| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 146 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDSI literally saw a thread where someone asked if porn was cheating and everyone was like “you are so IMMATURE and need to GROW UP if you can’t handle your significant other jerking off to women that aren’t you 😤” like ok weirdos, just say you’re coping and go... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:35 PM |
| 7 | We might have had our years being worn down and abused by toxic men or being pickmeishas, but we will all be okay.I love this subreddit, it’s so positive and encouraging 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:44 PM |
| 34 | Trust your Gut and don't help a scrote!Yeah, Venmo is pretty useless but if you call your bank that your checking account is linked with, they can usually freeze the charge instantly and keep it in limbo for a few weeks while they review it. Trying to deal directly with scammers gets you nowhere unfortunately :( Sorry that men suck. Hope this info helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 69 | Trust your Gut and don't help a scrote!Sorry this happened, but try calling your bank and doing a chargeback! You might be able to get your money back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 6 | What's the worst OLD opener you've received? This tops my list in at least the last month.YES LOL. I love how much he talked about this guy's big fat black cock and then added in "oh I wanna see him nut in you" literally just at the end. Are they really watching porn for the girls or big cocks? 🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:50 AM |
| 35 | What's the worst OLD opener you've received? This tops my list in at least the last month.This literally sounds like he’s gay, tbh. Like it’s weird how much effort he spends into describing this hypothetical black man as extremely sexually attractive LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | What The Sex-Worker Industry EnablesTBH I’m a little disappointed at some of the comments. I don’t expect everyone to be a radical feminist here, but there are an alarming amount of women saying they’re okay with sex work if the woman has the mental capability or that sex work is okay or should be legal at all. Definitely not what FDS stands for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:38 PM |
| 19 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.I love this thread and appreciate this community so much! I recently saw something on TwoX (lol I should have left that community a long time ago) that left me feeling insecure and it makes me feel a lot better knowing that there are women who feel the same way about porn and prostitution, and that it’s okay to not like those for selfish reasons outside of ethics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Do not date men who ascribe to "sex positivity" or are "woke" about women who do sex work. If he supports sex work/porn, he supports human trafficking and abuse for his own gratification. You cannot have one without the other.LOL what a cop out way of thinking. So typical of men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | What is everyone’s opinions here about SO liking other girls photos?I ignore everyone on FB because many groups are full of Leftist Libfems that defend sex workers, BDSM, and polyamory. Don’t bother girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | But actually....I feel like they don’t realize many of the attractive, intelligent women they do try to hit up are.....either FDS or believe in many FDS values LOL. Even before I found FDS I learned to follow many of the guidelines and I never struggled with finding someone to go on dates with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointGod girl, I feel you! I hope you figure out what choice will make you happy in the long-term when it comes to you and him. It's hard to make any decision when you like someone so much so I totally feel you. I hope I make the right decision too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 11 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointI know my boyfriend has been to a strip club and it's enough to constantly make me question whether or not I want to stay with him (we met before I followed FDS). You will really rule out most men when you set your bare minimum criteria of looking for someone who hasn't been to a club. You are so lucky to have the choice to not be with a man like that! Cherish it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Facts.Beauty standards are a crock of shit. Women should be allowed to be ugly. Seriously. I can’t fucking stand how society only cares about women’s appearances first and then everything else after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 08:09 AM |
| 20 | Matchmaking is the most efficient, effective way to find a suitable husband.This is very nice but I think matchmaking works mainly because of how exclusive it is.... with how much it costs, only certain and similar kinds of people can use the service. This is just not realistic for most people, even wealthy people, just because spending that much money for such a service is really hard to justify for any person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 08:01 AM |
| 12 | Call her daddyTHANK YOU!!!! I hate this podcast so goddamn much. I hate Barstool and everything that’s associated with it with a goddamn passion. Any man that thinks Barstool is funny is NOT someone you want to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 07:55 AM |
| 10 | Call her daddyLMFAO girl is that why you have that Pickmeisha flair 😂😂😂 I’m cryinggggggg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 16 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditYou’re amazing and strong. You have a support system here to help you and I am so sure someone here can connect you to the resources you need to survive. Much love!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:36 PM |
| 8 | Why is this something you would be proud of, or want to share publicly?🤮I agree...... group masturbation sessions are the very definition of gay, holy shit LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 04:44 PM |
| 36 | Husband did a LVM thing todayDIVORCE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 8 | I don’t understand how they don’t get it!You deserve better :( I know you might love him, but you always deserve better than how his behavior makes you feel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 06:20 AM |
| 17 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Fuck no, not in Vegas! Otherwise he’d be an EX. I’m fine with him going out without me if he’s with his friends, but if he tried to go out alone on a trip with just us it’d be major dumping material right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:10 PM |
| 35 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩God, I'm gonna be honest, I was pissed that he even had the gall to ask. Like, do I seem like a Pick Me that would be okay with that??? LOL. Like, I swear guys do this to see how far they can push you. If you want a sex positive girl that really does not respect herself enough to know that she deserves better, be my guest and find that. It certainly won't be from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 86 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.I’m literally 20 and this is the kind of guy that sends me sad and pathetic messages in my Instagram requests 😂 BYEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 51 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩Days like this, I’m really grateful for this sub and what it’s taught me. My boyfriend and I planned a trip to Vegas and he asked me if I wanted to go to a strip club with him because I’m under 21 and can’t go clubbing with him. I said no and he didn’t push me or anything but it still made me feel bad. I almost thought that I was the crazy one because I’ve been exposed to so many other girls that play into the cool girl facade and are just SO willing to allow that, but this sub in particular has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Millennials grew up when LibFems were pushing porn & TradCons were pushing abstinence education, both of which massively failed to teach women anything good or helpful about our sexuality. Meanwhile, racist middle aged perverts used porn to groom an entire generation of men to sexually abuse us.IDK, I don’t think you can deny that there are absolutely LibFems that support this ideology. I know on Twitter, there are tons of these liberal sex-positive feminists that will literally jump and shame women if they say they’re uncomfortable with their SO viewing porn or paying cam girls. I’ve seen it first hand, and they call women insecure and shame the fuck out of them. They encourage hoe culture, talk about all the casual sex they have with men who don’t care about them, and they go viral f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Now working as a waiter is compared to prostitution. WowI really can't stand the normalization of sex work, especially in the rise of popularity of middle-class/affluent (usually white) girls that treat it like a side gig. This is super common on Twitter and stuff and it's so gross. No, like it's hard and degrading work and I think it's disgusting that they think sex can be so commodified. I absolutely support sex workers that do it because they have no other choice, but stupid little girls that choose to do it because they just want extra money they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:43 PM |
| 54 | Where’s the lie?Sadly, it’s super common on sites like Twitter. There are a LOT of weirdos on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 7 | Any asian females here ?I'm pretty wary of dating white guys myself personally, but that's because the vast majority of my experience with them has been pretty horrible. I think straight white men are absolutely the most entitled out of any demographic, and that it shows in how they treat women of all races. I'd say that my life improved tenfold when I started to pursue men of color and held white men to much higher standards than other groups of people (for example, do they put an effort in to recognize the privilege … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How to apply FDS in 9 month relationship?Oh gosh, this reminds me so much of my last relationship. He's a loser and will never change. Please leave him before he does anything to hurt you. You deserve someone who cares about themselves more than you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:00 AM |
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