tension - which is wheat you're confused. Thanks to your good looks the tension is there always, with most women - you're confusing "creating" with simply maintaining You can't convince someone to find you sexually attractive Jesus
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:09 AM
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Good looks give you much more than just "girls being more receptive to cold approach" Without good looks there is absolutely no sexual tension, it's a purely platonic interaction and once you signal interest it becomes "creepy"
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:50 PM
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They are fucking good looking chicks because they got lucky They are fucking good looking chick in highschool when said good looking chicks don't know they're good looking yet They are in relationships with them since HS They aren't pulling good looking girls in UNI or any time after highschool basically (or some other extremely niche situation) if you have a bad mindset like thinking you can never hook up with chicks cause of the way you look then you won’t hook up with anyone cause you’re inte…
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:41 PM
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It is what it is
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:36 PM
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For women height and facial attractiveness is 100 times more important than muscles
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:11 AM
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The men on here are alright No toxic behaviours from them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:59 AM
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I think women fundamentally don't have any respect or empathy for the men they aren't attracted to. They don't see them fully as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:58 AM
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To women everything is linked to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:57 AM
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But employers do have unreasonable standards and not empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:57 AM
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Women don't give sympathy or empathy even to the men t they're intimate with especially to the men they're not intimate with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:56 AM
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Because it's where people really their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:51 AM
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You can't solve a systemic issue with individual approach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:49 AM
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woman like a connection, a friend and some that makes us laugh. In the long run. You left out the part where said "friend" has to be 6'2 male model
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:44 AM
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I'm pretty sure I have eyes and know what I look like. And what other men look like. And also I'm very good at judging looks
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:43 AM
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Looks, height, physique, game If older, then career starts to be relevant too
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:42 AM
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They don't feel ugly they are ugly Ugly people exist you know right?
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:41 AM
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So women do have all the power Who cares that a small minority of men have it good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:40 AM
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Jesus Christ this bitches are seriously going to the police to file an assault charge for touching her arm? Just a guy trying to date Women really dont see ugly men as human...
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:05 PM
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Most men will never be in that position tho
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:00 PM
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They want to be approached by good looking men (models) Or they just want attention.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:59 PM
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Nah, even the guys you think ate "ugly" are like 4 or 5 out of 10 and fit Real subhumans (short Asian/indian, garbage face) arent picking up anyone
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:53 PM
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If you have to ask...
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:52 PM
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What was the deleted comment?
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:41 PM
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Bro the guy is clearly very good looking, the second he and the girl make eye contact the tension is there All the has to do is to escalate, and if the situation is right a hookup can happen that fast
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:39 PM
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Ok other words: have and attractive face and a deep voice
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:38 PM
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And be good looking
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:31 PM
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All tattoos are shit tho, the only ones that aren't are those that are "in" right now - but they will be shit on e the trend changes
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:28 PM
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I think you don't realize just how impossible it is to get into situations like that if you're not conventionally good looking
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:27 PM
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And? You think asking someone for a lighter = making all the steps necessary for a relationship or even a hookup? Even if the women approaches / signals interest strongly the man still has to take it from there and escalate. He has to proceed through all the steps.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:20 PM
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I just assume they're out of my league since they reason they do to the gym is to be able to fuck top tier looking men which I'm not.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:18 PM
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If men didn't do this, no relationship would happen Ever Men get rejected 90+% of time, so they have to find their 10% (% may vary based on looks)
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:05 PM
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Maybe she's looking at him because he looked at her first, and she's wondering what does this guy want Not every woman that makes eye contact is interested lmao
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:04 PM
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It's all up on torrents my dude
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:32 PM
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Lol @ all the other commenters saying they're IOIs If you look at people in the eyes, they're going to make & hold eye contact Crazy!
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:29 PM
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The thing were talking about here is average and below average men not being able to identify the signs because they never got any If you've never had any girl show you interest, you start to overthink normal interactions in desperation
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:25 PM
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men more usually process our feeling internally in solitude and by retreating away from people in order to be alone with our thoughts. What other choice do they have when everything you tell other people as a man is just ammunition for later
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:58 AM
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implying you can have a "deep and emotional" relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:55 AM
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