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| 3 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentSo then you’d agree it’s not that easy to pass the “looks threshold” for a lot of men. Agree that education and income are important especially for women in their mid 20s and up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:08 PM |
| 4 | i truly believe most women are oblivious to how attractive thier partners are, and women value being competent or the illusion of being competentRight, so don’t be short. And ethnicity is tied with social status. He’s not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 0 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startOk, thanks. I’d be more inclined to believe 80% within the last year and 70% within the past month if taking all ages of adults into account. What are your criteria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startWhat’s your criteria for getting laid “regularly” or “semi-regularly”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:14 AM |
| 11 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.Yeah, there are many more women with a strong preference for height than strong preference for muscles IME | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.Lol yup they love the big bois with big lifted trucks around here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:27 PM |
| 12 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.You’re right. I’m giving a perspective based on my experience living in the rural Southern United States. Being a big bear of a man is practically the beauty standard around here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:16 PM |
| 16 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.Classic video! I remember this being posted on the bodybuilding forum over a decade ago. You’re right, there are some women who are into short muscular guys. Just not the majority and that’s OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:09 PM |
| 64 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.I’ve seen this posted everywhere. Here’s my take as a short guy who played sports all my life and transitioned to weightlifting in college. This study is a no-brainer. Ofc if you’re 5’6 and 100 lbs soaking wet or 5’6 and 300 lbs and transform yourself into a 5’6 155 lb ripped Adonis, your dating prospects will improve. But for any guy who is a vaguely normal weight, it’s not gonna make much difference. Also confounding variables like feeling more confident from lifting and taking better care of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:17 PM |
| – | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?https://www.psypost.org/2023/01/interactions-between-height-and-shoulder%E2%80%91to%E2%80%91hip-ratio-influence-womens-perceptions-of-mens-attractiveness-and-masculinity-64769 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 6 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I agree with you when it comes to dating in most cases. An exception would be a naturally attractive but obese and unkempt man who becomes fit and stylish- he would obviously benefit from OPs advice. Being said, I do find exercise and being fit has tons of health benefits and I’m all about it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:52 PM |
| 22 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Being fit and dressing well is overrated for attracting women IMO. I’m jacked and dress sharp and 99% of the compliments come from other men. I think women care about facial features, coloring, and height way more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?How old are y’all? Hate to say it, but that sounds pretty normal. I don’t even have sex that often LMAo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?What you said made sense, relationships can be really complicated Hang in there man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsHypermasculinity has been the standard for Black men for as long as I remember. That probably explains the appeal of manosphere/red pill content. Good point and appreciate the “not all Black men” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Another gem foundLol I just said the same thing. I consider it a benefit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Another gem foundI think I know what they’re talking about. I’m muscular but I’ve had sex with a fat woman and there’s a loud clapping sound especially when you’re hitting it from the back. I find it sexy tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Single Women, what are your standards?Nice! Finally a vote for blk guys 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenAccording to the FBI, white people commit 70% of all crimes LMAo. Check the source: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-u.s.-2019/topic-pages/tables/table-43 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI last swam competitively when I was 5’6 140 lbs and was seen as ripped and muscular, but still considered a very small guy. You’re right that a 6’5 200 lb lean man is akin to a lean 5’5 guy weighing 125-130 lbs, the latter is a far less attractive physique to women IME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’ve got multiple sex partners I recommend you get bigger condoms, stop jerking it, or both lol. Unless you don’t care about HIV, hepatitis, herpes etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.All the stuff talked about on here has been discussed in Black barbershops, music, stand ups, even regular convos for ages. People just don’t know the history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Damn you hit the nail on the head with this 👏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Men don't age like wine. Stop being delusional.Haha you might be picky. I think plenty of women age like wine too, like Kandi Burress and Mary-Louise Parker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. Stop being delusional.There are some types of guys who do look better between age 30-50 compared with younger. Pharrell Williams and Denzel Washington come to mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProud mom posted about her brown-skinned Jay Critch looking son becoming a firefighter and there’s tons of women simping over him on FB and other platforms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathread100% yes. I’m only 5’6 but I’d date any height, prob up to 7 feet TBH. I’ve been approached once by a woman who was 5’9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re right. Women are better at ultramarathons and the like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI completely agree with your take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow, never thought of it that way. It came from my first gf, so that fits! Thx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s cool to know there’s others! Always just thought I was sort of a perv for that preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat sounds like a dream lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgreed. I’m find attractive BMIs even like 25-30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSame. Not a fan of facial or leg hair, but hairy pits and bush doesn’t bother me one bit cause of early experience lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Do BJs and the frequency of sex decline after marriage?I think I’m dealing with what you’re describing. What do you think is the best way for a guy to handle this kind of situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | A big part of why sex is less important to women is that sex is one of the few ways that a man can get affirmation of his attractivenessWas this meant for someone else? I compliment my male friends and romantic partners. Sometimes it’s even reciprocated! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy not. I think a lot of them look nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is wrong about being "beta bucks"?It depends on how the BB is being treated within the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 4 | A big part of why sex is less important to women is that sex is one of the few ways that a man can get affirmation of his attractivenessMy male friends constantly complement and neg each other haha. I think it’s part of friendly banter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah we need all the love we can get haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsI see. One other thing I forget is how young some users are. Could be some late teens to 20-year-old guy would find her and Rihanna too old for them now. I’m already at the point where I view 18-20 year olds as kids pretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsHaha cool. Sounds like you’re more drawn to the things I listed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsIIRC she had more mainstream appeal in the Twilight era. She’s still very attractive, but I know ppl will downgrade shorter, dyed hair, androgynous clothes etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 9 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsRihanna is clearly beautiful. I think she is getting downgraded for not having a mainstream style, same with Kristen Stewart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.I think women love these tall lanky white guys tbh. Back in the day it was Michael Phelps, now this dude and Pete Davidson. Faces could look like they were hit with a shovel and women still love them lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 7 | Men of all ages prefer 20 year olds. Knowing this, why do women still get into relationships with men?Lol hadn’t heard that term before but it’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer 20 year olds. Knowing this, why do women still get into relationships with men?It’s OK. I get that your premise mirrors guys who talk about not settling for anything less than strong raw attraction. I know women older than 20 can get that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer 20 year olds. Knowing this, why do women still get into relationships with men?I’m in my 30s dating a woman who is the same age and I prefer that. My colleagues are all the same and we make good money. Most guys prefer relationships with ppl around the same age, but we can find women who are much younger and sometimes much older very attractive too. Not feeling the unnecessary dig at short guys being 5’6 myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDWow, that’s terrible if this was made to trigger guys’ insecurities. And it shouldn’t be spread around as if it’s factual, if it can’t be verified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDIs the graph fake? I’ve seen it posted a ton of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Legit polygamist societies were pretty much what he was describing where the main men getting married or having kids were high status (wealth/nobility then looks but ideally both) The average to poor guys were often dying childless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Are some males infatilized/desexualized because they look childish?I can relate to this. On top of having a baby face, I’m short and could pass for a middle schooler when I was in college. Fun times haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | What would your advice be for undesirable women?True, there’s a lot to do with natural hair besides an afro/afro puff- like twists, twist outs, braids, locs etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBHa true. Do you think most women are in the same boat then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBExactly. I’m aware that I’m not a panty-melter (I’m super ripped but short and Black) so I have to invest a lot into a relationship, not just have looks carry me like some ppl can 🤷🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexYeah those are all good points! Some of this may tie into cultural and socioeconomic factors too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexOk this is an astute point. Guys with lower morals are always chasing tail, not in class, not working etc… lots more opportunities for “extracurriculars” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 23 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexDoctors and lawyers often deal with the same issues TBH. There’s a few charismatic types, but I know a TON personally and they aren’t gonna relate with most ppl. Now I’ll 100% give you that finance and advertising tend to be much more extroverted and charismatic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexBingo! I have to be lit up to relate with most ppl in casual social settings, sad as it is to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 3 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateIt depends on how the person says it. I’ve seen men and women be unnecessarily harsh toward ppl they aren’t attracted to. To the point of dehumanization of short men, fat women, Black women, ethnic men etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 6 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateI’m 5’6 and your age. When I was younger, I heard a lot of negative comments about me or men in general being short. Recently, not so much. I think ideally for dating a guy would be at least 5’8-5’9 IME based on friends. No idea what percentage of women demand 6’, I think women could answer that better LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men.....I’m surprised most of the responses are that they don’t care about height much. Not at all what I expected TBH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxYeah I think it’s a case of both the men and women maturing. I’d add it’s fine for older guys (30s-40s which I’m a part of) to play the field if they want to as long as they’re respectful about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?I wonder what he’d think about Vince Wilforks’ wife hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?I know cause I’m one of them 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:44 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?That’s like average gymnast size. They are usually ripped and muscular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?You’re funny. When the OP dropped the “number 4” pic in an earlier post, I was actually the one telling them I’ve seen plenty of football players date women with her body type. I’m surprised to see commenters (men and women) be like a woman built like that are gross and only trash men would want them. No way 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:56 AM |
| 9 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?Exactly, same here. I’m shocked by some of these comments, it’s quite common where I’m from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 7 | Less attractive women don’t date more attractive menYou’re right about that 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.She’s hot to guys who like chubby/fat women. If guys only like skinny/average women, she’d be a huge turn off. IME she’s fine based on appearance alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.That’s a perfect example. A lot of girls like that date football players or guys who look like they play lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 8 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.I’ll put it like this. Say there’s a ripped, good looking guy who is 5’5 150 lbs. I’d bet money he’d have more women who are 5’0 110 lbs attracted to him than 5’6 190 lbs. I’ve lived it too no cap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women.It’s been the same with me. Older and fatter women seemed to be more savage, undermining your masculinity for approaching them LMAO. Ironically I’ve found young and very petite women (short and thin), even pretty ones, tend to be most open to short guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIt’s absolutely insane that the people you dated treated you so poorly. Also, you’re at least the third Black woman who commented something similar. Are things better for you now? I hope so! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolIt’s awful that you’ve experienced so much racism too! Hope things improve for you✌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 6 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolDamn that’s brutal 😢. Sorry that’s happened to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?That’s cause fat girls aren’t actually down bad the way a lot of guys are. During school years is different, but not during adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood thing Black women tend to be more religious on average, plus not all non-religious women dislike Christians. You might have it harder than average, but your situation isn't hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Is the height preference mostly societal?Thank you for explaining and copy that. All kinds of people are beautiful ✌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Is the height preference mostly societal?You find short dudes hot fr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 11:33 PM |
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