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Discriminationmerrifam/r/MensRights06/07/20 01:35 PM
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I agree. In my opinion the morality comes when the guy is willing to sacrifice who he is as a person by allowing others to force him to be what he is not. Have to stay true to who you are but be willing to say no to people and seek peace in your life.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 12:43 PM
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I don't feel that having good men learn to be cruel is morally accurate though. Good men should just be willing to stand up for themselves and for why they want without the social judgment that comes along with it. Don't let the situation turn them harsh and bitter. As others have mentioned about the gender swap in this situation, a woman refusing to raise a child resulting from their husband's infidelity would be praised for "being strong" and "standing up for herself". My wife of over twenty y…
/r/MensRights07/12/22 12:17 PM
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She's just trying to stay relevant by jumping on that band wagon first. This is the only way she gets any air time because she's not funny.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 08:58 AM
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I don't know but each time I post something here I get banned from another one.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 03:56 AM
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Lord knows there plenty of them in real life!
/r/MensRights16/11/21 04:47 AM
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This video hit me so hard. I have four sons and I wonder day after day what kind of world they are living in and how they will fair. Privilege? I think I was in the wrong line when that was handed out. I don't remember ever being treated with any sort of privilege in my life as a man. I remember being made to feel unworthy and undeserving of so many things in my life. I remember having so many pressures placed upon my shoulders just because I'm a male. Not once do I remember being emotionally su…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 05:04 PM
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I keep telling my wife of women want equality they need to sew pockets of their own to carry their own stuff.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 12:23 AM
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That is an interesting thought. I appreciate the insight and the perspective.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 12:21 AM
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When I first heard that I started seeing this exact situation in my own marriage. A lot of things made sense that were just confusing before. There was a brief time when I was a stay-at-home dad. I wasn't fired. I was working far from home making great money but I was never home. My wife and I discussed it and crunched the numbers, realizing that if we just tightened our budget a little I could quit and stay home until I found something closer. It was a mutual, informed decision. I cooked, I cle…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:49 PM
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By it's very definition it is a fallacy. The term 'culture' means that it is an accepted practice within a given society. Rape in America is taken seriously and our justice system punishes people (by people I mean men) for committing the act by incarceration and registration on lists post-term. At what point is rape accepted? (unless you're a woman in this country, of course, who receive far lighter punishments than men for the exact same acts).
/r/MensRights06/05/21 12:27 PM
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I'm pleased to see places like this are slowly taking hold. I would like to see more of these around. Sad part is that feminists will probably claim its sexist and "just another part of the toxic masculinity that perpetuates the patriarchal society we all live under."
/r/MensRights13/10/20 11:51 PM
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My wife is half Mexican and half Filipino, raised in a traditional Mexican household. She doesn't agree with anything the modern feminists stand for, but she does appreciate being treated like a lady. I hold doors for her. I carry her bags when we're out shopping. I get her coffee in the mornings. She's not afraid to work and is a hard worker, but I do a lot of the physical labor around the house when it comes to fixing things or building. She does more than her fair share when it comes to clean…
/r/MensRights10/10/20 01:31 PM
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I felt this quote down to my soul. I have mentioned to my wife a few times that it seems as if she can't stand seeing me relax on the few occasions I try. I am always working around the house as well as my regular job and finishing my doctorate degree so I am constantly on the move. She sees me sitting watching a 30 or 60 minute show one time in possibly a month, and gets irritated.
/r/MensRights16/07/20 01:53 AM
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Perfectly understandable. I just told her in our conversation that I am here for her but I am not a whipping post.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 12:30 AM
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It's a relatively new behavior. It could be a result of being cooped up for a few months due to the virus, and also anxiety about going back to school (she a teacher).
/r/MensRights07/07/20 12:16 AM
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It is, but what's more disconcerting is the idea in society that women can treat men this way and it's okay. I see it all the time and it troubles me. I truly fear for the future or young men are going to have to face.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:22 PM
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She was willing to talk about it the next day after she got some rest. But that doesn't take away from her idea that it's okay to treat other people, especially her husband that way. I really feel like current state of society is really getting into her head.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:19 PM
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I'm glad for you. Being in a toxic relationship makes you desire death over life. I've been on my wife for several months now about trying to micromanage not only me but our sons. I honestly feel she's having a hard time dealing with them getting older and living their own lives without her.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:16 PM
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I've mentioned that same issue to my wife of 17 years. If I'm sitting reading a book, she's okay with it for a little while but then she will throw it in my face later telling me I should have been doing XYZ instead of doing nothing. Conversely, when I am working all day she tells me to come in and take a shower and relax with her. By that she means sit around bored while she watches Harry Potter for the millionth time. Not aJK Rowling fan by the way.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:15 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Those kinds of trends you mentioned are so rampant in modern society and they are definitely toxic to any relationship.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:11 PM
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Thing is, I didn't want to bring the laundry down because it might have woken her. I was just being considerate of her.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:09 PM
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We've been married for 17 years. She's never really acted like this before, or maybe I am just more aware of it because I've been watching what has been happening to men in society for the past few decades. Men get treated like such crap. I laugh whenever I hear one of the retarted feminists say that women want equality. Women have it so much bette than men do socially speaking. They get away with so much with consequences far less than any man doing the same acts.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:07 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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