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you have to play hard to get pull it out, and then when she goes to touch it pull it away next thing you know she's trying to yank it out through the zipper and gobble gobble
/r/seduction23/04/25 12:07 AM
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I learned after a pretty short amount of time that casual sex is boring to me. If I don't feel genuinely interested in the woman as a person I'd want to pursue a relationship with, I just feel bored and would rather leave.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:55 AM
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If your vibes are good it's usually a precursor to them sending nudes when the tension grows more.
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:57 PM
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Lift him up and pin him against the wall
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:44 AM
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It depends on the woman and how genuinely interested she is in numerous different ways. Putting a number on it is silly.
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:33 PM
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Yeah that's a bad reaction for him to have and he has a long way to go in learning to socialize with women in a healthy way.
/r/seduction18/12/24 10:43 AM
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It's okay to text whenever and whatever you want, as long as you're entertaining yourself, because if you're funny and having fun, they probably are too
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:05 AM
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Sounds like you were playing games and she wants something honest and straightforward.
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:32 PM
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try and pay more attention to how much you like any given woman as a person apart from sex appeal when you're dating them. i have a blast every time i hang out with my current girlfriend, I could spend all day with her even if the sex wasn't there.
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:40 AM
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best comment, talking about past sex experiences is the most reliable way I've found to start getting women turned on
/r/seduction26/05/24 08:21 PM
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I find that if a girl brings up anything about being a 'player,' I've probably been too forward and making things too sexual for them too quickly. I've had more success in being subtle.
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:29 PM
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Yep. My ex kept bringing it up as something she wanted to try, but then later on when I brought it up she got really insecure and started worrying that she wasn't enough for me.
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:24 AM
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Do you really wanna go out with someone who isn't enthusiastic about going out with you? I have, a few times, and it's never been worth it.
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:28 AM
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I find honesty to be the best approach in any relationship. If you're having these thoughts, why not say something like 'it seems like lately you're thinking about having more than just sex between us' or something.
/r/seduction05/10/22 08:04 AM
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Try and take the next step when you go out solo again by making eye contact with people (anyone at all, not just cute girls) and smiling. You'll feel more confident and put yourself in a more relaxed, fun, outgoing mindset.
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:53 AM
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This is good advice. I'm able to attract women easily and have fun conversations, though I usually deflect away from giving my opinion on controversial topics by making jokes. This approach keeps a good vibe, but I often find myself spending weeks hanging out with a girl without us knowing each others true values or beliefs, which isn't a great thing when you're looking for a relationship and end up spending a lot of time with someone you might not be compatible with.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:06 PM
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I agree with all of them except 3. (don't immediately respond to every text). I pretty much respond immediately to any texts I get unless I'm busy and it feels like game playing to delay them because they're from a girl I like.
/r/seduction07/01/21 02:53 AM
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Right on, OP. I think it's too often overlooked among guys trying to date that even though men and women have different roles in the dating game, thinking about them as a person first and foremost makes all the difference. A little common sense and empathy goes far. Also, accepting that most women just aren't going to be compatible with you no matter how you present yourself, gameplaying or genuine.
/r/seduction05/02/20 12:56 AM
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go over to her. 'hi, my name is __,' talk about something for a minute, then be like 'hey im gonna go do __ this weekend, wanna come? yeah? alright lemme get your number.'
/r/seduction27/12/19 10:15 AM
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Women do think/behave differently than men, and we have different roles in the dating game. That being said, it's not like they're a different species or some kind of unsolvable puzzle box. They're just people. We're much more similar than we are different. Spending a little time thinking 'how would I feel if this person behaved this way towards me' goes a long way towards improving your communication and understanding not just with women, but with anyone.
/r/seduction27/12/19 04:17 AM
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It sounds like there's confusion for what the expectations are when you're dating these girls. It might be better to straight up say you aren't looking for anything serious early on.
/r/seduction21/12/19 12:03 PM
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I got into relationships with the two most attractive women I've dated by chasing them, expressing interest, and being willing to walk away when I felt the interest level wasn't being returned. They were way out of my league, but I was confident, expressed my interest from the very beginning, and when they began acting aloof or couldn't seem to decide if they were also interested, I moved on and started pursuing other women. I feel they sensed this, and that I wasn't playing games and then I fel…
/r/seduction21/12/19 09:27 AM
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That comes off as defensive. If I were short I'd say something more like 'my parents were both oompa loompas so I'm actually used to being considered to be the tall guy around if you don't mind' or something like that. In fact calling playfulness 'shit-testing' just reflects a poor state of mind to begin with to be quite honest.
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:51 AM
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This is fantastic, I love your outlook
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:18 PM
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Yeah thats a really long conversation for text. Most people i know would start ignoring me if i texted them that much. Just go for it dude, whether she agrees to meet you or not, texting more likely won't do anything but talk her out of it. You should have texted once or twice and then went 'hey im gonna ___ if you wanna come'
/r/seduction10/02/17 08:26 PM
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Yeah, I ignore it. If they do it in person I just kind of make a 'yikes' face at them before moving on. I knew one girl who did it so often I just completely lost any attraction for her.
/r/seduction10/02/17 06:06 AM
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pretty much everything in 'models'
/r/seduction05/02/17 03:05 AM
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It's been 4 months since the break up I mean. I haven't lost any faith in future relationships because I wasn't being a very attractive man. I had no job, I was in terrible shape, and I took her love and attraction for granted. I've been working on all of those things and I've found direction and ambition for the first time in my life.
/r/seduction21/01/17 04:44 PM
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4 months into the same kinda deal, my advice is to completely cut any contact or ties you have. Especially avoid her social media. Holding on to any of that stuff will just make it take longer to heal.
/r/seduction21/01/17 04:25 PM
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You don't really need to play those kinds of games unless you're looking to attract people who also play games like that. If you're manipulative you'll attract people who are also manipulative. She probably picked up on that.
/r/seduction10/01/17 02:14 AM
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I would have just said 'who me? I'm a virgin.' She would have laughed cause it's funny, and I would have laughed because she would think I was joking.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:35 AM
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I'm just not really certain how to go about it
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:22 AM
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I wish this book had more concrete examples of implementing these principles. I found myself struggling to wrap my head around putting them into action.
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:52 PM
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I've been in this situation. Cut all ties and don't look back. Anything else is wasting time and will create unnecessary heartache.
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:08 PM
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So I haven't used instagram before, when you say it's a good source for inspiration are you just searching random people or something?
/r/seduction03/12/16 10:15 PM
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