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This is the good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:53 PM
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For me that is no problem, he is dressed okay (but I see what you mean), I am not sure what it is. But yeah I'd swipe left for sure...and I love blond men. His face is not attractive to me at all and he has a typical fuckboy look.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 AM
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I'm wondering if there is something wrong with me because I don't find him attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:26 PM
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:))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:17 PM
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Ahh yes this is a really good answer. I was so happy you linked young Trent Reznor. You also could have added Layne Staley or Jerry Cantrell from the 90s. And most women I know personally would pick the sexy musician type including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:20 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:07 AM
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Yeah me neither...I never understood this "theory". Without a good heart screw the good looks but yeah, it's important to me and almost every women I know personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:25 PM
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I'm so sorry that is your experience. But do you live in Asia? Because in many countries here in Europe so many women are 5'6-5'7 on average. I believe you and this is why I say I don't understand this whole height obsession thing. If the face and hair is nice idgaf. But honestly my so is like 5'7 and he is always talking about his height like it's a negative thing which is just super sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:24 AM
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I agree, I give zero fucks about height (too tall would be weird for me), I'm like 5'2 so anything from that is perfectly fine with me. I care way waaay more about face and hair. I don't understand this whole height thing and I never did. Most men I have ever dated were like 5'7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:52 PM
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Yes very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:28 PM
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Of course, I know many women like that too. I have never been insecure about my body like that but that's just me. I wish more women voiced their needs to men...I am sure there are a few exceptions (they are true assholes) but most men are more than happy to do whatever a woman asks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:54 AM
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100% this comment. Men and women gotta advocate for our sexual needs. Men are just more used to it. Exactly. I mean of course everyone wishes that their partner would just know what they want but that is not realistic. Whenever I said something they always did it. How are they supposed to know if you don't say it? When we talk about giving head to a woman...many women don't even like that. What if his previous girlfriend didn't like it and he is not used to doing it? You have to say everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:57 AM
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I mean you are right. There are men who are not selfish at all but most of them just don't really care. Any time I said something they were more than happy to to give me head and learn how I like it etc. And with women it's so much more complex and they are all so different and men are just not mind readers. Many times they assume that you cannot have an orgasm and they don't wanna bring it up. You have to say what you want and they will be happy to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:27 PM
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This is a really good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:12 PM
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Yup that behavior is a true enthusiasm killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:44 AM
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I'm sure that's true and not relevant for me since I'm in a relationship with someone who is older than me and doesn't want kids (he has 2 already from his marriage and ended his last relationship because the woman wanted kids desperately),
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:11 AM
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I have high libido and most women I know personally are the same. I am up for anything most of the time, I like to mix it up, I never just lie there waiting for my so to finish. I definitely don't want to have it every day but 1-3 times a week and then I truly take my time. I experience the same problem in my current and first long term relationship. My so is just...doing a routine that he likes. I expressed to him many times what I want and he is not paying attention. It's still good and he mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:10 PM
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Unfortunately, many men are primarily willing to take the vast risks of marriage in order to start a family. Otherwise, there isn't enough of a benefit to them committing to a single woman. I know and that's cool. I am dating an older man who is divorced and has kids. His last relationship ended because his ex wanted kids desperately and he didn't. So we are fine with that but there is no reason to get married. This is all a personal anecdote so I cannot state for sure, obviously. However, men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:42 PM
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Yes. From a biological point of view, roughly 90% of your eggs are gone by 30, so that alone puts you at a severe disadvantage I hope that is true because I am scared of getting pregnant more than anything in the world even though I take bc. Honestly what you wrote makes total sense and you're probably right. I was always just going my own way and I always knew I never want kids with anyone and for some reason my friends and sister are exactly like this too. I assumed everyone is like this but p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:35 PM
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30 is "older women"??? Okaaaay.... Here I am basically talking about me and many many 30 year olds I know who don't want kids, don't necessarily wanna get married. Many women just don't base their worth on marriage (since we never saw it working out good for anyone so....). I get what you are saying and sure, the fact that dudes wanna bang you is not a positive thing. I have no idea if those things would be serious or not and I don't even care and also, I am in a relationship. I am just saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:55 PM
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Why would she grow sick and tired of me in ten years? Because people change. Especially from 19-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:54 PM
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True. I'm 30. I attract more men now than at 20 and from literally every age group. Why would a 30 year old woman attract only 50 year olds???? Lollllllll If you take care of yourself you can look even better than in your 20s. I only started taking care of myself like 2 years ago, I smoked for 11 years and yet at almost 31 I get carded often so no I am not worried I will only attract 50 year olds haha wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:33 PM
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Women who are average like myself can get sex with very good looking and even much younger men if we want it I only realized this now at 30. Very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:25 AM
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Whatever leverage a woman has in her 20's matters very little when you consider the outcome of most relationships 7-15 years down the line. Very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:58 PM
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That is true. In my case every man is bigger than me since I am like....160 cm, naturally petite. But I have seen Timothée Chalamet mentioned here and I would say that he is too skinny for me so I just mean a naturally lean look with a teeny bit of muscle. Like young Jerry Cantrell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:13 PM
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I understand and I am sure women are into them but to me they are not attractive at all. And of course, without a warm personality it’s even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:57 AM
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I'm 30 and most men over 30 look gross to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:31 PM
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Totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:14 PM
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Girls like lean guys with a little muscle. That group wins the most, especially if tall. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:01 PM
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besides steroid physique aint attractive to most women. I'm a 30 year old woman and that look was never, ever attractive to me. I don't even understand why anyone would find it attractive. I know some women are into that but people I know personally don't find that attractive at all. Lean guys are more popular I think. Face and hair are also more important factors, like much more important factors. It's kinda like silicone tits. I imagine some men like them but for some reason the ones I meet in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:00 PM
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OMG this is the best advice ever I couldn't have said it better.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:10 PM
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I wanna give you some tips as a 30 year old woman. Could it happen? Absolutely. I know many women over 30 who slept with much much younger guys. Why? Because they were maybe divorced, hurt, manipulated by men all their lives. What's attractive about a young guy is his youth and the fact that he is naive in a way and has no intentions of hurting you. So, with all that being said, seducing her. You cannot touch a woman just like that. You need to talk to her first. Trust me, if she is 36, she will…
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:09 PM
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Yes so much this and I am so happy this is happening. It's not the fact that women who are alone don't want a good partner, it's just that they are not willing to settle for less and why should they. Also the whole " you're gonna die alone blahblahblah"...we all die alone, we all feel lonely sometimes, even when surrounded by a lot of people, even in a relationship. Having a partner can still mean you are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:21 AM
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Why do men just not get anything? Women don't like porn because it's misogynistic garbage and it's degrading to women. Porn doesn't show the woman getting any real pleasure out of sex as it's entirely geared towards a male audience and primarily focused on male pleasure Yes so much this comment. So many men are clueless and they actually think that giving a woman pleasure means doing porn stuff to her. Since we are women we know when a woman is turned on and in porn they are never turned on and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:06 PM
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Good luck to you too! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:49 PM
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being anally raped twice by men I was in love with and in a relationship with. one of them i was literally crying and saying no the entire time, the other I think was an accident but he acted like it was just okay and didn't apologize or say anything as i bled out of my ass onto his sheets and said "that was my ass" and then left to go home to treat my ass wound. Omg. I am so sorry that happened to you. How did you heal from that (if you did)? This happened to me too and I have PTSD from it it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:34 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:04 PM
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That man is good looking? I think that woman is extremely beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:47 PM
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I think being married is not an achievement especially if she doesn't want to get married. Some people just don't wanna get married ever. She is still wife material for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:31 PM
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I'm not the prettiest either, but I never had issues with attracting men. My best friend from high school is a lot prettier than me and I attracted much better men. So my conclusion based on this is that men do care about personality and what you bring to the table, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:28 PM
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My problem is I never even meet men like that anymore.The ones who pass the minimum standard. I'm just not attracted to anyone and when I do it's only when I see my type but nothing happens onviously. If I talked to them more they might turned out to be repulsive. I don't know what's going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:49 AM
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Exactly. In my country for example many women choose to be single because it's not worth it to be with a man. There is still this medieval lifestyle here, that women need to do everything and I saw that enough to be scared away from most men. In the surrounding western countries I don't really see that, there is more equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:23 AM
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In a way I'm like you and I totally understand what you're saying. I used to be like that and really average dudes became sexually attractive to me once I got to know them. Now, it changed and I have a type. I have no idea why. Hopefully it's just a phase. And I agree, a lot of guys refuse to believe that sexual attraction for us is very different usually and it's coming from many different factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:58 AM
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Yeah I'm not offended I just found it funny that some people would actually think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:50 AM
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See, I think I'm like that too. I never ever ever find any man attractive and when I do it happens maybe once every few years. But I need to know someone, even those attractive ones. Yes you are right about that. I also think maybe they have been hurt and manipulated by men a lot and they are attracted to the young kids's innocence? I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:07 PM
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yes I'm a leftover lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:48 PM
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Omg, you summed it up perfectly. That is exactly how I felt like when I was that age, invincible. When I was a teen or 18-19 23-25 year old dudes looked like super serious grown ups and I would have fallen for them sooooo hard. But not anymore lol. Back then those really really good looking ones never gave a shit about me but now at 30, I suddenly have a chance with all of them. I don't really know why though but it's funny. But yes I just cannot imagine living through my 20s again with them. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:33 PM
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Are you me? I'm 30 but I look a lot younger than that. 25 year old dudes look like kids to me. They can be good looking but I just can't imagine dating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:20 PM
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Yes man 2 will lose his looks after 30 no matter how good his genetics are. I saw that happen on many dudes I knew from young age. Smoking and regualr drinking is so bad. And it's especially the drinking that would bother me. Having 1-2 drinks is totally fine, even though I hate alcohol and I don't enjoy the feeling it gives me. But who wants to be around someone who is hangover all the time, doesn't remember what he does and acts stupid. Drunk people are so pathetic and ridiculous. Taking care …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:47 AM
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No need to worry about it. My current so used to be a huge womanizer back in the day and omg he was so bad at oral. I told him how I like it and then it was good. My highschool sweetheart was a virgin when we first hooked up (I wasn't) and omg you couldn't even tell. He was just so attentive. He was also good at oral and that was the first time he did anything like that. So..my point is. There is no such thing as being "bad in bed". Everyone likes different stuff. Maybe your fist time will be st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:53 PM
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I don't know. Not often, but sometimes (maybe 1x a year) I see a really really good looking dude and I think about exactly that. I think it's healthy. Doesn't mean I act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:08 PM
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Yes they do think that they understand how the world works and anyone who has less is probably a loser or just too lazy to study or work. I cringe when I see someone showing off their ultra luxury lifestyle on instagram for example. Why do that? Honestly, if I ever had that much money I would give most of it to charity and do a job where I can help people every day. That would maybe make me feel better but showing it off? Nahh. I like the way you think and same here, I am so not impressed by it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:27 AM
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Wow! Then you and me think very much alike! When I know that people struggle and live paycheck to paycheck I just cannot be bothered about privileged people and their private islands and forests in Thailand or whatever. I stay away from that as much as I can and stay true to myself, when I meet someone who is extremely rich and clueless I just say "ahh good for you". Thanks for sharing your views on this with me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:30 AM
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I don't even run in circles like that and it doesn't impress me either. Any extremely rich dude I have ever met, I met them at my workplace where they tried to pick me up. Just like with you, they were telling me about all their businesses and stores and showing pictures about their luxury trips. My favorite one was a picture of one of them soaking in a jacuzzi...like is that a positive thing or what? One of them told me how much his car was worth. I was like "ahh how nice". They didn't understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:29 PM
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I believe you but for some reason that makes me sad. It's very hard to get by in this world, especially without family background, I struggled a lot too and constantly strive to get better and improve myself but money is no happiness and I will stand by what I said forever: money doesn't make anyone pretty or interesting or a good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:21 PM
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Since I don't look down on people doing jobs yes I think I would. Good company is what I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:21 PM
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OP doesn't understand how love works. It's anything but superficial and many times it doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:46 PM
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I believe you, this happened to me too. They just couldn't believe I don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:33 PM
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This is so true. Having ambition is important, but not the money and the stuff (for me and basically all women I know and like). Money doesn't make anyone pretty or loveable. Most rich men I know are not very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:32 PM
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Maybe?? So?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:51 PM
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That's really good. I think meeting someone great is pure luck, all it takes is being at the right place at the right time, but for that, you need to be out :) If I was sitting in my room listening to Nine Inch Nails I wouldn't have met my so and that was pure luck too. After high school it's harder to meet people but totally possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:48 PM
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Of course! I know a few men like that too and especially after a certain age having a social circle and keeping it is really really hard. I guess there is online dating but I have never tried it so I cannot say what's that like. A guy I know met his wife there. He wasn't social or outgoing, worked only with men so that was his only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:36 PM
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Of course they do. Some women are alone too. I answered the question based on what I see around myself: basically every men I know has a wife or a girlfriend and the ones who don't have something in them that drives people away. I'm talking about people over 30-35 not 20 somethings. Of course there are the ones who choose to be alone because they don't find a women they truly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:18 PM
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I've never wanted to get married for these exact reasons (outdated, religious and pointless) and I have never wanted kids. I always viewed dating as having fun. If I am like this then there must be other women like me out there too. I actually don't understand why women wanna get married so badly. The baby thing, I get it. But with that one logic wins for me. I hope you meet someone who shares your view on things but I can see, this is very rare sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:55 PM
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Exactly. With like 2-3 exceptions all the men I know or have ever known are average looks-wise. They all have wives or girlfriends. It's the whole package you need to look at, and then they are pretty good overall. Anyone who is alone has a really off-putting personality and or ambitionless and lets themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:41 PM
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All the time in real life. I do not even consider myself that beautiful so many times I just don't understand. I get hit on by strangers on facebook too but I just ignore those messages. I live in a small city. I am not doing anything, I don't wear makeup, I'm 30. I get hit on way more now than at age 20 or 25. I really don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:03 PM
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Aye fair enough, I didn't know better at 18. I'm really happy for him though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:50 PM
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I just want to say you are probably never the dominant one. Just being on top isn't dominance. Okay well you are probably right about this I gotta give you that. Ohh and yes sometimes it is better to stay away from a "crazy" type like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:53 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:51 AM
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Why would I lie about this, what purpose would that serve me? Out of the thousands of men I have met in my life I am basically talking about 5 men, so that is not a lot I guess. 2 of them were colleagues and they were in a relationship. One of them, and maybe he is the one with the biggest impact on me, is dead (not lying). One was from another country where he went back to and it was just friendship. The last one is an ex and yes, I fucked that up big time, I was only 18. He is married now and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:49 AM
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These were exactly my thoughts. OP said "the very act of sex is agressive". Sometimes yes, sometimes no. When I'm on top and literally take over I am sure as hell the dominant one so there is that. Roughing it up is cool but sometimes. Everyone burns out from doing that all the time. Some people never do that because they don't like it and they enjoy the respectful and gentle sex. This whole idea that ALL women want to be dominated and slapped and choked etc is so not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:16 PM
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So much this. The only men who ever had a huge impact on me were really really good and kind and deep down good-hearted and they were in no way doormats or losers. They were either friends, colleagues or exes, some of them were even extremely beautiful and even that didn't make them self absorbed. I literally cannot say one bad thing about any of them and they were so so loveable. They all had ambitions and I could look up to them but their genuine kind heart and nice nature made me look up to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:24 PM
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I honestly would love to see that, or maybe it's just my country, but I always see couples where the woman is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:25 PM
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Shit. My so is in the top 5% then. Wtf. (I'm only cute tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:23 PM
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Good to hear and totally agree with everything you said :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:49 PM
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Very very true. When I was 27 I was throwing a fit to a man I know, he was late 30s, about how my 20s end soon and I will be too old (I was stupid). He said "what are you talking about, 30 and 40 something women are the best". That really stuck with me. And he was right. One other question here is that just thinking about me at 22, sometimes staying up until 3-4 am, always drinking and partying and talking like a kid. How is a 40-50 year old man supposed to keep up with that or like that? Even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:09 PM
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Sorry, but I don't agree with this at all. In most cases, women want to be with someone long term who is around the same age as them. Yes, men get turned on by younger women which is totally understandable, but it's not that simple. I know some divorced 40 year old men who complain to me all the time how they tried dating 20 somethings and long term, it's not good. Why? Because they have nothing in common. Of course, there are exceptions, like with everything. There are huge age gap relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:53 PM
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Well it is what it is :) It's not easy, he is no angel but I trust him and I definitely know he wants me. But for me the most important thing was...let him be who he is, if I don't, then I cannot even say I love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:37 AM
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I have been in a relationship with a man like this for almost 4 years and in the beggining it was hard. I never thought that I was special in any way or he will change for me, I just couldn't resist him, Now I guess I could say I trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:48 PM
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You're right about this. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:34 AM
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Thanks! And yeah, I literally never met anyone who didn't do stupid things, but that's how we learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:13 PM
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Oh lying about this is not okay at all. I've never lied to any man about what I did in the past. Which was nothing special, just some one night stands. That was 10 or more years ago, and obviously I'm a grown ass woman and now, I cannot imagine hooking up with a stranger and cringe when I think about the past. But just because I used to do that doesn't mean that I'm like that now. But the same way, if a guy tells me he used to do this and that, I don't care. The past is the past and people chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:23 PM
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I'm not doing that with anyone. But there is no need to get mad about a hookup that happened 10 years ago where you are drunk and you don't care for the guy and you were very young and a different person. Do you see what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:04 PM
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I understand why that hurts a guy's feelings, but on the other hand, every man always tells me that if you want a guy to take you seriously, don't have sex with him too fast, because then he will think you are easy. Obviously that is not true for everyone, but I think you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:28 PM
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This is just my experience. Yes when we were that age, we had many opportunities with my girlfriends to lose it. But we always noped out because we were afraid, and also, I had zero sexual desire. I was curious, yes, but not turned on by sex at all. I was a kid, and nothing wrong with that. Finally one night, I went crazy and really drunk, and lost it. It was painful and pointless. I was 17, almost 18. Yet I wasn't ready to do it. For me, I should have waited until 20, that's when the real desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:02 PM
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I'm 30 and this is totally true. I was 26 when I started dating this dude and before him I had no idea I preferred this size but it is just perfect for everything. We took a long break once where I hooked up with someone with a bigger dick and it was so uncomfortable and exhausting, Plus yeah average size is better for anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:26 PM
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Well honestly I prefer shorter men, since I'm only 160 cm tall. With the dick size, I prefer the average size, definitely not the bigger ones. Tried it and average is a lot better in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:50 PM
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