| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 167 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbed | DUMP HIS ASS | meri_cherri | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:22 PM |
| 20 | I am pathetic and I need some help.. | SEEKING ADVICE | meri_cherri | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:47 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Imagine using this many words to tell the entire world you’re shit in bed.“I can’t make women cum” could have said it better and fewer words, it would even fit in a tweet and would perhaps have been more constructive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:48 AM |
| 2 | My Birthday present to myself against the backdrop of a card my sister gave me. “She is brave when it’s hard, stronger than she knows, beautiful without trying, & loves for all she is!” I love this sub so much and I am determined to make the next 21 years some of the best. Here’s to you all!🥂👸Happy birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Glow!Amén! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 25 | 4+ years and I JUST walked the door with a small bag and without even a glance let alone a goodbye!Raise a glass to freedom! Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | My therapist actually suggested I do this, so I'm glad to see everyone else's!What app did you use? I want to make one and put it up as my home screen so I can see it every morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:20 AM |
| 29 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesBeat him at his own game. Queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Tomorrow is My BirthdayHappy birthday! Got pamper yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:34 AM |
| 3 | (TW/CW) Don't only do it for yourselfYes! Also for your future kids, they don’t get to pick their father, you do. Pick a good one for their sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 46 | It only takes you 2 min to changeIf a guy asks me to change anything, the only thing I am changing is the guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 10 | How I feel about this subThank you fds sisters. You have given me confidence to ask for what I deserve. Ignorant people don’t understand that we aren’t scheming men out of anything, there’s no gold to be dug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 11 | I read this, and I don’t doubt this in the slightest bit. I’ve been in similar shoes like this.So casually cruel in the name of being honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:10 AM |
| 21 | I read this, and I don’t doubt this in the slightest bit. I’ve been in similar shoes like this.On point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 29 | 🙅🏻♀️👩🏻🎓👸🏻I was thinking the same. Pickme of all pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 15 | I’ve been trying to date, and this sub has helped me be smarter about it; but also thanks to this sub, I’ve realized I’m in love with someone elseOmg I feel the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I shake the constant "empty" feeling?If you aren’t full with yourself, you won’t be full with someone attached. Absolutely look into your own. Therapy helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 91 | How do I breakup with my boyfriend?This. Under no circumstances you are sending this man your nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Men, on a thread about engagement rings. But women are the gold-diggers, amirite? 🙄No where do I see the word gold-digger there. Had it been a girl, top comment would be that and everyone else would second and third it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | solo date ideasOh my god! I would love a champagne and truffle flight. Please be in NYC and tell me where | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 9 | solo date ideasOmg I do this all the time. Even when I am in a relationship. I have a day usually once or twice a month when I go exploring a new neighborhood. Walk around get coffee from quirky little coffee shops. Journal my plans for the day, week, month. (I love making lists, i sometimes have a list of things to list) I also go watch movies. I am a 32 year old woman but I love teenage rom coms, animated and foreign language films. Most of my friends aren’t into it. I would go watch an early morning show li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 11 | LVM makes gf have sex with his two friends then treats her like shit and manipulates her because of itTell me this person is just trolling please. I can’t, just can’t... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:50 PM |
| 8 | I found this conversation from my days before FDS. I remember thinking he was an ass for saying this and now I know I was right...I unmatched with him after his last 2 comments.Earned? What is he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | DO NOT GIVE MEN YOUR REAL PHONE NUMBERDoes he know where you live? It’s really good that your gut saved you and he revealed himself. Keep safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 10 | I have no words anymore 🚨Haha. Keep being your gorgeous self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 14 | I have no words anymore 🚨Hahaha deadass is such a New York phrase. Are you from NYC? Anyways good on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 51 | (Copy and pasted) “College roommate got engaged, GF is pissed” ~He’d rather seek validation than ensure their future together. Excuse excuses. She should have been left.Notice how he describes the room mate. He mentions that she had lots of boy friends too. He definitely has a crush on her and is gutted that she got engaged. Probably thought he had a chance with the room mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 22 | Best thing I never hadOmg same my ex at 20, from 12 years ago just added me on Facebook. Didn’t even have Facebook then and somehow he found me: Blocked. What was I thinking then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 40 | Not sure how to respond to this...Listen to your gut. Don’t let your heart rationalize it. If it bothers you now, it will be worse if you actually get involved deeper. Block delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:41 AM |
| 49 | No truer words were ever spoken...“It’s not my job to make him a man. I can’t make him something he is not.” A line from a movie. That I continuously chant to myself if I ever get weak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:20 AM |
| 19 | Desi Pickmeishas be likeNext time I need to attend a wedding. I am hitting tinder for those red flags.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:45 AM |
| 53 | I guess going back to an Ex could work?? But I’ll pass!Hahaha. This got me. Take my upvote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 9 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFI wouldn’t mind a can of mace actually. I take my food very seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:15 AM |
| 7 | What the actual fuck!Reality is indeed stranger than fiction. Goog god! Leave already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Sex can be the last thing holding you back from getting over a ex.Seven seven seven seven....7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | « Ask me anything »I love the little rant. I love cake too. Haven’t had it in a while. Favorite cake shop is closed due to covid. Happy cake day ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 8 | Reminder: When he says he’s not ready for a relationship just yet, he’s only stringing you along for female validation until he finds someone he’s actually into. Know your worth, don’t let him drag you in the mud in hopes he’ll respect you some day!Omg! I love this girl! She knows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 12 | Lesson learned: if you are lonely, it's better to adopt a pet than adopt a hobosexual LVMI felt this in my bones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 11 | LVM ex I wasted years on, is now in a relationship with a girl he said was ugly and annoying because she spoils him and buys him gifts.Trash taking itself out has got to be the greatest thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are so scummyWhat did I just read??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:59 AM |
| 8 | How do I get over an unreciprocated crush?Aww. I need to pin this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .Word salad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 64 | And that’s how you do itOh hell yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:26 AM |
| 12 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingIf you are opening a museum I want to contribute. I have. A bunch of these kind of screenshots that I have shared with friends and had a great laugh over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I think I(25F) scared him(29M) away by setting a boundaryJust pure mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | I think I(25F) scared him(29M) away by setting a boundaryNo. Please no. I was in the same situation. Had to block delete. Nothing good comes out of it. Not worth the hassle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 14 | How do you show yourself love?Omg. I am doing this too. After an excruciating situationship, I decided to take a year for myself. I walk all over NYC, buy whatever shit I see on the window and fancy. Try different foods. Go to the spa and movies Monthly facial appointments. Bought 12 classic books.( something I have always wanted to do but somehow never had the time to) Still cheaper than dolling up and paying for dates... I have never been happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Fuck MenOp please tell him “you sure know how to delete me from your life though., you just did.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:53 AM |
| 15 | Fuck MenHahaha. He said he didn’t know how to delete it????? Damn guy is not only a cheater but also not very smart.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 4 | Don’t do wife shit until you’re a wife. #hindsight2020Preach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 9 | Found out through a google search BF of 10 years has bought a house for a older woman and her kids and now lives there.This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 37 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.Hook up. I prefer to call them hookups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 14 | No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on.Same. I always thought blocking was rude but guess what bread crumbing is ruder.... so he got what he deserved in my case at least... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:21 AM |
| 4 | I did it/ thank you.Woohoo! We are so proud of you. Keep strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 12 | Need a reminder not to deal with my exThat’s a great great advice. No shaving always keeps me from doing something stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | Story of my life 😂😂🤦🏽♀️Omg. I can so relate to this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 17 | Friendships with HVW vs PickmeishasOmg same. I am in NYC. Anyone want someone to just vent or hang. I am all ears. Let’s lift each other up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 2 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?Grow a spine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Yes! Ugh! I need that seared in my brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | I am pathetic and I need some help..It is right? I thought I was overreacting. He wanted to be friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | I am pathetic and I need some help..No he wouldn’t be dating someone else. It wouldn’t be this hard. I keep telling myself this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 3 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Indeed. I needed to hear it that I am not being bitchy by not accepting this friendship. I gotta do what I gotta do to keep my sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 3 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 5 | I am pathetic and I need some help..I needed to hear this from my fellow fds family. Thank you all so much. The last time I blocked him was also after reading so many stories of encouragement. I did it. Deleted everything and blocked both the numbers. Thank you ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 5 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Yes! Biggest mistake was not dating multiple people. Never putting all my eggs in one basket anymore. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:43 AM |
| 8 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you. I need to find courage and do it. I did it once I can do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 8 | I am pathetic and I need some help..This! Now that I think of it. Such a bummer I thought he was my soulmate. Ugh I need to find hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 9 | I am pathetic and I need some help..I am going insane myself trying to decipher every text. I can’t do this to myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:15 AM |
| 11 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Yes! I need to delete block and forget . It’s hard. But I will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:10 AM |
| 5 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Thank you. I will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:09 AM |
| 49 | OP, a Gay man, dumps GF of 1 year, and she’s fooling around with another man. OP is suddenly jealous and “obsessed with her”. 🤦🏾♀️ DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!!!Wtf??? The audacity this guy has. He’s gay and wants her to not move on... I can’t even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 12 | Guys they officially hate us on reddit, but why?!We make there lives harder. They actually have to make an effort for a fds girl, it isn’t surprising they hate us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:23 PM |
| 8 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.This happened to me... can relate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | I finally opened my eyesYou deserve better. Work on yourself and tour dream. Divorce that ass! Dump him 2020. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Just blocked the guy I thought was the love of my lifeI second this. You will feel so freeeeee.... welcome to the other side!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 4 | pickmeisha behaviour ruined my chances with a guy who is probably HVM. can I do something about it?By writing to him, you are being a pickmeisha... please do not do it. What are you going to get out of it? No answer he gives will satisfy you if it isn’t a grand declaration of his adoration for you. And if he does ask you out, you will always wonder why did he not do that on his own accord. Please for the love of fds do not do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I just let go of my LVMWoohoo! You go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:29 AM |
| 2 | FDS goals with or without a manWhat hotel is this??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:20 AM |
| 6 | Reading this book made me realize the horrors some women have to face all their lives. "A thousand splendid suns" for anyone who wants to cry their eyes out.The book is so heart breaking and gut wrenching. I bowled a lot when I first read. But definitely a great read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Idk what to title this to be honestWe are so proud of you! Know that this too shall pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:12 AM |
| 16 | Is there any hope for me?Omg 31 is the new 21. You have already started just by the sheer fact that you are willing to be hvw. Congratulations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedAbsolutely. That’s my priority now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:09 PM |
| 3 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedCheers to a great 2020! Congratulations, we are so proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 12 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedThank you. Yes! I thought I would feel really sad and I do but I feel more free than sad. It’s weird... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 8 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedThank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 11 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedGood news! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:14 PM |
| 12 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedIndeed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:56 PM |
| 22 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedIt is hard but I’ll keep referring back to this sub if I get tempted to snoop. Thank you so much ladies. You don’t know how much this means to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:56 PM |
| 10 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedThank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:38 PM |
| 16 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedThank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 12 | After 6 months of getting breadcrumbedThank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Friendly reminder.I’ll will pin this and paste it on my bathroom mirror.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 02:06 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter