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Many men are inherently predatory is a pretty simple answer as well. And one that most people accept as fact. I received the most male attention in my school uniform, obviously underage, with braces and barely there tits. Even more than my early 20s when I grew tits and dressed provocatively. My 17 year old sister gets more attention than I do at 24 from men who are even older than me. It’s gross and predatory and makes it real difficult to have any kind of positive feelings towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:02 AM
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One of our friends in our college group dated a man in his 30s while we were in college and he threw a temper tantrum every time we went out clubbing, when she couldn’t hang out with him to study, when she’d be hungover on Wednesday. We all called him ‘grandpa Mark’ to his face so he obviously hated when she hung out with her girlfriends and he couldn’t stand that she was around college frat boys all day, pressured her to quit studying under the guise of ‘I’ll take care of you, you don’t need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:48 AM
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It’s more saying “members of group x frequently do this bad thing to members of group y. I am in group y and I have personally experienced it from certain members of group x. 99% of the other members of group y have also experienced the same bad thing from a member of group x. I have grown up being warned about this bad thing that group x does to members of group y. Even members of group x who care for me warn me about the actions of others members in their group. There have been times where I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:15 PM
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I don't think you quite understand what I'm saying. To start - I am a woman. And a staunch feminist at that. Thank you dear overlords for granting us this opportunity. It can be taken away or made a lot more difficult to attain. There are more countries in the world where this is NOT the reality for women than the opposite. COVID made women take a huge hit because the schools closed. Men weren't dropping their jobs for childcare, women had to. Abortion and contraception bans do the same. Ok, cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:24 AM
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In my language the phrases are 'She gave him a baby' and 'He made her child'. It really pisses me off. Not only does the man get a pat on the back for 'making' the child, it is then also given to him. The woman goes through pregnancy, labour, breastfeeding and does the vast majority of childcare for that entire child's existence and the father would probably bolt through the door if the child was actually 'given' to him to care for alone. It is 110% centred on men. Man = subject, active, creator…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:40 PM
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They will definitely be a very interesting addition to the shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:15 PM
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Well if it was regular practise for women to eat their male partners after sex men would probably be a bit more cautious and err on the side of survival as well but that's not what happens. I'm just saying it's their main drive and core need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:00 PM
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Honestly I can’t push the blame on the men here. Many women do this to themselves. The women that treat their female friends as placeholders until they get a man only to remember to call them up again when they’ve broken up are the fucking worst. I’m grateful the majority of my friends aren’t like this, but I’ve still lost a couple over the years due to this. Even in the cases where I know it’s their partner that doesn’t like her going out with the girls or has a problem with this friend or that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:27 AM
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Projection is 110% correct. People can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves. When ALL of their motivation to do anything in life revolves around attracting the opposite sex that’s all they can conceive other people doing too. Having any other motivation in life is literally incomprehensible for them, which is why they assume everything women do is to attract men. Although it’s odd. They have no issues calling women gold diggers and insisting we don’t like men, we just like using them f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:16 AM
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My financial accomplishments turn ME on Brad. Owning my house, furnishing it the way I want it, taking myself on trips, buying myself pretty things, paying my bills on time, not having to budget my grocery trips. Goddamn it really turns me on. I was born and raised in poverty. I am a first generation immigrant of two blue collar working parents. You will neverrrrr catch me being upset at a remark like this. I know where I came from, I know how hard I’ve worked and I will never stop being proud o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:52 AM
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Yeah having access to 1/500th of Jeff bezos’ net worth is having access to 400 million dollars. All I’m getting from chris is the free peanuts from the bar. Bring on the harems boys, let’s do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:36 AM
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I’d be happy to live in a 10 women harem. A bunch of the gals chilling together, raising our kids together, splitting household tasks, getting taken care of by a rich man than you only have to fuck twice a month because there’s so many of you. The 10% of those richest, most powerful men will be loving life as well. The other 90% of men can get their dicks chopped off early in their lives as they spend their short life training for the army before dying as a human meat shield in another war for u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:46 AM
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I fell in love with Harry Styles when I was 14 and 11 years later he’s still my phone screensaver lmao. He has grown, so have I but what I find attractive has barely budged. I still find young Johnny Depp attractive but I think he’s ugly now. I don’t think dating apps have had much to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:15 AM
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Help, my kitchen window has never broken at 2am… how do I know whether I am a leader or not? Is there any situation that isn’t entirely hypothetical that you can provide so I can know? Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:40 AM
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Yes obviously, women are held accountable and men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:34 AM
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I’ve tried being agreeable with ex partners saying dumb shit because I cared. Ended up seeing them as a toddler. Very difficult to respect a toddler that will throw a tantrum when mommy disagrees with him and then has to sooth him and remind him he’s the biggest, smartest boy in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:57 AM
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No it’s when they say something like ‘we’re splitting the bill yeah?’ Before I’ve had time to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:23 AM
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I’ve been asking to be sterilised since I was 21 as well but I’m only 25 and get laughed out of doctors offices. It’s depressing that it’s not any better at 34 :( hopefully I can find man with a vasectomy as well lmao, haven’t had much luck there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:10 PM
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Absolute beasts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:13 AM
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No I cared enough to spend a Friday night with him instead of the other 1000s options I have. And am taking a bigger risk. And have definitely spent more time getting ready. And he definitely wants to fuck me more than I want to fuck him. And if we do fuck I’m taking a way bigger risk there as well. If we’re going 50/50 on dinner I’m definitely losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:10 AM
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Yes but you definitely don’t think too highly of yourself so if she gives it up to you easily you would never be secure enough to believe she has only done that for you and therefore automatically believing she is easy is a lot more logical than believing you are special so you will think less of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:06 AM
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Whenever men make a big deal over splitting the bill at the end of the date I just pay the whole bill. Hit them with a ‘it’s okay, it’s really not an issue for me’. Safe to say there’s no second date after that. Y’all put all that value into your masculinity only to make it that easy to be emasculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:03 AM
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Men have wacky beliefs about women all the time, at least this way they’re paying for their stupidity. Good boys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:54 AM
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She was born in Russia and moved to the balkans at some point in her youth, so I’m not sure if these stories were from there or there. And yeah, definitely grateful for modern contraceptives. Sex has always been a high risk sport for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:43 AM
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Men have no reproductive rights because they have no reproductive obligations. If it was your body/health/life on the line you’d be fighting for them too. Meanwhile y’all are out here only needing to not cum in a woman to avoid all consequences and are still fighting tooth and nail to not use condoms so you can hit it raw. And then complaining about the amount of effort it takes to avoid paying a little bit of child support for the kid you insist carry your family name. It’s the biggest joke in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:36 AM
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Teehee 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:27 AM
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My great grandmother (born 1910s) told me that in her village when a girl had an ‘accident’ the girls would all gather together, all having stolen some harsh liquor from home, get the girl blind drunk and then take turns punching her in the stomach until she bled. They also drank large quantities of mugwort tea regularly if they were sneaking around with some boy they shouldn’t be with. Mugwort tea is known to be a uterine relaxant that can activate menstruation. I actually do this as well now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:21 AM
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You’re still not getting an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:45 AM
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When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:45 AM
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I moved overseas for study/internship and we were too young to even consider a LDR. And I’ve never gone back so it really would not have worked He cheated on me I lost feelings for him Had a very different vision of what we wanted our life to look like 5 years in the future. I thought we were on the same page. He changed 2 years in, I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:03 PM
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If I could get the same income watching kids I'd do it no question. It's not even a difficult choice What if you had to do it for free like the entire world has to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:52 PM
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Have you ever seen a mother trying to eat a meal with young kids? She spends most of the time feeding the kids and getting bites in between. She’s the one cooking those meals. And cleaning up after them. I don’t know what part of that sounds particularly relaxing. And I never see men subtracting their lunch, water cooler chats, commute time, work breaks from their total work hours. But women should?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:40 PM
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Men: women are ruining society by destroying the nuclear family Also men: if a man destroys the nuclear family to get his dick wet it’s all sweet he’s totally justified. His wife just went through 9 months of growing a human being in her body and ripping her vagina open and fucking up her hormones to give him a child with HIS surname and she’s not jumping on his dick as much as he wants? And she expects him to stay with her and his family? Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:36 PM
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Being rich makes everything better. For men and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:14 AM
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It’s not because of tinder it’s because of financial freedom, education and job opportunities. For the vast majority of human history women married men for money and stability (and social pressures… and lack of contraceptives) not love and attraction. And now all of those incentives have either been removed or reduced radically. Marrying because a man makes you horny is a pretty new concept. My grandmothers and the women before them would find it strange. I have one grandma whose still alive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:23 AM
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Being with a subpar man < being alone < being with a great man. There aren’t many great men around. There are heaps of subpar men and there’s no need to settle for one when there’s always gonna be another 20 ready to take his place even when you’re a shrivelled up post wall hag. If you’re desperate for kids and don’t get a great man you settle for one of these dudes in your 30s and divorce before you’re 50 and go back to enjoying single life while keeping an eye out for a great man. If you don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:37 AM
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Statistically it literally is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:20 AM
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If it was a one time thing and he feels horrible about it I’d still lose some respect for him but could work around it (if he’s perfect in every other way). But it’s really a big hell no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:48 AM
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The amount of times I’ve had these conversations with girlfriends irl infuriates me. But I’ve developed a tactic that makes them realise they’re fools. I’ll listen to what they have to say. There’s always a ‘he’s a great guy we love each other so much’ or something along those lines thrown in there before a BUT… he did this horrible thing to me/is continually disrespectful in this way/is abusive etc etc. So I tell them to do the same thing back to him. And I say it as a genuine suggestion. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:35 PM
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I’ve been on dates with them and did not enjoy it. I’m not a fan of how they look either so maybe it’s bias but I don’t wanna date a man who can only eat what he wants once a week and it has to be on his schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:05 AM
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There is a middle ground. I maintain a healthy diet most of the time but I also keep it varied and interesting and work out daily. I also go out to eat often and don’t freak out at the thought of a 2am pancakes date. Why is everything such a black/white one extreme or the other with you guys on here ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:21 PM
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Have you ever been in the army? Masculine men are ready to do some crazy shit to follow orders for things they don’t even believe in just because a dude with a higher rank told him to. Have you ever worked corporate? No one kisses ass more than a dude trying to climb the corporate ladder. Women have been told to be submissive and obedient and followers over and over from every angle since the beginning of time. And they still wanna fuck shit up and change things the second they get some leeway. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:43 PM
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Dating men who are that strict with their diet is a turn off for me. I’ve known men who will only eat chicken and streamed veggies and protein shakes and I like going out to eat often. I like trying different foods. I don’t want to monitor every calorie. Food is a big part of people’s daily life and going out to eat with a partner is dating 101. It’s a lifestyle difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:28 PM
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You’re right, men aren’t as smart as women. I guess you don’t need to take accountability it wouldn’t be fair to expect that from a toddler so why expect it here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:17 PM
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Like I said. We can’t all be alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:14 AM
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I’m just giving the advice the manosphere gives women? This isn’t silly FDS logic it’s logical red pill logic. If you can’t handle the red pill then just say that bro. We can’t all be alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:24 AM
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If the woman had picked the wrong partner it would’ve been her fault. But he made the choice here by following his penis tingles instead of going for a nice girl. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:18 AM
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What did I say wrong? The manosphere says women are at fault for picking the wrong men when they end up as single mothers and I extend the same privilege to men. I am not a misandrist for me to believe men are not mature enough to take accountability for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:17 AM
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He should have picked better. Men are the gatekeepers of babies and relationships, he did this to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:23 AM
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Bill cosby was convicted by many women and is still walking around as a free man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:21 PM
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Women acting like men is pathetic. That’s your job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:14 AM
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I think more men want traditional gender roles but don’t know how to pull them off or what they actually entail and more women don’t want gender roles but fall into them ‘accidentally’ especially when they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:23 PM
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I can’t argue with stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:58 PM
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Who said anything about skill? I mentioned death, pain, injury, illness and a life time of sacrifice and work. You don’t need any skill to get into a car accident either doesn’t mean you’re gonna do it for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah females have to go through hell and back to reproduce, male have to have an orgasm. Males don’t need to give a flying fuck about a woman to make a baby with her. If they had to do what women have to do in order to reproduce they’d be reluctant to fuck the women they’re repulsed by too. Imagine risking death, 1000 different medical conditions, tearing your genitals, breastfeeding and a lifetime of obligations to reproduce with a man who repulses you. Not fun? Vs just having to have an orgasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:35 AM
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Even paternity. Being worried that the woman you are with isn’t loyal enough to you is an insecurity. Some things are justified insecurities but still insecurities nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:19 AM
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It is both an innate aversion AND an insecurity. Those two aren’t mutually exclusive, they’re usually the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:43 AM
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It really is the greatest feminist invention of the 21st century
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:30 AM
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I’ve been on this sub for a while, I’ve had a lot worse said to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:28 AM
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I camp and hike often. Enjoy. https://www.shewee.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:00 AM
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I do have a bachelors in applied mathematics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:57 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:06 AM
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Go punch a hole in your wall and calm down son
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:59 AM
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I am from a country in Eastern Europe and I left it and a relationship to study/work in Australia. My partner did want to come with me and he did apply for the same university/scholarship/internship I did (we were both undergrad mathematics students at the time) but he didn’t get it. It worked out for the best for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:29 PM
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Women don't retain their youthful beauty like we men do. This sub is the gift the keeps on giving. Have my upvote for making me giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:19 PM
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We’re Eastern European. These men were damn near excellent picks compared to what’s available. It’s just slim slim pickings out there and they wanted marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:22 AM
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Nah women talk about everything. These women have had their ‘oh shit I fucked up’ moment especially since kids are involved but they get over them quickly and judging by the fact that they don’t get back together with the man (when they had the option to) it speaks for itself. My mother did take my father back despite having a valid reason to separate because she decided the cons of divorce outweighed the pros for her. And yet my parents produced children who are a lot more weary of marriage tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:20 AM
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That’s fine, all of those men that women divorce when they’re post wall are so desperate to have another woman in their lives that if I really get desperate for a man I’ll just take one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:14 AM
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They’re not looking for other men though? If they wanted a man so badly they would’ve just stayed married. They’re out here talking about how much easier their life gets post divorce and refusing to live with another man ever again, much less get married. My widowed grandmothers both had marriage proposals after my grandfathers died and they literally laughed in those men’s faces because the idea of doing that shit again was too ridiculous to fathom. My uncle is still begging his ex wife to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:08 AM
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Do 40+yo women relish the thought of taking care of their home alone? I doubt it and they will learn the hard way. Women initiate 80% of divorces so…. Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:23 AM
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Having a family with the average man today is my personal hell. I have 0 incentive to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:05 AM
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Ahahahah pretty similar but it seems like there are some differences between your ex and I so I guess you’re not my ex. Damn! For myself I have just always been very interested in finding a way to be able to express both my ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ traits so I kinda understand what your ex meant. I enjoy doing both but I am more attracted to feminine traits in others because I feel like I can easily express both with a feminine person whereas a masculine person just feels very rigid and restri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:38 PM
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We just have the exact same story except I was the girlfriend in your story lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:08 PM
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Wow are you my ex boyfriend??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:55 AM
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Bi woman with a preference for women here. My n count is 30% from men, 70% from women. We’re out here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:52 AM
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The belittling of femininity definitely has an aspect to it. It has been belittled relentlessly for centuries. It is nature for me to be more resistant towards it because I am a human being with an ego. I do wish my foremothers were offered more respect for what they have done for society. But we still diminish them, their work and their struggles. I want to be respected and I want to feel safe. I have traditionally masculine and traditionally feminine traits. My traditionally masculine traits g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:40 AM
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I can get pregnant. Men can’t. I understand that. Nature also made me really good at mathematics and the nature of the time I live in has rewarded that skill with a great career. Me going against that to adhere to what society deems as feminine would be me going against my nature. That’s just one example. Sexual reproduction does dictate some behavioural differences but it seems rather silly to try to fit all humans in 2 strict categories when there is so much more to life. Sex is a part of it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:21 AM
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I think we have some very different definitions of intimacy. I do have intimate relationships with my family. You seem to think that means it’s sexual and incestuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:13 AM
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Or you’ve seen male and female sheep you just didn’t realise that male sheep also do not all have horns and just assumed they’re female due to your own lack of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:18 PM
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How is the right wing for individualism when your right wing beliefs dictate that people should abide to strict rules and follow a set life path due to the genitals they were born with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:07 PM
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Submissive confidence? How would that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:47 PM
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Are you asking for her to place a monetary value on herself? What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:35 PM
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So you have intimacy with your family? I highly doubt you are carrying out incest being a femcel and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:45 AM
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Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:40 AM
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Nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:37 AM
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Are you interested in the subject matter? Yes. You are interested in gender studies. That’s all it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:37 AM
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Intimacy is not just sex dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:36 AM
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I will never get over the men on these subs laughing about ‘gender studies’ while spending years on subs that solely focus on gender studies (red pill, this sub, incel subs). Anyone and everyone on this sub and related subs is interested in gender studies. The history of feminism would be fascinating and once I’m settled financially would love to go back and study something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:46 PM
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Why are you working so hard to get laid? Get a tinder account and live your life girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:47 AM
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I guess we’ve been around some very different relationships. I see the women around me getting cheated on and mistreated while they’re doing 100% of the work at home and also working out of home. I don’t really know any man who I would say works harder than the woman they are with. I love my father and he is a hard worker but he can’t do what my mother does. My mother can do what he does on top of all the things only she can do. That’s kind of a trend I’ve noticed. I’ve lived with a man once and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:46 AM
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No I have a father and a brother and male friends and I am a data scientist with 80% male colleges. I said women do not rely only on men to fulfil those needs. And we were talking about a relationship. I do not need a relationship to fulfil those needs. Men seem to think they can only fulfil those needs through sex and partnering with women. I’m telling you - you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:39 AM
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But you’re not young or hot? So your simping behaviour is pointless you’re still bringing nothing to the relationship sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:36 AM
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Are you planning on killing yourself when you turn 30? You won’t be young anymore so surely you wouldn’t be selfish enough to keep using our limited resources on earth to keep your useless life going?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:49 AM
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I didn’t say anything about dating. Build closer relationships with your family, friends, volunteer, go into a job where you care for people, get a pet, go out and socialise and meet new people. And no ones expecting you to work 80 hours and do 75% of household chores cmon man. I literally don’t know any man that does that. If you do a 40 hour work week and do 25% of the household chores and are actually invested in raising your kids you are a literal unicorn man and your wife will be bragging a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:45 AM
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Not for touch or affection or socialisation. 90% of my needs in that department are always fulfilled though family and friends and even work. Certain hobbies. Volunteering. My pets. I’ve spent years single and celibate and have not felt lonely or touch starved because I always have people in my life that care for me and that need me to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:38 AM
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You shouldn’t only be relying on women to help your touch starvation. That’s the thing. Women do not rely only on men. And more women (especially ones with children) complain about being over touched so a man only getting all his touch needs from an already touched out woman is a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:17 AM
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So all men have rightfully earned a hot submissive loyal woman to live her life for him? I’m confused. What have men ‘rightfully earned’ that they are being denied?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:24 AM
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Misogyny is literally everywhere though? Books that have shaped literature, the language we use, the medical system, politics. Men that hate women are in power and make the decisions for society and it permeates every single structure. Women have a single branch of feminism that is actively anti men and that’s radical lesbian/political separatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:37 AM
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Men date crazy women all the time. BPD and similar personality disorders are catnip. Men’s hero complex kicks in here and actually y’all even have another saying for it ‘playing captain save a hoe’.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:32 PM
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Men evade judgement and accountability regardless of their appearance that’s why even the ugliest of men have the entitlement and audacity of the hottest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:30 PM
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Men do not consider dark triad women or crazy women attractive, that is the equivalent. Yeah men just have to constantly remind themselves to not ‘stick their dick in crazy’ because they’re not attracted to crazy women. This is a hill I will die on. Crazy women are the equivalent of bad boys. And men love em
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:14 PM
7

Such bullshit. It’s a purely rational thing. The most attractive men are almost all players and cheaters so any relationship is pointless. The blame is on men because the good looking ones are willingly undesirable for relationships. Women would love what we desire, it’s just that we can’t because those Chads are not loveable. It’s all their fault if they would just care about providing for us what we value for relationships, desirability and love would go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:06 PM
1

I’ve ended a serious relationship when the guy I was with told me he’d slept with 64 women (not including me - so I was lucky number 65). I couldn’t get over it and I don’t think I’m a prude… there are just some numbers that are too damn high. I couldn’t even have sex with him again, I felt so dirty just thinking about it - and this was a guy I was actually dating and had feelings for. She was just a fwb, you did the right thing by calling it off now. She can go and meet someone like my ex. Thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:38 AM
37

He’s a dick and she’s an idiot. Ladies, don’t be an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:12 AM
1

Then why even bother talking to women on online forums where you cannot observe what they do and can only listen to what they say? If you don’t believe what women say why do you still feel the need to waste both theirs and your time on conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:29 AM
1

Experimenting and comparing sex partners is an act of betrayal, yet I never see women question their own morality on that one. Have you ever seen a man question their own morality on that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:22 AM
0

Yes prostitution was first invented in 2008. Men didn’t use money to pay for sex before then. Crazy isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:19 AM
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Look at you bitching for a paragraph straight to show that men aren’t bitchy. Mission: not accomplished
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:15 AM
2

What kind of reactions do women have when male attention is denied? How is male attention denied from them? Men are always paying attention to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:16 AM
1

I was working out only at home for all of last year due to lockdowns and I was still wearing leggings and sport bras even completely alone. They’re comfy and I look so good I get excited to work out to look even better. I don’t have social media but my camera roll is still 80% me in my gym clothes because I just love looking at myself. A lot of hard work has gone into this body and I love it when my hard work pays off. It’s the same as looking at my stocks portfolio when it’s doing really well. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:14 AM
12

Yeah I’m literally going to the gym so my body looks good? Looking at myself and thinking ‘damn you look good’ motivates me to keep going because that’s the only reason I’m there in the first place. Along with 99.9% of the other people there (male and female).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:06 AM
1

I wish I was born into an all female society. So science fiction it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:20 AM
2

Women… not basing their entire attraction of men off of 2 photos but being attracted by a multitude of traits that can only be expressed in person is shallow? Women wouldn’t be shallow if they just picked partners off of a photo? What
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:02 PM
1

It doesn’t make me a prostitute it makes them my fans! I’m a celebrity!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:42 AM
1

No I don’t have sex with men. I just lead them on until they stop trying. Rinse and repeat. Y’all are desperate enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:43 AM
1

Nah I’ll keep men around for as long as they keep paying my bills. I’m only 25, I’ve got another decade of milking men before I settle down with a nice woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:38 AM
2

Nah I’ll keep men around for as long as they keep paying my bills. I’m only 25, I’ve got another decade of milking men before I settle down with a nice woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:38 AM
2

Yeah let’s blame women for men molesting children that’s logical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:36 AM
3

STOP TRYING TO HOLD MEN ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS YOU BITCH. DEVELOP SUPER POWERS TO BE ABLE TO TELL WITH 100% CERTAINTY WHICH MEN ARE CRIMINALS OR NOT AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS YOURSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:35 AM
4

Men rape and molest their own kids/grandkids/nieces and nephews all the time, if women really cared about the safety of their kids they would just pair up with other women and raise them away from any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:31 AM
1

Yes because I don’t want children. If I was having a child with a man, marriage would be the only way. And he’d have to earn more than me and no prenup. I am not a fool to take on ALL the risks while he takes on none. But I don’t want kids so I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:30 AM
7

Pooooor men :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:34 AM
4

My dating pool is women and bisexual men. Straight men are an absolute fucking write off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:30 AM
11

Yeah because you haven’t said anything smart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:26 AM
2

You don’t need to picture it you just need to develop the ability to hear the words that come out of your mouth. You’ll start recognising it real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:45 PM
9

I have a completely different reddit account where I am a man for all of the other subs I’m interested in. It’s just nice to have even my dumbest opinions validated with 0 push back and insults and rape and death threats. I literally have to put 0 effort into the things I say and men still cheer me on. The difference is so stark it actually makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:38 PM
8

You don't see anything like this with men and bisexual women. Yeah men just think you’re a whore and kiss your ass because he thinks it’ll culminate in a threesome. And if you’re a bisexual woman who has actually been in a relationship with women they get super weird too. It’s suddenly not just the fantasy of two women fucking for what he perceives is for his attention but other women are now a threat and everyone makes him insecure now and it’s all your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:32 PM
1

It’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:27 PM
4

Aroused by anything and everything except the vast majority of the male population ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 PM
1

Honestly the incentive just isn’t there. I just don’t care enough to improve myself in a way that men find appealing because I don’t find 99.9% men appealing. I have been attracted to like 10 men in my entire life and I don’t care about marriage and kids so why bother? If men feel the same way then I’d imagine their thought process would be similar to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:56 PM
-1

Good for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:50 PM
1

I think I might be a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:42 PM
1

Why thank you dear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:05 PM
0

I don’t care who’s raping them, they’re getting laid either way I’m sure they’re happy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 PM
2

I’m getting my tubes tied august 2022 so I won’t have to think about my ovaries ever again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:01 PM
2

I’m getting my tubes tied this year so that is a very real possibility!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:01 PM
5

They're still thinking that, like in the drama, a hot 28 years old man will forego social norms and his hot young female neighbor for the accomplished 38 years old miserable woman... I’ve got covid and have 2 weeks to watch tv. Drop the name of this show please it sounds right up my alley
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:59 AM
2

Ah goddamn work, making me sit at a computer in an air conditioned office on a comfy chair with an espresso machine next to me for 40 hours a week and in return allowing me to buy food, a house, pay my medical bills, clothes, vacations, experiences, fund my hobbies, books, an education, jewellery, pets. Oh I can also help my parents have a better life than they had growing up in poverty?? And it offers me social acceptance, status and respect? Fuck I can’t believe I got tricked into this!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:50 AM
5

Broad shoulders, smart hair and a moustache is apparently what you need to be a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:45 AM
11

Yeah because men in prison fuck each other. Take a page out of their books and take it up the ass like a man instead of whining like a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:43 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:11 PM
1

You know when men talk about how in marriage the woman must fuck him constantly and forever? That’s also being used as a human flashlight just in marriage. Most men see sex in a really fucked up way that makes my insides turn when I think about it. But I am a woman living in a country where I never really have to depend or tie myself to a man so I can enjoy them in my own right without caring what they’re thinking about the situation. I enjoy good looking men and I am young and good looking enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:40 AM
2

I’m 25, is it too early to join you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:23 AM
2

I am so excited to finally tie the knot in 2022. And by that I mean my Fallopian tubes, not marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:21 AM
2

No. Women are locks, men are keys. Women are fish, men are fishermen. Women are deer, men are hunters. Women are cars, men are… human beings. In every male/female analogy about sex women are either victims or passive objects therefore cannot cause harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:16 AM
1

Yes women’s lack of physical strength has been the reason why we have had to adopt stronger mental ability. Men don’t need to think when they can just punch their way out of problems. This applies to real life, men just incite so much violence to benefit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:12 AM
7

Yes to everything except sucking dick. It’s 2022 we’re past that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:08 AM
3

No not by dudes, but HOT dudes? It doesn’t matter what they think when they’re so nice to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:37 AM
7

Bisexual women who have dated both men and women!! Speaking from the experience, the wires in my brain are crossed I like feminine men and masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:11 AM
2

Chinas women have literally been donned ‘leftover women’ and you think that’s society treating them nice?? Lmao. Women get shit on for this as well. If you wanna be alone most people will think poorly of you. It’s not a gendered thing. And in fact I’d argue that women get shit on way more for it. There are so many names and stereotypes against single women. None positive. Men have heaps of positive association with single hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:25 PM
5

Yeah they’re not too nice towards spinsters either. It’s societies job to make push us together, god knows we wouldn’t do it otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:21 AM
1

Good for you man, keep on doing whatever’s making you happy. If it works it works and you’re not hurting anyone. You’re definitely doing it right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:55 AM
8

So you want 100% certainty with 0 risk and a lifetime of someone staying perfect and the exact same and they never expect anything in return from you ever? Do you guys have any relationships? Like not just romantic ones but platonic, friends, family? Do you understand how they work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:34 AM
23

‘Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity because I am a male who dates women and will therefore never be affected by male infidelity and I am incapable of seeing past myself and cannot imagine anything worse than the things that directly affect my penis and ego and everyone else can get fucked.’
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:44 AM
1

Male sexuality is very fluid it’s just not spoken about because it’s not socially acceptable. Straight men do the gayest things in the world and then just add a ‘no homo’ at the end. No dude. Slapping your balls on your sleeping buddy’s face is very homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:18 AM
2

Oh I love a man I can share travel stories with. I love travelling, if a man also tells me he loves travelling it provides a sense of relief that if I end up with him he will enjoy adventures and wasting ridiculous amounts of money on experiences. And that he enjoys life. I don’t want someone who is content just living in his living room, bedroom and office for the rest of his life. Travel ftw 🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:26 AM
7

This is very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:17 AM
2

All I’m saying is, when I was in my early 20s and dating around I figured out that the easiest way to get men hooked is by exhibiting bpd traits. I do not have bpd but I studied the symptoms and threw them in and it literally never failed. Me being the stable ‘I’m studying, have a good daily routine, working hard, spending time with my family, well disciplined’ gal did not work. The second I decided to make a conscious effort to act/appear crazy/unstable men were sticking to me like flies on hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:08 PM
3

Nah having BPD literally makes men more attracted to you. It’s because of the bpd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:39 PM
7

Men literally have to constantly remind each other ‘don’t stick your dick in crazy’ and then also continuously fail to do that. Acting crazy is the female equivalent of a bad boy. And men LOVE it. Y’all literally love crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:37 PM
3

You think about sex all the time. We get it. We all get the male mind. There’s not much depth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:17 PM
1

He could’ve used different examples if he didn’t want people to think of children. Coworkers, celebrities, waitresses. He chose to say ‘students’ and ‘his daughters friends’.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:19 PM
2

Teachers think about fucking their students, fathers think about fucking their daughter’s friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:49 PM
1

Sex is great. Thinking about fucking everyone including children in your care isn’t. And I’m not American. I’m Eastern European. We’ve been disgusted by men for centuries. Americans are just catching up now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:40 PM
1

Yep. It’s actually done wonders for me working in a male dominated stem industry. The men used to intimidate me but just picture them doing that ^ and you stop taking them seriously. It just makes me feel something at the crossroad between disgust and pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:19 PM
1

Teachers think about fucking their students, fathers think about fucking their daughter’s friends, doctors think about fucking their patients. And right now, for every woman with even an iota of sex appeal, there’s probably a man somewhere in the world who’s touching himself and thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. Are these thoughts 'psychological infidelity', or are they totally normal facets of the male psyche? God? Hey God? Are you up there? Why the fuck did you make men this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:35 AM
5

The thought of a man hunched over jerking off alone while watching other men fuck women he wishes he was fucking on a screen… Cumming inside a sock or a tissue. Calling this one of his core needs and defending it with his whole being. Panicking at the thought of not being able to watch men with bigger dicks than him fuck hotter women than he will ever get. It just paints such a pathetic image of the man in my head when I picture it. It makes it a lot harder to respect him and unless he’s serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:28 AM
1

I am currently on tinder as a drinking game. We’ve made a bingo board of stereotypical shit men say on tinder and they’re all so predictable you just end up wasted within 15minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:04 AM
3

Dating as a childfree woman is ridiculous. There are literally no childfree men out there. I meet a lot of CF women. I wasted 2 years with a guy who was ‘100% childfree’ up until he pulled a ‘well… surely you’re gonna change your mind? You’re not actually serious about not having children?’ He was just telling me what I wanted to hear and was convinced that it was just silly banter and of course as a woman I will actually want children with him. I’ve never loved a man more in my life and I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:00 AM
1

Yes male ‘attraction’ is primarily about demonstrating social value. Which is why I said men will do, think and fuck whatever the dominant men in their current society and time tell them to. The male social hierarchy doesn’t have room for individuality or non-conformist beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:33 AM
3

Let them fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:28 PM
2

That’s because women make men cum. Men usually don’t make women cum. Vibrators do. I was having sex with men wayyyy before I bought my first vibrator. Turns out I do not enjoy orgasm-less sex. My stomach hurts and I feel nausea and it makes me despise the man laying in bed next to me to the point where I want to suffocate him with a pillow while he’s sleeping. A vibrator fixed that problem. Now I cum every time! If a man could make my cum every time the same way I can make him cum every time I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:24 PM
4

White women that blur the line between child and whore. And also seeing as hentai is dominating porn right now I’d say you’re being nicely primed for the advent of VR porn and sex dolls. Something is really going haywire in male minds when the most searched for porn category isn’t even real women but super strange anime. I don’t know how yall are gonna keep using the ‘it’s natural, it’s biology, it’s evolution’ excuse when you’re jacking off primarily to cartoon women being fucked by octopus ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:45 AM
21

This is why when men try to tell me that their preference for 14 year old girls is completely natural and biological I don’t believe them. Men are attracted to whatever the dominant men in their society tell them to be attracted to. Little boys, men, fat women, skinny women, animals, goats, women with rotting teeth. Male sexuality is always strong but also can be quite effectively conditioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:54 PM
1

I don’t feel anything because I would never approach a man. If he doesn’t approach me, someone else will. I do also date women though, that requires approaching. And yes it makes me shit my pants a little every time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:49 PM
1

I like making money because I like money and all the great things money can buy me. If touching a vagina is the only motivation in your life I don’t think we’ll be able to see eye to eye on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:32 PM
-1

Since when did paying taxes mean you get to have your ideal partner? You get a salary, the status of having a job and get to live in a well developed country with roads and education and healthcare. Your job was never meant to give you a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:52 AM
-2

Being held accountable for your actions feels like discrimination when you know if you were only born 50 years ago you could’ve gotten away with all of it and discriminated against other people for no reason. Men have lost a lot though. Men have lost a lot of power. We think you’re being hysterical because we still see you in a more powerful position than us. But you’re the ones experiencing the biggest loss of power the male population has experienced in centuries. And it’s nothing you can phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:47 AM
-1

What’s insane is that this exact same mindset, except the genders reversed, is what finally led me to fully accepting radical feminism. I feel like I’ve literally said everything you just said word for word so many times. I could write essays on this (once again, with the genders reversed) and be able to pull so much evidence and ideas from history, religion, statistics, psychology, biology, feminist theory, philosophy, linguistics, media brainwashing. The fact that you’re a man saying this actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:29 AM
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a) a lot of men are bad lovers and b) a lot of women are having sex they don’t actually want to be having
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:58 AM
3

It is the literal definition of hypocrisy but no one is forbidding you from being a hypocrite. I’m sorry it makes you upset when your action match the definition of words that make you upset but take it up with the dictionary. Feeling sad about it doesn’t mean people should change the definition of a word so you’re not feeling sad anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:07 AM
1

Since when did doing push ups fall under the label of ‘morality’? Do any of you understand what words mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:03 AM
1

25, current dating range is 20-28
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:55 AM
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I don’t want children and I’m good at making money so I don’t have to be practical when it comes to men. Younger men are fun and fit and porn hasn’t fucked them/their dicks up as badly. Also they’re wayyyy more receptive to tips in the bedroom. My mother is older than my father, grandma was slightly older than grandpa, my brother has married an older woman and 3/4 of my LTRs plus all of the casual flings I’ve had have been with younger men. It hasn’t been intentional but I truly wonder if there …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:50 AM
5

Being a success object is just so much objectively better. Dating and relationships aren’t the only thing in life, being successful makes your entire life better. I’m well aware that most men will still only value me for my looks or sex appeal or whatever but my success gives me so so many tangible benefits, social benefits and just overall emotional/mental/intellectual fulfilment that it’s just not even a competition. Being viewed as a sex object has predominantly had negative impacts in my lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:25 AM
8

men with masculine faces are perceived as less likely to invest in their children I keep saying that ‘providing’ (and also protecting but let’s put that to the side) is not a masculine trait and subconsciously we all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:42 AM
5

Men should pay child support from conception and if a woman takes out life insurances on her foetus she should be able to claim it in case of miscarriage or stillbirth. Also if a man abuses his pregnant partner he should not only be charged with domestic violence but also child abuse. And if you have sex with a pregnant woman you should be placed on a sex offenders list because you are a pedophile. Sounds good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:37 AM
6

Usually when men larp as women on here they at least try to sound like women. You just went full speed with the incel language. Edit: holy shit your comment history. I cannot imagine how much shit you’ve gotten in your life about your height for you to create an alternate reality where you are a 6’8 woman. Seriously seriously get off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:23 AM
1

Y’all have no problem lying about literally anything else but doing a DNA test on your kid without telling your wife to alleviate you of literally your deepest fear is where you draw the line? Give me a fucking break. You don’t need to ask for your wife’s permission to take a swab from your baby’s mouth. You either find out that a) the kid is yours and you never have to mention to your wife that you tested for it or b) the kid isn’t yours and who gives a fuck if your wife is mad that you got tes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:41 AM
1

Yes. I already tick all the requirements of a god tier husband as a woman - I make good money, I’m happy to spend it on the people I love and I’m not an asshole. My wife would carry our children, do majority of the childcare and domestic duties and I could literally live the exact same way as I am living now except with a lot more social, sexual, domestic and financial benefits. It is so fucking easy to make your marriage benefit you as a man that it never fails fo blow my mind how men manage to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:36 AM
2

There are spinsters and cat ladies and women who just live alone without needed a movement behind them. The ‘rich single childfree aunt’ has been a trope and a goal to aspire to for a while now. Celibacy vows to access your ‘divine feminine energy’ is also making a come back amongst the spiritual/new age crowd. Single mothers who don’t date anymore and just focus on their kids. Widows who don’t entertain men after their husband passes. Women ‘go their own way’ everyday they just don’t have a uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:29 AM
2

I literally did a DNA test for fun a few months ago and it cost me $60. What do you mean ‘this is literally something you can never know’. You CAN know it. It’s super easy, cheap and accessible. You can have it express delivered to your house in a day. The only way we could make this any easier for you would be to have buckets of DNA tests for free on every street. And y’all would still whine about having to walk the 10 steps to the street to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:14 AM
2

Don’t have sex and put your semen into women you don’t trust dude, men are the gatekeepers of babies. If you dont give a woman your seed she cannot have a baby. Protect yourself. I’ve heard they’ve invented these things called condoms as well if you really can’t help yourself from fucking women you don’t trust
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:05 AM
7

If a very attractive woman out of your league took you out, paid for your shit, made all the effort to get in your pants but she wasn’t actually that attracted to you would you equalise that with you purchasing sex from an escort? No because you know it’s not the same. This hypothetical attractive man may just be looking to get laid - but so am I. I’m not looking to date him, he’s not looking to date me. We both want something casual and I never put in the effort to fuck men anyway so it’s more …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:55 AM
7

I mean, I’m not paying anyone for sex. They’re paying for my drinks and food and trying to get in my pants. If I find them really hot and I’m not looking for anything past casual why would I care if he really finds me that attractive or he’s just pretending to get in my pants? The outcome is the same. Guys who pay for escorts know those women wouldn’t touch them with a 10ft pole without the money. I don’t put effort/money into fucking hot dudes against their wishes. They do the work just as much…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:26 AM
3

Damn so feminism’s been around for centuries trying to fool men into lowering their boundaries enough to fuck multiple women? The more you know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:59 PM
10

Or maybe women just wanna bang a dude they think is hot? The one time I’ve had sex with a guy from a dating app I didn’t even think about what he was thinking of me. He was hot and keen and my heart was set on a casual fling so that’s all I needed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:41 PM
1

I’m 25 now and my sex life is patchy with some moments where I’ve had more of it and long periods without it. I started having sex at 17, it was always rare because there was no place to do it and my parents were strict. Then I moved out of home and couldn’t be fucked dating/having sex so I was celibate for 3 and a half years. I banged a couple of people at the end of that and ended up in a LTR just before covid hit and I had a lot more sex during covid than I would’ve without it because…. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:53 AM
4

You think before feminism people encouraged women to flex their achievements? Lol. I love how we blame everything on feminism, even things that have been improved by it… And then you say that men don’t like competitive women! Well that’s a lot closer to the truth. Men don’t mind competitive women - just as long as they’re winning. Competitive women that are better than them? Yeah they don’t like those.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:40 AM
5

It’s harder for men to make friends when they wanna talk about how women don’t understand social isolation because they have an easier time building meaningful friendships, unlike men, and it’s easier for men to make friends when they wanna talk about how shit women are at being friends because they’re drama seeking bitches who don’t value meaningful friendships, unlike men. Keep up sis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:44 AM
5

There is more that goes into it, men are rewarded for flexing (if what they’re flexing is even remotely impressive). Women flexing is mocked and ridiculed a lot more. I can flex all I want around other women but I’ve learnt not to do it in front of men because I cannot be fucked dealing with the pissing competition afterwards as they twist themselves in a pretzel trying to out-do me and then brand ME as attention seeking or arrogant. We love to humble women. Men? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:38 AM
5

You talk about women as objects (or ‘products’) and then say that women are the cause for unhealthy relationships. If you don’t even view women as human beings I don’t know why you expect to have a healthy relationship. All you ‘nice guys’ are just as dishonest and horrible as the bad boys but you’re boring and usually ugly on top of it. If I’m gonna be an object, or a product that gets used up I may as well have fun doing it and have a pretty face to look at while I’m riding that dick. Men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:42 AM
4

So men don’t take responsibility for their kids… and they have to pay for them instead and that’s why men are victims? Because they absolute themselves of their biggest responsibility in return for $400 a month that most of them don’t even pay? Lmao. When men ask for custody they get custody the vast, VAST majority of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:39 AM
3

I dunno it just does sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:22 PM
7

Every time I’ve been in this situation it’s made me either a) feel deep compassion, sad, honoured he’s sharing this with me b) laugh c) horny It just depends on how I feel, what my relationship with the guy is at the time, what he’s crying about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:16 PM
0

Your mom obviously didn’t fuck you up enough. That’s too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:51 AM
0

Mommy won’t hurt you baby, let me kiss your trust issues better 😘 I only want the best for my sweet boy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:49 AM
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This is one of the best posts I’ve seen on here. Thank you so much for writing this up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:56 AM
4

Most of the male population is submissive to pussy. You just gotta find the ones that don’t feel the need to put on the macho man act all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:40 AM
5

I keep getting all the submissive dudes. You just need to be a confident domineering woman and all the submissive men with mommy issues will come crawling to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:50 PM
2

I cannot estimate dick length and I am a qualified mathematician. If it looks big it’s big. If it looks small it’s small. If i wouldn’t say it’s big or small it’s average. When I say average I am not thinking of the world’s average penis size im just saying what is average for me. From all my previous partners I can tell you who was the smallest because it was a noticeable small but I wouldn’t be able to tell you if boyfriend #1 had a bigger dick than boyfriend #2 and if my fwb in 2016 was small…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:47 PM
1

If you like sex go have sex with a man. Oh you won’t? Why? Because you need to have sex with a woman. Women like sex as well. I love sex. I could fuck all day everyday… but only with like 3 people in the world. We both like sex but you like most women, I like a teeny % of men. If you only liked as many women as I do men, you wouldn’t be as obsessed with sex either. It’s easy to forget it when you almost never see someone in real life who you would be interested in fucking. Since men like most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:35 AM
1

I haven’t said anything contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:56 PM
2

Read it all again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:43 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:25 PM
2

Why wouldn’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:23 PM
1

Why is it called ‘looking down’ on someone when that person is perceived as feminine? You just reiterated my first part. There is no way to be feminine towards a male without it devaluing the feminine person. It’s why it crosses over to the homosexuals as well. Anyway. It is what it is. p.s. first time encountering a misandrist and misogynist combo in a closet RP woman. So do you just hate everyone? No I only hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:21 PM
2

I don’t think women are objects. I just think a very large chunk of the worlds population sees us as such and it’s best to acknowledge it. Do I like it? Do I agree with it? No I hope everyone who thinks that way dies in their sleep tonight. But there’s no point in pretending it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:13 PM
3

I accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:31 AM
3

From your complete lack of understanding of my comment I feel like if I took the time to type out a detailed response you’d reply back with something equally as pointless as this first reply and then I’ll get sucked into a stupid debate where I spend most of my time explaining myself over and over while you continue to miss what I say. I said what I said. Enjoy your thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:13 AM
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Society looks down on people who fuck men because men are seen as dirty or predators. We looks down on people who willingly lower themselves to engage with dirty predators. Men are seen as takers and women as givers when it comes to sex because with our attitude towards sex, men quite literally steal human value from the women they sleep with. Im not saying that a woman actually has a lower human value after fucking a man (im a misandrist, not a misogynist) but these are the rules. A man sleeps …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:59 AM
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As another Easter European gal, who was horrified by the way that men are in EE, moving to Australia was like releasing a kid in a candy store. All of the options to live a beautiful fulfilling life with or without a man is something I wish I could give to all those women in my home country. I know like 70% of them would dump their husbands in a heartbeat to live this way. I thank my lucky stars everyday for the chance to live here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:35 AM
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Because when we think of a ‘man’ 90% of the male population doesn’t fit the definition. We aren’t into men as a group the way that men are into women as a group. Men like WOMEN. Any woman is a net positive. Women didn’t like MEN. Most men are a net negative. A small group of men are a net positive. Those men are hard to find and usually already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:24 AM
1

I do 110% believe porn fucks with women’s heads as much as it does men’s. I am certain that my sexual experiences have been impacted by my watching porn, especially the porn I watched as a teen before I had any actual experience with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:19 PM
2

Money is just so much more satisfying than fucking. Poor people just can’t afford a better hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:46 AM
0

I have literally told every single boyfriend I’ve had that I’d cheat on him with Harry styles. Ive wanted to fuck him since I was 15. Ive dated 4 men in that time and they’ve all been warned that if the occasion arose, I would go for it. They just gave me their celeb crush and locked it in as their celeb hall pass. Who the fuck cares? What are the chances I’d ever meet Harry much less fuck him or my boyfriend meets Scarlett johanson and fucks her? I’d also leave a partner if I got the chance to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:45 AM
0

I am the only one out of my friends that has done this. Yay me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:22 AM
1

Their enthusiasm and losing control due to desire is what makes it so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:19 PM
3

Younger men may sometimes finish quicker bc they’re overexcited BUT they’re also always always excited enough to go for more rounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:42 AM
3

Why do men never seem to struggle to understand the biology behind being attracted to youth when it comes to them explaining their attraction to teen girls but also seem to think that women not finding balding hair, saggy balls, beer gut, wrinkles is due to societal conditioning? Why would women want to reproduce with an old guy when younger men are hotter, fitter, stronger, harder and still have healthy semen instead of a graveyard of the ghosts of semen past in their balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:40 AM
1

And how does this 25 year old model who works at google and owns multiples properties in NYC feel about dating a woman? Asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:33 AM
1

It was really just that one that tried to off himself post break up, unfortunately. I’ve taken very good care of all the other’s egos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:36 AM
2

My favourite part of this was when you tried to kill your self 3 times. I hope you find more success there some day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:04 AM
2

The majority of men ARE insecure and pathetic. I’ve had men do the most god awful shit to me and I’ve gotten past it. I had an ex boyfriend try to kill himself when I told him he’s the worst sex I’ve had in the heat of an argument. It’s pathetic how easy it is to mentally crush most of you. My dog has a stronger sense of self identity than 80% of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:01 AM
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I hope your fiancé dumps you and you never get laid again in your life. I seriously had a little sympathy for you at the start of this thread but, like every other time I’ve had sympathy for a male, you prove that you are more deserving of the electric chair than sympathy in under 2 minutes. If your neural pathways have already been set in this way it’s best if they just switched off altogether. Your poor fucking fiancé. I’ll pray for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:56 AM
1

I don’t think we’re talking about mail ordered brides here. They definitely come with an authentic virginity certificate for an extra price. You can even cross reference the barcode on the certificate with the one God placed on her hymen to check
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:51 AM
0

But if a man is a genetically blessed ‘Chad’ who doesn’t struggle to get laid y’all don’t have any moral issues there despite how easy it is for him to get laid. So don’t sit there patting yourself on the back about how male whores are good because of the discipline it takes. Male whores who don’t need discipline are literally your idols. If you woke up tomorrow and you never had to put any effort into getting laid would you stop because it’s just indulgence and hedonism? And sorry but no matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:46 AM
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I love how ‘self respecting women’ is just ‘women who don’t allow men to touch them’. We all agree liking men is a sign of low self respect, y’all really should just join us radical feminists. We’re on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:41 AM
0

No they’re called children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:37 AM
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5’4 - 5’8 is best for me. Above 6ft is too tall for me. Below 5’2 is too short for me. And with all that being said I’ve made 1 exception each on both sides - I did not enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:24 AM
2

Hahahahahhahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:59 AM
0

I’m not American
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:43 AM
-1

Who are my guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:45 AM
0

Men’s 3000000 head start doesn’t count? We just Rick rolled y’all in 2 generations? Women couldn’t do anything until not to long ago and still can’t in 70% of the world but we’re the ones with a head start. Oookay You know whenever I start feeling hopeless with feminism you guys really do cheer me up. I think you’re mainly deluded but it’s nice to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:31 AM
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And then you’ll spend the next decade crying on the internet about divorce rape. Men are a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:21 AM
8

Do any of you actually… like sex? Y’all talk about it so much but then make it sound so unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:19 AM
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Yeah, most older men can give you a list of men they know who lied about what actually happened in their marriage/divorce. Men aren’t exactly known to take accountability for the demise of their relationships. ‘My ex was crazy’ is the go to line no matter if they’re 14 or 68.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:11 AM
5

No one can take your inheritance unless you explicitly give them a stake in it. Do y’all actually research anything before you throw a toddler tantrum on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:35 AM
2

If maimed military vets can be happy what excuse do incels have? Or is a lonely dick the only condition harrowing enough to garner sympathy from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:29 AM
4

I literally begged my parents to divorce when I was a kid. So did my sister. My brother cried at the mention of divorce because he thought the boys go to live in one house and the girls in another and he didn’t want to live without mum. But once I explained to him that he would be coming with mum as well he was 100% on board. But they stayed together ‘for the kids’. Now they’re gonna be empty nesters soon and they are panicking so SO hard at the thought of being alone and old with all the kids g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:24 AM
1

I’ve always got weed and cool stories. People love me at parties! Just keep me away from the red wine. Red wine makes me REALLY open about my anti natalist views. Some find that part a bit of a downer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:00 AM
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3 of my mothers friends were left by their husbands who couldn’t be fucked filling in the paperwork. 3 more women to add to the statistic of ‘women leaving their husbands’ used to demonise women when in reality… their husbands were so useless that they couldn’t even end the relationship on their own. They wanted a divorce but needed their wife to divorce them because god forbid they do the boring, tedious work when they can just fuck off and get a head start on finding a new woman to stick their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:58 AM
5

I am in my 20s now. Men 30+ do hit on me, often. It’s not socially unacceptable. It’s just not in the slightest bit appealing. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:25 AM
1

Rub my 7 guinea pig nipples you big warrior man. Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:50 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:49 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, I hadn’t thought of that yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:41 AM
1

I did it and I’m back. You’re still melodramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:38 AM
1

Well if the male side is ‘hunting’ then y’all can’t be upset when we think you’re all predators. Seriously nothing has killed my sex drive more than learning men think this way about sex. I wouldn’t mind it if every man who thought this way dropped dead. The world would be better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:37 AM
2

God you’re melodramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:31 AM
3

I don’t feel comfortable discussing the sex lives of children. She wasn’t even attracted to men. Shes a child fooling around with other kids. When I was 14 I vowed to lose my virginity to Harry Styles. People grow up and change quite a bit in those years. And how do you give someone fingering? The language y’all use for anything sex related is so gross. You’re all so egotistical and self obsessed and see sex as so one sided that even a girl getting fingered is something that she gives to you. ‘H…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:21 AM
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I’m 25 and I still wanna call the cops when 30 year old men flirt with me. I forget that I’m a whole ass adult and this is not only legal, but entirely socially acceptable 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:03 AM
4

People don’t read Lolita because they wanna fuck the protagonist. Lolita is a literal child. It is a story about pedophilia. It is beautifully written and teen me and adult me love the book but it’s not because it makes me horny. And Lana del Rey was playing non stop from my speakers from age 15-23, I was a die hard fan. The men I dated and fucked during this time were all between 3 years younger than me to 1 year older than me. Just liking a form of media doesn’t mean that’s what you want in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:56 AM
5

Society has also told men that they’re predators for chasing after young women and they haven’t stopped… it’s almost like people can’t be stopped from going for who they’re attracted to… and young women just aren’t attracted to old men… and all the studies confirm this… as well as most women… sorry pal :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:53 AM
2

Ahhhh a warrior bitching on reddit. If the rest of your warrior buddies are like you, we’re screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:37 AM
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If I loved him and he loved me and stayed loyal, I’d stay. There’s more to life than sex and I’m really okay with masturbating if need be. If I’m disabled + have kids and I’m in my 40s and he’s offering to love and take care of me/the kids just not fuck me it’s still a better deal than I would get without him. Being a divorced, disabled, obese, middle aged single mother probably wouldn’t be the best idea for me or the kids. Your scenario would obviously still be difficult for me, but I could und…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:23 AM
1

I’ve met way too many dads that just look over at their wife whenever a question about their kid comes up. It is WAY too common for fathers to know nothing about their kids. I’m convinced this is why we give kids their fathers surname, otherwise they’d probably forget that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:28 AM
2

My father worked 60-70 hour weeks when I was growing up and he still knew my teachers names, all of my friends and their parents, my favourite bands and movies and books and tv show characters… it’s called ‘knowing your child’ and it’s a pretty big fatherly duty. I’m sick of men thinking that just paying the bills absolves them of literally everything else, including having the most basic of relationships with their kids. I worked as a receptionist in a doctors office while I was studying and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:19 AM
1

Ding ding ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:16 AM
-1

I dunno man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:41 AM
3

There’s always at least one dude on these threads that pulls the good ol ‘fuck men you’re not attracted to or we’ll rape you’. Single life is currently more appealing than dealing with 99.9% of you and suicide would be more appealing in your next scenario. The only way you’re fucking me is if I’m a corpse bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:20 AM
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20% is way too high. Thinking 1 in 5 men are attractive??? That’s insanely high. I’m certain that even men think less than 1 in 5 women are attractive but y’all just don’t notice the women that you don’t think are attractive. It’s not that men find every woman attractive, it’s that you only see attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:12 AM
-1

Man I have been in a couple of relationships where I had the tingles for someone and they never made me cum. If women only got the tingles from cumming there would be very, very few successful couples in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:08 AM
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When your ‘feelings’ are hurt because your partner doesn’t want to be put in pain because of you… yeah people won’t give a fuck about your feelings lol. You think your insecurities are more important than someone being in literal physical pain for your pleasure. Your comparisons are fucked up and this is why a lack of sympathy exists for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:25 AM
1

I’ve been on both ends, I’m well aware of the process
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:02 AM
9

Y’all love evolutionary biology until you have to explain why biology evolved to put men’s g spot up their ass. It’s there for a reason dude. The presence of our vagina is even less incentive to put something up my ass that has no g spot (nor baby making ability). Men have been getting fucked up the ass WAY more than women throughout history which is why it’s there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:26 AM
9

But you want women to get stabbed in the butt with a dildo? And y’all are the ones with a g spot up there, your asses are literally built to take a dick not ours. You should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:31 AM
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It’s not. It never is. They are entitled pieces of shit that think their partners should show them love by tolerating as much pain, abuse, degradation and humiliation as possible. I cannot imagine ‘loving’ someone and wanting to make them do things in bed that would so much as make them slightly uncomfortable, much less what these shits always seem to want. ‘If you love me you would let me do whatever I want to you and you will enjoy it even when it hurts and harms you physically, emotionally an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:16 AM
7

Who the fuck is telling men that when they get married they’ll get sex whenever they want? Other men? Bc women sure aren’t saying that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:25 AM
1

Because I didn’t think they were waiting for my relationship to end for them to pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:40 PM
4

Ah I’m in the ‘I never want to be with another person again in my life ’ stage atm but we’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:16 PM
5

Oh my god I am just going through a break up and the amount of male thirst in my messages rn is insane. I don’t even know how half of them know I’m single. And I’m really (unpleasantly) surprised by certain men shooting their shot. Male fucking friends, what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:07 PM
2

Yeah the women who have been bashed over the head with how sex is shameful for women, seeking pleasure isn’t okay, it’s just for men and babies… probably won’t know what they like. I never got that message and I knew exactly how to make myself cum in 20 different ways before I even touched a man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:03 AM
4

I have literally never had sex I didn’t want to have. I don’t have a crazy high sex drive I just haven’t ever thought of having sex to keep my SO happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:01 AM
4

You can sub without it being degrading or painful. Being submissive is just letting the other person take the lead. Abuse is not an integral part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:41 AM
2

Work and a career is a crazy benefit. I’d give up all the other benefits we’ve got, I’d never sleep around, I’d dress in a burqa whatever. But you’d have to ply my education, career and earning power out of my cold dead hands. If you don’t have your own money, you have nothing in this world. I’ll give it all up to retain the ability to earn my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:22 AM
7

I’ve subbed, I’ve dommed. I’ve had sex with men who are subs and men who are dommes and women who are subs and women who are dommes. Degrading sex, painful sex, weird power plays (ie. master/slave) have always been a no go. I do think that people that desire it have some deep rooted sexual hang ups. I think women who are really into bdsm are actually sex negative. They use sex as a punishment. If you can only get off while being demeaned and beaten, you hate yourself and think what you are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:04 AM
2

Well yeah women need to use it, there will always be a group of women that use it. I’ve made my rounds on tinder, bumble, hinge as well because that’s how people date in the 21st century unfortunately. But I’ve hated it and I don’t know any woman who enjoys it (I’m sure there are some out there). I could never accurately gauge my interest and attraction towards someone online. Even when I’ve met with men from online apps, and I’ve swiped on the men I found attractive, had a chat with them, etc e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:04 AM
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Here’s the thing… you will never have an app that caters to women because it’s impossible. The amount of shit women assess to choose a partner is just a lot and most things can only been seen in person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:52 AM
7

Modern swipe dating is literally tailor made for men, not women. That’s why 80% of its user base is male and 20% is women and bots. Most women do not like it. For most men it’s ideal (if they could get matches).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:59 AM
1

Yeah and?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:15 AM
2

Yeah it’s insane, it makes it clear how coddles and sheltered they were as kids that they are genuinely SHOOK that despite them heavily discriminating sexual/romantic partners based on appearance, they will also experience sexual/romantic discrimination based on appearance. They should be loved for how nice they are! No no, they should be loved UNCONDITIONALLY. They’re depressed because hot women don’t love them unconditionally. They actually thought that that’s what was waiting for them in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:02 AM
3

Yes so you can find out she had a thing with Derek but how are you going to get the timeline right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:57 AM
2

Oh yes, the epitome of the modern man - so useless he needs to borrow value from random men throughout history. Why did I even bother studying mathematics when female mathematicians did the work that took us to the moon? My gender has already done it, I could’ve just put that on my resume instead of studying for 6 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:40 AM
1

I’ll assemble a spaceship when you do. And my toilet will be clean when I do it because I’m not a filthy animal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:10 AM
1

Rah rah I’m a proud slore bitch deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:36 AM
6

Yeah women are the prize and bless anyone they come into contact with, men are subhuman trash and are so filthy that they lower the value of a human being just by touching them. More women = good, more men = bad. You can apply this to every area of life. Any situation that involves more men than women is not something you want to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:34 AM
2

Yeah you’d get an idea about her past but how would you know exactly how long she took to sleep with every man she’s been with? Do her friends keep a detailed spreadsheet of her entire sex life? ‘Omg Becky remember that time you slept with John after your 4th date?? What about that time you slept with Robert after you had been acquaintances for 7 and a half months after which he asked you out and you went on 1 date before covid lockdown happened and then you didn’t see him for 3 months and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:07 AM
2

And how do you get this information from her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:57 AM
2

I’m sure there are. I feel bad for the ones who don’t know about it and I’m disgusted by the ones who do and still go for that man. Fuck those women too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:51 AM
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Across countries, 73 percent reported physical assault in prostitution, 62 percent reported having been raped since entering prostitution, 67 percent met criteria for a diagnosis of PTSD. On average, 92 percent stated that they wanted to leave prostitution. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/228535864_Prostitution_in_Five_Countries_Violence_and_Post-Traumatic_Stress_Disorder Here’s one, you only need to google to find hundreds more sources if you would like to educate yourself further on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:31 AM
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90%+ of prostitutes wish they could leave the industry but can’t. Many are trafficked. Many have been groomed. Many are child abuse victims. Many are stuck. If you’re okay with fucking them and you think it’s consensual, good for you. But every single John is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:12 AM
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Paying to fuck someone isn’t consensual sex. Someone who doesn’t care if the other person they’re having sex with actually wants to have sex with them is filthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:45 AM
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I have dated men who have had sex with other men and I have no issue with it. I would never date a man who has had sex with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:43 AM
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Goals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:54 AM
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Examples of women acting sociopathic on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:54 AM
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Show me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:52 AM
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Why wouldn’t non-attractive men be inferior when it comes to romantic/sexual relationships? Non-attractive women are as well and their male ‘friends’ probably aren’t treating them that well either… so why do you expect women to treat non-attractive men as equally appealing for romantic/sexual relationships? It makes literally no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:51 AM
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24F 10-ish? There are some encounters I’m really unclear about if they ‘count’
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:07 AM
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Okay I won’t!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:47 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:28 PM
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I’m so glad I’ve fucked enough men to not be an attractive choice for weirdos like you. I‘ll fuck a couple more just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:24 PM
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Well now you got me thinking 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:22 PM
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Hi I am a woman. Getting piped by random guys holds more weight for me than caring about the opinion of a conservative partner. A couple of fun nights with hot dudes vs an entire lifetime stuck with a partner who sees me as an object to be owned and not a human being? What a difficult choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:21 PM
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Yeah those stories you guys make up based on your worst fears will scare you you’re right. Is reality like that? Not really. And when it is it is so much more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:45 AM
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I’ve been attracting men since elementary school. I don’t need more. Now what I would like advice on is How to get the men that are attracted to me to do more things for me with less effort on my part How to keep the men I don’t want away How to blow up a mans life so hard he references me as his ‘crazy ex’ for the rest of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:31 AM
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Are women supposed to act the exact same towards all men all the time? It actually blows my mind that you guys keep repeating this like it’s some gotcha. It just shows how socially crippled you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:25 AM
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Most men on the internet pose as super successful even when they’re not. You are a stud posing as an incel. Congrats you are not like the other boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:55 AM
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What’s the difference between a 40 year old virgin and a 3000 year old elf names giggles? Same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:49 AM
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Aren’t you like a 40 year old virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:33 AM
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I’ve been told I would make a good mother but the thought of being a mother makes my skin crawl. I think most people assume most women would be good mothers and most men would be bad fathers. And they’re mainly correct but I don’t think it’s anything natural - it’s just that when a baby happens women tend to care a lot more and put effort into learning and adapting whereas men assume the woman will care more and do the work anyway so why bother putting effort into learning and adapting? He will …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:20 AM
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No! Single mothers only came into existence when tinder and Chad did in the early 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:15 AM
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Yeah I don’t know how selecting a submissive, agreeable, young woman = men selecting for women that would be good mothers lmao. Men’s penis selects for them and they just assume that her maternal instincts will kick in because we keep pushing that myth to absolve men of their parenting duties
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:14 AM
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I am currently masturbating 3 times a day and still doing nothing more than swiping on tinder and ghosting everyone. And I’ve bought a couple of new toys. My sex drive is on fire but I don’t want to touch a man right now. My satisfier pro 2 is doing things to me I didn’t know were possible. I don’t know what drug would fix that - I’m already smoking a shit ton of weed I think that’s enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:08 AM
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I barely want to be in a relationship with someone who passes all my dealbreakers much less someone who doesn’t pass them. I choose the lonely life 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:40 AM
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I’ve been questioning whether I’m on the autism spectrum and this comment has finally got me to book an appointment with my doctor because you’ve just described me. Goddamn it would explain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:43 AM
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Correct!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:25 AM
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As I said, serial monogamy. I wanna fuck one dude and then a little while later I wanna fuck another one dude. The fun of sexual novelty and the safety of sexual exclusively all in one. And I can maintain attraction for more than one dude at a time. I mean I’ve maxed out at 2 but I was very attracted to and having excellent sex with both in the same time period. Now I’m single again, I’ll see if I can top that but I’m not too hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:00 AM
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Dude we’re still saying the same thing you just wanna be angry for no reason. Chill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:39 AM
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A man that looks good enough can be a submissive lil puppy and I’d still wanna bang him. Maybe you just need to get hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:03 AM
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You got it - they’re full of shit. Analyse their extreme cognitive dissonance all you want, that’s all it is at the bottom of it. They’re just full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:57 AM
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No I didn’t assume that. I am agreeing with you? There’s only a small group of ‘right men’ and since most women want this group of men those men have the power of choice and can afford to have high standards for when they choose to settle down. Some women do end up with these men, others either have to settle or opt out. Some men are the ‘right man’ and can have choices, others can choose get settled for or opt out. It’s just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:54 AM
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Obviously we don’t wanna fuck all of them, but a handful of them, spaced out nicely, with many more on the sidelines just itching for a chance… it’s nice it’s nice. Sexual novelty + sexual exclusivity via serial monogamy while still getting attention and validation from other men… its the best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:42 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? Men have literally coined the term ‘dumpster diving’ where they have sex with women they’d never be with, women they’d never want their friends/family knowing about. They literally talk about how the best strategy for casual sex is to go for women below their SMV… ‘any holes a goal’? This is such a pronounced male phenomenon that it’s actually blowing my mind that you’ve attributed it as a female trait. It is so far removed from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:33 AM
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Exactly, because there’s not enough of them. Most men are frustrated because they aren’t the right man and the right men cannot commit to every single woman so most women miss out as well. We are both saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:25 AM
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Men’s definition of the ‘right man’ and women’s definition of the ‘right man’ are very different. You’d think some man is a right man and I wouldn’t touch him with a 10ft pole. You have lower standards for men than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:18 AM
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They can’t. There’s not enough to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah the whole ‘men are providers’ thing is really the longest running joke in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:13 PM
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Hey at least we get menopause. Men are emotionally driven and poor partner selectors their entire life. Biology gives us an end date but it’s with you to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:52 PM
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Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:48 AM
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Stop breathing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:42 AM
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When 99% of jobs either straight up reject you or discriminate against you, you can’t own properly or have your own bank account - marriage is the only viable choice. Men did have the choice then and they do now - men will always choose women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:02 AM
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Yeah when they were forced to participate. Last time I checked, men still had the choice to get married or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:11 AM
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I’m a masculine women by most peoples definition but I’m young, thin and blonde so no one bats an eye. Maybe it’ll be an issue in like 10 years but I’d rather face dating trouble in my 30s than face work trouble. So I prefer acting more masculine because that’s the best way to get more $$$$$$. And money is way more important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:29 AM
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Yeah yeah I get let’s force women to have children they don’t want blah blah blah great solution good Job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:23 AM
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I second this bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:12 AM
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Yeah people exaggerate when emotions are involved. I think men that go for way younger women, even if they’re both adults, have pedo tendencies. Men think women that go for high earning men or want a date paid for, even if she works and earns herself, are gold diggers. There’s some truth to both - these behaviours stem from the same place but are ‘diluted’. Some people don’t give a fuck, others have a bigger emotional trigger surrounding them. There’s logic to it, there’s truth to it, and there …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:01 AM
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I’m very sexually open but I don’t enjoy doing a lot of things that men like doing in bed. I’m a big fan of slow tantric sex when in a relationship to build a deep bond, not bdsm. I don’t want degrading, painful sex. I don’t want anal. I don’t want porn performances in bed. I enjoy oral sex a lot more than penetrative sex and would love for it to be bulk of sex, with PIV being the cherry on top. Sometimes my body just needs to not have sex for a while. It doesn’t matter what’s happening in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:08 AM
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Most women in the world do not get the choice of abstinence either, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:41 PM
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Tinder only has like 8 millions users in the USA… and only 20-30% of them are women. That’s a FAR cry from the ‘tens of millions of women’ you’re claiming use it. Also the app would do just fine with less women. It’s really men and bots that keep it in business. Being a tinder bot is a literal job now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:35 PM
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SUBMISSIVE 👏🏼 YOUNG 👏🏼 FERTILE 👏🏼 WOMEN 👏🏼 ffs poppy surely you’ve been here long enough to know the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:25 PM
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Nope, most of us are very aware of the fact that it has a negative impact on our dating life. We talk about how shitty it is and then weight up money and success vs dick and the former is just indisputably a way better deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:07 PM
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If only it was this easy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:37 AM
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I’m 24. Is this what’s considered old for women nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:30 AM
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I really wish I could gift you my womb. It will make you bleed out of your genitals for a week every month for 40 consecutive years, your orgasms will never be guarantee when having sex and you’ll worry about a child taking over your body every time your partner nuts and if you want to reprorudcue you’ll have to risk your life, most likely have to endure life long complications and will probably tear your genitals apart in two. But at least you’ll have that extra power! I don’t want it! Have it!…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:13 AM
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Money isn’t everything. I’ve got money but my womb is off limits. Women that take on pregnancy, childbirth and motherhood for a man need to be adequately compensated for. I’m happy to date an ‘equal’ all things considered because I won’t be making those huge, huge sacrifices. Women that date an ‘equal’ and do all of that are not actually dating their equal. They are settling HARD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:50 AM
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My skin is great, my emotional intelligence is good (I think? How would I measure this?), I’m in good shape, I’m slim and toned and squats are finally paying off, and I have a STEM education and make good money. And I pay my own mortgage for my place, I volunteer, I have a handful of healthy friendships, a close relationship with my family and I keep a decent amount of control over my personal vices. I keep hearing about female hypergamy but also get told that my standards for men are too high d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:40 AM
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Do you have a source for this? It doesn’t sound right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:07 AM
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You realise men choose whether or not to take on their dating role right? If it’s so bad, why not just stay alone? Celibate? Sex workers? You’re choosing to date - so why complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:54 PM
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Dating does get easier for men in their 30s because they (sometimes) finally have enough money to beta bux for single mothers. That’s a step up for them because they probably couldn’t even get the single mothers before then. It’s all relative. The single mothers will still have more options than them but at least they’re (sometimes) finally an option for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:46 AM
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Yes! This is excellent advice! MEN WHO CONSUME RP CONTENT - TAKE THIS ADVICE. Do it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:13 AM
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Another unnecessary over-analysis of why women find attractive men… attractive? The answer is: because they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:31 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:56 PM
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We want different things in our future. He’s currently in the process of moving out so this is all super recent. I obviously still love him very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:42 PM
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Daddy’s a mechanic though, I still have never had to pay for a car service 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:37 PM
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Yeah it’s often really not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:59 PM
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Exceptional cunnilingus skills and a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:28 PM
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No I’d probably just ask him to do it and if he didn’t I’d resent him for a while before leaving him. Unless he was offering something else to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:23 PM
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I said - I don’t have a need for anyone performing ‘masculine chores’ at home. Go 50/50 with me on the feminine chores and I’ll go 50/50 on your masculine chore to provide. When did I say I expect him to provide for me? Why are you arguing with me like I said I expect him to do 100% masculine chores, 50% feminine chores and all the providing? You made that scenario up. I’ve been saying 50/50 in bills, 50/50 in feminine chores, and fuck the masculine chores don’t worry about em
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:10 PM
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Me: I’m happy to go 50/50 if he’s providing other things I need, like cooking and cleaning You: my wife does those chores because she’s good at them and I do my manly chores and it all evens out Me: it doesn’t for me, I’ll skip all the manly chores and I’ll just take a dude who cooks and cleans You: but look at all the manly things I’m doing! This is equal to your stuff Me: not to me. You don’t have to do that, I just want someone to go 50/50 with on the daily chores so we can go 50/50 on the bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:51 AM
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Gardening is pretty feminine in my head, I can’t do much of it now in an apartment but my pots and plants keep me busy enough. And see, none of those things that you listed afterwards come up very often. It’s just not comparable to hours of work every single day. And they’re just so easy and cheap to outsource the one time every couple of years they need to be done. My parents just installed some blinds on their bay window. It cost $110 all up. It’ll never have to be done again. I’m sorry but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:37 AM
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Well can you give me some examples of masculine chores you perform daily or at least regularly to keep the house running? I’d be okay with going downstairs 50% of the time there is a bump in the night because that has happened 0 times in my life. Plus I lived alone for 2 years before him, I have travelled extensively solo and as of Monday, will once again be living alone. What do I do if something goes bump and there’s no man next to me? Like there hasn’t been for the majority of my life? Also I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:58 AM
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I’ve never dated a man who knew how to service a car 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:45 AM
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Like I said - if he can provide other things I need other than money, cool. There are heaps of other things to choose from. But if he is expecting me to be doing all the shit that is expected from women in a relationship + paying half the bills… it’s a hard no. If he wants to take on some womanly duties, I’ll take on some of his as well and provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:07 AM
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I don’t even want kids. If I was birthing children for a man my financial prerequisites would be way higher. The thought of committing to such a huge sacrifice on my part to be with a dude who thinks paying 50% of the bills makes it ‘fair’ is enough to dry up my vagina for the rest of my life. Being a single mom doesn’t appeal to me but it sounds like a way better deal than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:50 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:40 AM
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I own my own apartment which I fully furnished on my own. My (recently ex) boyfriend moved in and we did do it 50/50 from there - but he came into an apartment I had already invested a lot of money into. I never had a smidge of resentment towards him for that. He’s a great guy who did a lot more, like cook and clean, he actively supported my career and pushed for my success, he was very very giving in bed, he took care of his appearance, he wore condoms without a single complaint throughout our …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:38 AM
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My great grandmother taught me to always have ‘dash cash’ aka cash for when you needa dash. After she passed we found random wads of cash hidden all around her house. My grandmothers both repeated the advice and my mother modernised it and just told me to always have a secret bank account that no one knows about. I’ve seen online women of all culture and backgrounds talking about how they received that exact same advice. This isn’t advice from ‘nowadays’ women have been doing this (to whatever e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:06 AM
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I’m in the midst of a breakup right now and we had juuuust made it to 2 years. And it is over kids. In that a recent pregnancy scare I had made him reconsider his childfree stance because he was ‘kinda excited at the thought’ while it made me book the first appointment for an IUD insertion I could get. The 2 year drop is real and I am currently living it. Rip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:31 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:05 PM
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I check out men for different things that catch my eye and then evaluate the whole picture. If I like the whole picture I’ll probably just try to stare at him for as long as possible (without it getting creepy) and then keep walking. But if I don’t like the whole picture I still might keep checking that initial thing that caught my eye. Might be face or body or clothes or grey sweatpants. Last week I saw a guy with the most glorious long, thick curly hair. I didn’t like the rest of him, but I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:41 PM
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Sex isn’t a need. For me it’s a fun hobby. I only engage in my hobbies when they’re fun and I can go years without a particular hobby. But I throughly enjoy it when it’s time to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:09 AM
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You are… correct? Has anyone ever said that monogamy is a need?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:06 AM
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3 and a half years. In that period of time I just had 2 very drunk make-outs and probably around 50 odd dates that I just couldn’t find any interest in. For the last 1.5-2 years I completely stopped trying or looking because I was just so bored of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:55 AM
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She thinks pretty highly of him if she can be 110% fine on her own and could walk away right now with minimal consequences and yet chooses him and their relationship every single day, don’t you think? Or you think the woman who says ‘if I leave him I won’t be able to put food on my kids plates, I have to stay with him’ thinks higher of her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:28 AM
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Not me, science and research said it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:36 AM
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I’m a woman who uses toys and used to regularly watch porn. I’ve had male partners take offence to both but I definitely had more issues with my porn use. So I don’t know if this is a gendered thing but in my experience it was easier for my male partners to deal with their ‘insecurity’ about my toys because when we include them in sex they end up really enjoying using them on me and they realise my toys rile me up and make me want to bang even more. They’re a sensory improvement, it’s all physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:02 AM
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2 to 3 years older isn’t really what we’re talking about here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:10 AM
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How is it irrelevant when you’re talking about something you’ve never experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:05 AM
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Have you ever been penetrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:48 PM
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Yeah they don’t ever have to penetrate you. Being penetrated by someone you are not attracted to repeatedly your entire life and having to serve him the way men expect women to serve them and have to go through all the shit to bear his kids as well?? Men’s and women’s positions just aren’t comparable. You wouldn’t want to do it if you had to partner up with a man either. I’d partner up with an older woman in heartbeat as well. I’ve slept with a woman a decade older than me. It’s just not compara…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:56 PM
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Higher
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:50 PM
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Couldn’t anyone make up ‘faults’ anyway? I imagine if you really wanna get out of a relationship you’d say anything to end it. You’d just be causing more ‘false accusations’ for men and god who wants to listen to that whining? Let people divorce, why the fuck are you all so keen on lifelong imprisonment with someone you hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:38 PM
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Yep they love beta buxing they just feel like they ain’t getting enough bang for their bux now :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:35 PM
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Only 3500+ matches? So what I get from one week spent on tinder? I had higher expectations from you gigachad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:42 AM
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Yeah close to 1 in 2 men have ED at that age and most have more hair on their balls than they do their head but okie dokie, you can tell people you aren’t 48 years old you are 48 years young! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:10 AM
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I’d be a hypocrite if it did. It matters to me and I don’t have an issue with it mattering to them either. I only have an issue with people who slander the humanity of someone with an n count they don’t find appropriate. It’s fine to have a personal preference and I’m okay with individual men rejecting me based on my n count if that is something that matters to them but it’s just not cool when someone’s entire humanity and being gets slandered and degraded due to them not fitting into your prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:12 AM
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I didn’t say it happens because an age gap, I said an age gap greatly increases the chances of it happening. You could be a beta bux without an age gap, but you are almost guaranteed to be a beta bux with an age gap. When I’ve seen large age gap couples my first thought is always ‘he must have money’ not ‘wow what a desirable man’. I don’t have that thought when I see couples close in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:03 AM
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Sometimes they’ve asked, sometimes I’ve asked. But I’ve known everyone that I’ve been withs n count (or at least, I know what they’ve told me).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:56 AM
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Whenever they try to prove this point they end up using absurd outlier examples like Leonardo DiCaprio which only serves to discredit their point more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:29 AM
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Fair enough. I’ve never been on tinder as a dude, I wouldn’t know but if this is true then it really doesn’t sound too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:24 AM
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The n count sweet spot is between 5-15 for men (for me). I wouldn’t date a virgin, I could make exception for someone a little under 5 or a little over 15, but I’ve found the only time I’m really not worried about a mans n count is when it’s in the 5-15 range. That may change with age, but it’s definitely something I take into serious consideration before entering a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:23 AM
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You think 30% of men are constantly getting hundreds of tinder matches with women in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:19 AM
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OP did. We are literally talking about commitment and marriage as that is the topic that OP brought up. If you would like to discuss the fact that old men wanna fuck young women, start another discussion. I don’t really know what there is to discuss there - we all know old men wanna fuck young women. There is really not much else to say on that topic, but there is more to say on this current topic that OP brought up, that I replied to, as you do on a debate sub, addressing what was actually said…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:08 AM
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Alright so OP here is in the 1% of men! Who knew we had a living, breathing GigaChad on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:03 AM
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I’m 24 and I only have 2 friends who have done sex work (ex-stripper & ex-sugar baby). They both entertained older men while they were working and now the stripper is married to a man 10 years her senior (so you’re correct there) and the sugar baby is dating a man a year younger than her. But you’re right, the vast majority of my friends aren’t sex workers so I don’t see many going for older men. I didn’t realise that when men spoke about how attracted younger women are to them they were talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:58 AM
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Yeah I think a lot of them suffer from some serious cognitive dissonance. So many of their desires and opinions and views contradict each other so much and it makes it so difficult to take any of it seriously because they themselves go against what they say constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:17 AM
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What percentage of the male population do you think falls in these categories? How many are in category a (where they are regularly getting 100s of matches with women a decade younger than them) and how many in category b (struggling to get matches)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:08 AM
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If the majority of women wanted that, the majority of women would be doing that. We allllll know men wanna fuck/date/marry younger women. You’re all very, very vocal about it. And yet the majority of women aren’t doing that. The majority of MEN want what you’ve described and you’re projecting it onto women. Women aren’t usually attracted to men 10-15 years their senior. Becoming a financially dependent housewife who has to fuck an old man she’s not attracted to for the rest of my life sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:04 AM
21

Plenty of guys can say that they can open tinder and see 100s of matches with younger girls and yet here we are with almost a daily new post about how brutal tinder is for men and how they literally have to pay tinder for the chance to get a handful of matches that are mostly fat/post wall/single moms and even THEY reject them because Chad has also matched with them for a quick n easy smash. It’s quite difficult to be able to logically accept both of these stances so, someone gotta be making shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:48 AM
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They whine about being a ‘beta bux’ and the risk of ‘divorce rape’ and talk about how women are horrible for doing that to them and how they have to mitigate that risk by ensuring she desires him for more than his money, she has a low n count to decrease chance of divorce, she has a lower salary/education to circumvent hypergamy… But show them the stats that show women are generally only attracted to men up to ~3 years older/younger than them, that the main reason women marry older men IS for fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:28 AM
1

Then they should fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:26 AM
1

Dude my first comment wasn’t even serious. I honestly don’t think it’s possible for the majority of men to be desirable. I’ve probably been attracted to like less than 20-30 men my entire life. I’m sure the other million or so that I’ve met haven’t all been horrible, just undesirable to me. But seriously, money is power. Go make it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:25 AM
1

That’s irrelevant to what we’re talking about? We’re talking about whether it matters to be desirable to your partner. I know all of my partners have/do find me desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:14 AM
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I think women would partake in a lot more casual sex if more men knew how to fuck - regardless of n count stigma and them not being more interested in me. If I knew I would cum 99% of the time from sex, I would’ve fucked sooooo many more men than I have. But when you know you have like a 5% chance of cumming (while also carrying the biological burden of potential pregnancy) it’s just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:22 AM
1

Just go make money and you’ll be fine dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:12 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:11 AM
1

It’ll still be good for him, just not for her. And men haven’t given a fuck about women ‘desiring’ them or having pleasurable sexual experiences with them literally ever so why act like it even matters to men? Just go get your nut from a woman that doesn’t want to be there, but has to be there, like 90% of men throughout human history have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:11 AM
1

And when women learn that men will not change, they will either a) accept them as they are or b) leave. And it looks like b is the more popular option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:06 AM
2

It’s always easy to say nothing when you’ve got nothing to say!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:03 AM
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Well then I guess men want women because they are desired by other men. If other men didn’t desire women, you wouldn’t either. Women want a man who has options (eg - other women want him) but he forgoes those other options for HER. If she’s his only option then obviously he settled for her out of desperation for pussy. Any pussy. Men already know that the woman they want is wanted by other men - so he feels the validation of being chosen by her automatically. This is why men get so upset at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:10 AM
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Well I wouldn’t want to have a relationship with a man who doesn’t desire me, but I’m in my 20s and own a vagina and the men on this sub have reassured me this means 99% of men find me desirable. So I guess I’ll rethink this when I Hit! The! Wall! in a couple of years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:37 AM
1

Yeah they do, or at least the ones that weren’t ugly already do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:31 AM
1

Who cares if she doesn’t desire you? You still got her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:39 AM
3

I agree. Which is why men complaining about how undesirable they are is a joke. You literally have 20 different things to pick from to improve your desirability to the opposite sex and you can’t even do that. How pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:34 AM
1

Do women value anything in men?? I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah those countries are like that due to feminism! It’s incredible. We should truly be aiming to emulate them. And don’t forget they have some of the tallest male populations in the world! Misogyny literally stunts your growth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:28 PM
1

And how would a mans education sharpen his jaw line, make him tall or give him a big dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:23 PM
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I wish men went for women with an education. Unfortunately, most men focus on looks which cannot be changed and youth - which is over in the blink of an eye and can never be retrieved. Ahhh what can you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:54 PM
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I guess we’ll just have to learn from the happiest countries in the world. Which are Finland, Iceland, Denmark, Norway, Switzerland… So I guess the solution is… more feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:26 PM
0

Lmao. Did your college education not teach you to capitalise your sentences? Tsk tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:07 PM
0

Yeah even the times that they asked, or that they just told me (as people do… seeing as it’s a pretty big part of them), even the ones that led to second and third and fourth dates and the ones that led to relationships… I’m throughly curious about how you meet someone for the first time, talk for a couple of hours to get to know each other - and what your job is doesn’t come up? Hell it’s a question that is usually asked even BEFORE the first date. I’m honestly not sure if you’re trolling and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:20 AM
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I’ve been on so many first dates and what you do for work is a pretty standard first date question… and both genders ask. We spend most of our waking hours at work, how can that not be spoken about on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:51 AM
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Yeah but men seek youth, beauty, fertility, agreeableness…. And attention, security and provisioning from women. He still needs his partner to give him attention and lots of it, he wants to feel secure in his relationship (hence why he doesn’t want promiscuous women - they wouldn’t provide enough security) and provision - he needs his partner to be willing to provide everything for her family, including her own body to make them and then feed them, and the provide care and nurture and meals and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:48 AM
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I presume he’s her ex because they used to be in a relationship and no longer are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:31 AM
2

Do you date more men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:06 AM
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Why the fuck is it always two ridiculous extremes with you fools
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:40 PM
3

Are you talking about men sending a billion different women a love heart emoji on social media hoping one of them will suck his dick? The ‘compliments’ you see most men aren’t compliments. They’re just words he’s using to get what he wants. Women don’t need to manipulate men into fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:10 AM
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Exactly we are talking about gender dynamics. And men are complaining about not getting compliments - I’m saying that has a lot less to do with gender dynamics than it does men not complimenting men. If women didn’t compliment women we wouldn’t be getting much of it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:03 AM
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98% of the compliments I get are from other women. If men stopped finding me attractive and I never got a compliment from a man for the rest of my life, the number of compliments I get wouldn’t significantly change. Men not getting compliments is something you need to bring up with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:38 PM
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So… a bad boy is just an attractive man? So this is why men lament about women only liking bad boys - anyone who isn’t an incel is a bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:56 AM
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Bi woman in a relationship with a bi man here. It definitely works A LOT better for both of us as compared to when we’ve dated heterosexual people. I don’t think it’s because we’re objectively ‘better partners’ but that we’re just compatible. I’ve dated another bisexual man and he was the fucking worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:59 AM
1

Once again, I never said I was an expert. I just said I know a thing or two and could give some advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:05 PM
1

I don’t hold the same standards for women that I do for men either. If you were bi and dating men as well you would hold men to different standards than you hold women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:52 PM
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Women probably want men for their money as much as men want women for their looks, so yeah I guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:02 PM
1

Where are the men teaching women how to con men out of their money? Why the fuck would women teach men something that is overall harmful to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:37 PM
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Yup! I’m not going to tell a guy how to get casual sex because I know 9 time outta 10, he’s gonna treat the woman shitty and think less of her. Why would I give you tips and tricks on how to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:56 PM
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Yeah dude, that’s literally what I said. Good job on your excellent reading comprehension though! Keep it up champ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:22 AM
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I am a woman, I love women, I have women friends, I have sex with women and I have been in a relationship with a woman. I may not be an expert, but I know a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:17 AM
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I’m literally just answering a question? Someone posted a question on a debate sub and I answered it what the fuck else could I be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:14 AM
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Men don’t ask women for advice on how to have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible. They will ask for ‘dating advice’ from women while actually wanting advice for the former and then say shit like ‘don’t ask a fish how to fish’ like dude you didn’t even ask me how to fish you asked me how to barbecue. But… would a man benefit from asking me for advice on how to fuck a lot of women? I could give some great advice, especially as a woman who has had sex with a couple of women. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:10 AM
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Yeah men just get down on one knee, present a ring, expect their partner to put their job on the back burner to support him and build their family - and then claim they were ‘divorce raped’. Like, you’ve literally signed official government documents giving your consent for this situation that you have proactively put yourself in (men are the gatekeepers of relationships after all…) and then you have the audacity to cry ‘rape!’ You’ve been participating willingly while it served you and now you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:54 AM
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Alright so being a male is a biological privilege unless you do not get to reproduce? What if you weren’t able to reproduce as a woman either? Would you rather be a male that never reproduces or a female that never reproduces?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:01 AM
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I’m never said there are no upsides. I just asked whether you would make the switch? Are all the cons worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:41 AM
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Would men actually want to have female sexuality? Sure it is more ‘powerful’ than male sexuality but it’s cost is significant. If you were given the option to possess it yourself, but with all the cons (periods, pregnancy, childbirth, a much shorter fertility window, physically weaker and it makes you a target for people much bigger and stronger than you and they all REALLY want to enter your body) - would you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:14 AM
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Oh yeah, online sex work will never hold up. But men will never not want to fuck real women. Not all men!! But ‘real’ prostitution will never disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:13 AM
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Hmm. Demand will be lower but it won’t completely disappear. People will always pay for the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:46 AM
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Right? Most women I see either don’t give a single fuck or think sex robots will keep the undesirable men occupied enough that they’ll stop harassing them (which is a win). The only time I’ve seen an argument against them is when it’s questioned whether sex robots will actually satisfy men or whether they’d still want women but treat them even worse because their brains have dehumanised women even further due to all that sex-bot action. But if these men actually do what they’re threatening to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:43 AM
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Last year my friend was murdered by her ex-coworker. A year before he killed her they had had lunch together where he told her of his dating struggles (35 yo man, never had a girlfriend, never been on a date, never had a kiss…). She was an incredibly kind, bright, smart, literal ray of sunshine that could make anyone and everyone feel comfortable. It was quite common that men took her warmth, care and politeness as romantic interest. He asked her out - she told him he was too old for her (she wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:32 AM
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What if I own the companies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:28 AM
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Women do that with the men they’re interested in… those men are validated because the woman has chosen him and not other men. If women did that with/for every man it wouldn’t be validating. So… women haven’t stopped validating men. They’re still validating the men they want to validate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:20 AM
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The incels that claim involuntary celibacy despite having access to sex workers. Tell them to pay for sex and they’ll give you a plethora of reasons as to why that isn’t the same as having sex with someone who desires you. I agree with you btw, which is why I believe there is no such thing as an incel - it’s all voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:18 AM
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Women paying attention to a man is validating for him. Showing interest, having sex, talking to, dating…. That all provides validation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:32 AM
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This topic comes up often and I literally never see women so vehemently against it or calling it sex slavery or whatever. Most women don’t seem to really care but 99% of the comments from men are always about how much women are against it? Where are these women???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:30 AM
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Men also want validation for real life women. That’s why paying for sex doesn’t appeal to many and neither does being a beta bux - they want to feel desired. And why wouldn’t such a sophisticated AI be able to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:25 AM
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Imagine the realistic male AI’s. He’d be hot, you could employ him as a labourer, take his cash and he’d be able to fuck for DAYS. The future is looking bright for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:22 AM
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It doesn’t matter if it’s not as big as what feminism achieved in the past, it was still a significant part of the movement. I just recently got free pads and tampons in my work bathroom. It’s a tiny change and completely irrelevant to the 90% male staff but it’s a step in the right direction for the people it does impact. Progress is progress
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:33 AM
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The male equivalent of chasing a ‘bad boy’ isn’t a bad girl. It’s a crazy girl. Men may not like bad girls but they foam at the mouth for codependent, anxious attachment, bpd women. The periods of my life where I have been the most mentally unstable (and I’ve reached a really, really low point there) have been the times where I’ve had the most success with men. Expensive dates, flowers delivered to my work, offers for exclusivity before even sleeping with them… and then I got my shit together an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:07 AM
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Wow yes. Hearing ‘good men’ talk about how you’d be an idiot for trusting ‘bad men’ and then seeing those ‘good men’ act just as bad or worse than the ‘bad men’ they tell you not to trust really really fucks with a young girl’s head as far as men go. Their cognitive dissonance is so damaging and confusing to work through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:57 AM
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The me too movement was huge. Only someone who has never had to worry about sexual abuse and assault can call that ‘paltry’. The amount of women that I know that finally got the courage to speak about what had happened to them, the layers and layers of guilt and shame that were shed off millions of women’s hearts - knowing they could finally speak, be heard and be empathised with. I spoke up about my sexual assault and found so many women that had been through the same, so much advice, so many r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:11 AM
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Yep, I can’t deny feminism has made male-female relationships more complicated but that’s mainly due to women being able to work, study, own property, live alone, have their own bank accounts. If we can’t have both then I’m fine with foregoing relationships with men. What we have gained from feminism is so so much more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:16 AM
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You’ve only said one thing. Divorce is bad. Im saying it’s not. It’s not that difficult to connect the dots
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:29 AM
1

Ah yes, I disagree with you therefore I am dumb. It’s okay I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:19 AM
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Women married to men like you would be miserable even if they were the virgin fucking Mary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:06 AM
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No, the quality of life for kids living in a hostile, unsafe, unhealthy environment is NOT better just because there are two adults with a different set of genitals present. Growing up with two parents who love and respect each other and you > growing up with divorced parents > growing up with parents who don’t love and respect each other or are abusive, violent, incompetent, emotionally unavailable, dismissive… There are some really fucked up relationships out there. Do you really think a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:45 AM
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Thank you for those links but, once again, I was talking about how divorce can be a positive in many circumstances. I was not talking about promiscuous women. This has nothing to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:11 AM
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First of all, being shot isn’t inherently worse than being hit by a car. You can get shot and be fine and you can get hit by a car and die. Second, your analogy doesn’t work for my comment at all because I do not think divorce is inherently a negative. If you are living with a shitty partner, whether they’re abusive, cheating, have anger issues, are burdens, incompetent - living with them would be like getting hit by a car every day. And dragging the kids in the car crash with you. Divorcing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:08 AM
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I think there are happy and miserable people in both groups. The divorcees may not be happy but they are probably happier single than they were in their marriage - otherwise they wouldn’t have gotten divorced. The people that stay married are either happier in a relationship than single or are unable to divorce and are miserable and stuck. Both of my grandmothers stayed with their husbands until they died. One of my grandmothers was miserable after his death and stopped taking proper care of her…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:50 AM
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Nope! Children living with parents who hate each other/where there is abuse/substance abuse/constant arguments and tension/etc etc are not better off than children raised by divorced parents. Children who grow up with parents who aren’t together may have some struggles that children in a healthy two parent home won’t HOWEVER they will bode wayyyy better than the kids who grew up with mummy and daddy hating each other yet stubbornly sticking it out and dragging everyone in the house down with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:37 AM
1

What’s that got to do with divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:33 AM
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Divorce isn’t inherently a bad thing. Divorce is arguably very positive when the alternative is staying in a shitty marriage and being miserable for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:04 AM
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Same! I was with my first boyfriend for almost a year before we had sex and it was a good relationship but the thought of only ever being with him for the rest of my life made me break out into a cold sweat. I was also his first and I couldn’t understand how he could so casually make serious plans for our future 2, 3, 5 years down the line. I did break up with him, I went on to have a few more parters like I had wanted and he got into another relationship only a few months after our break up and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:02 AM
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But men DO have reproductive rights over their own body the same way women have reproductive rights over their own. Biology fucked women by giving them 99.9% of the responsibility of reproduction and therefore women require more extensive reproductive rights. But makes role only reproduction is ‘have an orgasm’. You literally only have to not have an orgasm inside a woman, or put a condom on. You are responsible for 0.1% of the reproductive process and you can have full control over it a little …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:21 AM
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Here it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:18 AM
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Men create romance BECAUSE women are the more romantic sex. If women didn’t want romance, men wouldn’t create it. Women put more effort into their appearance not because women are the more visual sex but because men are the more visual sex and they respond to it. Men put more effort into romance not because they are more romantic but because women are and they respond to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:49 PM
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When men have the right to use condoms to prevent their semen from entering a vagina and they overwhelmingly give that right up in favour of a little bit more pleasure, why give men more reproductive rights? They keep showing that they’re happy taking the risk as long as they get to fuck raw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:44 PM
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So while women are born inherently more desirable, men’s biological advantage is physical strength. Men have a way easier time building their strength, gaining muscle mass, keeping fit. You don’t have a body that has a preference for fat over muscle, you have the right build for it, you don’t have hormones that cycle and you don’t have to account for pregnancy and childbirth. So female athletes have a shit ton more hurdles to jump over to reach a high athletic accomplishment when compared to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:55 PM
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Are the men competing against women in dating or against other men? They’re competing against men. But social and biological dating/sex advantages make it easier for women. The women in sports are competing against other women. However due to social and biological disadvantages they can’t reach success as easily as their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:51 PM
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I’m saying that they are NOT given the respect they deserve for their efforts because we don’t care that those women had to work harder than the men to reach those accomplishments. We don’t say their accomplishments are worth more because they had social and biological disadvantages to overcome to reach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:54 PM
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Do you also think that women who have high achievements in work or sports are also more impressive than their male counterparts? This is why men have a lot of respect for female bodybuilders - they may not get as good results as the men, but have put a lot more effort into it than them because biology is against them. Or the woman who made CEO - fighting against social discrimination and expectations and having to make some hard compromises on family - a real testament to her dedication and driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:26 PM
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If a ‘rough fact’ is just whatever you feel is correct is a ‘smooth fact’ actually correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:02 AM
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I thought you were talking about casual sex in a ‘meet a stranger and wanna fuck him’ sense. That’s based off attractiveness. Fucking someone you have known for a while is different and no ones asking for brad Pitt. And if I think someone would be a great boyfriend short of 1-2 things sure he’d make for a good fuck buddy (unless one of those 1-2 things he was missing was his looks). But why would a virgin would reject every other average dude for you? If no one in her life has reached her standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:03 PM
1

Yeah ‘nature’ - men’s go to excuse whenever they need to run from taking accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:28 PM
1

Expecting someone’s personality to change with time is a little different to expecting someone’s looks to stay the same with time…. The former actually happens and is POSSIBLE. The latter goes against all reason, logic and the laws of nature. The male version is so far removed from reality it’s barely comparable to the female one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:19 PM
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But if you’re an average guy and you meet her casual sex standard you WILL be one of hundreds because all of those average (and above) guys that have hit on her would have reached her casual sex standard. So if you want someone who is more picky and discriminatory, her standards for casual sex will have to be higher. But you don’t want that either… you just want the typical male fantasy of women being pure and chaste and picky with high standards for sex - except when it comes to you when they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:09 PM
1

If they are that intellectually stunted that they are unaware of the natural ageing process that every living thing on this planet undergoes than they are lucky to have made it adulthood alive! They should count their lucky stars someone overlooked their severe mental disability to give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:58 PM
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It’s literally the opposite. The traditional male role is providing… and when people talk about 50/50 relationships they tend to ONLY talk about providing (ie - the male role). I don’t know what you’re on about. The males role used to be being the sole provider. That is not the standard nor is that automatically expected of men nowadays. Majority of women work. Majority of women provide. Over a third of households have a primary female breadwinner. A further percentage has equal earning partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:22 AM
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LOL let’s be honest - the majority of men ARENT giving up sexual novelty for marriage. You can’t give up something you never had and never had the chance to get. Most of them married the woman knowing that they’d be fucking the same ageing, boring, nagging pussy day in and day out and being excited about it because the alternative is paying for a hooker every now and then or going celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:11 AM
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No shit? 50/50 doesn’t just mean financial 50/50 it means going 50/50 on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:31 AM
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I WILL live feminism to the fullest by continuing to mindlessly put my underwear on in the morning, thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:55 PM
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Sir I live in an apartment there’s really no need
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:13 PM
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Women not wanting to have sex is not withholding sex. Unless there is malicious intention behind it, a woman not fucking you isn’t withholding sex. You don’t own her vagina and she’s just keeping it away from you. She just doesn’t want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:45 AM
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It is common. You just don’t hear about it as much because it’s quite taboo for both the man and the woman to talk about. The man to avoid the ridicule over his lacking masculinity and the woman to avoid the ridicule over her lacking desirability. But have a look at dead bedrooms, there are a lot of women that complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:30 AM
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Married women have literally taught me how to get away with murder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:06 PM
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Oh my god, a male with a negative bias towards older women this is unheard of! Older women have had more experience with men. Older women warn younger women of the shit men pull. Men don’t like this. Men keep screeching about how older women are just jealous of younger women and are trying to sabotage them. I’m not exactly sure if any older women have sabotaged a relationship I could have had with a man her age but if so, I’m grateful to her and I hope I’m lucky enough that an older woman will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:42 AM
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Alright I’ll go the dating over 30 sub while you can go to literally any sub to find men whining about how little female attention they get despite altering their entire personality, changing their entire life, reading thousands of advice posts and paying an internet coach to teach them how to fuck lmao This entire side of the internet was built off the backs of men who are obsessed with pussy they’re not getting, give them the acknowledgment they deserve! They’re already invisible to 50% of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:16 AM
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Not many men are capable of being desirable in the first place but sureeeeee you’ll all just become SUPER desirable overnight when you turn 30 while the women go to pick up their government mandated cat at The Wall™️. Lucky you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:54 AM
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God I have never related to a song lyric more. Truly touching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:46 AM
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Well if I wanna have a hot boy soft harem, I gotta be in a couple of hot boys’ soft harems. It’s just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:42 AM
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I definitely agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:59 AM
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Getting into a relationship doesn’t mean you’ll be happy. Judging by the divorce rates, the amount that are initiated by women and knowing that there are plenty more that are married but miserable… I really can’t say that lowering your standards to get into a relationship will provide you happiness. In fact it’ll just decrease your chance of actually finding that happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:54 AM
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That’s fine I’ve got 3 sultans so I’ll just go to the others if one is being mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:50 AM
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Who is talking about being dangerous bad boys? You don’t need to do that to be exciting for your partner Just have some social intelligence, have something you’re passionate about, be open to new experiences and get out of your house regularly Why does everything need to be so black and white with you guys? Most people don’t live on the extreme ends of the spectrum and you don’t need to become an international drug lord to be an exciting partner. Nor do you have to be a domesticated chump to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:38 AM
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I’m not even talking about OP, I replied to you. Why do you think that a man both being exciting and stable is such an impossible feat to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:19 AM
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I’m more confused about why men seem to struggle having more than one setting on their personality. If men can only be stable if they’re boring and exciting if they’re not stable then how can you blame women? They’re both shitty options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:18 AM
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You don’t need to be in the mafia to be exciting lol no ones expecting 24/7 excitement from a partner. If a guy is socially apt, has a job and is passionate about literally anything in his life he’s basically there. No need to be a 10/10 virgin bangmaid hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:02 AM
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Why can’t someone be both exciting to their partner and also stable? Why can you only have one or the other type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:45 AM
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I’m childfree because I want to avoid these conversations. How do you even begin to explain this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:50 PM
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B - I’m 5’1 so a 10/10 man who’s 5 inches taller than me is a win A - I’m not so much interested in frame as I am the form, figure, shape, density, volume, area by squared meter. So I’ll take the taller dude. B - a micro penis is a dealbreaker. Sorry This ones really difficult. I love Himbos. I love personality. I want them both in the same person. B - used them once and never again A - there is so much cool shit in the world. I’ll take all of that over looking extra fuckable for 5-10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:35 AM
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Why do the stats say the complete opposite of what you say the stats say? Are these stats ones you made up yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:43 AM
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If most men want to be needed not wanted why don’t they just beta bux a poor woman? Why do they cry about how Chads are wanted and desired? It’s very easy to be needed. It’s not easy to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:59 PM
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And we’re not saying to never trust any man ever. Trusting the right man still requires distrust of him at first which he then proves to be unnecessary. You go in not trust him, he gives you reason to trust him and you slowly build that up. So what you should be telling women is - don’t trust any man until properly vetted and even then keep an eye out just in case. Which is what we’re saying anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:19 AM
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Getting to know masculine nature and having male friends/relatives is the reason why most women assume men are rapists and abusers until proven otherwise. Male nature = wanting to fuck everything, aggression, desire for power & control, attraction to vulnerability and child-like features, lack of sexual self control. Not only do men themselves say this but any close male friends/relatives you have will also tell you to not trust men, to avoid random men, ‘I know how men think’ ‘men only want one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:38 AM
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Why do you think women have led more comfortable lives than men? Is it the high risk of dying in childbirth and being constantly pregnant because you can’t say no to sex to the man who bought you (probably as a child)? Is it having to work and raise kids while getting none of your resources as they all belong to your husband? Is it the lack of access to healthcare, education and legal rights? Women didn’t fight in wars. They just had to protect the kids and themselves from invading, armed, rapey…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:58 AM
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How were you thinking of phrasing your ‘politically correct’ marketing message for the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:37 AM
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You would think so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:32 AM
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Are you telling incels and all the men on here complaint about lack of sex that erotic fulfilment isn’t the important and they can live a perfectly fine life without it? Women also gave up their comfort, health and their lives to keep society functioning. They were also working, raising kids, going through pregnancy after pregnancy with maternal death rates of around 1 per 100 births - they were risking their lives and facing the prospect of death every time they had to fulfil their wifely duty …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:30 AM
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Yeah but on the flip side… dating men and knowing how often men hit on and flirt with and look at women (regardless of whether they’re in a relationship or not) isn’t nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:21 AM
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I think the incels can’t even get gross fat women which is why they’re so obsessed over those women fucking men out of their league, thinking they’re hot because Chad wants to fuck them, having high standards and getting ‘alpha widowed’. I think most incels would take a gross fat chick over ending up alone anyday - they just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:10 AM
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So then women’s gender roles are also still here? Women are still expected to do the housework and childcare (even if they work)? Men performing women’s gender roles is praised (wow your husband babysits his own kids while you go grocery shopping? What a good man!) But it’s more or less expected of women to also provide - no one is praising women for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:47 AM
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I make enough to be able to reasonably provide for a family of 4 now. I work 50 hour weeks. I could do this till retirement and if I had a traditional wife I would still feel like I’m getting the way better deal. If I had a traditional wife AND she was paying 20% of the bills I would honestly start feeling guilty because of how sweet that deal is and how lucky I’ve gotten in life. You don’t seem to value the amount of labour/work that goes into the home and especially into children. That pesky l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:35 AM
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If all I had to do to fulfil my marital role was pay 80% of the expenses I’d think that’s a pretty sweet deal compared to everything that’s expected of me as a woman. You gotta work and pay 50%, give birth, be the primary caretaker and do most of the household chores. If I could have a family where my partner would be giving birth to my kids, protect, raise and care them, keep my home and pay 20% of our bills all I had to do was pay the remaining 80% I wouldn’t be able to believe my luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:12 AM
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So you’re scared about your partner leaving you high and dry but a woman should accept a tradlife, work for free her entire life, have to suck it up and stay with you even if she wants to leave because she can’t afford to AND not have any financial security if YOU were to leave her/cheat/whatever…. And it’s not just her life but the kids as well… If she is sacrificing her earning potential for you and your family she’s taking a huge, huge risk/gamble. Your side of the gamble is losing some of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:05 AM
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I’ve been skydiving for 3 years. I’m a woman. No one has pressured me into doing this. Women can also enjoy throwing themselves out of a plane just like men can… my uterus isn’t flying out of my body I swear I’m fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:04 AM
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Yeah I get it but it doesn’t change the fact that I cannot have a long term relationship with someone who is incapable of doing that. Emotional connection is impossible with so many men and for me a relationship isn’t worth it without it. I know most women view it like me and there is usually some kind of compensation required to build a relationship with that man - whether he needs to compensate with money, looks, status, whatever… but the relationship still doesn’t scratch the emotional itch y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:49 AM
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Everyone deserves a cheerleader in their relationship. Your masculinity will survive you being a supportive partner I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:34 AM
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It’s more that WE take notice and pay attention to our partners needs and the relationship starts to feel way too one sided if he isn’t doing the same. It’s not very common to find that in a man y’all call it ‘mind reading’. We just want someone in tune with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:06 AM
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Why do you feel like you have no control over men and therefore don’t expect anything of them but you do have control over women and can place expectations on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:32 AM
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Oh I completely understand! And I relate to it, however I think what most of these men on here mean when they say ‘aroused’ is it makes her immediately and directly horny - ie. you listen to her vent about work and expect her to get horny from your emotional support. That doesn’t work that way. Me saying I need emotional support to enjoy sex doesn’t mean emotional support is what makes me aroused… there are a lot of actions that can make me aroused but the depth of my arousal is really dictated …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:12 AM
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Well yeah if you meet the standards on paper but we aren’t vibing in person it’s still a no. The standards have to be met and then the vibe has to be there as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:43 AM
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You’re right those things do not cause arousal. They do increase the quality of the sex though. Being able to be fully relaxed with a man is the most effective way to be cumming consistently. And to be fully relaxed with a man you need his respect, love and emotional support. Knowing you can fully let loose with him allows you to access way way way more pleasure and desire both for him and from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:31 AM
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Yeah we hold women to way higher standards than men I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:26 AM
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What was the reason for men to have a vulva/labia on their face?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:12 AM
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Because they apply for those jobs and get paid for them? I didn’t willingly apply for this position nor do I get paid for it like all of those men do for doing what they’re doing? Are you telling me all men should be doing that for free for women or are you saying women should be getting paid to be nice to men if they choose to apply for the job of ‘man complimenter’?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:41 PM
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I don’t know what back up plans have to do with this but I wouldn’t say women have back up plans… more so we have options :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:44 AM
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Yeah getting used at work and getting murdered, physically/sexually assaulted and stalked are definitely not in the same ballpark but I know men are bit more sensitive and risk averse so do whatever you feel comfortable with buttercup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:26 AM
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Yes. I hate texting. I’d rather not text all day and have a phone call at the end of the night or just wait till you see them in person. I hate people that feel the need to be in contact 24/7. Let them miss you. Allow yourself the space to miss them. Save some conversation topics for in person. I only text to make plans or to ask someone what the best time to call them is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:37 AM
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I don’t lack empathy for men. I rightfully fear them and have been taught my entire life to protect myself from them and I’ve seen what can happen when women don’t take those precautions and experienced it on my own skin. I wish I could be as nice to men as I am to everyone else without being scared and knowing that if something were to happen to me the blame would be on me for not listening to the precautions that everyone in my life has given me from men. I am never mean to men without reason.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:12 AM
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I’m aware men don’t have any empathy for women. Which is why women shouldn’t compliment or go out of their way to be nice to men - it’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:04 AM
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Hahahahahaha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:02 AM
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Done this twice in my life, both times should’ve been a ONS but ended up dragging on for a bit longer. I went out with the intention of getting laid both times (1 was after a long dry spell I wanted to break, 2 was after a bad breakup and I wanted to rebound). The dudes were just in the right place at the right time. I didn’t really put too much thought into picking them out bc I had no intention of going home alone both those nights and if I started picking and choosing i would’ve overthought i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah I’ll keep sticking my neck out and risking my safety for other women and for the few men I know and trust. I don’t care if random men think I’m mean. I’ve had way too many bad experiences with random men to take that risk. And if something bad were to happen to me it would be my fault for engaging with stranger men because I should have been protecting myself and not put myself in that situation and it was my choice to do it and why was I flirting or being a tease… seriously fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:09 AM
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Also witnessing domestic violence, experiencing aggression from men for literally nothing and the incident that really fucked me for life was losing a good friend at the age of 23 due to her 35 year old male colleague taking her niceness as flirting and murdering her upon finding out she has a boyfriend. It honestly boils my fucking blood hearing the lack of empathy from men in these situations and making it seem like WE’RE the crazy ones for being cautious. If she wasn’t nice to him she would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:27 AM
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Yeah but men usually experience that violence in situations they can avoid. Most male violence is from them getting into fights with other men, doing crimes, being in gangs… it’s not from being nice to the opposite sex. Plus you have physical strength on your side. I could be overpowered by 99% of men over the age of 16. You don’t have that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:09 PM
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Asking men to change their behaviour never seems unfathomable to most people. It’s always the women that have to change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:02 PM
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Yeah but why should I have to risk my safety and comfort for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:59 PM
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Oh damn. He’s dead. I’ll ask for some pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:04 PM
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Yes but I am a) not having children; and b) if I did have a son and he was balding I don’t have to fuck him but I do have to fuck his father and I can’t force him to have a hair transplant if he didn’t want one so I’d rather him just not need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:46 PM
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Yeah after seeing my dads results I’m so down to normalise it. He looks great and is so clearly more confident in himself. Worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:43 PM
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I’ve got my surgery booked for December this year as well so I’m pretty set on being ‘childfree’…. However I still feel a little weary using that label because I would definitely like to foster kids in the future and possibly adopt. So I’m not too sure what label I fall under here. I wouldn’t change my plan for any man. I’ve always known this is what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:39 PM
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Hell yeah. My father got a hair transplant and he’s told my brother he will pay for it for him as well if/when he starts balding. I would definitely do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:28 PM
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You should absolutely be doing all of those things. Women really love hands - keep your nails clean and presentable. Some eyebrow maintenance can really frame your face nice. And everyone who gets naked with another person would benefit from having a hairless asshole. It’s looks nice and clean and keeps smells away opens up the door for so many more activities!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:25 PM
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If the hair transplant is well done you can’t tell it’s fake. You just need a good doctor. It’s a worthwhile investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:21 PM
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Hair transplant. I make sure to check out my boyfriends fathers to make sure they have a full head of hair and hope their sons have inherited the same. I am just not attracted to bald men. His hair makes up so much of my physical attraction towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:18 PM
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Yeah there’s really no point to making it your entire personality. I believe it’s the least interesting thing about me… unfortunately other people take a great deal of interest and offence from it and force me to talk about it a lot more than I would like to. I wouldn’t need a word for it if people didn’t question me about it endlessly whenever the topic comes up and then conclude it’s the basis of my personality just because they cannot wrap their heads around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:27 AM
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I mean I’m 24 so I’m not sure what I’m coping with if I say I’m childfree, I just use that term to only date other childfree people to not waste anyone’s time. But you’re not the first nor the last person who won’t believe someone can willingly choose this for themselves so don’t worry I’m not here to debate you on that. I just wanted to make a distinction between the two because I think it’s important to recognising infertile peoples struggles without them being lumped in with us selfish bastar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:49 AM
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You’ll have bouts of regret and bitterness no matter what you choose. Married women also have those bouts of regret and bitterness when their relationship isn’t what they expected it to be. That’s why so many get divorced. And then you have the ones that see women getting divorced and are bitter because they don’t have the means to do that and they have to stay in their marriage. A single woman could see a happy couple and have some regrets and doubts. A parent could have some bitterness over th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:37 AM
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Yeah exactly it makes a difference if it is voluntary or not. That was my whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:27 AM
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I guess I just choose to differentiate out of respect for the ones who want kids but can’t have them and are suffering due to it. It doesn’t feel right for me to place the same label on myself when their childlessness wasn’t a choice. There’s a difference between it been voluntary and involuntary. Kinda like how men can call themselves incels but if I as a woman chose to be celibate and labelled myself as an incel they’d get upset about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:40 AM
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Last time I said I am ‘childless’ I got berated by a woman struggling with her fertility. She wanted kids, she couldn’t get pregnant. She was childless. My fertility is fine, unfortunately, I just don’t want children. I’m childfree. It doesn’t feel right to place both her and me under the same label
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:16 AM
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You keep replying to all my comments except the one on top 🤔 that how you know you’ve said something right on here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:33 AM
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He played himself and he keeps wilfully ignoring it to keep wallowing in his pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:04 PM
1

Who the fuck doesn’t get over their ex at 17? How long could you possibly take to get over a high school relationship, I was ‘in love’ with someone else like 3 months after our break up. Nothing is that serious at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:03 PM
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Porn is definitely a form of mainstream media…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:36 PM
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Alright you can suck on my titties but don’t go anywhere near my vagina. Children are allowed to exit my vagina, not enter it. I’ll have to find a man to do that for me, but I’ll take of you baby don’t worry. Mommy’s got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:19 PM
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Girls night is literally every Saturday night. Usually followed by Sunday morning brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:12 PM
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You’ll never be a woman and I will hopefully never be pregnant so fuck it no point arguing about the woes of pregnancy. The only ones that can ever fully understand it are the ones that go through it. I just think the least we could do is acknowledge what they go through while also acknowledging you’ll never fully understand it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:07 PM
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Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:47 PM
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Isn’t it normal to think someone is superior to you in one way or another? I saw a homeless man on the street today playing his guitar. His guitar skills were superior to mine. Everyone you meet will be superior to you in way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:38 PM
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I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: I wish I lived the life the men on this sub think I do. God I wish I could be the woman living in your heads. She seems cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:30 PM
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I mean reducing it down to 1 day of pain isn’t really realistic. The 9 months of pregnancy are pretty brutal as well. And then labour. And breastfeeding. And dealing with an array of health issues/injuries that arise from pregnancy. This isn’t even getting into the very real psychological changes and damages as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:28 PM
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Being positive won’t stop your vagina from tearing to you asshole during childbirth. Won’t stop the mirage of problems and health risks that arise routinely during pregnancy. It won’t stop you from dying. It’s difficult, risky and painful. Physically, mentally and emotionally. To say otherwise is just being delusional. Telling a woman not to be scared of it is like telling a man not to protect his balls when someone is going in for a kick. Women know and understand how difficult it is and STILL …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:22 PM
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Why get married at all? The older I get the less I see the appeal in general. And I’m in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:54 PM
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“Among women who know they're pregnant, it's estimated about 1 in 8 pregnancies will end in miscarriage. Many more miscarriages happen before a woman is even aware she has become pregnant.” Pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:52 PM
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So then reproduction is entirely optional and therefore your entire post is a moot point since men are signing up for their own suffering by competing for reproduction and don’t deserve any sympathy for their choice to do so. The burden of the competition is entirely optional. Just don’t choose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:49 PM
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Sorry to burst your fantasy of how all women are just pure angels made of sugar and spice and everything nice. I mean I still think we’re winning the moral game but y’all really haven’t even tried to beat us there. It doesn’t feel like a deserved win when your competition voluntarily puts themselves on the bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:44 PM
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My biggest hurdle is that he tends to date older women than him. Once I get past that, I’ll be sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:53 AM
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Keep cringing while I fuck Harry styles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:49 AM
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Yeah okay a Netflix show about a cheating woman is peak degeneracy but porn showing dads fucking their daughters has been nothing but a positive for society. I forgot that anything that makes a man pp hard is automatically good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:13 AM
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What a gimpish thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:47 AM
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Okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:38 AM
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Just because a man wouldn’t reject me for being broke doesn’t mean he doesn’t have the right to do it, or that I have the right to be upset about it if he’s done the work to be financially stable and it’s something he values. Men prioritising the wrong things in a relationship isn’t my problem. Take that up with your boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:29 AM
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Yeah the altruism, kindness, gentleness and sweetness gets beaten out of us. I also wish I was still more like that like I used to be once. But that only resulted in me getting taken advantage of, mocked and not treated with respect. You can only be sweet and give people the benefit of the doubt so many times while being blamed for any harm coming your way because ‘well what did you expect! You need to protect yourself! You need to vet everyone! It’s your fault for being so trusting! Don’t be st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:58 AM
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Yep. I can’t remember ever trusting men. My dad made sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:41 AM
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Such a crazy concept they literally had to learn it from a study LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:36 AM
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One day I WILL finish that sentence with Harry Styles’ name. God I can’t wait to brag about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:35 AM
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It’s pretty high up there as a reason for divorce so yeah. And porn’s negative effects on society spill into wayyyy more areas than just family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:30 AM
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I’ve only had one friend that dated a man significantly older than her when she was young and (surprise surprise) she is now the loudest one in protest of it. It sucks that she and so many other women have to learn the hard way but I’m glad more and more women are calling this shit out now. And yeah, so many bars and clubs have been ruined for us due to an influx of middle aged men attending it. We warn each other and avoid those places as well. It’s just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:17 AM
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How am I treating a man like a wallet? I’m treating him like an adult. I expect all adults to be financially stable and if they’re not to be trying their hardest to reach financial stability. I earn close to double what my boyfriend does. But he IS financially stable. I wouldn’t date him if he wasn’t. He’s just a man who can pay his own bills and have enough left over to buy himself something he wants and put some money into savings - if that’s treating a man like a wallet then we should all asp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:49 AM
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Wanting a financially stable man means you should expect to get pumped and dumped and disrespected? Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:34 AM
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What’s even worse is those young women see men mocking and hating on women who do provide for themselves/who have also put the effort into their career/who have lived through the struggle to make their own way in the world…. And if they’re young dumb and naive enough to buy into it they settle into their ‘feminine’ role as these men request it - ‘be agreeable and let me provide so I can feel like a man’… only to find themselves getting mocked and hated on for being a leech, a gold digger and pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:29 AM
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There are always going to be some differences, I’m talking about big differences where it is easy and common for people to be taken advantage of, where it happens often and is breeding ground for predators/predatory mindsets. Upper/working class not so much but upper vs low class definitely would be. Different incomes - depends on how big the gap is. Huge IQ differences as well. Your examples aren’t following the age gap relationship example we’re talking about. Someone making $80000 dating some…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:18 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:08 AM
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The difference is the reason behind the beating. If you press down on why those aged gap relationships are bad it boils down to a serious power imbalance which is easily observed. Dating outside of your race is bad because of… having different belief systems and traditions? Looking different? Being born in a different country? None of them are really on the same level as aged gap relationships. Also I do think that sometimes dating a person from a certain different race/religion is a bad idea an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:08 AM
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He’s never beat up any of my other boyfriends. He’s never had a problem with any of them - and I’ve dated outside of my religion and race. He’s even backed up some of my boyfriends and defended them against me when I’ve been in the wrong. He owns a restaurant and has even tried to set me up with some of his (younger) waiter/bartender men who work for him. He’s not a conservative man who clutches his pearls at the thought of his female relatives dating or having sex. I’m a stress head workaholic …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:56 AM
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I didn’t do this right after we had the argument, I dropped it and told him I supported his relationship and had seen that it was actually okay. I played into that for a few months before going to date his friend. He was happy I had come around and spent time with him and his girlfriend. We are very close. Dude I can’t imagine dating a 40 year old in my early 20s no matter how we meet. I literally cannot imagine a single scenario where I would be okay with that. I will always see those men as pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:42 AM
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My 43 year old uncle dated a 22 year old when I was the same age as her. We had a heated argument about it, he kept on doubling down on how what he was doing was perfectly okay. So I went on a date with his 40 year old friend and told my uncle how great he was and that I couldn’t wait to see him again. That crazy motherfucker beat this man to a pulp for taking advantage of his niece. The cognitive dissonance is really alarming in these men and not all of them have a raging feminist in their fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:42 AM
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I couldn’t get into a relationship while I was studying/starting up my career. Relationships take a lot of time, effort and mental energy. And compromises/priority adjustments. I needed a couple of years of being able to completely dedicate myself to my work with very limited outside distractions and no partner to have to compromise for and pass up interstate internships/job/study opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:19 AM
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It’s because (despite all of their whining about gold diggers) a lot of them are aware that the only thing they can offer a woman in a relationship to convince her to stay with him is money. They cannot fathom a woman staying with them if they are able to get a decent pay check alone. Hell I’d be intimidated as well if I felt like my entire value in a relationship could be replaced by my partner getting a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:13 AM
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Exactly. Men will shit on you no matter what you do. Therefore, as a woman, there is 0 incentive to do anything else other than whatever the fuck you want and what benefits you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:03 AM
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Sappy romantic love songs reminding you of your partner seems like common practise. They’re songs about love and you’re in love! You can actually relate to the lyrics you’re singing. But I’ve had that experience with all of my boyfriends, it wasn’t exclusive to my first boyfriend. Are there things that still make me think of my first boyfriend exclusively? Sure. But there are things that make me think of my childhood best friend exclusively and my second boyfriend and my parents and family and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:53 AM
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I mean, most people meet their first partner in their teens. Everyone’s brain structure and personality is changing then. Plus personality changing is even more difficult to assign to a cause. I’d say everyone changes at least a little bit when getting into a relationship with someone - no matter if that’s your first or 10th.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:12 AM
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How is this peak degeneracy but porn isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:56 PM
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Had a guy cook me dinner and then proudly proclaim ‘I stole all of the food you’re eating! In fact, most of the food in my fridge is stolen! That’s my trick to saving money’. We went out on two more dates but I had to end things when we went to a liquor store to buy some wine and he tried to steal that too. (He called me a gold digger when I gave him the reason as to why I didn’t want to continue seeing him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:55 AM
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I wouldn’t date a single father and raise his kids. I WOULD adopt or foster kids though. So I’m not opposed to raising ‘someone else’s kids’ but I do not wanna be a step mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:49 PM
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Nah let’s not blame Jesus for his father being a dick. He suffered down here just like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:40 AM
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They’d probably allow men to have sons but I can definitely see society questioning and putting restrictions on men having daughters without a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:16 AM
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Same. No matter how much I hear about ‘protecting’ to be a masculine trait I always think of mothers of various animal groups protecting their offspring in the wild and assign it as a feminine trait accordingly. I never picture men ‘protecting’ in that fierce primal way I picture women. So whenever I’ve felt ‘protected’ by a man I’ve seen it as being due to his feminine side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:38 AM
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There are conservative and religious gen z’s. They aren’t the ones going childfree. The childfree movement is largely liberals
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:24 PM
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I’m not having kids, I have another 60 years max on here, I’m not really invested in our future. Jesus doesn’t mind. He’s pretty understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:09 PM
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Idk it sounds cool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:05 PM
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Yeah conservatives and strict religious families will end up being the majority quite soon simply due to the fact that they pop out wayyyy more kids than us ‘childfree’ ‘one and done’ ‘two is pushing it but it’s the absolutely max’ schmucks on the left. But I still think all those other things I listed will also happen. It’ll be an interesting combo and I definitely plan on making my exit before dealing with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:03 PM
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Yeah keeping my fingers crossed for extinction🤞🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:58 PM
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Political lesbian separatism, good sex toys and government subsidised childcare for the women, sexbots, vr porn and government subsidies sex work for the men? Artificial wombs? A war to take a big enough chunk of men out of the game? Although honestly I don’t think it’ll be like this for much longer, I think gen z will raise conservative kids and the pendulum will start swinging backwards. Or gen z’s kids’ kids. Or we won’t even need to find solutions to these problems because we will have a ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:43 PM
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If I’m not dating ANYONE else and saying no to any other man - how is it not exclusive commitment?? Okay so I eat my 3 course meal, slowly and I stay present in the moment and I enjoy it. I can go to another restaurant the following weekend and also enjoy and 3 course meal slowly and properly and enjoy that too? Having had the other 3 course meal a week ago wouldn’t take away from my enjoyment of eating another, different 3 course meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:33 PM
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I went without sex for 3 years and 4 months and barely thought about it. I just wanted to focus on carefree travel, reaching my fitness goals, getting my masters and getting my career off the ground. It took me 3 years to get this done, took me another few months to find someone I wanted to have sex with. Before that the biggest celibacy period I’d had was 10 months. I was a little surprised I managed to get to 3+ years but it turns out that when I hyperfocus on some area of my life I can go wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:20 PM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend going into 2 years next week. I was going on dates with a few other people when we first started dating. He was going on dates with a few other girls. He asked me to be his girlfriend, we both said bye bye to everyone else we were talking to and… here we are now. His ‘hard earned time’ is respected by me giving him my ‘hard earned time’. If we’re casually dating we don’t owe each other monogamy or exclusivity, I don’t know what you’re not getting. If I told a guy on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:48 PM
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You’re a stranger on reddit dude. Why would I care about how you go about your dating life? I was just here to talk about myself I don’t care what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:37 AM
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Why would I assume commitment? When you’re first starting to go on dates with someone you are not promising to be committed to them until you explicitly state that you are and you have that talk. So many men date just to get laid, why commit to someone before you even KNOW you want to commit to them and then to you? I assume men are doing the same so yeah I’m fine with it? Actually I assume men are even having sex with the other women, which I don’t do. And it’s not like I’m lying to anyone or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:02 AM
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You just assumed a lot of shit I didn’t say. That’s not how I run my dating life. But I’m curious, how SHOULD women date according to you? Humour me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:49 AM
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How is this dual mating strategy? It’s just dating until you find someone you want a relationship with that also wants a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:18 AM
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Baby I know that, that’s why you date a few of them at a time so you weed out the uninterested ones without wasting your time and your emotions on them! Some drop out themselves, you drop some and then you do get into a relationship with one and can drop the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:40 AM
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Ooooh noooo :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:34 AM
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Thanks for the award! Yup until I hear these dudes criticising ‘Chad’ for doing the same I don’t buy any of their shit. If they had the options women do they’d be doing waaaay worse than us - you can see this by how they tell women that expecting a man with options to commit and be loyal is unrealistic. At least not until he’s got his n count in the triple digits. But a woman dating around to find the best fit for her amongst hundreds of keen and available men? Nooooooooooooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:12 AM
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So y’all are better than us just because you want to do what we do but are unsuccessful at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:52 AM
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Sheesh take that fire hydrant and spray it on yourself to help you cool down buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:49 AM
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You date people before you get into a relationship with them? How do you even get to a relationship if you didn’t go on dates before that? You’re not in a relationship from the 1st date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:47 AM
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I’ve always dated multiple people until I became exclusive with one of them. I don’t see why I would exclusively date someone if they haven’t given me their exclusivity by asking me to be their girlfriend. I didn’t sleep with those people though. The vast majority of my sex life has been within relationships (with some exceptions). I’ve just been on a lot of dates with many people. And I’ve dated men & women, the process is the same it’s just that women are usually going to bring up exclusivity …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:45 AM
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Wow I can’t believe how many women on here have had an ex who had a problem with them reading 😬 I thought I had stumbled across the only weirdo like this but the fact that this is relatable makes it so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:30 AM
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I’m sure I was part of a ‘soft harem’ when I was dating casually. I imagine the guys I was dating were about as loyal to me as I was to them (not at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:57 AM
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Impossible, a post wall woman more attractive than a man in his PRIME? I don’t buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:43 AM
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Majored in data science, minored in women’s studies 😎 you can do both ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:01 AM
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Yeah I don’t know how I haven’t made this connection before. My mom has always given me a cold ‘deal with it’ speech whenever I talk about anything bothering me. Even to me telling her I’m feeling suicidal. On the other hand a few weeks ago I fell off my skateboard (like the 24 year old child that I am) and dad took me to the doctors because I busted my knee open. I needed a couple of stitches and he literally had tears streaming down his face because he couldn’t stand seeing me in pain and wish…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:52 PM
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This post made me realise I’ve been raised by emotionally unavailable women (my mother and both of my grandmothers) partnered with men way more emotional than them (my father and grandfathers). My brother is more emotionally available than both my sister and I and my boyfriend (and most of my ex boyfriends) have been more emotionally available than me as well. I can’t wait to discuss this in therapy. What a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:20 PM
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I’m so sick of men playing dumb when it comes to household chores/children. How do you hold a job if you’re that incapable of performing basic tasks and remembering daily activities? Do you just forget to go to work? Do you show up to work and just stare aimlessly until someone tells you exactly what to do? If your boss tells you you have a meeting on Thursday do you show up on Monday instead? I doubt it. So it’s not that men aren’t capable of seeing dirty dishes and thinking ‘hey I should do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:06 AM
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There are women out there that want a gym bro with no personality trait outside of making money. Those women are the ‘shallow’ ‘gold diggers’ they claim to hate… and yet these men build their lives to attract nothing but them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:26 PM
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So you need EVERY woman to be like this. Jesus. Good luck man, start working on turning women back into slaves bc that’s the only way you’ll get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:45 PM
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So what percentage of women do you think are like that and what percentage do you think we need?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:35 PM
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If there’s plenty of those women then there is no reason for men to complain… if there are plenty of those women then this whole post is redundant because that means ‘postmodern feminism’ hasn’t actually changed shit. So are there plenty of those women and men are complaining just for the sake of complaining or aren’t there many of those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:29 PM
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Men have never had to choose between career/financial independence and family. If society is structured in a way where women can only have one you can’t be upset when they don’t choose family. If men could only choose one our species would’ve been extinct a long time ago because most would not have been choosing family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:31 PM
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All this is showing me is that the stereotype that women are naturally maternal and baby obsessed and happy to just be submissive housewives doting on their kids and husband was all lies. You can keep crying about it. I’m gonna keep living my childfree life. If all society has managed to put on offer for women is ‘be an incubator’ or ‘have fun and destroy society in the process’ I’m gonna go with option b. Y’all have fun propagating our dumbass species forward though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:27 PM
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Women do show affection to the men they love and also the women in their lives. Go cuddle, kiss and compliment your male buddies the way women do with their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:15 PM
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You are 100% correct. Women aren’t owed that just for being alive. A woman that expects that is just as entitled as her male counterpart. All anyone should be owed in a civilised society is basic human decency. That just means - treat them like a human being and try not to be a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:13 PM
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I have never seen women complaining about this. Women just think ‘good for her’ and raise their standards accordingly. Angry men foam at the mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:11 AM
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Or Chris Hemsworth marrying a woman 8 years older than him. One of the biggest Chads in the world?? Marrying an old hag?? Blasphemy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:10 AM
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RP and PUA creators are just men who found a way to milk money from sad lonely men. Not a single one of them actually practises what he preaches but these fools still lap up whatever they say and pay for their advice. It’d be funny if it wasn’t so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:08 AM
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Oh my god you’re forgetting when Jeff bezos cheated on Mackenzie for a woman OLDER than her. Red pill dudes lost their marbles seeing the richest man in the world shacking up with a 50 year old woman. You’d think these rich men were paying them to gatekeep their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:59 PM
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We say that when we see the guy not treating our friend as well as she deserves, not when it comes to looks. I’ve found very very few of my friends’ partners attractive and they haven’t really found my boyfriends attractive either bc we have different tastes. Comments shitting on men’s appearance only start happening after the break up to hype our girl up. His attitude and treatment towards her definitely gets scrutinised while they’re dating tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:55 PM
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But the male g spot is up the ass so evolution clearly accounted for men getting fucked up the ass. You’re telling me if men don’t want to participate in a sexual act they shouldn’t but women should participate in sexual acts they don’t want? Just because I enjoy PIV sometimes doesn’t mean I always want to do it. If I’m not in the mood it’s painful for me. Why should a woman have to do that but suggesting a man should do the same makes you upset? Also, I have pegged a few men. If they enjoyed it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:46 AM
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If a woman doesn’t want to have sex PIV is painful, uncomfortable and also risks pregnancy for her for something she didn’t want to do. And men literally are designed to be pegged - why else would your g spot be up your ass? And you don’t have to worry about pregnancy. You can just enjoy having your g spot stimulated and let your girl have the kind of fun she wants in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:41 AM
3

How? It’s literally the same argument he’s presenting. It literally couldn’t be MORE relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:36 AM
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Yeah I have 0 regrets revenge cheating on an ex. His best friend was hotter anyway. And had a bigger dick. And was so much better in bed. And I thoroughly enjoyed telling my ex that. Call me toxic but I refuse to take the high road in situations like that. You dragged me down to hell, I may as well have some fun while I’m here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:13 PM
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Dude I’ve been on this sub for a while, if I had a dollar for every time a man said none of those things matter and women are just projecting what they like in men I’d be able to retire right now. Men only care about looks! Youth! Fertility!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:55 PM
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Would you allow your girl to fuck you up the ass with a strap on if she really really wanted to? You don’t enjoy it but it brings her a lot of pleasure. You don’t have to do anything, just lay back and let her do her thing for 15 minutes a couple of times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:46 PM
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All I’m saying is, if men really are the more logical gender and this is the way their logical mind works, humanity is truly doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:14 PM
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That’s right. Men hunt women, women gather men. I always make sure I’ve got a couple of spare men gathered for cold, lonely winter nights and special occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:09 PM
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Thank you! Men: we don’t care about women’s personality, degrees, job, hobbies. We just care about her looks Women: okay then I’ll just work on my looks and you do the rest Also men: why aren’t women competing for us by showing how ambitious they are in their work, how passionate they are in their hobbies, how interesting their single life is Like Jesus fucking Christ can y’all PLEASE get your narratives in order. The fuck do want??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:06 PM
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This is what I was saying in my other comment. I find the women in my life infinitely more ambitious, passionate and interesting. You value more typically male dominated areas and interests - that’s your bias. I value more typically female dominated areas and interests - that’s my bias. My best friend studied art history in college, is now working part time in local art gallery so she can be an involved mother in her 3 children’s lives, she cooks incredible meals, keeps her whole family running …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:55 PM
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Most men I meet go to work, have a couple of friends that they don’t know anything about besides the basics and their usually shared hobby, play games and watch porn. I don’t know where you live that you’re surrounded by ambitious, passionate, interesting men because those men are definitely not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:34 PM
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Here’s the thing. I couldn’t complete in dating even if I wanted to. Men are so thirsty I could approach 100 of them and at least 90 of them would take me up on the offer. And then we’re back at square one - 90 men competing for my attention. It’s male thirst that’s the root of most of your dating issues. Y’all should sort that shit out amongst yourself there is literally nothing women can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:21 PM
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Women do the vast majority of the unpaid labour, go through the hell that is pregnancy, raise those little humans to be able to participate in society, educate and mold the minds of the majority of people under the age of 18 whether through motherhood or education, dominate the caretaking industries (nurses, aged care workers, volunteers in shelters, hospitals, orphanages) - actually they just dominate the healthcare industry in general, are more environmentally conscientious and care about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:11 PM
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I agree and really resonate with this. I’ve actually spent a lot of time thinking about this - I have a theory that this is why so many young girls are attracted to ‘bad boys’. Girls get raised being told to be quiet, polite, afraid of men and life and aware of danger everywhere and to always be cautious and safe and good, chaste, well behaved, respectful… when the hormones kick in and you wanna rebel against the world it’s a lot easier to do that by attaching yourself to a ‘bad boy’. You want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:48 AM
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This is a brilliant comment and really reminds me of this iconic scene in Fleabag https://youtu.be/RZrnHnASRV8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:16 AM
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I don’t know, I’d say I’m doing pretty good in that department with my boyfriend but I am a very biased source so it really doesn’t mean much. It definitely is not mainstream but I think anyone who wants to ‘evolve’ to have a proper emotionally intimate partnership with another person has the incentive to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:30 PM
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I’m a woman who has been dumped due to my depression in the past. I had very good reasons to be depressed, but I refused to go to therapy, I started ignoring my friends because I didn’t want to talk to them about it and just put it all on my partner. I was angry and bitter and demonised the hell out of him for leaving me in that moment… now that I have a couple of years of distance from that situation I can’t blame him in the slightest. It isn’t fair on ANYONE to be forced into a position of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:11 PM
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The equivalent present to a man buying you lingerie for your birthday is you buying him a cock ring/cock sleeve for his. It does absolutely nothing for him, it’ll probably be a little uncomfortable for him to wear - but it’ll make the sex better for you! And what a better way to show your partner you care other than prioritising your own pleasure on their special day 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:41 AM
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I know I already commented but this is actually one of the funniest comments ive seen on ppd so im back. Why is the sex toy industry a billion dollar industry? Why do women buy vibrators and masturbate if there is no innate response to stimulate it? Do you think women only masturbate in front of a camera for men’s viewing pleasure? Lmaooo you men on here are actually a trip. Y’all are hilarious. Thanks for making me laugh so much today, I really needed it. Women: have a whole ass organ solely de…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:01 AM
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This is why I just started telling men to lie down and stick their tongue out. Communicating with men is pointless. Just sit on his face and ride it out till you get yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:59 AM
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Have you ever been around toddlers? I have younger female siblings and cousins and they were touching themselves and humping pillows at like the age of 2. Looking back now I remember really enjoying wearing tight pants that put pressure on my clit that felt nice, putting your genitals under streams of water like bathtub faucets, humping table edges? Sleeping with a pillow between my legs? I’ve had these discussions with most of my female friends now that we’re older, we didn’t know WHY we were d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:55 AM
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I am definitely genetically inferior to tall women. I see them 6ft Amazonian queens and I am in awe. I barely made it to 5’1 it’s such a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:38 AM
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I live in Australia and guns, mace, knives, pepper spray - literally everything is illegal. A good friend of mine was murdered by a man she rejected last year. So yeah, most of them won’t do it, but some will. And you never know. But I do hope you’re reborn as a woman in your next life. You can get sexual attention from the opposite sex and you can feel what we feel. You’ll wish you had your penis back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:10 AM
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I deleted all unnecessary social media (no Instagram, no Snapchat, no TikTok, no Facebook - except I left messenger because I communicate to a lot of people on there). I felt like they were all such a time/energy waste and they were not beneficial for my mental health at all. I started seeing a dietician. She’s helping me build a ‘meal plan agenda’ that is best suited to my body/lifestyle/health issues. So many issues stem from our gut and it’s about time I got that shit in order Finally took th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:38 PM
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No it’s not great because I feel unsafe a lot of time, I’ve been groped, stalked, threatened, assaulted, insulted, harassed, cornered and I’ve even been physically hit once. You can’t imagine the negatives because women aren’t threatening to men and therefore sexual attention from them would obviously always be a positive for you. I would give it all up in a heartbeat just to feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:56 PM
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I’d love to be wanted by the opposite sex if I was a male. It’s not great as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:35 AM
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Me too, but I still got a restraining order on him the very next day. My life is way too valuable to be taking any kind of chances with psychos like that. Any display of violence from a man should be taken as a personal threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:53 PM
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The real kicker is that our entire relationship lasted 3 weeks. This man acted like this at the ending of a 3 WEEK relationship that was entered in on a false premise of lies that he had built to get me to date him. I thank my lucky stars I found out the truth that early because it's terrifying to think how that would've ended up if we were further in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:36 AM
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One of my favourite memories of all time is when I broke up with an ex because I found out he had lied to me about something he knew was a deal-breaker for me and he punched a brick wall so hard he cracked open and broke his knuckle. I drove him to the hospital and the second I was alone in my car I finally let out the laughter I was trying to contain that whole time. I was literally laughing alone in my car like a crazy person for a couple of minutes there just replaying that ridiculous scene i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:16 AM
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Man women are still being punished for Eve eating an apple, welcome to the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:20 PM
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What do you think the male aversion to therapy is? They think talking about their feelings is weak and feminine. Punching walls and spewing non-coherent bullshit like this is the alpha male way to deal with emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:20 PM
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Kinda hard not to when men keep defending men acting like rapists as normal behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:31 PM
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You got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:22 PM
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So in the west we have a culture that doesn't restrict women and only restricts men and yet men are still doing most of the raping, abusing and murdering. Seems like a good incentive to put more restrictions on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:03 PM
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The education system was build this way before women were even allowed to enter it. Turns out, girls are just more interested in getting an education for the most part. Should we allow boys to disrupt the education of everyone else in the classroom so they can act however the fuck they want? Kids needs to be quiet, respectful, disciplined and be able to follow orders. Once again, girls tend to be better at that. Are most guys normal good people? I don't think so. Especially not in those cultures…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:56 PM
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I can't believe we live in a world where women are sexist by asking men not to abuse and harass them but men abusing and harassing women is their god given right. I must've been a real bastard in my past life because I'm pretty sure this place is hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:42 PM
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If male culture constitutes of sexual harassment in every sphere of public and private life, hell yeah I am against that. If men's understanding of discrimination against their gender is social stigma against being sexual predators and female supremacy means I can take a taxi without being scared for my life then bring on female supremacy! I don't want men sexually harassing me - if that makes me sexist, then I am the biggest sexist in the world and proud of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:34 PM
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They ain't closeted, they are loud and proud in their misogyny. As you can see, 'anti-male culture' is any culture that thinks misogyny is kinda bad, sometimes. A culture that puts any kind of restriction/social stigma on male actions that harm women? Anti-male! A culture that restricts and oppresses women and blames them for any negative male action or act of misogyny? As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:25 PM
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I don't know what false reality you've created in your head when young boys are being put on gender changing drugs en-mass. The trans movement is definitely problematic, especially when we meddle with a child's development like that - but that is not a gender issue because there are also little girls getting their testosterone shots and chopping their tits off as well. Therefore, this is not an attack on men, but a completely different issue. Have you ever lived in Eastern Europe? Or in the Balk…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:12 PM
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You may know more about the lesbian community than I do, but you clearly understand it less. *Eyeroll* And the things I said about men wouldn't even be considered as abusive. Just 'masculine'. If women stopped dating men that had those traits, most of the world would be single. Also we have studies and data… even a medical explanation for what makes a boy born gay. Nothing like that is even close to existing for lesbians. If lesbians are born… then where is the data? Can you send me some of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:51 PM
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We could all do with some feminisation, so I ain't complaining. I feel so so lucky to live where I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:37 PM
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Well I work and live in the city so I cross paths with thousands and thousands of men each month, so yeah 1 man cold approaching out of like 10000 men I cross paths with is pretty 'rare'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:35 PM
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That's not anit-male culture buddy. No one is forcing drugs on boys to make them act like girls? I really don't know what you mean there? And literally everything else you listed has been around since the early days of civilisation. Men are strong, women are weak, men are powerful, logical providers, women are emotional, submissive caretakes, men shouldn't be involved parents because it's a woman's role to raise kids. ALL of those problems you listed come from the patriarchy and how we as a soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:01 PM
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Dude, I am a woman who is/has been active in the lesbian community. You are literally talking out of your ass. Men aren't just violent. They belittle you, drag you down if you're doing better than them and that makes them feel emasculated, they manipulate you into sex, they get controlling and possessive, are highly disagreeable, lack empathy and seriously struggle with emotional intelligence. And thats just the tip of the iceberg. If you compare gay men and lesbians I think one of the key diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:52 PM
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a what kind of men are you aiming for who don't care about their appearance? In my expereince many men stop doing a lot of those things when you're in a rellationship with them. They just kinda let themselves go when they've got you. I don't like chest hair/pubes/armpit hair/butt hair and I feel like I have the right to ask my partner to take care of that since he also would prefer me to not have leg hair/pubes/armpit hair/butt hair. I know there are many women that like hairy men, but I ain't o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:40 PM
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I am definitely not into men that have to be dominant in the bedroom 100% of the time. I've realised that I find it very difficult to be sexually compatible with straight men for this reason, so I tend to end up with bisexual/bicurious men more often than not. It's just nice being with partners who don't take sex that seriously and enjoy exploring both their dominant and submissive sides. I am currently in a relationship with a man and I guess you could say we're both 'switches'. We like having …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:16 PM
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Honestly I'm glad there is a bit of an "anti-male" culture in Australia because the men in the Balkans are disgusting. I do not want to be harassed while my grandmother is dying you insensitive prick. Don't lock me in your car until I give you my number you creep. Australia is the happy middle between. The men approach in places where it is appropriate to approach - and I am grateful for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:43 PM
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Lesbians can be assholes but they do not hold a candle to men. Like lesbian asshole-ness isn't even in the same league as male asshole-ness. I love women. Really, truly love women. Women can sense that and they act accordingly. I've only ever had one bad experience with a woman I was with and that was largely my fault. Lesbians try to pull straight women for a couple of reasons a. there aren't a lot of lesbians out there and there tends to be a lot of overlap between them (like 9 times outta 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:48 PM
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I first realised I was sexually attracted to women when I was 19. It felt... freeing? I could finally have sexual experiences without all the weird social/biological/gender constructs and rules. I wasn't worried for my safety, I could flirt with abandon, I could kiss women without worrying they will pressure me for more, I didn't have to worry about pregnancy after sex, there weren't any weird power plays that men so often bring to the bedroom (i.e. how so many men treat sex like a conquest to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:14 PM
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I've found this definitely varies from country to country. I live in Australia now and it's rare to get a cold approach, like it'll happen every month or so, but I do get approached quite often in bars/clubs/raves. I'm from a country in the Balkans though and those men are shameless. I've been approached on the street, in shops, in restaurants, by bus drivers, a taxi driver once locked the car doors and wouldn't let me get out until I gave him my number, I've had men run alongside me while I'm o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:15 AM
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Stick a finger or two up his ass. They love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:39 AM
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I wasn't fully content in a relationship before I participated in hook up culture. It just doesn't really appeal to me. I've never wanted kids so that's kinda taken a lot of pressure off me to 'settle down'. I'm here for a good time, not a long time baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:31 AM
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I mean I do also enjoy his company lol but there isn't anything really besides sex that I can't get elsewhere so yeah it's a big part of it? And n count doesn't really make a difference, I knew my very first boyfriend was bad in bed even without a comparison. Also I'm not a cheater, I am honest and break up with men. Cheating is pointless and brings a lot of unnecessary stress that I don't need in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:02 AM
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God that actually physically hurts my heart. I hope she's found some peace and is doing okay now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:17 AM
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I have great sex but all my great sex happens with communication and actively training men. Which is why I get into relationships but if men were just better at sex in general (or fuck, I'll take the blame off yall here and say OR if women were easier to please) I would have had a lot more casual sex/multiple partners at once. I enjoy the thrill and the novelty and I wish the sex was just good right off the bat. That's kinda what I was thinking. Yeah I've found that even when I date THE hot guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:48 AM
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Oh my dear master male overlord, please forgive me for the crime of thought and possessing the feeling of anger as a woman. I should feel nothing but gratitude towards the middle age men that made me feel unsafe and dirty in my own skin at the age of 12. It was my fault, I'm the one that grew breasts, what else should I have expected from men? Them NOT to take their dicks out to jerk off in front of a child? No no, they had every right to do that. I'm so ashamed to think of how my thoughts that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:36 AM
1

Wow women can only create life on top everything else that men can do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:29 PM
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Women who have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:34 PM
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Nah, there are many things that women can provide that men can't - eg. the ability to create human beings inside of their body. There is nothing exclusively male like there is female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:05 PM
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The first time I felt attracted to a boy I was 15. It was pure sexual attraction and I had no idea what I was feeling except that I now for some reason really wanted to touch myself. I never spoke a word to this guy because we didn't even speak the same language (I was on holiday with my parents in Italy). First relationship at 17. Started watching porn when I was 15 after my Italian sexual awakening. Lost my virginity when I was 18. My first LTR was my first relationship, so also 17. We dated f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:21 PM
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I don't know what that is but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:08 PM
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It was horrible between the ages of 12-18. It's really difficult not to think that all men are disgusting paedophiles at that age because you are a child, stuck in this developing women's body, don't know shit about the world, hormones are raging and old men keep going out of their way to make it known how badly they wanna fuck you. I would fantasise about having the power to freeze time and stab men while they were frozen. The fantasies became progressively more and more violent. I don't know h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:58 PM
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Is it our fault that there's nothing that a man can provide that we can't provide for ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:26 PM
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Women want multiple partners and are secretly polygamous or they want to settle down with a committed partner? Both at different stages in life tbh. Having multiple partners was really fun at one point, but gets a bit boring. If men were better at sex I would've done it for longer, but sadly, they aren't. Although in my dream utopia world I would have 3 committed partners that are loyal to me. One who is just hot and fucks like an animal, one romantic simp who grows me a garden and writes me poe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:24 PM
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Yup, all the rapists collectively breathing out a sigh of relief at yet another reminder that they have nothing to worry about! Man rapes 60+ women, confesses and pleads guilty and walks free! Truly inspiring, a wonderful example of democracy and justice working as intended in society. Now that that's resolved we can go back to worrying about the real issues in the justice system, starting (and ending) with false rape accusations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:43 PM
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Britney kept as a slave and Bill Cosby walking as a free man. I hate this world, I truly do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:07 AM
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Men and pickme's that applaud men on their 'dad bods' like they're they ones that get pregnant, grow a human being in their body and push it out of their genitals is the biggest fucking joke in the world. Women literally grow life inside of them and are shamed for not looking like they were never pregnant. They get bombarded with the pressure to get their pre-baby body back the second they step out of the hospital. Men just get lazy for no fucking reason and we're expected to give them a standin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:43 AM
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''How do you know you’re not Cool Girl? Because he says things like: “I like strong women.” If he says that to you, he will at some point fuck someone else. Because “I like strong women” is code for “I hate strong women.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:10 PM
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Yeah they do that, still not anywhere near as bad as the shit men do to women! Men don’t know how to love anyone. They like being around people that stroke their ego, make them feel good/manly and service their dicks. If they don’t have use for someone or they don’t make them feel like the special boy mommy promised he was, she’s out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:53 AM
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I wish my biggest concern was men being mean to me :( it’s wild how much better dating women must be when people think they’re incapable of love just because they can be mean while men are out here manipulating, killing, controlling, raping and beating women on the daily. There’s one gender that knows how to love and it’s not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:47 AM
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The last male ‘friend’ I had would call me up to vent at literally any time of day, whenever he needed someone to talk to because - although he had many male friends he couldn’t talk to them like he could to me 🙄 I considered us close friends and was always happy to listen and help because I do the same for all of my friends. But when I needed emotional support the most - when my mother was diagnosed with cancer - and I went to him for support he tried to support me by offering me his penis. Nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:19 AM
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None of the men in my family have ever been to war though. Not my father, brother, uncles or grandfathers. So I guess they are mentally stable enough to think for themselves and their words and opinions should be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:49 PM
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Born and raised in Eastern Europe as well buddy, living in the west. Unfortunately men are just as ugly in both of these areas, at least you have Eastern European ladies - what do we have??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:43 PM
1

The reality of our biology is just emotional/feelings based?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:52 AM
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My job brings me fulfilment, I have a role to play in society outside of being a servant in my own home, the money is great and affords me a fantastic lifestyle, I can rest easy knowing I am fully capable of providing for myself and for children alone if need be, hell my job even offers free childcare for its workers. The lifestyle, personal fulfilment and level of security that it has given me far surpasses what I could have gotten by latching onto some old man in my early 20s and letting him d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:20 AM
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Ugly men wanting good looking women getting angry at women for wanting good looking men… it’s the circle of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:18 AM
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Why is that a problem? Those peoples SMV’s would finally be matching. Seems logical that they’d pair up then. Men that are able to do the same do so, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:37 AM
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We share 99% of our DNA with chimps and bonobos. All human beings are differentiated within that 1%. You think YOUR blood matters? Lmao I never understood this logic. The world will be the exact same with or without your 0.0000000000000000000001% DNA differentiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:29 AM
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See that’s the part that’s disappointing that if a man like me (and also in his mid 20s like me) I shouldn’t expect loyalty or commitment from him because of alllllll he options for sex he has. I also have many options for sex. More than any 99% of any man. No one would EVER tell a man “if you want a HVW don’t expect loyalty from her”. It’s just such a raw deal out here. Anyway I do have a boyfriend but my relationship is kinda holding on to its last thread and I know it’ll be ending soon. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:39 AM
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Yeah men used to get the full package and women had to settle then bc men were the only meal ticket on display and now women still need to settle but men aren’t the only meal ticket on display. Men have never cared to become what women want because they were guaranteed a woman anyway. Women had to be what men wanted them to be because their lives depended on it. Now, as it turns out, neither of us really likes the other much. I get what you’re saying but honestly it’s hard to agree. I’m a data s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:24 AM
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See this is why women say men aren’t meeting their standards. I’m good with money, good in relationship aspects and good at child rearing. And I’m also social and party and have friends. Why is it so difficult for men to be all of these things as well? Y’all don’t want us to ‘settle’ but picking a man to date is almost always settling because you have to decide what is most important to you and just give up on everything else you need - while he gets the full package. If men can only be one good…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:32 AM
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I would feel pretty fucking special being the 12 person on the moon. Y’all really overvalue yourself smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:29 AM
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I wish I was special!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:24 AM
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Enjoy your suicide cult. Why would people want to invest or build things if so many people want to see the world torn down. That’s the exact line of thinking that prompted my suicide cult attitude in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:25 PM
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Imagine a woman saying “he told me he was mentally unwell but I joked it away because hey he was good looking and paying all my bills”. Can you imagine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:30 PM
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Orrrrr evolution did intend for us to discover contraception and it desperately wants us to die out! Either way I’m good with it. I don’t want to contribute to the human race. I really don’t like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:09 AM
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China also has the most self made female millionaires and billionaires and 40%+ of marriages are between older women with younger men despite the traditional older man/younger woman relationship still being pushed for. We Stan our Chinese Queens 🥰👸 I hope they keep fighting the good fight and making some WELL overdue changes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:28 AM
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Then why do they keep marrying women who earn similar incomes to them? They’re rich and desirable men, right? Why aren’t we seeing these men pairing up with baristas and waitresses but we see them with women with careers instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:01 AM
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Sure you’re allowed to have your own opinions about sex. We don’t have to agree - and my strategy just eliminates men like you. You don’t waste your time, I don’t waste mine - we are incompatible from the get go. I don’t see what’s so wrong about vetting out sexual incompatibilities? You guys talk about how important sexual compatibility is constantly. I’ve figured out an easier way to test for it. No one is getting hurt or judged or manipulated. Everyone can do whatever they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:22 PM
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Nah he’s by no means perfect but he makes me happy and makes me wake up wanting to be a better person everyday. It’s a good deal for me. I just think you’re seeing it from a really negative perspective but it’s made me a happier person and improved my quality of relationships so I’m pretty happy with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:18 PM
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I love my job, I love what I do, I love the people I work with and I really, really looooove all the freedoms and security my money has afforded me. In the last 2 years I have worked overtime continually and not regretted it because I genuinely enjoy the work I do and find it very gratifying. I have loving family that will help with childcare up until my kids are 3 years old, from when they can enter kindergarten and even then, they’ll be happy to help. My boyfriend is a teacher so he’ll have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:46 AM
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So you think sex work should be entirely outlawed? Because lemme tell you, if women all woke up tomorrow and decided they will not participate in sex work, the number of women working in sex work would only slightly decrease. There would still be a shit ton of women doing these jobs - just not willingly. It’s a billion dollar industry that has always been run by men, for men. Women can either be willing participants to feed the demand or they can be unwilling participants to feed the demand. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:34 AM
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We’ve always been serving the men sitting in their ivory towers - even as sahm what do they do? Raise more kids for the workforce! I don’t know why yall get so upset about it, do you want to be the only ones serving your male overlords? You submit to the big man at the top and expect a woman to submit to you as compensation but now that women can cut the middle man out (you) you feel cheated because no one is forced to submit to you? Dude if being a sahm meant that half of my husbands salary cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:07 AM
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I did follow FDS rules and my outcome was NOT what you’re saying so I really don’t know where to go from here in this discussion 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:41 AM
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Not really. My boyfriend is an artist. FDS does not require men to be wealthy - there are many posts where this is explicitly listed. He does pay for most dates, but dates don’t have to cost much or anything at all. FDS is also not sex negative! Just because you want to wait to get I know someone does not mean you are sex negative - I love sex a lot and I understand that it’s not as casual and non consequential as the mainstream leads you to believe. Sex is beautiful, orgasms are the greatest th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:39 AM
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I love this topic. Your capacity for sexual pleasure is so, so high. Mother Nature literally created an entire organ for us where it’s entire purpose is to give you pleasure. Make sure your clitoris feels appreciated, she deserves the love! For the women here who are into spirituality, also look into incorporating that in your ‘sessions’. With some tantric exercises, sexual meditation and a sensually exciting environment I was able to give myself a completely touch-free orgasm. Let me tell you, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:42 PM
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It’s not difficult to wait a couple of months to sleep with someone, especially when you really like them and you DIDNT meet them off social media. And I don’t think anyone is expecting expensive dates. Being thoughtful is cheaper and more effective. It’s kinda weird that dating without having sex for a couple of months means that the man expects a woman to alter her life so drastically for him? Like paying for a couple of dates and getting to know someone before having sex with them isn’t reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:31 AM
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Genuinely kind and caring men are god tier partners. That’s exactly what I want with a drop of romanticism, obsessiveness and devotion. There is a reason why I almost exclusively date creative men - I like being their muse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:21 AM
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(Good looking) pussywhipped men are GOD tier partners idk why you say that like it’s a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:59 AM
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I really don’t agree, I pretty much followed FDS rules with my current partner and he’s not a tradcon that requires me to submit in return. I don’t know why that’s the only way you can imagine this scenario working? Or maybe I have submitted, I can never really gauge what people’s understanding of ‘submission’ is on here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:57 AM
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Hey pal I’ve got some good news for you - you don’t even need women for sex! You can get that from your fellow men as well! Go do that so you can be completely independent of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:37 AM
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More like endure decades of abuse so you can hold HIS hand before he dies and then you die alone anyway a couple of years after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:27 AM
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So men have never been cooperative and don’t want us to be able to survive alone or be able to have financial independence or be equal? Yes we know. We aren’t going back to being cooperative because cooperation requires 2 people and men aren’t capable of it. So your entire premise is off as well. We just want to be able to survive on our own instead of having to follow a man around with no way to escape back situations. Sorry that upsets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:07 AM
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Ugh I just want the men’s rights activists to get their shit together and make custody go to dad automatically. It would make this easier because I do suspect a lot of men would send their kids to foster care before they would consider being a single dad. Unfortunate reality. I just don’t feel like women are getting enough money in divorce honestly. They aren’t marrying up enough and they’re basically broker than before marriage. I’m still glad they’re divorcing, they just should be getting a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:45 AM
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Okay so if cheating and fucking hookers is no moral problem for men they still benefit from having a wife at home to use for everything else. I don’t know what we’re discussing anymore? We both agree men make horrible life partners so we’re really on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:38 AM
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Or just divorce and either a) take the man’s money if he has it or b) if he doesn’t have money, give full custody to dad and get out of there I’m not here to play martyr. I hope more women join me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:35 AM
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How many men can get novelty? Most wouldn’t get any or nearly the same amount of sex if they were just chasing novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:32 AM
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Maybe women bite of monogamy because men think a wife is an opportunity to coast? Who taught you that? Certainly not women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:28 AM
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People shouldn’t shut the fuck up just because they don’t have better options. Incels shouldn’t have a platform if that was the case. Everyone has the right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:27 AM
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Ah yes, as we know those men who’s wives don’t wanna fuck them have loads of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:24 AM
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Most women, regardless of whether they’re married or single, raise their kids alone. So she should stay or leave depending on what’s best for her financially, but relying on a man to contribute more than a paycheck to their children is obviously a fools errand. So get a man with a big pay check.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:23 AM
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She does that’s why y’all complain about the divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:20 AM
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How are we supposed to have a discussion when you wanna talk for both of us in order to continue confirming your emotional bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:50 AM
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I still see the women contributing a shit ton more than the men in relationships. In pretty much 70-80% of the relationships I see around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:22 AM
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This is hilarious. Your entire emotional tantrum here was responding to a man. Do you still hold the same opinion you’ve listed in your comment towards him now? Or did you just get your panties in a twist at the thought of a woman enjoying sex? Is this guy talking like an impressionable teenager that has learnt nothing for his age or do you suddenly wanna high five him and tell him he’s the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:14 AM
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Breadwinners in today’s sense of the word ie. how we name men breadwinners now but wouldn’t have been called a breadwinner in 1950 if his wife was contributing to the family finances. Yeah look dude, if I say I want a good looking man who earns 100k, is well educated, is in his mid 20s, has a good social life and close friends within it that he can open up to, knows how to cook and clean and be caring and nurturing, is emotionally healthy and has gone to therapy to fix any issues, takes care of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:05 AM
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Men used to be actual breadwinners. Now 40% have their wives as breadwinners, 50% still have their wives contributing to the family finances and there are probably like 10% actual, real male breadwinners in the original sense of the word which was ‘sole income provider’. So men need to step up in the domestic sphere because what they’re currently contributing to relationships isn’t nearly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:23 AM
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Men doing no housework also leads to their wives divorcing them, which is a lot less sex. Close to 40% of American women are the breadwinners in their family, and within the other 60% most women still work. Men aren’t and haven’t been breadwinners for a hot minute now. Maybe if you contributed to the household as much as your wives do they wouldn’t be divorcing you so much. Edit to add: also, a partner not doing housework is a lady boner killer but a partner who you have to nag/ask multiple time…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:39 AM
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A lot of women are working full time jobs and still doing everything at home. Domestic labour + childcare + household/family management fall to them women even when they’re working equal hours to their male partner. Not to mention the higher standards we place on women regarding their appearance, sex and emotional regulation - not just theirs, but their partner’s and kid’s as well. Childbirth + nursing are the only task we can’t spilt 50/50, which is where men need to compensate in whatever way …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:09 AM
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If women got equality in the division of labour it would lessen the burdens to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:31 AM
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Well if women feel that way then obviously men aren’t doing enough to make women’s burdens not feel like burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:08 AM
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Why are you Americans all so fat. Some of us live in countries with a population who has a healthy median bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:31 PM
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I know. It’s really sad but I’m glad you’re enjoying yourself. It’s so nice to find a man who’s honest about how men really are, so many men out here lying about how men are good. Keep it up champ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:40 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:24 AM
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This is exactly why people make a bigger deal out of abusive male partners as opposed to female partners, thank you for demonstrating this so eloquently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:24 AM
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Correct on both counts! Wow you really get me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:23 AM
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Hey I’m a slut from Eastern Europe! And I’ve got some friends back home that would really, really like a visa so message me when you can afford them and I’ll set you up!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:49 AM
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It’s not as big of a problem. If I got hit by my female partner I wouldn’t report her to the cops or be scared for my life. If I got hit by my male partner I would be scared for my life so I’d do whatever I could to get him behind bars. There’s a HUGE physical power imbalance and also the stats pointing to men killing their female partners at 10000x the rate of women killing their female partners. So there is more harm, more threat and more danger from a male partner. If a chihuahua bit you, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:33 AM
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Stop lying to the manlets, they’ve suffered enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:04 AM
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If you’re below 5’6 as a man you may as well grow some tits and cut your dick off because you’re basically a woman. Actually you’d probably be able to fuck more women as a 5’6 woman as opposed to a 5’6 man. Maybe give that a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:03 AM
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Relationships used to lack expectations & happen naturally What alien planet did you drop from. Relationships have never lacked expectations?? For the majority of human history and in most places around the world today (outside of the west) relationships have strict expectations and rules and don’t happen naturally but have been/are usually ordained by parents? Or entered out of necessity and social expectations? Or forced? We are living in one of the first moments in history where people CAN ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:58 AM
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Why is it that whenever someone posts about the TRUTH of bdsm or porn on here I can only see a quarter of the comments 😂 it really brings all the male lurkers out of the shadows - dick in hand, mouth foaming, must protect my right to sexually and physically abuse women!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:42 AM
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Same. It’s the only time I feel complimented by a man. I know they don’t mean it as a compliment but when you realise that you’ve only been called those words when you’ve asserted your boundaries, stood your ground, voiced your opinion... you start taking it as such. Also when you realise that the opposite of being difficult is being easy - and we all know how much men respect easy women 🤣 Both ‘easy’ and ‘difficult’ are used as insults toward women. But while being easy serves men, being diffic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:19 AM
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There was a male on male rape scene in season 2 of 13 reasons why. My male friend that was watching it literally spent the next week fuming at having had to see that and blowing up the creators/actors twitters and instagrams to scold them for it and tell them it was really fucked up of them to include that. There were multiple women raped on the show prior to this scene. But that didn’t really bother him, after all - that’s what women are for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:28 AM
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You’ve had women throw themselves at you but you only want 9/10 22 year olds so you pay for their consent. Male hypergamy? Male depravity? Both? Both. I get really happy thinking about how men like you will obsess over women your entire lives, day dream about having your ideal life with a wife... only to die alone. Some people really don’t deserve love. I’m glad you lie to yourself that you’re mgtow, I hope one day you’ll actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:08 PM
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You’ve mentioned in multiple other comments that you can’t even get a date. But now you’re regularly having sex with attractive women and have many women trying to get with you in the workplace? Hahahaha dude I said it at the start and I’ll say it again - you are delusional. There is no point continuing a conversation with someone who lies to back their shit up in different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:10 PM
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10 years is even being generous. I’m 24, I’ve never been sexually attracted to a man more than 5 years older than me. Men who are a decade+ older are just immediate write offs. Not only are the vast majority of them physically unattractive, but I automatically assume they’re chasing after a younger woman for a reason... and it’s never a good one. And since I automatically assume they’re shallow, I allow myself to be as shallow as I want with them as well. So yeah I’d expect them to fully provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:00 PM
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Women have been at the bottom forever and we still get blamed for everything so why not lol The problem is that men will literally die defending men at the top in hopes that that will be him one day. Y’all aren’t opposed to most men being miserable and alone - you just don’t want that to be you. You would all act in the exact same way if you had the power those men have. You criticise Bezos like you criticise Chad - in that you don’t. Men who are in power don’t give a fuck about other men. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:51 PM
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TRP wants women to enthusiastically fuck men they aren’t attracted to while also being virgins. Yes wanting women to have 0 standards for any man but also rejecting all men expect you except you isn’t gonna work. All while you can sleep around with other women. How men on TRP want to be loved is a delusional fantasy and they need to humble their ego quite a bit. And then some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:48 AM
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Men push for polygamy and push other men out of the sex pool and take women and children as sex slaves. Men: still the victims. Y’all can get absolutely fucked by this point honestly. Whiny little fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:31 AM
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Well there’s a 99% chance I wouldn’t actually be sexually attracted to him and if he wants someone that much younger than him then he should be happy trading in my loyalty for my youth. I’m not willing to live a life without sexual fulfilment and if he wants a woman that much younger than him to fulfil him sexually then that’s fine but he should expect that I’ll want mine fulfilled to. And he won’t be able to do that for me. Some women are find with lack of sexual fulfilment as long as they’re t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:18 AM
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And women don’t to be loyal to a man who isn’t loyal to her. So unless she’s allowed some strange on the side, it’s still not a better deal than just working for your money. I’m not looking to marry someone to divorce him for his money? Like that’s not something I aspire to do, why do you keep bringing it up? Hey I did almost 4 years of complete single, celibate, solo life. It’s the best way to truly learn yourself and what you want out of life and get on your purpose. So as someone who is MGTOW…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:15 AM
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Most women don’t like the wealthy men they date. They like his money and the lifestyles it gives her. Gold diggers aren’t there because they looooove successful rich older men - they love money! And pretending to love the man is a requirement of the job. If that’s what you want, cool. I’m not a fan. I’m not interested in marrying a HVM in the sense that you guys describe HVM. I’ve got a different ideal for life in my head. I would not be an asset to rich man looking for a housewife and he wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:38 AM
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There also aren’t enough rich men to go around. I didn’t say all men would be abusive and controlling in these situations, but most will be to different degrees. You cannot just blindly put your life and trust in any man. Or most men, for that matter. Yeah I know men’s feelings on this topic aren’t logical. I’m just sick of having to deal with attitudes like this when I’m just trying to do my fucking job and exist as comfortably as I can on this hell hole of a planet. Money is the best way to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:29 AM
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Also so many of your previous comments are about how women shouldn’t be with men for their money because that’s not real love?? But here you’re telling me that women SHOULD just date men solely for their money? Which one is it? Because if women having jobs makes men resentful, but getting used for their money by women also makes men resentful, it kinda sounds like the problem is that men are just resentful in general. And that’s YOUR problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:51 AM
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Having a job and having your own money is being independent. Relying on a man to take care of you is dumb and 99% of women advise against it. Women want lives outside of men. We don’t want to have to suck a dick to be able to buy something for ourselves. Some of us are passionate about our jobs and interested in the field. Some of us have aspirations for power and wealth and authority. For fucks sake not everything revolves around your dick. If you cannot imagine why women would want their own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:42 AM
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Dude she has literally spelt it out for you. She is not asking that men feel the same way about it that women do - she is acknowledging that men and women feel different about it. But what men feel is women’s love - isn’t what women feel when they’re in love. Men read women’s lust as love. And she’s saying it’s fine that you do. But also that you cannot say that that is how women actually love just because you FEEL like it’s love. You experiencing women’s lust as love doesn’t mean that the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:04 AM
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God I love femboys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:23 PM
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Judging by the fact that you’re talking with a man, he is definitely not an empowered female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:26 AM
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It’s not even ideal though, it sounds like a lonely, stressful hell. It DOES take a village. The nuclear family is the source of so much of this bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:10 AM
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Yes! The nuclear family doesnt fucking work. My parents could both keep their jobs and social life and still both spend time with me because I had grandparents and uncles and aunties to take care of me. I cannot imagine only my mum having to take care of the kids and do all the housework while dad worked. That’s insane. Why is that pushed as the ideal model?? Who are the crazy people that want that??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:08 AM
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Thanks! I try to break up the misandry with a joke here and there to keep it light and fun teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:20 AM
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I’m not even gonna reply to him because you said it all sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:46 AM
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Not only do I have insecurities, but this pretty girl with an ass and boobs is typing this reply as she takes a huge shit! How’s that for a shattered illusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:24 AM
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I was a late bloomer and an ugly duckling in high school. I was always a nerdy math geek who fit in very well with the sexual rejects. I got hot and the first people to turn on me and make my life hell were those sexual rejects I had spent my entire childhood with. I wasn’t getting male attention but I had people who liked ME and my personality and who wanted my intellectually input. It’s like all of that was lost and traded in for double D tits and older men trying to fuck me and guys my age wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:28 AM
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Nerdy girl who took her braces off and had her tits grow 3 cups over summer break at 16 as well! The change in treatment was night and day and it has honestly been so disappointing. People see your looks first and your personality is always an afterthought. They always try to change it because they don’t consider it an important part of you - they’re there for your looks. If they can mold your personality to suit them and their needs it’s ideal for them. You gotta have your boundaries be rock so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:25 AM
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You have your male goggles on. The harassment and shit treatment you get from men are NOT worth the benefits. You attract so so many shit men who put their best and fakest personality on to get to you. You become suspicious of every man and you begin to think they’re all manipulative fake fucks. You need to learn how to weed through them real quick and when you miss something you get blamed for it because it’s you’re fault for getting tricked. Workplaces are difficult and it’s so frustrating try…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:11 AM
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I kinda agree with your overall statement but your examples are dumb. Owning a house and travelling are pretty gender neutral goals, I’d even say travel is something I see women are more into than men. Generating wealth? Sure I’ll give you that are generally more male driven but everyone is motivated by money and financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:55 AM
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TRP men also say to never tell a woman your real n count... why does no one have a problem with that? It’s literally in their top rules as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:48 AM
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Or... men are mentally ill and degenerate and have succeeded in making their daughters into them with tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:07 AM
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I like getting a train run on me but I would never do it inebriated! Gotta stay sober to remember it well enough to think back to it 20 years from now when I’m struggling to cum while I’m having boring sex with my beta bux husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:04 AM
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I went without sex between the ages of 20-23. I still went out on a shit ton of dates, I just didn’t feel sexually attracted to any of the men and I didn’t feel the need to compromise my standards for dick. It just isn’t worth it. I was still masturbating every day so I know it’s not a libido problem. I just can’t relate to peoples desperation for sex? Like why can’t you just masturbate and only fuck people you well and truly wanna fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:47 AM
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I changed my last name to my maternal grandmother’s maiden name! She changed it when she got married obviously but after she passed I brought it back to honour her - the her that she was before she became a wife and mother and grandmother... Just her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:33 AM
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Saudia Arabia
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:51 AM
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Well you couldn’t provide any evidence to the contrary so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:59 AM
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Yeah sorry you liked us when we had to do exactly what you wanted us to do to survive, my bad. The second women step out of the role of male servitude men complain. If you can give me any evidence to the contrary we’ll talk but we both know I’m right. I just hope your precious sex dolls come out as soon as possible so you can finally have the women you dream of and hopefully leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:22 AM
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Thank you. I’ve never had sex without an orgasm and thought ‘wow that was great!’ The first thought is always ‘what a waste of my time I should’ve just masturbated.’ The more you fuck a dude who continually misses the mark the more appealing your fingers and vibrator look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:18 AM
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I’ve been in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years now. And he cares about making me cum and pleasuring me and what not. But navigating the minefield of men prior to this was literal hell. I cannot stand the male attitude that sex is a transaction where I’m losing and they’re winning. I cannot stand not being listened to what I like in bed because they’ve taken it personally that the only reason I know what I like in bed is because someone else has fucked me better than them, therefore me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:04 AM
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Sorry but y’all have shit on us for our sexuality since the beginning of time and demonised us for wanting to have sex and explore. And when you actually get a woman you don’t learn how to pleasure her and think of sex as something women give and lose while men take and gain. This is why I only entertain casual sex with other women not men and I know a lot of women that have the same mindset as me. I’ll only entertain men I want to date, who want to date me and benefit my life in a significant w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:50 AM
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Is it the being more open about sexual/personal exploration? The confidence to not worry about heteronormativity and not being too fragile about masculinity? The emotional openness? Or just simply looking at guys together and the chance at a hot MMF? That’s hot. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:04 PM
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They know it reflects their personality they just don’t care. They don’t think it’s a big deal that men see women that way (or that women are seeing themselves portrayed in that way and taught that’s how to act to be desirable). It’s not weird in our society to degrade women - it’s the literal norm. It’s a feature, not a bug. It’s the base upon which the entire fucking system was built on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:45 AM
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My great aunt (just turned 80 this year) got married at 22, divorced with 1 kid at 25 and said she was done. This was in the late 60s and as you can imagine - no one took her seriously. She still gets asked whether she regrets never remarrying or having more kids. She still laughs at their questions and confidently says fuck no. She had a wonderful career as a midwife, she speaks 7(!!!) languages fluently, she has volunteered for so many different causes, she has travelled and made friends all a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:36 AM
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Even if your life goes EXACTLY to plan as society lays it out for you and you do exactly as you are told - statistically speaking, men have a shorter life expectancy than us and society wants you to marry an older man... so going by the plan still almost guarantees you to be alone at the end. Why not just accept and embrace that fact from the start?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:13 AM
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Your power lies in your choice. Choosing whether to have kids or not, choosing who to have them with and choosing when and how to have them. That’s the power. And you have to wonder why a woman choosing to be child free angers men so much. Child free women anger men because they are exercising that power everyday - the power to say “No”. Also since having children and being a mother is so heavily pushed on us in society, your dismissal of it is even more unnerving for them. If you can not only t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:55 AM
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Do small boobed women have bigger boobs that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:40 AM
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That’s not what I said. A woman wanting a man that’s taller than her is like a man wanting a woman who has bigger breasts than his. Would he be judged for wanting a woman who has bigger boobs than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:58 AM
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I know. I can laugh about it now but I hear people already making those jokes towards my boyfriend. I just wish we hadn’t devalued the feminine role so so hard as a society that doing it puts you in a losing position in society. My boyfriend seems okay now but I do worry about whether he’d actually be able to handle all the mockery and criticism when it really comes down to it. And I’m worried he’ll act in a typically ‘toxic masculine’ way to compensate for it. The stats are there - I am wayyy m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:51 PM
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I’ve spent a lot of time on these subs, read a lot of fucked up comments... but your comment is the first one that had genuinely made me sad. I don’t know what happened in your life for you to develop this way of thinking, I don’t know why it’s so hard for you to be yourself but I hope one day you can do that without judgment. You shouldn’t be getting punished for being honest and authentic and I’m sorry the people in your life have done that to you. Wishing you all the best man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:28 PM
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I’m lucky enough to have found a career I love where I can clock in 80 hour weeks and love it. Go get yourself a workalcoholic wife and show her how well you can take care of her home, how well you can cook and how good you are with kids (and how unaffected your ego is by this role reversal). My boyfriends a teacher and can easily leave his job for a couple of years to be a full time SAHD and then would be able to go back to work when our kids are in school since he’d have the same hours as them…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:06 PM
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I’m looking forward to making my boyfriend a SAHD, I can’t wait to have work and providing money as my only responsibility while he takes on everything else. Having someone do all my cooking, cleaning, laundry, raising my kids, keeping track of our social duties, buying my family gifts for special occasions, taking care of the household management and making sure I’m having at least one orgasm a day? I honestly don’t know why men gave this up so easily. Y’all were living like kings. Now if only …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:49 PM
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If men want a woman with more youth than them, biggest breasts than them, better ability to grow a child in their body and push it out of their genitals then them, better emotional range and better hair quality than them then they should expect to be in the submissive role! Seriously though, in today’s age most men are a lot more replaceable in relationships than women are - barring the real top 10% of men - so should the rest of the 90% of men be submissive to their women because they can be ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:43 PM
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If anything being short as a woman is considered way more valuable than being tall as a woman? There’d be a lot more men going for a 5’4 woman than a 6’2 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:31 PM
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Most men are taller than most women. It’s like saying ‘why do men want women with bigger breasts than them?’ She bringing the superior breast genes, what is he offering?? Most couples marry someone that makes a similar amount of money as them - leaning more towards the man making more... but women put their bodies, vaginas and minds through hell for childbirth/child rearing which is something a male partner can only realistically compensate for through providing more money than she does Most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:28 PM
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“Using a young body” You guys really go out of your way to shame men for what they want and phrasing it as terribly as you can. Maybe just grow up and accept that men like sex? And particularly with attractive, younger, fitter women? When the roles are reversed y’all call it female hypergamy and shame women for it, make blogs about it, insult women about it... Like. What you’re saying is just male hypergamy. If you shame it in women, it should be shamed in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:19 PM
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I don’t know why you keep saying ‘taller’. It’s like saying ‘women want men with a penis’. Most men are taller than most women. It’s not a superior trait, it just is. Most men want younger women - youth is extremely valued in our society and it’s something you can’t get back. Why don’t we call that male hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:10 PM
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Do you think masculine men are ball busting assholes and disagreeable? Is that how your define masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:05 PM
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I mean, women died in childbirth at really high rates and more women have been murdered by the men in their lives than men have died at war (fighting for... other men - not women). Plus ‘taking care of the home’ up until not too long ago was really hard back breaking work that never stopped. Food, clothes, water, cleaning, maintaining land - all of these things were difficult to do and then doing them while pregnant and taking care of 10 other kids. Not to mention not having bodily autonomy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:58 PM
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Around 1/3 of America marriages had the wife as the primary earner. And most men are uglier than women. So we should be seeing a lot of men taking on these duties, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:41 PM
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I literally just came from TikTok, this video saved and ready to post as well! God I love this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:41 AM
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That’s also very true. A really religious woman would probably be his best bet. You gotta really believe in God to think it’s a good idea to bring 7 more people onto this hellhole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:18 PM
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Yeah everyone who benefits from their looks in their youth will feel them lose those benefits with age. I’m not into casual sex and I have a boyfriend but I enjoy going out and having men pay for my shit. It’s an ego boost and so much fun. I know I’ve only got a couple more years of being able to bat my eyelashes and “how badly do you want to buy me a drink?” my way through my weekends, but that’s why I’m making the most of it now. There are perks to every stage of life. You just gotta stay real…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:20 AM
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Yeah at least you’re realistic about how big of an ask it is. Most of the men on here want it, but scream female hypergamy if they’re told they will need a lot of money to do this. There are women that also want a lot of kids - but they’re usually going for men with a lot of money that will make their sacrifice at least kinda worthwhile. Like I would personally need a partner to be a multi millionaire who gives me complete access + puts my name on his bank account to give him that many kids. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:03 AM
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90% of men are born, live and die on the wall. The 10% that get lucky have an easier time than women. 90% of women have an easier time, at any point, than 90% of men. That’s really all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:00 AM
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Why do you want so many kids? For me personally it’s such a red flag when men say they want that many kids - you’re not the one putting yourself at risk, you’re not the one fucking up your body and you will probably do like 5-10% of the actual work that goes into childcare. Like holy shit, that’s easily a couple of millions of dollars worth of labour you’re asking for there - not to mention the brutal mental and physical repercussions and hard limits on your freedom -how are you going to compens…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:53 AM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:25 PM
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Ever since my grandmother passed away my intuition has been so so strong. I like to think it’s her guiding me. So now I listen to it without a question - grandma knows best 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:14 AM
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Have you ever heard a woman say she rewards men with sex for his good behaviour? No. Liking good men doesn’t mean wanting to fuck men just for being good. You made a connection between liking and fucking that women did not make for you. And men say that they want that for sex but also that they allegedly really care about personality as well for relationships. They give a list of what a woman should be like before they’d date her - and then throw it all in the bin for looks? And then COMPLAIN ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:30 AM
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We don’t see sex as a reward. We have sex because we’re horny and sexually attracted to the guy. We’re not the ethical police handing out sex tickets. Stop assigning us that role. Why do you think women have 0 drives or desires of their own and should just live to monitor and please men? ‘Oh this man donated to charity? I should fuck him to encourage his good behaviour!’ Like do men fuck women to reward them for good behaviour? Do they take women on dates or buy her shit or do anything to reward…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:35 AM
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I hope you don’t mind but I have printed this out and stuck it in my journal. It’s incredibly well said and it’s a great reminder of what we are really fighting for. Thank you for taking the time to write this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:55 AM
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My ex boyfriend was a lot taller and a lot richer than my current boyfriend. He also became really controlling and lazy the further in we got in the relationship. He thought that all he had to do was throw money at any situation and he could be absolved of any responsibility/accountability/consequences for his actions. He was so shocked when I broke up with him because he thought everyone around him should put up with his shit because he has money. My current boyfriend is a high school teacher. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:15 AM
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I’ve always been a loud feminist and that used to irritate the fuck outta my dad. He used to ‘not all men’ me like hell while discussing these topics... until I started dating and going out and I had the pleasure of using his rhetoric against him. When I started dating my first boyfriend he suddenly got super overprotective and would try to put restrictions on me doing x y z or on going to this place or that. He’d tell me the standard ‘I know what men are like/I know what boys want/I know what h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:18 AM
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Mhm okay friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:02 AM
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My replies are on topic and backed up by facts. You’re the one bringing up unrelated topics that upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:02 AM
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Dude do you wanna talk about FDS instead? Why does it make you so upset? Have you figured out why you have such an emotional reaction towards a subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:47 AM
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You’re really obsessed about the fact that I subscribe to FDS. Y’all really find a way to bring it up in every conversation. It’s not what we’re talking about. How are we meant to have a discussion when your logic is clouded by emotional bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:39 AM
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Dude those are all different in a committed relationship. There is a very different level of intimacy and commitment. Building a life together is no small task. breadwinner /ˈbrɛdwɪnə/ noun a person who earns money to support their family, typically the sole one. A breadwinner is anyone who earns money to support the family - not the primary earner. The word was used when there was only a sole person providing... but it literally means anyone who works in the family. And also, around 30% of wive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:35 AM
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How can you see someone as a human being and still feel okay with paying for their consent to sex? Not knowing what led them into prostitution, if they’re doing this willingly, if they were child sex victims or were groomed into this? How can you consider sex work shameful and humiliating and degrading but want to participate in it being done to another human being? Not to mention all the abuse that happens in these places - those men know that the law doesn’t give a fuck about what happens to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:27 AM
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No, men can bring many things to a relationship. It’s not about bringing something the other person can’t - it’s about making the other persons life easier/better in some way. You can bring your empathy and care and create a safe space for her to be herself. You can bring a healthy sexual attitude and show her how much you care about her sexual pleasure. You can fix things around her house. You can write her a nice note every morning. You could cook. You could clean. You could buy meaningful gif…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:19 AM
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I have volunteered at women’s shelters and studied the sex work industry quite a bit. If you did any research or spoke to some women who are in the industry/have left the industry and get their honest recollections you would also think that. The men that pay for sex don’t consider those women human beings - otherwise they wouldn’t do what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:09 AM
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Those men that pay for sex workers are bottom of the barrel men. Like literally the worst of the worst. I imagine having them as your clientele would give you a toxic view of men because the men you continually interact with are all toxic. And men feel more comfortable exposing their deepest depravity with sex workers - who they also don’t see as human beings - so the sex workers are directly exposed to the depravity of those men and then they in turn stop seeing these men as anything more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:11 AM
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They sound like they’re financial dominatrixes. They’re just appealing to their target audience - ie. men who’s kink it is to be a ‘pay pig’. It’s just a subcategory of sex work. If the sex worker’s act is being submissive/child like they won’t be using those terms because it’s not good marketing for what they’re trying to attract. Those women that use terms like pay pigs do so because their market is requesting dominant women. And if these are the women you’re seeing most it’s because that’s wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:04 AM
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Maybe those men should offer something else in a relationship other than money? There are so many things you can bring to a relationship to make the other persons life better, if all you have to offer is money you can’t be surprised that that is all someone will want you for. But I don’t understand what those men want. If a woman earns more than you, you feel emasculated, if she earns less than you she’s a golddigger. Or do they want a woman that earns less than them but still goes 50/50 on fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:49 AM
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Yes. If this guy had a kid who’s crying will he also get a boner from protecting his child? Feeling protective over people doesn’t make you wanna fuck them. If he actually gets a surge of testosterone from seeing you cry it’s because he wants to take advantage of your vulnerability. Normal people do not get sexually aroused from seeing others in distress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:56 AM
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It really isn’t. You don’t understand the fsm if you think a loser man’s love is valued within it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:34 AM
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Oh yes, people really cared to conduct studies on how happy women are throughout history. The same people that diagnosed women with hysteria when she had an orgasm and gave her a lobotomy when she expressed any negative emotions that couldn’t be subdued with Valium. Or did they maybe ask the 12 year old girls getting married off to grown men and spending the next 30 years pregnant if they weren’t lucky enough to die in childbirth. Or women of colour who were shit on by every other demographic in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:44 AM
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Dating men in their early 20s compared to their late 20s is like night and day. You would HOPE it’s like night and day - it’s a bit weird if you stay the same throughout your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:35 AM
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I did think wrong. When all the evidence points to much men love getting married, I definitely definitely thought wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:07 AM
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Commitment from a HVM is an FSM boost. Dating an ugly man, a broke man, an old man, a loser, a cheater, someone socially inept, etc etc is looked down upon way more than being single. There are so many women I know dating loser men who are just pitied/mocked about how desperate she would’ve had to be to date that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:04 AM
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I thought men didn’t want to get married though? And you’d think if ‘divorce rape’ was so bad they wouldn’t be rushing into another marriage 🤔 so why do they keep coming back for more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:28 AM
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You can always tell when a guy watches too much porn. He fucks like he had studied it (on Wikipedia)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:53 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:31 PM
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I did notice the sarcasm. I was acknowledging it but saying it’s actually the truth despite the fact that you presented it as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:14 PM
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I mean... it’s right 9 times outta 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:11 PM
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Okay man, I enjoy seeing my partner get excited when he sees me every morning. It’s fun, it feels nice, it gives my day a super positive start. It’s these little things that keep the magic alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:09 PM
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If your partner is put off by you loving them proudly then maybe you’re not with the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:57 PM
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Aw that made me feel giddy. That’s so sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:55 PM
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I know I’m not the prettiest woman he’s ever seen - or even been with - but I want to be treated as such due to how much he loves my character and personality. I want him to act like I’m the prettiest woman in the world because he loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:36 PM
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I mean, it’s not like this is anything new. Women and girls have always been the hottest commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:10 AM
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They say they don’t put pussy on the pedestal and THEY’RE the prize but they consider us dirty after touching them, while them touching us elevates them higher up. Men repeatedly tell on themselves - they know most of them are filthy animals and they continually judge us for allowing them to touch us but then still want us to have lower standards? On a side note, I almost feel bad for the amount of self hatred they must harbour to think another person is dirty/ruined just by touching them. I can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:48 AM
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Let’s kill and abort all female babies for over a decade and then human traffic women from other countries because there aren’t enough women! Nice one China!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:10 AM
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Yeah you’re hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:04 PM
2

Hahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:15 PM
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That was not my question. Show me men stop finding 20 yos more attractive than their 40+ yo wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:45 PM
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Please show me anything to back up your claim that men lose interest in looking at other women and are solely attracted to their wives as they age due to regular sex. People who get married in their early 20s are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:01 PM
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Man you’ve said a lot of dumb shit on here but this one takes the cake. I didn’t realise we’ve resorted to straight up lies on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:36 AM
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Oh yeah that makes sense actually. I imagine those women really only need sex from men so it would make it easier for men at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:23 AM
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Everyone wastes their 20s - they pass regardless of how you spend them. Even if a woman DOES marry at 20 - in a decade her husband will be more attracted to other 20 year old woman than her. Which is why women shouldn’t commit young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:20 AM
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5% of men admit to paying for sex. I imagine many aren’t honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:18 AM
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Yes male hypergamy is rampant. Always on the prowl for someone with more youth. Being more attracted to a 20 yo than a woman who birthed and raised your kids and stood by you for decades. Tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:43 AM
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But are they paying for their partners or actually attracting them? Because 35 to 44 is also mid life crisis age and usually when men start going down the escorts/sugar baby life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:39 AM
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Sounds like you hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:40 AM
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You’d think they’d 👨🏼‍🦲 appreciate 🙌🏽 emojis 😜since they’re so visual 👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:08 AM
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I’ve had that directed towards me in the workplace more than once. Accept it as a compliment. Say ‘thank you! I’m working towards being the boss and I’m glad my leadership skills and knowledge are not going unnoticed’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:50 AM
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I wasn’t even thinking about men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:57 PM
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God I hope you’re right and this becomes a common thing. What a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:29 PM
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But you listed dicks and fingers as part of the atrocious thing women put in their vaginas... that’s just sex/normal masturbation. In any case we really for the most part prefer vibrators, no ones shoving anything inside themselves on a regular basis so you can take a deep breath and relax
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:56 AM
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Men aren’t violent don’t be a misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:45 PM
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Man I’m not too pleased about the way women have been raised/indoctrinated/brainwashed being raised under the patriarchy, too. It takes literal divine intervention to undo the shit that’s been imbedded in their heads. So what’s the alternative? How can we raise boys and girls without harm? Where is the middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:52 AM
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I’m attracted to men and women. I’m also very comfortable being single and don’t care to have children. I feel like I won the lottery - so many choices, so little pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:49 AM
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Good to know that’s the only reason they do it, now I won’t feel bad divorce raping a man since that’s what they’re asking for! Thanks for clearing that up for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:01 AM
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I guess men also like being divorce raped then. If they didn’t, they wouldn’t keep getting married - sometimes multiple times!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:48 AM
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But why is drinking out of a pink cup an insult of your masculinity? Don’t you think that if your masculinity is so easily insulted that it’s not very stable in the first place? That’s something you need to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:23 AM
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Okay ignore my examples, we both agree that men are very easily emasculated and have an intense emotional reaction towards actions and behaviours they perceive as threatening to their masculinity. How does society teach that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:47 AM
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I told you I think it’s a side effect of the way you’ve been socialised. Because I don’t see how society is socialising you to have temper tantrums and emotional breakdowns over such mundane, normal things? Am I missing something? Can you give me an example of a lesson you’ve learnt from society that has told you to act that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:59 AM
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No, society is not doing this to men. That’s a nice little excuse but society isn’t telling men to have a mental breakdown when a woman beats them in a game or when they have to wash the dishes and take care of their own kids because their wife is at work. I remember working as a barista and we changed our disposable cups to pink once for a week for breast cancer awareness. So many men would PANIC when they saw me bringing out their coffee in a pink cup. They’d demand for it to be put in another…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:53 AM
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All of my boyfriends have had a very simple look lmao and the first guy definitely fit the profile. The second guy was definitely the worst looking guy I’ve been with tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:56 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m saying. WHY is woman’s womanhood rock solid and men’s isn’t? What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:54 PM
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I thought you were the op sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:45 PM
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God to Adam: don’t eat the apple Adam: ok Eve to Adam: eat the apple Adam: ok Sounds like men are the naturally submissive gender if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:39 PM
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I’m a white, blonde woman with blue eyes in my early 20s and I’ve exercised religiously since 16. I am ‘conventionally attractive’. But I’m not good with makeup, don’t have any cosmetic work done and my tits and ass are quite small so by today’s instagram standards of beauty I barely tick any boxes. Soooo depends on what you’re into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:35 PM
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Hey it’s not my fault men are so easy. They could’ve made me work for it a little
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:30 PM
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Apparently all you need is that double X chromosome combo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:16 AM
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Is expecting a woman to give up everything to serve you loving her humanity? It’s not even acknowledging her humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:34 AM
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I’ll be in Belgrade in September, I’ll hit you up for some tips. I really need to maximise my average woman life and I’m just realising how much I’ve been missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:29 AM
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Sis if you don’t live in a mansion that is fully funded by your personal Beta Team then you are probably a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:23 AM
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They were at the right place at the right time. I just really wanted to get laid that night, I booked a hotel room, went out with my girls, picked the best looking man in the club and took him back to my room. I’ve done that twice, both times same story. I went out fully intending to get laid and I did. The second time i did this there weren’t any guys I thought were good looking in the club so I just picked the tallest one with the biggest feet (psa: big feet do NOT equal big dick, unfortunatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:28 AM
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Every night before I go to sleep I pray that I wake up living the life incels think I’m living.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:23 AM
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Men also just as easily get jealous and offended? Like men are infinitely more jealous than women and can get offended even if you’re not doing anything to them. There is no equivalent of this for women. Women’s identity does not crumble as easily as a man’s. I could never ask another person to alter every aspect of their personality and life to cater to my femininity and then blame them for their completely normal human behaviour that, for whatever reason, entirely topples my self identity whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:17 AM
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When women talk about how difficult it is to fit in male dominated career places due to the culture and it just being catered towards men were told that our failure is due to us not being as intelligent, hardworking, tough, whatever and that if we can’t handle it it’s our own fault and we should stop go elsewhere and stop taking up men’s positions instead of trying to change things. Would you agree that we should also change those environments to be more suited to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:39 AM
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Why is it so easy to make a man feel emasculated? I don’t want to walk on eggshells my entire life because my partner’s identity is so fragile I need to continually make him feel bigger and stronger than he is - by making myself smaller as well? Seriously, how can men want to be regarded as tough when they are emasculated SO EASILY.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:30 AM
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It always bemuses me when y’all say women have high expectations for their dream man. You just expect a woman to give up everything and not expect anything in return because she loves him for him. That’s literally insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:53 AM
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No I entirely agree that both sides are toxic as fuck at the moment and continue to fuel each other’s toxicity. It would be great if we could put our egos aside, listen to each other’s (quite valid) complaints without getting defensive and try to figure out a middle ground. There’s work to be done by everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:10 AM
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You’re right. You’ve given me a lot to think about. I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:32 PM
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Dude. 80% of men are not going their entire lives with only 1 to 2 potential women. There is no data that supports this. I don’t see it around me either. It’s more like the other way around. 20% of men probably have very limited options. But even they can buy sex, so really, there is no such thing as a man without options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:29 PM
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“Because women allow it” Good to know that women are always in the wrong even when it’s men doing the exploiting of young naive women after brainwashing and pushing a narrative of how they only want girls who are all of those traits that make it easiest to use and exploit women and religiously, legally, socially and physically enforced that for centuries. Honestly this whole narrative of shitting on women for both doing bad things and for men doing bad things is exhausting. I honestly do feel ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:25 PM
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Oh my god stop pushing this bullshit narrative that 80% of men have no options. Literally not a single piece of data supports that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:10 PM
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God the reality of dating men is so depressing. Settle for a loser who wouldn’t be with you if he had another option or if your partner is attractive enough to not repulse other women expect to get cheated on. Men have really projected the alpha/beta dichotomy on women but it’s you that actually does it - not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:52 PM
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Men having options but also morals and integrity is asking for the impossible? But it’s the bare minimum that men expect of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:47 PM
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Youth, beauty, agreeability, a submissive nature, etc set women up for use and exploitation. Money does attract women, you just don’t like the kind of attraction it elicits. And that’s fine - I wouldn’t want a man who desired me for what he could use me for either. So like I vet against men who like submissive women, you can vet for women that are attracted to other aspects of men. So, while money is absolutely something that makes a man more attractive to some women, you don’t have to accept th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:28 PM
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Expecting sex at anytime usually looks like nudging your boner at your partner expecting sex. Or expecting sex every night just because. It’s not sexy, it’s not spontaneous either bc the dude makes a habit of it. Spontaneity requires some kinda surprise factor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:16 PM
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Being spontaneous and expecting sex at any time is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:12 AM
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Men’s physical appearance isn’t the only thing that contributes to men being sexually attractive. Stop projecting male sexuality onto women. There are so many things men can do to make themselves more sexually attractive, I don’t know WHY you’re all hell bent on crying about that when it is such a huge male privilege. Women have their looks/youth to sexually attract men. Y’all can do it with personality, status, money, skill, looks... like you guys have it so much better but you wanna be the vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:28 AM
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So you’d rather your wife cheat on you instead of divorcing you when she’s unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:20 AM
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But the man will get to enjoy the children he gets that I produce alone. So why shouldn’t he supplement in other areas - ie. finances. If science made a way for men to get pregnant and they had to endure all the comes with it - including periods, contraceptives, pain every month and then growing a child in his body for 9 months, multiple times with all the health consequences from pregnancy, tearing his genitals apart from giving birth, risking never having enjoyable sex again in his life and fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:45 AM
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If you are broke and unemployed or fat then you do not know your worth because you are showing you cannot take care of yourself much less care for another person, much less care for children
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:13 AM
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Dude unless you have had sex with a man, you do not understand how difficult it is to communicate that with a man. Most of the time they get very defensive and take it as a huge ego hit. They don’t want to be told that they aren’t satisfying you in bed and they do not want to do what you say because that’s admitting they weren’t a good fuck to begin with. I’ve had many discussions with women regarding this topic to get tips and advice on how to best do it and 99% of women I’ve encountered have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:59 AM
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Both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:29 PM
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That’s what you get when you tell women their sexual pleasure isn’t important/sinful, to give nice guys a chance even if they’re not attracted to them, to have sex as a wifely duty/chore. Women that like sex, have sex. But y’all don’t like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:01 PM
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But if sex was enjoyable, she’d still wanna do it for the pure fact that it is enjoyable and orgasms are fucking awesome - despite not feeling the need to secure your partner anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:36 PM
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He seems to think every man who has feminine hobbies is a homosexual don’t even bother. If you’re not pissing masculinity 24/7 you are a homo or a woman, which is basically the same thing in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:23 PM
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Wtf those dudes are predominantly straight. Gay men are still a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:20 PM
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I literally don’t know anyone who doesn’t have friends of the opposite sex. Maybe your problem is that you’re way too focused on how you’re different to notice that every person you ever meet is 90% the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:19 PM
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I am very active in bed. Fuck I’ve literally attended tantra workshops, I’m very passionate about sexual pleasure. The men that weren’t able to match my energy, despite my active participation and communication, got the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:04 PM
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Sex absolutely requires two partners. I give enthusiastic head, I expect enthusiastic head. He fucks me, I fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:01 PM
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I have a very satisfying sex life thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:59 PM
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Oooft so many men stop putting effort into sex when they get married. They start treating sex like something they should just be given at any time without having to put effort in. They think that now that they are married their wives owe them their bodies and sex at all times. They drop the dates, romance, seduction, foreplay, spontaneity, taking care of their appearance and just expect to have sex daily on a schedule. They make sex a chore and wonder why their partner isn’t as enthusiastic as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:30 AM
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It’s not difficult to make a woman cum when you are someone who has the mentality that sex is a shared experience between two people where both try to pleasure the other. If your mentality is that sex is something that is owed to a man and given by a woman you aren’t going to put effort into pleasuring her. So if women just avoid men like you they’d be having way better sex lives and won’t have to teach grown ass men that women are also people who want to cum from sex. Learn how to engage with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:24 AM
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You can’t just change the definition of hypergamy. If hypergamy now means ‘women are attracted to good looking men’ then men have always been hypergamous. Men have always chased the best looking woman they could get and want her to be better looking than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:19 AM
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By like 1%? It seems quite statistically insignificant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:10 AM
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And women would fuck their husbands more if their husbands knew how to fuck and give them orgasms. I’ve never turned down a man who can make me cum - I lose interest in sex very quickly when my partner doesn’t know how to consistently make me cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:07 AM
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It only sounds ridiculous because you’re using a made up term. ‘Divorce rape’ isn’t an actual thing it’s just a phrase made up by emotional men who want to be the victims so badly, they took something that women disproportionately suffer from and tried to equate it to them having to give money to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:31 AM
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But men don’t give as many orgasms as they get. They dont risk their lives and fuck up their bodies forever to bear kids. Their career doesn’t take a hit. They don’t spend the same amount of time on their appearance, on the cooking, cleaning, child care. Money isn’t the only thing that contributes to an equal relationship. If you are spending 50/50 but your female partner is doing more of/all of the above - it’s male hypergamy. Y’all want way more than you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:34 AM
0

Yes it is lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:37 PM
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When dudes feel some type of way, we search for the proper word that describes how we feel Hahahahahqhahahhahqhahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahhahqhqh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:01 PM
1

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:53 PM
3

It’s quite common in these areas for men to think they’re being treated worse than starving children because hot girls don’t wanna be with them and seeing your interpretation of what it means to mistreat someone is on the same page as them. So when men’s biggest concern is lack of pussy, ‘male-lite’ is a fitting term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:24 AM
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All your angry rants about fat women and single moms make sense now. Ladies and gentlemen, who would’ve guessed, it was all projection all along! All you can get is fat women and single moms, you want other women, you can’t get other women, you feel worthless and insecure about it and instead of taking a look in the mirror you get online to talk about how horrible fat women and single mothers are. Maybe you’ve even dated a fat woman or a single mother and thought you were doing her a favour but …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:10 AM
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Figures that in men’s minds mistreatment means ‘no relationship’. She’s talking about actual mistreatment, not your male-lite version that y’all can’t stop crying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:01 AM
2

This is why people don’t care about men’s problems Kyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:04 AM
1

I had 2 high school romances. My first boyfriend and his best friend - my second boyfriend. I’m glad I had this experience, it taught me a lot about relationships and myself. 24 F
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:40 AM
1

I get aroused from seeing men cry and I think it’s because I’m a misandrist but if that’s what you want - come to mama!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:57 AM
4

Well a lot of women aren’t taught that. They’re young dumb and horny and hot guys want them, act like they want them and they probably get more attention than he does anyway so it’s easy to see why they’d think they are on his level or above. Anyway women don’t rate men on a scale like y’all do as well. We don’t rate ourselves. And ratings are super subjective so that’s not a good way to assess things as well. People aren’t just walking around with a number etched into their forehead. People fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:31 AM
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Sex is meaningless to men yet they spend the majority of their time thinking about it, trying to get it, changing their entire lives to have easier access to it, talking about how important it is, talking about how they can’t love without it, can’t live without it, can’t feel like they matter without it, continually watching other people do it, obsessing over who is fucking who and why they aren’t fucking them, paying for it, making money to be able to pay for more... Men’s actions show that sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:36 AM
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Told a guy I wasn’t into casual sex and liked taking it slow. He agreed. We did take it slow, we ended up dating and a couple of weeks into the relationship we had a bit too much to drink and we got into the ‘past relationships’ conversation, obviously. He very proudly boasted of a super high n count (unprompted) and then was surprised that I broke up with him for lack of sexual compatibility. “But I wanted to try out something different with you!!” I’m not going to be your little experiment. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:22 PM
6

Do you hear yourself? That’s like when women say they want effortlessly successful men. It’s not that men don’t want women doing all of those things - they do. They just don’t want to see it. They want to be fooled that it’s effortless. No one looks good without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:01 AM
3

You have a higher chance of being raped by another man than to be falsely accused by a woman. You have a higher chance of being falsely accused of murder than rape. It’s not the same. It’s showing that the biggest concern men have has like a 0.00001% chance of it happening to them, but you’re still obsessed with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:57 PM
6

More men kill women than die for them. The stats just don’t point to men as protectors. I’d like it if men stopped assaulting everyone so we wouldn’t need protection yea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:05 AM
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Men are the assaulters. When women are the ones doing the shit I’ll be the first to tell women to protect the men. But yeah y’all cause the shit and, let’s be honest, seeing as the biggest risk in a woman’s life is the men in her life - you guys don’t protect as a group. You assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:09 AM
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Men didn’t die for women. They died for powerful men. Women have never told men to die for them, women aren’t killing men - men kill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:22 AM
3

Oh come on. If the stat was the other way around and it was men doing the dumping you’d all come to the conclusion that it’s because women aren’t worth it, men are waking up, women aren’t bringing enough to the table, clear sign of women wanting marriage more... I KNOW that that is what all you guys would be saying. So forgive me for not taking your lamentations about women seriously. Women are always wrong and I don’t wanna argue with your emotional bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 10:56 PM
1

Lmao I’m so sorry the idea of your femininity triggers you so much. On this sub people have spoken a lot about masculinity and femininity. What you were describing is clear cut feminine behaviour - and that’s not a bad thing. When a woman is super competitive - that’s her leading with her masculine in that moment, when you want your partner to hold you while you have a tender moment with your head in their lap - that’s your feminine. You are not less of a man for it - although the fact that you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:33 PM
3

Your hot take is that that many marriages fail because women earn more? I thought the comment rhetoric was that women marry and divorce to get money? All the divorce stat tells me is that men don’t make great life partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:27 PM
4

In 38% of American marriages the wife is the higher earner so often enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:05 PM
3

All men do have the potential to rape, they should be civilised and feminists do not say men should be sole providers, as for protectors I think we’d all be satisfied if men just didn’t give us a reason to need protectors. So yes of course both sides argue from fundamental truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:39 PM
5

Yup no argument just a disagreeable response. How typical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:20 AM
5

The complete opposite of a feminine girl is a jaded one who mimics all the personality traits of Masculinity: Competitive, disagreeable, callous, etc. Girls who are masculine or jaded are the worst and we avoid them like the plague. That’s literally how you defined masculinity. No wonder you don’t want masculinity in women when your opinion of masculinity is so low. But you also shouldn’t be surprised as to why women don’t value that masculinity either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:28 AM
0

Your masculinity isn’t a part of your personality and neither is your femininity. They are just a part of you. When you want to be held in a tender moment by someone you trust you are leading with your femininity in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 08:05 AM
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Men describe masculinity in such a horrible way and then get angry at women for describing men in those ways. You actively associate disagreeability and heartlessness and all these horrible traits with men and wonder why women are complaining about ‘toxic masculinity’. Men want to keep being shitty, but blame women for acting like men - ie. being just as shitty as them. I understand what femininity is. It is being nurturing, having empathy, being caring, encouraging cooperation, etc. but it is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:31 AM
0

You are putting your masculinity to the side and stepping into your feminine energy when you desire those moments. But there is nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:15 AM
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The point of her post was that if the roles were reversed and Johnny was the woman while amber was the man, the manosphere would be using their relationship as a clear sign of ‘AWALT’ for the next 4 years minimum. But since it’s the other way around, the men having unlimited rationalisations and excuses for Johnny that they would never afford amber and suddenly we can’t make generalisations off one example... if there is one thing that bothers me about the manosphere it’s not the misogyny. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:29 PM
6

I have never been catcalled more than I did between the ages of 12-17 in my school uniform. Fuck, I worked as a bottle girl in a very skimpy outfit and got catcalled less than I did at the age of 13 in my school uniform, without any tits or ass because they didn’t come in till I was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:49 AM
3

Goddamn this sounds like literal hell. If I ever get married I still want to have a part of my life that is just for myself and I hope my partner does too. I have my job, my hobbies and my friends. Those are mine. You don’t have to be tied to the hip with your partner. And joint bank account?? Fuck no. If you want to open up a third account where you both put money in when saving for something - okay. But only having ONE ACCOUNT for the two of you? No no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:40 AM
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Female friendships do remove feelings of loneliness and isolation. Therefore, male friendships are more shallow and op is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:26 AM
3

I was abstinent for almost 4 years in my early 20s and just focused on study, travel and having fun with the girls. It was the absolute best time in my life, I hope you’re enjoying it just as much! RP men cannot imagine a woman being happy without dick, don’t listen to them 90% of what they say is them projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:13 AM
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I guess I am a little pessimistic that that’ll happen, it is legal in my country (Australia) but I don’t see it being destigmatized in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:08 AM
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Did you mean to reply to me? Because I’m not against legalising prostitution, I just want prostitutes to be able to work without the stigma so that they can get another job if/when they want to leave and aren’t trapped in sex work for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:49 AM
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If you normalise prostitution, you would also have to normalise prostitutes. You can’t rid the male stigma and request for it to be accepted in society because men need it while still keeping the stigma for the workers you require to provide the service that these men need. Women don’t want to normalise prostitution because we know that men/Society will never be fair enough to return the favour to not treat these workers like bottom of the barrel people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:54 PM
3

I dated a low libido guy once, it was interesting being the one initiating most of the time, being turned down and having to work for sex. He is the one and only man that I’ve slept with that I felt some kind of validation from sex because I had to work for it and I knew he was very very picky about who he slept with (I have also slept with women and a woman sleeping with you is always validating). While it was frustrating at times, I would love if more men were like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:49 PM
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It’s not even about having a fulfilling career it’s about being financially stable and secure and independent. Even the women that do desire a tradcon life like the ladies over at red pill women advice the women to be educated and at least attempt to be financially secure. There are just so many more pros to do it rather than not. As for everything else, I agree with you. Everything in life is a gamble and you gotta be realistic about what you can do and understand that most of life is a series …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:42 AM
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This narrative suits men, not women. Youth has never been enough to get a hvm. It’s enough if you want to be gullible and let yourself get into a trap that’ll take decades to get out of. If I could give women any advice it would be to be very selfish with their 20s, to have fun, build themselves, establish solid social networks and to set themselves up financially. That’s advice in women’s best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:20 AM
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Women who get married in their 20s usually don’t end up with men they want either. But by the time they realise it, they’ve wasted their youth, do not have a career and financial independence and have children that are dependent on them. There are no downsides to women waiting until 30+ to settle down with a man. Divorce rates go down with financial stability, higher education and not getting married in your 20s. I’m sick of men giving women bad advice to get them to panic settle when young. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:58 AM
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Do you speak up against those guys? Have you ever vocally opposed men when talking this way about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:51 AM
1

Why are you generalising radical feminists? I’m asking if reading the things men like incels say about women makes you angry? Have you ever told a man off for saying those things like you told me off? Yes women are human just like men, but we still do not get seen that way by the vast majority of men. And unfortunately that will result in more and more women dehumanising men. Because kill all men doesnt happen and it makes men angry that women are saying it - men killing and raping women does ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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