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I would like to have a family and be married, so having a GF is the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:30 PM
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That is becoming more and more fragile as men turn to RP stuff, though. You can give someone a boner, but overtime many men realize the social abuse that is being inflicted upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:51 PM
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That is becoming more and more not the case. Men en masse are starting to see the cultural asymmetry of who benefits more from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:50 PM
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Yeah, I don't give a shit how hot you are, if you don't have good behavior, you are a liability plain and simple. No amount of ass is worth a man's dignity. You have to give traits that are going to make attractive women realise that they have no power over your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:05 PM
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TBH most fitness models and super models have shit personalities, men should be more dismissive of them en masse. Great power comes from rejecting attractive women or being indirectly socially hostile. No man will ever regret doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:00 PM
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More like some women are very very very dumb and choose not to use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:28 PM
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TBH, none of the "dream girls" I was after during my early adulthood and throughout my 20's ever liked me back. I am looking for compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:27 PM
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Agreed. It seemed like had the entire world against me in my teenage years and 20's. I had no practical mentors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:37 PM
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This 100%. I live in NJ, and the cold approach just doesn't work to meet people. You have to meet people in person with friends. People associate safety with positive interactions with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:36 PM
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So what would you recommend to someone who is struggling to find someone who wants to get married? I live in NJ, and socially speaking it is/was terrible. Extreme social competition, not many places to go to, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:35 PM
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What is the point of the dread? If you have objectively struggled to deal with people, then what exactly is the point? The mindset I have is if it is possible to improve, then it is worth putting effort into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:29 PM
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Why do women deserve protection, equality, or any feminist policy that they want? Why should any man support these things if they aren't getting what they desire out of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 PM
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No is calling women slutty for being more open, this is the most laughable bullshit I have seen in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:59 PM
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Women, if they really want men to care about women's issues, need to start reciprocating to what men care about. This means that they might need to be more open to who they date. I am not attracted to caring about sexism if it means I am not getting anything in return. I am not attracted to supporting feminist causes if it means nothing. This is a contributing reason why so many men are redpilled. Feminism is dying because it's a zero sum game for many of these women who join this as a cult. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:57 PM
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Women, if they really want men to care about women's issues, need to start reciprocating to what men care about. This means that they might need to be more open to who they date. I am not attracted to caring about sexism if it means I am not getting anything in return. I am not attracted to supporting feminist causes if it means nothing. This is a contributing reason why so many men are redpilled. Feminism is dying because it's a zero sum game for many of these women who join this as a cult. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:43 PM
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Women, if they really want men to care about women's issues, need to start reciprocating to what men care about. This means that they might need to be more open to who they date. I am not attracted to caring about sexism if it means I am not getting anything in return. I am not attracted to supporting feminist causes if it means nothing. This is a contributing reason why so many men are redpilled. Feminism is dying because it's a zero sum game for many of these women who join this as a cult. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:43 PM
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Okay. Fair enough. Do you have a theory as to why red pill stuff is getting so popular? My theory is broadly, feminist policies and the failure of social democratic and liberal democratic policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:45 PM
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I am not committed to defending this thread's thesis about lesbians, but one possibility maybe that women are forcefully committed about their own freedom of choice when it comes to situations like this. It's like being a liberal fundamentalist AKA being obsessed with your own satisfaction to a fault. I am not too convinced that being empathetic has much meaning when preserving one's freedom of choice. I have seen your posts here; are you a feminist by any chance? I am a former feminist BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:04 PM
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Yup 100%. Just be confident bro, oh yeah also men are delusional for thinking that more than they are attractive. Can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:31 PM
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100% agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:23 PM
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Depends, some women who are heavier do have faces that attractive and sometimes have good personalities. I would rather invest in someone who is already pretty good in terms of mind stuff but is just struggling with weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:22 PM
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Okay I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:49 PM
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I don't think that being kind or wholesome is a turn-off women. If anything, it's that being an asshole or toxic is not the women repellent that most women insist is the case. They're right that women love confidence, which isn't a bad thing at all. However, it's that women (and I guess a good number of men, too) still think that arrogance and being an outward asshole to people are signs of confidence. The Nice Guy Syndrome is the greatest form of gaslighting in dating advice. Period. People get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:59 PM
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I agree with this. But I will re-iterate this: as a man I believe giving women a chance even if they are obese. I believe in investing people who are actually good. As a guy, I was never given such an opportunity. Feminist culture insists the max satisfaction for women; that hurt me as a man because I wasn't even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:35 PM
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See, the thing is as a man I believe giving women a chance even if they are obese. As a guy, I was never given such an opportunity. Feminist culture insists the max satisfaction for women; that hurt me as a man because I wasn't even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:34 PM
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I am open to dating someone obese, so as long as they have a good personality and are willing to lose weight for their own wellbeing. We could take walks and go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:32 PM
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For the USA: We don't live in a patriarchy, considering that mainstream culture is actively Feminist. You aren't going to get fired for being a feminist, but you might get fired for being an MRA. Feminist culture is the establishment, Patriarchal culture is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:31 PM
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What I was that the general consensus culture in the USA possibly is Feminist and anti-male. Yes I do encourage men do so. I support the annihilation of modern Left wing culture as it seeks to harm men in almost everyway, while giving collective rights for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:10 PM
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Yes, these people are just denying what men face because of the status quo culture is left wing. This post has inspired me to donate to an MRA and MGTOW group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:41 PM
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I mean, the truth is, above average men do not want to be with women who are average, right? What are you offering in comparison to women who much better looking than you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:05 PM
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I don't agree; we have a too many institutions in the West that are enacted by government that benefit women that do carry over in how they choose to date. More women are on welfare than men. Welfare is a big one, as some women will sleep with someone and then receive generous amount of aide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 PM
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I mean, sex communism wouldn't be any more oppressive than the current paradigm of getting taxed for wars you don't support, failed social programs, etc. I agree that people shouldn't be forced to have sex with others. But if there is ultra consent in relationships, I just don't understand why there can't be consent to what one pay for in terms of how your government operates. No woman is being forced to have sex even if their party in loses in an election; if your candidate loses you are forced…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:10 PM
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You can't win if you don't play. Shoot for improvement, never worry about any disadvantage as worrying is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:59 AM
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If you looked at the original context of the comment I was responding to up above, you would see that it wasn't just about romance, it was about all different things. IE it was about rejecting the idea that women don't need men at any level. Also, when it comes to relationships: women overall don't want to remain single, so again...the question of "need" is ambiguous to me. You could say men needed women in a relationship to make food and take care of the family in a traditional setting by this …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:16 AM
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Your 100% fine. Be kind, nice, and gentle without disrupting your other character traits, and you will be great. If you don't have many friends that okay. If I was with you, we could find friends together.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 01:06 PM
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It's ignoring anything; being employed does not seem to deter women from wanting to be with someone. Now, *you* can ignore that all you want. I don't care because as a former feminist I don't need to keep arguing for the benefit of women. If women don't need men, please explain: -Most women need healthcare, many man are doctors. -Many men are the top college top administrators, yet many attend college. What reality are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:03 PM
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Except that it isn't true because women utilize institutions that were created by men, and many women don't want to remain single. Some material suggests the most young women aren't single either. Now, you can try to keep stating that women don't men but the reality it is a Feminist conspiracy theory. I don't believe in wearing tin foil hats like David Ike, and I don't believe that women don't need men because it uses a similar line of logic which isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:19 PM
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How true really is that? Do we have any research that indicates that women that being single is a choice by-and-large?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:56 PM
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Would love to know where you are getting that from. Also major factors include long term happiness or death bed regrets from people who stay single their whole lives. Some information suggests that at least 5% stay single for their whole lives. Do many women want this? I personally doubt it https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/202003/the-truth-about-people-who-stay-single-for-life#:~:text=who%20were%2065%20and%20older,women%2C%20will%20be%20lifelong%20singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:55 PM
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Multiple things: Societal changes have allowed women to no longer need men. Lots of women have quit dating altogether. The economy- dating costs money unfortunately. Some people are limited there. I’ve found that there is a disconnect in what men and women want. I think a huge part is a lot of men dont do certain tasks such as cooking, cleaning, etc. women would rather be single than be a mom. Jaded- women are jaded from growing up surrounded by gross men. Unfortunately if you ask any woman, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:36 PM
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I say it's just the women who care about the age in the first place. I think it's more of the activist types when it comes to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:25 PM
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I never thought I would see the day when the early 20's range was considered barely legal SMH at these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:11 PM
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100% for at least some women. See, this is why a significant portion of Feminism is a trojan horse for Female-Egoism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:09 PM
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Nah, it's the people obsessed with older men dating younger women. Literally be a non-issue if people didn't say anything about the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:07 PM
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The "Patriarchy" is leftwing-feminist conspiracy theory-canard in the USA, because the men in power are primarily liberal or progressive. Look at all major legislation in the past, 50+ years since the 1960's. Look: the men in power don't defend men as a group LOL. Are MRAs creating and passing legislation? If they are, educate and enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:20 AM
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NP, you are the king regardless! Hope y'all get that fitness influencer you want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:57 PM
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I don't like their attitudes. If you get shitty with me when I'm just trying to use the weight bench you're standing by (and not using), I can't imagine how much of a bitch you are in a relationship. This 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:52 PM
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Hazy Memory this is the first time I will disagree. See, I am a man and obviously I am attracted to them but the thing is, most of their personalities just suck. Unless they actually have like a nice personality, they aren't bringing anything else to the table in comparison to an average looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:48 PM
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Best dating for women I can think of is: Be nicer, less dismissive, and more open. I would say this the the single best dating advice to women. You can't expect high quality men to be interested in you if you aren't displaying personality traits that show you are worth while in terms of a long term relationship. Be more friendly and kind. Be more open to men who may not fit the definition of what it means to be successful. This doesn't mean date a drug addict or a convicted felon. The average ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:08 PM
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Best dating for women I can think of is: Be nicer, less dismissive, and more open. I would say this the the single best dating advice to women. You can't expect high quality men to be interested in you if you aren't displaying personality traits that show you are worth while in terms of a long term relationship. Be more friendly and kind. Be more open to men who may not fit the definition of what it means to be successful. This doesn't mean date a drug addict or a convicted felon. The average ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:06 PM
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100% to this, up voted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:47 PM
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What is the best way to make friends in a state dominated by the bar scene (New Jersey)? I am on edge in attempt to go to bars by myself, reason being that I am aware of how socially competitive the environment is here anyways. I am interested in getting a long term girlfriend and being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:54 PM
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Hey look, if someone who has teaching job wants to marry me and the attraction is mutual I would be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:05 PM
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Yes, and no. Redpill advice isn't monolithic. I got into dating simply because I wanted to have a family. Now Rollo Tomassi is saying that men need to get vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:56 PM
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Is there any dating coaches that are like this? I’m not in the pick up stuff, But I certainly always have had problems escalating things to dates and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:34 PM
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OK I think it’s good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:24 PM
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What is the best type of photos to put on an online dating profile if you don't photos that feature other people? This is the biggest hurdle, because as a male I don't have any pictures like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:41 PM
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What is the best way for a follow up when you get someone’s contact and exchange was positive? I am talking about great conversations With a woman get your contact and going from there. I find getting numbers is way way way too confrontational, I usually just go for social media profile exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:46 PM
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100%, but would it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:31 PM
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Thank you very much, I’m a little confused by your Internet persona. Do you hate the red pill? I see parade redpill points all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:30 PM
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This is going to sound blue pillish but the reality is that height (and things like charisma) are vastly vastly overrated when it comes to dating.
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 09:20 PM
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Okay. Any reccoemdations for people you thnik are good for hypoertrophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:35 PM
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Any suggestions for routine and what you eat on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:39 PM
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I mean I was simply commenting on whether it was good advice for me as an individual whatever thank you very much for everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:31 PM
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I think this song represents a more congenial time in American Music culture, we were coming out of the sexualized stardoms of Brittney Spears, Christina Aguilra etc of the early 2000's/90's. I don't men singing the same would be bad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:19 PM
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At this point, I just don’t care about women’s mental health as much men’s mental health. When you are someone who hasn’t got what you want in a relationship and see how the vast majority of Institutions favor women, as a man you start caring less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:37 PM
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Okay this sounds good. I may just do this. The only program I was able to run successfully as 5/3/1, it remains the best strength training program for me ever. However, it takes alot of time to make progress. Do you have any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:18 PM
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Yes I am a member, I am so glad you are preaching this is as I have been doing most of the advice here that you have been stating. Many people think I am younger than I look (30), people think I look early to mid 20's. I am looking to improve even more tho. Are you aware of any skin care consultants so I can make a better routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:15 PM
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Most of the advice here isn't bad. Wearing sunscreen in my opinion is highly underrated. Waxing eyebrows? I always thought it would make me look more feminine and I have dark eyebrows that are thicker on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:13 PM
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This 100%, never socially correct to say women need to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:12 PM
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I wish my job played Country music.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:11 PM
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I mean, people should be having sex with people who are the right choices in mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:17 AM
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Can you give an example of what you do each week? I’ve been basically attempting to just go to the gym every single day, do at least one compound exercise and then run on the tread for 20 minutes. I used to love fitness so much but all the variables that many say depend on getting hypertrophic goals just made me really hate it because I could never achieve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 AM
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Thank you very much for the advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:35 PM
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I’ve never heard that specifically, however I have heard women say that men owe them certain things on dates.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 01:54 PM
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Hey these are such great suggestions, I can’t seem access the r/skincare sub reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:30 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:27 PM
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The problem with the first couple sentences: if you think that men aren’t entitled to something they value from women, the same can be said of things that women value: women aren’t entitled for tax dollars for contraception or birth control, under that logic because it really only benefits their ability to escape parenting. You could also say that women aren’t entitled to voting either; but really I am reciprocation across the genders. We ought to give each things that we value because it’s a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:26 PM
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Hmmm, I am not sure that I have. You said no one does these things and yet I have provided myself as example. What am I missing here? This seems like the classic Reddit moment where arrogance is imputed in a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:44 PM
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I mean if I find someone who is decently attractive enough but they can improve I would do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:37 PM
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Humans don’t try to improve one another is that what you’re trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:26 PM
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I’ve never really wanted to do hook up, I’m a guy who really I want to be a father and have several kids. I think one suggestion would be to match with someone regardless of their facial rating, and then try to look Max together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:14 PM
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If I understand you correctly, then 100% agree. People should be able to open and tell what you feel about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:30 PM
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The thing is women are allowed to emotional dump because feminism as an ideology dictates even if you don’t realize it. Women are allowed to do this serious emotional work, men are not. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:40 PM
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I am going to respond to this: the difference is that really isn’t objectively. It’s different for everyone possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:38 PM
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When it comes to my personality, I have never had any ill feelings toward women until I went to college and started really noticing the social hostility women exhibit. Nor did I really take MGTOW seriously, and even now I don’t agree with somethings they espouse to. After reading redpill and black pill material, I understand the political nature of social relations and how that relates to sex/biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:36 PM
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Women in mass need to stop having sex before marriage if they don’t want to be abandoned. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:17 PM
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Okay, but how is this a bad thing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:16 PM
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Ages 18-30 in that range. I will not date anyone who is a single mother, they already have a partner they need to get back with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:01 PM
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He did read them carefully, the need for fathers doesn't change what he originally posted right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:41 AM
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I mean, I guess but charisma matters way way less then people think.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 01:34 PM
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I like Adam Driver alot, but I am not sure he is considered a sex symbol in terms of how many women he is actually having sex with.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 03:07 PM
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Status and confidence almost means nothing, if anything, status can get people to like you as apart of a social environment. But it in no means you are getting sex with intimacy in the long term.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 03:06 PM
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Nope, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:04 PM
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Being tall is the most overrated quality in attraction. I am 6'0 and I think may just gain a couple inches from the shoes I wear. It means absolutely nothing when it comes to attracting people in public. It has got me nowhere.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 03:03 PM
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No, relationships I think possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:14 PM
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I do by virtue of promiscous women losing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:12 PM
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Except it's really weird for you not to mention that Roe v. Wade was status quo law for last couple decades. Women were able to get what they wanted when they wanted in terms of avoiding consequences for sex. Now it's only starting to reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:11 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:20 PM
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100%, I agree with that. Even if you do have 100's, you should still reject a body count woman anyway. I don't believe in a equal moral standard as it is pointless to be moral around the enemies of men. by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:09 PM
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I love this. Men need to reject en masse women with high body counts. We should promote it every dating forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:07 PM
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As I commented to another user: I am not a proponent of promiscuity for men or women, but the thing is: modern dating as a social system benefits women OVERHWHELMINGLY as opposed to men. It's an institution that ensures women have the maximum benefits and any escape from negative consequences if they engage in sex (one of the few, but large exceptions being Roe v. Wade being overturned recently). I think it's good men are rejecting women with high n-counts. Women would reject men with a heart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:03 PM
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I am not a proponent of promiscuity for men or women, but the thing is: modern dating as a social system benefits women OVERHWHELMINGLY as opposed to men. It's an institution that ensures women have the maximum benefits and any escape from negative consequences if they engage in sex (one of the few, but large exceptions being Roe v. Wade being overturned recently). I think it's good men are rejecting women with high n-counts. Women would reject men with a heart of gold for any other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:02 PM
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As a man, I have exactly 0 bodies to my name, yet I consider many women with high body counts as slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:57 PM
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Not sure how true that is.
/r/AllPillDebate12/03/23 02:31 PM
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I will not reject a woman just because she has a high body count, but she can’t have STDs. Women who have high body counts Need to make up for it in terms of personality difference and of course not having any kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:41 PM
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Ideally yes, however if someone is 30 years old and really has just an amazing personality and Is bare minimum of four out of 10 then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:16 PM
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He looks more central Amerindian, but definitely not like a North American Indian. The distinct differences between those groups, I think that there’s more similarities and the differences. The differences do make them distinguishable
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 04:55 PM
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It’s possibly different brain structures that could possibly be inducing anxiety. Hormones could possibly contribute to different brain structures between men and women. A meta-analysis of sex differences in human brain structure https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0149763413003011 Not sure if this study was posted yet, but here you go anyway: Sex hormone fluctuation and increased female risk for depression and anxiety disorders: From clinical evidence to molecular mechanisms http…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:32 PM
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The thing is though many men don’t want to settle down with a woman who has been sleeping around, rightfully so because of STDs and the like. I’m commenting in case you’re not being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:28 PM
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Tate is hardly representative the red pill philosophy which is very diverse. That guy is going to jail possibly, other red pillers are not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:45 PM
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I don't think making fun o fsomeone's pain is really funny. Think of all the feminist scumfucks who enjoy seeing men in pain. P
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 02:29 PM
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I agree 100%, I am going to put this in my male advice doc. I mean, in terms of a cope, I think it was possible to just look at the child and see if they look like you back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:23 AM
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I would love to see actual data on how many women cheat and carry children that aren’t related to their current partner/husband directly (IR from another man). Men seem to cheat more, which would possibly result in more children from the single male. I think this suggests against the notion that women are promiscuous likemen as you stated, I am in no way denying that there are some women who cheat frequently. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:42 PM
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It is actually the same because you are forced to pay taxes eventually. Are all women forced to eventually have sex with any given man? No. The point is that relationships are almost always consensual in the modern context, excluding certain countries in the third world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:49 PM
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Because it’s one thing that people “owe”regardless of their consent. I agree you don’t owe me anything, that’s only because I don’t think that it would lead to a better world if I Force you into a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:53 AM
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Okay, but that’s not how it works with taxes. You get forced to pay for something to people you don’t know. And please don’t cry “buh for the greater good.” You could argue helping people in their relationships is for the greater good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:59 AM
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The problem with believing that you aren’t obligated to owe someone anything is that it is a slippery slope. I think there are better arguments for defending consenting relationships, this sure as hell ain’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:44 AM
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Now THIS is a legit critique of RP advice, seriously if women have value by not sleeping around then why some RPers advocate for it? It’s so dumb. It’s about as dumb as some of the standard Blue Pill advice like “just be yourself bro”,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:54 PM
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That’s why I pay attention to popular music on TikTok and stuff, it’s time well spent if you want to connect with people younger than you. It has to be done authentically tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:52 PM
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I have known Feminists who are opposed to Pornography I have yet to meet one Feminist who has advocated for a ban much less work with other groups to that done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:41 PM
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Thank you for your explanation. What I meant was, isn't it possible that some radical feminists support the liberal conceptions of choice in sex? Pardon my tone, but I am skeptical. If Radical feminists are opposed to over sexualization, then why would or do they support the current paradigm when it comes to sex markets? Seems to me if you want to eliminate that type of thing, we should be encouraging some sort of legislation where the state prevents the results of sexualization. I mean, if we c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:51 PM
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Isn't it possible that there is overlap between those two groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:47 PM
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I agree with this, since Chad is a douchebag anyway. Use the threat of violence against men who don’t pay, and then stop using the state to tax other people who have no stake in raising those people’s children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:20 PM
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Yes I have experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:58 PM
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Below average
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:10 AM
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I would also state: if healthcare is a right, then sex and relationships are a right too. It’s only being coherent, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:05 AM
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I guess what I would ask is: why should I pay taxes for planned parenthood or government run contraption centers if I don’t agree to it and I don’t use it as a man? Why do women get to choose for their relationships when we can’t choose what we pay for in terms of policies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:02 AM
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It’s true that those directly don’t have anything to do with one another. But the element of consent stays true. Two things don’t have to have a direct relationship in order to make a comparison. If we have consent for relationships and sex vs. non-consent for taxes, why we can’t have consent for what our money goes into?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:48 AM
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I think he maybe trying to point out the unfairness of having to consent for one thing While you have to pay up for another thing. In other words taxes are involuntary, while sex is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:26 AM
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I say you should still date if you plan to leave him. You can’t be worried about the wall because you’re just not gonna try to make your life better if you do. Aim to improve, I would not even want people to keep red pill stuff in mind if it’s really gonna make them depressed about their prospects in life. Sure there’s the educational standpoint, and some people definitely need to know about it. But for you I don’t think you deserve To be depressed. Hang in there, go to the gym work out the lowe…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 08:17 PM
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Ummm….average looking with a kind gentle personality, preferably virgin but of courses from happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:18 AM
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Number 1 is better, but she should do stuff out of deference for me, as I should do chores out of deference for her as well. Average looking and not making an attempt to beautify herself is fine as I am attracted to women who are more natural looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:36 PM
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I think this might just be one of the best comments I’ve ever seen on purple pill debate. The thing is I think men on the sub Reddit Need to cool down on the situation currently in the world, because let’s face it feminists and many women love to see us complain and and be upset about what we’re going through. They just love it, and that’s why I don’t complain about my dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:48 AM
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Let’s face it is not socially correct to reject a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:46 AM
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I definitely understand why you’re Posting about this, you really need to do research about who you’re dating. I understand that people who are promiscuous need to be filtered out of social circles, but I don’t think someone should be shamed for settling necessarily. What is the person settling is actually a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:38 AM
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My comment about freedom of choice was about avoiding the things that possibly come with Having sex, such as pregnancy. My statements above we’re really about contraception and abortion, Suchas having children in this case. I don’t know where you’re getting this idea that I’m for rape, I’m against rape. I don’t think there’s any objective meaning to rape culture, That could very easily from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:34 AM
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My comment about freedom of choice was about avoiding the things that possibly come with Having sex, such as pregnancy. My statements above we’re really about contraception and abortion, Suchas having children in this case. I don’t know where you’re getting this idea that I’m for rape, I’m against rape. I don’t think there’s any objective meaning to rape culture, That could very easily from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:33 AM
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I really don’t like saying negative things about women, but the current cultural climate has made me Extremely anti-feminist. This was an example of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:01 PM
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I would love to see any data on that, but to be honest, I submit to you it’s still possible so I can do exceptionally well academically and still be unintelligent when it comes to viewing behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:58 PM
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I’m not aware of any, but I think it’s possible that there are intelligent people who are still single parents. This would mean that they perform well academically but they did not have the intelligence/discernment to predict behavior in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:57 PM
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Well I mean I agree but the original comment was that men overall aren’t that intelligent. Really? The same gender that created electricity, The airplane, and many many many other inventions? @draiki13 is spreading misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:55 PM
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Yes as a matter fact I do. Men who leave their partners after they give birth are scum bags, They have bad behavior in every sense of the word. They’re cowards plain and simple regardless of their intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:52 PM
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Yes as a matter fact I do. Men who leave their partners after they give birth are scum bags, They have bad behavior in every sense of the word. They’re cowards plain and simple regardless of their intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:52 PM
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Most single mothers will struggle financially to take care of their children, because their partner or husband has left them. Typically, men will be employed. Women who engage in sexual relations with men that will eventually leave lack discernment/intelligence. They should look for signs that would indicate that this person is not a good person to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:01 PM
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It’s a total clown world when you see people try to down play 20% as a stat here. Like if we had 20% unemployment in the USA that’s close to Great Depression levels of poverty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:35 PM
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It’s not really intimidating at all, considering the rise of single motherhood which is hardly a good position to be in in terms of mate selection, it definitely takes a huge stab at female intelligence overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:04 PM
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Intelligence is good so as long as it doesn’t conflict with good personality traits. There seems to be never ending supply of very intelligent people with shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:01 PM
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You should aim to increase your status regardless if your a male or a female but I still agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
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Intelligence is not a huge thing in my list because there are intelligent people who do very very very stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:58 PM
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As a man, Personality is the first thing I look for in a woman, not looks. Top personality traits: Being extremely gentle, being really kind, Being extremely caring, Being very physically intimate, not submissive like a slave lol but being highly agreeable without being railroaded, being motherly overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:57 PM
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I agree with you. I personally would only adopt under circumstances, like if a kids parents died In an accident or something. Cuckholdry is incentivized because it gives more options to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:54 PM
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Yes, the current sexual culture does bring out and reward the worst of female behaviors because of contraception, female choice worship, etc. Thing is, there are plenty of wonderful women out there too who deserve respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:46 PM
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The best defense against this is to not adopt or become a stepdad. Because of the current paradigm favors women and gives them more options if they have sex with undesirables, the average guy must refuse to be with someone like that. I am personally open dating many types of women, so that may boost my prospects of becoming a Dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:45 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:03 PM
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Tate is not a good guy there’s plenty other great read pillars out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:00 PM
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I don’t disagree with any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:10 AM
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I don’t know who you are, but I hope that you continue have the relationship that you desire. I’ve seen your post so I’m really thankful that you post here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:55 AM
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I don’t think it really has anything to do with jealousy, I think it really has to do with the fact that the social system in place favors women for no reason whatsoever to be able to freely choose whatever men they really want. I think it’s good that men don’t want to date women with a high body count, As women have more to gain from the current system. I personally actually don’t really care if the person I am dating has a high n count At this point. I’d like to be married and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:54 AM
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For most cosmopolitan women, I just don’t see what they are bringing to the table other than their used bodies. There are plenty of average looking guys who are high status and make a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:40 PM
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It could definitely be a thing in certain areas of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:53 PM
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Like encouraging them to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:45 AM
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Maybe fighting for men’s independence? Getting men on the independent mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:22 PM
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MGTOW is technically from the MR….and also MGTOW forums support men coming together too. To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:35 PM
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Yeah I knew the congenial sentiment in this woman’s post was not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:06 PM
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Men must collectivize, period. Join the men’s rights movement, and support men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:22 PM
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Yeah that’s what I was going to chime in on, your points really do throw a wrench in this studies’ conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:23 PM
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Here’s the thing: you can be high value in different ways. Some celebrities are low overall value, yet they are high value in terms of talent. Think of any celeb that has done a lot of drugs, bad personality, etc. High value women have great personalities, are nice, extremely kind, not necessarily submissive but agreeable. Smiling a lot is great, while being open to interaction. Gentle as well. They have lots of friends too, although I still like women who have less on average.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 11:19 PM
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I think it’s the best attitude to have as a default. Most people should simply stop caring about what women think It means to be creepy. They’re not a credible source of information when it comes to that type of thing. I would consider genuine creepiness as stocking as define with the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:55 PM
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See here’s the thing, I used to do just as you advocated, And I was falsely accused of stalking. I definitely think that you’re right about the correct environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:53 PM
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I’m gonna be totally honest with you, most black women have high standards as well. I think Johnny would be best to marry with his own race. However, I can tell you as a white guy living in the New Jersey New York area, that is highly competitive regardless of your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:53 PM
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I think this topic really demonstrates why I don’t deep down really trust women when it comes to being honest. In other words, you can’t really trust a woman to give an honest answer as to why someone is creepy. As someone who is accused of stalking in college, I really worked my ass off when I came to studying dating and relationship guides. Ultimately, I was found to be innocent. And I genuinely don’t think that I stalked anybody with that intention. I’m not even originally an anti-feminist, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:49 PM
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If anyone wants to throw up their food, just look at this picture. Great way to train for anorexia
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 11:01 AM
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Well I’m glad I’m not the only one. I went to a New Jersey state school, and it was almost impossible to make close friends. Granted I created one of the largest athletic clubs At my college, with over 100 members, and I still couldn’t create a circle of friends nor get on dates. Forget about the friend zone, I was stuck in the Acquaintance zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:22 AM
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I think this is true, but I only think this is true extremely competitive social environments. I think of the culture in New York or New Jersey. You could literally have all the best personality traits, have all the wealth, how all the locks, and still not have friends Let alone dates. If you don’t know someone then you basically can’t get into a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:33 AM
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This is an absolute truth, anytime I’m with A woman that I’m attracted to, I always just relax and detach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:30 AM
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Yes absolutely, I love women. I see women as equal in value, I don’t think they’re the same though. I think we can connect on an intellectual level. Yes I would like to share equal house work. We do that now in my family
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:54 PM
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Um…I don’t think so. There are plenty of women I have met in my area I don’t have as many friends as other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:23 AM
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Fair enough
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 12:37 AM
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About going to jail: assuming the law is just, a person should be punished if they use an act of unjustified aggression against someone. We can happily agree that forcing sex with a woman is wrong: it’s rape and morally abhorrent. Taxes and choosing who you have sex are different situations, HOWEVER: freedom of choice is preferred (sex) versus another (taxes). Why is this? If women can choose, why can’t a tax payer choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:33 AM
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To each his own, but Salma was way way too old looking for me, also she was married.
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 12:24 AM
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Nobody said they were interchangeable, it’s the act of forcing someone to do something beyond their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 PM
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Except it’s not moronic, people should get a choice of what their taxes get paid into just like how women and men give a choice of who they have sex with. It’s a legitimate point, there is no reason why women/men should have unlimited freedom of choice in one area and then have a lack of freedom of choice in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:07 PM
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I definitely agree with us, but the problem is is that in order to argue that you would have to also apply that topersonal wealth as well. Wealth is an extension of a persons labor, and often times People do not get a choice of what their taxes get paid into. We don’t have a system of consensual arrangements for taxation and we should.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:05 PM
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You have received my upvote. We really need to expose the moral inconsistency with people harping about the fact that we need help the poor. I do think we need a system where the possibility of getting a mate is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:04 PM
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I was going to say, I don’t personally see anybody telling women to lower standards, With the exception of Kevin Samuels. I don’t think it’s politically or socially carotic to tell women to lower their standards when it comes to dating. I also think this is the case for people who are not white too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:00 PM
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I was going to say, however it is possible for people with physical disabilities to be great communicators. I think Jeff Callahan is a good example of this, He’s not too deformed, but I think he has something mildly wrong. I deeply respect the guy and his social lessons are top notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:59 PM
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I would wonder how likely that it really is though, genuinely interested not trying to challenge you here.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 11:58 PM
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Many women after 30 are undesirable, But there are also plenty of women who are also desirable. I think really the wall is a general trend that women may or may not go through. I think the more likely you hit 30 less desirable you will be, however there are plenty of women who are desirable even at that age. It’s not the sheer majority though, if I had a estimate probably 60% versus 40%. And that’s just a guess in my opinion I could be wrong about it. The point is regardless of what age you are …
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 11:57 PM
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Correct
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 11:54 PM
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Purple piller here: it depends on the individual. I think of people like Julia Roberts after her 40s. I mean she has the fame and the status, but men aren’t exactly falling over for her. Most pornographers after 30 are largely undesirable. But again it depends on the woman, the best looking women over 40 that I’m aware of is Amy Adams.
/r/AllPillDebate14/01/23 11:54 PM
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Agreed, I do think what you’re saying is true. I think that she needs to talk to her husband, and perhaps the best compromise will be to hire someone As a cleaning person.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 10:27 PM
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He has got to man up and help you out. If he loves you, then he will help you. I am not a feminist and I traditionally minded. But you can bet I am helping my wife out with the chores at home, period.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 01:34 PM
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Yes, as a man I prioritize personality over looks. I still try to look as good as possible, it shows to other people who care about your presence in front of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:06 PM
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This is technically true, and your argument is sound. However it proves not ALL women are like that, just like how not ALL uncles are violent.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 07:36 PM
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I mean I’m not endorsing the behavior your describing. Just to be clear, I’m not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:25 PM
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OK how do we get women on our side then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:18 PM
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I Don’t think shaming is nice, But I do agree that the current paradigm does increase divorce. I’m for the traditional family unit, and I still think women should be paid for house work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:43 PM
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The thing with Modern American Culture is that it fails at everything for the sake liberal prerogatives. In the case of dating, the most attractive people are supposed to be the most successful in terms of getting the best mate, but because contraception exists, the top percent in terms of looks&wealth don’t reproduce as much as they should. As per your description, we have come a long way since African Tribal conflicts (regard of where you think humans originated from). I would hardly call some…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:09 PM
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So I mean you were already wealthy, I don’t really see how this is necessarily anti-RP, Also congrats on the success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:23 PM
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Okay fine we agree then. Last time I checked we don’t even know all the genes for eye color, I can’t remember what study it was. As for the difficulty of that topic, I really don’t take a position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:25 PM
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Yes advice from men is always better. Keep in mind, I don't regurally watch Pearl and I don't buy products from her. Isn't there a paid subscription from her or something? I am not being simp, you can see my other comments about her to prove that
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:35 PM
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It seems that you were already financially successful, why work if you have achieved enough wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:17 PM
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Yes there are many different jobs taken up by men and women different cultures, Which may even suggest even more variability between groups of people. I would love to know how many women actually going to chemical engineering this former Soviet bloc states. Is it an ideal or are the majority of people working in the field women in that area of the world? I don’t deny that culture and upbringing can influence of someone’s personality, What I was suggesting was that it may not be entirely environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah look I don’t know her personally, so what you’re saying may as well be true.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 12:36 AM
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Yeah I guess I agree, there are definitely things she has said that seem a little cliché, and other times she has some pretty good ways of saying things that I haven’t heard before.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 11:33 PM
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Everything I’ve heard about her seems to be the opposite of what men want to jerk off to. I definitely think she’s very attractive, but that comes down to personality, voice, specific things like hair color skin color etc. The average guy looking to jerk off is going to go just go in to only fans or porn, not pearls videos.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:20 PM
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I like Pearl a lot, but to be honest what does it take for a man like me to actually go on a date with a person like that? I think if she really wants to help men she’ll put out guides giving advice for finding and dating women like herself. She seems well put together, so I would think she needs to use her platform in that way. I agree that her style of video is outrage content, And I don’t think it’s really the best way of dealing with this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:17 PM
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The thing is though, the vast majority of of those men in power are either feminists, liberals, and or leftists. Most so-called conservatives are actually liberal and they are actually feminist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:31 PM
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EDIT: I have no idea what you’re talking about in terms of jobs. Also when it comes to language and driving cars, there could be variability in between groups. There are jobs that men take up more overall than women do. That suggests on average that There may be a personality differences between men and women. This could be directly or indirectly. Or, if there is more female representation overtime for specific occupation, there could be differences between how women and men do those jobs specif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:14 PM
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OK… What is your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:15 PM
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First, I am very sorry to hear this happening to you. It’s a shame that when women try to change their lifestyle they get punished anyways. What an unfair deal, especially since you are trying to make your man pleased by doing housework. This guy isn’t worth your time, he can’t even appreciate the effort you are putting in. A suggestion I have is to not discuss your sexual past, I advocate this for men and women for future dates. You got this: there are so many better men than this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 02:39 PM
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How common is that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:21 PM
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The thing is, this is only true for certain men. If I suspect this is only really true and heavily liberal urban states like New York city, or center left states. I think it’s possible that there are plenty of groups of men that aren’t looking for hook ups, think religious affiliation. I am glad that we can agree that America sex obsessed, what I would say that this is possibly promoted by the media more often. On another note, you seem to be more polite than the average poster here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:08 PM
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You don’t even know my own ethnicity, a Significant amount of people marry within their own race around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:04 PM
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I can tell you right now, this is not the case if you are man looking for a life partner. I see that you’re from the United Kingdom, if you’re living in the United States like me especially in a liberal state, it’s highly socially competitive. I personally don’t let it get to me, the hope of improving is always there. You can’t win if you don’t play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:01 PM
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For some people, I don’t think there’s anything their missing. The truth is that some women simply want 1% of men in terms of looks, wealth, etc. The thing is this: a significant portion of these women aren’t bringing anything to the table beyond their looks. They don’t cook, don’t have loving personalities, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:58 PM
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I would hardly call wanting to marry the same ethnicity an unrealistic standard. That’s like the bare minimum to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:52 PM
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It is if a society is already largely feminist when it comes to gender issues, the USA comes to mind. Also, if women and men are basically alike they would be basically interchangeable, which I don’t think really is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:25 PM
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You still haven’t shown how their advice they give is common sense. No one is forcing anyone to buy these products. I don’t care if Rollo is a burn out, I don’t agree with everything he says. I don’t care if Jack’s group is labeled as a hate group. You don’t show how it’s the case. I don’t care if Roosh is a burnout. All the comments about being a burnout is completely useless. It doesn’t mean anything as a relates to common sense. The only self-own here is you, because you haven’t shown how any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:30 PM
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How do we know this is a couple?
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 04:07 PM
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You still have not shown how it’s common sense as per usual you just resort a stupid insults. You don’t provide anything meaningful here, there’s no meaningful critiques here. Talk about wasting time, I really sense insecurity from you here. And you still haven’t addressed why you would so you’re not surprised that men would by red pill content. It’s just anti-male bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:44 PM
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Well, first of all what you’re saying hasn’t been shown to be common sense. I don’t know how you know that. If it was common sense, I’m not sure why men are gravitating toward it. I personally have seen the men describe how certain red pill points are not discuss and are not common truths. Maybe your experience is different from my own. Some red pill content is not pick up artist stuff, I can tell you right now that some of it is a mixture of MGTOW. Also what is your last comment? Strikes me as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:36 PM
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What you’re stating is not what I was arguing, I don’t think we should just take red pill philosophy at face value. Also your last comment is not meaningful at all. This isn’t about red pill content lol. I’m a purple piller. What I’ve noticed from you is that you don’t really provide any meaningful comments, you just seem to not like red pill content overall. And with the survey example you upheld the opposite viewpoint regardless without any reservations. It’s possible that you are bothered by …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:17 PM
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The point is that we don’t know if they’ve lied or not, there’s no real way of actually knowing based on surveys alone. The other point is that they could’ve possibly lied regardless. Do women want to risk the possibility of people knowing their sexual history? I do not understand why you take a woman’s word at face value,I don’t do it with men or women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:25 PM
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The problem is that academic Achievement is not, as far as I’m aware, correlated with a good personality. I’m more concerned with how a woman will treat me in a relationship rather than her education. I see this all the time too, this idea that you have to have achievements in order to have value it’s just unjustified. Another thing wrong about your comment is that I do in fact care about my own goals, it’s just that I’m more lenient when it comes to a woman that I am interested in. It’s not mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:30 AM
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I have no idea. This probably varies from different socioeconomic cultural and racial groups. I have no doubt that women are having more sex then blue pillars suggest. That’s even if we can see that the amount of casual sex for the average woman is low. There’s always been an impetus to ensure that any type of bad behavior from women is obscured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:08 AM
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No it’s more like you have to find another way to show how many women have sex often. I have no idea why you think a survey would be a credible way of doing so, I would even say that for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:06 AM
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I would love to know where you’re getting these Points from. It’s not to say that you’re wrong, I would just love to know how you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:26 PM
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Hiring a babysitter and a housekeeper seems totally reasonable to me. I would definitely pay extra for that. I have five siblings and we had a housekeeper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:17 PM
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The age gap 100% fine. Honestly if you are a man and you are 30, looking to make a family, you should definitely look as good as possible to find a woman that young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:16 PM
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I would agree with that. Maybe certain areas in United States has puritanical leanings, But in a country where pornography is legal plus you can legally have sex with any consenting adult when you want, I would hardly call that puritanical society at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:27 PM
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I think wage stagnation is an influence but I don’t think it is the only thing to consider here. I’m not saying that you’re stating that, but I just don’t see how people are more satisfied in relationships today. Are people more happy with the relationships they have today in comparison to 50 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:26 PM
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I don’t like the term Submissive, I like the term agreeable. I even like women speaking their mind just as long as that they have a great personality, gentle, open to having physical relations often. Also, an openness to physical intimacy like hugging, touching is what I like. Nothing overtly sexual, just an openness to being close. A woman would not have to ask permission to turn on the heat with me, that’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:03 PM
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I mean, that’s totally different though. I am talking about women who are judgmental toward men who are virgins. More power to the woman who isn’t judgmental.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 05:07 PM
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I think the wall is just a general trend for women to be less desirable to men, there are definitely women who are certainly attractive and fertile looking after 30. I think the wall is a thing because I think men possibly prefer younger women overall. Very rarely have I seen a woman over 40 who I think it’s desirable. Exceptions include people like Amy Adams. Absolutely gorgeous at her age. If you’re a woman and you’re 30 and up, the best advice I would have is take care of yourself. Make your …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:59 PM
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It matters for social reasons and predicting the future when you are with someone in my opinion. People tend to have a lax attitude toward promiscuity and we now have all these problems in modern dating.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 03:31 PM
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Then men should simply lie about whether or not they are virgins. LOL if women play games just for their benefit, then what is the incentive for men to be honest about their experience in dating?
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 03:28 PM
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Also thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:47 PM
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It’s been a grind, but I think I can pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:47 PM
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Plenty, going to the gym, finding a new job, attempting to make new connections through family in another state. I don’t like Incel culture, never have. Always been a family culture proponent. Would you agree some environments are more socially competitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:18 PM
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As a serious question, do you think people are owed anything by virtue of existing? I don’t think posting upsetting things about women rejecting a man is helpful, and I encourage n-cells in to improve themselves in every way possible. But I see this time and time again, “YOuR nOt oWEd A rElashanshiiip.” What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:07 PM
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How about people who don’t do any of those things, yet desire to settle down and have a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:02 PM
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It isn’t unethical at all in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:13 PM
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Another thing is that women with high n counts typically make bad partners right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:45 AM
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No, I care what their personality is and how they look. With looks, I am flexible. With personality, I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:45 AM
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Okay, but just know that your experience may/my not be consistent with another’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:19 PM
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I know about Dr Glover’s books, his advice is pragmatically sound but I think possibly that it’s contextual, especially in the USA. Making another one happy isn’t a bad thing, so as long it’s for the right people. For your other point, it’s possibly there was a time when people would appreciate people going out of their way to help and do good things. No man who feels like he should do good should be discouraged from doing so in that way. If anything, we need the highest and most harsh social pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:05 PM
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Because being a jerk vs being assertive and having a sense of preserving your well-being are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:37 PM
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I disagree because what constitutes as being nice will vary from person to person. People pleasing could possibly even be attractive in certain contexts if it means bringing home the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:35 PM
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I have a question: as a purple pulled woman, what do you want specifically from a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:12 PM
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I am glad that there is a woman who says this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:35 PM
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I think the so-called nice guy syndrome is the greatest gaslighting in all of Romantic Advice history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:32 PM
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I just say that weathering the storm while not actually doing bad is worth it for me. I want to be a Dad, but I think these concerns are legitimate. Protect yourself socially, if you don’t think it’s good to approach then don’t do it!
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 09:01 PM
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Not sure what I think about this, one side me says that I love that idea but then I do think you need a best friend who is the same sex regardless if it’s a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:59 PM
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There is two answers I think I can give here: Don't pursue, be the best that you can be so that women will be interested in you. Make an offer if you would like to put yourself out there to people that you like. That's from a purple-pilled perspective. I don't think there is a legitimate reason for men to be the sole pursuers, but women do pursue too. An example: my cousin who is a woman actually set out to impress this guy she knew at through hosting a political event for a club. And she won hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:35 PM
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This is a great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:00 PM
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How about not painting a broad brush? How about just reviewing the information for what it is and see if it’s true or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:36 PM
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Ah yes the classic, “Buh buh muh Fox News ain’t credible!!!” It’s about what the states do, it’s not medical advice as far as I can tell. Maybe I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:08 PM
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If you actually read the article, you would know that is the case for most states that are anti-abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:03 PM
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I don’t have autism, but I will add here: As someone who was given a preliminary diagnosis of Social Communication Disorder (not a set diagnosis, but a suspected diagnosis from a psychologist), this is one of most socially acceptable forms of discrimination. I was accused of stalking at my University, and it was a profoundly hurtful experience. It hurt my reputation and it was very hard to make amends with people. I thankfully was not punished for actual stalking because my actions proved that I…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:00 PM
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Except most anti-abortion states seem to allow ectopic surgeries if needed. https://www.foxnews.com/politics/treating-ectopic-pregnancies-legal-states-abortion-banned-misinformation.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:46 PM
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“getting their shit together” Do you mean when states actually use sovereignty to decide what policies they want in their own state? You know, like a democracy? Like when California bans certain types of firearms? Oh yeah I’m familiar with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:11 PM
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I don’t think a full out ban abortion in the entire USA will ever happen. I can definitely see a ban on contraception coming soon in certain states, but not abortion. Before the words access to contraception abortion seemed to be possibly (as far as I know) the only real way of canceling a pregnancy. It’s more established at this point. Contraception is possibly not, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:08 PM
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This 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:47 AM
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Looks like Reasonable Scale is extremely reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:46 AM
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Bottlebank, your comments deeply resonate with me. They seem to describe what I have personally gone through and I am now around 30 years old. I live in a socially competitive area of the USA (New Jersey). Not being able to make stable friendships and not being involved romantically with someone has had a lot of negative impacts on my mental health. I still think that improving is the only way forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:50 PM
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I do care about women’s issues, my problem is that it’s possible they get hyper-focused on by the overall culture in the USA (maybe it may/may not seem that way?).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:08 PM
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As a man, I don’t think I would. Even though I think there are feminine things that are fun and congenial, I don’t think it would be worth changing genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:05 PM
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I have seen women without makeup that I am attracted to. To each his own.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 11:46 AM
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Just be loving, kind, and nice. If your man loves you, he will deeply appreciate your prescience in his life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/22 01:23 AM
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My recommendation: if you are upset about women wearing makeup as implied in the first line, simply don’t wear make up as there are men like myself who like to see a woman’s natural features.
/r/AllPillDebate17/11/22 01:18 AM
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Depends on the woman. A woman who is intimate, friendly, kind, gentle, and is 4-5/10 is bringing way way way more than a woman who just shows off her ass on Instagram and expects the fricking world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:15 AM
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Depends on what you mean date down means….you can never date own if someone’s personality is great AND you have compatibility with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:19 PM
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A call for help is not needy, ask anyone who has been in intensive care. Like a car accident lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:13 PM
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It can, will, and is since it is indirectly related to the overall dissatisfaction with the current moral paradigm. The Men's Rights movement is growing, and some within that movement are critical for the current dating culture.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 06:34 PM
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I am sure the actions on both sides are equally damaging. As for social costs, voting is typically done behind a curtain in the USA. People don't know who you vote for most of the time, right? The Left and Liberals have used the State to enforce basically whatever Feminist policies they want, and traditionally the average citizen could do nothing about it. Now some people are seeing the absolute disaster of this moral standard, and they want out. Just like how a woman wants out of an abusive rel…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 05:47 PM
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"Can’t have that with people you aren’t attracted to." I mean, you can say that but there are possible societal consequences for fetishizing female-choice: you get a growing male bulwark that is rejecting feminism en masse and voting for people anti-progressive. I think of all the states making abortion harder for women to get.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 03:10 PM
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I think the thing is that men are attracted to women with great looks but women don't really seem to care about their struggles in terms of what it takes to be even remotely attractive. Men shouldn't care about what are concerned about (like reproductive rights) if they aren't given the chance.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 02:52 PM
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There are plenty of women who I am not physically attracted in terms of looks that I would date/marry by virtue of how much *better/superior* they are in terms of personality. I am far more attracted to the woman who gives me the time of day vs. the woman who is 10/10 in terms of looks who doesn't care about my efforts to get their attention.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 02:50 PM
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No one said that though: the point is that simply because you have a job and you are single isn’t a good enough reason fetishizing personal freedom. More people are accepting the fact that they don’t want really want to share a society with people who live like this in general. A significant portion of these are done with cosmopolitanism, and if you don’t believe me, look at statistics showing people are moving due to the culture/political ideology in more Liberal States. https://patch.com/new-y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:55 AM
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For point number 2: yes, of course. There are famous people who do cast their net wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:43 PM
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There are definitely some women whose personalities are so nice, like they have old time manners like asking how my day is. I am referring to people in their 20’s-30. It really depends…it’s not all women who are unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:58 PM
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Depends. Do they want children? Are they single? Are they a single parent? Do they have STDs? I don’t really consider body count when dating because….what does it really mean to me? I would like lots of children and have opened my net wise enough. On the other hand, men need information about what women have done in the past. We need like BBB for women who were highly promiscuous that isn’t prone to error. Or something like that, I don’t know.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 11:01 AM
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I don’t know about that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:25 PM
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Sure. I have problems getting to the gym consistently because I haven’t been able to use the automobiles that is shared w/ my family. We have a smaller car that recently broke down and is getting fixed. We have three suburbans and I am not allowed to drive them. I have a driver’s license and I do not have a past of drug/substance abuse. Nor do I have any incidents of accidents. I have been in therapy w/ my father about this, and the only real improvement that I was able to drive the smaller vehi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:16 PM
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I forgot to put “…may the assuming…” for the second sentence. I agree 100% that we can improve. Look, I am somebody who has had no success at all when it comes to women. However, I strive to improve. Not sure what state you came from, but I am not going to deny your experience. The point is I think it’s possible that sizable portion of people are just hostile because…well…they are just hostile people. You could have all the right qualities for a specific person and they STILL reject you because …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:51 PM
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You need a automobile, the ability to wake up on time BEFORE you go to work, the ability to earn enough so that you can spend money on Macros LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:30 PM
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I think you may be assuming that all men have all the resources, regardless if they are material, social, physical etc to pull off all these things that you mentioned. And I mean that on a daily basis. Also, I think you may be also assuming that people aren't hostile to men who are struggling/trying/attempting to improve overall; newsflash, some people are more mean, less friendly, less caring compared to other communities. This is can be said for any relationship between groups of people. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:39 PM
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That's a great point; not many want to apply that same standards to women. As I commented above: even if you do succeed and have all the right attributes for attracting women, women (and men) can be hostile/reject you on the basis of their social hostility. Some people just don't want to give back even IF you have qualities that they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:22 PM
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"You show me a man who wakes up at 5am to hit the gym, that volunteers in his community, that has at least 1 interesting hobby, that wears clothes that fit, and that understands how to lead a conversation? And I’ll show you a man that isn’t having any problems getting a date." I think you may be assuming that all men have all the resources, regardless if they are material, social, physical etc to pull off all these things that you mentioned. And I mean that on a daily basis. Also, I think you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:16 PM
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These are great recommendations thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:03 PM
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What would be the best advice for a man who has never received mutual interest from someone that I am interested in? Of course I look max through: fitness, skincare, attempt to dress well, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:01 PM
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Would love to know what state you live in. White Rural/suburban areas typically vote Republican, as per the last election. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/upshot/2020-election-map.html
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:53 PM
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Because women desire to dictate to the men who didn't the chance for intimacy AFTER they are in their physical prime, and now men are just simply using standards against them (quite effectively I might add). I am not even a traditional redpiller, I am as purple pilled as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:33 PM
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Except the capitalist of 200 years ago aren’t the same as the ones that are with us today. Differ social norms, motivations, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:11 PM
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I would say the late stage capitalism phrase is pretty much a conspiracy theory, if anything we are in late stage liberalism/cosmopolitanism/leftism. The things that are making people suffer arose from the social movements in the 1960s. I think of the sexual revolution specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:14 PM
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I think you mean cosmopolitan liberalism, not capitalism. Because under many different strains of socialism, the same things would occur. Or at least those same things would be promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:13 PM
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Thank you for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:39 PM
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I think women need to come to terms with the fact that the current paradigm isn’t going to be sustainable if preserving their own personal choices in life is fetishized. People (men and women included) are becoming more and more disenchanted with upholding a system where single women don’t produce anything beyond their jobs. In other words: people are going Trad because they see there is no future in investing cosmopolitan culture that only really benefits the most liberal and left-wing people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:31 PM
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Yeah no I don’t female virgins are rare but common? Depends on the country, possibly not in certain areas in the USA ie not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:13 PM
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I mean I don’t disagree with you, but did not your common employee that also shame men for using it? Keep in mind, there are plenty of economic policies that I agree with Feminists. Such as paid work at home for domestic skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:15 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:27 PM
1

Your comment literally admitted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:27 PM
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I would also say stay away from all the reddit posts about dating UNLESS you are asking questions about dating so you can improve. Don’t read posts about how bad dating is for men; it’s basically pointless because it gives men the opportunity of being upset and feminist women love that. I would never give those people the ability to feel good about my suffering
/r/MensRights24/10/22 10:52 AM
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No, what I understand is that some Feminists desire the ability to have sex work legal yet shame the people who use them. It's because they just love to disdain for men overall. I actually agree with your last statement in first comment BTW. All the more reason not to legalize sex work, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:13 PM
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Well, merit and esteem-access to resources could be a factor. Do athlete and musicians really cheat though as much as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:10 PM
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Okay, I don't about that. But whatever, maybe you have experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:05 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:37 PM
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This may be true for some women, but I have seen and heard from women who are disgusted with cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:34 PM
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You seriously deserve an award.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:34 PM
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Nope I don’t understand it because I am not a cult member which these feminists are a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:32 PM
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I am going to respond here w/ my two cents: men and women may have different needs. If you tell men they are unwanted, you are going to get some pretty bad results in terms of anti-feminist rhetoric growing even further then it is now. Also, it’s just not nice. It’s like telling a single mom she isn’t wanted, which I would never say. Some men want romance and a partner. I see feminists on PPD screaming and floundering about a strawman that goes like this: “tHeY wAnt to FORCE Romannnnce 1!1!1!” I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:31 PM
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It's not a desperate call for neediness, like at all. Talk to any woman who has received medical from a male doctor. Yes, it's a service. It's that a man could give to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:21 PM
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Whether or not abstinence is unsustainable/unrealistic is irrelevant; if people don't desire children, there is no reason *at all* why they should be engaging in an activity that could result in that. This is what happens when you don't have consequences for people's behavior that INVOLVES the well-being (ie, a child) of another person, potentially. Also we have better options to prevent abuse: giving women and men welfare for child care could possibly relieve any stress from parenting. If paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:10 PM
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I guess I will lend my two cents: as a PPer, I can see that the OP may be attempting to show that the desire of man (which he may not compromise) could possibly be socially-incorrect. For a woman, not compromising may be socially correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:20 PM
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Was this for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:47 AM
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And a child could be put in dangerous situation by people that don’t care, it’s no excuse, but if they don’t care about it having children then why even do it? If someone gets murdered while having a baby, the perpetrator should be executed. Plan and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:35 PM
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I know enough to know that it’s no excuse for an abuser REGARDLESS of what situation they have put themselves in. Also, you didn’t show any stats for that above either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:33 PM
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Than they should receive maximum penalties. Why on Earth are we giving excuses for people who engaged in activities that possibly could bring another person in the world? If he didn’t want the kid, why engage in sex if it possibly could result in a pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:32 PM
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Having a child COULD lead to dangerous situations, I only mentioned dangerousness outright for the sake of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:11 PM
1

I did answer the question. You just don’t like that I can answer it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:10 PM
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“You have no fucking idea what you talking about.” Well thank you very much for stating something that is questionable at best with the knowledge that you have of me, at worst a low blow just to use a petty insult. As far as I know, You/I may not have a way of knowing if you/me/anyone else has been abused due to the nature of Reddit usernames/anonymity involved. Also, if a man abuses someone, it’s no excuse regardless of their situation. If they do, they are wrong regardless if they are told to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:07 PM
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What is a phenomenally stupid idea is not holding people accountable for their actions that may/may not result in another person being born. Also calling me an asshole is possibly projection: is it just to engage in activity that possibly results in another human being created where there is potential problems with it? If there is abuse, then punish them. Abuse is wrong no matter what, it’s never justified. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:30 PM
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I don’t really care about personal freedom if it means possibly bringing another person in the world that an adult cannot support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:27 PM
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Is this for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:25 PM
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I did answer the question; you not accepting it does not change that. Also, again, I would never choose either if I didn’t desire children. And also men face potential backlash if you run away from a pregnancy that you created. Why is this woman/man engaging in an activity that could possibly result in a pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:24 PM
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Simply because sex is fun and feels good doesn’t mean you have any type of freedom/rights away from parental responsibilities IF the sex results in a person being developed. There are plenty of things that are potentially fun that are could be considered wrong based on how dangerous it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:18 PM
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How much are talking about in terms of taxes and why do you think people shouldn’t be forced to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:24 PM
2

Okay, so why would someone choose to engage in activity that may/may not result in a pregnancy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:24 PM
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Can you explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:15 PM
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Well really, the state should decide that the couple must take of the child in that instance. If you hate raising kids, than both have it bad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:14 PM
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See, that's what I am against. They should by law force the man to take care of the child if it's his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:01 PM
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I think that's a reasonable answer though. By saying this, I acknowledge the levity of the situation for both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:00 PM
0

Well, I agree with this. Men should be forced to pay child support. I mean, the woman is going to have to take care of the child anyways, some might view that as a burden. As an overall rule and as a non-feminist, I am also opposed to contraception and abortion (there MAY be exceptions to this).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:55 PM
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Depends on the situation, I wouldn't want to be either if I was living in terrible conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:52 PM
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Really, he SHOULD be forced to take care of the child if it's partially his, right? As a feminist, what do you think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:47 PM
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u/Modern-Lamprey Look, the woman who are like this love the fact there is someone upset about the very topic that you posted about: do NOT give them the privilege of being able to feel good about your pain. This is why I don't post about things like this, I may comment on something but not a huge post. I understand why you are upset but think about your well-being, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:39 PM
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Okay, I am 30. I would like children because I desire to be a family man. That's seems pretty standard right? And I am open to dating 30 year old women. I find that I get along with people younger anyways. Also, isn't it true that older women may more risky pregnancies? I am still willing to date women my age or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:07 PM
2

I am not a proponent of casual sex, but the thing is, one of the best solutions is not to support Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:03 PM
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Really, if women weren't concerned about this...why even react to it? If it's not an issue, why even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:02 PM
2

u/kimchi_Queen thank you so much for the Love award.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:57 PM
1

Depends on what data you are looking at and how you are looking at it. Some material I have seen suggests that around 8% of couples involve a 10+ age difference. That's not exactly a small number, that's almost 10% AKA almost 1/10. 8 is bigger than 1%. People are more willing to date someone who is much older, some research suggests. Also, this isn't even considering cultural differences either. Did I also mention those in relationships with a higher age gaps may actually be happier too? As a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:52 PM
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Depends on what data you are looking at. Some material I have seen suggests that around 8% of couples involve a 10+ age difference. That's not exactly a small number, that's almost 10% AKA almost 1/10. People are more willing to date someone who is much older, some research suggests. Also, this isn't even considering cultural differences either. Did I also mention those in relationships with a higher age gaps may actually be happier too? As a man, I am open to dating a whole range of ages. I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:50 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:32 PM
6

I don’t understand what the issue is with men not wanting high n count women. It’s fine, it’s really okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:44 PM
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On a personal level, I don’t/am not interested in knowing their n counts so as long as we get along and desire to make a stable family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:43 PM
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Hey Hazy, I love your posts. I think OP doesn’t realize that it’s men who could care less about women being insecure in relation to the male preference for virgins and low n count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:42 PM
1

I pretty much agree with all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:38 PM
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This. Also, for men who are virgins, read a boat load on the topic. Ask questions on serious forums about sexual health. Learn as much as you can, fake it till you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:30 PM
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Awesome advice. I once saw a post by a woman who said that a man in his 30’s who is virgin is a red flag. Well, I am sorry but if that’s the case, then transparency isn’t deserved to women that make that judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:28 PM
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Nothing is desperate about the fact that women may need men to live a better life. You would be a paying a service that a man may likely preform. That point before the last sentence misses what I said stated, and you keep stating it: just stating something doesn’t prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:42 PM
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I have never heard the average woman say that the average man is an undateable mess (from the USA). Also, how do you define average?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:57 PM
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That this comment encapsultes why am I not a Feminist. Do they not campaign for THEIR benefit in terms of getting resources from the government? I think it's possible to answer "Yes" to that question.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 04:13 PM
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I think it was inevitable the dating was going to be political. The Sexual Revolution, after all, was a political movement in establishing the results we have today. Maybe you disagree with me on the prior point. I do think men need to be with involved with each other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:04 PM
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I don't mean literally if that's what you thought. I do believe/agree with *some* Feminist ideas such paid home work for women as one example. I would also agree with some Feminists and their critique of adult entertainment. I am not spiteful to Feminists, I just think that there is no sense reciprocation in what men may need/desire vs what Feminists advocate for. For instance, I have yet to see one Feminist advocate for some policy that increases the likelihood of men finding enriching, emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:59 PM
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It is politically incorrect a challenge left-wing conspiracy theories, and as such, of course Eric was down voted.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:42 PM
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I agree that some women intentionally gaslight in dating. I think best option here is being the best man you can be; if you know women who love the unfairness of the market, simply don’t date these people. Join an MRA group, have kids, push separation between conservative vs liberal/left wing areas of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:26 PM
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I agree, but really if we are going to be honest, corporate interests can't really exist if the government plays with them. It's really a problem of some of modern society's institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:38 PM
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Men need to come together. If we do, we have the possible opportunity to live and enjoy life more. Another important thing to do is to not back out of the dating game. You can't win if you don't play; having children who have OUR values in the run will be the eternal thorn in every Feminist-type Leftist's side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:35 PM
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This is a fantastic list, if only the US government was actually trustworthy enough to actually do these things, let alone being efficient in doing this as well. In the current state, I can’t imagine these things being passed because of the feminist status quo types in the Federal government, media moguls , and other people who are in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:18 PM
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It’s not a desperate call for neediness. Talk to anyone paying for life saving surgery. It’s a service that one might need. Fixed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:29 PM
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I would encourage men to join Men’s Rights group and/or make as many male friends as possible. I don’t trust the government in the USA, men can and will be self sufficient. They have been in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:17 PM
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I think I agree with most of this, save maybe for the "out of your league" statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:51 PM
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no one pays for a medical service expecting a specific gender. THAT is irrelevant because I am not talking about what other people think about gender receiving medical care. The only thing stupid here is you keep bringing this up. I am talking about the fact that a men WILL preform a life-saving for a woman. If that woman wanted to live, then she partially needed that male doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:45 PM
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Which is irrelevant if you want to get better: A woman with cancer-gets chemo from a male doctor. Talk to anyone with that type of illness, and they will tell you that medical care was essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:33 PM
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If doctor's need machines, it could mean that expertise is required use such machines LOL! It often requires knowledge the patient may not have, this is basic information: "The diagnostic process proceeds as follows: First, a patient experiences a health problem. The patient is likely the first person to consider his or her symptoms and may choose at this point to engage with the health care system. Once a patient seeks health care, there is an iterative process of information gathering, informa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:14 PM
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The way you responded seemed very confusing to me. You shifted from romance to overall societal stuff. I suppose we don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:05 PM
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I should note that I am not even fully red-pilled, so as a response that's the context of post here: The second link you give seems to be just the logo of the Toronto Sun. I think u/prettymuchredpilled point about the study pretty much confirms to me that this situation is much more nuanced than stating "Men need women more romantically". To me, there could be a whole host of factors affecting one's choice to get married or stay single. "Absolutely no basis behind this when the majority of divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:57 AM
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I would love to see any stats that you have on this. Also, are women really happy being alone? Are Femcels not a thing? For partnered women, is this married or just a partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:37 AM
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I don't where you are getting 2005 information from. You haven't sent any material here for me to look at, nor quotes from any material. Even if that sentence is wrong, it doesn't make the whole article illegitimate at all. Not sure about the pain management denial from the doctor who wrote article, not sure how that's relevant here. If it's true, then that's just bad behavior from her. If you read it, the article is referencing a a publication specifically that can be found here: https://online…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:34 AM
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Leftism as a whole is promoted by establishment bodies of influence regardless of its CEOs and the US federal government etc. Not surprising at all with is example w/ Feminists discriminating against men.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:58 PM
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Well by that logic than women need men then. You just spoke about romantic relationships and NOW you are talking about “society to function”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:56 PM
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It just goes to show: feminism is a status quo ideology that is mainstream and promoted by the government AND culture.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 11:52 PM
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What exactly is shaming in this instance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:35 PM
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A person would be relying on the knowledge of man/woman’s knowledge that you are paying for. Not sure where you are from, but getting a diagnosis isn’t completely automated. Saying that you don’t care about who is doing it is irrelevant. Genders matter if someone is saying that women don’t need men. They do as I have outlined above. For crying out loud, y’all are just bothered that women actually need to rely on someone else to possibly have better outcomes in life, in this case, health and medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:34 PM
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I mean, I understand the statement. I am skeptical that it’s true. How do you know women overall don’t need men romantically? Wouldn’t apply to men as well who are PUAs that don’t want to get married? As a matter of fact, isn’t this about individual behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:30 PM
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You may need to RELY on them to get better THROUGH their services. LOL. The gender does matter because it disproves that women don't need men. Yes, some women will RELY on men. Period. That's okay. It's okay for men to RELY on women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:24 PM
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Sure the context is different, but it doesn't matter: a woman *may* need to rely on a male doctor. To like, get better. The original statement was that women don't need men: it's just wrong. It was typed in such that one could interpret it as relating to many other factors. Heck, my psychiatrist is a woman. I am a man, I *needed* her expertise because I have clinical depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:09 PM
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The specific points about how it’s perhaps more likely that women rely on men for medical attention. And I never said they are relying on them based on their gender, did you even any of my comments? Also have trees ever preformed medical attention? The point is to that, yeah, it’s possible to argue that there are plenty of times when women need men. As per the original statement above in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:33 PM
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You have a very strange definition of sleaziness: having an open mind isn’t sleazy. I am open to dating a whole wide range of people. Also where are you getting a those stats? They could true, but where are they from in terms of an article? Do you have a URL?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:22 PM
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If you are a woman, and you go to the doctor/hospital b/c, you may be relying on a male doctor to get better. Statistically, it’s possible to say that it’s likely. And LOL: yes there are female doctors. Also it’s not a nice try: it’s logical. Plain and simple. You still didn’t respond the specific point I made in the comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:20 PM
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So do men need women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:18 PM
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It’s a possibility not a speculation. Also, I am open to the clit being just for sexual stimulation. Most Sex organs in general seem to be developed for reproduction, right? Also what book are you quoting from? Also some new research indicates that it may have a purpose for reproduction. Key word: may. I don’t have strong stance on it regardless. https://www.news-medical.net/amp/news/20191110/New-light-on-the-essential-reproductive-role-of-the-clitoris.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:17 PM
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Your example isn't similar to what I stated. The majority of men are doctors (as shown above). By virtue of this, most women who are ill/want to get better will possibly need men to assist them. That's not even consider other males working in practices as secretaries, etc. This also applies to men too. So yeah, it's not crazy at all. Just give it up LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:29 PM
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If someone has a health ailment, and a woman wants to get better, then chances are they do *need* them if the practice has most male doctors. The point is that MOST doctors are men. So possibly some or possibly most women, by virtue of that, will *need* a male doctor if that's what their practice likely offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:17 PM
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It's not terrible advice if you give one date. Thing is, people may change what their preferences are in many different aspects. So, perhaps some good advice is to get to know a wide range of people. Where did you get the 98% stat, I thought you referring to men before?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:12 PM
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I would love to see where you are getting that, perhaps the clitoris is there for stimulating pleasure for the sake of reproduction. Like I said before, it's not the only sex organ, that's relevant b/c other ones do (at least in some cases) the ability to start reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:09 PM
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Fair enough. As for going out with someone you don't like, I mean, men/women in general could be a little more open minded with who they don't want to date. The person in question could actually have great qualities for a long term relationship. I would love to see any information you have about most men being in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:06 PM
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I would love to see that data, but regardless, the clit isn't the only sex organ that exists. And there may even an indirect function for it for reproduction. As for the definition of sex, don't have an opinion wither way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:02 PM
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By default, they do need men by virtue of the amount male doctors out there (if they have an illness, ailment).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:01 PM
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Hmmm...there is a plausible argument here. I mean, in comparison to other things like firearms license and alcohol, it does seem sensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:59 PM
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Is it insecurity for a woman to want a guy that is more attractive, makes six figures and rejects the average looking guy who makes average salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:51 PM
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Does not sex result in new individuals often?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:39 PM
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Missed this comment, I don't think prostitution is good because it's possible to say that sex is really for reproduction, not solely for pleasure. As for women prefer to that versus those other jobs, I don't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:00 PM
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See the thing is, women DO need men: more women are on Psyche meds AND most doctors are men. That means, to the very least, women are possibly depending on men for prescriptions. And of course, there is other forms of care as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:45 PM
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This is a multi-faceted topic. I am definetly purple-pilled, and I think the best solution is to improve yourself to better your chances of getting a mate you want to be with. In the case of RedPilled men... I think it's because the implications have vast negative psychological effects for men. Considering the fact that: Particularly in the USA, it is possible to say that society doesn't seem to be sexist against women. This matters indirectly, as the current paradigm is obsessed with giving wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:17 PM
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I think the Nice Guy Syndrome is possibly and partially an artifact of an older time: I think it’s possible to say that you could be a nice guy, get a wife and not have to worry about stuff related to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:33 AM
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Most of this seems 100% reasonable!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:30 AM
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100% agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:20 AM
0

I am 6’0 and I am sorry but I have never found this to be an advantage in dating in any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:19 AM
1

Thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:13 AM
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I thought your comment response was hilarious, but I still think that Blame the Muse has a good checklist of what a man should do if he wants intimacy during marriage. That’s not to say it’s all a man’s fault for lack of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:11 AM
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Oh that’s great to hear !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:00 PM
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I went to an urban college and most people were very unfriendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:22 PM
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What do you suggest for making lots of money? What are you do as a job? I’m 30 and I have a low paying social media marketer job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:21 PM
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Okay, thank you. I think I may know the Red Pill material very well, but I have never been to that subredddit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:44 PM
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Love the idea of dance classes, and cooking too. Okay looks like that’s what I will go with. Without going on a tangent, I have had great difficulty making friends with people who actually want to do stuff with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:42 PM
1

As someone who is White, I just got to say that I have never heard tall being a dog whistle for White men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Thank you for your reply. Do you have any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:36 PM
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What would you advocate for someone who has had nothing but struggle with dating and getting long-lasting social circles? What I mean is: getting genuine interest, having people to invite me to things etc. I have been told that I have charisma, and that I can converse well. My desire as a man is to get married and have children, I am 30 years old. I can drive and am currently employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:04 PM
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What would you advocate for someone who has had nothing but struggle with dating and getting long-lasting social circles? What I mean is: getting genuine interest, having people to invite me to things etc. I have been told that I have charisma, and that I can converse well. My desire as a man is to get married and have children, I am 30 years old. I can drive and am currently employed. What would you advocate for someone who has had nothing but struggle with dating and getting long-lasting socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:58 PM
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I thank God I do not have a beer belly at 30, nor have I lost my hair either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:55 PM
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What would you advocate for someone who has had nothing but struggle with dating and getting long-lasting social circles? What I mean is: getting genuine interest, having people to invite me to things etc. I have been told that I have charisma, and that I can converse well. My desire as a man is to get married and have children, I am 30 years old. I can drive and am currently employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:53 PM
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It's because women aren't a monolith and the pickiest ones do not represent all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:42 PM
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What do you mean it’s not reasonable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:12 PM
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I would probably first make contraception illegal and give massive amount of paid and maternity/paternity leave. That way children are actually raise correctly. I am only making my own opinion, not anyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:21 PM
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I never got a reply from you, so I am going to think it's possible that you know that I am correct in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:12 PM
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I give you props for being civil, finally someone who appears to agree with the health benefits of sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:19 PM
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I have been trying to get people to understand this, and over and over again, I see people complaining that somehow a solution to this problem would violate some sort vague notion of “human rights”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:18 PM
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Yes same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:17 PM
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Is wanting to have sex because someone wants to have a family an ego booster to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:16 PM
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I think it's possible that one day that you will have the physical intimacy that you are aiming for (what you mentioned). I feel for you because that has been my experience as well; I am improving so that I can a wife kids and family.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 01:12 PM
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Then you must define what fulfillment means for you.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 11:00 AM
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I think that there are women who are great people. Women can be shallow but so can men.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 05:39 PM
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I only thumbed up your comment because I don’t think it’s hopeless for you. I am in the same position as you are. But you know what? I have improved my overall conditions such as finally getting a usable car to drive (I don’t own it but I have finally procured the opportunity to drive one), I get compliments frequently for looking younger for my age than I am, I work with a psychologist for my clinical depression, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/22 05:38 PM
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Since the auto mod removed my comment: You still didn’t provide me an example from before BTW. How about this: men and women ought to be direct and communicate honestly with one another. Your justification for poor manors from women is a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:44 PM
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I think you completely misunderstood portions of my comment: I literally just said dishonesty is not to be conflated with non-verbal communication. Speaking of making up definitions, you don’t even define what clear even means in this context. As far as I can tell, clear=honest about whether or not you are interested. Speaking of silly logic, you didn’t seem to apply much with portions of my comment up above. Just admit that you are failing to defend poor manors and behavior from women. It’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:55 AM
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To me, Honest=being clear about whether or not someone is interested. As far as I can tell, you are the one equating honesty with being bold. Perhaps that is incorrect, but that’s my reading of it. My whole point in being direct is that it’s really being honest with the other person in dating. I am not conflating nonverbal communication with dishonesty. I am saying women should be more honest with what they want with men, as men should be women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:46 AM
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You can simply scroll through the thread to see my response to you. I am well aware of verbal cues regardless if it’s a male or female. People should learn it regardless. Also, as for the biology statement: not sure where you are getting this from. There could be at least variation between different people in terms of personality, possibly that’s influenced from genetic variation. So, perhaps many women aren’t bold, that doesn’t mean they can’t be honest. Honest isn’t boldness. It’s not hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:34 AM
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Being direct isn’t the same as being desperate lol. This is laughable OMG, you sound like a chronically online person. Please get out, see people. Meet them, have empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:11 PM
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LOL what a cope. You still didn’t provide me an example from before BTW. How about this: men and women ought to be direct and communicate honestly with one another. Your justification for poor manors from women is a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:09 PM
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Yeah like how is that at the actual case? My standards apply to both men and women BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:07 PM
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Really now? I am not so sure that is the case here in the USA. Maybe in another county? I mean, perhaps. And when I say best mate, I am referring to not only someone who is attractive but exceptionally wealthy too. 6 figure earner + massively attractive. How do you define best mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:45 PM
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It’s silly for women to want the best mate then. If you want a great mate, just start communicating directly more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:06 PM
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I think it’s possible that the term “Nice Guy” is just a pejorative for men who have many great qualities for marriage but lacks that psycho factor that a few women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:05 PM
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Awesome post. The possible risks for men getting sex is massively understated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:01 PM
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There were definitely people who I knew who got around at university, but even then most women were more focused on their studies because I was at an engineering school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:56 PM
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But even then, I think that it’s possible that there are a significant portion of college women who attend parties who do not have high body counts. When I say significant I’m not saying it’s the majority. A lot of college students who attend these parties often just go to to fit in and show face. Like you don’t want to be alone in your dorm, especially if you’re at a state school
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:54 PM
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Oh I didn’t know it was from great Britain. Even still, I’d love to know if ethnicity/race was even accounted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:50 PM
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I’m skeptical that these numbers are universal for people across the world. Think about it; there’s so many different standards for proper marriage and relationships at least someone’s got to be following those different standards possibly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:21 PM
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Is it possible that in these studies that ethnicity/race/culture isn’t accounted for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:09 PM
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I think college promiscuity is largely exaggerated, because it depends on the individual and the college culture they are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:17 PM
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I like how mansplanning is still a useless pejorative that these people use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:52 PM
1

And I think you need to also look at the genetic effects on actual epigenetic phenomena, and the genetics of fertility as well too https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/s13148-022-01279-7 https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C31&q=genetic+variation+fertility+epigenetics+humans&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1662302303672&u=%23p%3DB17SAL4JXeYJ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:38 PM
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Men ought to have children as soon as possible because the importance of family life for a society. However, other research shows that men aged 30-35 can have good sperm motility. It’s not clear if men overall have a drop in fertility from 30-35. https://www.verywellfamily.com/does-age-affect-male-fertility-1959934#toc-sperm-motility-and-age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:34 PM
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Highly underrated comment, may achieve all your relationship goals!
/r/MensRights03/09/22 07:49 PM
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Wouldn’t that be mentioned between the two people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:02 PM
2

I have a novel thesis: some men will rate certain celebrities as average looking while other celebrities will be rated higher. Pete Davidson is a great example: average looking at best. Average looking female celebrity: Demi Lovato. There are certain normal people who will be more attractive in certain ways such as distinct color hair, overall face composition, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:53 PM
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I am just amazed that this user thinks that average men think average women =slim-thick. LOL no, those types of women are definetly not average. I would be happy to date the average woman if she has a good personality and wants to have a family’s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:20 PM
1

But why can’t we do better then this? Can’t we do better than democracy and taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:28 PM
1

If it’s not easy, then May I ask why we would have such a tax system in the first place? Why would we have a high tax rate if the system is inefficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:53 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:01 PM
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I live in the US and the country is quite a disaster of a society. As for SS, it wouldn’t be expensive if we simply weren’t wasteful w/ tax money in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:33 PM
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Let's say this is actually the case (I don't think a sizable portion of people would stop paying taxes): Then we need to address human commitment/investment. Why should people invest in a particular society at all? I am sure you could get plenty of people to pay voluntarily for things like Social Security, as one example. The closest thing to compromising my own thesis from before: As for the very wealthy, I wouldn't have a problem giving higher taxes/re-distributing a certain portion of that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:16 PM
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Well I don’t know how you know this, and I don’t think that’s a good reason to have a blind spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:06 PM
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What are your recommendations? Books, podcasts, materials?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:02 PM
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Well sire, I never even hinted that was appropriate in any sense. You could simply admit that Liberal/Leftist/Social Democratic mores have failed in this regard to create any moral consistency, and we need to look elsewhere for improving society. That doesn't mean we necessarily should reject everything those ideologies offer though. I can get down for a social welfare state if it was voluntary. Heck, I would be more than happy to fund a welfare state provided that the people weren't social libe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:01 PM
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I think women who go for these guys need to be chastised as much as possible. Nice guys ought to improve themselves, but be authentic to who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:52 PM
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This was an interesting post, and I will always be purple pilled, I am glad to shared it because I am a kind male overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:50 PM
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I don't think there is any, but I think it's reasonable for women/men to expect/receive consensual sex from their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:44 PM
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I mean, I don't see how this is relevant: Sex is beneficial for man's well-being, no? I am not aware of health benefits for murdering people. I am not advocating for tribal anarchy, but it that type of society could possibly offer mental-health benefits against the current Liberal-Tyranny Regimes. https://www.healthcentral.com/slideshow/7-benefits-sex-men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:42 PM
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What an absolute gold rush of a post. I hope you receive the relationship of your liking, and may you live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:39 PM
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This is a wonderful post!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:10 PM
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Congrats on the success, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:28 AM
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More power to you, do you like social media at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:28 AM
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As someone who works in social media, You can absolutely have a great Instagram page and have people interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:27 AM
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Like no, lol. I never even hinted that. I am saying we coerce for taxes but not sex. We should not coerce anyone for sex, perhaps we agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:57 PM
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I think you shifted the goalposts there. Or you could admit that taxes aren’t optional and that we have different standards for sex and taxes. And if a political power that you disagree takes over the USA, would you say leaving is an option or a necessity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:25 PM
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I know about Chris McCandless, I mean the guy died before anyone got to him. If you long enough it’s possible the government demand you pay something if you refuse to pay taxes initially. https://www.thesmartsurvivalist.com/living-off-the-grid-in-alaska-all-questions-answered/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:02 PM
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Running bet: most of that is public property in the form parks, most likely will get arrested eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:44 AM
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I have no idea what you are talking about in terms of taxes being optional. Even the IRS, if I understand this correctly, says this isn’t true, when it comes to property: “The Law: The requirement to pay taxes is not voluntary. Section 1 of the Internal Revenue Code clearly imposes a tax on the taxable income of individuals, estates, and trusts, as determined by the tables set forth in that section.” https://www.irs.gov/privacy-disclosure/the-truth-about-frivolous-arguments-section-i-a-to-c It l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:45 AM
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I do like both boos that the poster recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:14 PM
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I care about what you think society actually is, not what the definition is on the Internet. Furthermore, that exact logic could be applied to anything including women, not that I would approve of it: “ oh, you don’t want to be forced to be in a relationship with a man you don’t like? Great, just leave society” Or you could just be honest and say you may not be consistent when it comes to taxes and sex. I am not totally sure that example you gave for a commune is actually tenable in the USA, dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:34 PM
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I think the link I provided does show that you must work for money. Not employers would even offer an alternative it seems through the law. Also, you keep using the term society, but whose really is it and what it exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:05 PM
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I know the difference between apples and oranges as a whole: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/comparing-apples-and-oranges-37838381/ I don't know if you have an explanation to my question. The government *does* force you by virtue of taxing your labor, via legal contracts which employers are forced to adhere to, isn't this true? And since you can't work without being paid in the state currency (in the USA, see below), yes I would say that government is definitely forcing you in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:39 PM
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When I was making that comment, I was referring to the entitled types who simultaneously stress the importance of women’s issues yet use the current market to advance their sexual interests. So I will just edit it and mark it as edited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:31 PM
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Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:03 PM
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I would really love to know how you know that. I think you arguing that the overall democratic will overpowers the individual in this case, if so, why? Why is this logic not applied to sex? Keep in mind, I am not really sure there really is any concrete social contract in a literal sense, since the government forces to people regardless if they use it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:51 PM
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Nope, it’s just about self awareness tbh. There are good women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:40 PM
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They can be since it’s a matter of consent and it’s nuances; yes they are two different things but for some reason we demand full observance one thing while we adhere to consent only for the other. The only sensible solution here (at least to me) would be to make taxation voluntary IF you think sexual relationships should be voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:39 PM
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Thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:08 PM
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I am sorry I don't really believe in "rights" in the abstract, as far as I can tell they don't exist in any monolithic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:05 PM
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I think there needs to be some sort of social pressures against women who specifically are dating in the way that was described above. Men should channel their aggression for a solution to the problem. Clearly, going for Dark Triads is a net loss for society: we don't need anymore psychos in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:02 PM
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Agreed, if I understand you correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:59 PM
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I think he is talking about modern dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:58 PM
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Exactly! But speaking up truths about dating behaviors of certain genders is grounds for labeling a man an incel or misogynist Here is a guess/possibility: that's because a significant portion of Leftist women (and men too) can't take criticism of the modern sexual politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:58 PM
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What a wonderful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:56 PM
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I think it’s good for women and men to come together out of deference for one another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:48 PM
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The comments weren't made to scare anyone, but that's a nice fail with the gotchya.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:45 PM
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"Like ten of you" There are more of us here on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:35 PM
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I mean...I do go outside...I have an outdoor job on the weekends that requires interacting with people. I have a regular desk job during the weekdays lol, I am not at home playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:33 PM
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"Not alot of men think that way" There are men such as myself that are expressing themselves everyday here, I don't know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:31 PM
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Thank you very much for your comment. I have that book, If I’m gonna be honest I always found it hard to get through the book because there’s A lot of background information but very little instruction for someone to use immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:18 PM
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I have analyzed both of these books, TBH I am not so sure how applicable they are to modern dating and gaining friendships. Dale Carnegie was something of a genius for his time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:18 PM
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Okay thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:17 PM
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"Casual sex is a modern phenomena and something that destroys societies." Whoa, we agree on this! First time ever actually. I don't think we should have rampant casual sex. "It’s like saying ”but why is porn banned we men suffer so much without it”. For the record, I do think that porn should be banned but for those that are addicted to it: in a more stable society, those people at least would have the ability to get married to a wife/husband right? "In marriage, which meant that the man promise…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:12 PM
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Sure I will certainly do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:08 PM
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I haven’t seen the whole movie yet, but it’s been on my bucket list! Fight Club is a masterpiece in my opinion. I just want to sit down and watch it. It was made during a time when there is still congeniality to the American culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:55 PM
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I think this whole post only applies to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:00 PM
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My point was to demonstrate that if no one is owed anything, than that logic can be applied to other things. Many women value their rights, many men value sex. I am trying to get you to understand the “no-owed” statement is just false under any other circumstance. Keep in mind, I still think no one should be forced to have sex with anyone. Also as a side note, Sex is beneficial for a man’s health and well-being. https://www.healthcentral.com/slideshow/7-benefits-sex-men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:53 PM
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If you are talking about the power dynamics in terms of the modern, social liberal-democratic regimes which are blatantly hostile and abusive (see: USA): there are a large amount of women who are involved in making men's lives worse. However, it's not good to make women overall our enemy because I actually think women have much to offer to make everyone's lives better and also making their own lives better too. There are plenty of awesome women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:54 PM
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I always thought this was a personality thing, not really a trait of women per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:48 PM
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That’s a nice straw man you got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:33 PM
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There are quite a lot of RP content creators out there though: Todd Valentine for instance isn’t a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:28 PM
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I think there is genuine misogyny from some redpill content creators. Kevin Samuels, while I think he had some of the best takes for men’s struggles and one of my favorites, still was way way way too mean to women. I also think that his debate on Fresh and Fit was an example of some women-hating views he had; such as the fact that he said men don’t women. I think women and men do need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:26 PM
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You mention the male gaze here quite a bit, being an attractive woman seems to be a commodity. I think there are more average men wants a woman who is average but has a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:17 PM
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By this logic though, I am not so sure there is a good reason to force someone to pay taxes (an extension of their labor) for a service they may not want or need. The logical hangup here seems to be some (not all) socialists picking and choosing what they want re-distributed by their preference. Which is fine to me, just leave other people out of it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:33 AM
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Humans aren’t a commodity but their labor seems to be treated like that. No one should be force to have sex with someone, but by that logic there is no reason for someone to be forced to anything by that logic (like paying taxes, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:31 AM
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EDIT I think men are really starting not to care about women who are entitled the types. They simultaneously stress the importance of women’s issues yet use the current market to advance their sexual interests. I mean, you sow what you reap. Feminism in general is becoming is less accepted because of the crackpots that dominate that movement. Keep in mind, there are crackpots on the RP community too. There will be a time when the movement may just crash because of not caring about women’s needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:26 AM
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How about when women don’t get what they want? Like what if men just said they aren’t owed voting rights? Keep in mind, I think women should have voting rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:24 AM
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I mean he didn’t lie, you don’t have anything to show that he lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:22 AM
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I am starting to suspect that some of the “male complaining” on the Internet is gaslighting from people who want to demoralize men for their dating prospects. I think for those that do complain and get upset, I just want emphasize that it does not help them in their circumstance. Men need IMHO to collectivize to ultimately improve themselves, I would never in my right mind post about how negative my dating experience is because it gives the Left, Feminists, and misandrists an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:21 AM
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I am not really a proponent of casual sex, but once you start saying that men aren’t owed something, the question becomes why women are owed anything either. Women were granted rights from men in the legal system. Instead of thinking of what someone is owed/not owed, I would start thinking about both genders suffer in whatever way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:16 AM
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When you hear someone say that men aren’t owed sex, you can simply tell them that women aren’t owed rights either; it was Western men that granted women voting rights. This is not to say women shouldn’t have rights, I think they absolutely should. But when people start talking about what men aren’t owed, just remember it was men who gave women the ability to vote out of sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:14 AM
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This comment needs to be upvoted, although I think possibly it’s not “women” as a category but certain type of woman that seems entitled as you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:22 PM
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This. I have no idea what this OP is talking about; some men like myself would like to be in a relationship that leads to marriage/kids. I am not jealous of women because of their n count; far from it. The reason being: since I am a man, I am not jealous of woman because if I had to guess our experiences/goals are different are possibly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:21 PM
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As a 30 old male, I would definitely be interested in dating you. For me, having a good heart and a nice personality is what opens the door for me in terms of who interests me. In terms of specific personality, you can be louder or quieter, ha r different interests. I am very open in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:06 PM
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I am starting to think that the only solution in this socially hostile environment is that men need to collectivise on some level. Misandrists clearly (at least to me) have the most powerful institutions on their side. I mean, the post about the article is from Psychology Today. It's one of the most widely-read psych websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:28 PM
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I think this article is obviously one of the most laughable pieces of propaganda I have seen in quite sometime. I mean, yes, men should improve themselves because I think they will be happier if they do so. I even think being emotionally open can be healthy. I have been thinking about this for weeks in my own life. But it’s amazing that this article has no solid empathy for what men are dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:14 PM
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I can' t say that I disagree with you, unless otherwise noted. I will have to read your comment in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:49 PM
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Well I mean that’s not fair at all, why should a man have to pay for another man’s child? I mean that’s literally an unfair deal, simply force the actual father to pay. I would love to know if any blue pillers who advocate what you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:28 PM
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As someone who is looking for a wife to make a family, I think it’s totally fair to be punished if you cheat. I hold that standard for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:44 AM
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Wonderful analogy, some of these women just don’t have answer. If I was the OP, I would just leave her if it really felt that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:40 AM
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Unfortunately, the freedom of choice statement doesn’t really illicit respect from ongoing men or the OP that matter. So I mean, she can choose that, but men have no obligation to care, respect about relating to “women’s rights” for these types of women only. I hold that standard for men and women. I respect women who deserve it, especially the ones with a good heart who don’t do these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:38 AM
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100% agree with this. As a man, I don’t really care about women who look like a 10 out of 10 but have a personality below a five. I will take a five or six woman with her with a 10 out of 10 personality any day of the week over that type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:50 AM
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You probably would be a good match for me, I don’t really like drama because I don’t have time for it. Is the type of woman that you’re describing really in demand? I mean that’s the type of woman I would date and marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:48 AM
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