meseduceyou Archive

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1	How To Meditate? Which type of meditation is better? To me, meditation is all about awareness. Now, to teach your mind to become more aware there are different methods, but basically it is the same. The way I understand it, sitting down and training your mind to be aware of thoughts and feeling is one part. The goal is to be aware throughout the day as well. The difficult part of meditation is changing the way you relate to thoughts and emotions. You learn that it is not the emotions and thoughts that are the problem, but rather the way you respon…	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:53 PM
1	How To Meditate? Which type of meditation is better? For me Tyler comes across as a guy who has just discovered meditation and wants to spread the information without really having the experience to do so. Nothing wrong with that. I would consider listening to him when he discusses pickup, but I'd rather stick to people with extensive experience on the subject of meditation talk about what they know best. I've noticed that the more experienced teachers are able to explain the concepts in a short and concise matter. Also, they are able to direct th…	/r/seduction	20/02/15 01:40 PM
3	How to not be so alonw I agree with /u/RivenDante . I want you to think of this idea of getting a girlfriend like a string. One part is attached to you in reality, and the other is attached to you in your fantasy. Because you have trouble to accept that your fantasy is not your reality the string has tension. The more conflict there is between where you are and where you want to be, the more tension there is on the string. This gives you stress. And really, is it not where stress really comes from? You see your life a…	/r/seduction	05/02/15 10:39 AM
1	My emotional state is largely governed by the people around me All my pleasure! If you decide to train your mind or at least decide to adopt at more aware approach to your thoughts and feelings I would love to hear how it goes and answer any questions :)	/r/seduction	05/02/15 10:08 AM
1	Made 12 approaches this weekend - Thoughts So I went to class yesterday. It was fun and I really recommend it. We were 80 people, 50/50 men and women. After we had learned the basic steps we were told to stand in a circle pairwise. Every 3 minutes or so we changed partner. The boys stood still, and the girls rotated. This is a course arranged by the university. That means the average age is about 23-24 I guess. Also, there were a lot of exchange students there, which I love. What I take from this: 1 - It almost felt like speed dating. Yo…	/r/seduction	03/02/15 02:07 PM
2	Made 12 approaches this weekend - Thoughts Hey man. I'm in the same boat as you. Touching doesn't come natural to me at all. I have however noticed a thing. Last thursday, a girl spent the night and we hung out at my place to 6pm the day after. You can say we were very cuddly. Later that night I went to a dinner, and I noticed how easy and natural it was for me to touch my female friends there. Not sexually, but still. Last monday I took a free salsa course. There I touched a lot of girls (you have to) and I think this was good practice.…	/r/seduction	02/02/15 12:40 PM
2	My emotional state is largely governed by the people around me Well meditation would tell you that there is nothing wrong with these thoughts or emotions. You are never going stop having negative feelings, so the goal is not to remove them, but to not let them occupy your mind and take your focus. Changing the way you relate to the feelings is the goal. But you are not going to change it over night since you have spent your whole life relating to them the way you do today. I like your suggestion though because I think it could affect my overall wellbeing, n…	/r/seduction	01/02/15 11:13 PM
3	Throwaway - I'm fucked up inside me. It sounds like you are very very hard on yourself. Everything else is going great for you so you expect this part to go as smoothly. I'm guessing you have this voice in your head being mean to you when you talk to girls and when you think about them. Imagine if this voice was your roommate! You would've moved out asap! I want you to be comfortable with yourself the way you are right now. Accept that at the moment you suck at talking to girls, and that is ok (reading that probably gave you an unp…	/r/seduction	01/02/15 01:40 PM
1	My emotional state is largely governed by the people around me My answer is only based on my own experiences, and I really am not expert at this. I advice you to take your question to /r/Meditation and get a proper answer from someone more experienced. This is my attempt at answering you: I get what you are saying, but it's not working like that. You shouldn't watch the video too learn in my opinion, but rather to be inspired of what is waiting for you if you practice meditation. I read Power of Now last year and it gave me sooo many questions. It really st…	/r/seduction	01/02/15 12:55 AM
39	My emotional state is largely governed by the people around me Hello! I'm going to suggest meditation because that has had a real improvement on my life. For me I was experiencing the exact thing you talk about. I remember feeling not having my own "identity". One friend would light me up. Another would pull me down. Alcohol was the only thing that kinda made me relax and be myself. I thought this was a very sad idea so I tried meditation. Now I feel like a pool filled with water. It's hard to describe, but bear with me. I see myself as the pool, and people…	/r/seduction	31/01/15 01:43 PM