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| 1 | What are simple decent casual compliments to give to a girl without looking awkward or creepy?when approaching girls you don't know or strangers don't compliment them, it will almost always be awkward or creepy. don't let their physical appearance dominate your interaction. instead say something interesting that would spark a conversation and show that you're a person that they would like to get to know. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I talk about my job without sounding like a pretentious ass or boring?Haha, yeah. Genius. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I talk about my job without sounding like a pretentious ass or boring?I agree with this, but when it gets brought up just be frank: "I'm a rocket scientist," will work. Making a joke about it would probably go a long way. | /r/seduction | 14/02/17 07:07 PM |
| 2 | When a girl looses interest in me, I want her even more but when her interest is very clear I loose mineCat string theory in action | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What I am doing wrong baffles me. Please can someone out there give me some advice.It's sounds like you've got a great foundation. Maybe you need to work on your social prowess? Women are very socially attracted. But all in all dude, don't worry. Its a numbers game. Just keep at the grind and learn everything you can. The less you focus on your virginity the more likely it is that you will lose it. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you overcome "there's always guys better looking than you, taller, stronger, smarter, richer, etc" ?Although, in general, males are hyper focused on the physical, Female attraction is more social than physical. Physical prowess can only get you so far. | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | "We're not having sex tonight."All or nothing kind of thing. Be cautious about saying that directly to her though, it can be taken the wrong way. Frame it as part of your personality that You understand that she doesn't want to continue, so you shut it all down... and that you respect her wishes for not continuing. That way its more on her. The exact wording can be found on pg. 217-218 of The Game, by Neil Strauss. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 06:20 PM |
| -13 | "We're not having sex tonight."When you get her home add a false time constraint (i.e. you can't stay too long I have work in the morning) then escalate. When you hit LMR take a step back and then take two steps forward (i.e. you go to take off her shirt she stops you. Stop. Go back to making out for a bit, then try to take it off again and maybe yours too.) If she resists at the same point again, stop entirely, say something like "Oh okay, I understand, no means no," and put physical distance between you for a moment, stop g… | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Signs of her loosing interestWhen you stop trying to "game" her you reveal your level of interest to her. by putting her inadvertently into the potential relationship category you increase her value in your eyes and she can sense it. If you caved emotionally after a few dates and are now invested she is free to pursue other less available options and keep you as a back up plan since she already gleaned your level of interest. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 06:10 PM |
| 19 | So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure?Go on an adventure yourself. Find a girl there and be part of her adventure story. | /r/seduction | 20/10/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Ways of meeting girls, and why I can't do themGet interests that encourage socialization. Go to the (class, activity, whatever) and spend the first few sessions getting really fucking good at that thing. Only after that skill is attained start looking around for women at those gatherings, if you are good enough (at pottery or whatever) they should start hitting on you. Objective skill is well respected across the board. Just find a marketable socializing skill to hone. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Remember, you are the prize, not herNo. Work on yourself. Internalizing the idea that you are the prize is important, what's more important is improving yourself to the point of actually being the prize rather than just believing you are the prize. | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 06:57 PM |
| 1 | guys how do i get girls to notice me?That is a myth that all women are looking for a relationship. Perpetuated by your perception of them, most likely stemming from a patriarchal culture. If you want a relationship, then practice interacting with girls, find a place for privacy (motel, bathroom, basement, stairwell, car, i dont care) and practice having sex, once you are no longer hung up on sex and no longer trying actively to get women into a relationship is when you are most likely to actually find one. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | guys how do i get girls to notice me?Plus one night stands will give him experience and social proof. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | guys how do i get girls to notice me?As in he is too hung up on relationships, so he is self sabotaging. His pushing for a relationship specific interaction rather than just going with whatever happens (be it 1 night stand, LTR, make out, hang out, friendship, etc) gets in the way of what he actually wants. They can probably smell his desperation for a relationship, and his stigma against one night stands which gives their interaction an agenda. If he stopped pushing for getting something out of hanging out with chicks and just wen… | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 04:11 PM |
| 0 | guys how do i get girls to notice me?Do one night stands. Then they'll notice you. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here."Only a sith deals in absolutes" | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 04:45 AM |
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