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Entitlement Princessmiahoutx/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 09:07 PM
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Who is attracted to non-confident, lazy, ugly and selfish? These are not conservative or liberal. These are not desirable. In men and women. You may or may not be those things, but empathizing with someone does not make up for being unreliable and an emotional drain. Providing is not just a check, it’s also emotional safety, financial security it definitely is not holding your partner back because of your income. Really the biggest issue with many liberal men is they can be just as whiny as cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:56 PM
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Agree you should communicate before marriage about Sexlife. Would also throw finances, jobs, household duties, children and a list of things to be aware of
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:53 AM
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Stereotypically they commit after a date instead of one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:03 AM
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If a woman is passed out at a party and a man carries her away to safely sleep it off, will that be on the news? How many offer to help, watch without comment or cheer? What if she is raped? How many people are aware of the latter without helping, how many watch, how many cheer? How many justify it by how can they help themselves? It’s biology!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:51 AM
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That’s a simplistic view of hormones. Hormone response and sensitivity depend on many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:57 PM
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There’s more to love than just Oxytocin. And not everyone releases oxytocin the same way Not to mention how many people have sex with people they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:56 PM
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This is what happens when your ability to grasp the difference between theory, idea, observation and gibberish is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:52 PM
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I like how he knows the breakdown of single women at a hypothetical club he’ll never go to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:10 AM
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I’ve heard some women express something along those lines. I will say almost every woman I’ve dated that has expressed they won’t pay or won’t pay until things are more committed usually pays somewhere around the 4/5th date. May not be huge, tickets or food at the movie, ice cream after dinner, or take out or something. I don’t think everyone is as inflexible or stubborn after the first few dates either way. It’s almost like you have to survive the standoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:01 AM
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Stop touching people who don’t want to be touched by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:00 PM
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Being touched by someone ugly is gross. Thats all there is to it. Nice guys are ugly in the inside and sometimes ugly on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:04 PM
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There are guys who wear compression only and dick print it in the gym. I think the difference is you try not too look because you don’t want to vs you try not to look because you don’t want others to know you did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:42 AM
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They do under the guise of a potential relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:07 PM
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Would you consider subscribers comprised of mainly ideal partners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:16 AM
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Yes they would Men’s demeanor and behavior is way more important to women than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:33 PM
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Maybe bad is not capturing the context and risk. There are more violent men than women. There are more male assailants than female. There are many ways to be “bad” and emotional injury is pretty common in modern dating throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:12 AM
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Society and govt does not need to be in your bedroom Just date and find the dynamic that works for you. If you’re finding it rare you’re either in a poor location for your taste, trying to date out of your league or are antiquated. Up to you if you want to change or hold out for “better”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:11 PM
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No one is stopping you from simping for men and supporting their social media accounts. Be the change you want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:29 AM
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Because then men think they are not desired for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:25 AM
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You just compared getting dinner with a friend to a stranger. If you asked a stranger to a business lunch what would you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:33 AM
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I believe you are taking examples of people trying to gain attention on social media and trying to portray that as a broad generalization. Most people have no idea who you’re talking about and would assume all involved are gross. You should make more sense of what people are actually talking and thinking about instead of letting the digital world warp your views on society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:50 AM
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That would only make competition increase if passport bros were desirable. But many are undesirable which is why they pursue women in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:13 PM
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The most obese states are the most conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:13 AM
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The extremism religious nut jobs used to be the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:19 PM
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Young women date older men Young women date other women Young women also don’t date (different than young men who want but can’t get a date)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:11 PM
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Probably more a psychological need (not the act of ejaculating, but physical validation)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:14 PM
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That’s only because I put the time in the gym to overpower them. Most are not fond of my facial hair or testicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:01 PM
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The world is not dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:51 AM
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Those are attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:47 AM
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People publish and cite anything. Weakly affiliated experienced a shift. Strongly affiliated did not. If they were giving weight lifting doses of testosterone that’s way beyond what someone has from lifting. If they were giving replacement level then maybe you could have half an argument. But of course this is just a description of an idea that’s sort of been carried out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:34 PM
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Taxes are made up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:37 PM
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The ones I know of are equal pay. they lowered price for men to half off at the end to entice men to come… This was a jigsaw event.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:27 PM
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Because of how society was structured most people needed to end up with someone to survive. This has changed and so women in particular can be more picky as they don’t need as much from men. Notice that it’s loneliness epidemic for men and not a single-ness epidemic for everyone (even though more people are unmarried than ever). Most single women are not lonely, and the lack of social and emotional intelligence skills for many men is not just why they’re single but also lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:55 PM
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You’re assuming the only standard is physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:09 PM
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Typically age gap relationships also have wealth gaps. That in part feeds components of the power imbalance…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:19 PM
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Who said the second? It’s bad faith to negotiate trying to take advantage of your partner regardless of the scenario. It’s a classic sign of emotional immaturity and again lack of leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:38 PM
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Keyword there is IF. Inequality exists but to negotiate with your partner out of bad faith is a reflection on leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:17 PM
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I think the thought is if you’re working and she’s working why is she having to do all the household chores (second job) that are a daily occurrence compared to eating out which for many is just a weekly thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:51 PM
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Half plus 7 Also there’s more to life experience than sexual and relationship experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:38 AM
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Lack of commitment is emotional infidelity 🤦‍♂️ Again critical thinking. It’s not about men or women cheating (physical or emotional more) it’s about the rates and acceptance in different sexual orientations. If heterosexual couples are much more against cheating they will divorce more. If gay couples have more open relationships there won’t be as much cheating and less reason to get divorced (now things like finances, domestic violence, and other causes become more prominent but not enough to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:57 PM
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I’m not saying men are horrible partners. But let’s use some critical reasoning The most common cause for divorce regardless of initiating party is infidelity. Is it possible the rates or acceptances of infidelity are different amongst hetero, lesbian, or gay marriages 🫨
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:34 PM
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Compare it to hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:27 PM
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Who has ever said the second group?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:15 PM
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There’s a difference between self selection ( people don’t want to do certain jobs and gravitate to others) and jobs everyone wants and are going to one group. Willing to be an EMT is not really related to being a ceo of marketing for example. However willing to be a teacher is related to becoming a principal/superintendent etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:04 PM
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Don’t you have to subscribe to onlyfans to see their galleries? Does your ai script just look at the cover photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:57 AM
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You date one or two and realize they not only are grossed out by everything sexually, they’re incompetent in communication, home life, alcohol use, and are in fact your oldest child. Then you look for someone who’s lived and enjoyed life and has the skills and knowledge to build a happy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:38 AM
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Men chase multiple women even after paired. You also assume 51% of the population is being chased ie actively dating, available, young/old enough to date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:36 PM
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Idk who you’re dating but can speak for my experience. Unless they’re like fds types by a third or 4th date we’re always alternating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:10 PM
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If you view all relationships as transactional don’t be surprised if no one’s buying what you’re selling. Paying for a first date is not a material thing in the traditional sense of like buying a gift. It’s more in the domain of act of service, you make a plan, you pick a time and place, you take care of the bill. It’s a sign that you can provide. Most women will offer to pay the next one, some will even insist on splitting. If you don’t ever want to deal with it then just eat with your friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:56 PM
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You treat every pal the exact same. Same jokes, same food, same dynamics Independent does not mean uniform People shouldn’t expect to be taken care of by a stranger but if you don’t make the dynamic different than a friend then why should you be thought of as anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:50 AM
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Then don’t complain if you get friendzoned treating all your dates like your pals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:20 AM
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It implies it’s a date and not lunch with your co-workers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:15 PM
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You don’t try to kiss your coworkers. You also use different language. Can I take you out to, will you meet me at, I’d like to get to know you better etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:15 PM
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So ask your bro out to lunch and see who pays
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:54 PM
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It’s almost like people enjoy affection and being treated nice by their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:25 PM
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But how do you know who the neurodivergent girls are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:00 PM
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Lot fewer girls on the spectrum. So you’d still have the issue of many guys competing for limited number of girls. Plus unless you put on a profile or meet at an event specifically for neurodivergent individuals( how will you know the person you’re vying for is on the spectrum til after you’ve spent your time an potentially wasted it and are rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:36 AM
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Not politically biased but all survey research is inherently biased since it is only a slice of a population. 1000 people to represent 40 million. However agree that pew does good work and tries to address and identify acknowledge the biases present
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:58 PM
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If a stranger has never said you’re handsome for no reason you’re not attractive. You’re at best average (4-6 range)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah you already told us you can’t pick up on gradation or subtlety. Not sure why you’re repeating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:13 AM
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You said yourself you don’t see a difference. That’s the point. I know you are looking at the words but comprehension is different (there’s that word again)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:13 AM
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Your inability to see the difference is a representative example of why so many of you are so unappealing to women. You seem to think toxic masculinity is the only form of masculinity while failing at it and then can’t make up for it any other area then blame your height and get bitter that women prefer a handsome sack of bones over an ugly sack of bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:05 PM
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Height, a physical attribute, is not the same as dominating, an array of behaviors and viewpoints. What so many men fail to understand is that the virtues of masculinity have not changed but the implementation has. Women still like protection and security from their man but that is no longer tilling land, erecting structures for safety, fighting others constantly and taking out left over aggression on her. Providing is no longer hunting and building a structure for housing. There are different w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:30 PM
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Difference between what’s attractive in a relationship and a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:00 AM
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To be Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:04 PM
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Women’s magazines don’t know what men want out of a lifetime partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:32 AM
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Speak for yourself. As long as you lay down boundaries they’re great. Way better wingmen than guys. They are different friendships than guys but the point is your personality will dictate how many and what type of people are in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:32 AM
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If you’re ugly and have a good personality you’d have female friends. They might friendzone you but Atleast you’d be less lonely. If you’re handsome and have a good personality you’d have female friends who sometimes would sleep with you. Might not lead to a relationship but you’d be less lonely. Notice how one fixable trait leads to less loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:00 PM
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Emotional labour is a euphemism for self abuse when they stay in abusive relationships with men who aren’t over their ex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:56 PM
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Cognitive dissonance is a mechanism where you will rationalize the negative outcome as being optimal (i.e. sour grapes). Friendships, emotional bonds have a plethora of benefits and are the default social construct for the simian family. The hermit lifestyle is an exception usually characterized by trauma or sacrifice not an ideal. Your list goes on and on basically that it’s not that bad and emotional support is not important while several times highlighting FEELING respected or useful. Those a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:34 PM
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You realize how unattractive (not just physically) so many people are Some women look down on you, they also assume you must lie, cheat and deceive to sleep with so many women
/r/seduction11/06/23 12:31 PM
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This is just a list of cognitive dissonance regarding loneliness Find a friend Get a hug bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:23 PM
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Your strength peak is in your 30s, your ability to grow well groomed facial hair is better. If you peaked physically in your 20s then you did it very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:29 PM
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Most men in their 30s are more attractive than than in their 20s On top of that they’re more likely to want a serious relationship and have a career. Why wouldn’t you date the richer, more attractive and stable option?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:44 PM
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Libido (desire) is always different since it’s an individual feeling/urge like hunger. That was true in casual and ltr. If one person gains weight easily and another doesn’t who do you think typically will be more selective in what they eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:16 PM
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The risks of casual sex are mostly mitigated in a ltr unless there’s infidelity. The rates of sex in ltr usually have less to do with libido and a host of other factors. I recommend you check out dead bedrooms and you’ll see innumerable couples where they’d rather masturbate alone (I.e. libido is active) than have sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:33 PM
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It’s not the difference in libido. It’s the difference in risk for casual sex( pregnancy, reputation, even std have more risk for fertility or birth complications)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:23 PM
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Just because you’re exclusive does not mean you are no longer desirable. If you are it’s not because you’re exclusive you just don’t have options for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:57 PM
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Difference between having a hook up once and doing it a few times a year for a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:14 PM
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Online dating has nothing to do with the traits for successful relationships (honesty, communication, conflict resolution, values, humor, emotional or any other intelligence etc) Online dating is just a tool to meet people with similar scores hence why some individuals have such a concentration of likes/matches. You may happen to find someone to have a relationship with randomly but no OLD app as of yet has anything resembling actual matched compatibility (e harmony is pseudoscience at best). Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:03 PM
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Notice it’s not women attacking us it’s other men. So these stats support the narrative that regardless what gender you are you should be wary of men in public…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:26 AM
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Being “loved” and toxic behavior are very independent entities. Being “loved” is often what allows toxic behavior to continue for extended periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:05 AM
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He finds doing a chore a day overwhelming. That is not unreasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:55 AM
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But this is not corny or goofball or anything. It’s desperate which is the opposite of an aphrodisiac
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:37 AM
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No not really. What makes someone inadequate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:19 AM
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There are plenty of inadequate men in every profession and walk of life Getting by some even do pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:02 PM
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Most of the Guys who complain about this endlessly just can’t get to date 2 or 3 when they vast majority of women will pay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:00 PM
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You can’t be short, stupid, boring, poor and ugly. But that’s what you’re judged on apps. Those are not all equally weighed either. If you’re ugly you need to be a better communicator. And guess what women like men at some point want more than just a pretty face. There’s a difference between swiping on someone which is the equivalent of saying they are cute, maybe I could go on a date with them and the criteria for wanting to tie my potential romantic, financial, children’s, professional, housin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:57 PM
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I think there is a mixup of marches and likes and actual dating. There is also the issue of sequential dating, overlapping, recurrent dates with these networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:25 PM
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No im a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:23 PM
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A funny 7 is where it’s at Sorry you’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:03 AM
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A stand up summed it up well recently. If no one wants to have sex with you then natural selection is saying you shouldn’t reproduce. You are so undesirable that your genes need to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:17 PM
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If they’re just words in the air then why be so bothered if they’re accepted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:47 AM
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Some have natural appeal. Many never work on improving their appeal and then complain that no one finds them appealing.
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:11 PM
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I know quite a few women who refuse to date promiscuous men or men who’ve slept with more 3 people or so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:43 AM
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This articles first table is citing the other article. This articles premise is that young people are having less sex which the original article also states. The original articles just focuses on men having even less sex. If you’re not having sex take that time and learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:59 AM
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Don’t ever shout “Hey are you shy” again 🤣
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:28 AM
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Not emotional connection, chemistry. Not everyone is in the same place at the same age
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:19 PM
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Doesn’t make you happy Makes you happier and adds new facets to your happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:41 AM
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Yeah but is it off putting or a red flag in potential relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:53 AM
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Gym bodies are built in kitchen, not gym
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:53 AM
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Other than the whole what is a human life and does that life matter more than yours. But you’re right quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:05 AM
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So the scenario is when it doesn’t affect someone else and you get to decide where that point is. Huge responsibility you’ve taken on, hope you’re qualified. Thank you for your service.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:15 AM
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By this logic you should not accept treatment for std’s but instead prepare for the possibility of living with the repercussions. In what scenarios is it logical to change the consequences of actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:10 AM
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They’re not mutually exclusive. OLD does not require one to be a recluse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:37 AM
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Yeah it’s a new thing to have your love language as a little badge
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 03:46 AM
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I think the kids are in coach
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 12:40 PM
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Except for all the time’s it didn’t Which was always
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/20 04:00 AM
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Of all the things that didn’t happen. This didn’t happen the most.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 02:31 AM
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Different people different challenges Most of them are Mad no one wants what they have to offer on a plate 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:07 PM
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This is what people who never get dates think about getting dates
/r/seduction06/05/20 09:27 PM
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The alpha thing is dumb But the everyone is average is dumber. Everyday there’s a new dumbest thing said on Reddit Congrats 🍾
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:57 AM
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She’s definitely white and doesn’t want black guys hitting on her. With the 2 kids and no work ethic she definitely has a look that appeals a wide range of demographics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/20 06:27 PM
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Big brain mode activated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:09 AM
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So lower your standards to those that can’t afford to be shallow if you’re that undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:16 AM
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If you think you’re that hideous, lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:06 AM
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What a strange way to tell people you don’t read books
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:03 AM
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