mesloh14 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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23	Choice feminism - propaganda? This takes me back to another post someone made a few months ago, where a journalist was interviewing johns from Germany, and not one said anything about how they “admire women’s strength” or “value that these women do this act for them” or anything like that. Every single john talked about how it’s so great that they can just pay and fuck whoever they want, and throw extra money to do other positions/fantasies/role play/etc. One scrote said something about how he loves the power of flaunting hi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 02:57 PM
6	So I was cleaning my vibrator and... I can’t tell you how much shit I gave him for that. He always insisted on “well they’re not dirty, plus it helps me not waste so much time getting ready in the morning” 😪 That’s wonderful! And really helps keep things clean. Once I moved out and in with my partner, we began establishing these kinds of house rules so we have “outside” and “home shoes/clothes/whatever” to cut down on tracking and all that stuff. I used to feel like a neat freak, that I was doing too much and was being dramatic. I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 12:59 PM
4	So I was cleaning my vibrator and... Oh yeah, definitely. It was such a culture shock when I started college, I felt so overwhelmed haha. My roommate I talked about here was incredibly guilty with this, so much so that sometimes he would sleep in JEANS. The same jeans he wore that day to class and work. I had other friends who’s house I would hang out at, and they would insist on sitting on their bed with whatever they and I had on. I just sat on the floor or stood lol I physically could not bring myself to do it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/21 08:25 PM
36	So I was cleaning my vibrator and... My stepdad was in the military for 10+ years and still works for the government, and he is so anal (no pun intended) about being clean. I remember my cousins were staying over and didn’t want to shower before we went to the mall, and my dad started clowning them, saying stuff like “toxic dingleberries” and “your breath smells like [ass]crack too” and my favorite, “y’all not sitting in my car bringing all your nasty swamp ass staining my seats, y’all either got 30 min to shower or you’re not comi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 02:46 PM
52	Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :) hysterical wailing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/21 03:05 PM
26	A small win… but I’ll take it. This is wonderful! Way to assert your boundaries and not resort to defensiveness but rather communicating clearly and honestly. Not all interactions go this well, but when they do, it’s soooo important to reflect, internalize that energy, and remind yourself that Queens and Royalty don’t have to pander to peasants. And you don’t owe an explanation for anything! Baby steps pave the way for larger waves. Good job Queen! 👏🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/21 12:05 PM
55	“Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are” This is seriously so relieving to see! Sucks that we’re all like “omg what a guy!!!” just because he’s one of the only men to actually acknowledge reality lol. These “men aren’t loved unconditionally” posts just scream “I’m tired of not being worshipped like a god because I have a dick!!!” Not to mention, MEN are the ones that created these standards and “conditions” of being a man, and THEY’RE the ones that get mad at EACH OTHER for not “being a man”, so which one is it guys???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 10:51 PM
54	How do you deal with being ignored (on purpose) by men in your workplace? What is the correct way to address it? Several times at my last job was I interrupted by some man thinking he knows how to do my job better than I could, despite me filling the position for the better part of a year. My go-tos are: “I’m still talking, by the way.” “Interesting. Anyways like I was saying…” “Wait, I wasn’t done talking.” “Hold on to that real quick, I was saying something like…” Basically, speaking in a way to get the point across politely and professionally, yet firmly and in a way to make them feel sheepish about it.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/21 07:21 PM
40	Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure. Our society is built on gaslighting strong, confident women because that means those women are less likely to feed into consumerism (eg. makeup, surgery, clothes, pointless coffee dates, etc.) and thus makes it harder for the NVM in charge of these enterprises to profit. Everything that is sold to us is a bandaid for a symptom of a much larger issue, because selling insecurities back to us is how these people make millions. By outright establishing boundaries and having confidence in yourself an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 12:30 PM
39	This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setup “Obviously I had the bottom-tier bare minimum response of saying ‘thank you’, and that wasn’t enough for her!!! I thought she was ‘low-maintenance’ and I could propose with a Ring Pop and now I feel tricked!! I’m not obligated to meet her with the same energy because I didn’t ASK her to help me, she didn’t have to!!!!!” That’s how that entire last paragraph read to me. Gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 02:20 PM
21	The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look like “Gargoyle ass looking men” is going to become my new description for these types of men 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 02:01 PM
16	Hey scrotes, don't want women to be so hard, tough, and difficult? Stop making things hard, tough, and difficult. So true. Just listen to the way LV men talk about a “good woman”. They compare her to a fucking car, or motorcycle, or a boat, or some object, clearly showing they view women as objects. HV men on the other hand, talk about women like art, poetry, wine, music; things that radiate beauty and experience, and require a level of intellect to truly understand and appreciate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 05:02 PM
201	Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire. Well, when they’re constantly praised in media, it becomes the standard. All the men like this are cookie cutter versions of each other.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 08:06 PM
3	After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a waste Oh yeah, point proven lol. Honestly disgusting and I wish more women would see how much men, especially NVM and LVM, really take from them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 08:05 PM
7	After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a waste This is what I was thinking too. Also, I guarantee he’s never said anything like this directly to his wife. Just to enough internet strangers for him to feel better and absolve himself of any guilt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 05:10 PM
9	So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men: He really thought he was being insulting with this one 🤣 Like yes scrote, that’s the whole point! Glad to see you picked your head up out of the incest porn marathon long enough to accurately read the room. Don’t overexert yourself now, you can go back to your sad, lonely fantasies in just a moment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 03:35 PM
136	So many times When you really listen to the way scrotes talk about women, it truly is all projection. They think and feel so low about themselves that the only way they feel better is by putting women down, unless they’re “dumb enough to fall for it” (it being their fake wit or charm or kindness), then that means they’ve achieved victory over this conquest because they only view women as objects, and have since the dawn of time. These are the same men that get upset when women expect men to be well groomed, f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 08:32 PM
30	Sis needs help These are the same men to leave their wife of 20 years for some “hot young blonde” or some other gross stereotype used by LVM, and try to baby trap them until they’re “too old” and it starts all over again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 08:24 PM
51	Of course Bill Cosby supports R. Kelly and hopes for a successful appeal. Predators will stick together to insist they are being wronged when they’ve traumatized dozens or hundreds of women. Who’s surprised? The fact that these men can sit here and cry about being the victim while legitimately victimizing and terrorizing women and children.. it makes me sick and is such a huge reason as to why I don’t trust men. I know so many men that latch themselves to this outcry, then turn around and watch or take part in BDSM porn, r*pe play, or straight up say shit like “well if I wanna fuck, I’m gonna fuck if I want to!” and then get surprised when people distance themselves. Like you’re an abuser in the mak…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/21 07:03 PM
38	This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science) More like, men age like a charcuterie platter left out in the hot Phoenix sun for the better half of a century.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 06:33 PM
63	This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science) What is there to “keep up with”? Your increasing insurance rates due to your climbing age, or your quick descent to death? These old scrotes just honestly really need to die out. You’re not Hugh Hefner, quit trying to force your sad, sick cosplay that doesn’t even work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 04:53 PM
21	LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too. Let’s be honest here. LVM hate everyone because they hate themselves deep down, and they all project it differently. That’s it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 07:00 PM
14	Tell me all of your favourite ways to treat yourself to a date! My fancy self-dates include starting off with a nice therapy session with my wonderful therapist, followed by a 90-minute therapeutic massage with CBD and essential oils, going out for AYCE sushi, then coming home and smoking a fat bowl before crocheting or watching outdoorsy videos for the rest of the day! Oh and snuggling with my cats (when they want to, that is).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 08:05 PM
8	When a guys says he is a good listener I was looking for this part. Men are always looking for ways to have a leg up in anything, especially a new relationship where they have a better chance of getting away with the “nice guy” ploy to establish trust and then take advantage. These men are pros at manipulation and gaslighting; that’s the only way they can get women to talk to them because they know that if they try to “be themselves”, their whole misogynistic ass shows.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/21 12:01 PM
12	This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us. Yes this too! All these teenagers are getting swept up by hentai and “dominating kawaii cuties” and “pick me senpai” and “omg waifu uwu”. And the creators of these cartoons and movies and whatever else are fully aware of these tropes, yet they continue to push them because they see how all encompassing this reality is. Teens don’t just obsess over hentai and comics and explicit manga, they also buy the clothes/posters/decoy weapons and become fully engrossed in this world that it becomes the len…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 04:22 PM
59	Why do males think it's okay to rank women? Men have been reducing women to physical attributes since the dawn of time and have the scrote-dacity to cry victim when women clap back with “I want a tall man” or “I want a fit man”. Men across the globe will literally WILLINGLY enter into a child slave relationship because “they’re young” and “more fertile” and “I need to spread my seed” and go after barely legal women because “they must be tight” or “they have more energy than my wife” or “they’re great eye candy”. Not one of these men seek …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 01:25 PM
61	This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us. Why do men always insist life is supposed to be some sick BDSM fantasy where all women are supposed to be subservient live-in bangmaids.. Oh yeah, because that’s the image the entertainment industry (especially porn) shoves down weak-minded men’s throats. They’re so easily brainwashed and yet, we’re the weak, crazy ones? Riiiiiight..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 12:14 PM
8	Cry me a river This is how men turn into violent stalkers..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 03:28 PM
77	Never doubt your intuition! I’m always very weary of claims like that right out of the blue when you start dating someone. “I have a crazy ex just so you know.” “I just really hate losing.” “Oh by the way, don’t go on my laptop/computer.” Especially if it just comes up in passing, watching TV, driving, cooking, whatever. Those things usually indicate he has a guilty conscience because he used to or (most of the time) he currently does things that most people would be judgmental towards. He’s trying to say things about thos…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 08:45 PM
10	‘Guy friends’: the real evil men? My “guy friend” of 5-6 years and I stopped being friends after he insisted on splitting rent 3 ways for a 2 bed 2 bath where my partner and I would be sharing a room and he gets his own room and bathroom and the living room. This was also after years of him hoping I would “turn straight” for him after seeing how much of a “nice guy” he was and how he was such a “great friend”. I should’ve known this would happen eventually considering we first lived together after high school during college, and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 07:28 PM
4	Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid. WOMEN 👏🏼 ARE 👏🏼 NOT 👏🏼 REHABILITATION 👏🏼 FACILITIES 👏🏼 FOR 👏🏼 MEN 👏🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 02:56 PM
176	It was too good to be true. When I first heard about this, I thought OF was suspending activity altogether. Then after seeing they were supposedly “only removing adult content”, I was like ~sure Jan~	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 03:18 PM
2	Welcome to FDS! Since finding this sub, it’s put into proper language all the fleeting feelings I’ve felt towards men since my adolescence. It’s also nice to have a space where strong women are helping other women to be strong too and not to submit to the BS toxic roles the patriarchy forces upon us. Also, could I get a flair pls? 🥺	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 01:38 PM