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Yeah, that sounds about right, numbers wise, for that year. Great year, tbh. The year before it was definitely less and the year after I had a 8 month dry spell between July and getting together with my now wife. And yet I'm actually below average, looks-wise. Dude, I'm 5'4 and never weighed under 200 between 23 and 30. I've also lost track of the number of partners I had. It's north of 40, but idk the exact total. You know why it was like that? Because girls don't go for 'pick up artists' or 'b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:43 PM
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Done it before, though not through a dating app. For the record, in case anyone I actually know finds this, this was before I got together with my now wife. The rule, and I 110000% agree with it, was that I was not to communicate nor meet the husband. If the husband wanted to watch, I wouldn't be OK with it. She tells me her husband is cool with it? I trust her that he is. If it turns out he isn't, me not contacting him means he has a much more difficult time finding out who I am. Editing to add…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:17 PM
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Taking that totally out of context. What I meant was that if you asked me my average for the year it would be 2x a month, but that it also included 6x in the 10 days that I went to Europe. My point is exactly that its a blip, and I had several of those instead of, like clockwork, getting laid twice a month as a single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:15 PM
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Ok, so, in my experience, what you're going through is a basically normal progression for a person who's a bit of an introvert. You're definitely not a total fuck up. At 26, I'd already figured out what my problem was, and that was that I was looking at sex as a goal, which is what you're doing. But, you're almost there. You just haven't taken the final plunge and realized you've actually learned something. Essentially, what was happening was that I would go out looking to get laid and when that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:01 PM
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Funny. But I'll bite. Your age makes a difference, at least to me, because I'm an average looking guy (actually, idk. I'm 5'4 and am kinda overweight) who between 16-25 had absolutely no idea wtf he was doing when it came to girls. I've literally tried everything in the book, from PUA stuff, to "be friends with them" to tinder and online dating, none of which worked until I figured out what my actual problem was. The problem is, it took me a few years of life experience to do so. Hence I ask you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:48 PM
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LOL. Can I ask how old you are? I don't need an exact age. Just a range. 18-21, 21-25, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:41 PM
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No, I was doing my wife 3-4 times a week lol. I don't think I've been to a club in about 6 years (I'm 32). When I was though, I did pick up a few girls. It was never my main source of getting laid when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:01 PM
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Depends on the man and his current situation. I don't consider myself a player at all and before my wife was pregnant, I was averaging 3-4 times a week. Obviously it's less due to pregnancy stress. Even if you're talking about single men, numbers can't tell you that. Let me give you an example. I can tell you (and I'm def an average looking guy) that one year of being single, I averaged 2x a month. That sounds ok, right? But that's not the case. I had a dry spell of several months, but I also we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:42 PM
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There is a point. The problem lies in what the guys who ask the questions are trying to accomplish. They’re not asking for the sake of getting an answer but rather to test their hypothesis, as if they’re trying to create a general “theory of dating” with a predefined set of motions they need to do in order to be successful. Then they complain about the answers because, since every woman is different, those answers are too varied to prove their hypothesis right or wrong. This is when they call th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:16 AM
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They did. The problem is that you’re attributing their increased chances to the wrong thing. Its a post hoc fallacy. They didn’t increase their chances because they did things that make women like them more. They increased their chances because doing all those things first and foremost makes them more confident in their ability to succeed, and more concious of what it takes to overcome failure. The level of discipline it takes to lose 100 pounds, for example, is unbelievable. After going through…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:22 PM
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I get that. That’s why TRP, or as my buddy called it when he and I got into it, PUA, was so attractive to us. We thought that by maxing out the number of women available for us to choose from, we’d find the right one. It’s logical and would work if you’re looking for someone who just has a basic idea of what they want in a partner. But the more people i got to know, the more I realized that that’s not the cas. Everyone, guy and girl, wants something uniquely specific to them and is until they fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:13 AM
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It did not. The reason for that is that the AWALT thing that so many red pillers preach and live by. It generalizes women when the actual reasons you get rejected are specific to the woman doing the rejecting. RP refuses to accept that the devil’s in the details and tries to generalize and quantify something whose variables are basically infinite. Source: me. Former RP/PUA sheep who realized he’d been had, and is now married with a kid on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:59 AM
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That’s the problem: you think there’s a general rule when there actually isn’t one. It’s assumption that there is one, is the reason TRP is a failure as a, as someone else put it, tool. It’s not suitable for anything beyond making its adherents look like idiots the 99 times out of a 100 that they fail to get a girl. It’s not like I’m speaking out of my ass, either. I was introduced to TRP’s principles when I was 21 by a college friend who was desperately looking for a girl due to his culture’s d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:03 PM
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No, of course not. That's because for everyone to live by TRP's philosophy, it must be true that all women behave the same way. Seeing as that's not the case, TRP isn't just not the right way for everyone to live, its an IMPOSSIBLE way for everyone to live. What TRP is, is an attempt to quantify dating. It's like sabermetrics in baseball, except sabermetrics result in better baseball teams and TRP results in a bunch of guys complaining about how TRP's philosophies don't work for them. Here's the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:05 PM
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I'll give you an honest answer. For the record: I'm 31 next month and am Male, married and with a kid on the way. I'm not what you'd call conventionally attractive (I'm short and overweight) and while I make a good salary, my wife and I are by no means wealthy enough for her to not work. Also for the record: I went from proto-incel to having only female friends (my wife is actually one of those old friends haha) to "red pilled" to finally pulling my head out of my ass and becoming a decent human…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:39 PM
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Am man. Am legally married. Am also the kind of guy that makes the joke of "never get married" to the guys that aren't, and does so in the presence of his wife. And you know what she does? She laughs along because she knows its a joke. Let's stop for a second and understand something absolutely vital to this discussion: Getting legally married comes with a whole slew of benefits when you and your partner are EQUALS. That's because, first and foremost, a marriage is a partnership where both of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:10 PM
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And that’s fine, but then 3rules of common human decency apply: first don’t be a hypocrite who believes what you just said, but also has a body count in the 50s themselves as a guy Don’t get upset when you can’t find a girl because you’ve intentionally limited yourself Don’t bash women for sleeping around. It’s not your problem In my experience, the number of men who believe in that statement AND follow those 3 rules is incredibly small
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:47 AM
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It wont. It’ll affect idiots who believe women’s body counts have anything to do with whether they’re worth settling down with. The rest of us will laugh and move on with our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:29 AM
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Nah man. Have you ever even considered that women are telling the truth about abuse? Probably not. You probably see abuse and don’t think it is. The number of women falsely accusing men is insubstantial compared to the number that actually are abused. And the worst part is that people can change, and love blinds you to certain signs. Relationships are clearly academic to you as you’d know that if you’d ever been in one. As for Russ, idk what you’re talking about. Dude’s accomplished more in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:47 PM
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Raising a kid, any kid, whether he’s yours or not, to be a decent human being is a blessing. Have you ever thought about women being unable to stay with the father because they’re beating her or cheating on her? Or is that something you can’t consider because its the woman’s fault she can’t keep him happy? Things would work out for you too if you stoped treating dating like a game of DnD. This is life. There are no magic combinations of good traits that women you like are are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:22 PM
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Spoken like a true "Alpha Male." You don't want a girl with a kid? That's fine. You're losing out on some good women, imo, but hey, I'm not going to tell you what you should and shouldn't like. A lot of guys are ok with single moms. Doesn't make them lesser men in any way shape or form. But you know what does make someone less of a man? Saying women need saving. You know what else makes someone a less of a man? Saying that a single mom was "running around having fun" and judging her for it. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:33 PM
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Ah, but you're forgetting that catholic priests are celibate and respected. The ones that aren't are the ones not respected because of the whole, you know, pederasty thing. So there goes your whole theory. Whether you're a virgin or not doesn't really effect whether people respect you or not. The problem is circular logic. There is a certain group of people who care about the fact that they can't get laid. They think that because they care about it, everyone else does, not understanding that in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:03 PM
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No one actually knows how relationships work. You make it seem like there's a standardized way that they do, when there really isn't. Women who are taught strategies and how to pick the right man (like my cousin) definitely have no idea. They're not "more redpilled". People just hear what girls are taught and think they are, but girls who actually listen to that bullshit end up, more often then not, with ruined lives. Just like men who listen to "redpill" bs. Which makes sense. Bullshit is bulls…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:50 PM
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30M here. We do it when we can, seeing as we work separate shifts (I work during the day, and she's a night shift ER nurse). Sometimes 2, sometimes 4 times a week. When we went away on vacation, it was twice a day. Has it diminished since we started dating? Yeah, a bit but that's because we had more time then. I was working and she was in school and not working. As for how to prevent a dead bedroom, I have no idea seeing as it hasn't come up yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:21 PM
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I always paid for the first date. Here's why. The one thing women (and men) appreciate more than anything else is honesty. If you're taking a girl out to a place you can't afford to pay for yourself, that's setting an expectation that you can't keep up with. Thus you can't be honest. Because I wanted to be honest, I took them to places where the money I spent wouldn't make a big dent in my wallet. If they wanted someplace more expensive for a first date, I'd decline, because that told me she wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:58 PM
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They are. Breifly, they might not be the exact, specific ones you want, but your work standing and your ability to make friends will increase as you become a better conversationalist. That’s becase being able to hold a conversation makes you valuable to others. What a lot of people don’t get is that “knowing how to hold a convo” doesn’t mean you know how to interest people in what you’re interested in. It means you can talk to them about what interests them, because you are genuinely interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:35 PM
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To a degree. What really matters isn’t what you do, but why you do it. The intent. If the reason you do these two things is to help you with attracting the opposite sex, then it never will. Here’s why: when you set a goal, like losing, say, 30 pounds, you also imply that there will be a reward at the end. If that reward is “attention from the opposite sex” and it doesn’t happen (which is certainly possible), you’ll be upset and demoralized. Why? Because you did all that hard work, and the promis…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:43 PM
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*Matroshka doll. If i ever saw one that looked like my babushka though, i’d get it as a gag gift immediately. For the record, I somewhat agree with you, and especially part 2. Imbibing Carnegie’s book will make you better human being in general, not just increase your chances of getting laid. For 1, IMO, there’s a difference between need and want. I think it’s ok to want sex and romance, but what you need to accomplish is to not need them to be the driving force of your existence. Accept that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:32 AM
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Dude, my wife and I? We're the average couple. For example: my hair is different color on my head and on my face, I'm somewhat overweight, I'm short. She's got her own things that make her different from conventionally attractive women. And you know what? To me, she's the most beautiful woman in the world. Hell yeah I'm attracted to her, and she is to me. Been together 5 years now. These days, I can gaurantee you that I get laid far more often than I was a single man. Why? Because I'm married an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:52 PM
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Yes and no. I come from a military family, though I never served. To give more background, in the USSR, service was mandatory at age 18, as it is in Israel, but beyond that I have multiple career military in my family (both officers and noncoms, including a few generals), both ex-soviet and current and ex-IDF. To say it instilled certain ideals in them? Nah. Not at all. Most of them wanted to get in, do their 2-3 years and get out, preferably without getting sent to Afghanistan like my father in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:52 PM
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Not a significant other but my mother and my paternal grandmother. Both had abortions done after the birth of a child, mine in my mother's case and my dad's sister in my grandmother's. As far as I know, both my dad and my grandfather supported their SOs in the decision, and both did it for financial reasons. My family was by no means well off then, as back then they lived in the USSR. My grandmother did not mention having had an abortion until a few month ago, when she was scheduled for her firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 06:23 PM
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