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https://www.girlsnightin.co/
/r/RedPillWives03/12/21 04:23 PM
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Now where can I find someone like OP’s bf 😂
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 04:41 AM
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How did you find this site? Such a gem!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 11:21 AM
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Haha I’m working on this for my guy
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/21 04:34 AM
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This is good
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/21 03:24 AM
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I relate sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:59 PM
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Can you define being "high maintenance" vs having healthy standards/ expectations?
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 06:50 PM
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<3
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 02:58 AM
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family background
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 12:55 PM
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Feeling messages work
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 08:59 AM
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im 4 yrs in haha
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 01:51 AM
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Interesting! How long were you dating officially before becoming exclusive, and finally getting married? :) Also, how do you tell if you guys want the same thing? Did you ask him straight up?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 03:19 AM
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True that =/
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:52 AM
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Wow! How did you meet him?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:51 AM
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Do you have any advice on how to navigate online dating? Haven't been having much success =/
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:48 AM
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Hahaha sweet story, i'm turning 29 this year. I've been noticing lots of ladies dating younger!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:44 AM
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This gives me hope, I'm turning 29 this year :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:40 AM
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Man... i dont know if i should make the first move =( ughhhhhh
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 05:21 AM
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Good story! How old are you guys btw?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 09:40 AM
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How did you make the first moves? I'm in a similar situation-the guy's been initiating for two months, but recently stopped. He's not overly masculine as well, and i'm not sure what to do in this state of limbo. Have you read The Rules? They advised against making initial contact in the beginning, so what should i do?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 04:00 PM
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Wow I love your story! I've been seeing this guy for 2 months, he has been mostly doing the initiating and asking me out/paying for dates... although we have been meeting mostly once a week (when he's in town). He hasn't outright stated he wanted anything exclusive, even if I brought it up indirectly the last time we met. He also clarified that he's still meeting other women, which is fine with me (for now). Most times, we keep things light and care-free, but I''m not sure if I've said some thin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 04:35 AM
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Out of curiosity, what kind of business are you doing?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 04:10 PM
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So true.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 03:35 AM
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Could you share a little about how your relationship developed?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 03:25 AM
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I feel you
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 08:19 AM
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Hi OP, your bf reminds me of my ex... also preferred me wearing dresses/skirts/more feminine, when I prefer comfort often. He definitely did not make me feel secure in the relationship... would be curious to know how you handle this
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 08:16 AM
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It happened to me lol and i totally agree about them only "liking the idea of you". Always a hard lesson
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/18 01:14 PM
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Isn't it crazy!?! And others try to make us feel guilty and think we're being "selfish" for doing so
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 05:44 PM
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Im 28 hahhahaah im not too worried yet. But check in 2 years time lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 05:20 PM
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If it makes you feel better, my last relationship was 3 years ago, and i haven't really been dating, except for a few months last year when i was on a dating app, then i stopped, and then got too comfortable with my singleness ever since lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 05:09 PM
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Ughhh thanks for the reminder!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:23 PM
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Any online stores you can recommend? Or bloggers/instagrammers with good style?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:05 PM
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Are you working full-time too?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 04:04 PM
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Intellectually it makes sense, but emotionally it gets exhausting =/
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:36 AM
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What about not wearing much makeup with zero cooking/ cleaning skills?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/18 09:16 AM
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curious to know how this works if anyone tried it :P
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 05:26 PM
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Have you watched an episode of 'my 600 lbs life' - that could help
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 05:43 PM
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Hi! Can you share a link to the self care thread?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 10:54 AM
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Was your husband financially/materially qualified at that time though?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 05:48 AM
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I have read your previous post as well, and wanted to share my thoughts. I was in a similar situation as you 6 years ago, my ex boyfriend was going to propose to me (my friends told me later he had bought a ring and told them his plans), but i actually didn't know when i broke up with him. Like you, i thought he was a good guy with all the qualities of a potential husband, but i've been reflecting on the reasons why it couldn't have worked out with him. It wasn't about him, it was me. Yes, partl…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 02:33 AM
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did you try looking at independent boutiques? lots of good options
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 02:20 PM
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I see... or perhaps you could share some of the tests you tried that work great?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 06:38 AM
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What are some "reasonable shit tests / comfort tests" you can recommend in the vetting stage?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 06:30 AM
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I'm in the same position as you, my last relationship was 2 years ago, and was slightly emotionally abusive. Just recently started online dating using Coffee Meets Bagel, you could try looking into it! I'm quite satisfied with my matches so far, also because they match you with people within your network (third degree connections).
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 06:05 AM
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Ouch.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 06:43 AM
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this is kinda funny actually haha
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:35 AM
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I'm 26, and on the same level of indecisiveness as you. Glad to know im not alone
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:34 AM
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All they have to do is be masculine, intelligent, and unafraid of truth. Yes, yes and yes
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:27 AM
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True. I once met a man who loved being a plumber, and for some weird reason, his passion attracted me, despite his job.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:25 AM
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Omg i want to meet her. I'm a total slob too haha
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:13 AM
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Damn that's good to know you don't actually need to date for a long time to know
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 05:01 AM
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Sorry, what is Smv & Rmv?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 07:31 PM
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