| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | TW: Always protect yourself because the only one person you can trust with birth control and its consequences is you | MALE DEPRAVITY | miaumiaoumicheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Grocery shopping and cooking chores FIRST DATE with “poly” LVM and his wife... I am speechless | PICKME CULTURE | miaumiaoumicheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | TW: Importance of awareness of reproductive abuse is barely discussed but crucial for every woman to stay safe | MALE DEPRAVITY | miaumiaoumicheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 05:15 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 145 | After Carefully Reading & Listening to Feedback From Men on Reddit About FDS, I Think Some May Actually Have A PointThat’s why I miss this sub so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/23 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Promiscuous men are excused because of hormonesWhat a bullshit Classic “women want what I want them to want” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 06:47 PM |
| 38 | Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties.I will always say that - as 20 years old woman I will always laugh at 30-40 years old men with their expired sperm thinking they deserve young women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 01:41 AM |
| 12 | This story makes me angry for her. Never give your kidney to any man. This girl just gave her kidney to her boyfriend and then he cheated on her. This man is disgusting!She should be able to legally take her kidney back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 76 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂That’s amazing, literally always when a man goes on OLD he chooses one of this as his personality The manchild has also: Netflix and chill Good vibes only Your mom will love me Only here on vacation, show me around I’m looking for a good time, not a long time Van life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 80 | Seen in a medical sub. Thankfully the replies were very supportive; I hope she will be OKPoor girl, she shouldn’t have even give birth at that young age, actually she is still a child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:05 PM |
| 202 | Age Gaps in the MediaAlexa and her boyfriend look totally normal and same age while two pictures above them looks like typical dad with a daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Weaponized incompetence isn’t just annoying: it can be dangerous. They will hurt their own kids if it gets them out of simple tasks.Am I the only person that feels like he was trying to hurt his wife to punish her for the fact that he has to be the one making breakfast? Because it’s not very likely that anyone actually prefers that level of spicy food that is able to make people severely ill and vomiting I can bet she only uses a very little amount of the sauce and he put the unhealthy amount on purpose to make her vomit and to then tell her “oh, I thought you like spicy food, well, then if you didn’t like and don’t apprecia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 33 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!My god, she should abort in secret, take her mother support and leave him ASAP cause it seems like a last chance for her in her life to do this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersI don’t know is this a proper advice, plastic surgeries are not for people who have severe mental issues and can’t choose properly what they want to do but it’s obvious, your surgeon should check it firstly and I don’t really think that any woman should look for confidence in her natural look rather than inside and no one’s loving themselves should depend on being proud cause of natural look, it’s not a healthy approach as it’s also internalized misogyny due to judging women value on their genes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Interpreting a scrote's sad taleWhat? You actually don’t see how sick this man is? There is no compromise in being forced to unwanted pregnancy and traumatic childbirth, he literally wanted to just pay her for being his incubator against her will... he’s not mid value and not even low value, he’s just a piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:32 AM |
| 3 | This 4chan story is fake AF, but if there’s even a grain of truth in it, good on the ex-gf on leveling up!She struggled after breakup cause their relationship was important to her but she recovered, as she started felling better without him she reached her healthy weight again as she had lost her weight while being in unsatisfying relationship, she started dating again, she experienced low relations but always decided to finish them after seeing not proper behavior, she was always thinking positive about the future He also heard from her friends that she’s in new promising relationship now, they wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 04:41 AM |
| 72 | "I WORK and pay ALL the bills" and "she agreed to it" does not justify being a man-childHonestly I will never believe in this “but she agreed to let me have bachelor party/resign from her career/stay at home and not work/have multiple kids/have violent sex/do all the chores” She didn’t agree for this, she was forced/coerced and too afraid and blind by love to say “no” and risk losing you if she didn’t agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Fourthwavefeminism from what I saw is much more men pleasing than actually feminist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:55 PM |
| 30 | Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk"Poor child, i jest hope she will be able to go against him and her family and get an abortion so she won’t be forced to have a child of a pedo while still being a child herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 20 | Men on saying they “want children someday”From perspective of childfree woman - I don’t think that acting like you don’t want kids to see his true reaction could work in anyway because men lie not only about wanting kids, they also lie about not wanting them so if you show a man you don’t want kids ever they will just lie that they don’t want it too, they lie about this topic in anyway and they lie like their life depends on it To see true reaction it’s better to not show what do you think about it at all, a lot of men will still lie bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 119 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”Staying at home is usually the worst decision woman make, no matter if she’s a girlfriend or wife and I don’t trust this “it was my own decision” talking because I know some situations like this and it’s never woman’s decision, it brings women only harm, it’s always man’s decision cause it makes her unable to leave You will always end up abused financially, mentally and physically cause he will hate you cause he’ll see you as lazy gold digger (and because he can - and you have to stand it becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 6 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.I’m not a native English speaker but what is he trying to say? Like I can’t understand anything of it, beside the fact that he thinks she isn’t treated as she should be so he’s gonna sacrifice a little time and offer her himself - a man who lives with his mom, wants her to cook and use her for sex but doing it all with respect 🤦🏼♀️ There’s so many words but the message is meaningless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 7 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.I’m 20 and I find it just extremely funny that some 30 years old men even think they can spend their 20s having hook ups and then after their 30 birthday come to 20 years old women and tell them that they’re ready to settle down, marry and have kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 159 | Men who want to be there for you won't let excuses stop them.It’s all really nice but you’re 23 and he’s 5 years older, that’s a huge difference in this age cause it’s totally different stages of life and expectations, I don’t judge but I personally couldn’t advice it to my friend, just please stay safe, don’t agree for marriage that young and the most important - use your own birth control he doesn’t know about so he can’t manipulate it or destroy it cause he’s in that age when men often start looking for younger than them woman to baby trap her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.She’s pretty and a lot of prettier than him and he knows it, that’s why he says it to keep her with low self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How big of an age gap in relationships is acceptable?My age +/- 2 years, in my opinion men around my age are now the most attractive during their whole life, old man brainwashed by RP thinking that young women will be attracted to them is something that disgusts me a lot, even 5 years older are too old for me and I don’t find them attractive because of their age, 5 years younger - no, that’s ethically questionable for me My fiancé is one year older and that’s ok difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Choice feminism - propaganda?I live in country with no access to abortion where we know the tragic reality of forced pregnancy and motherhood and this is the traumatic experience, not abortion you choose to have to save yourself, you say that abortion is not beneficial to anyone but you know for who no access to abortion is beneficial? Men - because this is their perfect way to keep women in place patriarchy forced them to with no possibility to change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 347 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.Don’t watch this, it’s a horrible story about kidnapping, rape and baby trapping that tries to teach women that violence and control is romantic and teach men that violence and control is totally acceptable and women will like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 45 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!That’s bad for her, if she wanted this kid then it would be better for her to have it and raise it alone cause now she has two kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 9 | How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On YouGo to HR or someone above him and don’t let him talk to you this way cause it can keep happen and be even worse, he tries to harass you and probably other women as well, he’s a potentially dangerous creep and please don’t put yourself in situations like this, sadly you have to be very cold with man and especially older ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:36 PM |
| 240 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!22 years old and already has a child with 7 years older man who coerced her to kid in that young age and without marriage... and now anyone tell me that children are not a way for men to keep women with them in bad position | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 115 | Unpregnant 🤰🏼💉🎬Honestly it was really hard for me to read about, I know two situations of women from my country that were baby trapped in young age, things like stealthing are legal here, you can’t get plan b without doctor appointment and prescription and you can’t get an abortion so if a man decides to do this to you, you can’t do anything about this so whenever I hear real or movie stories like this I think about real women from here that go through this and I think what percentage of kids are caused by thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 134 | The GermansYou’re totally true but it’s quite sad, I recently had a conversation with my two girl friends about how normal communication works only between women and is enough for women to cooperate but totally doesn’t work when you would try to do this with man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 21 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.My fiancé travelled to my city for our first meeting and this is how it should look | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 89 | Scrotes will be scrotes. NEVER move in with a boyfriend.28 years old with 38 years old boyfriend, I start reading and I already know it won’t end good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:19 PM |
| 52 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.I’m childfree too and I generally just don’t talk about it with other people because I don’t announce private things to no one and don’t explain myself to no one and there is something that I find sad about your answer - that woman has to suggest she can’t have children because the fact that she doesn’t want it is not enough just like your opinion and your plans about your own life aren’t reason to live this plans, doesn’t matter and have nothing to do with how this life looks like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 37 | Why Being Called "Wife Material" or "Girlfriend Material" Isn't Always a Compliment, Especially If It's Said To You By An LVM - A lot of the times, they are projecting qualities like unwarranted excessive deference, humility, obedience, bangmaid duties onto their "ideal" wife or girlfriendKnowing what most of men look for in wife I wouldn’t want to be considered wife material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 21 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.I don’t even believe woman made this comment 😂 Message for men from perspective of very young woman - men in their middle and late 20, 30 and 40 thinking that they’re attractive for 20 years old are just delusional, if you weren’t attractive for women your age in your 20 then you will be just less attractive in your 40, young women make fun of you or are scared of you cause in their minds you’re just a pedo creep and feel naturally biologically disgusted cause you’re in their fathers age and you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:40 AM |
| 79 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)I’m 5’2 and I totally can tell how tall he is while standing next to him, I have a comparison of people I know from 4’10 to 6’5 and how they look next to me so why so many men keep telling themself that woman won’t see that they’re not 6’0 but 5’7 Despite being short my fiancé is 6’0 cause I expect men to be 6’0-6’3 because I just can expect attractive for me features | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:36 AM |
| 529 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.It’s actually not only casual sex, there are men who can create whole long relationship (and even marriage) despite not being attracted to you at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 17 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d…It was obvious they will break up soon after childbirth, I remember myself telling this when I heard she’s pregnant But for me her pregnancy was shocking enough to open my eyes on the fact that no matter how beautiful woman is she can end really bad with lv man, whole my life I was thinking that if I was beautiful enough men would treat me different, I would have great relationships and great life and I consider Gigi perfectly beautiful in the way I would like to look so when I heard about that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 10 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."I also know one married man that thinks about his marriage as a gift for his wife but talk to other people like that he would never cheat on her but still feels like his marriage is something limiting for him cause there are also other women he would like to date but he can’t cause of this marriage and it’s just sad but it makes me happy and calm when I think that I don’t have to wonder if my fiancé is like this too or not because relationship with me is his first, it’s sadly so common that men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 33 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.I bet if the situation was reversed and wife murdered cheating husband they would be shocked, furious and talking about how she deserves death penalty cause she’s extremely dangerous criminal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:38 PM |
| 23 | Family Matters. Pay close attention to his expectations for you joining his family, and pay equally close attention to his expectations for him joining your family.Honestly I’m always shocked reading reddit and hearing about adults with that close, extremely and unhealthy close connection with family, I can’t even imagine having to care about my fiancé family and taking them into consideration like we were 12 years old dating kids I see like there’s no individuality in us, there are no humans as individuals, there are only humans as part of family, individual is only part of group with no individual life but whole family has one shared life, for me it’s ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️You should have seen men’s reactions when telling them you don’t enjoy cooking And generally - always firstly ask him about it before you share any informations about your interests/plans/opinions/hobby cause he will try to correct himself to say what you may like to hear in any topic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | We need to STOP platforming this “feminine” mentality — it grooms women into compliant relationships with abusive, dangerous LVM. You do NOT praise the bare minimum, you simply walk away if he cannot “do better”.It shows how little is expected from men if any small bare minimum behavior every women does is viewed as something special and unique he should be praised for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 10:16 PM |
| 38 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.It also sounds like Eastern European men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:18 AM |
| 156 | Ummm. What?There’s a biological mechanism that makes people not able to feel sexual attraction to someone they were raising/raised by/raised with during their baby and toddler years and it don’t need to be blood related people so knowing this all it sounds just shockingly disgusting in some unnatural for humans way, for both nature and society it’s just father having kid with his own daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I got custom made rose gold ring with morganite and diamonds for which my fiancé drived many hours to another city to check which size to order for my actually petite fingers, not usd currency here so I can’t compare how much it would be but it was expensive comparing to standard engagement rings prices here and two months after engagement i left it in bathroom to wash myself and our cat pushed it to bathroom sink with his evil paws and we tried to find it there but it was already gone and I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 70 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?Same experience, pushy for sex and slut-shaming in the same time, conservative dreaming about housewife and mother of their kids but broke and can’t support even themself and totally no caring for their appearance cause “it’s gay” to not stink, but actually is it better on west? I don’t know but from what I have heard it’s not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 241 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?It’s worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.Wait, she’s only 25 years old, she has her whole life ahead of her and she already has it destroyed Because she agreed to get married being only 25 and get married to 40 years old (!!!) and then she let this disgusting old man with already weak sperm impregnate her to tie her to him and now, with destroyed physical health cause of pregnancy and childbirth and poor mental health because of both caring for newborn and working to provide for everyone, she fully supports him because he doesn’t even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 5 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysOnce I dated a guy and I can’t even tell how old was he cause I might get banned but this is something I will remember as surprisingly good experience (despite I didn’t wanted this relation to last) because he was so respectful that I haven’t experienced before, it showed me that being well behaved decent human being is just something you are or not so being with someone older who still has the “little kid learning how to be a normal human” mindset is a nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 26 | It do be like thatAnd they all say “it’s so easy to be a woman now, there are so many man willing to have sex with you, I would like to have life like this but sadly men have it more difficult” Just ehh... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 22 | Lessons from LV relationship Part 1: I learned why you should never tell a man about your trauma the hard way. Don't be me.I have really really traumatic youth and I have never told anyone anything cause i have always knew that no one cares about it but will use it when they will need it, man will look for any even small problem or imperfection you see in yourself and will try to use it against you, it’s important to tell every woman that their personal traumatic stories just won’t bond them and their boyfriends and they only risk another harm Now my fiancé know about everything cause he proved he is worth telling h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:38 PM |
| 49 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Too bad for her she agreed to give him kid without marriage, no woman should trap for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:11 PM |
| 10 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.That’s just horrible, I’m shocked especially because of his honeymoon with his friends and the fact that she just lets him cheat, what a humiliating thing for her, I would try to talk to her about all of this if I were you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 180 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.Actually men know all of this, most of them understand that the system made for them is not beneficial for women and that we’re still suffering multiple problems but they just don’t care and don’t wanna listen and learn, if everything is alright for them then everything is alright A lot of them will even prefer to move back to old times when it was even worse and they think women should be thankful they have it better than their grandmas and don’t expect anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 148 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.I have literally heard many men complaining that HV men destroy relationships between men and women because they set high standards, just like LV men were totally aware that no woman would be satisfied with their LV behavior if she knew she could be treated better so they hate when someone shows HV behavior cause they want to keep women expectations low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:39 AM |
| 50 | CHILDFREE WOMEN BEWARE: if a man tells you he is childfree, make sure he is ACTUALLY child free and not a deadbeatAnd make sure he is telling the truth, it is likely that he will claim he is childfree only to keep you interested and then tell the truth when you’ll be invested in relationship cause he will totally believe that once you hear him saying that he actually wants children you will change your mind because in his mind obviously you want to keep with you someone as amazing as him, always firstly ask him before telling him anything he may use to deceive you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 07:20 PM |
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