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The equivalent isn’t red pill. “Mentally ill relationship man” goes back and forth between treating you like garbage and telling you you don’t deserve better because he has such low self esteem he believes anyone that knows the real him will hate him as much as he hates himself so believes he has to trap you in low self worth for you to stay. Red pill isn’t mentally ill, it’s just scummy sales tactics used in relationships. Red pill men correctly deduce that relationships will always have a tran…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:57 PM
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The amount of women on Reddit with borderline is to damn high. Pro tip men: any woman you have ever known who’s ex’s are always 100% evil bastards but any one they date is a saint? There’s a diagnosis for that, get’m started on therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:11 AM
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You aren't a gender, you are an individual. You sound like the kind of person who hates men painting all women with the same brush, interesting you turn around and apply yourself to womanhood in the same way. I'm not going to look at your post history. If thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee. If you were universal to all women, there wouldn't be so many healthy happy women in stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:43 PM
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People are only wierded out by things they are uncomfortable with. Asking a woman about her weight isn't impolite because women have any problems with numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:56 PM
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huh? What did you ask for again?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:50 PM
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Leave. Please leave. Unless kids are a complicating factor (and even then it should be on the table and the goal) I hope you leave for the sake of the life you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:28 PM
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Don't let it get you down, based on sub overlap your average FDS poster is an over 30 woman who thinks she has PTSD from her breakups. You are watching a bunch of soon to be expired egg cartons screeching into the void as they genetically die for the poor relationship choices they made.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/21 04:45 PM
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"It's empirically demonstrated"... by the fine scientists at the huffingtonpost... wonder when they will get their Nobel. Lol. You can make the argument that the 6ft idea is mainstream and be right. You can make the argument that there is scientific evidence by linking it. Conflating the two is poor form though. I agree with you point, but the way you made it is ridiculous "TrUsT CnN oN wHaT sCiEnCe SaYs" level silly. Most actual scientists at any level will rarely make hard statements, it's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:47 PM
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Most promiscuous guy I know has serious BPD. Only an anecdote but does back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:02 PM
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But that is part of what he got at. The people best able to sustain a relationship are rarely on the market compared to the crazies who can't and always are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:46 PM
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only incels use roastie, no one else does. roastie refers to shape, not coloration. It refers to one that looks prolapsed. Still stupid, but not racially motivated. Coming up with a racial context is just an excuse to justify feelings of superiority over dissatisfied males but categorizing them as racists too. Banning was the response, considering using your own flavor of a banned insult is just justifying bad behavior with an irrelevant historic context. No one wants to see themselves as the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:44 PM
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He’s not really talking about perception though, just raw data. Not defending the idea of treating women as disposable rather then a partner, but the mindset is soundly based on personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:49 PM
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Trouble is, having no respect for others makes your inherently unworthy of respect. High value men don’t want anything to do with anyone who ever referred to men as “scrotes”, any more than a woman wants a man who refers to women as “gashes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:17 PM
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bible has a lot of real talk in it. There are some good reasons that shit spread so far so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:20 PM
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How is that being more like women? Men’s clubs, male only fitness and outdoors organizations, these things used to be the norm, and throughout history are the norm across dozens of cultures. Almost every thriving culture has had spaces where men go just to be men around other men, discuss male issues, and make friends away from women. Our society has lost something once nearly universal to the March of “the guys made something cool, now we want in too!” And the simps who back that thinking letti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:30 AM
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Good bot
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/21 02:18 AM
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Less good bot
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/21 02:18 AM
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To be fair, people think there should be more women in STEM, but you try succeeding in science after every man has done his best to convince you 4 inches is 6 inches and 5’8” is 6’0”.
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/21 02:15 AM
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Not true. The gap between right wing trad reproduction and left wing reproduction is stark. https://www.sfgate.com/opinion/article/Republicans-fertile-future-Through-the-past-2488626.php The kids you see everywhere have trump hats in their future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:35 PM
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Yes it does, if you look at people who transition medically, even not surgically, changing the testosterone estrogen balance makes a notable change in some one’s facial appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:12 AM
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finance and medicine both have a lot of female coworkers who are also working long hours for easy access. Engineers is a solid counter example, but the point stands that this is a study purely of those who cheat on Ashley Madison. I would hate to think all people who date are represented by the people who date on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:07 PM
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I think it's important to realize this study will have a heaping helping of Bias. Ashley Madison is an online cheating site, and so will be full of people looking to discreetly cheat but choose to do so online instead of real life. The top male and female professions both involve long hours, and hours in mostly same gendered spaces. Trades and IT are overwhelmingly male and often require long hours, Nursing and Teaching are overwhelmingly female and do as well. So it may be people in more mixed …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:43 PM
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Absolutely. History is a mixed bag, and we have to interpret most of it very vaguely because we only have so many accounts to work from. The story we hear today from activists tries to distill history down to a clear “the past was dark, but people like me have brought us forward into the light (so support me and give me money else you end up sliding back into darkness!)”. History is far more complicated than that. The rights of women have ebbed and flowed across different civilizations all acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:29 PM
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He's going to end up a mujahid level far right extremist. This is the modern recipe for an entire generation of killdozers, McVeighs and Kacynskis. I can honestly see the day where a whole slew of manifestos of domestic terrorist attacks are just the one sentence statement: "My mother had an only fans" and everyone responds "yah, that makes perfect sense. This is the rational conclusion".
/r/AntiFeminists23/07/21 02:19 PM
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It’s more complicated then that, but the perspective is forgivable since most people’s version of this history is literally feminist propaganda. In the code of Hammurabi, the oldest law we have, women had right of inheritance including money and movable goods. Her property on death was inherited by her children in absence of a husband. In medieval Europe primary inheritance was to the oldest male, but women had the same rights to property and inheritance as other male heirs. In absence of a male…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:34 PM
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You sound smarter than to let feminist history tell you women never had rights. Women have always had different rights then men, but rights. Your education deliberately skewed that. For instance, women also had rights to be provided children. In the medieval times one of the few valid reasons for a divorce was women could charge that her husband wasn’t fulfilling his husband duties. The case would be held by the husband having to perform with her in front of a bunch of old priests watching them …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:07 PM
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There is no ideal ratio of anything. Provide equal opportunity, let nature take its course, then scientifically measure why things end up as they do. Our greatest flaw is beginning with the assumption all people have the same desires and needs and that equal only happens when the target ratio has been achieved, when this sub should make it very obvious men and women often have different desires and needs and so that will be reflected in choosing different paths naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:02 PM
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The problem with this is a core element of male friendships is intentionally testing and play attacking each other's boundaries. A standard male "friend test" is to fire a light jab across the bow of the other guy, if he laughs and fires back, or leans into it with a self deprecating joke, it signals closeness. If he acts at all affronted, it signals "we aren't that close". Play fighting, in various ways, be it sports competition, game competition, insults, one ups, etc. are a central component …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:24 PM
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Outside of Reddit, many white men will express a lot of things you might not be used to. If he is a business owner, then he likely places a very high premium on his time. Unlike people who earn a salary, he has a direct relationship between the time he puts in and how much his business succeeds and he earns. He is currently choosing to share that time with you. A lot of white men are racially aware in that people in large homogeneous racial groups may act in a certain way, and change areas to a …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:47 PM
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That can’t be true because they define themselves as a Democratic People’s Republic. Kim Jun Un isn’t even the President so I don’t know why you would think he is a dictator. Everyone in the movement of North Korea would agree it’s about peace and democracy and you are just being a decadent westerner to judge them different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:19 PM
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Dude you shouldn’t have to deal with people like this, you should move some where more enlightened. Like the Democratic People’s Republic of North Korea! By definition that place is super democratic and progressive. You should totally go ask them if they will let you in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:12 PM
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We aren't really having a conversation right now, and engaging you generally isn't one. I meet people like you from time to time in real life, I consider you an inoculation so I can better manage them in person. Do this song and dance enough times online and you can easily avoid getting heated in real life. But you really don't get, or maybe you are a troll, that you choose a lens that is very off putting and would make any quality man bounce immediately. Assuming any man who disagrees with you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:38 PM
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and the same joke! Seriously, do you actually have a second? You only got one trick and are salty no one pays for it. No wonder you spend so much time on reddit, RL people give you a wide berth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:48 PM
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holy fuck, digging through the post history of some one who left you a one sentence reply. My sides. and following it up with low quality woman bingo shit (don't have a point? call him a small dicked incel!). If you are gonna stalk people on reddit at least do something with that info instead of the same sad insult every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:32 PM
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Your way of typing is obnoxious though. No one is forcing anything, I get you got your kinks but christ, a simple lack of understanding perspective isn't the same thing as trying to dominate your viewpoint. Maybe if you didn't have a chip on your shoulder so big the arm is hanging on by a thin piece of skin you wouldn't get in constant shit flinging fights on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:30 PM
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"no scrote gonna get this pussy!" "that's cause it takes a car jack to find it luv".
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/21 02:17 PM
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Instead of getting pissed just make the opposite satire sub and have fun, just nothing but dudes who look like the comic book guy talking about how all women should be subservient double G cup 6 foot tall Swedish blondes with insatiable sex drives (my wife refused sex the 5th time I asked today, and the 4th time she didn't even swallow. How thick a switch am I allowed to use?) who have to cook like Gordon Ramsey, keep house like Martha Stewart, and where a virgin when you met her.
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/21 03:31 PM
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Ohhh gotcha, you are here to troll. Alright, rock on. I prefer more on the nose subs for my trolling but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:52 PM
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totally makes sense, rock on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:50 PM
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gentleman move, although enough comments have been deleted in this exchange that replying to me might not be the best way for people to see it. Not a criticism though, appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:38 PM
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My stance is that both genders are better off learning to appreciate and care for each other over taking a strict adversarial stance. This isn't a damn war. Part if that is both men and women should be willing and able to point out the bad ones and either promote them changing their ways or exclude them, but good men and women should point out bad men and women, and both should always strive to be the best they can be for each other. But most of all men and women are happiest when they work toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:12 PM
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This is ultimately a forum about discussing relationships, and you are surprised people are trying to discuss the nature of modern day relationships and if they are needed or not? Why exactly are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:56 PM
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I'm not sure if you are actually responding to me or just parroting head butting slogans at this point. I have had plenty of positive relationships. You are personally weaker by yourself than part of a team. By choosing total autonomy, you are choosing to be less happy, more stressed, with more skill blind spots. The point isn't to be owed a relationship, the point is three steps: Become worthy of a relationship by cultivating actual personal value. Become skilled at recognizing when others have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:44 PM
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On one hand, I believe it’s hit or miss on the post removal choices. On the other, I recognize that attempting to moderate this place while still allowing the discussions it fosters is a bit like trying to prevent an active firestorm from becoming the Australian wildfires from that year. Not a particularly easy task.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:52 PM
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If you are taking on dudes by the handful at a time, then maybe you need to slow down before you become 90% STD by mass.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/21 02:39 PM
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curious because you allow some rants under the "discussion" tag but not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:34 PM
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Passed out. When my body needs sleep, it just takes it. I don't consider it needy or dependent to desire and pursue spending your life with a partner as a focus and goal, and the fact that you say that faded for you , without judgement or offense intended, I find sorrowful. Some women, and plenty of men, in the dating world I feel throw around "needy" and "clingy" at the absolute first sign of actually wanting any form of a commitment as a rebuff to keep people as "plates" or "orbiters", which I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:31 PM
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That’s fine. For me it’s more, doing things on my own is good and fun, I do it all the time, but sharing it with others is like the difference between watching something in black and white and in color. Sharing the joy of travel, adventure and excitement means you have some one who was there you can talk about it with after. No one wants to hear some one’s vacation stories lol, but talking about it with a partner is reliving it again, and I love seeing cool shit out exploring and going “look ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:34 AM
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You mentioned in your previous post women using drugs and alcohol to cope, generally such phrases are self referential. Most people talking about their world then talk about what they know and relate to in it. I consider freedom good, but over rated. I have never seen a sunset by myself that was anywhere near as sweet as when I had people I cared about to share it with. Those moments, sitting in a car while the rain patters off the roof, sitting in camp chairs around a the warmth of a crackling …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:21 AM
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I like to talk, and believe it or not, I have people who are entertained by my rants. Feel free to leave any time. Been gilded on here quite a bit for my rants. But out of curiosity what do you want from these spaces? What is your objective? Is being resentful improving you? Making you stronger? Making you happier? Is this site giving you reason to get up in the morning, or giving you reason to drink more? Editing in here as you add more to your reply. Why bother replying then if you tuned me ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:09 AM
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Hahaha I troll people all the time, but I’m being genuine. I honestly don’t hate you, every word I said is truth. Nor am I gonna say I’m the bigger person. Where I am bitter is against the world as it’s evolving. I see the pain, the rage, and the devolving of public good. Back when I saw my world as threatened, I got heavily into martial arts until I was doing a very heavy mma program and a bunch of Muy thai and Brazilian jiu jitsu. Then once again I could walk around smiling being a goof ball b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:03 AM
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Went out for a jog, cause it’s finally cool enough that it won’t kill me lol. I think your perspective of the past has been skewed, you are angry, and likely in pain. Do you know how the first governor of Brazil got the job? He was a nobleman, but his wife was miserable because she claimed he wasn’t fulfilling his husbandly duties. So she brought him to court with the church, and as was the tradition at the time, if your wife claimed you couldn’t fuck her properly, you would have to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 03:38 AM
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All the prevailing research says you are wrong. I have done very well with women, and I have met far more unhappy women then men. This is also something sociologists keep finding to be true. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_there_a_happiness_gender_gap While men wining on the Internet may make it look otherwise, the truth is men are winning big right now. The life satisfaction of women, measured by professionals, keeps plummeting. You can agree or not, but it’s sound research. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:39 AM
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I mean, yes, of course they have to be good! Both partners have to be good! Men and women have to be caring, loyal, protective, supportive, loving and responsible to each other. That’s a given! These are the ways men and women bring happiness to each other. The question I have to you is; between FDS and TRP ideology, how does either of those schools of thought at all help men and women vet each other for these essential traits? How does playing mind games with female interest or making men jump …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:06 AM
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https://ideapod.com/75-year-harvard-study-revealed-one-important-factor-human-happiness/ This has been repeated over and over again in psychology. Having a stable long term relationship is the number one factor in long term happiness. This is because a partner you can rely on is the best insurance to weather bad times, and makes good times feel even better. You can’t spend 12+ hours a day with your friends, but in a committed long term relationship with a partner you spend over 40 hours a week w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:53 AM
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Literally the point of joining with some one else is to make them your responsibility and you theirs. The Greeks had a myth, that once all humans were two headed, four legged, and four armed. Unstoppable, they nearly destroyed the gods, so the gods divided them in half into men and women. The only way to become that strong again is to find your other half and work as one. You can never be as strong all by yourself as you could be as part of a team, and if you never know that, you will never know…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:41 PM
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Anyone who play's the game discusses the meta. Some men care about these spaces because they worry "If more women fall into this trap, she dooms not only herself, but the man who could have been with her and they both could have been happy". No one wins when the game becomes rigged so that no one actually wants to make something work together, or so few people are left trying to play evenly and fairly that the majority never make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:04 PM
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Maximize long term profit. The problem with these strategies is that most of them actually don't whatsoever improve your long term well being. A relationship that's worked on gets better with age as both members can specialize in different duties in the house hold, become experts, and overall reduce the amount of effort to keep things going. The exact way that is divided doesn't matter as long as both parties find the division equitable. How outsiders view it also doesn't matter. I have found th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:59 PM
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The fact that you have already dropped your cards and shown, when convenient, you consider yourself to have no agency for responsibility, but all the choice, is why you are old and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:47 AM
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It is, as long as you are happy, that is what counts. I believe today’s society is too selfish. Evidence has pointed again and again that people with a great family life and relationship live longest and are happiest through life. The only way you get to be “the two old people who look just like each other” is growing into each other through hard effort. I think that effort is worth it and too frequently discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:37 AM
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I try to believe everyone deserves a conversation. If something as important as a relationship can be salvaged by a couple hours of hard talking, it’s absolutely worth that investment. Better to try, even if the chance of success is low, then get caught in the cycle of “new relationship! Yay! The new feeling fades! Flaws come out! I won’t help them work on them. They are getting tired of me too. Sex decreases. Things dying away. We break up… Yay! New relationship!” Until you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:21 AM
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Hahahahahaha you are so rich. Take responsibility men, meanwhile women shouldn’t have to. If you don’t want to carry a pregnancy to term, don’t get yourself pregnant. If you can’t trust some one to use birth control, don’t have sex. You take on the risk of pregnancy the moment you unzip your pants, no abortions for you. I hope all your pregnancies are pro choice, will help the next generation improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:02 AM
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True, but I think if we start from a position of being fair we all win. The end of the day trouble is anyone saying "no one should have any say on what their partner does" doesn't recognize that growing together with some one 100% requires making compromise and curtailing your behavior to work with your partner. If you aren't growing together, you are growing apart. Most of the "do whatever you want, trying to restrict me is abuse" crowd hasn't held down a relationship longer than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:43 PM
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I think you are being disingenuous. You likely understand the difference between just having social media accounts, and using them to either hunt for attention or hit on people. The idea is that you shouldn't do anything on social media that would be considered disrespectful in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:41 PM
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I think the reasonable interpretation is that, when in a LTR, it should be acceptable to expect a woman not to post revealing pictures in the hunt for attention, but similarly the man shouldn't be liking and commenting on other women's revealing posts or following influencers who mostly post that kind of content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:39 PM
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ok, so lets go back to the start, and recognize I am on the fence. Now going forward, I view every aspect of some one's autonomy as equal. If you disagree, great, but that's how I see it. I recognize a full pregnancy will deal cosmetic damage to a woman's body, and require a major long term investment, I also recognize that requiring a man to be responsible is also a major long term investment. As long as a man has a right to the "financial abortion" that the woman has no say over, I see nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:33 PM
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On the one hand, a dick probably is too. On the other, if that thing managed to get it's greasy blubber paws on your dick your life has already gone catastrophically wrong and it's probably for the best you retire the little dude anyways.
/r/AntiFeminists28/06/21 01:23 PM
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Are you saying that since men are partly responsible they get a voice too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:01 PM
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Not really, You just don’t believe in being responsible for anything you have a possible escape from. Is some one becoming obese owed weight loss surgery because they are fat and don’t want to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:56 AM
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Probably because you guys do the same thing. You tell a story and say “this is what always happens, believe me because this sympathetic story in my head makes the most sense”. I’m not pro life, but I’m on the fence about pro choice for many reasons. This sort of stuff won’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:43 AM
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The concept has been made illegal in our society. used to be plenty of organizations like the boy scouts, YMCA (young men's Christian association) existed that provided boys and young men spaces exclusively for themselves to interact, form bonds of brotherhood, and learn from other men what being a positive male and playing a positive role in other men's lives is all about. But the truth is, women ruined it. They forced any and all male only spaces to be "inclusive" which destroyed their ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:55 PM
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same could be said about men that haven't dicked you down, but seems this thread is full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:16 PM
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he means college graduates are a highly heterogenous pool and treating them as a complete cohort distorts the data. Using mean vs median 2 or 3 idiot 100+ n count gender studies majors can skew a dozen intelligent lower n count physics majors, and conversely because IQ also can easily be skewed by tail effects those physics majors can carry up the IQ of those gender studies majors. But both are very different pools.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:35 PM
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Hahaha I knew a couple size queens who would love you. Some women are definitely into that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:03 PM
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well at least you got that going for you, which is nice. Honestly a lot of women aren't any good at oral. Can't be mad at them for the effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:59 PM
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this whole idea, "women don't put in the effort". Maybe people on reddit are very much not representative. These threads are literally filled with men going "you girls aren't doing shit! We do all the work!" and a bunch of women literally replying "Why the fuck should we? Deal with it, we don't have to!". And yet, a blow job by definition is her doing all the work, and I have had far more blow jobs then times I have face fucked a girl. I don't know, it just seems like plenty of women want to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:51 PM
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Sometimes I read this shit and wonder if I'm the only guy on earth who has ever gotten a good blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:20 PM
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The grass is always greener on the other side. She lived a full, complete and engaged life. She is comfortable and safe, fulfilled and experienced. But every day she is exposed to a bombardment of media that tells you "A woman enjoys life best who has no obligations, is constantly having fun with her girls, and tastes all the fruits she possibly can. That woman, so care free and unrestrained, gets to truly embrace what life has to offer." Anyone who is going through the early or middle years of …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 01:40 PM
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If it helps, I can balance that with a short dude I know who got the shit beat out of him by his larger stronger girlfriend and absolutely nothing ever came of it. When he finally got away he had some serious PTSD issues for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:17 PM
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And I believe in paying for the others listed, but not the alcoholic. I also view your definition of "universal human rights" as a culturally couched artifact, and one neither universal or fully human. Many peoples and groups have very different definitions of rights, I listed and explained my own and the one from those in my community, and you barreled on with claiming the one from your culture is "the" correct version. Your imposition of a European stance on how people should live and what sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:44 PM
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Because I don't view the concept of rights remotely the way you do. Rights are things we may do without being opposed. The constitution lists our inalienable rights as "life, liberty and pursuit of happiness". You have a right to exist without some one trying to destroy you, a right to be free from undue hinderance in your business, and a right to do things that make you happy that don't impose upon the happiness of others. The core concept is that you should be free to try to make a good life f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:19 PM
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That’s not really a fair argument, because it assumes there is no middle ground. No one is suggesting that people should consider behaviors that you have a reasonable belief won’t lead to injury, such as eating at a restaurant, as “risky”. If we are going to be specific, off the top of my head are three big cases: Choosing to engage in full contact sports, gun sports, and other reckless physical pursuits that dramatically increase your chances of a long lasting physical injury. I’ll admit I fall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:56 AM
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What is his expectation for you to provide? A male colleague showed shock, do you know what his intentions are? "ohh really? Wow I wouldn't expect that. I totally would always pamper any woman I was with!" sounds a lot like something you say to a girl you want to keep your options open with.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 06:00 PM
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Cool, those are some fun questions. I think it still fully existed, just on a different frame. Most people were responsible on their own for all aspects of the maintenance and upkeep of their space. The result of this is that people who had “nicer places” and those who had “broken down, bad places” largely was due to their personal commitment to upkeep. The idea of the village looking down on the layabout or town drunk, and such a person only surviving on the scraps afforded them by extended fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:23 PM
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ok, if I may ask, what where you thinking of? Because the concept of a loser is as old as written word. Putting it into a capitalist framework seems misplaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:06 PM
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In my view it has to be within limits. I don't believe the taxpayer should be responsible for people making choices that blatantly incur healthcare costs that are completely avoidable. If you choose to engage in risky behavior, you should be required to carry the insurance to pay for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:41 PM
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I was more addressing the central reason for the topic, which is "no lists". I interpreted your comment about secrecy to be about the lists since that was previously the topic. I also interpretted him saying "without the mother's knowledge" as being more about "without the mother's consent", as the real sticking point is not the mother not being able to know, but the mother not being able to block the father from insuring paternity, which in many countries is a problem. To answer your question, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:39 PM
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Before you start going full hammer and sickle, remember the "good communist" was a hard working producer and in communist block countries not making quota could be frequently seen as "subverting the common good" and get you lined up against the wall. It's a mechanism of social control, but has nothing to do with mixed ownership corporations as the foundation for business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:19 PM
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It could also be used by private companies to screen for genetic conditions and use that as a basis to reduce your employment opportunities or restrict access to healthcare by making prohibitively expensive premiums.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:14 PM
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If you accept the notion that a tyrant could at some point be in control, then you accept the notion you need to be vested with the strength to resist them prior to the event. Citizens need to be vested with enough power to always pose a material threat to the government or else there is always the historically grounded risk that a free society could be replaced with a dictatorship. "Those who would trade liberty for safety deserve neither". They also often end up with neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:13 PM
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exploration, fulfillment, learning, personal growth. You can get more genuine joy out of a craft skill practiced to perfection then money can buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 03:22 PM
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Honestly for 90% of men getting in shape will be enough, they just don’t want to hear that. They would rather hear the three dudes who got in shape but have schizophrenia that it wasn’t enough then realize 5 hours a week worth of workout time is enough to be able to eat more food and look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:17 PM
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Healthy women are motivated by more than money. Most gold diggers aren’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:13 PM
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I see, I believe virtue is expressed by action. Words are cheap, but those who are virtuous may be judged by the time and effort they invest. People who pursue virtue to me are marked by their willingness to put effort into themselves, those they care about and the communities they choose to belong in. They often rightfully demand that be returned, but they always seek the long term health of their world over short cuts. Wasting time lacks virtue, as does spending a disproportionate amount of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:48 PM
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You built some strawmen here, and missed the point entirely, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:11 PM
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From my next reply: Women are aroused by traits that make for a capable defender, supportive father and able leader. A man who is the rock in the storm and stands with the posture of a mountain doesn't have to look far for female admiration. Beyond that are the traits of disfunction. People in today's world are often dysfunctional and dysfunctional men and women are after different traits then functional ones. Dysfunctional women are deeper inclined towards dark triad traits of narcissism, selfi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:57 PM
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Interesting, what part of that paragraph do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:21 PM
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Not to be mean, but in these situations, from a physical attractiveness standpoint, men will choose the 22 year olds. It's not something women want to hear or men will tell them, you can believe it or not if you wish. But I can guarantee you this. Out of your hearing range and over a couple of beers, men in your town were having a very different conversation. ​ EDIT: Here is the data: https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/4/8/eaap9815 for your convenience, the average across age desirability o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:03 PM
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Never expect a Salesperson to be out for your best interest. I don't view sales as immoral, but you have to go into it assuming the game is you trying to get the best value vs them trying to extract every drop of cash from you by any means legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:13 PM
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the evidence I have seen in the research on this is that women prefer men + or - 2 or 3 years of themselves as they age, with a brief period in the 40s that stalls on 42 year old looking men (no idea why). Men from 14-80 prefer 22 year olds. EDIT: these are averages, and don't invalidate personal preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:44 PM
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Most physical things that arouse women are signs of this. Muscles and size make it easier to help with physical tasks and protect. Eloquence of speech makes you a source of emotional healing and support. Intelligence makes you an efficient problem solver. Both parties are aroused by things nature tells you will make a happy family. Men are aroused by a youthful body capable of surviving and thriving through the intense rigors of childbearing, and the traits that make for a nurturing, caring moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:26 PM
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A virtuous man should be able to provide assistance to others (resources, in goods and labor) be kind and caring (makes people feel good) and strong enough to stand up for himself and those he cares about (makes people feel protected). In what way may virtue be measured by action that doesn't line up with what women already want? If you view morality through the narrow lens of "has the right moral beliefs and politics", then it would make sense women wouldn't be attracted to that. All the ways o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:26 PM
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True, I’m normally performing tasks that require a bit more attention then constantly responding to a phone allows. Guess you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:38 PM
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weird thing to gender, but ok. You certainly spend a lot of time multitasking reddit for some one with a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:50 PM
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You’ve spent the last 8 hours on a Tuesday posting on Reddit. Wouldn’t your own argument invalidate your contributions, since you don’t seem to have a lot going on in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:43 PM
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The source of the advice has nothing to do with the outcome. You are using a character attack to discredit an idea, which Robotemist pointed out is a fallacy. You haven’t made an argument yet about the ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:20 PM
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Gun ownership is going through the roof, and ammo is harder to find then graphics cards. History tells you a lot about what these times usually predict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:16 PM
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Why make sweeping generalizations disprovable by just opening the last thread on the topic from less then three days ago? That’s some goldfish memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:17 PM
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One of the largest problems in "men talking about women" and "women talking about men" is what I call the "poisoned pond effect". The dating pool is a poisoned pond. All individuals desiring to date enter the pond when they do so. People who have the ability to hold a relationship and productively work with a partner to build a life leave the pond. Those who either don't desire a long term relationship, or who are unable to maintain one, stay in the pond. Overtime, the amount of quality partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:34 PM
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Think of cheating as a threshold. It occurs in a coward when the desire for your needs to be fulfilled exceeds your barriers against seeking the fulfillment out in others. The less some one interacts with the opposite sex, the more social lines they have to cross to meet those needs outside the relationship. Some one who won’t even be one on one friends with the opposite sex? They will have a ton of lines they have to cross, and so even if the relationship is struggling they will find it hard to…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/21 12:44 PM
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Girl culture involves a ton of false flattery and most women are observant enough to notice. Women also highly value the response they get from men, and notice that different women get very different responses. So out of desire to get real data, considering the women in their world will either give them false flattery if they are friends or neutral, or give them potentially false slights if they are currently pissed at them or rivals, women become more sensitive to trying to interpret hidden mea…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/21 02:40 PM
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That shit's been on back order for decades with no sign of coming back in stock. Imho better off canceling and just going with a complains less.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/21 02:17 PM
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Looks like the mod cavalry has arrived. This thread was quickly becoming toxic with bad faith posters, my apologies your request was met with them. The foundation of a long term relationship are mutual investment, communication and respect. If you and your boyfriend respect each other, are both working to contribute to the relationship in ways that satisfies each other, and are both feeling full filled, he won’t lose interest. Men don’t lose sexual interest in women who do domestic duties. If th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 02:42 AM
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I’m glad you consider these subjects that people make life choices over “hilarious”. Run along, back to where you came from.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 01:46 AM
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> You’re missing the nuance of dating relationships. No, you're bad faith arguing a non-RPW perspective. And you are signaling that loud and clear with your language. > A woman can exude domesticity and its qualities without applying the labor, in her dating life. Ever heard the phrase "all talk and no walk?" > We’re all told not to date for potential; that goes both ways. contradicts everything you just said. Men don't want to see a woman "exude potential that they may make a good wife" they wa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 01:25 AM
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You come into a situation with a passive aggressive attack on OP like a 16 year old bully despite being a supposedly mature woman and that’s your defense? Where to begin. First mistake is assuming every man lowers himself to the least he can do the first time you invest in him. If that’s the kind you have attracted and dealt with that’s on you, men of value consistently reinvest where they see their time and effort paying off, they don’t chase sunk costs. This means your theory on playing hold o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 12:41 AM
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This is this person’s opinion on the red pill It’s called the “red pill” dating strategy. Google can answer that question for you. I’m saying, don’t internalize this vernacular or implement its principles into your dating life/strategy. Don’t read into it. It’s a destructive social element & internet subculture. It’ll leech into your dating life & sabotage your confidence. Leave it alone. They hang out in over 30, over 40 dating spaces, alternative dating spaces, and mostly just to aggressively …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 11:57 PM
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It makes more sense when you realize these disgusting beasts have always low key supported this and are just trying to subtly shift the rest of us into accepting it.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 03:45 AM
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He was being sarcastic. Pointing out that the modern left accepts any act of abuse and any human rights violation as long as it’s committed within the framework and at least providing lip service to their dogma.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 03:43 AM
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Hijacking here to remind everyone that Aimee’s admitted pedophile husband is a mod at /r/teenagers. Reddit openly enables admitted pedophiles to have positions of power that give them access to impressionable young people and a report log that can show them who the most vulnerable are. This is a sick enabling of abuse, nothing is more ironic than a company that has an “anti evil team” and is skirting the line of child trafficking.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/03/21 03:01 AM
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Makes sense, and understandable. This sub does get a lot of bad faith and trolls coming to bother it sadly.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:19 PM
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Based on your history, I'm going to assume you aren't actually a troll. First, I would like to caution you against modern identity labeling. People today have a habit of assuming how they currently feel is "who they are", rather than just "who they currently are". Your post history indicates a history of massive amounts of self hate and doubt along with weight issues. A couple things to keep in mind. Weight isn't just extra tissue. Fat cells are endocrine producing; your fat actively generates h…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 04:33 PM
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Being in a committed relationship with some one means sacrificing some of your freedoms to do whatever you want, and in exchange they do the same, so that you both can build something more together. Your argument isn't a real argument because asking your partner to respect your boundaries is a normal part of a healthy relationship. This poster asked if it was right to want this as a a boundary, it is absolutely right. It is also ok for some one else to find flirting with others as acceptable whi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 06:48 PM
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Men say a lot of horrible shit on dating profiles too, women just don't take the time to talk about it or remember it because online dating isn't as dishearting for them. Women get flooded with choices, most of which are bad, and most of the ones they choose won't lead to anything. Men are left bereft of choices unless they are in the top 20%, then they have it easy. As a man your goal is simply self improvement, as a woman your goal is better vetting skills. It can be advantageous for a woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:58 PM
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Bud, I think you have a problem with accepting your own gender. By your admission you are looking for belonging in exclusively female spaces, while harboring a deep resentment for your own gender, and a burning jealousy for other men. What you need is a positive male space, strong male role models and positive male interactions. You interpret male confidence as bullying (Bill Burr is certainly not a “macho man” or alpha, if you called him that he would laugh in your face, he is confident though)…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 01:20 PM
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That is an essential skill to develop. However, it can also be crucial to surround yourself with people you trust who are willing to give you “tough love” when you need it. We all have low points, we all stumble and falter. In the past, when we stumbled and fell to the comfort of vice to get by, others would quickly steer us back on path. Now, we are left to free fall if ever life gets low. It’s my belief that this plays a pivotal role in how deeply people are left falling today into depths of d…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 11:59 PM
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That's a fair way to look at it, but if in this case the "sparkles and glitter" package is one of the most fulfilling parts of life, and the sort of emotional experience that gently adds joy to everything you do, I'm going to build an insulated box, throw on a welding suit, and get opening. I have had my heart destroyed through the ringer, and had some chart topping bad experiences, but momma didn't raise no quitter.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 07:55 PM
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Considering modern, vapid dating culture and a "never tell them anything they did wrong, just ghost, never help others, never be emotionally involved, play power games and have meaningless sex" attitude has the majority of people messed up in the head, both genders have a lot of reasons to be seriously weary, jaded and disheartened by the opposite sex. It's very hard for anyone to have awareness of their flaws when we have cultivated a passive aggressive culture that actively dissuades people fr…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 07:38 PM
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That second part is key, and can become a real issue with same sex friendships as well. A friend of mine kept coming to me with complaints about their partner, and eventually I told them it wasn't good for their relationship. While I am happy to be some one the people around me can confide in and be open to, if your relationship has issues and all you do is complain about your partner to the other people in your life, you are building a wall of resentment between you and them. If you have a prob…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 04:04 PM
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The danger in having too close friends of the opposite sex is that your partner should always be head and shoulders above anyone else of the opposite sex in terms of who you want to discuss your life with. Communication builds connection. It's the glue that keeps you strong when times inevitably get tough (and they always get tough). If you have another male figure in your world you really enjoy communicating with about your life, it's easy to let your communication with your partner atrophy, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 02:25 PM
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I respectfully disagree. If some one chooses to attempt to criticize or negotiate, and takes it in an ugly way, you are free to stop that short and walk away. However, you don't explain and be gentle for them, you do it for you. You do it to reinforce for yourself who you want to be as a person, and to maintain the good heart you want to bring to the relationship you actually want. If you erode your sympathy and empathy by treating others as disposable, you won't have enough care left to bring t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 04:22 AM
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