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| 1 | Is intelligence/"book smarts" actually considered an attractive trait by women?Well yeah, but I feel like in those cases, it's usually that a woman is a attracted to a guy in general, so then she'll sometimes ignore the signs that he doesn't have the qualities she actually wants (in the same way that guys who say they want intelligent women will date vapid bimbos if they're cute). For example, I rank intelligence as a very important factor in choosing a significant other, but I once dated a guy for at least two months before I finally admitted to myself that he was as dumb… | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligence/"book smarts" actually considered an attractive trait by women?Secondly, it's starting to occur to me that a lot of the qualities that women stereotypically say they like, they actually do not give a shit about. I was wondering if intelligence would fall under this category. I think this part was probably the issue, or at least it was an issue for me. I'm curious what qualities the OP is talking about. When I think of things that women "stereotypically say they like," I think: sense of humor, honesty/trustworthiness, intelligence, general sense of manners a… | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 05:57 AM |
| 5 | Nice Guys Do Get GirlsI was over-simplifying. Of course there's reasoning, but most of it isn't terribly logical, honestly. Some women are attracted to douches because they think they understand that the guys are douches, so it'll hurt less if they leave (rarely true; being left sucks whether it's by a nice guy or an asshole, rejection is rejection). Some women are attracted to douches because they're tired of guys treating them like perfect princesses and they want someone with lower expectations. (While being put o… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 06:06 AM |
| 7 | Nice Guys Do Get GirlsMost of this is true, but I hate to tell you, some girls are attracted to douches. There's no real reasoning to it, but I guarantee that almost every girl has wanted the "bad boy" at some point, myself included. Does it make sense? No. Does it happen? All the time. This is where the "negging" thing comes in; it's that little taste of douche that lets her know you aren't telling her everything she wants to hear. If you're too nice, there's no challenge, nothing to work towards. The problem most "… | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 04:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20 year old dude with braces, do I stand a chance at all?Anyone who's actually going to be that put off by your braces is shallow and not worth your time anyway, in all honesty. You're the same person with or without braces, so as long as you're confident and let your personality shine through, you should be fine. I'm always a little jealous of people with braces. My teeth are kind of wonky, so I think of how nice their smile is going to be once they get their braces off. | /r/seduction | 03/02/11 06:28 PM |
| 1 | "I'm too old for you" vs "You're too young for me."The difference is that "I'm too old for you" puts it on her terms and implies that you assume she wouldn't date someone your age, whereas "you're too young for me" put it on your terms and implies that you wouldn't date someone her age. If you claim to be too old, you're telling her what she should want and her automatic response will be to convince you that you're wrong, but if you claim that she's too young, you're telling her what you want and that it isn't her. As a woman, that's how I would… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 05:57 AM |
| 1 | How does pickup technique change for less desirable guys?As cliche as it sounds, a sense of humor goes a loooong way, even for the most unattractive people. Personality will trump looks if the women are worth your time, so if you show them that you're more than your appearance, you'll find someone. I've dated some guys who were less than cute because they made me laugh and they didn't spend all their time worrying about their looks. As you said, your insecurity is probably holding you back a lot more than your looks. If you want to feel better about y… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 04:21 AM |
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