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Okay well I'll leave it with this. My dad cheated on my mom very early in their marriage. And then he promised to never do it again. And he didn't, for a very long time. He "changed". And then, once my mom became a SAHM in a country she couldn't legally work in, he started cheating on her again. So she was completely financially dependent on him, couldn't practice her career even if she wanted to. And it sucked. It was awful to watch my mom agonize over it, about what to do, they fought over it …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:15 PM
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I guess that maybe I just don't understand what the single life is all about. To me, single life is for hooking up, which I don't really want. I'd rather be single or dating with the intention of marriage. Like I don't need to settle down right now. But I'll be much more mindful going forward in dating and making sure to vet men for traits that I need in a husband, whereas in prior relationships it was just enough to like the person and want to spend time with them. I guess I'm just wondering if…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:45 PM
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We didn't have a rough relationship, we actually had a good and healthy relationship. But I feel weirdly okay that it ended. I am trying to focus on myself. I just don't think I could go a year without making an actual connection with a high value man. I guess I'll just have to see what happens.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 03:05 PM
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You can't expect someone to change, maybe they will, but they probably won't. Plus you said your boyfriend is still CURRENTLY talking to other women. And you want to marry someone like that? Have you vetted him at all? Who cares if he is buying a ring if he's a shitty boyfriend. Marriage doesn't magically make all your problems disappear. What makes this guy so special that he's worth putting up with his sneaking around and talking to other women? I really want to know.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 02:44 PM
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Huh. I don't know a lot of 26 year-olds with kids. Either way, still doesn't change the fact that your BF is immature and clearly doesn't prioritize your relationship over his relationships with other women. It's a lot of unnecessary drama to deal with. And he probably won't change. He's shown his true colors. Why would you want to stick around for that?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 12:03 PM
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My first relationship was bad. I hate to use the word abusive, because it seems so extreme, but he was very controlling, would break and damage my stuff when he'd get mad, very intimidating, he did hit me once though it was not that hard. I definitely felt trapped in that relationship since he didn't like me having friends. Weird. I probably carried some weird habits over from that relationship into my most recent one, I wasn't very good about being open and I had trouble opening up at first. I …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:16 AM
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Move on. You can't negotiate desire. My first boyfriend had a low libido and it was really bad for our relationship. I have a high libido. It was really hard to have guys hitting on me or showing legitimate interest and then to meet up with my boyfriend who wasn't in the mood to have sex. It made me feel bad about myself, even though he thought I was attractive... his own roommates would say how attractive I was. I was much happier in the next relationship with a guy who has a normal sex drive. …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:57 AM
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I have always been friends with my SO, idk how you can spend years with someone and not become friends as well as lovers. But it would bother me if I wasn't my SO's physical ideal.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:47 AM
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After the initial infatuation period, you choose to love. It's not a red flag, though it's kind of weird that he already mentioned that. Also he is younger than you. Are you looking to get married? You probably want to date someone older, if he's 25, he probably isn't ready to settle down yet. Don't ask about being his girlfriend, he knows you want a relationship. Let him pursue you. Let him make plans. If he wants to be with you, he'll make it happen.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:42 AM
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Lose weight, put in effort. See a therapist if you're depressed. Don't hit at your BF that you need to lose weight, just do it. I'm not really sure why it's something you needed to hint at him, what was the purpose of that? It's your responsibility to pull your weight in a relationship and that includes taking care of your physical appearance. "he is a jerk for saying to lose weight, he should love you for who you are" this is some sjw BS. When I started dating my BF, I was 5'9" and 125 lbs. My …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:33 AM
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A 40 year old guy who fucks around is increasing his pool of women to choose from Why would a high SMV woman want to marry a 40 year-old? There's a reason he's 40 and still single. He probably has multiple failed relationships and baggage that accompanies them. He'll be an old father, he'll die earlier. As a 23 year-old, I would never consider a man who is 40. I've started dating again and when I see attractive guys who are 33+ and single, I definitely wonder WHY they are still single.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:24 AM
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If I were you, I'd let him initiate more conversations. It doesn't sound like he is that into you from what you've written. I would say that maybe he doesn't like texting, but since you said he texts his friends a lot, that's not the case. I disagree that women are leaders in the relationship. If a guy likes you, he will make an effort to see you, to talk to you, to call you on the phone.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:06 AM
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Yes absolutely. I think it's funny when men pretend like they don't...or that they age so well. I'm 23. I'm most physically attracted to guys who are 24-27. Some older guys look good, but they are not as physically attractive as younger men. I don't find most men in their late 30s attractive. And sexual attraction is important in an LTR, at least for me. The only reason they don't "hit the wall" the same way that women do is because women place more importance on other traits: income, ability to…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:01 AM
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Don't rebuild trust, move on. You really want to marry a man who has a kid with another woman? Who has feelings for another woman? Who likely cheated on you? You are not even married yet. Get out now.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:57 AM
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Not hard at all. If a guy is interested in you, he WILL pursue you. My ex pursued me for 6 months even though he knew I was in another relationship. Guys will do a lot for a girl they're interested in. Don't chase guys. If they aren't approaching you, it means you need to work on your appearance. Do you work out? Are you fit? Do you have an attractive face? Are you fun to talk to?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:52 AM
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How often do you have sex? I don't care if my guy watches porn, my ex used to watch videos of me to get off which is kinda cute when you consider he could be watching anything else. But if he watched porn instead of having sex that would bother me. Have you gained weight recently? Is there something about you that is less attractive? Have you asked him? If he isn't putting any effort into sex than he either doesn't enjoy your sex or isn't attracted to you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:49 AM
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No, he won't respect you more. It doesn't sound like he respects you now. He's already broken up with you multiple times. Is this someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? Are you trying to marry this man? Some of it is likely your fault. Don't date someone expecting them to change. Don't move in together really fast. Don't get back together with someone after they REPEATEDLY break up with you. You're almost 30. But your relationship makes you sound like you're 21. So many red flags.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:42 AM
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Good - I've been lifting weights regularly again. Bad - I've been way too stressed, not enough sleep, and it definitely shows in my emotions. I need to figure out how to get that under control ASAP. Ugly - My motivation has taken a huge hit. I'm thinking it's a lack of sleep so I'm going to try to prioritize that this week.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 12:45 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 08:15 PM
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No I don't look down on "non RPW seeking to be a homemaker". In fact, I think any woman prioritizing homemaking is a good thing. I'd say my mother wasn't classically RP, but she did a great job raising me and my sister and sticking by my dad. My "hate" is for women who find a husband, decide to stop working, and don't contribute anything to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 07:47 PM
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LOL. There is a difference between finding a man to fund your retirement and having kids and wanting to nurture them when they are young. If you read RPW, you would know that ALL OF US ARE DIFFERENT. However nobody has ever said "help me find a husband so I can stop working" ...there are lots of BP/feminist/nasty women who look to find a husband when they're 30 so they can stop working. The women looking for that are NOT the same women trying to improve themselves and their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 06:58 PM
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That's how I read into this post too. Maybe OP doesn't realize it, but she's feeling slighted because he is talking about his future without her (or making comments to suggest a future without her). She doesn't mention whether she wants marriage, so she should figure out that much first. Then I definitely think they need to figure out each others relationship goals... If he doesn't want cats, is OP willing to give them up? What about children? Does he want marriage? What will OP do if they don't…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 06:07 PM
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Is this relationship worth saving? You talk a lot about your SO's faults and things he does to slight you. It also sounds like your SO doesn't consider you when he talks about his future; he doesn't want cats, he doesn't want children, he doesn't see you living together anytime soon. You're 28, have you had the marriage talk yet? Is marriage a goal for you? You also say you are passive. If these are BIG problems, and not little things that you need to let slide, then you need to just TELL HIM. H…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 05:59 PM
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You sound like me! I also think my introversion is my biggest flaw. I have a limited group of friends, though many acquaintances. I don't mind it so much. However my boyfriend is very extroverted and sometimes I end up comparing our social circles and find that I weigh too heavily on his.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:40 AM
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I could say that about where I live. I chose to live with 3 girls, not my boyfriend (and we've been dating two years). Cohabitation doesn't lead to marriage a lot of the time...which is the goal of RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 11:53 AM
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I find it more attractive than not, provided he has much more to offer than his sexual history. I don't believe it is a problem and I don't think men develop the same connection that we women do for the men with which we are intimate (just check out the TRP sub for a few examples). If he is interested in you, then pursue it. If this is just a crush, I suggest you work on yourself, be attractive, etc. If he's had that many sexual partners, he has options. You need to be better (both physically an…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 11:45 AM
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Moving in with someone is HUGE. It is not just circumstance. I personally would only live with an SO if I were engaged or married. There are no promises in life and living together totally complicates things. I'm sorry if this is harsh, just something to think about for future relationships!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 02:10 AM
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Oh man. I have abandonment fear for sure :/ my first relationship started when I was 15/16 and lasted 3.5 (hellish) years. It only ended because my current boyfriend put it a lot of effort to date me and get me out of my last relationship. While I am in a great relationship, I really wish I'd had experience being single. I do have hobbies and friends, but my ex severely limited my social interactions. This is a hard situation :/ the only advice I can give is to truly cherish this time and really…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 02:05 AM
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Maybe he should have rephrased the question "Is it wrong to say this woman would not make a good wife or mother for any sensible, self-respecting man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 10:14 PM
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I love this! I've definitely started to STFU more recently. I think it's very undervalued, you really don't have to talk about every little grievance. Plus when it's the minor things, I tend to forget about being upset pretty quickly anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/16 10:05 PM
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I don't think you understand the common definition of politically correct. Political correctness is generally used by SJWs as a blanket statement to prevent any kind of prejudice. And where are you getting the fact that he's saying exactly what the republican base wants to hear? He's for a single payer healthcare system, which the republican base hates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:57 PM
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How are they different? Women are women regardless of age. As long as the women are legally adults, what is so horrible about their choice to date older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:48 PM
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Why? What exactly makes them "immature and lacking something in life" because they date young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:46 PM
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Lol there is currently equality!! Besides how much more "equal" can an old white guy be? Trump wants a single payer system for healthcare, which sure beats the mess we have right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:31 PM
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Then maybe your definition of politically correct is different from what it commonly refers to (ie "lets ban all muslim immigrants" "lets build a wall and let mexico pay for it" "lets send all the anchor babies home" the megyn kelly fiasco, etc, etc.). Also many career Republicans do not, in fact, like him, because he disagrees with them. And all politicians are full of hot air. Obama made a million promises which he never fulfilled. At least Trump isn't afraid of stepping on a few toes or pissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:27 PM
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WOW I can't believe you made a whole rant post about this...you were whining. You weren't contributing to the discussion. You got upset because we weren't telling you how to be sexual with women. If you'd read the first bit of RP info, it's that you shouldn't ask a woman for dating advice anyways. If anyone was sensitive, it was you. This is the exact opposite of what you should be aiming for.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 12:10 AM
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This week my boyfriend wanted us to do something pretty inconvenient for me. I started rattling off the reasons WHY it was inconvenient. Then something clicked and I just told him what I wanted. And he said "well why didn't you just say so?" I'd like to thank RPW for that little insight.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 10:25 PM
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Trump, because he's not PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:21 PM
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I can't agree more! Not only that, it's NOT healthy. Eating carbs, carbs, and more carbs (vegan cookies anyone?) is only contributing to the obesity epidemic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 10:09 PM
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It sound like his "nagging" is really him giving you his opinion. When I would say to my bf "you're really gonna eat one more!?" it's because I thought he was getting a bit pudgy and not working out enough. Same can be said for the other examples you listed. Obviously that is not something to aim for as a woman. However he is a man. Maybe you'd prefer he be more direct.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 07:39 PM
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LOL what is your problem? You're being rude to a mod who gave you a very good explanation on how to deal with marriage/LTR. BUT you're not asking about marriage/LTR, you're asking about a "strictly sexual matter" and your posts make it seem like you are a male. This is RPW, we're not gonna tell you how to be more sexual, check out the other numerous RP subreddits dedicated to just that. I'll tell you one thing though: being butthurt is REALLY unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 07:32 PM
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A mother should do all of that out of care for her child, not for 270K.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:37 AM
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You're still in the honeymoon phase, remember that. I didn't have any fights the first 8+ months of my relationship, I thought it was a miracle. Your time frame of 18 months gives you more time to vet the relationship, so it seems like you're aware of that at least.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 02:05 AM
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I did talk to him last night. Apparently he had feelings that I was not aware of. We rarely fight so I had no idea he felt the way that he did. I asked that he be more upfront with me so that this doesn't happen again. Me changing my behavior and enjoying myself more will probably go a long way in fixing things.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 05:10 AM
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I see how me wanting him to spend time with me is a covert contract. I don't see what other covert contracts are going on however. And my boyfriend is nice; not all the time, but most of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 05:05 AM
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I haven't talked to him about it yet. I don't plan on doing so until after we graduate as it seems preemptive and there's no point in putting pressure on the relationship. I wouldn't say he's a huge partier. We usually go out together. However I have been much more of a homebody the past month and he is very extroverted. I never stopped to consider how this (me staying in all the time) affected him. If he was going out all the time, the situation would be different. He does stay in with me a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/16 05:05 AM
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I didn't argue with him, I stopped texting him. If the only way the I seem 'fun' is when I go out and get drunk, then that's not a very healthy relationship. I stated that I do go out, usually at least once a week, but I also have an intense courseload and hobbies. I was not feeling well last night, otherwise I probably would have gone out. The point of my post was to figure out what RPW would do in this situation. You seem to suggest that I pretend to want to go out every night of the week. I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 05:50 AM
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They'll notice when you don't have the telltale signs of being crazy. Trying to prove that you're not crazy, might make you seem more so!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 05:06 AM
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Liberal media has covered up the rapes by muslim immigrants in Europe (particularly Sweden). It seems as though it's worse to be racist than to defend women who have actually been raped...or something to that effect (I don't get it). edit: a word
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 05:03 AM
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If they ask, play it down. Don't make a big deal about it. You seem to think it's having a big impact on them, and don't let it be so. Show them that you could be a great SO, not one too focused on her career to care about them. Make them see you as a great girl, not a model.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:55 AM
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Your career should be somewhat irrelevant, however you seem to be putting a lot of focus on it. That focus might be more intimidating than the fact that you are a model/actress. Try to avoid discussing your career and see how men respond.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:43 AM
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We hang out with the same group. I wouldn't say that his friends are a problem. They're just young men in college. I don't think it's odd that they're looking for women/sex. I do however think it's odd that my boyfriend is so adamant on going with them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:38 AM
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My ex-boyfriend did this. At first, he just didn't like me going out without him, which was understandable. However he became increasingly controlling. He eventually told me it was him or my best friend. When I went away to college he didn't want me to have any friends or even roommates. Be careful with this!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:36 AM
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Focus with skincare, then you can forgo foundation. Plus it pays off in the long run. Start with the basics: mascara, blush, maybe a little eyeshadow. Nothing too heavy, nothing you can easily mess up. Get to know your own face and what flatters it. Some people look good with a bright lip, others look good with smoky eyes. I don't do either, because I think they're too obvious. However you might be able to forgo eye makeup in favor of a red lip, for example, and that might be easier to start wit…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:27 AM
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Because to be anti-muslim would be seen as racist. It isn't that feminists agree with Islam, it's that they see people of other races being supposedly victimized, and feel they must speak out. The fact that they are muslim (as opposed to black) is not as important as them being not white.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 04:02 AM
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As someone in a pretty great relationship only a few years older than you (21), I'd say that you would be best off ending things. If your relationship is meant to be, it will work out one way or another. College is a time for improving yourself and focusing on your studies. You don't want a relationship weighing you down. You obviously realize that already. Don't waste your time on a relationship that you don't think will make it. Find hobbies, focus on friends, and I'm sure you'll find someone …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 03:55 AM
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I have the paraguard and I love it. The hormones in other birth control made me moody and irritable. I haven't had trouble with bleeding or cramping except for maybe the first two weeks and I've had it for almost two years.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/16 03:02 AM
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If you're trying to work on your butt, I'd suggest hip thrusts and glute bridges. They target your butt a lot more effectively than squats. There's a book called Strong Curves by Bret Contreras (he also has a free website) which has other great butt exercises.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 11:30 PM
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I had a different cosmetic (though for me, it was mostly functional) surgery a little over a month ago and it was the best decision for me. I wish I had done it sooner, that's all I can say!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 11:26 PM
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Get a bigger booty! I wasn't able to work out & lift weights for the past 6 weeks due to surgery and my backside isn't looking so hot. Eat less candy. I don't have any weight to lose, but sugar is aging. Learn some new recipes and get more creative with my cooking. Get to bed at a reasonable hour so I don't skip early morning classes. Stop wearing yoga pants all the time. This one will be hard...they're too damn comfy. edit: formatting
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 11:17 PM
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No, I wouldn't. We'd disagree on fundamental things. He'd believe in higher taxes and welfare for nearly everyone and I couldn't be with someone who had such a different perspective on such things. I am in a relationship (2 years) and his political views are relatively unknown to me (probably because he doesn't lean one way or the other). I might mention my political views here and there, but I'm not in his face about it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 06:44 PM
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Well I'm a girl, so no.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 06:15 PM
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I too am conventionally attractive, but I also make an effort to maintain my appearance. Maybe I have low self esteem or something to that effect, because my appearance enters my mind quite frequently. It might just be that women may care more than others.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/15 10:02 AM
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OP never implied that you can only have one or the other. She said that being successful is not enough to make up for being unattractive. I'd have to agree. EDIT: spelling
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/15 09:57 AM
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I have a veryyyy liberal roommate. I completely disagree with her political views. Nevertheless, she is my friend. No good would come from voicing my political views and so I don't. It avoids futile arguments and prevents me from looking like an ass. So just because a girl doesn't spout her views to anyone and everyone, doesn't mean she is uninformed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/15 09:48 AM
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Totally agree with you. Unless you have weight to lose, I think that weigh lifting alone is the best way to achieve a hot body... I'm talking squats, deadlifts, hip thrusts, etc. I find that cardio is very time consuming and can result in the skinny-fat appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/15 09:42 AM
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What are you doing to change the situation? You complain about your husband throughout this post, even though it is supposed to be about you as the "nagging wife". It doesn't sound like you are making much of an effort to better yourself and improve your relationship. Focus on what YOU can do to change this situation. You can't change your husband and that should not be your intention. As for advice on how to limit the nagging...try focus on what you love about your husband. Take note if you are…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/15 09:33 PM
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I think that grabbing his leg is too forward, especially if he hasn't expressed any romantic interest. I would let the guy make the first move...if he's comfortable around you (which it sounds like), he'll let you know if he likes you. I'd suggest focusing less on this man in particular. Focus on bettering yourself and being attractive to men in general. You'll probably have a better chance if the man has expressed romantic interest rather than interest in being just a friend.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 09:47 PM
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I love strong curves! Bret Contreras has some really great butt exercises...they can be a bit awkward at first, but they're really helped me build muscle.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 09:35 PM
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Believing the world is a "bad place" seems very pessimistic. I am very grateful that my parents provided me with everything they did. Maybe you should focus more on making the world a good place for you future children (should you have them).
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 09:01 PM
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You guys have TIME. My boyfriend has time. I don't have nearly as much. That's why I'm considering this now.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 09:52 PM
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I've read the sidebar. I understand what MMV & SMV are. I don't know what implied that I didn't. I've never seen any thread directly related to my concern on this sub. Then, aim at your level. I believe I am aiming at my level. My boyfriend's SMV is lower than mine right now. I see his potential and understand that it won't always be. My boyfriend isn't some super alpha. Other girls aren't pursuing him now, but I'm sure they will in the future. He's a smart guy who I think would make a good capt…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 09:28 PM
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Is he taking about marriage in general or marriage with you? Marriage in general At worst, you two split up after 5+ years and he's married to someone else within the next 6 months. This is what I'm trying to avoid. Seems like I need to figure out his plans for the future and go from there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 09:08 PM
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We plan to be together after graduation, we know that. So we have discussed the future. We haven't talked about marriage because it seems premature at 21. His life goals: He wants to start his own business. He's a programmer at company where he'll have a full time job after graduation.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 08:54 PM
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My boyfriend pursued a relationship with me with the intent that I be his girlfriend. I don't see how that makes me a plate. But he says he doesn't plan on marriage anytime soon. I'm not asking (or suggesting) that he marry me now. I am wondering how long I should wait though.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 07:01 AM
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My boyfriend has committed to me. We are in a stable relationship. As far as implementing RP into my life: I don't complain about my problems to him, let him make decisions, am upbeat, make him food. I maintain my appearance, I'm fit, style my hair. I have hobbies: weight lifting, running. I am also a full time student so I can't really say that I am totally RP.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 06:16 AM
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This is my perspective on the matter. I don't expect my boyfriend to want to marry now, at 21. But I also want to be practical.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 06:06 AM
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I have NEVER talked about it with my boyfriend. He made a single comment about his friend's engagement, that's all. I agree that marrying young does not make sense for men. But my boyfriend and I are the same age and I want to believe our relationship will work out.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 05:52 AM
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We have never explicitly talked about marriage. We've talked about our future together and how we want to be together. I wouldn't discuss further commitment for at least another year. It feels weird, especially since most people our age are not engaged or married. I am also not trying to be covert. He was the one who pressed for commitment at the beginning of our relationship. I thought RPW is about maximizing your potential and I am just thinking all possible outcomes. Men say they want to marr…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 05:40 AM
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If I wasn't serious about my boyfriend, I wouldn't be thinking about marriage right now. I don't want marriage right now, but probably at 24-25. I really admire him. However I realize that my best interests and my boyfriend's may not coincide. I know he would make a great husband one day and I don't expect him to be ready now. I wanted input from this community on how long other women would wait. RPW talks about not wasting your youth/pretty and that's what got me thinking about this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 05:30 AM
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I'm 21 and in college studying engineering. I'll be graduating in 2016 and I'm pretty nervous for life after graduation. I've been in a relationship with a great guy for 2 years. He is smart, funny, and personable and I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever find someone better. A few months back he mentioned that one of his friends is engaged. He couldn’t understand why (since he’s so young) and said he didn’t want to get married anytime soon. He’…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 10:49 PM
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