mermaid1120 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4261	Being decent isn’t difficult	MOOD FOR LIFE	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 07:19 PM
1932	Is honesty and respect really that much more difficult than manipulation and lying? SMH	#HeAin'tTheOne2021	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 05:11 AM
1727	The idea that someone is ever "asking for it" is disgusting. R*pe is about sick people, not their victims.	TRIGGER WARNING	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 06:19 PM
137	🚩 Logic of manipulative, apathetic self-serving narcissists 🚩	RED FLAG 🚨	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 05:03 AM
88	Healing and taking my power back	LEVEL UP	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 08:03 PM
80	Found my closure	FDS SUCCESS!	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 02:03 PM
33	THIS.	REMINDER 👑	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 08:57 PM
31	Leaving a predator	SHOWER THOUGHT	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 08:52 PM
12	Need some bad bitch advice	SEEKING ADVICE	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 09:48 PM
1	Time to learn and level up 👑	LVM LOGIC	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 05:19 AM
1	Asked to rate myself 🥴	#JustLVMThings	mermaid1120	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 02:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	The Realities of Age Gap Relationships Thank you. Had this same exactly realization dating a guy 5 years older than me. (23F 28M) At first everything was fun and great! He made the effort, he was extremely intelligent, conversations were never boring. He complimented me on the qualities I wanted a guy to notice about me: my sense of humor, fun personality, intelligence, and ambition/drive. He never completely emphasized liking me for my beauty, so I gave him the time of day in the beginning. Wasn’t even interested/ had expectations f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 12:27 AM
2	Healing and taking my power back Thank you so much for ur support and sharing ur experience! I’m definitely hard on myself that after so much time I’m still triggered and need to heal. Reading ur experience with healing definitely helps me have more self compassion, bc at least I know this messy healing process is normal and I’m not alone. Thank you ❣️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/21 03:08 PM
24	Healing and taking my power back Wow, reading that made my day 👌🏾Thank u so much for sharing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 09:02 PM
4	The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last Time Had this happen to me recently. When I confronted him on it, he told me I’m too hung up on the past, and too sensitive to hearing the truth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 06:30 PM
7	Just Maintained a Boundary! Super proud of you for not wavering! It’s so difficult and takes a lot of strength to choose yourself despite how guilty you might feel for setting the boundary.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 06:25 PM
115	If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay! OMG this happened to me last night. And when the check came he got up and left for the bathroom. Ended up paying for myself completely. He didn’t even try to offer which was a huge turn off for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 02:41 PM
21	There are no "players", only predators. Wow thank u for this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 06:26 AM
16	Then they say they're the logical sex, oof “Sorry thats just our primal instincts kicking in” smfh 😒 this is literally how some men justify rape	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 09:12 PM
18	Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target. Sadly a type of relationship I’ve had with a close friend for 3 years...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 02:59 PM
4	My boyfriend sent me this...he knows I am not trying to live together until marriage. Ladies am I trippin or is this a potential proposal?👀 Literally breaching your boundaries and not respecting them. He’s trying to see if you’ll give in if he pushes against your boundaries hard enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 05:15 AM
2	Found my closure Thank you ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 03:08 PM