merewautt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Saw an instagram reel and it made me sick in my stomach about women Please go outside and talk to actual people instead of trying to extrapolate what’s going on outside from whatever weird shit the algorithm feeds you. (Especially considering you seem to be unable to even parse the English language. “I’ll never settle for the bare minimum after him” = he WASN’T the bare minimum, unlike other people. How you got the exact opposite from that to further fuel your freak out is beyond me). “Is this really how women think???” Jesus Christ brother. People who go outsid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 05:55 PM
13	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them Is this… a joke? You’re literally just quoting my second to last paragraph lol. If it is a joke, sorry lol. It’s not always clear on this sub. Disregard the next paragraph. If it’s not, please re-read everything I said. It’s all been addressed. And for someone who wants clear communication where words mean things, you sure are assuming a lot of intention for why someone would phrase themselves a certain way, one which is not in my post at all lol. In fact, a completely other explanation is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 06:58 PM
17	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them Yeah, I simply don’t relate to this dichotomy that talking to people like it’s their first day on earth and explaining every minute detail of a thought or idea with more and more words is the only “clear” or “good” communication. Certainly not for me, or really anyone neurotypical I know. If I’m resting my head in my hands and say “I’ve had such a long day, would you grab me a water?” to anyone neurotypical, they can put 2 and 2 together and suss out that I’m physically tired, maybe even have a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 06:22 PM
3	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Considering it was 0% under traditional patriarchal modes of operation— yeah, actually lol. Much feminism. Lmao that’s a 400% increase from without feminism. A field doesn’t have to be exactly 50/50 to be “feminist”. Just whatever x>0% that it was when women were literally barred from it lol. No one ever said “women need to make up 50% of the army! Just that the women who are interested (despite cultural norms and being raised otherwise) have the ability to do so. Youre fighting a straw man dude…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 08:01 PM
3	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Like I linked the other commenter, 43,000 women are there in Ukraine fighting now that the war has already started. Go find it and read. And many less women in Ukraine, probably especially among women who left, would even identify as “feminist” compared to other countries like US, UK, Germany, Scandinavian countries, etc. So women in general leaving is still not a dunk on “feminism” lol. Not every action a woman takes is feminist, because not all women even are feminists lol. And (obviously tbh)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 07:42 PM
1	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Doing something just to say they did it Lmao women literally joined. What are you talking about? This is not an argument. You’re not a mind reader, mind reading isn’t evidence, and the real evidence of women actually joining these fields disproves this outright. I can’t believe I’m even responding to this lol. Absurd thing to say like it’s reasonable and factual in a debate. Underrepresented in manual labor and warfare Hmm.. could it have something to do with them not being wanted there and lega…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 07:27 PM
0	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. That’s what participating is— not resisting, blinding doing what your culture has always done without thinking is a form by-standing and is participation lol. And again, participating at one point, in something that was already started, is still not causing it. Which is the argument the OP commenter was making. Tradition and patriarchal beliefs caused it. This is objective fact. It is nonsensical to pin feminism as the cause for something that began before it even existed. The argument is that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 07:03 PM
0	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Huh? I’m not even sure what you’re saying here. Added to what? The patriarchal norms that already existed about war? No they didn’t add to it, they just hadn’t resisted yet, as I said. Resistance which feminists have done consistently since then, much more than reactionary anti-feminism and tradition ever have. Consistent post-1920s resistance that makes the argument OP was making about males fighting in Ukraine or any modern war a result or hypocrisy of feminism completely incoherent. Again, as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 05:51 PM
-4	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Yeah— a cultural practice that is as old as Ancient Rome lol. Men have always been shamed for avoiding service in wars, long before feminism lol. And, sure, a specific subset of feminists in certain countries at the turn of the 20th century hadn’t evolved and shaken that historically patriarchal idea off yet. Feminists are still products of the cultural they grew up in lmao. They joined in what was already the patriarchal norm at the time, they didn’t create it, they just hadn’t resisted it yet.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 05:35 PM
0	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. It means blaming a millennia old behavior on feminism, which hasn’t even had a slight foothold on the culture for even 70 years, is bad argument for how “feminism harms men” lmao. That’s basic logic. So no, I’m sure plenty of those men don’t want to be cannon fodder, but it’s not feminism’s fault anymore than it’s fucking Buddhism’s. It’s just an incoherent argument. And feminists have campaigned to be allowed more than just nursing and clerical positions in the army all around the world. It was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 05:22 PM
9	The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice. Men fighting in wars and women and children not doing so is from way before feminism lmao. In fact it’s like the definition of patriarchal gender roles. And most feminists are anti-war in general. This point makes absolutely zero sense lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 03:16 PM
8	Why haven’t more men quit the market? Pot meet kettle? My opinion is based on the data— the exact opposite of you. I’m not saying “you’re wrong because you’re ignoring people”— I’m saying you’re wrong because you’re extrapolating your personal experience to society at large when the data doesn’t support that. I’m not even sure you understand what I’m explaining to you if you think this is a “pot meet kettle” moment. If your experience with dating were reflected in the numbers, go ahead act like it’s average— but in this case it isn’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:59 PM
15	Why haven’t more men quit the market? I don’t know how to break this to you… but people tend to end up in spaces in with people similar to them. If you’re a man who struggles with women— you’re probably not going to find yourself socially mingling with men who do well with them. You have different interests, different rhythms of life, different spaces IRL, and just overall different lifestyles. And that’s just in person— online is even more of an echo chamber. 20k men complaining about never dating sounds like a lot until you rememb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:32 PM
2	Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions? I’ve always thought a lot of the more rage inclined, rant-y, “everything is fucked and I’m doomed” ones would be diagnosed as borderline if they were women. The black and white thinking, splitting, rejection dysphoria, neediness, clear hierarchical/game theory thinking in interpersonal relationships, emotional outbursts (especially about what they think people think about them that sounds bizarre to any third parties), hostility/idealization, grandiosity, lack of insight, risk aversion to puttin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 06:59 PM
3	What is the logic behind dating knowingly bad men? There’s not a single woman on earth that you would call hot, and fantasize about fucking, but never actually date/marry? Or a lifestyle that seems exciting for a little bit or in an alternate reality, but you know would make you miserable long term in real life? It’s fantasy. Do I really want to ride off on the back of a motorcycle and travel the country, bathing in gas stations? No, in reality it’d be gross and dangerous. But there is something romantic about doing something drastic and differe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 09:24 PM
4	Are there any women here who don't like dominance and being rough in the bedroom? Yeah no, that has literally nothing to do with it, at least not for me. and I’ve craved/done both with anyone I’ve dated long term, so it’s definitely not just a “strictly this type with this guy” “strictly that type with the other one” thing. It’s literally a just a “mood” thing— like picking a meal. What feels like it would hit the spot right now. Sometimes it’s lazy and gentle, other times I’m dying to get thrown around a little. Usually it’s just random what kind of stuff I’m feeling, but I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 03:47 AM
4	Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest? Exactly what I was going to say. I was artsy and had a strong aesthetic sense very early on, and I always ended up hanging out with either the uptight (usually religious) Pinterest crafty girls, or the makeup/hair/nails/fashion girls. They were the people who were interested in conversations about color pallets, shapes, textures, application techniques and tools, etc. No one was ever excluded, but not everyone wants to talk about which shade of pink goes better with which shade of cream and what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 09:08 PM
1	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. I mean like women who wear makeup don’t get called names? Clown-faced, fake, lipstick on a pig, painted like a whore, high maintenance, vain, “like two different people”, trashy/dated, insecure, etc. People are going to have opinions on what you do with your appearance— that is not a uniquely male experience, not even with makeup. Every girl that you think supposedly “jumped two points with makeup” has people who think she looks terrible or has issues. It’s the price of using it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 07:20 PM
8	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. I mean he didn’t really offer an argument against it. He just listed it lol. It’s like making a post: Humans DON’T need oxygen. I know what you guys are going to say “cells that power our organs die and stop functioning without oxygen, we’ve seen it under a microscope” blah blah blah WHATEVER. And then acting self righteous when someone brings up cell functioning— “see, called it!”. I mean.. yeah you did… but you didn’t really argue or offer any evidence against it lol. Wow you called someone na…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 05:45 PM
10	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. Exactly. If everyone is wearing makeup, then the 9s with makeup are still 9s comparatively to the 8s, 7s, 6s, etc. The women would still exist in the exact same brackets they do now, just look a little more tired lol. No one is going from a 3 to 9 with makeup when the “real” 9s still look better barefaced and also have access to makeup lol. They just look like a dolled up 3 next to a dolled up 9. Makeup works even better on people who have naturally good features to highlight, so if anything, 6-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 05:07 PM
31	I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of it Exactlyyyyyy. And, as if men go “oh nooooooo, I must repent and change my ways. What, oh god, what, have I done to the culture?” every time similar talking points around women exiting the dating pool come up. They have the exact same response as those women on this sub every single day— “good, natural consequence of their relationship desires. If they want XYZ, I don’t want them anyway and they can be alone”. Like genuinely, what did OP expect? No one acts like that and it’d be weird if they did…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 06:46 AM
3	you aren’t forced to date anyone you’re not attracted to. I mean it’s reasonable to want a lot of things. I’d want a million dollars in my bank account tomorrow, and I think a lot of people could relate to that want. Reasonable to expect, though? The person who understands why I want a million tomorrow— I work hard at my specific job, and money is often tied to hard work— would still tell me I’m discounting other, additional factors like the field I’m in and the temporal aspect of how fast that is (by tomorrow) that still make the expectation unreasona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:28 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men If she leaves, then that’s not the woman he “got”… obviously. I’m talking about general bouts of monogamy interspersed with bouts of singleness before settling down with “the one”, which even the most average man can and does accomplish in current day, but (silently) isn’t good enough for the men on this sub. The dating market isn’t “fair” or successful in their eyes unless they can generally “play the field” and attract large amounts of women consistently and simultaneously. “Success” and “fair…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 11:01 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This is nonsense. Have you ever heard the term “necessary, but not sufficient”? It’s a basic tenet of logic. Having gas in the tank is necessary for a regular car to run, but not sufficient. You’re not getting anywhere without four non-flat wheels, an engine, etc etc. That doesn’t make “well you need to fill up your tank, first of all” bad communication to someone asking why their car isn’t getting the results they want. Her statement can be 100% true— that she likes tall men and preferentially …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 08:02 PM
–	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This is exactly why I don’t give men dating advice. They don’t hear advice or probabilities with all the limited controllability of reality, they hear a a promise. All you’ve done is make him feel like the woman who didn’t like him has broken some sort of vow, and given him “justified” anger at her for it. Have you ever heard men call women “liars”? When you actually drill down and ask about that, they basically just describe us not being a monolith or a video game they can grind out. The fact w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 07:50 PM
–	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it? I genuinely think a large amount of “pilled” men on this sub would be diagnosed Borderline (BPD) if they were women. Seriously, go check out the common beliefs/behaviors/cognitive distortions. Go read the posts on the borderline sub and compare them to the rage/pity/poorly coping posts, about the exact same thoughts and feelings and fears, on here. It’s uncanny. They’re exactly the same. We just see it differently when men do it, and men are less likely to go to a mental health professional and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 04:58 AM
7	Women are allowed to complain about the suitors they get but men can't Lmaoooooooooooooooo I genuinely wish I knew you in person so we could see when this doesn’t at all happen in 20 years, 50 years, 100 years, etc. Go outside. Men are not being held from holding public office without a female guardian and never will be. You are chronically online at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 04:17 AM
4	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. Yeah I got to that part and was waiting… like and….? It’s not women’s fault you have zero hobbies or social network and have to specifically “go on the prowl” like an animal. It’s not that hard to have a life, it’s a pretty reasonable expectation of a partner. It’s hilarious how the chronically online men in this sub see having mutual friends or a mutual hobby as this outrageous, 1/100,000,000 thing when it’s an incredibly low bar to expect in circles of well adjusted people. Just because it’s h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 07:14 PM
4	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Please take a look at your own comments on this thread and on this sub in general and see if they would qualify as “shutting up” the way you just used it and proposed it for women. They wouldn’t. Which, again, is hilarious. Please read your comments as if a woman wrote them and see if you wouldn’t criticize her the way you did in your first comment I replied to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:30 AM
1	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell DTMFA? What are you even talking about? I touch grass regularly, so you’re going to have to fill me in on whatever bizarre man-o-sphere acronym that is. In your comment you describe literally anything women say about their dating life as either “bragging” or “complaining”. Leaving the only option to not be wrong to you (the man) when they talk about dating as: to just not talk at all. When they do the “correct” thing or are struggling. And were upvoted. Which is hilariously sexist considering yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:27 AM
1	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell So per usual in the male subs and history in general, the only correct move for women is to just be completely quiet. Groundbreaking stuff you got going on here, guys, truly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:59 AM
8	Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why? Is it fair in that men can find sex partners as easily as women? No, obviously not. Is it more fair when you consider the higher risks women hold going into relationships (short or long)? Yes, quite a bit more so. Mostly though, I don’t think dating should be “fair”, if by “fair” you mean “guaranteed success for everyone involved”. Nothing that’s completely optional (I don’t have to date anyone my whole life) and consent based can ever guarantee success for everyone or you’re taking away people’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:51 PM
2	Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? Huh? Care to make an actual point against anything I said? Or just vaguely insult because you have nothing else to say	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:59 PM
2	Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? I mean that’s just the difference between consent and not consent? Like “wow you let that hot guy you like bang you, but when I do it I’m a sex offender?? Fucking women and their different rules for men they’re attracted to” Like, yeah I’m not going to be mad if a guy I think is attractive and I’m flirting with is in my personal space. I consent to it. And vice versa if you’re a stranger I have no interest in and you’re following me around and getting in my space, I’m going to make it clear that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:25 PM
3	What issues do you actually feel for women about? That’s absurd. We’re genuinely living in different realities if you think men never comment on women’s appearances, in the media or otherwise. The literal president did it. Every Ben Shapiro type online, including Ben Shapiro himself, has done it to AOC. You’re either being extremely intellectually dishonest in this conversation or it’s just so natural to hear that you barely notice it. Either way, reality says you’re wrong. Again, you don’t have to care, but let’s not boldfaced lie to justify i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 01:25 AM
2	What issues do you actually feel for women about? Again, those are consensual relevant contexts. I think the models in the fashion magazine know that their fashion is going to be talked about lol. & I’m sure it is “meh” when it doesn’t effect you. Don’t make me wrong. If you have to discount the ENTIRE internet, and stick solely to fashion paper media, the only place that kind of talk IS relevant, to erase the cognitive dissonance you have about men doing it— lol you might just be wrong. In which case, you don’t even have to comment. You can ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 12:33 AM
3	What issues do you actually feel for women about? As a woman who has experienced it, I categorically disagree. At best it’s 50/50. Men constantly talk about how sexy/gross any women they see are, which very often includes calling their clothes and styling “granny” “trashy” “Karen” etc. Especially in contexts where it’s completely irrelevant, like an older female politician. It’s always some random men in the comments bringing up how “gross” she is or how bitch-y her haircut and granny suit looks. Do girls and women care more about fashion and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 11:44 PM
2	What issues do you actually feel for women about? Yeah it’s typically aimed “outsiders”— be it via race or sex, etc. So I agree that race is relevant in why they bothered AIMING it at Obama (when they typically don’t think to for white liberal male politicians), but the reason people recognized and called it out as ridiculous at much higher levels (by a completely different group than the one who originally deployed it) is that he is male, and that most men aren’t used to fashion critiques aimed at themselves or other men. Michelle received ten…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 11:33 PM
19	What issues do you actually feel for women about? If you watch a video of any woman— doesn’t matter who or what they’re doing, there will comments about their appearance. It’s constantly evaluated. I can watch a video of an old male politician and not find a single comment about what he looks like. They actually have to have done something kind of offbeat for people to even notice they have a body they’ve put an outfit on at all really. The same video of a female politician, same age group even, will have at least 10% of the comments MINIMUM wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 06:29 PM
3	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Pretend it’s not. Or elaborate for a third party. Make a singular point towards what you’ve said. (I never challenged men’s lived experiences, just the conclusions RP instills into them about them). Seriously. Actually go for it if you have actually something to say, and aren’t just hearing something you don’t want to hear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 06:54 AM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Why do people push back about caring about n-count? Probably insecurity. Probably the same misguided idea that the widest appeal possible is necessary to find anyone. Possibly because of perceived hypocrisy and historical ties to unsavory acts against women. I don’t know, I personally don’t care what n-count opinions men have. I can guess as to why other women do, but again, I’m not their keeper. We’re just as varied in our opinions as men are and I don’t have to answer for them. This really doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 12:03 AM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I never advocated trying to look less desperate, the exact opposite actually. I count RP stuff under that umbrella and don’t think it works. Not that catch-22s don’t exist IRL either. They’re real things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:51 PM
2	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I’m not blaming or faulting anyone. I get the impulse. Being understandable on an emotional level doesn’t make it a great strategy in reality, which was the point I was making. Desperation doesn’t make for great strategy, I totally get that. Doesn’t mean that pointing out that the strategy chosen in desperation is bad is an untrue statement or unhelpful. It’s still the truth and still worth saying. except maybe the really hardcore creators and peddlers of this stuff, they’re grifters at bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 08:25 PM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I think most men are capable of finding someone. I just think that it might only happen once in their entire life, or only twice, or only three times, etc. That they may spend long stretches in between people. And that trying to increase artificially it is an exercise in wasted time, lying, and warping their own mind. And I don’t think that fact is pointless, fruitless, or redundant. If someone comes to terms with the reality that, while at some point they will probably come to find a match, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 05:28 PM
4	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Are you going to explain and refute any of my points specifically? Because nothing I said is contrary to what you all say yourself on this sub. I just draw a different conclusion from them, ones I find more realistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 05:23 PM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Seems we’re just having different realities here. Plenty of the men on this sub using the “get numbers-> apply filters later” are furious and have nothing but vitriol to write on here every day lol. And I don’t find it distasteful, I find a poor strategy. And no, you don’t have to resort to platitudes. I made no recommendations at all. I truly don’t think good dating advice (good as in a) will work for the person taking it, specifically b) works in a widespread manner) exists. We’re all niche pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:51 PM
1	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? It can be the least helpful point and still be reality. I’m not typing up to get a bunch of “thank you’s!” on the sub. Looking at the sub and the real world, everything o just said is just reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:45 PM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I just categorically disagree with the “get numbers -> apply filters” idea. The tactics work on the types of women they work on. They are a filter in and of themselves, and I think the continued rage men feel despite applying these tactics shows that if those are not the type of women that you respect or that you could have a truly fulfilling relationship with, then this tactic doesn’t actually make you “better at dating”. You guys debunk your own method every day with how rage filled you are at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 12:54 PM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Inauthentic is anything you’re not going to keep up over the course of the relationship. Or that a partner will see eventually for what it was— a tactic. Inauthentic traits are transitory and strategic, and as such are always a pretty bad basis for trying to find a partner. And no, not really. I think asking the question of “how” is inherently implying there’s some monolith (or should be), and the rage at there not being one (and thus there being no truly good advice) based on not much but misog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 12:50 PM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? No irony, was speaking on the men in the sub where that is titular question. Also, more importantly, no where do I imply that that one commonality makes it possible for me to give any woman advice on dating you all. Despite the trend on this sub that I was commenting on, I ultimately recognize men are individuals and give no advice based on that one commonality. That is not what is happening to women in the inverse. And to your second “point” (if you can call it that), I was speaking on women’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 12:41 PM
2	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? My whole point is that there is no “dating” advice, and that that’s not the result of any “wrong doing”. There’s only life advice because women are people and “game-ing” dating hasn’t actually made you all successful either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 12:33 PM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? Well, firstly a lot of men want to be with many women and not only find one. Yes, as I said word for word in my post. Because they do not actually want to date, they are seeking ego comfort and a social hierarchy ranking, which women often misunderstand when give them dating advice. Women give them advice on how to get in a relationship (which is what they ask) and don’t understand why men get mad at that advice and say it doesn’t work on everyone. They didn’t realize it was supposed to. That wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 06:10 AM
–	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? YES. They always view dating as getting “women” in general and ask advice along that vein, while women tend have A man in mind, who they already like and want to connect further with if they ask for advice and talk about dating. Like I’m amazed at how generic or inauthentic the men on this sub recommend being just because it’s been proven to “up the numbers”— as if upping the numbers inherently makes it good dating advice. There’s a ton of things I could implement that would give me many more pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 03:02 AM
33	Why do you think men are more right wing than women? Lmao this is what I don’t get about the “small government, private companies can provide schools and roads. Private companies can’t screw us over like the government can” Um only in the sense that they have no obligation to the people in the first place l guess? Lmao like “my quality of life will be much worse or at best the same and more unstable, but I’ll feel better about it because they’re not SUPPOSED to answer to me like the government. When private companies make life hell on earth I can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 05:51 PM
13	Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period. Dude prostitution is legal in many places and escorting is essentially legal everywhere (you’re only ever likely to be in legal trouble if you’re like a huge madame setting it all up— any particular woman who wants to date in exchange for those things is in pretty much no legal danger at all) and both go on every hour of every day all around the world. Even in “illegal” places it’s incredibly easy to find and RARELY prosecuted on the individual level. I’m not saying modern long term relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:58 PM
3	When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities. Or they think that there's ONE type of personality that women mean when they say this, and see deviations from the success of that personality type as evidence that personalities don't matter at all. It's why I object to the idea of giving men advice on dating at all--- they cannot help but filter anything you say through their belief that women are a monolith, and if two women contradict each other in their desires, that they've done something "wrong". So not only do they have this monolithic v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 10:54 PM
1	Promiscuity is bad for men and women And not just right for me. Right for the vast majority of people the vast majority of times. Then I'd advise to study history (cultural and our biological heritage) more. Because what you're proposing in this sentence and the preceding ones doesn't seem to fit any of the verifiable facts. The world is a lot bigger place than you seem familiar with. I'm sure it's very real in your lived experience, though. But I think it's obvious how things like that can be very narrow and resistant to non-world…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 03:11 AM
2	Promiscuity is bad for men and women We're apes. On a rock. You're somehow over thinking this and underthinking it at the same time. Any negative feelings you have about this are entirely cultural. That doesn't make them less real, it just makes them less defendable as culture is not shared the way biology is. If we still lived in one of the historical cultures of forced monogamy (no divorces, women who are raped are ostracized, etc.) then you could (and possibly would) be writing this exact same post with the all the negatives of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/21 02:16 AM
1	Traveling brags in women's dating profiles I'm literally a woman. I'm telling you've I've done this before. And if for some reason only one sex could do this, it would make more sense for women to do it given the amount of messages they get. The have a bigger incentive to do things that weed people out. And emphasizing a polarizing lifestyle like tons of traveling when many people are more laidback homebodies definitely fits that bill. You're not even making any arguments. You just keep repeating that somehow I'm wrong, in the face of al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 02:18 AM
3	Traveling brags in women's dating profiles Your own example is irrelevant because you’re comparing oranges and apples here. Literally how? If we can accept that some men put things like "love to work out" to weed out undesirable (in their eyes) women, why couldn't women, who typically get even more messages and attention online than men, do the same thing? If you don't want a couch potato, post about how much shit you. It's common sense without being an actual asshole. But you seem committed to a specific narrative so... okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 12:37 AM
4	Traveling brags in women's dating profiles Uh... no, there are plenty of things women do to narrow down who they hear from on dating apps vs. men who are often trying to appeal to the widest amount of women possible (although they do this too. A la "I love working out" to weed out overweight women, as opposed to finding it being particularly impressive about them self.) It's actually a very good point by OP. I have a super "conventional" appearance (it helps in my industry), I look "sweet" and apparently super approachable---all this des…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/20 12:23 AM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? the chance that we have the issues you are talking about are slim to nil The... issues? They aren't issues. They're facets of the data themselves. No type of distribution is ideal over the other, it's not a "problem" to get a distribution that isn't the classic Normal Distribution, they all just exist and describe different sets of data and are different from each other. Anything you can plot on as distribution has one of these types of distributions (like Normal vs Bernoulli) that it best appro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 08:41 AM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Random in that there isn't defined "way" it's supposed to be. Sexual attraction (or conventional attractiveness) is a cultural phenomena that changes based on the incidentals of one's time and place. Not random in that it comes out of thin air. It's enforced by human culture, but human culture is just created as we go and shifts over stretches of time and across places. And I'm not scared at all. I've never argued that they don't, just that it's not some huge act against nature and "how things s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 06:41 AM
2	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Your whole assumption comes from the fact that you're STILL assuming that the distribution of people labeled attractive would have a meaningful "average" to find. An assumption that is based on an assumed natural Normal Distribution of sexual attraction. It's very likely that for respondents anyone who wasn't a "hell yes" was a "hell no", and their answers are valid by definition. Which would turn the results into something like a Bernoulli Distribution, with no meaningful average between the tw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 06:34 AM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Basically what's skewed is women's standard of how many attractive traits a man is supposed to have to be attractive. Skewed in what way? It's a random human phenomena. It's not "supposed" to be in any certain way and has changed drastically over centuries and across cultures. There's never been one "way" it always was or is supposed to be. You are aware that attractiveness is modeled with a normal distribution in pretty much every relevant scientific paper right? It isn't. You're talking out yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:56 AM
-1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Its the attractive traits that plot a normal distribution (according to CLT) , not women's perception of them. This is hilariously circular logic. How is a feature attractive if it's not perceived to be? "Attractive" features do not exist objectively outside of the human mind. Features that increase chances of survival in a situation? Sure. But without that situation, and no new cultural appreciation for it, it just becomes "a feature". A feature that does not increase the ability to gain partne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:42 AM
-1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Sure, for one, humans are some of the most complex animals on earth and one of THE only animals that passes on shifting and nuanced cultural values to their young. "Attractiveness", accordingly, as humans, is a partly cultural phenomena when compared to other animals for whom it is entirely instinctual and only changes under high selective pressure. Humans, on the other hand, have minds that create art and perceive aesthetics in ways no other animals do (culturally). So is the actual distributio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:31 AM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Phenomena within large populations follow a normal distribution. On a 1-10 scale, the center of a normal distribution is 5 . They TEND to have normal distributions. There are plenty of other distributions that are found in nature and have names and whole books dedicated to them. You should read one. It's called the "natural" distribution but it's not a literal law of fucking nature like gravity. That's absurd and no "the math" does not work like that, as you wrongly and smugly replied to /u/Hell…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:12 AM
29	Every guy on PPD "As an average looking guy..."	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/20 11:54 PM
3	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Yeah it's the accent and the actually being from somewhere else part. It's why the effect is stronger for Brits/Australians/French etc. in the US and almost non existent for Canadians. Even if you're of indian descent, you live and grew up here when you're swiping on girls in the states. You don't have the accent or the conversation about another country to talk about. It's not the same as a fling with a cute foreign boy from some other country on study abroad.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 06:14 PM
13	A Fix for conversations “drying up” So if anyone can give a hint about how to get the 8/9/10s on tinder...then I'm cool. Be an 8/9/10 yourself ...I got crazy number of matches in Paris then in St. Petersberg but relatively quite low in USA/Canada. I don't understand? Installed tinder just to see what the girls around the world are and it's very strange how results change with countries. You're "exotic" in those places. A cute American guy to tell her friends about. It instantly makes you more interesting than you usually are. …	/r/seduction	27/04/20 05:57 PM
3	What makes girls like dangerous man? Because women can be dangerous and lead off-color lifestyles, too? Regardless if you think they're attractive? I've known plenty of women and girls that like to party and do drugs, and people tend to date people they have things in common. I'm sure you're thinking "Oh no no they were high class and pretty and wholesome it was only the boyfriend who was like this" but you're probably wrong. That does happen occasionally, but much more often it's just the fact that you have no idea what she gets u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 08:10 PM
1	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? I mean I don't think insulting someone's general intelligence is small slight. And I don't thinking feeling turned off is "going haywire".. But whatever keeps you from being outwardly condescending I guess..	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 08:00 PM
2	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? Looking at the specific place I said "people" I do still really admire that in women, just in a platonic way. Maybe that was in the back of my mind when I wrote that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 11:17 PM
2	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? Men are people and I don't like using the same word over and over again. So, no reason at all really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 10:30 PM
6	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? You can be disciplined in what it takes to stick to your own goals and values. That's attractive to me. If you're just a whipping boy for a government or corporation because of "the rules" and let them basically fill in the blanks on your personality and lifestyle, then you remind me a child and are going to annoy me. Which is not really what relationships are made of. There are a lot of ways to have disclipine that aren't the police academy or the literal army lmao. The fact you can't think of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 07:02 PM
25	Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common? Personality-wise there are certain personality types I find extremely unattractive and reject consistently. These are all pretty much separate "types", and not just one kind of person described by all these points: -extremely predictable pretentious dude. He thinks negativity is intelligence. Gets all opinions from one of three websites, and once I know which one it is it's like being a mind reader. Gives you way too much kudos for having basic general knowledge about anything because you're a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/20 08:28 AM
5	We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuck Honestly I think this is all wrong. The girls I know that are high status absolutely want the guys they're with to act appropriately and at least slightly care about what people think socially. They will not date the weirdo in an anime shirt just because he's jacked and "confident" about it. They'll date the scrawny frat guy who fits in easily with their friends and family and others any day before that. It's more that girls like guys who don't give a fuck about bad things happening because they…	/r/seduction	11/01/20 11:29 PM
6	Don't watch porn. People think their weaknesses are everyone's and thus trend toward spreading "the warning", whatever is it for them personally, thinking that they're preventing much more future harm than they probably actually are. Porn is like every other semi-mindwarping and semi-addictive drug/activity: well adjusted people can handle it in moderation. Laura has her shit together and had two glasses of wine Friday night with the girls. She's fine. She didn't make any long term poor decisions and won't crave …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/19 05:10 AM
4	Swedish sex survey seems to confirm RP basic concepts This is what I don't get about all this. Even if all these sky is falling declarations that only a small percentage of men get to have sex (shown again and again not to even be accurate) AND if it's because of sexual liberation (again, pretty tenuous hypothesis based on literal 18th century female "biology") won't some people not having sex ALWAYS be the lesser of the two evils considering the alternative is forced (cultural or legal) marriage and sex? Like how is no sex and basically culturally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/19 04:42 AM
6	What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora? [clutches chest] My God. The day has come. I agree with Jordan Peterson about something. Someone post that Onion headline: "Heartbreaking: The Worst Person You Know Just Made a Great Point"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/19 12:38 AM
1	Q4M: If You Were A Straight Woman, Would You Date Yourself? You have to understand that when posters say stuff about women on this sub they're exclusively referring to instagram bunnies and wives from sitcoms. What your describing is practically from another culture as far as their experience goes. They've been raised by and/or stewed in popular media and internet culture for too long or too heavily. They truly do not have the everyday "people" experience to identify the truth in what you're saying. Or even to respond to it. They never see it online or i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 07:54 PM
4	Male ego and entitlement to attractive women Yeah and as a supposed mental health professional, does he not think that any of these women are being taken advantage of? I'm sure some of them are in loving relationships, but as someone who also works in a mental health related field, I'm absolutely positive that at least some of those women do not need to be in those relationships and wouldn't be in them given a healthy mind and less vulnerable circumstances. The fact that he doesn't even mention seeing things along those lines honestly make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/19 03:05 AM
-1	Monogamous relationships are necessary for survival of western civilization. Exactly, it's pure ego. The era and culture I'm living in is special and must be preserved. The civilization I'm born in to is the apex of all possible societies. My culture couldn't possibly be the building block to another one, the way all the others have been for mine since the beginning of time. If things don't stay the same as they were during my peak years, they definitely can't change in neutral or positive ways. Things can't possibly go on after I die, humanity's collapse is surely aroun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/19 06:26 PM
25	Lacking Emparthy Towards Men It’s because it’s literally so common they can’t see it as a “social issue”. A woman killed by her husband after years of domestic abuse? Well yeah okay that’s just gonna happen that’s a crime problem not a “social” issue (read: something so rare and contrarian as to become a reddit pet issue). It’s also because they see men as varied individuals by default, and thus the cultural issues that play into male on female domestic violence are less convincing to them. Women are a hivemind though, so a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/19 01:38 AM
1	Could the obesity epidemic be another reason for the sexlessness epidemic? I think it contributes a lot to the disconnect between internet sexless types and the mainstream who are better versed in real world dating and the “economics” of it. I personally think a lot of dudes in the manosphere online have a unrealistic concept of “looksmatch”. Your looksmatch isn’t just your twin in opposite sex form, it’s someone who commands the same amount of sexual market value as you. I see posts all the time where the guy will call himself average (or even below average on certain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/19 09:52 PM
18	Q4Men: how much time do you actually spend around women in real life? Which is why I get confused when people say men and women cannot be friends. You might not be able to, but most people are able. Seriously. The people who always say that are always self admittedly at least somewhat isolated and unfamiliar with women in general too. It’s like a starving person saying “NO ONE can sit in a room with a buffet and not eat something” without even acknowledging that most people have ample access to food and would be sufficiently well fed and secure enough to avoid tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/19 09:07 PM
1	[CMV] For men, having "a look" is equally as important and perhaps more important than being fit or "good" looking. I’ve been saying this forever. So many below average looking dudes musician/hippie max or other subculture max. So much dating advice for men is about being as unpolarizing as possible, supposedly leave them with the widest amount of appeal, but that’s not what happens at all. Yeah you’re not turning anyone off, but that’s not the goal, the goal is to turn someone on. If you’re just inoffensive as possible no one cares either way and you get 2 tinder matches a year. It’s okay to turn a whole seg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/19 03:36 AM
1	What does it really mean when some very good-looking women claim “men never approach me”? Yeah I feel like 90% of the time “you’re too intimidating” is bullshit and feelings protecting, but I have two friends who kind of demonstrate something similar to what you’re saying though. One is super hot, but in that way that makes them kind of unlikable. She’s tall and has a bit of bitch face and overdresses for EVERYTHING. She does super well on social media, lots of likes and comments and DMs, it’s probably how she gets 99% of her sexual attention. My other friend is super PRETTY, not hot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/19 09:18 PM
19	What does the opposite gender think is flattering but actually isn’t? It's sexual according to an ex of mine. I'm petite and my boyfriend hated this one acquaintance of ours who would always tease me for being smaller and basically worked in the fact that I was "tiny (his words, constantly)" into every conversation. I honestly just thought it's because this dude was like 6'5" and made his living being a big bouncer type. Figured it was automatic to size people up in his line of work and he struggled to turn off that kind of humor during his down time. My boyfriend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/19 07:56 PM
4	Why do women have such a hard time admitting thier advantages over men? Well I don't think women are monsters... so there's that part of your comment. But anyway, I am curious by what you mean by "men need to set way high standards for the women they reward with romantic/sexual companionship"? How would that work in your conception of it? I just can't imagine telling other women to have higher standards so that I could finally attain the men that could previously date them, let alone how I could actually get them to agree and avoid men they're interested in just for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 06:00 AM
17	Why do women have such a hard time admitting thier advantages over men? I honestly don't know if I see women on here denying the privileges as much as denying the assumptions based on them. Women can get more dates and casual sex = rarely see anyone disagree with that fact. Women who date who they like in a women's market are superficial cunts and the downfall of society = lots of disagreement. I personally don't care if men want to complain that dating is harder from their end. It's the whole "women are hivemind monsters who are specifically doing this punish us, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 05:20 AM
44	Why aren’t we having sex? I mean a lot of that is like "code red" level "not feeling cute". Most girls won't even come over under those circumstances if they know there's a chance you all will be sexual (I've def canceled "hanging out" because I started my period and didn't want to completely do a 180 sexually, and mindfuck a newish guy in the way OP seems to be feeling. Let alone if I found out I had a yeast infection or std. We definitely would not have plans until that was cleared up, if ever). This sounds way more li…	/r/seduction	29/03/19 08:39 PM
2	Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart? I thought I made this very clear, but "externalizing feelings" in this context is referring to where the BLAME is laid (on yourself versus on a thing or idea outside yourself) NOT whether you are opening up about those feelings. Like you said, men tend to not open up about their feelings (internalized sharing--they only talk about it on the internet), but BLAME externally (it's feminism making me live and feel this way. Fuck it.) Women share externally (calling their mom and venting), but blame …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/19 10:36 PM
12	Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart? They do. You see it in all the man-o-sphere subs. They do badly socially->have negative feelings->start to hate OUTWARDLY. Men only share feelings internally (keep it to themselves) but attribute feelings externally. Usually the feelings are externalized towards things like society (at large or a specific context), ideologies like feminism, economics, books/songs/movies. Their feelings of inadequacy are expressed by shit talking, insulting, attacking, and trying to bring down the EXTERNAL things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/19 10:20 PM
8	(Q4ALL) What are some statements you see often that you just can't believe I'm not going to post any pictures of her as I think that's fucked up and an invasion of privacy, but personality wise she's really cool and responsible and was a great roommate. She's had one boyfriend in the past (I'm pretty blue pill and see physically unattractive people with good personalities date all the time, she definitely counts). BUT, she doesn't have offers for dates, and she sure has hell doesn't get to be picky---which a lot of black pillers on here will tell you is impossible and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/19 05:30 AM
15	(Q4ALL) What are some statements you see often that you just can't believe I completely believe those are cultural beauty standards. I mean obviously. I can also list all the male beauty standards that men fail to reach by sheer apathy/ignorance or actual physical inability. That's not the point. The point is that just like when people post "do this, this, and this" to be attractive, and you guys go "I'm aware of the standards/keys to being attractive, but I try my best and don't quite achieve them, even trying my best I don't get hot guy or even average guy results". …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/19 05:01 AM
19	(Q4ALL) What are some statements you see often that you just can't believe My old roommate was a girl on the less attractive end of the scale and she had a HORRIBLE time on dating apps. Like straight up roasted all the time, half her messages were jokes or shitty comments on her appearance. I have no idea why guys think that not attractive girls who put their pictures on the internet have a good time. Like just look at the comments on under any imgur album of a woman trying to post a picture to reddit---that's what my friend's inbox looked like. Even the "sex offers," …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/19 04:43 AM
17	The main, unstated purpose of #metoo has become replacing the patriarchy with the matriarchy. That 100% depends on the industry. There may be less women in the work force in general but there are definitely fields where they equal or even outnumber male counterparts. Made up for by industries where it's rare to find any women whatsoever. It makes complete sense culturally that some industries like entertainment and theatre would have a higher than average amount of women vying for positions, while others like deep sea fishing or law enforcement would have an acute lack of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/19 10:06 PM
6	Obsession with blame and fault is counter-productive for both redpill and bluepill I saw that you noted that, I just felt like the other sections were a little too "gotcha" in tone, like it was an actual inconsistency in ideas. My point was that, to me, the difference in scale and fields (national economics vs tinder) is so large as to not even merit the comparison. > My point was that each issue can be addressed both on an individual level and on a societal level, though to different degrees. I really think a huge difference between RPs and BPs. I just don't think there's any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 11:27 PM
6	Obsession with blame and fault is counter-productive for both redpill and bluepill I agree that assigning fault is useless, but I think your feminism vs red pill analogy is a stretch. There is a wrong way to hire people for a job. We've agreed as a society it should be a meritocracy. So "old boy's club" hiring styles are discouraged by social movements and legislation. There's no equivalently "wrong" way to date. Hell, you don't even have to have romantic relationships at all. It'd be like saying "oh so you're against people being excluded from the job economy, but not against…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 10:52 PM
3	Are socially adept men really “dominant,” or are they just “playful,” “fun,” and "good communicators"? I have that thought... a lot. And it's why I don't reply to a lot of the advice posts where the person writing sounds like the poster child for "unreliable narrator". I especially get that vibe from posts that hyper focus on "dominance" or "aggression" in totally mundane social situations. Not every single thing is an insult or pissing contest, folks. It's frustrating because, no I can't technically prove your neighbor isn't mowing one foot onto your lawn in some weird show of social dominance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 03:27 AM
2	Are socially adept men really “dominant,” or are they just “playful,” “fun,” and "good communicators"? I have no absolutely no data on this (I'm interested though), but anecdotally I've definitely had my friend who has super sup par social skills take offense for me over things that were 100% innocent or just friends ribbing each other. It sucks because the intention is sweet, but the result is so damn awkward and abrasive that it keeps him from getting invites to things where I'm not in charge. It's like he's simultaneously obsessed with verbal/nonverbal social cues and yet completely incapable …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 09:04 AM
6	Schopenhauer's "On Women" Yeah, this is exactly what I was going to point out. Like, at best, the women he met had a "tutor" until they were like 14. And half of their "studying" were things like needlepoint and piano, as opposed to the math and classics that the men studied all the way through university. I'm sure they were less worldly and had worse reasoning skills, those are things that have been proven to improve with formal education. It'd be like me going to Haiti and saying the children there are naturally worse …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/18 09:08 PM
4	How would BP respond to these images of CDC divorce data? You're being completely intellectually dishonest, we can all read the comments, it's insanity trying to argue with someone like this, this is why you think the discourse with other people is so lacking. You'd have much better conversations if you'd stand by what you say, but I suspect that's not what you're trying to do. You absolutely did make claims about the data, we can all read the comments. If you want to twist how you define "claims" to squirm out of it, then I guess I can't stop you, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/18 10:23 PM
8	How would BP respond to these images of CDC divorce data? I know people always seem to pop up and just so happen to be experts on a subject on reddit, but my account is six years old and I've been posting about my work for years so if I'm BSing it was quite the long con to get to this point: I'm literally a data scientist with a focus on culture, marketing, and neuro-mechanisms interactions with culture, and your claims about how research and data is analyzed are completely fucking backwards. I can tell you haven't been involved in any sort of academic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/18 09:41 PM
2	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? The numbers absolutely do matter, the analogies don't work if it's not rare at all. By that definition you could call literally anything survivorship bias. "Snow falls on the ground" Bro that's survivor bias some of the snow never makes it to ground and just lands on roofs and stuff. Uhhhhhhh, sure they do, but it wouldn't be accurate to call it survivorship bias unless only a tiny bit of snow ever hit the ground and I couldn't see any of the snow on the roofs to make an accurate comparison of w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:56 AM
1	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? Again, this is just where we disagree. It's not a tiny tiny portion of not hot people who end up with someone. It's very common. Ugly people get married literally every single in every single country on earth. It's absolutely not like telling a starving ethopian child that they'll be a millionaire one day. One is so much more common than the other that the odds wouldn't even be remotely on the same scale. I just really think you underestimate how many ugly people end up with other ugly people an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:31 AM
1	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? But at a certain point, people can be so unattractive it is nigh on impossible Alright while different from your first argument or even your second, I'm a little more satisfied because I think this is actually where we just completely disagree and wouldn't be able to settle it without devolving into something stupid like counting the amount of ugly couples out there. My perspective: I've seen burn victims with their faces melted into their neck get married so I think an average Indian man in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:16 AM
1	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? In your first comment you literally said but Chad can be awkward. All saying Chad can get away with things proves is that personality doesn't matter for VERY ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE. It definitely matters for more normal people. So when you deny all advice on personality because "it doesn't matter", you're wrong, it matters for you and not for Chad and that's the way it is. I guess it's not fair, but again, who cares. It's like you all aren't even upset you can't get women, you're upset that you're no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:52 AM
3	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? Okay insert any single shitty activity that incels complain about Chads getting away with. Being boring, being rude, being narcissistic. Try to use your brain, the argument is who gives a fuck what Chad can get away with, if not doing it means that you'd be better with women since you're not the type who can get away with it. Think logically and results oriented, not emotional and bitter, and it's completely fucking obvious what to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:37 AM
3	Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on? That's such a shitty whattaboutism argument though. Who cares if hotter or richer guys can get away with acting shitty unless you also want to act shitty? The argument people are making is that you'd have more success if you weren't so damn bitter and awkward and somehow narcissistic and incredibly insecure at the same time. And that's absolutely true. Other guys getting away with it doesn't make it untrue that you'd do better if you didn't try to. "If I were hotter I could get away with calling…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:27 AM