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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Don’t buy into indulgent couples content - especially around Valentine’s Day I was starting to feel a little bit sad, but then I remembered my LVM ex just flat out told me how he “doesn’t celebrate Valentine’s day” and how he wouldn’t post me on social media at all and I feel so free. I don’t have an expectation that will be invariably frustrated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 05:50 PM
5	Promise rings are a fucking joke. Where I’m from (Latin America) it’s said that a couple that gets promise rings will eventually break up. Not sure if it’s a local belief specific to where I’m from or not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 01:05 AM
20	Promise rings are a fucking joke. There’s a reason why they’re considered a bad omen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 07:00 PM
208	The Phantom Ex - when avoidant men pine for a past love I’m healing from this right now. They were together for 5+ years. She went to another country to pursue her education. He never got into another serious relationship afterwards, probably obsessing over her for years. I was kept in a situationship for months. I endured it because I thought I could show him how to “love again” (stupidly). We ended up being in a committed relationship but it was always me chasing him. It was exhausting. I was emotionally neglected and abused. And on top of it, I wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 11:04 AM
15	How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part! This is one of my biggest fears. I recently left a relationship because I was 100% sure he was not over his ex from five years ago, who was married herself. His whole family would bring her up. His friends would compare me to her. It was a never ending nightmare.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 05:30 PM

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