miamiric3 Archive

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2	Dating with a model is the best self-improvement I could have You might have triggered Anti-Slut Defense by getting too physical too fast. Usually I flirt for an hour over one drink on the first date and then cut it. Leaves her wanting/questioning if you’re actually into her. Then when she gets a text from you 1-2 days later she gets the dopamine hit.	/r/seduction	16/04/25 07:29 PM
2	Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you? Get to Sex Fast - Black Dragon (Caleb Jones) — Overall approach to dating Women Ignition - 60 Years of Challenge — Kino / escalation	/r/seduction	03/04/25 11:35 AM
1	Hobbies that could make you better with women? Self-defense. There’s something about knowing you could protect her if necessary that makes you walk through the world with a different kind of swagger.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 03:12 PM
2	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? The difference between a friend and a lover is physical touch. If you master kino (alongside the rest of your game), you’ll suddenly realize how close you’ve been to success all along.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 02:54 PM
1	How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A Woman My go to is to make the first date an impromptu bar crawl. Invite them to the first spot. Grab a drink. Start with physical touch. After the drink, suggest another—but at another awesome place down the street (closer to your apartment). More physical touch (hopefully a hand hold on the walk). Second drink. More physical touch. Maybe a kiss while on the way to the third spot. Etc. You get the idea. (Look up “kino” for how to do the escalation of physical touching correctly.) Obviously, you need t…	/r/seduction	04/03/25 01:26 PM
1	I know this is Lame… but we need a “moves List” a list of moves to start escalation or confirm attraction.. I’ll go first Seconded	/r/seduction	06/01/25 05:32 AM
1	How to give her the best sex of her life? This.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 03:20 PM
1	How do I pick up signs from woman!?!?!? Which reminds me of South Park’s take on the matter… https://youtu.be/VEEWKvi5Ewc&t=55	/r/seduction	02/10/24 11:48 AM
4	She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date Again 90% agree with you. Though I disagree on kissing on a first date since it can lead to anti-slut defense. (For the uninitiated, anti-slut defense is when she beats herself up for being too easy/promiscuous and either slows things down physically or cuts things off entirely as a result.) I prefer holding hands / mutual caressing on the first date and saving kissing / sex / etc. for the second/later dates. That keeps the air of mystery about “Did he like me?” “Why didn’t he try and kiss me?” “What’…	/r/seduction	16/03/24 11:43 PM
1	Should I end the relationship? Depending on how old you are, you should date until you’re 37% of your lifespan done. Then marry the first person you meet better than everyone in that 37%. I’ll just leave this here… https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/02/16/when-to-stop-dating-and-settle-down-according-to-math/	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/23 01:58 PM
7	Women will follow you till the end of the earth if you have good dick game. There are so many factors at play here… When a woman orgasms, oxytocin is released in her brain. You just need to be good enough to make her cum at least once per time you see her and you’ll be better than 9/10 guys she meets, which will keep her coming back for more. Anti-slut defense is real. Her body count is a number she feels pressured by society to keep low so she can eventually meet and marry the guy of her dreams to whom she wants to appear innocent and pure. Once you’ve slept with her a…	/r/seduction	04/07/23 05:36 PM
1	This girl set me up perfectly Oh, my b—didn’t see the update.	/r/seduction	21/06/23 05:01 AM
6	This girl set me up perfectly I read “we made out, went back to my place soon after” as saying he did take her home.	/r/seduction	21/06/23 05:00 AM
0	What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are? Yes. And just to add a few more possible options… hairstyling, teeth whitening, and if all else fails, plastic surgery (though that should definitely be a LAST resort after you’re in shape, well-groomed, well-styled, etc.)	/r/seduction	24/05/23 04:03 AM
1	Unusual ways to meet woman During simple natural conversation, use slowly progressing physical touch. Two steps forward. One step back. Goal is to hold her hand. If she does that, she’ll likely come home with you. Read up on kino.	/r/seduction	12/04/23 04:25 AM
1	How can I get laid on short notice Start complimenting random people (guys girls doesn’t matter) on the street as you’re walking past. But do NOT stop to keep the conversation going. You will get positive reactions 60-70% of the time and neutral reactions 30-40%. Not sticking around makes it come off more genuine since you clearly weren’t looking to get anything out of it. That’ll put you in a good headspace for talking to people. Once you’ve got a a good feeling and are excited to compliment the next person, that will shine thro…	/r/seduction	14/07/22 07:05 PM
8	Am I a Sugar Daddy? THIS	/r/seduction	04/07/22 03:45 PM
10	Am I a Sugar Daddy? I hate to break it to you, but if she’s not on birth control and you’re not wearing a condom, it’s suuuuper easy for her to hold you in with her legs while you’re trying to pull out, you get a little over excited, stay in, and boom—you’re a father. Please. For the love of God. Wear a condom.	/r/seduction	04/07/22 03:42 PM
2	What is a good way to meet a lot of women? Sure. But if cold approaches to go for the SNL don’t work, why not try and break into their group of friends instead?	/r/seduction	05/01/22 04:59 PM
4	What is a good way to meet a lot of women? This! Go to bars and meet everyone. Stop trying to pick anyone up from the bar. Make new friends. Hang out with said friends. And then meet THEIR friends.	/r/seduction	05/01/22 01:14 PM
1	What is a good way to meet a lot of women? Hinge is pretty great. And why don’t cold approaches work? Is it very religious country or something?	/r/seduction	05/01/22 01:12 PM
8	How many rejections in a row is too much? IMHO, day game/street game just doesn’t sound like it’s working for you. No biggie… it’s just probably time to try a different venue (like bars) where women are actually expecting to be approached. However, regardless of venue, you should recognize that the vibe you’re giving off is probably less playful and more intense/outcome dependent (which can be pretty scary for women since there’s no way for them to know your intentions and if you’re a potential stalker/rapist/etc.) Thus, the safest opti…	/r/seduction	03/01/22 11:08 AM
2	Just got rejected by the girl i loved Unfortunately, the song “Girls Just Want to Have Fun” nailed it. Girls generally want to go out with guys who are fun and will add excitement to their lives (especially the young girls). Bonus points on top of fun for being confident, funny, smart, rich, good looking, in shape, and/or great in bed. (But she won’t know the last one until she buys in.) The truth is, right now, you’ve got your whole life ahead of you and you’ve got a choice… — You can either focus on dating success for the rest of …	/r/seduction	24/12/21 04:04 PM
13	What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”? 😳 (Am I doing it right?)	/r/seduction	17/12/21 06:04 AM
2	What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”? If in person... Thanks (with a smile and associated physical contact). E.g. touching her hand while you say it. If she doesn’t pull away, hold her hand. If she still doesn’t pull away, start playing with her fingers. If she does it back to you, suggest (or just lead her by the hand) somewhere more private and go for the kiss.	/r/seduction	17/12/21 06:03 AM
2	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? Grow a (well-maintained) beard if you can. I’m late twenties and look 18 without it, but 32 with it. Also, just make friends with everybody. Guys, girls, doesn’t matter. Some of the women will want to sleep with you—great! Others will be down to be friends with you and will introduce you to their friends who in turn may want to sleep with you—even better. But being a friendly, fun guy who everybody likes is the easiest way to attract people. The only mistake is not talking to everyone you can.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 03:08 PM
9	To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure? This is the way	/r/seduction	22/11/21 02:05 PM
2	[deleted by user] Easy. Make physical contact with him. Touch his shoulder/arm while laughing or saying something. If he pulls away, he’s probably not interested. Let your hands linger a bit longer. Touch his hand. Hold his hand. Play with his fingers. If he plays with your fingers back, he’s into it, and you can proposition him. Eye contact is definitely good, but physical contact is what will seal the deal. As for cold approaching, you can literally strike up a conversation about almost anything. Just say “Hi”,…	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:38 AM
2	Knowing That you are a nice guy The difference between the friend zone and something more is physical contact. Start touching girls when you meet them (with a progression of... incidental shoulder touches, arm touches, outer thigh touches, hand touches, hand holding). That’s how you make sure to never get friend zoned again. If they pull away at any of these points, back off a bit and try again later. (Note: If she holds your hand and starts caressing your hand (I.e. playing with your fingers when you’re playing with hers) she…	/r/seduction	14/11/21 12:24 AM
19	Can I ask for casual sex? It’s all about moving things forward physically. Here’s one such example. Basically, you do two steps forward, one step back. Each time testing the waters a bit further along while the conversation is flowing... Does she pull away when you touch her shoulder at a natural conversation point and then quickly pull it away? No? What if you leave your hand there a little longer? No? What if you touch the outside of her thigh briefly while talking? No? What if you leave your hand there a bit longer? N…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 09:45 PM
2	What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not? Start making physical contact while making points in conversation. E.g. touching her shoulder and leaning in as if you can’t hear her. Graduate to arm. Outer thigh. And eventually hand. Then let your touch linger a bit longer each time. If she doesn’t pull away, that’s a good sign. Eventually, you want to turn that into holding her hand. If you’re holding her hand try caressing her hand (e.g. playing with her fingers and whatnot). If she caresses yours back, she’s down. I’ve had so many women th…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 07:31 AM
2	What’s the fastest way to loose your virginity Learn to talk to people (easiest way is to go somewhere and just compliment random people on articles of clothing that you like and carry through those conversations to completion). Once you’re feeling comfortable with it, strike up a conversation with a girl and when you hit a commonality (e.g. I like dancing / music / poetry / etc.) suggest you exchange info to go do that activity and get her number. Text her to set plans. Go on said plans. And make physical contact while you’re talking to her…	/r/seduction	04/11/21 09:50 PM
3	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? This is the way	/r/seduction	03/11/21 01:53 AM
3	How to confirm a date without sounding needy This is the way	/r/seduction	26/10/21 06:55 AM
2	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? This comment will probably get lost, but whatever. There are 3 important skills: 1. Learning to initiate a conversation 2. Learning to talk to people 3. Learning to escalate That’s it. If you can open a conversation, talk to attractive women just like any one else, and then make it clear you’re interested in sleeping with them, you will inevitably find women who are interested in sleeping with you too. I’d recommend reading the books “Women Ignition” by 60 Years of Challenge (if you’re into phys…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 11:53 AM
1	Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her home The problem was anti-slut defense (ASD). It’s the reason why guys should rarely kiss on a first date and/or publicly during a first meeting. It might be fun in the moment, but the minute she steps back and says “OMG, I’m such a slut for kissing that random guy.” or her friends step back and say “OMG, you are such a slut for kissing that random guy.” it’s gameover for you. The solution is to go for the hand hold instead of a kiss (more specifically—“mutual hand caressing” according to 60 Years of…	/r/seduction	16/10/21 10:23 AM
1	Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid? Kino is a Pickup Artist (PUA) term for kinesthetic touch I believe. Just Google something like “kino pua” or “kino pickup” or “kino dating” and hopefully you’ll be able to find it. Feel free to follow up if you still have more questions.	/r/seduction	27/09/21 02:52 AM
3	Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid? There’s no shortcut unfortunately. What u/Ensifror said is spot on. You need to learn to: Talk to people (men / women / whoever) and learn to treat attractive women in conversation exactly the same as everyone else. Learn to express sexual interest in attractive women. There are multiple ways to do this, but my preference is through physical touch. (Look up “kino” for more info on this.) Not sure how to help with #1, other than to say just go to events (meetups, workout classes, hell... even rel…	/r/seduction	26/09/21 04:28 PM