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Discriminationmemo_nina/r/MensRights03/07/26 07:34 AM
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I love long hair on men. I've asked my husband to grow his out for me 😂 but he likes his short hair
/r/MensRights09/07/26 07:52 AM
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I think it depends on the person. This all sounds so simple, but people are a lot more complex than that.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 06:37 AM
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I assume it's the same thing women see as companionship: presence yes, but also Someone to talk to at the end of the day. Someone to share hobbies with and do things together. Someone to call when you're having a shitty day. Someone to wake up next to. Someone to laugh and cry with. Just having someone there so you don't feel alone. That's how I'd see it, at least.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 06:35 AM
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I think people somehow believe men should be able to handle pain better than women...the classic "toughen up" mentality. Which is ridiculous. Why would one gender naturally be better at tolerating pain than the other?
/r/MensRights04/07/26 09:48 AM
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I might just be lucky I've never been treated shitty.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 06:34 AM
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Definitely can be a problem with both genders. I guess I've just never had any bad experiences with healthcare providers myself, and he does constantly, while he is a very sweet polite man.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 05:12 PM
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I'm not saying they treat everyone this way, but my husband had a gastroscopy recently (the tube down the throat into the stomach), and his experience was awful. When they inserted the scope, he started gagging. Instead of giving him a moment to recover, one nurse held him down while the other continued forcing the tube further in. Eventually, he pushed them away, sat up, and said it was hurting too much. They told him they do this all the time and never get complaints. He ended up leaving witho…
/r/MensRights03/07/26 05:10 PM
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It just makes me sad. He's never been an anxious person, but now he's genuinely anxious about his next appointment. The worst part is that he's now hesitant to seek help and would rather wait out health problems because he's scared of their reaction.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:34 PM
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He asked me to come along next time. So I'll see what happens. But I'm not so nice as he is when i see him being mistreated.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:31 PM
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And you have to stay nice too, because otherwise they can really make things difficult for you. At the end of the day, you need their help.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:28 PM
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once had a swollen finger, and they referred me to a rheumatologist and got me an ultrasound within two weeks. I've had quite a few experiences like that. I always get taken serious right away.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:21 PM
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May i ask what country you're from?
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:20 PM
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My husband has started pushing for tests too, which I think probably annoys them, but otherwise they just won't order them. Meanwhile, I seem to get tests for the smallest complaints. I once only had a swollen finger, and they referred me to a rheumatologist and got me an ultrasound within two weeks. I've had quite a few experiences like that.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:19 PM
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Holy shit, i would be pissed!
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:15 PM
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Yes, but it's the same doctors i have. They don't brush me off, like not even a little.
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:15 PM
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Actually has happened to us before too, they ask my husband to call me for kids information! Ridiculous!
/r/MensRights03/07/26 02:11 PM
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I've never really understood the man vs. bear question. Most people choosing "bear" still live, work, date, marry, and socialize with men every day. If they genuinely thought a random bear was safer than a random man, they wouldn't willingly spend so much of their lives around men. If i had to choose to be locked up in a room 24 hours with a random man or bear. I'm choosing the man 😅 like wtf....
/r/MensRights24/06/26 05:26 AM
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I'm not sure who you're surrounding yourself with, but I see men and women working hard every day. I'm sorry if you've experienced women making fun of you, that isn't okay. I'd avoid people who treat others that way.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 04:48 PM
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Geez, I'm sorry you've been through all that. It sounds genuinely awful. I just want you to know that you're not inferior to anyone. You're not weak, and you're not worthless. The way people treated you says far more about them than it does about you. Nobody deserves to grow up being made to feel like their safety, feelings, or dignity matter less because of their gender.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 06:38 AM
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This is true. My husband has experienced this too. Or It often gets laughed at or belittled. I'm happy that the people we choose to surround us with don't do this. It is a very toxic mentality!
/r/MensRights08/06/26 03:46 AM
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Thanks, ill check it out!
/r/MensRights07/06/26 04:32 AM
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I feel the same way. I care about both men's and women's issues, but sometimes it feels like both sides want you to pick a team. If you support one issue, people assume you're against the other. I don't really label myself as a feminist or a men's rights activist for that reason. I'm just a person trying to treat people fairly, speak up when something is wrong, and be a good influence for my kids. That's enough for me.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 04:52 AM
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No worries. These are important topics, so it's easy for discussions to get heated quickly. Thanks for the conversation, and I hope you have a good night ☺️
/r/MensRights05/06/26 12:00 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights04/06/26 11:32 PM
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Yea sorry, i realised i did go on that reddit group yesteday or today, It's 1 a.m. here, my kids have been up crying 😅😭 my brain isn't fully on atm. That said, I do practice what I preach. In real life, I try to treat people with empathy and respect regardless of who they are. I'm active in my community, and Reddit is mostly just something I scroll when I can't sleep or have a bit of downtime. I can see why you came to that conclusion, but I don't think commenting in different communities means …
/r/MensRights04/06/26 11:30 PM
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I don't disagree that some feminist groups and ideas have been harmful to men. I just don't think that erases the positive role feminism played in expanding women's rights. Both can be true at the same time. That said, I don't personally see modern Western feminism doing as much good today, and it has become dismissive/creating men's issues. I do feel like its creating a gender war which i dislike.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 11:17 PM
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I don't see how participating in different communities means I don't practice what I preach. My views are pretty consistent: I think men's issues matter, and I think people deserve compassion regardless of who they are. I care about both men's and women's rights. I want a world where my son and daughter can grow up peacefully and be treated fairly. If I comment here more than other groups, it's probably because these posts show up on my feed more often. I don't think caring about men's issues re…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 11:05 PM
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I think that's too broad a statement. There are feminists and feminist organizations I disagree with, but feminism also played a major role in expanding women's rights and opportunities. I'm not a feminist in the modern Western sense, but I can still acknowledge that women historically had far fewer rights, and that in some countries today, such as Afghanistan, women still face severe restrictions on their freedom and opportunities. At the same time, I think men's issues deserve more attention. …
/r/MensRights04/06/26 10:54 PM
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It's interesting that my comment was about showing compassion to individuals, and your response was to go digging through my profile looking for something to attack. That kind of proves my point.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 10:34 PM
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I think feminism has done a lot of good historically. Women gaining voting rights, access to education, legal protections, and greater opportunities didn't happen by accident. And in many countries today, feminism is still an important movement because women still face serious discrimination. That said, I do think in much of the Western world the conversation has changed. Many of the biggest legal inequalities have been addressed, so people are increasingly asking why men's issues often receive …
/r/MensRights04/06/26 04:43 AM
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I hate when gender becomes a competition. Why does one gender have to "have it worse"? Every person has their own struggles, and we should be looking at individuals and asking whether they need help, not dismissing them because of their sex. The constant dividing of people into opposing groups just creates resentment and hostility. Compassion shouldn't depend on whether someone is a man or a woman.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 04:41 AM
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It's sad how much the word feminism has changed. It originally stood for equal rights and opportunities for women, which was and still is an important cause in many parts of the world. But in the West, the term has become so politicized that many people no longer see it as simply meaning equality. Whether that's fair or not, it's why discussions about men's and women's issues often turn into hostility instead of productive conversation. Both can matter at the same time, and both gender issues ar…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 04:36 AM
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I think there's a middle ground. If a father leaves, the mother is often the one stuck raising the child alone, so I understand why people sympathize with that. But if both parents want to stay and raise the child together, major decisions should be made together. The only exception I can somewhat understand is that children have traditionally gotten the father's surname, so maybe the mother should have a bit more say in the first name. Even then, both parents should like the name. Carrying and …
/r/MensRights01/06/26 03:54 AM
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