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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedI'd leave you on read and answer you in the morning | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:19 PM |
| -4 | You don't owe girls friendship or attentionYes. And what woman would seriously want to have sex with a man who doesn't actually like her enough as a person to just be her friend? | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | You don't owe girls friendship or attentionYes | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Would most older men hook up with a younger woman if they could red pilled or not?I am not attracted to men that young, period. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?yeah, but i think this is growing for both genders. older women are still attractive, and they are much more assertive and difficult to take advantage of than younger women in a lot of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?my mom chose to make her entire life about being a mom, but most older women aren't like that unless they're stay at home moms. my mother's mom, my grandma, was never primarily a mother. she worked out of the home and to this day is very social with a wide circle of friends, and cares about her appearance. she doesn't even want to do a video call if she doesn't have her makeup and hair done lol. so in other words, this isn't some magic process that happens to women, especially women who never ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Would You Make The Trade?why would you rather be a woman UNDER over 35 and a man over it? what changes at age 35? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | 50 Cent says cancel culture's biggest target is straight men: 'There's no organization' to back up heterosexual malesBut... Ellen DeGeneres got cancelled | /r/MensRights | 28/08/20 07:36 PM |
| -4 | Finally ready to settle down at 42yrs? Well it's still not too late. Well step right up gents. This princess is a deal of a lifetime!Maybe focus on women willing to chase you if that's what you're into | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 12:57 AM |
| -5 | Finally ready to settle down at 42yrs? Well it's still not too late. Well step right up gents. This princess is a deal of a lifetime!You sound like you're expecting something from this woman, and you're mad it's not forthcoming, but ironically you're angry she's expecting something from someone. Most of her hobbies do not sound expensive either. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 12:49 AM |
| -5 | Finally ready to settle down at 42yrs? Well it's still not too late. Well step right up gents. This princess is a deal of a lifetime!What payout are you looking for? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 19 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?My pussy stinks and who knows where it's been, so I can't expect him to put his mouth on it but his bare dick is just fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 0 | She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend”Why is everyone assuming this woman is coming over to this guys house to have sex? | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Men cannot outsmart women in seduction (and shouldn't)No they should. I only get turned on when they manage to honestly. I see outsmart as being a confident self aware guy with some playful flirting though | /r/seduction | 10/06/20 02:36 AM |
| 5 | 6 Rules To Get The DateBad advice. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How To Get Women Who Friend Zoned You To Want To Sleep With YouTerrible advice | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Pussy is power but so is knowledgegreat post. "Pussy is power but so is knowledge" ... and nothing beats knowledge of your own pussy 😌👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Woman gets called “nothing but a mouth to use and abuse” by her fiancé and “ideally doesn’t want to be told to break up with him”This is the most ridiculous penis centric argument I've ever heard, going in circles, and I would never, ever, entertain this madness. How do you even care what a man like this wants? Hes a vindictive child whos had his cock sucked WAY MORE than he deserves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:16 PM |
| 32 | In your opinion, what does healthy male expression of their sexuality look like?It helps to remember that the point of sex is feelings and expressing oneself confidently in a safe space that is accepted by the other(s). The point is to maximize pleasure and feeling safe, attractive, empowered, heard, and turned on for everyone involved. It's not about what people look like, or narrowing it down to what stimulated body parts look like. I think guys get too into visual aspects of sex because they are deprived of sexual experience that can give them a more whole experience ear… | /r/askFDS | 12/04/20 06:37 AM |
| 51 | How to detach yourself from male validation?Ok riddle me this - what do you get out of male validation? I find it to be a cheap resource because it USUALLY is only given for sexist reasons most of the time. Therefore, receiving it is often the same as being insulted. Maybe it would help to remind yourself of that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:10 AM |
| 15 | Reminder to not do hookups because it just isn’t fucking worth itTrue. It kills me to see how women think that if they're attractive, they'll be loved. It isnt true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:08 AM |
| 9 | We made it on the "controversial Reddit communities " Wiki page!This is not an accurate description | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | For those who have a track record of unhealthy relationships, what kept you in those relationships? And what would you do differently now, having learned more about FDS?I have a history of bad relationships that seem to stem from thinking I have to give men chances because when I look around, the majority of them seem to have bad style and there's nothing all that alluring about any of them, then you consider what the men of the world offer women as a group sexually, and its mostly nothing or abuse and harassment. there is no feeling of 'wow, i'm so glad i'm on earth with men, because so many of them are sexy and satisfying.' all of this made me think that I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Guy abused his girlfriend who went on to be abused while he found a girlfriend who treats him with respect. Now, years later, hes looking for pity on reddit for his guilt, now that hes in isolation and cant be in denial about his hideously self centered "consciousness": Let him have it ladiesYep, and that's literally abuse as well Dear mods: I'd like to say sorry about brigading, but I dont see it in the rules. I saw another cross post being like "look at this situation" and thought it was ok. The difference is I invited others to troll his post and the post I saw was not advising that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:03 PM |
| 13 | Guy abused his girlfriend who went on to be abused while he found a girlfriend who treats him with respect. Now, years later, hes looking for pity on reddit for his guilt, now that hes in isolation and cant be in denial about his hideously self centered "consciousness": Let him have it ladiesHes asking other abusers if apologizing made THEM feel better about causing abuse. Like what does that say right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 27 | Guy abused his girlfriend who went on to be abused while he found a girlfriend who treats him with respect. Now, years later, hes looking for pity on reddit for his guilt, now that hes in isolation and cant be in denial about his hideously self centered "consciousness": Let him have it ladiesYep. Woman has emotional distress from life and shit man = probably guiltily hiding infidelity. Infamous illogical "equation" that needs to be crushed like patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:06 PM |
| 27 | I feel so bad for women like thisYep. Modern dating advice for women. Also sprinkle in some expectations that we anticipate his dreams and consider taking on the role of psycho analyzing his childhood and its impact on the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 22 | I feel so bad for women like thisI went OFF on that post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:25 PM |
| 17 | Had to make thisHahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Had to make thisLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 35 | This has got to be a joke. Who in their right mind is waiting 18 damn years for a ring....I know I’m not 🙅🏾♀️🤣Everything about this is just greasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I like this sub but I can’t find women like you anywhere :(You're not giving them a chance to know and desire you before you have sex with them, which is probably leading to boring and or awkward sex and feelings of pointlessness. If you're not giving them a chance to know you and like you, and you're hooking up and the sex is sub par, there's just no curiosity there for a woman to keep going. Women are not going to be enthusiastic about committing to a relationship where sex has already happened but it's boring and lacks connection. Why would a woman f… | /r/askFDS | 25/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I like this sub but I can’t find women like you anywhere :(How do you make sure you know womens orgasmic capabilities? Are you assuming they cant come on their own? Growing up I'm certain a lot of guys assumed i couldn't orgasm, but I could, and was hurt/confused by how they ignored it entirely. | /r/askFDS | 25/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I like this sub but I can’t find women like you anywhere :(Why would you sleep with someone and think this automatically leads to a relationship? Only people looking for relationships will enter into them, and then you have to make sure they want one with you. Also, maybe your sex game needs some work. Also, what about your personality is special, unique, irresistible? Are you financially set up? Improving yourself? In good shape? Do you practice good style and hygiene? Are you healthy and confident mentally and emotionally? Do you have an emotional sup… | /r/askFDS | 25/03/20 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Just found out through a mutual friend how my ex describes my genitals in relation to other girls genitalsIt's a shame that any 19 year old would say this though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Please think of your future children's lives...Something is wrong with this sub today. Clicking on the posts brings me to the same one everytime about children's futures and a narcissistic father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownLol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:08 PM |
| 9 | Ladies....this coming from a manSo fucking true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I asked him why he's poly and the answer is what you'd expect.I think your idea about gay sex = aids might be homophobic and untrue, but aside from that, it's not ever safe to get into a guys car on the first date. I just posted this on another post but it's worth repeating here: Some guy I met recently made up some lie about having a girlfriend two huge provinces away that hed only known for 3 months that he was emotionally committed to lol. I told the guy straight up I don't chase men or compete for them. He asked for my instagram and I said ok, then the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | You don't need to have had bad dating experiences to follow FDSI've had boyfriends that were good people, and I've had boyfriends that were bad people. They were all disappointing though and that's the real tragedy, and why I'm here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 14 | Blocked a LMV!Some guy I met recently made up some lie about having a girlfriend two huge provinces away that hed only known for 3 months that he was emotionally committed to lol. I told the guy straight up I don't chase men or compete for them. He asked for my instagram and I said ok, then the guy UNMATCHED me as if he knows me and we can be real life Instagram buddies. So I blocked him on IG and unblocked him so we weren't following each other anymore. Now hes following me like the thirsty lonely prick he i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 6 | The thing that turns a HVM on most should be his partner's pleasure.Yes. I made a big mistake dating the last guy because he had major motivation and communication issues in other areas of his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:01 AM |
| 12 | The thing that turns a HVM on most should be his partner's pleasure.As to whether it's right or wrong, I couldn't care less. I don't care about a man's pleasure until he has me feeling sexually attracted to him and impressed by him which isn't often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 9 | The thing that turns a HVM on most should be his partner's pleasure.Yes. Fuck men getting turned on bc my pussy is in their face, somehow mistaking this as a sign of success. This describes the last guy I dated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownHes so hot. I wanna suck his android dick right off Lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownUgh. I can't cope with this reality. They've all been programmed wrong. It's no mystery why I'm in love with Commander Data, whos been programmed right. People can say oh find a man that's programmed right. Great, is there a place I can sign up for this? I got to discover Commander Data was programmed right in the safety and comfort of my own home, watching from a distance as my love and desire built. Interactions with men are nothing like this at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownIt's so sick how society just looks at this process of young women going through this as "normal" and as "life experiences" It sicks me out so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownGod I wish I would have had your awareness. What do you credit it on? How did you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownWhen I look back, me dating and having sex with men was me forcing myself to participate in society and find happiness in situations that were totally unfulfilling and invalidating. I've never had sex with a guy I'm fully attracted to that accepted all my feelings. And this is normal, this is how society expects women to form our standards and boundaries. It's like a giant plot just to get young men laid and entitled for life until they MIGHT realise sometime around age 30 women are people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Wait, so all those girls in relationships have mostly been with LVM? Mind is blownSounds kinda low value. Sounds impossible to sustain a genuine attraction to and like a giant child, no offense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:07 PM |
| 35 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.My parents were straight up so psycho to me regarding being overprotective, strict, and controlling (acting like I have NO ability to direct my own life), that I subconsciously thought it was normal to fight for my rights and be stonewalled/emotionally abandoned for taking a stand or wanting to be my free self. I was literally date raped and was almost sex trafficked bc of their punitive idiocy because I was kicked out of my house, and they actually dropped me off at a womens shelter as a way to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 23 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.Yep this has always creeped me out. And its gross how wanting someone to trust after being hurt is spun as being some kind of trap, as if any guy who gets involved with it is going to suffer abuse himself. Its just another way to label hurt women as damaged and ruined. It's like saying rape victims are ruined. This is saying any woman who doesnt process the violence and abuse the right way doesn't just not deserve sympathy, they've been damaged, ruined, they're not as good for loving or partners… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.Beautiful. Thank you 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 41 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.God. It's so nice to be told this after years of being treated like my boundaries prove I'm some kind of mental bitch who will end up alone. I mean, its not explicit, but the judgement and hostility is felt on dating apps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:47 AM |
| 13 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn usethats not a bitch move in my opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:36 AM |
| 12 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useI hope he finds you and himself again. But wow, good on you for not waiting around for it, especially in a climate of what seems like scarcity. I'm actually scared to sleep with guys these days. I literally feel overwhelmed by just never knowing what bullshit I'm really gonna get sex wise or when it comes to who they are. I've only been single for a few months now, but I feel spooked the fuck out like I've almost never been when it comes to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:13 AM |
| 6 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useAmen. Sex should be about variety at least half the time, never too routine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:07 AM |
| 8 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useWow I'm so sorry to hear this story. You wait, try to get a meaningful relationship started, then this is what awaits. I seriously cannot stand how it seems like theres nothing a woman can actually do to ensure she is choosing a good sex partner. The futility is overwhelming me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useYeah, that's what the Real News section touches on a bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 02:11 AM |
| 27 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useLol. I really wish it was possible to measure how much and if men not giving a sexual fuck just changes form throughout generations and centuries or what the actual status are. Is it getting worse? I wish I knew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 39 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useYeah that sounds like boring as fuck sex. Like literally being a porn fluffer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useHow old is she? And her partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useHow old is she? What are the ages of the guys etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | When m*les suddenly lose interest in youThat’s just one anecdote. I have others that occur later down the line. Like when they realize after the third date that they still will not be getting laid and that the spiel they’re giving all these women about wanting a relationship when they actually don’t, has been seen through. amazing. i can't wait to see this shit in action in my life. my history is ending up in the wrong relationships after hooking up. no more, never again. i guess in some respect i am lucky i have little experience wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Feminism has argued for my equality, but has FAILED to aggressively defend my interests - this is why women need FDS and Feminism needs FDSLand and sovereignty issues, indigenous concepts of gender, the impact of racism and colonialism on our gender roles and equality. Violence against women comes from racism and cultural oppression and theft of territory, disrespect for laws. It doesn't just come from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingNice username by the way, 7 of 9! I love commander data 💛 and brent spiner 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 09:25 AM |
| 13 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingYeah I had a boyfriend that did this to me because he tried to make me feel like I wasn't wife material for either accepting my destiny to bear him children on a farm Or figure out what I want to do with my life but I have to make more than he did in order to justify having a job at all. Any kind of stonewalling or withholding of affection to manipulate people is abusive when it comes to basic rights and needs. I was punished for wanting my own life, and it sounds like you're being punished for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:38 AM |
| 9 | ......What a total piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:37 AM |
| 5 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingI hope your discussion goes well AND that he follows through. That's the trickiest part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingHave you tried talking to him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:44 AM |
| 27 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingWhy the fuck is my comment being downvoted? Guys not being willing to improve on sex with someone they value having a sexual relationship with has been the confoundment of my times. I'm not gonna go so far as to say they valued our overall relationship, they didnt, but these guys were attracted to me, and wanted to have sex with me, yet they didnt want to change/level up/improve. I find that to be totally illogical and against the common stereotype that guys will be cooperative when they've got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 35 | Getting the Sex we want in LTRs: Be Aware of Men Sexually BreadcrumbingYou'd think so, right? I'm stunned at how unappreciated my sexy body has been. Totally shocked actually. The only explanation I can approximate is that merely having contact with my body is seen as such an erotic challenge they feel fulfilled from the experience - maxed out on what they think they can handle, and entertained by what they're experiencing as is. Men have ALWAYS had sex with me as if they're in the "ok just let me get used to you, I'm ABOUT to offer you what you ask for, I'm thinki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 13 | Feminism has argued for my equality, but has FAILED to aggressively defend my interests - this is why women need FDS and Feminism needs FDSHonestly, radical feminism has some major oversights regarding the basis of womens oppression when it comes to being an indigenous woman. But in many respects you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Know What Your Standards Are and Stick to Them: Don't Settle for LessCan concur from the northwest in Saskatchewan Canada. Something about prairies produces low quality men in mass numbers more than it seems would be the case in other environments in north America. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | LibFems really convinced a generation of women that racism, misogyny, incest, & abuse is NEVER OKAY, unless of course you’re an empowered woman participating in or furiously masturbating to racist, misogynist, incestuous, and abusive porn bc kink shaming is literal oppression!!🤡Spicy take. I like it so much I'm adding it to my ichiban noodles 🍜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is Establishedsame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is Establishedmy strategy: not dating ANY MEN while i CLEARLY ENJOY my life as a single successful woman with a ton of passion, drive, and sensuality THAT NO MAN IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it alli know right. makes you wonder what the fuck is actually motivating their learning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it alli don't have any in my life anymore. i'm 31 so i think a lot of it is guys getting too old to not feel like a piece of shit for ignoring the clit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it alli hope it encourages them to pay more attention to our entire bodies and not be too over focused on orgasm triggers. i really hope for ANYTHING and ANYWAY to get men to realize sex is about variety and connection, not about searching for some surefire GOAL or point of success that never changes and is about when it's 'their turn' because they've done 'good enough' ... anything that can spur curiosity, passion, hard work, and anything that can shut down assumptions etc. i spent my entire life hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it allThe orgasm for women is diverse and in a variety of places and facts are a penis is useless in causing orgasms 90% of the the time. Guys need to use other tools and GASP* LEARN A WOMANS BODY with other tools before their penis can be effectively used by them the way they wish it could be. Aka it takes work, and they're too lazy/prefer fantasizing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it allI did this recently, and its funny cuz the guy acts like I scarred him for life and betrayed him ruthlessly. meanwhile he thinks of nothing of using me for months on end because he eternally put my satisfaction and his connection to me on the back burner, as if that isnt betrayal. Whats worse is that I told him in the beginning I needed a guy who was dedicated to my pleasure. It required him taking an active role and initiating a special exploration evening. The first time he called me bawling a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:10 PM |
| 16 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it allSame. It's like I'm trying to get out there but I know they expect me to fuck them when I'm not even turned on or feeling connected the first time we have sex. Then they want a sexually awkward boring grace period, then they want a relationship that never sexually fulfills me while they pretend they're learning. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 14 | Discuss: our sexual awakenings, gender equality in our sexual culture, and how we feel about it allyep. i was a feminist who was critical of the sexual culture ever since i was 16 WAY BEFORE IT WAS COOL when the trump presidency scared everyone into wokeness, and women i actually knew in person had no issues with commenting on my facebook to basically claim i was fucked in the head or sexually dysfunctional, and of course all the men were like "its your fault for choosing them/giving them a chance" and now look at me - won't give anyone a fucking chance LOL cuz it really feels like there are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Why LVM gravitate to BDSM (particularly DOM) cultureThank you for your intelligence and strength, you are courageous. Only when women face what's real will we change this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 07:06 AM |
| 15 | Why LVM gravitate to BDSM (particularly DOM) culturea lot of guys may not have this same festering resentment, but they do believe that men/penis overall is somehow a force that women can give into and trust, which is insane. they are just looking for the women that trust men and trust sex - aka, unicorns that have somehow made it out of youth either finding a way to enjoy the disrespect they've faced, suppress it, or even more rarely, evade it. these kinda guys see women feeling sexually defensive about men as 'baggage' we've gained as individua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | “Come over, let’s cuddle”YEPPPPPPP. its crazy how men think they can just randomly enter into a physical relationship with a woman. sure, some women are looking for sex. those women will over whelmingly tell a man about it, knowing rejection is low and theres nothing to lose if sex is all that is at stake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyHAHAH, great point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyAgreed. Bursting in there with too much confidence is met with an alienated radio silence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 9 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyVery believable. Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyAre they? That's true of r sex I think, but not dating over thirty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 14 | What's wrong with central european men?It's my theory that there's probably something wrong with all men that reside in the center of any continent. Innovation and competition do not penetrate the culture or economy, things change slowly, and men get away with being mediocre and thinking they rule the place with few outside challenges or wake up calls. So many of the men in central canada are also like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyExactly. So grateful for women who know our worth and strive to make it a cultural reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 19 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyThey seem to be more so against women feeling strongly about feeling attracted to men who want to date and sleep with us. They have something against pressure on men to be arousing and sexy in addition to being safe. They think all a man should do is be nice and barely show an interest. Talking about men not being sexy enough overall in culture is very very opposed there even though we all know it's a problem men and women suffer with, and the only assholes trying to address it sadly are the mis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 40 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyLmao at buy your own coffee on the 1st date, bang me on the 2nd bc you should know if you're into the guy bu then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 30 | Sexism im sub reddits - stay away from r sex and r datingoverthirtyahah, yeah, they definitely have some fragile man mods there and women who feel a need to defend them as well for some reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceWrong. It depends on how the guy does it. The right way is so fucking hot and memorable. That's the shit I'm waiting for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 23 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceLol exactly You can say any dumb thing and a guy will still think it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceBut what if they want the guy to approach as a condition of wanting the guy? A lot of times if the guy doesnt approach, that's enough to convince a woman she's not interested. That's how I am. Unless its brent spiner. That guy has turned me on so much from a distance I seem to find him sexy either way. I also pretend and believe he'd find me sexy too though in a sentimental sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceFollowing you just bc you get this. It's literally funny and sad how men want me to think their lazy quest for my validation to comfort their ego and to seize variety and novelty, SOMEHOW meets my needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceThis is so realistic, good for you dude. Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceYes, I only want confident men who can read social cues. Confident guys who cant are obnoxious, offensive etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.I dont refuse to sleep with guys because I want to seem like Mary. I say no and force them to wait because after thinking its normal to have sex to "create" arousal, i realized I was actually having sex before I was even turned on or into it, because of cultural expectations of casual sex that make it seem like it's ideal to sleep with people, then get to know them and decide if you like them. I've realised its completely backwards to how my sexuality actually functions when it comes to enjoying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youMy plan is to get men to figure out how to turn me on, fuck doing all this. Especially if they dont return the well thought out favour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | When you look at average tier men, what is it that you think women should be finding SEXUALLY attractive about them?This is an excellent question. These guys have nothing. They want us to make up our own sexual desire for them based on nothing but our own fantasies it seems. They are poor conversationalists, they feel offended when a woman expects effort and or puts up resistance, they are not sexy in the slightest. They are basically "I have a house and a job, that should make you want to fuck me forever.," Granted, even good looking men can't get away with this shit in my books. The only thing worse than be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever woke up one day and suddenly lost all physical/sexual attraction to your boyfriend?Yes. Its because I listened to culture, and thought it was normal to have sex with men to "see if" I find them attractive. This is not normal, it's a false cultural set up designed to benefit men sexually. I've realized I'm never fucking a guy I haven't thought of while touching myself from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | What age do guys start wanting to commit to a relationship generally?Hm. I was fully jaded by the time I was 17. I also think older people are sexy too, both genders. Each to their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | What age do guys start wanting to commit to a relationship generally?Well you seem to be implying that the best way to obtain this dynamic is with women who are younger is what I'm getting at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What age do guys start wanting to commit to a relationship generally?It's strange that you think its impossible for a grown man to be dominant for a woman once she's past her earlier twenties. It sounds to me that you take this dominating thing to the extreme in that you believe it's something only men can do if both sexes are to enjoy it, and women can only be dominated if they're young, as if the idea of a woman choosing to be dominated as a fully mature adult, is not real domination. And perhaps it isnt. As a 31 year old woman, I'd only submit to a guy that se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty.This entire post is about you trying to think you don't have to do anything during sex yet still be considered sexually adequate. This is such a cringey condescending post that tries to categorize women in lame degrading ways based on what kind of sex they have, and the whole point of it is to get validation lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?The reason I'd divorce this guy is bc im hoping for WAY more out of a relationship than a guy who doesnt hit me and goes to work. I think that's the fundamental flaw in your reasoning there. I also consider honour, loyalty, and bravery to be at the core of my values. I don't look twice at men who dont have courage in these dimensions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Men: can you explain why women liking “Chad” is such a shock?I find engaging with this level of attraction to be unsatisfying. I'm an attractive woman and have felt under loved numerous times by guys I've settled for, because their ideas of attraction are so basic. The result is they feel attracted to me, I don't feel attracted to them bc they dont nurture my desire or care about what I want, and the relationship ends when I end it. I'm only going for guys I'm highly attracted to that are passionate about me from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Was banned in dating over thirty for posting this: Men should chase after age 30Agreed, when it comes to how shitty gender relations still are. They do need to prove they respect and want us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Guys should chase past age 30 at the very leastSo does this mean you can't see it? Someone else commented on the post in sex over 30 , but how, if it's been removed? Can people see removed posts? Can they comment on them? I dont get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Guys should chase past age 30 at the very leastYeah I'm trying to get them to put it back up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 29 | LVM proposalsThis makes me never want to be proposed to. Something has happened. I've hit 30 and I realize men suck and its so depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 4 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I'd also like to add I pay for it and I mostly watch feminist porn directed by women. That's not all I watch but what I usually watch. It's pretty fantastical and sexy I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:31 PM |
| 4 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!Yeah I only watch it like 1-2 times a month, mostly because when I came of age the only porn available was straight up disgusting fake sexist trash. My sexuality exists totally independently of porn as a result in my opinion. Dont get me wrong I can appreciate it but I dont need it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Why men are the one who must pay for datesI want sex too but I accept the fact there's nowhere decent to get it. Well, I don't accept it. But I'm not going to delude myself either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 6 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I watch porn to be honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 24 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I'd just like to say a lot of people aren't having kids for a lot of reasons, not just partner quality. Cost and time is a big one. Its not a secret that people with kids basically work and raise a family. And Usually kids makes a relationship worse off. The previous generation made marriage look like a very poor decision in itself. So many people just wanting a certain outcome in life, choosing whoever and it turns out they hate each other. Just seeing that happen to so many people makes marria… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Reminder that 52% of men over 40 have erectile dysfunctionLmao uncle fester | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexWe wait because the sex usually sucks ass I can get myself off in 40 seconds and can come from penetration Do you think a man has ever tried to figure this out for himself? No Enough said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The struggles of sexually internalized misogynyIt would help us to not have to read this is my first point. And you could get feedback from a person that understands the difference between healthy and dangerous thinking. Go see a sex therapist. Your thoughts at this point are not serving anyone at all. They can help you gain control and deal with them constructively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | The struggles of sexually internalized misogynyAlso FUCK any discussion about wether women are “naturally” submissive or not. What a completely fucking stupid point of view, trying to generalize an entire diverse genders sexualities. It’s sad that I have to scroll sooooo far just to get past this bs discussion that too many people are trying to be a professor on. Just no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The struggles of sexually internalized misogynyGo to a counsellor with this so women don’t have to read this shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 7 | Mythology Break Down #1: Men Telling You You'll Max Out At Thirty is Their BIGGEST CopeI definitely feel sexier and more confident than I’ve ever felt, and I KNOW the best is still yet to come. I’m 31 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.He needs to tell her straight up that all he’s looking for is Sex. I think it seems pretty obvious she wants to have her deeper feelings accepted. She’s giving off vibes that she wants emotional intimacy not JUST sex, but the guy is ignoring how he and her do not want the same thing. Instead of acting like she’s crazy or messed up he should go for women who want Sex with zero emotional involvement Anyways, I’m going to unfollow this subreddit. One, you can only reply once every ten minutes, and … | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.Why are you haters downvoting such a simple statement? Wtf is wrong with you all? You’ve never had friends you flirt with before? | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:54 PM |
| -1 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.If I’ve known them for a long time and have feelings for them, yes. OP sounds like he doesn’t want feelings though, he just wants sex | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:39 PM |
| -12 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.Whoops. Thought I was on a different thread. Not every guy wants to fuck women they barely know who are laying next to them though, and women don’t always feel that way either. Assuming close physical proximity to a new person means sex is desired is not realistic. This is how some people flirt and build intimacy that is emotional, not just physical | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 05:15 PM |
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