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| 3 | Anime recommendationsSteins;Gate is a fantastic series, although I never gave thought to RPW concepts in it, but you're right; Christina was unfailingly supportive of Okarin, and every time he had to re-explain the entire situation to her, she ended up believing and trusting, trying to help even when she didn't know how. That's what it means to be a first mate. Another good series is Fruits Basket; I didn't finish the comics, but the short anime is enough to give you an idea of the RPW traits the main character Tohr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Any advice to get out of this toxic mindset? Competing with FMILI feel as though girls need to see what a good man is and does so they know an example of the kind of person they can spend a significant amount of time around in a household setting - the kind of man they would do well to end up with by noticing what profound traits (leadership, bravery, thoughtfulness, etc.) they admire and what they might need in a husband someday. They could have great female role models and no male ones, then waste all that they acquired from the experience by squandering t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/15 09:07 AM |
| 1 | DAE have this "problem"? (Embarrassing... Please be nice)Sure thing! Hope you find the information to be helpful in your journey. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/15 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Any advice to get out of this toxic mindset? Competing with FMILSorry for the late response - didn't log back in into today. Thank you, I'm really glad it could be of use to someone. :) It's possible that your MIL wants her daughter to be around a good older male role model by spending time with her brother, and it's awesome that you're taking steps to see things from another perspective! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Any advice to get out of this toxic mindset? Competing with FMILA lot of people here commented with great advice, so I'll try not to be too redundant. But let me put it in perspective another way; being in control of your behavior is great and necessary, but changing the way you think about it will also have a profound impact, so it's great that you sought advice on this. Sorry for the wall of text, though; if you wanna skip it, just check out the indented paragraphs below as that's the main takeaway. Internalize the fact that you are not competing with his … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/14 11:51 PM |
| 3 | 21 Lost Lady-like Behaviours that Still Apply Today.A lady doesn't sacrifice a flowing, natural stride or upright posture just to accommodate painful fashion choices. Sometimes a little comfort has to be given up to look your best, and heels can make your legs look great, but if they're so high or ill-fitting that you stomp around like you're wearing clogs, you're much better off wearing smaller or more stable heels, or flats. Your feet and spine will thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/14 01:00 AM |
| 5 | DAE have this "problem"? (Embarrassing... Please be nice)As a pear shape who loves to run every day, I get what you're going through; what you'll probably have to do is take pictures of your progress every week and figure out a balance of how other areas of your body look after getting fit, compare them with earlier pictures when you had bigger boobs, and then decide which one looks better overall to you. It might be worth the sacrifice if you're slimmer in all the problem areas, especially since you didn't have big ones to begin with. You could conti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Well RPW, you've finally intrigued me, but I need to know how a transgender person fits or doesn't fit.We encourage members to make and use an account exclusively for RPW anyway; if you're commenting on other subs with the same one you use for RPW, people are going to eventually call you out and shame or discredit you for posting here - it's happened to us before. It also helps to conceal your identity if you use separate accounts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Feeding and watering your boyfriend?Haha, good! I felt almost silly suggesting it, figured you might have your reasons, but sometimes we're so used to things being complicated that we overlook the simpler solutions. Enjoy your dinner date! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 09:56 PM |
| 8 | Feeding and watering your boyfriend?What if you cook him a nice meal and bring it to his place for a netflix dinner date? He still gets good food and you both get privacy. Maybe the couple wouldn't mind you using their kitchen as long as you put the dishes in to soak and wash them later. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 09:42 PM |
| 9 | Any RPW out there consistently initiate sex with your S/O? Want your advice.As much as we value deference in most situations, I think sex is one area in which many men can appreciate a woman taking initiative or even a semblance of 'control.' It's not that hard to get women warmed up to horsing around, so it makes sense that men initiate more since they pretty much have to be aroused enough to keep an erection for sex to be physically possible. But that doesn't mean we can't initiate as well. Really, the fact that they have to stay hard and perform, they probably apprec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Is this appropriate conduct for a woman?Approaching someone to ask him out doesn't indicate to him that you sleep around, but it could potentially be interpreted as desperate, unless the guy is so popular that he's used to women raining from the sky. But say, for example, that you do ask a man out and things develop into a relationship, then you find out later from his friends ribbing him that he wanted you too, but was too scared or shy to initially approach you - I can see where that would affect attraction if the woman perceives hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/14 11:43 PM |
| 4 | CryingExcuse the length, this topic really interests me! I do cry, sometimes; despite making a conscious effort to think as rationally as possible about problems and situations, I'm extremely sensitive, and feelings will override my brain. Thankfully, it usually happens alone, but it's embarrassing or uncomfortable for me to break down in front of anyone else because I prefer to discretely internalize feelings. However, I don't feel that the accompanying embarrassment is completely justified in many s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/14 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for the Ladies who have embraced RPWow, that's really interesting! Please excuse the assumptions, there are just so many Americans on reddit I imagine everyone as living in bald eagle land. And yeah, people like to think that things are just a 'phase' and it'll definitely take time to sway them into accepting it, especially when the couple is from two different countries and they might have to consider where you guys plan to move and raise a family, etc. Good mutual friends are a plus, sounds like you both have a great battle pla… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Question for the Ladies who have embraced RPIf you don't mind my asking, what's the language that your sisters spoke to try and exclude your SO? Cultures and languages are very interesting to me, and it sounds like you and your sisters are within the first couple generations of having immigrated here (assuming you're American.) It's pretty silly for them to want you to just marry a black man merely for his color when he might not even know his genetic ancestry or have anything to do with you guys' culture anyway. Africa is a massive conti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | #NoNothingNovember - a Manosphere.com and TheRedPill sponsored challenge...A bit late to the party, but starting tomorrow until December 4th... - No chocolate. I never go more than a couple days without it - cashiers have thought that someone at our house was pregnant because of all the junk food I buy... and at least 90% of my candy intake is chocolate, so this solves two problems at once! - No sleeping in past 7. It makes me feel crappy, and I'll never go for a jog if it's not early in the morning, so I'm gonna wake up early and jog 4 miles almost daily, like I used … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 09:49 PM |
| 2 | #NoNothingNovember - a Manosphere.com and TheRedPill sponsored challenge...Stop buying food at school. Pack a lunch and leave the cards at home. I'm a little late to respond, but this is a great idea. You're gonna save so much money doing this! $5-10 a day adds up very quickly, and you also get more control over your diet by bringing your own lunch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, shave your face!Haha, you got that reaction too? They acted like it was going to grow back all black and furry if you dare to use a razor on your arms. People believe some crazy myths. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/14 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, shave your face!Great video, her personality is hilarious! I've being doing something like this for such a long time that I forgot how odd and unheard of it is. Plucking the upper lip hairs always leaves stragglers, but shaving is so quick and thorough that you'll all love it once you try it. It only takes 2-3 swipes to get all the hairs off your lip in the shower; that's about 5-10 seconds of your time and it keeps you from looking like Mario the rest of the week. If you don't have this device, you can try a r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What if everyone actually had only one soul mate?Solid article. Sorry if this is rambling, but... life would be miserable if everyone only had one single possible soulmate that they had to hope beyond all hope to run into, out of the billions of people on the planet - and that's even if you only included the people currently living. I've never understood why it's so widely romanticized... isn't it more special to select one person out of many that you can believe with all your heart in, and then build a fortress together against the world, aga… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/14 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Ladies in my attempt to understand my RPW. I was wondering What Meyers Briggs personality are you Ladies? I am a STRONG ENTJ.I'm an INFP, but have been in relationships with an ENTJ and an ENFJ in the past. There are only a handful of INFPs and ENFPs here, with most of us being INTJs. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/14 06:29 PM |
| 8 | Ursula says some interesting truths!Good post! And you know, Ursula being the villain doesn't even discredit the truth in that - Disney villains in particular are well planned-out manipulators, with motives, desires, cunning, wit, and intelligence - they just use those traits to do evil. Just look at Frollo, Mother Gothel and Scar. Sure enough, despite how much Eric loved her singing voice, he was swayed by Ariel's beauty and personality despite thinking that the 'beautiful singer' was another woman - he was ready to move on from … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/14 08:43 PM |
| 3 | A difficult announcement to make.FleetingWish has had a lot of good comments to add to the sub, and it's saddening to think of anyone going through this. Thank you for making the decision to share this news with us; nobody should have to feel alone at a time when they most need a web of emotional support. We're all here for each other through situations like this - hopefully, the news on the test results turns out to be good. You two will be in our thoughts until then. <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The special things you do.That's the best idea ever. I'll have to use it. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 02:54 PM |
| 6 | The special things you do.Make him some iced coffee in the morning before he heads off to work! :) All it takes is a good blend (I like Farmer's Brothers) and a good flavored cream, like International Delight. Hazelnut and amaretto are the best. Make it stronger than usual, almost too strong (so it'll still have good flavor when the ice starts to melt in it) and then add milk and some of the sweet creamer and pour it over a tall cup full of ice. It's like having Starbucks in your house, and it's so refreshing on summer m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 01:35 AM |
| 6 | Would you encourage lying to a potential SO about sexual history?It's not a good idea for girls to lie about it. She'll feel a twinge of guilt that will grow over time, and then she'll think to herself, "If he'd known the truth, would he still be here with me right now?" When the guilt of lying becomes too much to handle, she'll come out and be honest (or her SO could find out some other way - yikes) and then there goes the trust - the foundation of their relationship is shaken, maybe even crumbled. It is so, so difficult to rebuild lost trust; it's far easie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Are women capable of empathy and love?even if you were initially attracted to some poor bastard, unless he's a natural or has read some Red Pill literature, he's bound to mess up by making you feel like his mother in the relationship, instead of his woman. Fantastic post. I'd love to see more of your thoughts around here; hope you decide to linger around the henhouse! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/14 06:06 PM |
| 3 | The consequences of being a plateOn the rare occasion that a guy wants to turn a plate into a relationship, you'll probably be able to tell that you have won him over, but you will have already had sex with him by then and your status as plate or potential partner is completely at his mercy. If you try this with several men and fail, it adds extra notches to your bedpost. It can happen, but it's not worth the risk, and it's not a good feeling to be in limbo while you wait for the man to decide if he thinks you're worth anything… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/14 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I (the husband) failed at being nice about fake eyelashes.Not sure if this is serious or not, but I just want to say that you made me laugh to tears with your descriptions. :,) Thank you for making my night that much better! I suggest buying some light brown lash extending mascara (it goes well with red hair) and leaving it in an obvious spot with the rest of her makeup, or maybe tape it to the bathroom mirror. If she doesn't get the hint, buy some fake lashes of your own and wear them casually around her. Then tell her that you'll remove them when she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Best Response to Cat-Calling?Exactly - what's the point of saying mean things? Who are they trying to impress? If the catcaller is a potential safety problem then that behavior might only provoke them to be more aggressive, and if they're not, then they aren't going to care anyway. It's not as if they're gonna say "Whoa-hoa! You sure got me with that comeback!" | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Best Response to Cat-Calling?When they call you sunshine or the catcall is otherwise polite, it's fine to smile, acknowledge them and then show you're taken, as you have been. They won't be offended by that and it'll get the message across. ... if there ever IS the vulgar variety, what response do I give? Play deaf and keep walking? Yep! When the cat call is vulgar, I generally just ignore it or somehow shy away from it, like pretending not to hear - I haven't given it much thought until now, but it's just it's been my natu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/14 10:36 PM |
| 5 | How can I get my wife reading and applying everything in RedPillWomen?I think that as you implement your goals in the relationship and she responds by doing the things you ask of her, she'll eventually get into it and start taking those steps on her own. For example, you can have her buy a dress or have her give you a BJ and she'll comply - and while it's not as good as her volunteering to do it herself, as she gets rewarded by you for doing these things she will be encouraged to keep doing better. Eventually she will probably start taking some steps on her own, a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Question about "The Wall"I'm still plowing her like a Nebraska cornfield. You're a good man! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Don't be this woman,Three entire years without a 15-minute window to spare? No energy? Come on. If she has energy to walk around the house, she has energy to have sex. Guess what she could've been doing in the time it took to write that article? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 03:26 PM |
| 1 | 11 Old-Fashioned Relationship Habits We Should Bring BackAww, this is a beautiful list, and the story about the elderly couple is sweet. I like 4: Work together and help each other grow. There is no soul mate or best friend out there who will solve all your problems. There is no love at first sight that lasts without work and commitment. But there are, however, people out there worth fighting for. Not because they’re perfect, but because they’re imperfect in all the ways that are right for you. You compliment each other’s flaws in a way that allows yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 03:10 PM |
| 4 | The wonder of fresh flowers in a clean, well lighted place.This is just another reason to keep a garden or at the very least, have some plants that give many flowers but are relatively easy to take care of. Lavender is sturdy like a weed and gives off many aromatic blooms; rose bushes can give many blossoms if they're pruned properly; and rose of Sharons grow plenty of beautiful flowers each summer as well. We like to pick some of our rose of Sharon blossoms and float them in a crystal bowl filled with water. They only last a day (in plain water with no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/14 02:46 PM |
| 3 | How to be more graceful?This is great advice. Shyness can be endearing, but if you want grace, you need to emanate a quiet, feminine confidence. Practice being more aware of and deliberate with your body language, your walking pace, looking where you're walking, etc... then you're on your way to gracefulness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/14 06:03 AM |
| 4 | [FR] "You look like you should be baking me a pie or something in that dress."Oh gosh, why did you have to show me this when I'm broke. It looks like a fine China teacup... I'm so impressed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 09:21 PM |
| 4 | What is one thing you really appreciate about your SO?Oh yeah, he also started swatting my butt when I pass by him and that has the same effect! It's hilarious :) Don't you just love that? It's so playful and fun, and it's essentially saying, "Don't forget who wears the pants!" | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 08:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "You look like you should be baking me a pie or something in that dress."Aw, that's beautiful! No wonder it's sold out. You've given me ideas for nice prints - thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 08:32 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "You look like you should be baking me a pie or something in that dress."That's a great compliment! :) You've definitely made your impression. I second SoftHarem's fantastic advice - this is your cue to actually bake him a pie. He'll love it. Do you have a pic of the sundress, by the way? Or know the brand? It sounds adorable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 07:52 PM |
| 26 | [FR] I got a date! And it didn't go well.I smile and say "thank you for asking me out, but this isn't going to work out." Grab my coffee and my fish and leave. It's really good that you just abandoned him and his god-awful negs right then and there. What likely happened is that you no longer looked your worst, and he wanted to bring you down a few pegs (this makes me think that he probably wouldn't even have approached you if you had been dolled up when he first saw you at the dock.) Maybe he'll learn not to reveal his glaring insecuri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Advice please? Mismatched sex drivesThis is such a tough situation for you to be in. The only thing I can think of is that the first two months were the honeymoon period, so his sex drive was higher, and then it mellowed out to his 'normal' levels over time. If his problem is the depression like the others suggest, he could've been depressed before you guys got together, and then in that case, alleviating the depression could raise his libido. As far as the potential testosterone issue, it'd be really nice if he'd get tested... ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 11:46 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...Your apology was humble, sincere and perfect. Thanks for sharing this with us - situations similar to this have happened to me and I wish I'd handled it as well. (In that case, it was during a hike and I let go of his hand to go run up the mountain... strange how we do things with no thought given to how it could hurt someone.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Help explain 'the wall' to my dadWould you mind giving us an idea how old you are? Just because you can't get the very best man you would've been able to get in your 20's, and may be less fertile, doesn't mean it's over for you. Far from it. If you're fine being single, that's okay, and you and your sister probably just have to allow time for the reality to sink in with your dad. But don't throw up the white flag just yet if you think you may want an SO; at the risk of sounding like a fortune cookie, aiming for a realistic but … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 05:24 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else find feminist men unattractive?he actually cried once because he left a handprint on my ass. Hahaha, god. This is the kind of thing that you just wish was made up. My sympathies, and congrats on your man! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 09:06 PM |
| 14 | Does anyone else find feminist men unattractive?OMG, thank you. You have freed me from my chains. Now I am able to find the most placating, doting, groveling and submissive man of my dreams. Whereas before I might have hoped for some horribly abusive and oppressive life like this, I now know that, in fact, something like this far more fulfilling and equal! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 06:22 PM |
| 20 | Does anyone else find feminist men unattractive?Ew, ew, ew! Damn that mental image to hell! I'd rather live a celibate life with 30 cats than have sex with that guy even once. If someone said "Menina, you can sleep with the man in ToastTot's example or jump into that woodchipper," the crime scene cleaners would have to pick my body up with a sponge. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 06:03 PM |
| 3 | For Women that don't feel that they are naturally attractive or feel uglyI didn't notice any dust, but I think there were some ninjas cutting onions in my room for a second when I read that post. Those stupid onion cutting ninjas are at it again... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 03:59 AM |
| 12 | Girl ignores /r/askmen's advice, and goes hardcore RPW. Needless to say, everything goes better than expected.I think it was more the fact that she was loving enough to put a lot of thought into how to show her immense appreciation for what he did, combined with the lighthearted sense of humor that occurs with a singing gorilla. :) She essentially gave him something to brag about in front of his friends in addition to bringing him baked goods later on... sounds like a great relationship they have! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/14 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Moving to big city and going to university, ADVICE PLEASE.This is fantastic advice, especially the animal shelter volunteering and the facial SPF use. :] Even on a lazy day, if you really don't feel like putting on makeup, sunblock is a must - it's a great habit to get into. I highly recommend Aveeno Active Naturals (daily moisturizer w/ sunscreen.) It can be found at any CVS, really. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/14 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Plan: Ride CC, Further Career, DieHaven't read the that book, no. I do know, however, that it's possible for some people to live their lives out single and die satisfied, and that's fine if it'll make you happy! But for those that do want to be married and have kids someday, spending their youth sleeping with men that won't stick around for anything serious, and then relying on IVF and a sperm donor in their 40's (or worse, mating with a husband you 'settled for' and treat like crap because you can't stand him) is not the optima… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | "[Masters] are scanning social environment for things they can appreciate and say thank you for. They are building this culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully. Disasters are scanning the social environment for partners’ mistakes.”That's a great analogy - I'd like to hear more of that woman's insight sometime! So if a man cares enough to share something like that with his woman, she can reflect some of his excitement and try to just be excited that it means that much to him. It's like when you have no interest in a class, but you try your best to love it anyway, and your grades improve and it makes the whole experience more pleasant. Eventually, a girl might even develop a genuine interest in what he's talking about rathe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Those magenta flairs are so cute!!You did a great job! Very nice color choice. :) Thanks for taking my thoughts into consideration; it's so cool to see it in action! (Unless you were going to change the colors regardless, hehe.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 04:05 AM |
| 10 | Bindi Irwin Wants Young Girls To Cover Up“I almost wish I could tell young girls, ‘Look, in 10 years when you look back at yourself, you’ll cringe honey, honestly,'” she said. “A lot of times I want to grab these girls and say ‘Look ... in 10 years you’ll regret this. Just dress like who you are. Don’t try so hard. A pair of jeans and a T-shirt is just as gorgeous and even makes you look classier' I've always adored this girl and hoped to meet her in person one day when I visit Oz. Not surprised that she was raised with some common sen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | What womanly advice will you give your daughter/future daughter?You may be able to control which gender you get next time! Female sperm live longer, but swim more slowly, so if you want a girl then you could have sex about 3-4 days before ovulation, and the male sperm will have died off by the time the egg drops. Boy sperm swims faster, but also dies more quickly, so if you want a boy then it helps to have sex the day of, or day before ovulation. Hope this helps you two in the future. :] | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | What womanly advice will you give your daughter/future daughter?Hey DianaDew! I love your relaxing videos, they really help me fall asleep. :] That being said, I think this list is really solid, but there's one thing I would like to add my thoughts to: Don't, don't, don't share sexy snapshots of you. Men like to brag and women like to gossip This is so important. However, eventually, (hopefully within a committed, trusting relationship) she will probably take sexy pics of herself regardless of the warning, and even if the guy is 100% trustworthy, accidents h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Flair UpgradesIf they were hating on you, you are an official RPW. Congrats! :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Flair UpgradesI don't deserve a flair because I never submit any articles or say anything groundbreaking, but I just wanted to mention, it would be cool if the flairs (basic or otherwise) came in different color choices. :) That would add some diversity to them, and it'd be really pretty. Just a thought! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/14 06:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you ladies keep your nails?I usually let mine grow a little past my fingertips, so the entire white part of the nail isn't quite as long as a pencil eraser. Sometimes I'll paint a layer or two of diamond polish on them (it leaves the natural color of pink showing through but adds a glittery frost on top to make it gleam.) They're a natural color so they'll go with anything I wear. When I want to practice piano a significant amount, I have to trim them down so they don't go past my fingertips; otherwise, they'll snag in be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Managing Family Conflicts [update]This is great news - I'm really glad it worked out and that you found an effective solution, even if there's residual drama. I was upset for you when I read the initial thread; thanks for keeping us informed! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Wow, this place is awesome!Welcome! ^ ^ You aren't alone, feel free to express yourself in this sub! Even your SO is welcome to post here, too. Just out of curiosity, where did you happen to come across the link to RPW? Was it in TRP or mentioned somewhere? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why Every Girl Should Give Blow Jobs - from a girl's perspectiveThanks for the advice! That technique sounds like how a chipmunk looks when it eats, haha... I'll try that out someday. Another thing I found that helped is to hold your breath while it's in your mouth so you can't taste it; he'll have no idea, and it makes it a lot easier to handle. :P | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/14 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Why Every Girl Should Give Blow Jobs - from a girl's perspectiveBJs are great and they're a lot of fun, but when it comes to the finale, if I can't swallow sexily, it's better just to not do it at all. Trying to gulp it down and dissolving into dry-heaves is far more unattractive than just spitting... but props to all the skilled ladies that can make it look as easy as licking the icing off a cupcake! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/14 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Finally said bye bye to my belly-button ring :)I never get tired of the accent. This is the info I really needed, lol. Thanks for telling me, that's a nice story! :) I definitely understand why you'd want to retire there, it seems like a great place to live. Online dating is looking more appealing... | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/14 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Finally said bye bye to my belly-button ring :)How did you go about meeting your Aussie man, if you don't mind my asking? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 09:27 PM |
| 3 | can someone who is better at understanding men than I am help me figure out WTF is going on here?He's keeping in touch in the hopes that the situation will change - or that you will help change the situation. If he hasn't gotten sex from you after a month, he's not keeping you around for a booty call, believe me. He introduced you to his best friend and kissed you, and held your hand in front of people? Come on. He meant what he said, he cares about you and you know it; your brain is just trying to confuse you by analyzing things too much because you're worried. :P Gotta watch out for that!… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 08:25 PM |
| 7 | can someone who is better at understanding men than I am help me figure out WTF is going on here?All is not lost! I really think if you get past your anxiety and get your license (I completely understand by the way, I'm nearly 21 and haven't gotten mine yet for the same reason) that he will continue to see you. Your parents' plan to waste your youth and then start dating in your 30s is not a good idea, so make it clear to him that despite their wishes, you really do want to keep seeing him. 7 year age difference is not a big deal at all. In some of the successful marriages I've seen, the ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Quick question I'd love your perspective on.What if you make a habit of having the sink filled with hot soapy water while he's cooking? Then as he cooks, he just tosses the used pan or utensil into the hot water to let it soak. Take it from a lazy person, this way keeps the food from drying on them and getting all crusty, so it's really like they're being cleaned while he cooks. Just explain that it makes washing them later much easier for you and frees up time for other things. I'm sure he wouldn't mind spending 2 seconds submerging the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Need Morale Boost, Post Favorite Red Pill Related Songs That Make You Wanna Make Your Man A SandwichThis song is super sexy and James Bond-ish, I listen to it when I do dishes, lol. The lyrics are pretty RP, imo. The woman singing has a lot of admiration for him, and wants only him because he's just that amazing, in her eyes. Snake Eater Love that Drake song, btw! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/14 11:21 PM |
| 3 | What is your relationship with your father? What kind of man is/was he?I only had my dad until I was 5 or so, but I have some fond memories. He intuitively knew when I was too hot, too cold, scared... I walked around barefoot, and one time my feet were burning on a metal slide that I tried to climb up and I didn't know how to get down. He rescued me from that pretty fast. Despite his ADHD, he was like a big, calm, steady bear. He never let bad emotions stir him up; he only got excited over good things. Always assumed the best of people and took things in stride. He… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/14 12:49 AM |
| 9 | "This is what #femaledisadvantage looks like"Why would you even give your number to anyone if you're that paranoid or feel weird about the guy? The typical worst case scenario is that the date will be awkward or boring. Most first dates will be in public places anyway; it would be a terrible rape strategy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you spoil your man?I loved doing this, it lets you nurture and groom, and it's actually something that only you can do (since many men have muscle mass that makes them too inflexible to reach there.) Not to mention it's sexy, so you don't feel like a mom or something, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 09:59 PM |
| 22 | Choose wisely ladies.I can't imagine him being anything but a troll, honestly. Not simply because I disagree with him, but because some of those statements seemed too purposely crafted to be inflammatory and get a reaction out of you. After all, if he really felt that women aren't fit to have discussions with, why did he engage in the conversation with you? Why take his wife on dates if she's not going to talk about things with him - so she can eat in silence while he speaks with the nearest male? He even assumed yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/14 01:27 AM |
| 3 | And, now I remember why I hate human interaction. (bit of a rant)That's awful... crossing my fingers that he'll get a secret vasectomy somehow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/14 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What's your skincare routine?Morning - Proactive, all 3 steps Aveeno facial moisturizer with sunblock Makeup with SPF 20 (covering face, neck, collarbones and chest) Sunblock like Bananaboat sport spray or generic CVS lotion on any other exposed skin Night - Use ordinary sugar as a scrub to exfoliate and remove makeup. Exfoliation is especially important during PMS to avoid under-the-skin zits. If I'm too lazy or tired to do anything else, I at least do this. Proactive 3rd step (benzoyl peroxide lotion) Drink hot tea, rinse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/14 03:25 AM |
| 4 | And, now I remember why I hate human interaction. (bit of a rant)That is so disgusting. I would've lost my cool and tried to find her husband, warn him about her pregnancy scheme, and leave the party before shit hit the fan. Though he must have not even been there for her to open her mouth like that. :| Regardless, you have the self-discipline of a saint! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/14 02:56 AM |
| 1 | 29/31 by Garfunkel and OatesI know, I'm 20 and don't plan to waste these years at all. But I have way too much empathy for my own good, so just imagining being in that situation is unsettling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | The price of beauty - Where do you draw the line?Skin is the most important thing to care for, imo, even if it is a money vampire... I understand the dental situation; my molars are finally growing in and my teeth are unfortunately cramped right now, but the most urgent thing is keeping the sun at bay because you can get braces to straighten your teeth at any age, but you can't really replace your skin so it's important to stop the damage being done. I use Proactiv or a sugar scrub, then some sunblock, Aveeno moisturizer with SPF 30, and L'Ore… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/14 02:26 AM |
| 5 | 29/31 by Garfunkel and OatesIt's supposed to be funny but it's so sad, too. :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | RECIPE MEGATHREAD:Post you favorite recipes you love to make the most!Thanks! Glad you think so. :] | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/14 11:47 PM |
| 3 | RECIPE MEGATHREAD:Post you favorite recipes you love to make the most!Okay, this is nothing compared to you ladies' cooking, but it's a healthy staple I've been having for breakfast and lost some weight with. We have chickens so we eat a bunch of eggs and I look for good stuff to mix with them, and this is a pretty good combo. Menina's scrambled eggs: Eggs (surprise!) Green onions/scallions Cajun seasoning Chili powder Black pepper Jack or pepper jack cheese Salsa (good salsa, like Herdez, not that tomato sauce crap) or Tapatío Chop up the onions, start cooking th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | My SO is deadI'm so sorry. There's nothing I can say that would even scratch the surface of what you need right now. If you feel sometime that you need to just hear someone's voice and pour your heart out over the phone, feel free to message me, maybe we can set up a tinychat and just talk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/14 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Hamsters cheats on fiancé. Hamster survival skills kick in: deny, avoid responsibility, recruit, initiate witch hunt.That's what I inferred when I first read it, but in the comments it was clarified that OP's family called the cops because of the threat against OP that his ex warned him about. So thankfully it doesn't seem like he's being accused of committing a crime, and the cops are responding to the threat against him. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl Game PlanThis is such a cool idea because there's no guessing game of whether he might like it or not, and you don't even have to think of a meal on your own. I haven't tried it, but hopefully I'll remember to when I have my own kitchen. If I did this, I might even sort the best recipes by similarity of ingredients so I can make a trip to the store just once and prepare several new meals out of mostly the same ingredients. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | RPW on Cohabitation?Exactly - I think these same couples, had they not cohabitated, would have just married without knowing how incompatible they are living together and would've divorced from it anyway. Living together before marriage, at least for a little while, can prevent these issues further down the line if you're prepared to break it off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Getting rid of oneitis...for a guy.I have to disagree with the idea that you have to cut him out of your life forever. I recently went through a situation like this, myself... I was falling so hard for a friend last fall, but then I went almost a month without talking to him, explaining to him that I just needed some time. That month off reset my emotions, and now any romantic or sexual feelings are at 0.000% and I can hang out with him without any issues. It's as if it never happened and he's practically like a brother now (seri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What does your week look like with regard to exercise?Before I tore my foot arch I used to run every day, alternating between walking, jogging, running and sprinting, anywhere from 2-8 miles. I could shed pounds very fast by waking up early, drinking water and doing 2-4 miles before breakfast. After at least 30 minutes of jogging I'd do a random assortment of oblique crunches, windmills, toe-touches, planks, and push ups. Over the course of days and weeks, if you look at your stomach while doing the plank, you can watch the belly fat collect in one… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Woman puts up with abusive boyfriend for 5 years. Claims date rape and kinda blames TRP.The 6 year age difference isn't even relevant... she could've easily found an abusive 17-year-old guy that was just as much of a dick as her ex. My high school friend dated a guy her age and he treated her like garbage for years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/14 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you learn to dress like a girl?Oh that's cool! Sounds like you got it figured out. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you learn to dress like a girl?You don't need to hide your boobs! The t-shirts aren't fooling men anyway, they can't really be disguised... but you can showcase them gracefully and direct their eyes to other parts of the outfit. I have tiny boobs with a big butt, so I wear a lot of v-necks, empire waist dresses and shirts with ruffles at the top to balance out my figure by making them look fuller. So for a large chest, I imagine you could do the opposite: draw attention to your shoulders and collarbones. A halter neck top hid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/14 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Where does one meet one of you?You could encourage your friend to check out nearby wildlife conservations and animal shelters. Often unpaid or low pay, this kind of work displays a tendency to devote time to something other than themselves, and much of the job involves nurturing helpless, cute (=baby-like) things. That sense of nurturing could indicate a mothering instinct for her own future kids. When I went to the local shelter, I met some sweet, young and pretty girls there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/14 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Your RPW Jewish Mom makes you feel guilty....LOL, I couldn't help but be reminded of this clip, especially 1:20 onward: Mother knows best! School just ended so I'm sure I'll have more time to horse around in the chat now. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | HairThat hair is cute too! And since there are side bangs instead of frontal bangs, it's lower maintenance. And whoops, sorry about that. I fixed the link! Hopefully. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | HairThis has been my favorite haircut for the past five years: http://fisherwomenslacrosse.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/alexis-bledel-alexis-bledel-35266_766_1024.jpg You could even request more layers around the face. It's a really soft look. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 06:18 AM |
| 15 | Woman dismissed from gym for being "too fit and making other members uncomfortable". WTF?She's cute, but not intimidatingly toned... I mean she's not Wonder Woman. I think the employee was just trying to tactfully enforce the dress code. Instead of saying "Cover up, you're breaking the rules" she chose to say "Hey, you're gonna blind us with your perfect form. Mind wearing this free shirt instead?" If a 500lb girl wore the same thing, they likely would've asked her to cover up in an equally flattering way. "Your womanly curves are intimidating all the anorexic 12-year-old-boy-women.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 04:49 PM |
| 2 | An interesting Red Pill-type trend in recent video games that I have noticed.The 3rd person protagonist is a character. The 1st person protagonist is the player himself. I think I get what you're saying now... no matter what the reasons are, it's still horrific when she suddenly drowns him/you. The experience was probably not as severe for me since I'm not a man; Elizabeth was more of an equal, even the same age as me, so I didn't feel very protective even though the game intended it that way. I might have felt the protective instinct more strongly if she was a small chi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 04:27 PM |
| 2 | An interesting Red Pill-type trend in recent video games that I have noticed.In the of the story, she actually betrays and murders the first-person protagonist. That's your reward for beating the game. I wouldn't call it a betrayal - it was hard to watch, but iirc, she was fulfilling his goal and he made it very clear that it had to be done; he just didn't know it would go down that way. But killing him there only killed off the many other bad timelines; the 'original' Booker and Elizabeth actually lived and were able to have their normal lives after that. Also, in the w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/14 01:48 AM |
| 1 | An interesting Red Pill-type trend in recent video games that I have noticed.Not to mention she's abusive! I recall some scene in the first game where she slapped or punched Fang for no good reason. She reminded me of that moody 5-year-old kid in every kindergarten that hasn't learned not to hit people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/14 01:43 AM |
| 2 | So how do you girls react/feel about strangers hitting on/cat calling?I actually like getting cat called, honked at, whistled at... etc. I'm completely ordinary looking (6? Maybe 7) so it means a lot to get spontaneous complements. Sometimes it's hard to tell if they're honking because of my appearance, because they know me from somewhere or because they're just encouraging me while I'm out jogging. Either way, I just smile and wave back to them to acknowledge the complement. Whistles and comments about my hair, complexion or outfit always give me warm fuzzies. Bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen, what is your idea of a perfect man?Haha, you just described my ENFP brother to a T! They're great guys, loads of thoughtless fun. :) I'm an INFP so we make a great team, like twins or something. One thing's for sure, you'll never get bored of your bf. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/14 05:53 AM |
| 8 | I guess I belong hereMuch of the sub is about anger and resentment. Yeah, it's pretty much their space to relieve a lot of anger. Giving an apology for all women doesn't help alleviate that anger as far as they're concerned because you aren't the women that hurt them... and the women that caused them pain likely don't feel bad about whatever mistakes they made, and probably never will. I'm sensitive myself, so I'm sorry if you feel bad after getting the response that you did. Sometimes it's too much to even read tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/14 01:29 AM |
| 3 | A question about SMV and height.I'm not gonna lie; as you know, height is important. It's easier to feel dainty and feminine when your 'protector' is bigger than you. But it's important to note that being big isn't necessarily the same as being tall. You can probably make yourself big at the gym even if you aren't tall; a shorter tank is still a tank. I'm 5'5 myself but I have accepted advances from strong 5'5-5'7 men and have turned down guys above 6' who were built too lanky. It's almost as if having less length makes the mu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/14 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am NowThanks for your response! Sorry I'm late, wasn't expecting a reply because it told me it wouldn't post the message since this alt account is too new. That makes sense - it must be strange (good?) to suddenly have an influx of attention. After losing weight, it's so weird to 'feel' heavy and then look in the mirror and then get reminded that you're not anymore! Totally get you on the red flag issue - it's not exactly the same, but I have hip-length hair and sometimes I feel that guys may be repel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am NowGod, I'm turning 21 this year and am still a virgin. I can't fathom how many guys she could have possibly been with to have this revelation. Whoa, that's impressive. Same age here but I gave it away at 16 to keep the person I was in love with (risky, but it was successful.) Only been with two people but sometimes I wonder what it'd be like to still be a virgin. How do guys respond when they find out, if you don't mind my asking? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/14 10:35 PM |
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