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| 1 | This greatly increased my value on hingeThe majority of the really soulful and appealing women that I've met in my life and remembered fondly were ones that I met while I was doing something completely non girl chasing related. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | How often do you get the excuse " I have a boyfriend "?I would also much rather date the funny girl with interesting creative hobbies than a dumb bleach blonde girl in the South whose sole interests are "shopping and college football". Just saying, I think the grass is always greener on the other side. The shopping addicted dummy (which characterizes my ex girlfriend) is probably going to spend all of your money. I doubt that society is healthier in the Red States just because they vote Republican and occasionally go to church, if you're looking at … | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:31 AM |
| -5 | For women romance is a phenomenon. For men it's well planned out workFuck going for coffee dates, meet up with them at night and get a couple drinks in them. I’m not going to sit across from some skank and try and make conversation with her with the goal of trying to get a second date. If you are so booked up that you have to slot some chicks into a daytime meeting then fine but don’t aim for it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or is 2021 and 2022 harder to pick up women than before?Age isn't a problem unless you are truthful about it. That'd be pretty stupid though IMO The problem is hair and/or skin. Improve those, lie about your age, and your results will improve with that age group | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 8 | When I'm with girls 1-on-1 at parties, what do I talk about ?Your Funko Pop collection! | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 06:55 PM |
| 16 | The number of incels in this sub is outstanding (you are the reason for your own failure) + common questions answeredThe problem for getting laid in the west easily takes manipulation and dealing with girls with horrible personalities. After living in South America and dealing with girls who have personalities I like the most in the world I just can't bring myself to dating when I'm back in the US. I don't believe the whole "keep your game sharp" logic. The game you use in the US will not work on girls outside of western countries. The game you use in non western countries (really just knowing the culture and … | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?Pussy isn’t worth going broke over and thanks to feminism, it’s as cheap and plentiful as its ever been. When you learn and utilize game, you’ll realize you can get plenty of it without going bankrupt trying to impress females with depreciating status symbols. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Loners, where did you go to make new friends?I've actually found my standards have changed upward as I've crested 30. If she is around my age, I won't even bother gaming or putting forth any effort unless she is at my level of attractiveness....which rules out 80% of Western women. It's tough (and humbling) when you have to go backward in quality to get bangs. Concur though that significantly younger women get some latitude in the looks department as compared to same-aged women | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 11:37 PM |
| -1 | Girl initiates conversations but takes hours/days to replyI've actually found my standards have changed upward as I've crested 30. If she is around my age, I won't even bother gaming or putting forth any effort unless she is at my level of attractiveness....which rules out 80% of Western women. It's tough (and humbling) when you have to go backward in quality to get bangs. Concur though that significantly younger women get some latitude in the looks department as compared to same-aged women | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How To Have ELECTRIC Conversations That Excite WomenPersonally, when I have been so broke that I could not pay attention and having awesome sex with a pleasing female there was a feeling of, “is this all that there is?” | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menI’m sure you still are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:16 PM |
| -1 | Attract Women By Being Yourself (Not What You Think)No matter where you run your game, you will fail more than succeed. This is your learning instrument. Study your moves, make adjustments, and get our there again. I guarantee it is more exciting than whatever else you are doing. As a mid 30’s guy still attracted and goin for girls at prime college age ranges 21-23. It’s just hard not to turn your backs against them since their late 30’s counterparts can’t seem to compare. There will be a string of rejections, blow offs and just plain ol’ rudenes… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clubI don’t understand it because I get laid with decent quality and I’m a short, hairy average looking alcoholic with a drug problem and all these dudes who are into game and self improvement seem to be struggling, it boggles my mind. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Let's build a team of wingmen on the San Francisco Peninsula in Burlingame, CAI don’t understand it because I get laid with decent quality and I’m a short, hairy average looking alcoholic with a drug problem and all these dudes who are into game and self improvement seem to be struggling, it boggles my mind. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Outcome independence around People who aren'tA girl being hot doesn't make her top tier though. It just makes her hot. The girls I consider top tier in America (beautiful, not promiscuous, no smoking, no drinking, no drugs, no tattoos, family oriented, high emotional IQ, kind, grateful, doesn't spend time creating instagram thirst trap shots, secure in her femininity, happy by default, forgiving, etc.) are hard to find for most guys, let alone date. They're hard to find abroad too, but less so in some countries. Substantially less so in so… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Are raves/techno clubs/festivals good places to pick up women?Raver girls were my bread and butter for years, absolute depravity but holy shit was it ever a good time. If you're going to a rave and getting upset about the filth then just stay home and drink tea. the more degenerate the better, i like to have fun at raves, and have had my fare share in germany and eastern europe as well as the US, like proper underground ones not mass market mass consumption "ultra" type shit. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Being upfront and owning your insecuritiesWhen it comes to pussy, however, it seems many men just have a natural instinct to cockblock and white knight. Even the bartenders will cockblock you over a girl they don't even know! | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you show interest without looking thirsty after the first date?Since men are getting less and less confident, and more cautious around women, you will see more good looking men with ugly women in the future. Guys will think it is pointless to click on "high value" women on tinder since these women won't respond. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Let's build a team of wingmen on the San Francisco Peninsula in Burlingame, CAHow much is the monthly subscription? lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Ever lose interest in a girl who shows signs of being easy? Before sex.Really visible Stretch marks and saggy skin bothers me for some reason. I’m a fan of smooth flawless skin on legs etc. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Stop being boring?If you ever find yourself wondering if your girl is sleeping with someone else, she is. You can thank me later. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | It's not possible to get 10s-100s of girls unless you're a celebrity or do HARDCORE pickup (or become a pornstar)Such women are often aware on some level of how broken they are and will try circumvent a man’s rational analysis of them by throwing their pussy at the guy, getting him pussy drunk and incapable of looking at the long term with her. Basically she sets a pussy trap. These women are broken in the way that a broken crystal vase is broken. No matter how well you try and put it back together, it will not be the same, will always have and show its faults and will always be more likely to break again … | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys with foreign accent here in the US, do you find it very difficult to talk to women, especially around others? I feel it makes you sound like a creep right away.Not unless you’re Indian lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic?Rule #1: never take a girl you haven’t banged yet to lunch/dinner. It’s an awkward date, makes you look newbie-ish, and is a surefire way to get friend zoned. Women place men in one of two categories: lover or provider. Buying a girl a fancy dinner immediately puts you in the provider role. Provider role = no pussy. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:36 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Dates that are good for people who can’t spend a ton of money?Most quality women, especially if you are meeting them onlineor in slower daytime/nonalcoholic environments with non-aggressive approach, will make you work a little bit before they let you get at their pussy. Unless they are purely in "party/slut mode" and/or instantly receptive to your touching, many women will have a specific criteria of how many dates are required for their panties to come off. Sometimes, there's not a lot you can do to get them to have sex with you if they have ALREADY made… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?I've gone on blind dates and dates with girls I met online who claim to be "athletic" or "fit" when in reality they're 30+ lbs overweight. They cling to the glory days like a washed up former high school quarterback, it's sad really. Best to put these in their place so they can move on. This is a classic example of delusional women who's standards exceed their attractiveness. You can thank feminism and the "BBW porn" movement. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Ever lose interest in a girl who shows signs of being easy? Before sex.I've gone on blind dates and dates with girls I met online who claim to be "athletic" or "fit" when in reality they're 30+ lbs overweight. They cling to the glory days like a washed up former high school quarterback, it's sad really. Best to put these in their place so they can move on. This is a classic example of delusional women who's standards exceed their attractiveness. You can thank feminism and the "BBW porn" movement. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:40 AM |
| -1 | How to talk to women without being some kind of fuckboy?I've tried everything from skinny to fat to chubby ... I decided never to fuck a fat chick again not because they're fat but because most of them think it's perfectly normal to be fat and be able to score a guy like me. That's all. I've run accross a few of these heavy women. Their denial of what they actually offer is shocking to me. It's such a shame that things have been allowed to get this far. People are now frequently being attacked for being 'shallow' because they're not attracted to an o… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:40 AM |
| -8 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?What's worse - fat girls or ugly girls having standards? Everybody have standards... But ugly people with standtards tends to be less respected. the obvious answer is that the ugly girls with standards are worse because fat women can lose weight. Both are unrealistic, and I'd rather spend effort with women in touch with reality. Even just for a bang. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Mini (?) Guide to Natural Game: BECOME THE BEAST!When they feel that i am not very interested , and i am not falling "in love" with them- they start to hate me, because their "trump card" is powerless. I think, that i should play more blue pilled guy. Like one friend of mine do- he is very good looking, but he plays a total nice guy with 7s, and it works on them. On the other hand- it is very dishonest behavior. Younger girls are different, because they feel my strong interest. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Today I knew that the problem is my social anxiety and my shyness.I want to retire from a player lifestyle. It's getting to me and it's getting to me bad. I am just not that excited to fuck new girls anymore. I'm just not. I see a thick bitch with a bad attitude and I pass. I see a pretty girl with a whatever attitude and I pass. I'm not that interested anymore in banging random girls. And I'm not saying I'm fucking 8-9-10s all the time, I'm not. I'm fucking 6-7s on rotation and it just doesnt phase me anymore. I guess I could be fucking hotter girls, I know t… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story?Here it is. The real question is, at this point, is online even as a supplement worth anything? It is a serious question. I think in other countries with a niche crowd (family oriented, feminine, your look or type, etc.) it could be. I think mostly now, though, we know the goods are all out in the "real world" and pretty much assign a value via some sort of social circle. Even from its onset, online was always a short term prospect. The problem is that beyond 2014, you couldn't really get good l… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:23 PM |
| -2 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?Being “white” and tall.. lol I’m not either but I noticed some of my friends, they have it on easy mode when they hit on girls. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 3 | As a white 31 male, how would I hit on the older Asian cashier(40-50) at the convenience store. She is not married and likely single so I'd like to shoot my shotHaving that type of outcome independence should be the goal for any man. I can say that even after 5 years of being actively in the game, despite how many women I've approached and slept with, a streak of blowouts like that can be disheartening. Not in a "I never want to talk to another woman ever again" type of way... just in a way that makes me at least somewhat question myself. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.A lot of those bloggers I followed have somewhat stopped posting game stuff. Or some have converted their blog into pay to read membership type which infuriates me coz a lot of the things in that forum are fun to read and has been helpful information. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.I’m not sociable and I don’t have friends I roll with regularly when I go out. I see the homies maybe once or twice a year but we don’t do much aside from chilling and talking about good times. That’s about how my social circle goes. These whole social proof seems kinda phony. I bet those groups of guys who do it together at clubs or any massive gathering like in concerts or conventions aren’t really close at all in real life. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How to get more dates from dating apps?You missed the boat bro. The glory days of tinder, PoF, OKC, Bumble etc are over and it peaked around ‘15-17 for me when they keep changing the rules that favor mostly the women. That change to swipe mode and pay to play system didn’t helped at all and you still see the same obvious bots with fake profiles. Someone needs to design & make a new app since the main big ones are already slumped with so many online serial daters, bots and scammers. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:04 PM |
| -2 | how to get out of bro zone? (f)Maybe you’re just not that sexually attractive to them? | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women.It can be pretty random indeed. I have smashed girls I would not want to be seen in public with, but somehow they got my dick rock hard and they unleashed something primal in me. There was this girl who was so ugly I actually felt sorry for her. It's like someone bashed in her face with a rock upon birth and then put it into a meat grinder to finish off the job. But she had this tight little body to which my dick just said "yep". I have also had the opposite happen where the girl is hot but I li… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:56 PM |
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