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| 58 | SIRC's Guide to Flirting [detailed] | miceriot | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 09:25 PM | |
| 0 | For the nice guys who have been friendzoned out there, this one is for you... | miceriot | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 08:10 PM |
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| 3 | If we need some instant help, where can we go? Can we create a chatbox or something to help each other out immediately?In what situation do you need "help immediately"? "Hey how are you?" "wait brb, checking my computer..." | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Talking to girls sitting alone eating lunch.it's never too late. You can apply it in any situation, not just cafeterias. Bus stops, post offices, lines, etc all work fine. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 10:31 PM |
| 38 | Talking to girls sitting alone eating lunch.College student here, also CS major :) I've made it my goal to talk to people sitting by him/herself in the last few weeks. Here's my experience with talking to the girl sitting by herself: Don't just go and sit across from her, that's really awkward and seems you're trying too hard. Instead, sit diagonally one chair across from her. So if she is sitting at the X location, you should sit at O location. ........X........ .....O........... Got it? Why this way? Because you're close enough to talk … | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 10:17 PM |
| 7 | What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"?wouldn't it be weird if you two happened to meet in bed, and used the same line? "Hey... did you steal that line from redpua on Reddit /r/ seduction?" "Oh yeah... you know about that too?" "Yeah..." | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you go to a loud dance club without looking like an idiot?Ok. Good realization :) | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 04:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 9.10.2011: my first f-close with a girl I met at a friend's party"Twas an interesting night" Great way to start a story :) I actually feel like she's regretting what happened. From what you've described, she's not the hook up type. And the fact that she left first thing in the morning doesn't sit well. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 04:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you go to a loud dance club without looking like an idiot?Dude stfu. She backed into you because she wants to dance with. Get rid of your "self analysis" bullshit. Also, DO NOT half grind against her. Either you don't grind her (leave), or you grap her hips and have a full grind. Otherwise you're just creepy. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Walked up to a girl who had gorgeous eyes and said? "Beautiful eyes."I meant "start" as in a great starting point for OP, not a great conversation starter. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 07:56 AM |
| 8 | How do you go to a loud dance club without looking like an idiot?As someone who goes to frat parties, I can tell you rules in these types of situations are very different. First, don't even introduce yourself. To dance with a girl do this: find a girl you want to dance with. Try to find a group and look for the girl without someone to dance with. Go behind her, leave a bit distance (about 3 inchs to her ass), but not directly behind her. Be in a place where she can kind of see you (a bit on her side, but still behind). Put your hands up, and start dancing. If… | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Walked up to a girl who had gorgeous eyes and said? "Beautiful eyes."If you don't know what to say, say whatever pops into your head (nothing vulgar of course) ex. "why are you walking by yourself?" | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 06:59 AM |
| 5 | Walked up to a girl who had gorgeous eyes and said? "Beautiful eyes."hey man it's ok :) The compliment is a great start, so compliment on more occasions. After that, you should move onto the next step: engage in more conversation after you compliment. Move in small steps, you don't have to become a super smooth guy in a week. But maybe next time try a less lame / more unique compliment and then engage in a conversation | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 06:58 AM |
| 2 | You know what feels amazing?Goes out and gets a high five. Gloats over it for a weekend. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 11:15 PM |
| 4 | [mini FR] More proof that you can open with ANYTHINGuh uh UHUHHUH uh-.... uh UUUUUHHHHHHH uhuh UUUUUUUUUUHHHH!. UHIUHuhuhuh uHUHUuhuuhhhhuhUHUHhuHH | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 11:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Blueprint truly is effective.It's super effective! | /r/seduction | 03/09/11 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Falling into my lap [FR + Advice needed]ring ring ring "Hello?" "Hey babe, What are you doing on August 18th, 2011?" | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:42 AM |
| 6 | What are some good negs about height differences? She's 5'5 and super tiny, Im 6'2, average build."Short people tend to live longer [a fact], high five!" | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Missed an opportunity tonight...the worst thing you can say during seduction is nothing at all - miceriot Just kidding. Use some discretion, but the minimal amount! edit: also, if you actually think that, you need to calm yourself down and not think of women as goddesses :) | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Missed an opportunity tonight...Shit like this happens to me all the time. The time where a girl in line in front of me had a strange looking package and was looking at me and fidgiting around The time where a hot Russian girl sitting next to me on a plane looking really bored and kept looking around for stuff to do A good advice is just to speak what's on your mind the moment you see her. Consciously think about what you just thought about, then make yourself say that thought. For example, the first thing I would think in my … | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Not quite a [FR] but I'm still proud of myselfCan you share what the 100 set challenge is? I feel like I've read about it on this subreddit a while ago, but can't remember what it's about. edit:ma bad, just found the link on the right lol. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 05:16 AM |
| 3 | xpost from pics, but conveys a seddit mentalityI feel like the ship is a metaphor for something... | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 05:20 AM |
| 1 | So my ex, mother of my kids, who left me and I was just getting better from, txts me..."I know you miss me. Bring the kids and let's go get ice cream" Something like that. But it really depends on how you want this relationship to be. You want her back? You want to avoid her? | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 06:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed a HB8 while working, sent her the first text but no text back? Analysis welcome!Yup. But you should keep doing what you did there. Talk to people (not just girls) constantly until it comes almost naturally. Some girls just don't want relationships. But you'll get a lot who do. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 06:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed a HB8 while working, sent her the first text but no text back? Analysis welcome!It was very nice that you talked to her and getting her to laugh and stuff but.... "I'm just looking for a friend right now." I'm not sure how more direct can it be. Girls are just nice sometimes. It doesn't always mean they're attracted to you romantically. But you did well though. I'm sure she sees you as "high-value", but just not looking for relationship right now. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Kino anxietyI'm not sure man... I just feel it's incredibly weird and awkward do have a lump sticking out of my pants while she's sitting near me. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 05:44 AM |
| 1 | When are good moments to break eye contact?You should definately read it, because it gives you a lot of clues about human body that common people don't see. For example, we tend to look at people's faces to gauge their feeling. But in fact, the face is the most deceiving part of the human body, because we've been raised to fake our facial expression (smile when your uncle says hi; don't look disgusted at that lady, etc). Navarro said the most accurate body part to look is the feet, because people tend to have the "out of sight, out of mi… | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Kino anxietyGreat advice. The problem I sometimes have with pulling her closer to my body is getting unwanted erection :( I'm not even sexually excited, but it always does happen. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 05:19 PM |
| 3 | So last night I got a booty call… from an ex with a boyfriend.I know it's great for your pick up games and whatever, but please don't do this to other people's girlfriend. You were once like your ex's current boyfriend: insecure AFC who doesn't know how to keep a girlfriend. Imagine your old you in his situation, do you want your girlfriend to fuck her ex? It's none of your business how her relationship is doing. Even if it's horrible, you don't have sex with other people's girlfriends. Period. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 05:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Time Exercise. Long read about all my approaches. Skip to moral if you don't care.If you have nothing to contribute, don't say anything. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 05:51 AM |
| 3 | [FR] First Time Exercise. Long read about all my approaches. Skip to moral if you don't care.After like trailing them awkwardly for 15 seconds I say tell them to actually go in the theatre because this is really weird and I feel like we were following them. Don't trail people. Walk in front of them; enjoy conversation with your friend. Then suddenly turn back and engage. That is WAY less awkward. Seeing how you eventually did try to walk in front, that's good. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How would you list personality traits in list of importance?Yes. I am inquiring specifically about testmypatience's daughter(s). | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How would you list personality traits in list of importance?so uh... your daughter's available? | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 02:21 AM |
| 1 | When are good moments to break eye contact?no, but I'll consider reading this | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 10:40 PM |
| 3 | When are good moments to break eye contact?There was a chapter in the book What Every Body Is Saying by Joe Navarro that touched this. Eye contact is an extremely powerful act that it distracts thinking. So when you're trying to talk, the eye contact should be broken more because talking and maintaining eye contact is just too difficult to do. So generally just break off for a fraction of a second, pause a bit, then look back and resume talking | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Using stories to build emotional connectionsI just had this incredibly boring day at work, and finally found some time to go on Reddit. I scratch my nose, stretch my hands, and get ready to see all the juicy stuff that all the karma-whores diligently posted.... fuck this, story telling is too hard. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Increasing Spontaneous Actionspontaneous downvotes | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 09:13 PM |
| 6 | My super-concise summary of 'how to get good at getting girls'You don't have to be confident. Just make it look like you are. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Seddit; I have a hair trigger on my erectile response. What can I do about it?Wear really tight underwears and jeans. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 06:15 PM |
| 2 | A Loser Learns Game, Gets The Girl, Loses The Girl, Reflects On Lessons LearnedI fucked my coworker silly Must have | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 04:53 PM |
| 2 | after the factStop thinking. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 04:12 AM |
| -1 | A little trick I noticed when opening girls you have interest inHow do you open Running so you can F-close? | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix it“Women relate to words, so they want to hear men say how they feel over and over. Men relate to behaviors, so they're more likely to show their feelings through actions. Women may say 'I love you,' but men may express those three words with simple actions like filling the car up with gas or driving out of their way to pick a woman up. That's really interesting, because I've always thought that women were the more subtle one (expressing through behaviors) and that men are more direct and logical … | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix ithttp://jezebel.com/5784892/women-have-more-romantic-regrets-than-men-do | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, you guys have been incredible. Thank you!Can't do that to us. TALL US WUT HUPPEND!! | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 02:50 AM |
| 1 | SIRC's Guide to Flirting [detailed]dos brids | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 02:54 PM |
| 5 | SIRC's Guide to Flirting [detailed]you do. It's just suppressed | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 02:53 PM |
| 2 | A full-circle realization ...Well that's good then, right? Part of being the "alpha-male" and being confident is not caring what others think and feel cool and right all the time. I believe the wallpaper here is more confident than the other dude who seeks reassurance from his buddies | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.a very open goal | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 02:35 PM |
| 1 | SIRC's Guide to Flirting [detailed]Haha yep. Although I can't imagine myself counting the seconds I'm suppose to look at her face... | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 03:23 AM |
| 3 | SIRC's Guide to Flirting [detailed]Some really important things from the article I want to point out: Eye contact – looking directly into the eyes of another person – is such a powerful, emotionally loaded act of communication that we normally restrict it to very brief glances. Prolonged eye contact between two people indicates intense emotion, and is either an act of love or an act of hostility. It is so disturbing that in normal social encounters, we avoid eye contacts of more than one second. Among a crowd of strangers in a pu… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Should strong eye contact be employed in non-sexual situations?did she just blankly stared at you, or did she keep the eye contact AND smile? Because if she's just staring at you blankly, I'm not sure if she's interested. If she were, she would have smiled at you or something. It's really weird to look at a girl who stares at you with a blank expression (that actually freaks me out) | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 12:40 AM |
| -1 | How to proceed after you say HiDo you feel emotionally connected to me now? According the article, that the more [she/he] tells you about herself, the more connected to you [she/he] feels | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Should strong eye contact be employed in non-sexual situations?or perhaps she was wondering why you were staring at her, lol. You should strike up a conversation the next time an eye contact was held for that long | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Should strong eye contact be employed in non-sexual situations?I agree that it can be intense. When I stare at someone in the eyes, usually they look away after half a second. Eye contacts is one of the most powerful display of connection. According to the SIRC guide: Eye contact – looking directly into the eyes of another person – is such a powerful, emotionally loaded act of communication that we normally restrict it to very brief glances. Prolonged eye contact between two people indicates intense emotion, and is either an act of love or an act of hostili… | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.Wow... what a day. It seemed that HB6 was kind of desperate given that her friends flaked out on her birthday. That really sucks | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 08:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.you don't have to talk about it to make her think about it. If you're bringing her to your home, what's she gonna think? Probably you're gonna want to have sex with her. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 06:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Ok... so it must be OP's fault that she didn't want to go home with him? How about the fact that she's a virgin and perhaps doesn't want to have sex with a random guy she met for the first time? Most likely she wants the first one to be special. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 06:55 AM |
| 2 | A full-circle realization ...I have no idea what you've just said lol. So you're saying the person against wall feels superior? Ya...so? | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, Is she interested in me?I've always wondered, how do you f someone's "brains out"? Like... wtf? | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 06:33 AM |
| 12 | How to proceed after you say HiWhy are you having a tough time? Would you like to talk about it? | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Something I Learned about Mindsetdat's a lotta hits! | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 07:11 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Men, please watch your kino.I would like to thank you for this. You bring more happiness in this world. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 02:57 PM |
| -1 | PSA: Men, please watch your kino.what's a rapport? | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 02:55 PM |
| 4 | found a girl's necklace in my sofa...what to do?Here's a fail proof solution, IMO. Buy another necklace (doesn't have to be the same one), then call up A and say "Hey, come and pick up your necklace!" 1.) If she replies "Oh I lost my necklace at your place?" thanks! Proceed to give her the necklace, have sex. Problem solved. 2.) If she replies "What necklace?", tell her you got a necklace for her. proceed to give her the new necklace, have sex. Then ask B to come and get her necklace (it has to be hers then). Proceed to give her the actual ne… | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 05:31 AM |
| 1 | found a girl's necklace in my sofa...what to do?wow, what a logic. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Escalation RevisitedSounds like she didn't like your advance, otherwise they would not just leave. Next time, don't escalate further unless she reciprocates, even if she doesn't mind. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Something I Learned about MindsetI like this mindset. Most women are genuinely nice. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 05:01 AM |
| 1 | What to say when girls giggle shyly?I'm not sure if OP should push it that far...it is a bible study after all. it seems like she's just shy, and may not actually be interested. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 02:29 PM |
| 3 | How do I get the creep out of me?try to do it non-creepily as possible. | /r/seduction | 18/07/11 07:14 PM |
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