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| 1 | Asking women for advice does not work.Stop trying to be the “good guy” who follows generic advice and then resents the outcome. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and understand the difference between being kind and being approval seeking. Blunt truth: women are not a hive mind and advice is not a cheat code to fix your situation... If you build yourself around validation, you’ll stay frustrated. Build competence, boundaries, and self respect instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:30 PM |
| 5 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.If the strategy is care less that’s not maturity… that’s just emotional withdrawal The real issue isn’t caring too much but i think it is when dating becomes your main source of meaning and validation. When you build a life with purpose, direction, and responsibility, you don’t need to play power games. You just are and you just care, but you’re not desperate. Detachment unfortunately is not strength, but having a grounded life outside of dating is (friends, family, hobbies, meaning, faith, mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)Historically people had more kids when they were much poorer than today. In many low income countries, including parts of Africa, today birth rates are still higher despite economic hardshiph A lot of it seems tied to modern individualism, shifting cultural values, delayed family formation, and a different sense of meaning and priorities in life. In wealthier societies, personal freedom, self development or recent unnatural trends like childfree often take precedence over starting families | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Group Houses Can Dramatically Improve DatingThis is basically modern society in a nutshell… we’re so starved for meaning and real community that we reinvent village life. We’ve reached the point where third places are just crowded group houses and forced socializing… kind of says a lot about how empty modern life has gottenand why dating apps feel hollow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)Low fertility isn’t some final verdict on motherhood is a bad dea, it’s usually a phase change when a society modernizes faster than its institutions can keep up, then incentives, norms, tech, and policy catch up and people rebalance. The bigger missing piece is meaning or lack of…when life is framed as pure optimization and avoid pain and challenge or selfishness, of course commitment looks irrational, but faith, community, and purpose are exactly what turn sacrifice into something livable. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)Declining numbers do not automatically mean motherhood is a bad deal. They often mean the surrounding system makes it harder to combine family and modern life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)Motherhood is hard and often undervalued, that is true. But calling it a bad deal ignores that many women choose it freely and find meaning in it. It is reasonable to opt out, but it is not reasonable to reduce it to exploitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:17 PM |
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