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Wow sounds it worked very well .. but there were also cases when women unmatched you or ignored you ?
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:51 AM
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yeah im trying to change my approach and interaction style to get better results, and behaving more persistent
/r/seduction22/01/21 09:51 AM
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what s wrong with cold approach ? girls dont wanna spend more than 5 mins for approaches and leaving.
/r/seduction19/01/21 10:40 PM
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aforementioned go ahead and share your infield report and we ll see how you do it ?
/r/seduction14/01/21 12:03 PM
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i agree that if you re super hot guy then direct approach works well, as when i go direct then girls immediately understand that they are being gamed . but when i go for indirect that would be also time waster as girl wouldnt tell that she has a boyfriend or not. i tried indirect sometimes and it rarely worked , transition from indirect to man to woman conversation is very crucial otherwise you ll come across as platonic and you would spend 5-10 mins with her and at the end when you want to clos…
/r/seduction14/01/21 11:51 AM
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thanks mate , i think my problem is being a bit more serious that im trying to avoid nowadays and asking boring questions i admit that.
/r/seduction14/01/21 11:46 AM
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somewhere in eastern europe, i wouldnt like to share the city.
/r/seduction13/01/21 05:12 PM
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sounds very good , i wanna be at that point too ,,do u advise any sources ?
/r/seduction10/01/21 02:43 PM
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can you please share some of your examples that i can follow as well ?
/r/seduction09/01/21 04:41 PM
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instead of kissing on the cheek better off not kissing at all. you are so close to be friendzoned. happened to me many times, if you dont kiss the girl from lips on the first date then , she will most probably friendzone you.
/r/seduction16/12/20 09:00 AM
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she may flake that leads to blueballzy
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:34 PM
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that s a great rate last week i did 10 approaches and got only 1 number and she ghosted me once i asked her out that is shitty conversion rate not yours.
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:17 PM
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solid rejection bruh :) but it s part of game.
/r/seduction10/12/20 10:36 AM
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im in too, tho in my city everybody is wearing mask outside and all places are closed due to 2nd lockdown
/r/seduction21/11/20 06:27 PM
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probably she has someone else that she is investing
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:39 PM
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Build a connection first
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:08 AM
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i think girls see you as nice guy. that's why they are not interested. same shit with me. you need to be badass.
/r/seduction03/08/20 09:15 AM
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yeah i was thinking that way too , as she sees me as backup. at this point idk how to pull her to my side :/ if i keep not texting to her our vibe will be disappeared.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:47 PM
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i disagree with that , she was very receptive . i did many approaches so far i can even clearly understand if she is gonna flake or not. but this girl seemed into me , and i just expressed my intention and i assume she got it . i didnt have any friendly approach to her.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:35 PM
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Then why would she give me her number ?
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:21 PM
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it's not even relationship she said so. he is just FB for her and they even dont hangout outside together.
/r/seduction28/07/20 11:01 AM
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the girl who has BF will %100 flake . "experienced "
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:53 PM
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go direct and bold all the time, if you go indirect she will never understand what you are aiming for
/r/seduction27/07/20 09:28 AM
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invite him a drink. most probably he 'll understand what you are aiming for
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:41 AM
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physical is much better than verbal. see how it goes as long as she behaves receptive , little touches . for eg ask her about the story of her bracelets or rings any kind of accesories. by touching her , if she is not pulling herself back then escalate.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:56 PM
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2- I'm still waiting for her to accept my follow request from Insta then i'll text her. 3-and yesterday i saw this girl in the mall in the -1 floor and she recognized me and waved me with smiling. i also did the same. it was good reaction :) anyways she hasnt been online on whatsapp since yesterday we met :/ . 5-I think she would flake too. but i also used my emotional persuasion .she said earlier she would accept if the guy would be 20-21-22 . found me quite older . but anyway i'll try to call …
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:51 AM
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Many thanks mate , it s been two months i m trying to improve my game for each one .. still no solid results but i believe it ll come
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:50 PM
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the thing is ,i cant understand the woman's age or face beauty while they are wearing huge mask, so i dont waste any seconds with those and move on.
/r/seduction16/07/20 03:04 PM
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i can give you the best advise, James Tusk filmed an Indian guy who called Bhav. you can check it out on youtube. he demonstraited fabulous performance on his game. maybe his style could be inspiration for you--- name is Bhav's transformation. even daygame started for him with the rejection of " i cant be ass to the shit" then he started getting laid with many girls.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:57 PM
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I think it depends on the country, in my city i was really shocked today even in mall many people were wearing masks besides shops.couple weeks ago almost no-one was wearing.I dont approach the girls who are wearing masks :/
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:53 PM
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how old are you btw ?
/r/seduction16/07/20 08:20 AM
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many people are criticizing OP as his look is not enough to to avoid blowout . I think the opposite , he is based in New zelland where the people are white skinned and he is pakistani dark skin and chubby. for sure girls will find him attractive and egzotic as he is different.
/r/seduction16/07/20 08:10 AM
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it seems like these generic openers dont work well and dont bring you to the result.Malls are not the good place for approaching as all girls are in rush or limited time to do their shoppings.
/r/seduction13/07/20 03:21 PM
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hhah i also stucked here :D
/r/seduction13/07/20 03:10 PM
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are you hanging out in bars alone ? do you have any successful approaches ? picking up the girl home or another venue ?
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:24 PM
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In terms of nightgame, it's quite harder than daygame cos girls are got bored from guys who had already did lots of approaching in the club, they instantly blow everyone out rudely. maybe that night i am the 100th person who approaches the girl .
/r/seduction10/07/20 02:31 PM
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Taysocial tecnique rocks, "excuse me, hi ! , you look amazing! i had to come and say hello" right away instant date , 30 mins later , getting laid
/r/seduction08/07/20 05:04 PM
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and they never text back . previously, some girls didnt wanna give their numbers and asked mine and never returned. it was the good reason of blowing me out
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:59 PM
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I wouldnt agree more, It's %100 rejection, doesnt worth to open your mouth
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:56 PM
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boyfriend objection : just ask this "is he a good boyfriend or not ?" that's all :)
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:55 PM
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this is my fear too , going to bar alone, seem creep by girls. I also wanna have interaction with girls in bars rather than clubs where people cant even hear what you are saying. are bars not the best place for solo men ?
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:38 PM
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yeah from that point , i'll move on like that ​ i just texted her and asked " is anything wrong , i thought we had good time and i want to see you again bla blashe said "there is nothing wrong im working now , will text you later " ​ hopefully im not %100 fucked up
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:50 PM
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she behaves cold to me over texting since this morning
/r/seduction02/07/20 09:54 PM
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while giving goodbye hug i tried to look into her eyes but she didnt make eye contact so i couldnt kiss from lips, as she turned her head to another side so i kissed only from cheek ​ in general on my first date , i never feel that they are willing to kiss, before kissing i think they also should give some signals . right ? i mean i touch them and they also touch me, smth like that ?
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:24 PM
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today i texted to her, she is not eager to communicate much as she is working as well, that made me think that i am fucked up. we went for drink however she didnt drink alcohol and i didnt feel enough courage sexually escalate.while we are walking i gave her nice compliments but couldnt see that she was impressed that much . she didnt make enough eye contact while walking that's why i couldnt push forward. what do you advise me to do to save her back from that point -no way ? ? thanks
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:15 PM
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no i was at the first venue all the time.I asked this question right after i asked that" what do you find attractive in guys ?" If this were you then everything would go much smoother i think, because these girls whom i met so far are not into go for sexualize the subject or actions on the first date. performance under the table would be quite kinky :D i would be down that but and then would take her to toilet or home immediately. i mostly choose venues where are close to my flat "just in case" …
/r/seduction02/07/20 09:57 AM
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i think it went well, few times i try to put my arm around her and she didnt escape but i got the feeling that she is not ready for kissing on the first date, and i tried to touch hands and arms at some point without being creppy. yesterday i was also instant date that i met at park and we went for drinking again , i put my arm many times around her she didnt seem uncomfortable, when i left her home i was thinking to kiss her while goodbye hugging but it seemed she was not ready either
/r/seduction02/07/20 09:30 AM
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i think i cant be %100 myself at couple of first dates to make the girl laugh easily. that was the reason of my last rejection though. In fact i am the foreigner guy in the city , may be sense of humor is different for local girls to make them laugh too.
/r/seduction01/07/20 10:42 AM
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firstly it's very nice to hear from a woman whose opinion would be better to analyze women's actions and mindset on that . they are not blind dates, they are from cold approach. during the question game i asked the girl "what do you find attractive about me ?" she said "you were confident to come to me and made the approach" and nothing else . after the date this girl told me that she doesnt find me attactive and doesnt want to go for 3rd date.even though she said our conversation was nice and w…
/r/seduction01/07/20 10:39 AM
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yeah you are right i think . today i have date , hopefully i 'll get things intimated and will see what happens
/r/seduction30/06/20 03:08 PM
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sometimes im afraid that most of girls are not to tend to kiss at the first date, even if physical escalation goes well nor come to my place .if i fuck up with the kiss then she would never like to see me again. but at some point i'll apply these advises on my dates to make the girl feel my intention otherwise i would be directly get friendzoned
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:55 PM
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i have never found enough signal that i could kiss those girls on our first or second dates. I felt like they are not attracted enough so even didnt go for touching. within one date only one venue, at the end i invite them to my place but all the time getting rejection. so you suggest sitting in a place max 30 mins and then i would say that lets go somewhere else i got bored. on the second avenue i would say that let's go to my place. would that work ? in the meanwhile i'll try to escalate.
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:50 PM
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of course all attractive girl are surrounded by men , this is nature of life. i get this a lot too unfortunately or either they recently ended up their relationship and they are not ready for new one. this is big dilemma that i couldnt solve.
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:11 PM
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how many number you got and how many of them came out for a date ?
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:18 PM
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i have that fear as well, I have done couple times but girls blew me out by saying that we have a girlfriend ever since i dont have any encourage or confidence to do that.I rather go 1 on 1. because it's really hard to entertain two girls at the same time , to keep them engaged to the conversation of random guy.
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:14 PM
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I think she has a lot of guys who are texting her at the same time. she probably prioritize other ones whom she wants to meet. try to take her out if she doesnt wanna then move on to next girl
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:38 PM
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It's inspirational story thanks for sharing, for how long have you been daygame ? I have been daygaming for 1,5 months and couldnt even go further than 3rd date, couldnt even bring them home to get laid or something more.I know my results are suck but is it normal for a person who had no daygaming skills before and cannot make any success ?
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:29 PM
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firstly , I really appreciate your comments man, I also added my comments below. the reason why i ask the numbers at early point is girls are leaving at that point ,normally if they are receptive then i prolong the conversation as long as i can to gain their trust and comfort. 3-4. I didnt know that 3 rule, seems pretty enough especially passing through shit-test and showing how serious in my game.normally i mostly leave on the first mishap because when i see the girl is totally disinterested. 5…
/r/seduction24/06/20 08:51 AM
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I know, most of girls(%90) are into relationship and to have serious guy, i see that in girls whom i approach or get contact based on my experiences so far from daygame or online dating apps. " Ask screening questions " how can i do that ? i usually go with assumptions or asking what they are up to now?if they are student ? or if they are on lunch break ? or if they are waiting for tinder date, what do you do? smth liket that :) . most of the time either they say they are gonna meet with someone…
/r/seduction23/06/20 02:45 PM
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yes exactly. most of PUAs share their wins intead of rejections.
/r/seduction23/06/20 02:08 PM
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im not sure yet about mentors because i consider them as they more likely try to get money as much as they can and bootcamps are really costy which i see most effective from best PUAs. in my city , even wingman approach is not wellspread. i'll share my today infield report and appreciate your comment for it thank you.
/r/seduction23/06/20 02:07 PM
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yeah i always have hesitation about PUAs or mentors who are doing lots of their advertisements and looking to your pocket. that's why i started this journey alone and 2 months before i had massive approach anxiety and i overcame it through youtube videos( mostly Johnny Berba) . I feel like i need to more approaches like at least half year in order to gain enough experience and calibrate myself.
/r/seduction23/06/20 02:03 PM
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I'd be shocked for if Tom torero has staged videos indeed. he speaks as if he is the best PUA.
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:50 PM
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so do i need to give compliment on their eyes / style / hair or something specific to be more genuine ? how do you deal with openers usually?
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:48 PM
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I care because im trying to figure out in which areas i need to improve myself. I agree that rejection is part of this game but i have been daygaming almost 2 months and still couldnt go on 2nd date with them nor got laid nor havent had any relationship.I feel that i got huge failure rate . that makes me think that i need to change something.
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:22 PM
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most of time i get boyfriend rejections while im daygaming in malls or streets, however whenever i approach a girl in the park or sitting somewhere . they are oppositely receptive and want to invest the conversation. and I always use the opener like i found you cute and wanted to say hi
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:10 PM
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yeah rejection sometimes pulls me away from my next approach, because i feel down after getting 5 rejections in row. thank you mate
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:00 PM
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as there are various things that girls consider at the first place . It's too hard to figure out why i get many boyfriend rejections indeed. ​ good example of your friend, but in clubs or parties , due to too loud music, girls pay attention to look mostly.
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:59 PM
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yeah sorry for grammar mistakes , it is not indeed. I try to believe and keep my motivation up after those rejections as i dont have anything else to believe .
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:52 PM
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for how long have you been into gaming ?
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:23 PM
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uncle Tom is that you bruh ? , btw you are lucky man ,she was completely DTF.
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:40 PM
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Tom Torero First 90 Seconds! - I have watched it last month when he published first date even . the thing i would never forget to "have tiger eyes" :D
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:52 PM
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hey check your dm , im in
/r/seduction16/06/20 11:58 AM
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sitting outdoor are of starbucks :D
/r/seduction16/06/20 11:30 AM
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girls are not tend to give their numbers for sure after short time of interaction, if you ask , how can we stay in touch then she would probably take your number , doesnt give herself and would never shoot you message. this is what i experienced when i ask numbers within max 5 mins interaction.
/r/seduction16/06/20 10:02 AM
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chill out at parks alone , maybe i can see you and approach one day ;)
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:04 PM
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many women like to be approached and %99 of times they say that they have a boyfriend. It always happens to me too.some of them are true some of them a big lie.
/r/seduction11/06/20 02:09 PM
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I read all your daily reports and what i see is you get plenty of boyfriend rejections which is quite normal the reason is when you approach a girl on the street you don't have enough time to have her trust and impress her to get the number and then come out for second date. unless you look like super model or something it would be same as dating app in real life, she would be impressed by your looking and then gives her number. I'm also new to this journey more than 1 month even. what i analyze…
/r/seduction11/06/20 02:05 PM
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i also started day game like a month ago , and i also have many number flakes. they don't come up for the date finding plenty of excuses. real challenge starts after getting the number.
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:31 PM
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It's going well mate, can you also update us regarding further dates with the numbers you got ?
/r/seduction10/06/20 06:51 PM
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i wonder something mate, after those plenty of rejections how do you feel ? do you feel more devastated or encouraged ?
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:13 PM
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boyfriend objection is very polite way to justify that they are not interested unfortunately.I always ask the girls if their boyfriend are good :) they say yes but it's fun or i ask what is his name ? :D if they think for a while then they are saying a lie.
/r/seduction08/06/20 10:08 PM
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if the girl takes the number never text back. It happened me 3 times over the last month and they never returned even though they asked my number instead of giving theirs
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:11 PM
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