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OFF TOPICmetajenn/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 10:48 AM
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Embrace your red hair phase! The wall filtered out all the grossly aggressive men forcing me to acknowledge their existance. Still hot tho
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 04:13 PM
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A 34 year old man making a 21 year old pay half the bills is crazy. He is using you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 06:47 AM
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This is lived red pill from successful couples. Not incel theoretics.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 01:15 AM
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Planner, apps, routines. From your examples Planner for work Calendar for events/appointments Bill on autopay Personal planner for holiday planning, cooking, Routine for cleaning, kids, parents, friends (maybe add them to calendar) I use my phone calendar, planners and notes app constantly. Before phones i always kept a folded loose leaf to write down imnediate to dos like wash the car, go to grocery etc. A wall calendar for things that the date was important. And a planner for miscellaneous. Ju…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 05:18 AM
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I will never understand why anyone asks this question and why anyone answers it. There are some rp purists who thinks this relevant but its also so contextual, the number becomes irrelevant. Who we are by genetics, by our upbringing, by our country, religion, disposition, looks, economic class, our character strengths and weaknesses, our familial bonds and media intake plus one million other things inform how we look at sex and relationships and if youre doing it right, that should morph and cha…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 02:21 AM
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Men, by and large, do not care about this. Well, decent men who havent drank the koolaid of the cult of money at least. Youre in school which suggests you have a brain in your head. In my experience thats enough to bridge the gap. Your childhoods may havr looked different amd there may ne some thing you cant relate to but those things dont matter compared to how you make him feel. Dont focus on you. Focus on building a solid relationship with your man (that includes being truthful about your upb…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 03:08 PM
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I did this with an ex. He was already gorgeous. But i set him up with a proper barber and threw out the boat shoes for jordans and he looked like model. My male friends were like "wtf, hes the hottest guy ive ever met."
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 02:27 AM
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Do u often have food items that dont fit that you have to leave out? If yes and theyre the same items every week, pack your bags accordingly. Its madness not bagging these items together in the store anf expecting him to pick through bags. Youre making this harder than it needs to be.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 04:09 AM
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Nobody elses opinion matters in decisions you make within your marriage except your husbands and yours. Boomer women are a product of their time and over value what it is forna woman to work in context of 2023. Womens rights and freedoms are not found in working but in the CHOICE to work, if they want. Our mothers mostly all wanted to choose to work because it they came from a time of women being basically property, a job meant independence. That time is over, now a job means exactly the bullshi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 01:23 PM
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This site is so ridiculous sometimes. I've been banned from subs for advising girls to keep themselves safe. But we're all supposed to hope and wish we live in a fantasy world real hard and it will come true! Living in reality is victim-blaming and phobic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 07:34 PM
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I think where people get lost in red pill philosophy is they forget the human behind these terms. The general infrastructure is there to help make sense of the world, sex dynamics, and clarify your own thoughts/behaviors. But there are individual people who we're ultimately dealing with, not the essence of the philosophy in some ethereal pure form. While it's very possible you won't find a man who measures up to your dad, after a while perhaps you'll redefine what's really important to you in a …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/22 11:11 PM
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Red pill infers questioning the narrative. Not going with the mainstream because its the mainstream. Our political parties have no consistent philosophy. A part of being red pilled is not just following a party blindly. Its forming your own ideas and values. The definition of conservative is small government and a free individual. Logically it makes no sense for a conservative to be against abortion. Im religious too, born and raised in the church. The bible is on my night stand and ive read eve…
/r/RedPillWives05/08/22 08:45 PM
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Yikes, I had no idea this community was force birth. I am SO confused how any of this follows from RP. "Here's a ectopic pregnancy go die!" What
/r/RedPillWives05/08/22 02:14 AM
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I gonna agree with everyone who's already responded. He's gotta shit or get off the pot! While 22 is still young, it is still enough into your adulthood to be able to somewhat acurately project your income capability. For instance, if he was an entrepreneur and hustling to make it work, you might be able to see his ability to make money in the future despite him not coming home with a whole lot right now.. the examples are endless. But considering the zoo aspirations.. that's just not the field …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/22 01:48 AM
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Instead of going after having a huge gaggle of friends, try to connect with one person. Just one. People tend to make mountains out of their goals when they always should be looked at as single steps. Whether it be weight or income or whatever, you have to break them down into smaller goal posts so you're going after something achievable. Instead of focusing on why it's difficult for you, ie) doesn't feel genuine look at your perspective as a strength. You aren't making friends because you *need…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 12:30 AM
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I shower at night or after I come home from sweating. It gets all the grime off from the day and keeps the bed clean. Shower every day. If you have dry sensitive skin, you don't have to use soap all over every time you shower. For instance, when I'm showering after the gym or from being sweaty outside I use soap everywhere but if I've been mostly inside all day, I'll just soap the skin fold areas: arm pits, underboob, the behind. And lotion right after! That should solve your skin/BO problem. Lo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 10:34 PM
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Even if you were trying to bulk up and gain muscle, this logic is inherently flawed. There's nothing contradictory between being physically fit and being a red pill woman. I'm in a traditional-role relationship and my partner loves my muscles. He isn't threatened ond encourages me to work out. Rounder peach for him! Plus, let's get real, no matter how much I train, there's no comparison to biological males. While some men can interpret muscular women as intimidating or feminist, that's their own…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 09:00 PM
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I think it depends on what you're asking him. I always cringe when I see posts on reddit about people asking their partner their "body count." Like WHYYYY would that even cross your mind as anything relevant. There are some things from our pasts that don't need to be discussed. But some questions give us insight into our partners. The art of this, when it comes to people from rough pasts is knowing when the right time is to ask and how to ask it. Or just creating the space for them to come forth…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 08:01 PM
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There is no "one." You choose who "the one" is. Despite you saying yes to marriage, you didn't really make that choice to be his life partner other than saying you did. By acting out of turn with your internal world (by saying yes) you really screwed with your happiness and satisfaction with your fiance going forward. I don't think your fiance is the one. Not because there's anything fundamentally askew with the relationship but because you weren't ready for him. I also don't think things will w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 07:15 PM
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This isn't confined to female actresses. Look at politicians... look at some of the campaign vids that are coming out. I could never FATHOM a politician coming out the way they do now. All masks are off with the rise of people throwing out the idea of private thoughts. There's no front facing persona, it's all out in the wind. Which I don't think is inherently a bad thing. I do prefer people a little more raw and forthcoming. However, I do think people can also thrive in making an art of how the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 06:01 PM
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I just straight DGAF about the opinions of people brainwashed by capitalism. I feel more satisfaction putting my effort into making my partners life better than making some faceless CEO's life better. As far as contributing to society, there's so much more opportunity to do that outside of a paying job. Volunteering, baking, mentoring, coaching etc do more for the community anyhow. We do not have to justify our existence by amount we contribute to GDP.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 11:50 PM
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Whole heartedly agree. By being unapologetically upfront about your wants for the future and your values, you're filtering out those guys who aren't the one anyway. When I met my partner, I was very clear with what I wanted in the future and even though at the time, he wasn't as necessarily "red pilled" as I was, he's found a lot of happiness in our dynamic. Don't worry about how you come across to the wrong peoplel
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 01:50 AM
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It could be over. But you sound a little too aware for that to happen. We can't choose our parents or where we're born, but most of us end up having some kind of agency over how we integrate that into our lives as an adult. Even making this post bodes well for you as far as the degree to which you have power over your future. Look closely at the kinds of guys you get involved with and what kind of behavior they exhibit. Enforce boundaries. Require respect. Don't get caught up in understanding ab…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/22 10:47 PM
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Men go after what they want. It sounds like you romanticize it more than he does. You guys have different plans for your future. Chemistry, history, are GREAT but similar goals trump both and IMHO is the most important thing for a relationship to work. He doesn't want to live anywhere you do and vice versa, that's a nail in the coffin. He's not the one that got away because he's not the one. "The one" (which can be numerous people on the planet) will prioritize you and chase you as much as you c…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 03:27 AM
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There's not many places I feel sexier than when I'm training. You are IN your body, focused, and conscious of it. Being physical is one of the top ways to feel like a woman and be feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:59 PM
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I agree. Not only for you, but for them! You can spend this time preparing. Not only developing yourself and enriching your relationship but reading books and blogs on parenting. Too many people spend 0 time preparing for the most significant job a human can hold. It's crazy. 18 and 24 were universes apart for me. Use this time wisely to develop into the woman you want to be. There's no rush!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 02:19 AM
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He fulfills you in every way except the way that you don't necessarily need because your family is providing it. I'd understand more if money was tight and you guys were struggling and he was refusing to step up, but that's not the case. I also went to school for philosophy. When a lot of your thoughts are about the nature of existence, what reality is, purpose, etc, money becomes nothing but a tool so you can live. Meaning, how you guys think about money are two totally different things. I'd be…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 04:40 PM
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Many female friendships aren’t very healthy or natural This is a western urban issue I think. When you're immediately surrounded by your female relatives and extended tribe, trusted female relationships are infinitely fulfilling. The iteration of friendships in modern western culture seems to be based on competition, where more traditional societies female bonds are very supportive. I will always prefer the company of my partner because I love the degree of intimacy but how I relate with my fema…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/22 11:17 PM
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We are in the Twilight Zone. Trans people can be trans, I have never blinked twice at people expressing themselves but what are we talking about when we say someone with a Y chromosome is female? I don't see anything radical about having a term for people born with different sets of chromosomes.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 01:48 AM
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I agree! I'm not the best gift picker and my close friends are a mixed bag at how good they are at choosing gifts. A few years ago me and the other friends/family who have bad gifting skills started sharing our amazon lists and holidays/birthdays have become WAY better. How good someone's gifts match your expectations is a ridiculous way to measure them. But that sub is all around pretty ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 09:04 PM
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This is kind of why I'm so vicious with who I let in my life. All of my friends have no qualms with calling me on my bullshit and don't have fear they'll take it the wrong way if I call them on theirs and we all get along great. I have no time for this kind of nonsense, The truth can hurt but a comfortable lie ends up hurting more.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 01:29 AM
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This is what I instantly thought of. When your boss is politely dismissing you. Big "bless your heart" energy. I think engaging with the subject manner conveys that you not only heard but you're turning it into something in your mind. I hear you has no resolution, it doesn't give anything back to the conversation. I don't think there should necessarily be any kind of universal response to every issue your partner brings up because every situation requires something different. If youre really lis…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 03:43 AM
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I don't think the issue is how you approach men as much as how you're approaching yourself. Humility is good but it sounds like you go quite beyond that. Maybe you need to work on building your own esteem and confidence. For example, working out or practicing an art. Something you can get good at. Also only HVW being married by 23 is not true. We all have our own struggles and timing for things. I think a successful marriage coming out of teenagehood is very rare in today's western world with ou…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 06:16 PM
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For people with strong sex drives or intense kinks, yeah. There's no compromising for vanilla, there will always be a force tugging at you making you sad about what you're missing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 11:02 PM
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r/bdsmcommunity has a few threads about this. Personally, not the first date but a couple in before anything gets physical I make "my announcement." A few dates in both parties get to catch the vibe so I feel like laying it out on the 3rd date doesn't necessarily imply that you aren't looking for something serious but it's still early enough to where you both haven't wasted to much time/energy if you aren't a match. With that being said, I've never had a guy choose to walk away after my warning …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 11:01 PM
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I've always thought the idea of a mother working full time was absolutely whack. There's a documentary about 2nd wave feminism in the 60s where they interviewed some lady on the street and what she thought about women protesting for work. She basically said, "I don't want things to change, I like my life." With all social change, there's always this extreme pendulum swing to the opposite end of the spectrum before we find a middle. With women in the workforce, I think our sex was super gung ho a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 02:41 AM
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I don't compare myself to other people. I'm not in competition with anyone but myself. I'm happy for the women I know who get pampered by their husbands, it's awesome to see people happy. They deserve it, they're great women. If you 're salty about working maybe you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you really want in life. There's nothing wrong with being provided for and if that's what you want don't pretend to be taking the high ground by dating a man who can't do that while …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 11:15 PM
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First of all, you can have either life and it's possible you'll unchoose whatever path you start on now. Secondly, you're asking a RP sub if you should be RP, did you ask the BP sub? Or the purple pill sub? If not, you've answered your title question: Yes, you should because you want to. But to answer your actual question, a traditional lifestyle is not exclusive to looks as such. What you think of yourself and how you carry yourself will change how you "look." I think the main limit RP really h…
/r/RedPillWives16/09/21 06:25 AM
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I wouldn't say pride is the right word, I just really love that I'm a woman. I like that we're cyclical. The monthly ebb and flow of energies and the different aspects of my character they call on. I can look in the mirror and know I'm ovulating. Or when I'm especially emotionally raw and it draws my attention to what my hormones are currently doing. It's like a constant wave and I like the variety. I also like embodying my femininity and providing that for the men in my life. I've noticed often…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 06:42 AM
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Ah yes, welcome to the club! I've gotten banned from a few subs for literal common sense. Some of the people who moderate reddit do so through the filter their ideologies totally clouding reason. "If you don't think exactly how I do, I'm gonna ban you." Ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWives20/07/21 02:36 AM
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You gotta look at the context of the times your mother grew up in: women *fighting* for equality in the workplace. That's where she's coming from. However, times have changed since she was in her teens and 20s and I think the collective consciousness of women in the western world are returning to a center of sorts. We've gotten a decent foothold in industry more or less and the need to break out of expectations and limits isn't there for you. I had a rocky relationship with my mom growing up but…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 02:30 AM
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Does he not know how to stop before he cums? Pacing? Edging? My knowledge about how medication effects the libido and arousal process is minimal at best so I can't advise to that but if cumming to quickly is the problem, it seems the obvious answer is to just take breaks. Looks up orgasm edging training, that should help.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 01:11 AM
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I have been in the internet for over 20 years. 10 as a moderator on a sex and relationship forum. I've read a lot of crazy shit over the years, I have NEVER read anything close to this. Please nope out of there. Immediately! Get a full STD panel. This is awful and I'm so sorry you're going through this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 04:10 AM
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This is why I never dated anyone I met at my club, I went on ONE date once and I made an exception because he was there for a bachelor party. Otherwise, you're signing up for the type of guy who has this kind of lifestyle and it's nothing I had an interest in. You can broach the subject but you might not get the answer you want, then again, maybe you will. You won't know until you try but you should be prepared to uphold your boundaries and have your plans of action in place so you don't end up …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 11:16 PM
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David Goggins was the first person to pop in my head while reading this. OP, I think you can channel this either way. It can be something you more or less use to alchemize yourself for a greater good or it's something that can rot inside of you. I think Goggins is a great person to look to to figure out how to use this to your advantage and not let it eat you alive. Aristotle conception of virtue ethics is relevant here. You can use Goggins to kind of form an idea of what it look like to be a ma…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 07:08 AM
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My friend is 4'11 and she gets put in the "cute" box a lot. However, she's definitely mastered getting out of it and from what I can tell it's a two punch thing. Her make up and dress. She is very "sultry." It compliments her personality. How she carries herself. I've wondered if there's an overcompensation with how she's developed her personality in response to everyone pushing cute on her all the time and her trying to get out of it, but she can be a very dominant and sarcastic person when she…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/21 05:32 PM
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No way! As long as you have goals and passions and build your life around getting better, aging doesn't have to suck. Youve internalized this idea that youthful beauty is be all end all. If you think that, aging is going to be hard for you. But if you realize that living well and feeling beautiful goes deeper than what marketing will have you believe, you can find a bottomless well of resources that make you feel good about yourself. Don't take away the energy you can focus on things you can con…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 03:49 AM
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Try a pillow wall and separate blankets. Suggest he take melatonin or drink some chamomile tea or something like that before bedtime. If this doesnt work, maybe you need to back up and do two beds in one room. I'm thinking he just needs to be trained.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/20 04:13 AM
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No, I think you choose your soulmate. My parents have a fairytale love story, my dad saw her from across the room and a week later she moved across the country to be with him and theyve been together for almost 40 years. Growing up, this being my parents story REALLY made me a romantic to a detriment. I began to expect my fate to completely flip my life, completely taking for granted the WORK my parents put into creating a home and a life. As a child, they shielded us from any of the challenges …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 08:55 AM
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It depends on what your goals are, if it's balance. You can achieve that. If you want to be great, you need to obsessed. Being great at something usually doesnt coincide with health. Though I do know people who have had the freedom to achieve a balance AFTER they've achieved their larger goals whether it be fitness, business, creativity etc. Balance will keep you inside the main bell curve, which is a fine moderate place to be. Some people will go over the cliff to get out and I think that's coo…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 05:57 AM
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better whip out them stilettos and lingerie. (it's a joke) But seriously, if he's got all these things figured out, I'd look to the areas he can't outsource.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 09:14 PM
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Absolutely, your past experience is a factor. But you're conscious of that which means you can override that programming. It sounds like you have an esteem problem that could be helped if you assumed other women liked you. Id say pick a woman you know who you like/is outgoing/other people like and copy her. Eventually youll assimilate the open mind set into your own interface. We run the gamut between awesome and insufferable. Youll come across those chicks you just dont jive with and you can ch…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 04:21 PM
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Reddit is usually quick with the "break up" button but I agree this time. I've dated guys who objectively didn't have the best naked figure but that hardly mattered because I liked them. When I'm into somebody it transcends cultural aesthetics and becomes about connecting with that person. They, as a whole entire person turn me on, their parts and how they compare is the last thing that would enter my brain. Being negative during sexy time indicates that he's not fully connecting, he's analyzing…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:11 PM
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This sounds like a deal breaker. I can only speak from how I experience the world and sexual chemistry is in top 3 most important things to me and how much I'll compromise in that area is limited. For me, it's a healthy sex life with my partner is a necessary component of my happiness in a relationship and no matter how much I loved or liked the person, I would never be content with this kind of situation. I'm usually one to advise working on things and not break up, but I think you should walk …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 05:18 PM
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Exercising and eating healthy has been my main fountain of youth! I started getting really serious about it in my early 20s and now at 33, the last 10 years of my gym/organic food obsession has paid of tremendously. My physique has only gotten better throughout the years. I remember it was around 27 the incline of my face getting better leveled off. It didn't have to do with my skin as much as my fat distribution changing, I guess. Though I've always looked forward to aging. Two things: 1) You k…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 10:10 PM
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My favorite "lady" on youtube is Jessica Kellgren-Fozard. Her channel is focused on disability but I love her style and her general take approach to how she carries herself.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 11:23 AM
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How you carry yourself influences how others perceive your attractiveness, don't discount this. This is why I don't online date. I would've never ever swiped yes on my ex, he wasn't a conventionally attractive guy but his energy, his humor, his confidence when he spoke, he caught me. And I was googoo gaga over him. After falling for him, I thought he was totally hot! Energy matters. You have to get your focus off what you can't control, like your bone structure, and double down on your strengths…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 03:01 PM
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It's possible he had sexsomnia.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 01:24 PM
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Herbal supplements? Ehhh... I mean I get it, there are medications that kill sex drive but you're kind of missing the point by trying to hack it. Or maybe I'm just old school, but look, celibacy isn't a physical thing, it's a mental thing. For those of us with high libidos, it's just in our nature, it's how we are. You will reclaim your sexuality when you can feel the need for sex but can make the neocortical decision to override that base instinct. And you do that through changing your conceptu…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 12:47 PM
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I havent but thanks for the recommendation. I bought his book for women on kindle (forget the titl and returned it within a few pages, something ive never done. It just wasnt practicslly relating like Superior Man did.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:45 AM
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I was already red pilled at this point, bu Way of the Superior Man by Deida helped clarify and establish some concepts I wasn't sure about. It's written from a man's perspective for men so getting that outside angle of myself as a woman was enlightening and validating!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 07:34 AM
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check out dr dray on youtube, she goes over all this. I doubt you can think of a question she doesn't have a video for.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:58 AM
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If you're really into theory, start with feng shui. It breaks down colors, materials, space, placement. It'a good jumping off point.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 04:36 AM
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If you like Jordan Peterson, check out Camille Paglia. She's great
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/20 08:52 PM
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You're talking 4-14 years older. While the upper end of that can hairy, I don't think that's a terrible age gap. I think it's easier to relate to someone who grew up in a similar time as you, they understand the music, the culture, and went through similar life experience so there's that base of understanding. But age gaps can amended by any couple who want to make it work. 4 years isn't going to make much, if any difference when it comes to this. They say women mature faster than men so a 26 ye…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:51 PM
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Yep. The mod threatened to ban me and I told him to just do it anyway. It's taken me a lot of trial and error in my life to establish the understanding of the world I do and I'm trying to help. If they're going to politicize the whole subreddit to fit in with their personal, mislead beliefs I feel bad for all the young women who go their looking for advice. The type of shit they peddle there is the kind of ideology that gets women raped. Any suggestion of taking responsibility for one's own safe…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:30 PM
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The political leanings of these subs are so disgusting. Ive was banned from the sex subreddit. Another sub full of delusional feminists with dangerous advice. Theres a bit of thought control going on on reddit throught karma and these mods being authorarian. While i dont things trolling should be tolerated, when someone has a different pov and backs it with logical reasoning, they should be able to have a discourse with others who disagree. Reddits enabling this "block anything thats not a comfy…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 08:28 AM
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Hamburgers on cast iron with some steamed veggies takes about 5 minutes Meat sauce over pasta/spaghetti squash. (squash takes way longer but the prep work in minimal) Juevos rancheros Hummus with all kinds of veggies
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 03:01 AM
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I waited to get through the holidays to pull the plug on my last relationship. I think it was the right thing to do. The fact that you're already checked out is going to put a damper on things but it's a better alternative to unleashing full blown break up-heartache at a time that's supposed to happy and fun. I think we should break up with love, especially in these kinds of cases where nobody did anything wrong. Breaking up on birthdays, Valentines Day, graduations, family deaths... it's like, …
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 02:42 AM
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Be curious. For me, interests have popped over the years that have led down research rabbit holes that led to action. From learning formal table settings, calligraphy, sewing, meditation, photography to interpersonal skills, information is free and convenient. You just have to figure out the questions. Be consistent. Forgive yourself when you skip practice or make a mistake and just work on the next drop in the bucket. Some people try to develop a habit and when they miss Day #6, they throw out …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 03:13 AM
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I've been training seriously for 10 years and competed in powerlifting. I actually feel more feminine while training and have become so much more comfortable in my body because of fitness. While I probably have a higher thresh hold for how much muscle I think is feminine and sexy, I don't think a woman can naturally achieve anything close to being masculine. With that being said, it's all about how you carry yourself. I remember some of the girls in soccer when I was a kid gave off way more masc…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 11:31 AM
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I just came across this subreddit the other day and all I gotta say is ooooof.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 08:52 PM
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I can only speak for myself but cheating is not on my repertoire. I have, in the past, been in a relationship when some stranger comes along i feel chemistry with. I limit my interaction with them as much as possible. In respecting my relationship, i respect myself. Me and mine are a unit and we take on the world together. Disrespect in the form of cheating creates cracks and why would i purposefully sabotage the vessel ive worked so hard to build?
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 09:09 AM
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When men say this, they mean it. Hanging on is just going to prolong you moving on. It's better to just convey that you respect his honesty and cut ties. He may orbit back around, he may not but in the meantime protect your sanity and keep it movin'.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 01:44 AM
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Agree! I asked out a guy one time and it was a no and I'll never do that again. Men who are interested will pursue. In a situation where you see them often, just being nice is usually enough to encourage them. The shy ones may take a little more coaxing as far as how obvious you are with you "hints" but if they like you, they will go after you. I tried telling myself I was just intimidating/ he's just introverted blah blah blah. At the end of the day, you don't want to be with a guy if he's inti…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 02:23 AM
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I agree with what's already been said. I've never been in this situation but if some guy I was talking to asked for them I'd respond with "absolutely not" to drive home that it's a hard no. I have no qualms with sending sexy pictures in the confines of a relationship but it's always been a spontaneous choice on my end. A pleasant surprise while they're at work or something and I'm in a mischievous mood. The idea of a stranger more or less asking me for naked pictures of myself makes me wildly un…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 10:23 PM
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I think there is a version of red pill that's not so extreme. It'd be more along the lines of the way this forum interprets it, but for men. Most of the guys in my life are red pill (because of me) and the effect it had on them was validation that they deserve respect. None of them have take it to the extreme of not wanting marriage or being skeptical of every woman, it's just they set there boundaries a bit more firmly. I love my brothers and my friends and women get abusive, I red pilled them …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 10:08 PM
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Do you guys talk to each other about your lives? If so, wait for him to bring it up. If not, start reaching out to him with general life stuff and let him come to you. Red pill ideas are best absorbed when the person is looking for answers. If you just start spouting your opinion he's going to shut you down. Wait until he comes with a problem, if he has no problems, leave him alone. My brother is also a giver and I see how he is with his girlfriend and it freaks me out she will take advantage of…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 11:13 AM
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I think hes suggesting your man should kind of command femininity from you. Mehh, at your age, you guys are still figuring that out. It would be ideal, it does make it easier to learn if you put yourself around a super alpha kinda guy.. Youre so ahead of the game to figure this out so young! So kudos on that. I also had masculine leanings when i was younger, the moment you identify it and prioritize developing your feminity, you will. Its all about awareness. Let men be manly to you, soften to t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/19 08:38 AM
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Hobbe's Social Contract theory suggests we're moral for self-interested reasons. Kant's ethics are also along the lines of "do what you you'd want to be done to you."He really rallied for universalizability in morality, basically don't do something unless that's what you'd want to have done ALL the time. Morality is circumstantial, there's just too many variables to take into account. So it exists so far as you have a desire to be a functional part of society and reap the benefits of living in a…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:24 AM
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No you can't ignore this type of behavior as a teacher. You are in a superior position. I would say go over some possible scenarios and work out some pre thought responses so you avoid saying something that's inappropriate. Kids can smell lack of authority in authority figures and will exploit it. If you want to be a teacher eventually in this age group, this is a weakness for you to work on. I'm not a teacher so take this with a grain a salt. I think I would've looked directly at whoever said i…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:16 PM
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No specific videos, it was how his general message unfolded for me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 12:37 AM
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Jordan Peterson helped me tremendously. Though there was a series of life events that forced me to step back and look at my priorities and my take on life in general. I came across him because I was looking. I had a "dark night of the soul" where I just kind of tore down everything about who I thought I was and what I wanted and tried to reconstruct it. Have you read "Way of the Superior Man" by Deida? If not, I'd highly suggest it. For both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 11:09 PM
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