| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | For only $40 he can promise to never marry you!!Just throwing it out there, men could also just propose with these rings. Promise ring is always just an excuse I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid narcissists in the future.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid narcissists in the future.So what do you recommend? I’m not dating and have not dated in a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid narcissists in the future.Ugh see this concerns me. I thought that beating my codependence was going to protect me. Glad I commented about this but also feeling super low knowing women on FDS disagree and I’m still susceptible to being targeted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid narcissists in the future.That’s a really good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Woman finds out husband of 6 years is a porn addict and cheats on her with webcam girlsThey become addicted at an early age and like people with serious drug addictions quitting is very challenging. My first boyfriend did the same thing to me. My friend had the same thing done to her. We both walked away immediately like this woman. As 10 years have gone by and I’ve had a lot of time to think about this, I don’t think this has anything to do with how much the person does or does not love someone. It is just their level of sickness. This is why it is so important to be with someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | All it takes is that one.Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | All it takes is that one.Oh that makes so much sense. Thanks!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | All it takes is that one.I don’t actually understand the issue with not all men. Can someone please explain it to me. I feel stupid asking the question but I just don’t get the FDS stance on it and I want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:12 AM |
| 26 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlPlease never speak to him again. Even if he technically did nothing wrong I don’t care because he DID do something wrong. He made you feel like this. He absolutely sucks because of how he made you feel and he does not deserve to ever hear from you again. I hope you block/delete so you can move on as fast as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:44 AM |
| 19 | Was gonna say the same...this scrote is legit bottom of the barrel, no job indigent wannabe rapperLol. Blows my mind. The other thing is I feel bad because women confuse being chased super hard with men having feelings. It might not be related. Often it is like this man... a game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 18 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimumI didn’t really get the typical pick me vibes. I got very poor and alone vibes. Just grateful for the help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What are your expectations for high value friendships?This is a very common thing I read about on here with female friendships. I have actually talked about it with my 2 friends who do this to me and they both felt awful and have tried to change. They did make very large efforts but in the end fell short. It is their personality to do this to everyone, not just me. Now even though I notice it, I do not take this as a sign of a bad friend. Both have been good friends to me for a long time outside of this. I also realize if someone new did this to me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:03 AM |
| 11 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?I would make a free Google Voice number. I would send screenshots through there. Tell her that he messaged you and you know he is active (even if not true because we all know it is true). Tell her that you are never going to tell anyone about this for her privacy and no judgement. Don’t tell her who you are and leave it alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 10 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?I didn’t tell someone once and I still think about it to this day. She and I weren’t close and it was going to make things awkward for me in our social circle. She had kind of a coldness to her and I felt intimidated to tell her. I thought she would hate me and keep dating him. I wish I had though. She was in love with him and he cheated on her with a cam girl and she had to move out of state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:20 AM |
| 138 | Stop Talking To Men Who Flirt With YouAlso I don’t like flirty men in general. First of all the flirt with everyone and even if they are in a relationship. Second, flirting means nothing. Ask me out the first time you flirt or leave me alone. Too many men in my life would constantly hit on me but never ask me out. Flirty, charming men turn me off now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:18 AM |
| 3 | A big part of the reason why FDS is so great is the personal accountability! We don’t expect men to do what we’re not doing ourselves (often better) and that’s what sets us apart!Your own stability is important. Financial and emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 18 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...It’s so sad. All she wants is to be a good girlfriend. She is innocent and with a disgusting person she loves and I am really sad to say I don’t think she will ever join us on FDS and she will be with creeps probably her whole life. Being sweet and naive is a very bad thing for a woman to be. This could have happened to me when I was younger. It’s all so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:11 PM |
| 2 | October 2020 TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com Website Q&A Thread! Ask your website questions here!😐 I couldn’t agree more. Stressful is exactly how I would describe it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | *internal screaming, forever*I brush my teeth 3 times a day and am obsessed with it being clean. However, I understand both sides of this text convo. I thought the woman was the one being told to brush her teeth at first and was super offended for her because she could have an actual issue going on outside of it being related to brushing. I was like who thinks it is okay to tell a random person what to do with their body. Well turns out she was saying it to him. So I feel kind of like I wouldn’t like it if a man said those … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:07 PM |
| 10 | These scrotes ain't loyal, but we knew that. 🙄 Here's an idea: how about you tell your GIRLFRIEND she's beautiful, not me. Boy bye. 😤Wait so the man who murdered his pregnant wife messaged her when he had a gf? Actually freaked out because men do this to me and can become obsessed with me. I am scared now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 11 | are men ok lolYeah... only your sperm is what is needed... not the eggs, uterus, or woman carrying the baby inside of her for 9 months. Let alone the woman feeding the baby and actually taking care of it. The baby has needs... if the woman wasn’t there the baby would die when you abandoned your family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 9 | It takes next to no effort to respond to a text.Good job trusting your gut. Don’t ever doubt it. On a side note, not everyone wants to text. I used to love it and read into the times, frequency, messages, and all that. I don’t feel obligated to respond to texts anymore and I’m not excited by texts. Texting is immature to me now. Not an insult but just a perspective that some people aren’t into it. The other issue is that some people are busy. I am busy at work and when I am home I am not in the mood to text. So even if I see a text and care a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Qveen Herby "Who is She". From me to all of you 👑I love it! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Narc-sounding BF goes on and on about strange woman he met. Comments call her paranoid and are frankly insulting.Yepp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:29 AM |
| 3 | October 2020 TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com Website Q&A Thread! Ask your website questions here!I don’t know how to find. Sorry I am new | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | This LVM is ruining her life without her consent. HOW IS THIS OK??Idk if this is a joke, if she is in on it and doing it for publicity, or if this is real. All 3 make me nauseous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | October 2020 TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com Website Q&A Thread! Ask your website questions here!Same!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 23 | October 2020 TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com Website Q&A Thread! Ask your website questions here!I don’t really want to have sex anymore. I feel scared of someone inside of me. The whole thing just feels really intrusive. That person physically using my body and emotionally impacting me. I look back at all the stuff I pretended to enjoy and I’m really grossed out. I wasn’t satisfied by my partners in the past and it is hard for me to imagine it being different in the future. Since I haven’t had sex in a year, my hormones are so balanced, my period is so light, and I don’t have to worry abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 7 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.What I got from this is you only lose 7% of your eggs in 10 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:17 AM |
| 48 | Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.'Someone abused their whole life could potentially be turned on. At what point does abuse turn into mental illness? I’m not sure but I agree completely with your comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 142 | Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.'His “sexual history” terrifies me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Tik Tok trend goes wrong when wife exposes LVM husbandI think it’s all for publicity. I don’t buy any of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 13 | I mean...isn’t it obvious?! Grandpa is gna show up.Questions 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 28 | I mean...isn’t it obvious?! Grandpa is gna show up.It’s legitimately scary out there. I’m terrified for anyone who online dates. If I was a horrible man I could easily lie in a realistic way and make my online info match. No amount of vetting is enough. Every online date you risk your life. I met someone online who I worked at the same company with, who I had mutual friends with, and who lived in my apartment complex!!! He STILL trapped me and tried to assault me. No amount of vetting is safe. Every single date you risk being assaulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 3 | How to manage finances once you’re married?Do a joint bank account but don’t have your money deposited in there. Just have access to his money in there. Tell him you like having your freedom. That’s all you need to say. He isn’t marrying you for your money and he isn’t your dad so your spending is none of his business if it is your own money. The joint bank account should be him basically giving you access to his money not him gaining access to yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:30 AM |
| 23 | Acknowledging you have no HV friends in your life and deciding to go forth alone...? Anyone experience this?Same. Especially when it is always the same thing over and over. It is draining | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Haha this is so true. Let alone 30. 30 is when we wake up to the myth that we are old 🤣 set free the day I turned 30 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 6 | I can't stop😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Charging you $10 a minute is genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Women are the center of men's world. Let's act like it.😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 5 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?Anything with sales | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:17 AM |
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