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metallicirony/r/seduction03/10/10 07:17 AM
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5'5 with a girl who is super smart, passionate, funny, beautiful and 6'2...and before I got with her I did not believe I could be with a girl like her. This was/is my strategy. Facts I know: Pointless to compete on superficial attraction, height is too much of a dealbreaker Pointless to try to find chicks at places that operate based on superficial attraction e.g. clubs, see above Pointless to go after chicks who care about superficial aspects that I cannot change r.g. height, race, looks etc Ac…
/r/seduction20/09/14 07:02 PM
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I'm gonna take a slightly different tack on the approach. 1) make yourself genuinely "in the league" Do your best in whatever you are dping be it studies or career. Be proud of doing a great job, always learn, always challenge yourself to do better. As you do that you will naturally gain confidence because you genuinely earned it. This confidence will exude throughout all your interactions, girls or not makes no difference. It will energize all your interactions in the same way. You can talk to …
/r/seduction23/11/13 07:46 PM
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Since the overall post karma is negative, I just want to vocally support wholeheartedly the mod decision.
/r/seduction19/06/13 01:25 PM
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If you get used to paying for sex, you gonna find when you have to do pickup without the paying part of the equation you will be severely handicapped.
/r/seduction31/08/12 11:54 AM
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Damn if you do, damned if you don't... If you took the blue pill - you would believe in fairy tales but you wouldn't be able to live it. Now you took the red pill - you live the fairy tale, it just wasn't what you imagined it to be... But I think the red pill has one nice side effect: You get to write your fairy tale. And that makes it a tad more powerful than the blue pill.
/r/seduction31/08/12 02:50 AM
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You'd be surprised how well slightly neglecting a gf or even heavily neglecting her works in some cases, in this case I suggested slightly. This projects security in your position, rather than becoming too possessive or protective. It might work better to combine the slight neglect with increased intimacy, such as pda or even making out in public, creating more extremes between the hot and cold and raising the excitement in the relationship. Many a times relationships breakdown not from argument…
/r/seduction26/08/12 02:56 PM
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TaiChi bro - whenever he pulls for her, push her to him (not literally). The next time he gives some stupid indication that he wants her, try something like, with a huge laugh, like laughing your ass off kind of laugh: "AHAHAHA if she wants a guy like you, you can totally have her man!!" Throw it out like a joke, force him to laugh with everyone or risk being the one that everyone laughts at. If he doesn't take it well, take his case like it's a joke, "You got a problem bro? Can't take a joke?" …
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:02 AM
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You should've just left the posts up, tell them the truth, the proceed to joke about it like its nit a big deal. Because if you're alpha enough, your aura will drown out whatever shit your friend did, just the style of you telling them the truth would drown out any impct of your friend hijacking your account. Heck even a one liner beneath the comments te joker posted, like "AND..... that is why Natty Natt Cock is a lame excuse for a friend." You could even neg her instead, by replying below the …
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:43 AM
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Moral of the story: Don't count your chicks before they hatch...
/r/seduction02/05/12 02:46 PM
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Dude, get over it. If you keep this up you will make her hate you.
/r/seduction05/03/12 02:31 PM
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DAMN. Some might call it a lightbulb moment. For me it was more like a nuclear explosion in my brain, like MAN why didn't I see it. The wave of realization is blinding. Hopefully final question: Is this the only way? I can see that even you struggle with the manipulative aspect of things, I currently hold the following ethical framework: First, try a moral/ethical/do the right thing approach. If it doesn't work, then it is perfectly justified to use a realpolitic/utilitarian approach without any…
/r/seduction19/01/12 07:39 AM
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At which stage of the interaction does it make it okay to go from the SCUBA & exciting activities part to the sob story (e.g. Tiffany etc) part? And thank you for the answer - it really helps to know how to get from absolute zero to where we hope to be, often the hardest steps are the first few.
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:03 PM
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I was a shy, bookish, quiet nerd who loved games and computers. That changed Do you still consider yourself a nerd who loves games and computers? Or you changed interests etc as well? If yes, what interests do you pursue nowadays?
/r/seduction18/01/12 04:08 AM
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I would be curious about the effect of going the other extreme in style: business suit, or at least long sleeves, nice pants and shoes etc.
/r/seduction28/11/11 01:48 AM
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What you've done is: You've found a huge big box, you took a big black marker and wrote "I Suck At This" on the box, and you stepped into the box. As with anything else in life, hard work leads to success. The first step is to step out of the box, you may not be good at this shit now, but thats only because you haven't started trying. Believe this. Then go out and start trying, and as try you're learning, and just like with anything else you're bound to fuck up here and there, that's normal, but…
/r/seduction28/08/11 02:58 PM
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"Well I'm short and you're ugly so we just need to find a fatty and we can have a party!"
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:17 AM
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I need a fucking electrozapper that zaps me every alphabet I type after 3 sentences and 2 zaps for every fucking smiley!
/r/seduction30/07/11 04:30 PM
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Let him finish his story and respond to it appropriately, if you're bored saunter of and do something else, don't be a cockblock.
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:01 PM
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Don't beat yourself up man, Chinese has a saying "As long as the green mountain still exist, never fear running out of firewood." It's just like saying as long as you are still alive, there is still a chance to turn things around. Seriously, if you're doing something challenging and worth doing, you're bound to encounter failures big and small along the way, the only path that is smooth and easy is a path that everyone else has taken before, and wheres the fun in that? If you are so inclined, wh…
/r/seduction04/06/11 12:06 AM
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No man, fuck YOU. As a guy who will never ever be what he thought he could be Are you dead yet? I take it you're not. So what the fuck are you waiting for? Life is a marathon and the winner is the last person to stop running. As a guy who just flunked out of his masters program. So what? If you flunked because you didn't try hard enough, then fuck you, go do it again and try hard enough this time. If you flunked out because it was the wrong field for you, then bless you, get your shit together, …
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:22 AM
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What is life if you've never crashed and burnt? But if you can maintain YOUR frame, and not let your obsession with her CONSUME you, if you can BE YOURSELF, the flames of passion may not necessarily end in a disastrous conflagaration.
/r/seduction27/05/11 02:17 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20 man, and I was just relating a humorous scenario, any resemblance to reality is coincidental and unintentional blablabla............
/r/seduction26/05/11 03:59 PM
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Failure Mode Analysis: Guy: "I'm so happy we're just friends." Girl: "Me too!" Guy: FUUUU.....
/r/seduction26/05/11 01:34 AM
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Android - 2 Player Reactor Excellent excuse to neg and chat up chicks
/r/seduction15/05/11 04:59 PM
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Vocalize MUAHAHAHAHA as you do it
/r/seduction09/04/11 03:04 PM
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To play or not to play...it depends on whether she is worth playing for...I completely understand your feelings. When I had to make this choice, I chose to break up simply because I felt, if after all that I had said and done, I had to resort to these stupid games to win her, I'd be better of finding someone who knew how to appreciate what she had without these games. I mean, using these games to PICK UP and GET TO KNOW a girl and get her interested is one thing, but if in a relationship for so …
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:35 PM
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This is one of the classic problems of the guy girl communication divide. Generally, if it comes to this point, most likely to her, she has been subtly hinting, obviously hinting, and giving all kinds of signals and getting very frustrated and finally she bursts and verbalizes "you don't fucking care." To the guy(which is very likely you): How are you baby? "Fine." Are you okay? "Yeah."Anything wrong baby? "Nothing." Then you go whoohoo yoohoo ding dong that's great! Back to XBox! And then BAM, …
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:01 PM
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I've been in your situation before, and honestly, I think there is a slim chance of saving it, its probably too late. BUT, a slim chance is still a chance: First, don't be as what is commonly known here, "beta". Beta means begging her, treating her good, loving her well and shit, you can save that for when she is back to passionately ravagingly wanting you. Now, the best thing you can do, is first, get her to realize that she wants you. How? Go hang out with your friends, if you can get a health…
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:49 PM
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Smooth and clinical, awesome.
/r/seduction24/03/11 02:37 PM
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buy her the ticket as though its something you always do without giving a second thought to, and just go enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:06 AM
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I think number 3 is the most important. When you choose date activities that YOU enjoy, you filter OUT the kind of girls you don't want and leave yourself with only the kind of girls you would enjoy being with, which also means its more likely they would enjoy being with you thanks to shared interests blablabla virtous cycle blabla road to success.
/r/seduction28/01/11 09:54 AM
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In fact I think you're damn right. I can understand his thoughts, yet we must put on a completely different show in order to capture the prey. Interesting indeed.
/r/seduction21/01/11 03:21 PM
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I'd try, "Take a guess and see" with a nice smile if I would and some other stupid answer if I wouldn't.
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:45 AM
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Yeah so go all in man, you look good to go, all the best!
/r/seduction25/12/10 04:40 PM
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Yeah if I were you I'd be optimistic about the kissing in bed, I was just throwing in a possible reason why she didn't go for it at the coffee place. Good luck with it bro =)
/r/seduction25/12/10 07:17 AM
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Yeah if I were you I'd be optimistic about the kissing in bed, I was just throwing in a possible reason why she didn't go for it at the coffee place. Good luck with it bro =)
/r/seduction25/12/10 07:15 AM
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Yeah man that is absolutely what you should do. Smoothly escalate though, looks like your coffee place actions was a bit sudden, and also she might not be a big fan of public kisses. Smoothly escalate man.
/r/seduction25/12/10 06:45 AM
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i think sarging your gf is great, what better way to refresh a relationship then to literally refresh it...especially since its with the gf, she'd probably be pleasantly surprised.
/r/seduction13/12/10 07:06 AM
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I mean, just one of many ways. The usual criticisms (more quantity than quality) are still very valid, but whats the harm in trying one more avenue eh?
/r/seduction02/11/10 12:26 PM
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Try putting up a profile on OKCupid, I'm not kidding. You mentioned wanting to find a particular kind of girl, one of the ways to do that is to go to places where you can advertise very clearly what kind of girl you are looking for.
/r/seduction02/11/10 07:42 AM
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Take it easy man...worst comes to worst you go out and find another one. Else you get a message later. Either way, you're not in too bad a shape, don't beat yourself up.
/r/seduction01/11/10 02:14 PM
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I find it easier to approach these kind of girls because they generally aren't surrounded by huge amount of people, which makes it possible to sit next to them, and start of with some simple chat about the class and stuff and then gradually expanding the topics and seeing how it goes from there.
/r/seduction01/11/10 10:38 AM
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Meh. meh. meh. FUCK YEA. My new motto.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:51 AM
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I stand on exactly the same spot as you on this matter.
/r/seduction26/10/10 07:24 AM
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Forgot about meetup.com, thanks for the reminder!
/r/seduction26/10/10 12:35 AM
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What is the fucking problem here? Edit: Okay, maybe I am a bit sour. But seriously, what is the problem here? If you don't want her around, then just tell her nicely to get away. If you like her but want your space, then why not try something like: "Hey dear, I totally love spending time with you but I'm damn caught up with stuff, how about we hang out on XXXXX(time and place up to you)" and maybe the next time you meet up spend some time talking to her so that she can understand you better. On …
/r/seduction25/10/10 02:34 PM
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Any suggestions on where to hang out for a teetotaler?
/r/seduction25/10/10 01:05 PM
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No wonder he hasn't made a move...most asian guys just write themselves off on approaching a white girl out of the blue, plus it isn't a common part of the culture. I think you could just stand or sit close to him sometime and say hi and see how things go from there =)
/r/seduction07/10/10 05:22 AM
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I think its a nice touch. I guess you could do it in a way that just oozes self confidence, like, if you chat and she talks about games or macs or whatever you could just slip it in like "Oh I have a free version of Solitaire for Mac, I'll pass it to you sometime" or something to that effect, then if you set up a date it would just be nice to pass it to her like an "Oh ya before I forget" thing. =)
/r/seduction06/10/10 01:33 PM
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Mm...the truth is girls don't get turned on if sex is too explicitly wanted...I read somewhere that for a guy foreplay starts at taking off clothes, but for a girl foreplay starts first thing in the morning when you give her a hug when she wakes up...or go shopping with her and goes on the whole day until it ends up in the bedroom kinda thing..and my own experience correlates that. It seems that you might have better results doing the small things right throughout the day than trying to create s…
/r/seduction06/10/10 11:09 AM
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I think it sounds like you're doing great =) seriously, if a guy is interested in you, it doesn't take ANYTHING to keep the edge apart from you just literally doing whatever you feel like doing and saying whatever you feel like saying and just overall being yourself =)
/r/seduction05/10/10 04:31 PM
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If a guy is like any other guy I know, he'd be on edge whatever you do if he's interested in you, so part 1 is settled without any further ado. You can show him you're interested by replying to his text messages with anything more than 2 words and agreeing to dates. If you really want to do the keeping him on edge thing then you could do something like, "I'm quite busy with blablabla but happens to be I'm free on that particular night" so you can seem like you have something better to do but you…
/r/seduction05/10/10 01:25 PM
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Hahaha, especially the first paragraph. Oh well, I am seriously considering joining this clique, it does sound like fun =p
/r/seduction04/10/10 06:07 PM
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You do have a good point, but love bro, for the sake of love... Just brainstorming for ideas man =) If it was so easy, I wouldn't need to ask the collective genius of Reddit would I?
/r/seduction04/10/10 04:15 PM
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I did =) she told me she doesn't see us being together because we're too close, it's like FZ doesn't mean Friend Zone, it means Family Zone...we're so close that we can joke about it while she's telling me it won't work...it's crazy haha. It may seem so but I'm not really desperate to be in any relationship, but I haven't found anyone else I can connect with on the same level, hence I just thought, might as well try, even as I continue to look for other potentials.
/r/seduction04/10/10 12:08 AM
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Probably should've picked something more happening than taichi when I had the chance eh? LOL Good advice all of that, will look more seriously for a suitable club. Thank you!
/r/seduction03/10/10 04:39 PM
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We're even closer than that...to the point where we can actually talk about it yet not be awkward about it. I do think you're right, I really wouldn't bet on it, but I figured no harm asking for ideas. On a side but related note, if you don't drink, where to go to find girls with decent intellectual depth/some deeper level conversations? (Extra appreciation for an asian context where picking up chicks is less direct)
/r/seduction03/10/10 04:31 PM
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Thank you, mind level +1.
/r/seduction03/10/10 04:26 PM
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Well well I am looking, but for now no options on the horizon. Might as well try whatever I can, in a way, worst comes to worst I'll just use this as a practice session.
/r/seduction03/10/10 04:20 PM
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Tell you my sad story...I was (and am) very close with this girl, but I was in a relationship for the past 6 years, so couldn't escalate. I did escalate as much as I could without becoming a douche, which might not have been a good thing because now I'm like so fucking deep in the Friendzone even the sunlight doesn't reach me...anybody see a way of escalating this? To make matters worse, she's friggin oceans away from me. We do keep in touch regularly and are quite close, but yeah, still in FZ t…
/r/seduction03/10/10 02:00 PM
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I took a swing dance class back in high school, so I tell her I'm a pro and up for it. Turns out she is some sort of professional swing dancer and president of the swing dancing association of the universe or something along those lines. DHV Fail, SARGE Success, Congrats!
/r/seduction03/10/10 09:09 AM
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What if at the time you met you weren't sure about escalating it just yet, and after a while of knowing the girl you're like oh shit I like this girl, is there any solution to that?
/r/seduction03/10/10 06:14 AM
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Getting fit is a big deal. Another is being comfortable with yourself, this one is not easy. I think true confidence comes when you have sufficient depth in terms of general knowledge and stuff like that to know that you can hold your own. But I don't know, I'm confident, but its not that easy to get a girl either. No excuses, I will try harder.
/r/seduction28/09/10 11:03 AM
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Good point, I'll work on it. Though I'm not enough of an asshole to abuse a perfectly good dating site, but I still get your point about reaching out to as many as possible.
/r/seduction24/09/10 08:21 AM
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Yeah, that's exactly what I was looking for: Suggestions for other 7 + 2 things =) I've made a short list, and I'd like it to be longer.
/r/seduction24/09/10 01:53 AM
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I wouldn't deny that, and I have excellent self control in everything except this issue. Any trainer wheels? I wish I was a kind of guy who really didn't give too much of a fuck about girls, then all these wouldn't even need discussing.
/r/seduction24/09/10 01:20 AM
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Can somebody post some tips on what to do when you feel like doing something stupid (ie message the girl or something), what to do to keep your mind off stupid things like that for the 3 days or so of ideal refractory period =) Or how do you cope with the inevitable aww I wish I could message her feeling. Sheer cold turkey self control is just pure torture, right?
/r/seduction24/09/10 12:40 AM
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You do make a valid point, I would definitely try to avoid bringing jerks along first and foremost, as you suggest.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:01 AM
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I think the second guy would have made a good showing if he stood up for himself against the first guy. Something like, "Hey bro, shut the fuck up, I'm talking to a chick here man." would've reflected supreme confidence and maybe even stripped the so called alpha of his status.
/r/seduction21/09/10 01:56 AM
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